Kinky Frame of Mind

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By: Don and Syn

Kinky Frame of Mind has been a leading edge podcast since we have started. We started the podcast to give you a full spectrum viewpoint of swinging, kink, and polyamorous lifestyles. We have been thinking about how to make things better and came up with a way to give you, the listener, an even broader view. In this coming year, we will be changing our format. We are adding some exciting things. Kinky Frame of Mind is going to become a collective of people and different types of podcasts under one unifying umbrella. Syn and Don will do their usual...

Episode 203- Male POV - Men raising the standard
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Last Tuesday at 3:00 AM

Episode 203- Male POV - Men raising the standard. In this Episode of Kinky Frame of Mind Podcast the men are in the studio again. The guys catch up on what been going on in their lives. Then they hit this week's topic raising the standard in the lifestyle. They talk about putting in more effect, being date ready, matching energy and just not being content on just being there. 


Episode 202 -Don and Syn - What need does this FILL!
#203
03/03/2026

Episode 202 -Don and Syn - What need does this FILL! - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind podcast Don and Syn hit the studio. Don and syn both talk about what they have been up to. Syn talks about going skying and Don talks about the micro maiden's strip show. Then they dive into the topic. in this episode we look at what needs need to be filled in our lifestyle journey and how we fill them. Then we talk about what needs do groups and events fill. Are we just doing the same old or starting...


Episode 201- Don and Lady Kroft - Nothing we do is SANE!
#202
02/24/2026

Episode 201- Don and Lady Kroft - Nothing we do is SANE! - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind Don and Lady Kroft are in the studio. They talk about the Arctic Beatdown Event at the dungeon. Then they talk about RISK profile. They talk about how to build your risk profile and talk about how to share that with your partner or future partner. They hit terms like SSC, RACK, PRICK and more. 


Episode 200 - Synful Ladies - Mailbag Question
#201
02/17/2026

Episode 200 - Synful Ladies - Mailbag Question  

The Ladies are back and answering an email about how to handle fallout after swinging when one couple has unspoken expectations that get missed and cause a big issue. Join Scarlett, Ms. Syn, and Lady Kroft as they try to offer impartial advice to help their listener.


Episode 199 - (Male POV) Accountability in the Lifestyle
#200
02/10/2026

Episode 199 - (Male POV) Accountability in the Lifestyle - In this Episode of the Kinky Frame of Mind the Male POV editions. The guys dig in to accountability in the lifestyle. What does it mean to be accountable and how do we show that and live in it. Do we have people we trust to hold us accountable? 


Episode 198 - (Don and Syn) - its about education
#199
02/03/2026

Episode 198 - (Don and Syn) - its about education  - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind, Don and Syn talk about Arctic Beatdown they just had at their dungeon and how much they got out of it. Then they Dive into the topic of education in the communtiy, Why we need it and how we can get more! 


Episode 197 - Don and Lady Kroft - Triggers and Land Mines!!
#198
01/27/2026

Episode 197 - Don and Lady Kroft - Triggers and Land Mines!! - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind we get to start to take a little deeper look at the dynamic Don and Lady Kroft have. In this episode they look at Triggers and how to handle them. What we should disclose and what not. Then they talk about landmines, things we do not know are triggers and how we handle these when they come up. 


Episode 196 - Synful Ladies Intro, How did we get here
#197
01/19/2026

Episode 196 - Synful Ladies Intro, How did we get here. In this episode of the kinky fram of mind podcast, we get the intro episode of the new synful ladies. The Ladies welcome Scarlet to the table and everyone discusses how they each started their journey.


Episode 195 - Male POV Intro
#196
01/12/2026

Episode 195 - Male POV Intro - In this Episode of the Kinky Frame of Mind this is the first episode of the Male Pov under the Kinky Frame of Mind umbrella. In this episode the guys introduce their selves and discuss some basics of their lifestyle journey!!


Episode 194- (Don and Syn) How long you been in this ?
#195
01/06/2026

In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind, Don and Syn talk about Christmas and NYE. They then talk about the changes coming to the Podcast. We are excited about the new additions to the Kinky Frame of Mind Family. Then this episode we talk about how long have you been in the lifestyle and what we can or might expect from that answer.  


Episode 193 - Labels why is mine better LOL
#194
12/16/2025

Episode 193 - Labels why is mine better LOL - In this Episode, Don and Syn talk about their recent lives. Syn talks about a wedding trip to Dallas and Don talks about a trip to Dallas. this weeks topics is labels and we talk about why labels can keep us from being the best us we can. We also talk about embracing new labels and how sometimes old words hit us in the face when needed. 

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Episode 192- State of the Community
#193
12/02/2025

In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind Podcast, Don and Syn talk catch us up on the dungeon activity. Then They talk about 2 topics the first is content creators in the lifestyle and the second is about some issues with new groups. We have a couple new groups in our community and things we see going on 

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Episode 191 - We are back
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11/11/2025

In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind, Don and Syn catch us up on life. They talk about opening the new dungeon and the wild adventures of dealing with Don's dad. 


Episode 190 - Rule Judging
#191
06/17/2025

Episode 190 - Rule Judging - In this episode of the Kinky Frame of Mind podcast, Don talks about Scissortail Leather Convention and The Club Unhinged Pool party.  Getting everyone caught upon what they have going on. Then this weeks topics Don and Syn talk about rules and what we do when people give us their rules. then Don talk about rule judging and look at a rule and gives a different view on why lots of people start with this rule 


Episode 189 - Why is this not working for me?
#190
06/03/2025

In this Episode of Kinky Fame of Mind, Don and Syn dive into it. Don talks about his trip to Oklahoma Leather Fest and the new dungeon. Syn talks about a trip to Dallas. Then this week's topics is a Facebook post about a guy asking why the lifestyle is not working and how can he do it better. 

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Episode 188 - We all on the same page?
#189
04/21/2025

Episode 188 - We all on the same page?  - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind Don and Syn catch us up on their happenings. They talk about a hotel party and how the search for a building for the dungeon is going. This weeks topic is about everyonebeing on the same page and checking to make sure you are 

 

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Episode 187 - What happened to privacy
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03/31/2025

Episode 187 - What happened to privacy - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind Don and Syn catch us up on what they have been up to. They discuss KWN and Rope Jam. Then this week's topics is talking about what has happened over the years to privacy and discretion in the lifestyle. So many people have been outing people on social media in the last few months. 


Episode 186 - Barging in a room
#187
02/17/2025

Episode 186 - Barging in a room - In this episode of the Kinky Frame of Mind podcast, Don and Syn catch you up on all their happenings. This week's topic is from a Facebook post talking about newbies at a recent event and how to handle a couple situations. Don and Syn share a few of their thoughts about what to maybe do. 

 

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Episode 185 - Chasing that next thing
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02/03/2025

Episode 185 - Chasing that next thing - In this episode of the Kinky Frame of Mind podcast we get to hear about Don and Syn's happenings. Don's rope weekend in Tulsa and the latest hotel party. This episode we look at a Facebook post about not being able to keep a regular partner and we look at a few things that might be hindering you. Are we chasing the wrong that that does not fit us or them? 

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Episode 184 - Why do you have that Rule
#185
01/20/2025

Episode 184 - Why do you have that Rule - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind Don and Syn talk about all the stuff going on in their lives and things coming up in this new year. This week's topic is about rules, why we make rules and what is going on when we make rules. do we make rules out of anger, fear, jealousy or whatever. 

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Episode 183 - Getting the most bang for our buck (choosing the right event)
#184
01/03/2025

Episode 183 - Getting the most bang for our buck (choosing the right event) - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind podcast Don and Syn talk about all the Holiday fun and NYE. This week is topic is about choosing the right event for you. We talk about thing to think about when looking at and choosing events. 

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Episode 182 - When your partner is done
#183
12/20/2024

Episode 182 - When your partner is done In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind, Dona and Syn talk about all their happenings. Thye talk about their Memphis trip for Syns bday and much more. This episode's topics is about a Facebook post about a partner wanting to be done with the lifestyle and how to handle and navigate that

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Episode 181 - Be a good person, simple rule!
#182
11/08/2024

Episode 181 - Be a good person, simple rule! - In this Episode of the Kinky Frame of Mind, Don and Syn catch us up on what is going on between going to the club OKC for Halloween or having their hotel party. Then the topic this week talks about how we handle getting no showed on a date. Don saw a FB post of a guy that was not a good person to an date that did not show up 

 

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Episode 180 = Rope Jam and How to prepare for an event
#181
10/25/2024

Episode 180 = Rope Jam and How to prepare for an event - In this episode of Kinky Frame of mind Don and Syn talk about moving their kid out, trips to kc and Rope Jam. This week's topics is tips on being prepared for a major event 


Episode 179 - Don’t give up
#180
10/04/2024

Episode 179 - Don’t give up - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind Don and Syn talk about getting used to having extra people in the house and their trip to Dallas. This weeks topic is about a couple that had a bad first encounter and might be done cause of it 
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Episode 178 -Get off your butt
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09/06/2024

Episode 178 -Get off your butt - In this episode of the Kinky Frame of Mind Don and Syn talk about everything that has been going on in life. Multiple people moving into the house, Don's mentor died, just busy busy stuff. Don shares about his mentor and the loss and impact of that. This weeks topic is about finding your partner a date of play partner. 
 

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Episode 177 - She chose him really!!
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08/09/2024

Episode 177 - She chose him really!!  - In this episode of the Kinky Frame of Mind Podcast we catch up on all the exciting stuff happening in Don and Syn's life. This weeks topic comes from a Facebook post Don say. It looks at a guy who fells he needs to tell a past FWB red flags about her partner. We discuss a lot of sides of this topic and share or experience and views. 

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Episode 176 - Jb and Scarlet discuss first big Event
#176
08/02/2024

Episode 176 - Jb and Scarlet discuss first big Event - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind podcast. We have JB and Scarlet in the studio again and we are taking a look at their first major Event the OKC pool party. So we just a newbie view of the 20th Anniversary Pool Party 

 

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Episode 175 - Pool Party OKC recap
#175
07/26/2024

Episode 175 - Pool Party OKC recap - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind we discuss the Club OKC Pool Party. 


Episode 174- Hey I need a date night!! Please listen
#174
07/05/2024

Episode 174- Hey I need a date night!! Please listen  In this episode of the Kinky Frame of Mind Podcast Don and Syn talk about what is going on. Don talk about classes in OKC and local Dungeon Party. This weeks question is about making time for our partner and not making excuses or reasons to not do what our partners need. 


Episode 173 - What do we say to get the F#ck out if here again
#173
06/14/2024


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Episode 173 - What do we say to get the F#ck out if here again = In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind, Don and Syn discuss their happenings and all their fun. This weeks topic is talking about calling safe word to leave a play session. They talk about is the safe word the best thing for or sho...


Episode 172 - Your First Scene
#172
05/31/2024

Episode 172 - Your First Scene In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind Don and Syn talk about their trip to Colorado and then Don talks about his eye surgery. Then this weeks topics is a Facebook post about their first impact scene and not being happy with how it went. So we talk about important thing in scenes.

 


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Episode 171 - A sickness running rampant
#171
05/16/2024

episode-171-a-sickness-running-rampant In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind podcast Don and Syn talk about their happenings. This weeks topics is about being wide eyed and open to things going on around you in the lifestyle. See who is housing consent violators. Also being aware of other things going on in the community around you. When we make consent a priority we can stop the sickness 


Episode 170 - Oh, where do i begin.
#170
05/03/2024

Episode 170 - Oh, where do i begin. In this Episode of Kinky Frame of Mind, we get to hear about all the happening in Don and Syns life, They talk about Syn's Denver trip and their Hotel Party. In this weeks topic they take a look to help beginners in the lifestyle know what to go and where to start. 


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Episode 169 - What's your Time frame
#169
04/19/2024

Episode 169 - What's your Time frame  - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind Don and Syn do the recap of Spring Rope Jam and all the kinky sexy stuff they have been up to. This weeks topics is about time frame for play at parties. 


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Episode 168- Rule misleading
#168
03/29/2024

Episode 168- Rule misleading 

In this Episode of Kinky Frame of Mind - Don talks about his Air BnB stay and the Bidet. They talk about Dons Birthday party. The we talk about if someone tells you a rule then proceeds to not do it


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Episode 167 - Labels for me?
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03/15/2024

Episode 167 - Labels for me? In this Episode of Kinky Frame of Mind Don and Syn talk about being sick and their dates and family time. This weeks topic is about labels in the lifestyle and how we use them wrong or just want to create labels to create labels. 

 

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Episode 166 - This long distance thing
#166
02/23/2024

Episode 166 - This long distance thing - In this episode of Kinky Frame of Mind Don and Syn share their views on Long distance relationships. Fist the talk about their happenings, Don talks about dates and their hotel take over and getting to see Kole and Amanda from KASBH.  Then they discuss long distance relationships, they can work and Don gives tips that have helped him over the years. 

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Episode 165 - How we handle our BS
#165
02/09/2024

Episode 165 - How we handle our BS - In this Episode of Kinky Frame of Mind Don and Syn discuss their happenings. Don talks about going to a Kinky Prom and still a little about the wreck. This weeks topics is about drama in the lifestyle and how we handle it and how people stir it up. It will happen it is life but how we handle it shows much more. 

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Episode 164 - KWN Recap
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01/26/2024

Episode 164 - KWN Recap  - In this Episode of Kink Frame Of Mind Don and Syn talk all about KWN. Don talks about his wreck on the way to the event. We talk all about the amazing event and the clothes at the formal to the impact class to the just amazing people and the out purring of love. The talk about KWN being KC bound next year. 

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