Kinky Frame of Mind

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By: Don and Syn

Come take a peek in the kinky minds of Don and Syn as we discuss all things kinky. We discuss kink, bdsm, poly, and swinging

Episode 59 - Don't be a Debbie Downer
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Episode 59 - Don't be a Debbie Downer. In this episode we talk about not being a Debbie Downer. We all know one and know what its like when we see them. We talk about the different types of Debbie Downers. From the woe is me, to the over serious, the negative Nellie and so on. Then we talk a little why sometimes people act like this. 

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Episode 58 - 9 questions to ask
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04/02/2021

Episode 58 - 9 questions to ask - In this episode we look at an article that popped up on a couple Facebook groups about questions to ask future partners or dates. It goes from hierarchy to are certain dates special to are certain acts and even how will other relationships effect us.  

 

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Episode 57 - Hotwife vs Cuckold
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03/26/2021

Episode 57 - Hotwife vs Cuckold In this episode we take a look at the difference in Hotwife play and Cuckold. We look at why people enjoy both of them and why they can be a benefit to your relationship, We talk about being educated and knowing terms when talking to people and if we dont know the importance of asking questions and finding mentors to show us and help us. 


Episode 56 - Do you have a Hallpass
#56
03/12/2021

Episode 56- Do you have a Hall Pass  In this episode we discuss how to ask people if they have a Hall Pass or play separate. Finding the best way for you to find out, is it asking upfront, watching them and seeing or paying attention to post on social media. Next we look at an email from a guy trying to control his partner to play more.

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Episode 55 - The Miami Trip
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03/05/2021

Episode 55 - The Miami trip, in this episode we talk about out little get a way to Miami, we hung out this weekend with a lot of the AltPlayground Podcast family. we discuss our travel days and our great time there. We discuss the culture differences in Kansas and Miami lol. we got to meet the people from https://www.jetsurf.com/us/ it was fun to watch them. Sit back and enjoy our fun story 

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Episode - 54 Which one of US is going to handle that
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02/26/2021

Episode - 54: Which one of US is going to handle this - In this episode we discuss talk about some issues at a recent meet and greet, how a persons behaviors can set the tone and example. we also discuss having consent to do things. Then we discuss about a Facebook question on how we handle or who will handle issues when they come up with others. Have a plan on how things will go 

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Episode 53 - Stickers and Filters oh MY!!
#53
02/20/2021

Episode 53 - Stickers and Filters oh MY!! Its our ONE YEAR!! In this Episode we have to email questions the first is about if stickers are ok on profile pics cause of work issues. We give our views and pointers on that. The next one is we look at a couple that has had a few issues in their path in the lifestyle with other couple and see if there is a common error 

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episode 52 - switchy switch
#52
02/12/2021

episode 52 - switchy switch, welcome back to our fun show. In this episode we have a couple questions asked to us the first is about a sub that wants to become a switch for her partner, we share our views on switching. then we have a couple that has limited time to meet and we discus how they can make the best bang for their time. 

 

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Episode 51 - How do we get out of this?
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02/05/2021

In this episode we look at a couple email questions, the first is is about how do i not come so fast. So we look at techniques and things that can help you slow down on cumming, we discuss edging a little. We talk about the old joke of thinking BASEBALL. The second question is about what to do when one of the couples is done and what is your out plan, how long do you wait or what is the plan, we discuss thing we have heard and experienced as for how to get out of this or...


Episode 50 - Vanilla Friend play? good or bad?
#50
01/29/2021

Episode 50: Vanilla Friend play? Good or Bad?  

So we made it to Episode 50!! In this episode we have two messages we look at, the first is a common problem in the lifestyle how to handle a guy that is to touchy and how people can judge you if you stop him. So we discuss why we need to stop this behavior. what to do if this happens to you ann who we should tell. The second question hits a little closer to home, a guy messages and says he is interested in his friend playing with his w...


Episode 49 - First solo play chaos
#49
01/22/2021

Episode 49- First play chaos. In this episode we discuss a message about a couples first attempt at solo play. So many rules and communication issues that we reflect on and share our views on what could have been done to prevent and help this situation. Also there was some maybe hidden agenda on the part of the date and his girlfriend. So we talk about hidden agendas and how they can ruin a great opportunity.  

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Episode 48 - First date play ?
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01/15/2021

Episode 48 - First date play ? In this episode Don talks about a few exciting upcoming things in their world. Then we look at some emails we got, first is playing on the first date or not? what your rules and how does it work for you. Then we get an email about how to tell someone its not working out. so we look at that and discuss ways but we also look at is their a reason this couple has a track record of only playing 2-3 times with couples 

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Episode 47 - Damn that is to BIG
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01/08/2021

Episode 47 - Damn that is to BIG. In this Episode we have a listener question about how to tell someone their penis is to BIG. Then we have a discussion about its a new year and a good time to review rules and goals. 

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Episode 46- end of year
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01/01/2021

Episode 46 - end of year in this episode we look back at the last year and talk about the good and bad. then we also talk about how we are all part of the same group no matter where we fall in our play 

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Episode 45 - Fair rules
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12/25/2020

Episode 45 - Fair rules. In this episode we look at being fair on rules and keeping a balance. Also we discuss a question that came up on out Facebook group about numbers of partners.  

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episode 44- Let's educate new people
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12/18/2020

Episode 44 - Let's educate new people, in this episode Don goes on a rant about a post he saw on a site about someone getting mad when a new person questioned their dynamic. We talk about how to handle this type of interaction and how we need to help educate new people 

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Episode 43 : Just not feeling it
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12/11/2020

Episode 43 : Just not feeling it - In this episode we talk about a message we got about what to do when you are just not feeling it or feeling sexy. Then we have a question about what to do when the person just wants to talk sex all the time 

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Episode 42: how to get some interest
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12/04/2020

Episode 42: how to get some interest - in this episode we talk about a question on how can i get people interested in me and we take a look at getting started in your rope journey 

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Episode 41 - Don't Judge
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11/26/2020

Episode 41 - Don't Judge In this episode we talk about judging and assuming people on personality 

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Episode 40 - That's a deal breaker dude!!
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11/19/2020

Episode 40 - That's a deal breaker Dude! in this episode we look at what is a deal breaker for you and what you can deal we, we both discuss our deal breakers and then we discuss a few answers we go on our Facebook group. 

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Episode 39 - The hard Question
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11/11/2020

Episode 39 - The hard Question - In this episode we look at a couple questions. The first is about what is ok messaging and how to ask what is ok. The second Question is probably one of the hardest to bring up when was you last STI test and do you have anything 

 

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Episode 38: What Party do I go to
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11/05/2020

Episode 38 - What Party do I go to? in this episode we talk about we are in the busy time of swinger parties Halloween to Mardi Gras is a busy time so many parties and options. We give you a few things to thing about when choosing what event to attend. What will increase your personal chances and enjoyment 

 

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Episode 37: Littles
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10/28/2020

In this episode we take a look at age play, we look at different aspects of the kink 

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Episode 36 - quench that thirst
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10/20/2020

Episode 36 -Quench that thirst. In this episode we discuss some do's and don'ts of meet and greets. We share incidents that happened at a recent meet and greet with us. Then we also take a look at what thirsty behavior is. What makes you appear to be thirsty 

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episode 35: breaking in
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10/08/2020

Episode 35: Breaking in. In this episode we look at an email question that ask about how to break into the scene and how to get invited to events. The the question also deals a little with body type issues so we jump into body shaming a little 

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Episode 34: what on your fuck it list
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09/30/2020

Episode 34: What's on your fuck it list  

In this episode we talk about stuff that makes up or give idea on what's on different peoples fuck it list. We also go into detail about some of our top items on our list 

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Episode 33 Hymn 103 Comprehension
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09/23/2020

Episode 33 Hymn 103 Comprehension

In this Episode discuss the importance of communication in our relationships, but not just how to communicate bit making sure our partner comprehends what we are saying that is the important part. We also discuss communication keyword or secrets words on dates. So we can know how the other is feeling during an outing 

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Episode 32 - Come Prepared and Ready
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09/15/2020

In this Episode discuss a couple topics, the first is coming to a party prepared and ready. We discuss pointer on coming to a BDSM party prepared and ready for a scene. In the second half we discuss how hard bottoms can be on themselves when a scene gets cut short or does not go good. 

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Episode 31: What's your favorite Position
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09/10/2020

In this episode we discuss our favorite position and why we like them. We chat about asking this question on some Facebook groups and the odd answers we got. This the brings up the discussion of being an active and attentive partner 

 

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Episode 30 - This break brought to you by
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09/01/2020

Episode 30 - This break brought to you by, we take a look at causes of lifestyle burnout and why taking a break is ok and important. we discuss some of the top reason we have seen burn out. The we look at how to fix burnout and what we need to do to prevent it and have a great lifestyle experience 

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Episode 29 -The MAN Show
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08/27/2020

Episode 29 The MAN Show. In this episode we take a peek into Men issues. We look at men's health and performance. We also give lots of male tips in the lifestyle. Don share about many of his health issues and how finding them has helped his overall performance and life. Its some real time with him 

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Episode 28 Manners, I know your momma taught you better
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08/19/2020

Episode 28 Manners, I know your momma taught you better  

In this episode we look at manners and how to talk to and treat potential playmates. So many times we get carried away when we are talking to a potential playmate and we can ruin our chances off the start. We also talk about not judging people on who they play with 

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Episode 27 - Be a MF'ing Rockstar at being you
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08/12/2020

In this episode we talk about how the lifestyle becomes a family and how family helps its members. We also talk about finding your place and what you are in the community and doing it the best you can. 

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Episode 26 - I'd squirt in your FACE!!
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08/06/2020

Episode 26 - In this episode we discuss a couple funny stories this week about squirting and then we take a look at how we talk about our other halves on social media. 

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Episode 25: questions to ask potential playmates
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07/29/2020

Episode 25: In this episode we take a look at some questions to start conversations with potential playmates to get the best results 

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Episode 24 - FWB what's this all about
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07/23/2020

In this episode we take a look at what FWB really is and then have a little fun with some would you rather questions 

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episode 23 - Misconceptions of the lifestyle
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07/15/2020

In this episode we look at some major misconceptions of the lifestyle and also we discuss first meets one on one 

 

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Episode 22 - Are you PRICK?
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07/07/2020

Episode 22 - Are you PRICK? in this episode we look at the 3 basic Safety Mindsets in the BDSM community. Are you SSC, RACK or PRICK. We take a look at each of these are discus what they mean and what the differences are. We hope to help you play safe and paly hard and have fun 

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Episode 21: The Frenzy
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06/30/2020

In this episode we take a look at newbie FRENZY. What is frenzy and different things that can cause and lead to Frenzy. How to handle it if we see we are doing it. Also reasons why its not good for us. 

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Episode 20 - Whats does your profile say about you?
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06/23/2020

Episode 20 - What does your profile say about you? In this episode we take a look at what our online profile says about us and how we can improve it. We look at how to improve our written profile, our pictures, how to reach out to people and start a convo and how to respond to someone 

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