Real Talk, Whole Life

Stacy talks with psychotherapist Esin Pinarli about how trauma, attachment wounds, and early life experiences continue to shape our relationships, reactions, and sense of self long after the original event has passed.

They explore nervous system regulation, parenting, people-pleasing, emotional healing, and why understanding your past can help you create healthier patterns moving forward.

If you've ever wondered why certain situations trigger you, why relationships can feel repetitive, or how to feel safer in your own body, this conversation offers practical insights and compassionate guidance for healing.

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Stacy chats with Courtney Townley, host of the Grace & Grit podcast, author of The Consistency Code, and a certified life, nutrition, and strength coach, to delve into the realities of midlife stress, hormonal changes, burnout, and the pressure to “do it all.”

They explore why consistency matters more than perfection, how wellness culture often overcomplicates health, and the small, sustainable habits that can help women feel better without adding more to their already full plates.

Sometimes the next right step isn't a complete life overhaul. It's one small change you can actually sustain.

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What happens when conspiracy theories intersect with real systems of power, abuse, and institutional failure?

Stacy talks with investigative journalist Nick Bryant and publisher Kris Millegan about the Franklin scandal, Jeffrey Epstein, blackmail, media narratives, and the uncomfortable realities behind systemic abuse of power.

They explore how misinformation, protection of powerful institutions, and political division can obscure accountability and why asking hard questions still matters.

Content Warning: While not discussed in graphic detail, this episode references child sexual abuse, trafficking, grooming, institutional abuse, violence, and exploitation. Please listen with care and take whatever...

What’s actually changing under the MAHA movement and current administration?

In this bonus episode follow-up to Stacy's conversation with Lara Adler, Stacy gets nerdy with us and breaks down the regulatory rollbacks affecting public health right now, from environmental protections and PFAS to food dyes, air pollution, water safety, and more.

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What happens when “wellness” becomes more about fear, influencers, and food dyes than actual public health?

Stacy talks with Environmental Health Educator Lara Adler about MAHA, environmental toxins, chronic disease, social media misinformation, and the growing gap between performative wellness and meaningful systemic change.

From sunscreen panic to wellness purity culture, privilege, and the death of nuance online, this is a science-forward conversation about what we’re missing in America’s health movement.

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What if the purse you carry could help change someone’s life?

Stacy welcomes Julie Colombino-Billingham, founder of Deux Mains, to talk about fair trade fashion, ethical consumerism, and empowering women through sustainable business practices in Haiti.

Julie shares the powerful moment that inspired her mission, the realities of fast fashion, and how conscious consumer choices can create meaningful global impact. Together, they discuss fair trade manufacturing, women’s empowerment, sustainability, and why buying “better, not more” matters for both people and the planet.

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Ignoring DEI isn’t just bad business. It’s expensive.

Stacy talks to Stephanie Pimentel, founder of Lumina Global Advisory, who shares a real talk perspective on what exclusion actually does inside a business: high turnover, low performance, and missed growth. She explains why DEI isn’t just a “nice to have”—it’s directly tied to whether your business can scale.

From investor confidence to operational risk, this conversation breaks down how culture impacts your bottom line long before it shows up in your numbers.

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What happens when love isn’t enough to sustain a relationship?

Stacy sits down with Robin Ducharme, founder of Real Love Ready and author of the book by the same name, to explore the truth about connection, accountability, and emotional safety. Together, they unpack the skills no one teaches us—how to communicate honestly, take responsibility for our part, and have hard conversations even when they’re uncomfortable.

They also dive into what it means to recognize when a relationship is no longer nourishing you, and why not all relationships are meant to be repaired.

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Are reality dating shows shaping how we see love...and not in a good way?

Stacy talks to matchmaker and relationship expert Jackie Dorman to unpack the truth about modern dating, toxic relationship patterns, and why so many people are missing healthy love right in front of them.

Because love isn’t just about highs and lows—it’s about consistency, friendship, and doing the work (individually and together).

From Love Is Blind to The Bachelor, they explore how pop culture has blurred the line between chemistry and chaos and why “fireworks” might actually b...

We’re told aging is inevitable—but the way we age? That’s a different story.

Stacy talks to Leslie Kenny, founder of the Oxford Longevity Project, shares how inflammation, autoimmune disease, stress, trauma, and even the environments we live in all shape our health over time. From her own experience being told her body would only get worse, to the science behind sleep, connection, nutrition, and immune health, this is a grounded, honest look at what actually impacts longevity.

This isn’t about chasing perfection or the latest wellness trend. It’s about understanding the bigger...

What if the behaviors we label as “difficult” are actually communication?

Stacy chats with with Beven Byrnes, Executive Director of Bridges Middle School, to unpack what’s really happening for neurodivergent students in today’s classrooms. From post-pandemic social struggles to the pressure on teachers and the rise in diagnoses like ADHD, autism, and learning differences, this conversation looks at the bigger picture—and what’s being missed.

They talk about masking, trauma, and why traditional school environments often fail neurodivergent kids, not because they can’t learn, but because the system isn’t built for how they lea...

Part review, part real-life reflection, Stacy and her husband Matt discuss Project Hail Mary and whether the film adaptation starring Ryan Gosling lives up to the book by Andy Weir. They break down what the movie changes, what it keeps, and why the story still works—even if you’re not into science or space.

Stick around for the second half (spoiler alert!) as Stacy and Matt dive deeper into the themes that make Project Hail Mary so impactful, including what it really means to be brave, how connection can change us, and what it looks like to d...

What if the thing that feels like a breakdown in midlife is actually the beginning of something better?

After hitting rock bottom at 45—divorce, debt, illness, grief, and burnout—Wendy Valentine chose a different path: not starting over, but becoming someone new on purpose.

In this conversation, Stacy and Wendy unpack what midlife really looks like for women today—the mental load, the stress, the identity shifts—and why so many feel exhausted, stuck, or quietly wondering, is this it

They explore how to reconnect with yourself without blowing up your life, why tiny ste...

Stacy and clinical nutritionist Jessica Brown welcome you back for part two of this discussion! They encourage you to start with part one, GLP-1 Medications Beyond Weight Loss: What the Science Actually Shows About Semaglutide.

In this episode they explore more of the science behind GLP-1 medications, including their effects on metabolic health, inflammation, appetite regulation, and long-term health. They also unpack the stigma, diet culture narratives, and judgment surrounding semaglutide and other GLP-1 medications and what evolving science means for how we think about weight and health.

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GLP-1 medications like semaglutide are often talked about as weight-loss drugs, but the science is revealing a much bigger story.

In the first of this two-part discussion, Stacy welcomes back clinical nutritionist and author Jessica Brown to explore what research is actually showing about GLP-1 medications and whole-body health.

They unpack emerging science around inflammation, immune regulation, metabolic health, and gut function, and why these medications may impact far more than weight. Stacy shares her own experience starting a GLP-1 medication and the mindset shift that comes with re-examining long-held beliefs about diet culture, intuitive...

Was Wuthering Heights ever actually romantic—or have we been misreading it for generations?

Stacy and bestie Daynah takes a closer look at Emily Brontë’s classic and the cultural myth of the “passionate love story.” Catherine and Heathcliff are often framed as one of literature’s greatest romances, but their relationship may be far closer to obsession, trauma, and toxic attachment than enduring love.

They unpack how adaptations and modern retellings have softened the novel’s darker themes, why brooding male anti-heroes still dominate romantic storytelling, and how destructive relationships keep getting rebranded as passion.

Women are still being told that fatigue, anxiety, heavy bleeding, mood swings, and brain fog are “just part of aging.” But what if they’re symptoms of perimenopause and no one is connecting the dots?

 Stacy sits down with hormone therapy pioneer Dr. Marcia Harris to separate myth from science around aging, hormone replacement therapy (HRT), and midlife mental health. With more than 40 years of experience, Dr. Harris explains how the Women’s Health Initiative study reshaped menopause care for decades, why many physicians stopped being properly trained in hormone therapy, and how that gap continues to leave wom...

Stacy and her husband, Matt, recently celebrated 24 years of marriage, and they’re sharing what actually keeps a long-term relationship alive.

From career shifts and identity changes to grief, depression, parenting stress, and intimacy after 40, this is an honest look at what it takes to stay connected when life gets complicated. They talk about why genuinely liking each other matters more than simply “being in love,” how emotional intimacy shapes physical intimacy, and how ADHD, medication, hormones, and rejection sensitivity can affect connection over time.

They explore choosing communication over resentment, growing together instead of apart...

Are MLMs and real estate teams really predatory — or is that narrative oversimplified?

In this episode, Stacy sits down with luxury real estate leader Lacey Newman to unpack hustle culture, independent contractor status, women and wealth, and what actually makes a business ethical.

If you’ve ever questioned MLMs, entrepreneurship, or your own worth tied to productivity, this episode offers nuance, honesty, and a fresh perspective.

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How much of fertility is truly in your hands and how much comes down to age and genetics?

Reproductive endocrinologist Dr. Jaime Knopman joins us to break down egg freezing, IVF, embryo preservation, and what actually impacts fertility (hint: it’s not just your lifestyle). We also talk about guilt, stigma, perimenopause, and why informed choice matters more than blame.

An honest, empowering conversation about what it really means to own your fertility at any stage of life.

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Why is Heated Rivalry resonating so deeply across audiences?

Besties Stacy and Daynah are joined by Stacy’s queer bestie and work wife Lauren to unpack the cultural obsession with this breakout hockey romance that has taken over the internet.

What looks like a steamy rivals-to-lovers story opens into a much bigger conversation about tender masculinity, explicit consent, queer joy, and why this kind of representation feels radically different from most romance on screen.

The episode also examines allyship, supportive parents, chosen family, and what it means to love queer media at a mo...

Jeffrey Marsh returns to talk with Stacy about mental health, community care, and staying human in a time of fear, burnout, and cultural upheaval.

They explore why wellness can’t be separated from human rights, how kindness functions as real-world activism, and what it takes to stay engaged without burning out. From boundaries and vulnerability to relationships, repair, and everyday acts of care, this episode offers grounding perspective without toxic positivity.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed but still want to show up, we're glad you're here!

What happens when autistic and neurodivergent adults lose built-in social supports but still need connection?

In this episode, Stacy talks with Jamie Pastranao and Brittany Moser, co-founders of the app synchrony, about loneliness, rejection sensitivity, and why community, not dating, is the missing piece for neurodivergent adults. Inspired by Love on the Spectrum, they explore how repeated rejection reshapes confidence, what research shows about neurodivergent connection, and whether technology can help rebuild trust and belonging.

A thoughtful conversation about adulthood, identity, and why everyone deserves a place to belong.

Is Pluribus a vision of collective bliss or a deeply unsettling loss of humanity?

In this bonus conversation, besties Stacy and Daynah dive into their curiously different interpretations of Pluribus, a provocative sci-fi series that asks what happens when individuality disappears and happiness becomes mandatory.

Through a feminist and cultural lens, they explore hive minds, consent, toxic positivity, female rage, AI parallels, and whether connection without choice can ever be ethical.

SPOILER ALERT! If you haven’t watched Pluribus yet and want to go in unspoiled, come back after you’ve seen it.

Besties Stacy and Daynah sat down to talk about Sinners and, unsurprisingly, talked about a lot more than that. Not only do you get a bonus show on the feed, but you even get a rare personal update from Daynah.

So yes, Sinners is a vampire movie. Yes, it’s technically horror. But it is also a sharp cultural critique about race, identity, ancestry, and the stories America keeps telling itself. We dig into why this film feels different, how modern horror has evolved into a space for serious storytelling, and what makes Sinners resonate beyond the ge...

Despite what you may think (or what you've been told), burnout isn’t a mindset issue—it’s a nervous system response.

Stacy talks with Dr. Amir Vokshoor, a board-certified neurosurgeon about how chronic stress reshapes the brain and body, why so many people are stuck in fight-or-flight, and how burnout, chronic pain, and trauma are biologically connected. We explore what modern life does to the nervous system and why healing requires more than willpower.

If your body feels exhausted, overwhelmed, or unable to recover, this episode reframes burnout as a biological signal, not a person...

Be prepared for a little bit of everything in this bonus conversation as Stacy and Daynah cover a lot of cultural ground—from unsettling films and prestige TV to aging, beauty standards, and what women’s bodies are expected to look like in public.

It’s messy, curious, occasionally unhinged, exactly the kind of media conversation we need right now.

To kick off the new year, besties Stacy and Daynah revisit Clash of the Titans — not as nostalgia, but as a cultural artifact. From Medusa’s distorted origin story to the unchecked entitlement of male heroes, we unpack how victim-blaming, punishment, and “boys will be boys” logic are baked into Greek mythology.

What starts as a fun rewatch quickly becomes a reckoning with who gets punished, who gets excused, and why these stories still shape how we understand power today. If you’ve ever loved a movie and later realized it aged… poorly, this one’s for you.

Happy Holidays! It’s the “lost week” (and the last week) of the year and besties Stacy and Daynah finally share their thoughts on The Pitt. Spoiler alert: They agree with most of the internet – it’s good and feels so different from every other medical drama on TV.

From grief, burnout, and moral injury to power, bias, and what good care actually looks like, they explore how the show captures the emotional and systemic realities of healthcare without turning them into spectacle. Along the way, they talk Noah Wyle’s perfectly calibrated performance, the weight of COVID-era tr...

Former space shuttle chief engineer and military veteran Mark Fox joins Stacy to unpack some of the science, skepticism, and lived experience behind energy-based therapies. From cellular voltage and ATP to PTSD studies, EMFs, and the limits of what modern medicine measures well, this conversation explores what we know, what we don’t, and why “relief before reason” matters for people who’ve tried everything else.

It's a curious discussion about healing, belief, evidence, and why the body may be more electrical than we’ve been taught.

Besties Stacy and Daynah dig into whether season 4 of The Morning Show still delivers on its original promise of women-centered power or simply mirrors the same messy systems it once set out to critique. They break down ambition, accountability, and the ways women turn on each other, calling out what felt uncomfortably real, what went under-examined, and why certain storylines landed harder than others.

Along the way, they share their own experiences with getting fired for setting boundaries and navigating midlife reckoning energy, before circling back to Corey discourse, Stella’s reckoning, Alex’s choices, and why “girlbo...

We thought we were done, but Denver said “actually, no.” We go deeper into the Love Is Blind reunion: PTSD vs. ASD discourse, Edmond’s survival patterns, performative apologies, and why Jordan remains the only man we trust. We talk trauma, nervous systems, manipulation as a coping strategy (not a villain origin story), and what reality TV accidentally teaches us about emotional maturity.

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Stacy and Daynah dive deep into Lily Allen’s surprise divorce album, the internet-meltdown question of “Do I Have to Hate David Harbour Now?” and why pop culture feels so personal when the celebrity in question is someone we’ve all invited into our living rooms via Stranger Things. They discuss the album’s storytelling, the public fascination with Harbour’s alleged behavior, and the broader cultural work of women telling the truth about betrayal.

And because they contain multitudes, you'll also find Beyoncé references, dental anxiety, and all the good-bad TV they're watching.

Stacy sits down with licensed depth therapist and author of the new book, The Motherhood Myth, Vanessa Bennett, to unpack why so many women feel overwhelmed, overextended, and exhausted by unseen emotional labor. Through the lens of depth psychology, they explore the “have it all” trap, the inner patriarchy, self-abandonment, inherited power systems, and the cultural scripts still shaping modern motherhood and partnership. From modeling conflict for our kids to untangling the sister wound and reclaiming our needs, this conversation offers clarity, validation, and a grounded path toward finally stepping off the hamster wheel.

Stacy and Daynah break down the most unhinged season of Love Is Blind yet — the Denver edition, where red flags were abundant, boundaries were optional, and somehow everyone thought saying “I love you” was a full relationship strategy. They dig into performative masculinity, alcohol-fueled chaos, cultural clashes, influencer energy, and the couples who somehow fooled us all.

And it wouldn't be two besties if they didn't dig beneath the reality-TV mess to explore how insecurity fuels narcissism, how childhood wounds show up in dating, why some partnerships feel more like unpaid therapy, and what it really takes to cho...

Stacy and Daynah immediately spiral into a conversation that only lifelong best friends (and overthinkers) could have and take listeners on a ride through health, humor, and high-level existential dread.

Their chat about The Long Walk turns into a surprisingly hilarious exploration of why empaths maybe shouldn’t watch dystopian movies without emotional support snacks, how masculinity could use a software update, and why community matters even when humanity is… a lot. Sprinkle in black-hole anxiety, faith detours, wealth cringe, and The Woman in Cabin 10, and you’ve got a classic convo: big feelings, big laughs, and big “w...

Stacy sits down with writer, book doula, and creator Hannah Eko to explore what it really means to be well—beyond productivity, perfection, or hustle culture. Together they unpack the power of creativity as a nervous system regulator, a healing practice, a doorway to community, and a forgotten human birthright.

If you've been craving more meaning, softness, creativity, or connection, this episode is both a permission slip and a gentle nudge: you were made to create, and doing so is part of the art of being well.

Two avid gift givers, Stacy and her behind-the-scenes right hand, Lauren, get real about Stacy’s Gift Well Guide and what gifting even means this year. Instead of endless lists and over-the-top hauls, this episode explores mindful giving, shifting values, and how community, creativity, and intention can make the season meaningful without draining your budget (or your joy). They talk hobbies, local makers, thoughtful experiences, budget-friendly ideas, and the real conversations many of us are having about spending less and connecting more.

Stacy and Matt are back for with something a little different! Get ready for both a history lesson and a relationship lesson all in one as they dive into the curious world of homeopathy. From 18th-century “miracle cures” to modern-day marketing, they trace how a well-meaning idea became a billion-dollar wellness industry. They unpack what belief, placebo, and healthy skepticism really mean in a world that sells certainty.

We’re back with part science chat, part soapbox, and part reality check on what true health looks like. Stacy and returning guest Alicia Stafford get real about the latest wellness buzzwords—compound GLP-1s, peptides, micro-dosing, and “biohacking”—and what’s actually hiding behind the hype. From influencer affiliate links to FDA warning letters, they unpack how diet culture keeps sneaking back under new names. Grab your protein shake, take a deep breath, and maybe put your phone down for this one.