Spanko! Podcast

Let's discuss wrapping. Wrapping paper, rapping, chicken wraps…. Oh wait, no … We are talking about that uncomfortable feeling when the implement wraps too far around your hip. Some people hate wrapping, some love it, and some tolerate it reluctantly. 

How do you feel about wrapping? We discuss some of our feelings about wrapping. As well as tips on how to communicate with your top if they are wrapping and how to learn to avoid wrapping if you are topping.

[Insert Star Wars-like theme here]

Miss D Spanks is back, veteran of the scene but newer party-goer, joins us again at GASP 2026. Hear how she has evolved from purely a Top to becoming comfortable as a Switch. And how our collective nerdiness helped her come out of her shell.  

Yes, being a nerd in the spanko community can even be a perk! We're all socially awkward (ok… MOST of us!), so if you're a spanko AND a little on the nerdy side (or a lot on the nerdy side), don't worry, you'll fit right in! 

Social currency  vs social capital - what's the difference and why does it matter? Have you ever considered your social capital? What builds your social capital and currency?  Do you know how to be a respected community member? Are you helpful?  Do you understand boundaries and take time to build friendships? Do you know how to make friends?  Did you know there are different levels of friendship? 

As a party attendee - do you feel like you have gotten a chance to enjoy spanking parties to the max? Or do you leave feeling like you didn't fit in? D...

"At the end of the day we're all here to have fun and if someone is not having fun, that's kind of a problem."

Purveyor (or pervert?) of smut, author of BDSM and spanking erotica, and creator of some kinky games, Letti Lustcraft and her partner, SirChefDaddy, joined us at GASP 2025 to talk about their Domestic Discipline relationship and all their creative endeavors. 

Find out how this adorable couple learned to practice Domestic Discipline safely and consensually when one of them originally wasn't even kinky!

How does one come out to th...

… years of our lives! Join us as we celebrate 6 years of doing Spanko! Podcast!

Reminisce with us on how we've grown and changed. Hear about some of our favorite memories. And some of what we hope to do in the future. 

And, of course, there has to be some bratting and spanking live on the air to celebrate!

Since many of our listeners tune in while on the road, we thought we'd give you some driving tunes! Join us for a very special episode of Spanko Podcast where DJ Lizzy slings some fun spanking related tracks of a variety of genres. There's hopefully a little something for everyone, and every music taste, in this variety mix!

Have you ever felt the need to pull over on the side of the road to take care of some bratting? Do you collect implements or panties?  Is spanking your love language? Does seeing your fellow spankos feel like h...

Continuing our hardcore fan-girling from part 1, the immortal Erica Scott shares some of her favorites in the scene, and some juicy behind-the-scenes tidbits from her experiences as a video model.

Both positive and negative, Erica shares her thoughts and opinions seemingly unfettered:

Uber-Doms, mind your place. 

Social Media commenters… beware, the Snark Queen has you in her sights. 

And her positive stories of sharp and witty Tops make us swoon from across the internet! ❤️

And some of her favorite trigger words will prick up your ears as much as they did...

Fan-girling hardcore over having had the opportunity to interview the one and only Erica Scott. You may know her for her role in many spanking videos including The Reckoning and The Schoolmaster's Revenge. But we were excited to have her for her wit and her Correspondence Hall Of Shame blog. 

You thought we were sassy, imagine having the level of sass Erica possesses!!! 
We can only dream. 

While some women decide to Switch as they grow older, some of us choose to hold on to our Spankee/Bottom identities as we age. That may mak...

We were asked if we could talk about the physics of spanking. Well, who better to consult than an actual physicist who is ALSO an actual spanko?

Our friend, Al Doyle, sat down with us at GASP 2025 to give us a lesson in the physics of spanking. We even sat down to work out the math to see if we could finally get an answer to the age-old question: does a paddle with holes hurt more than a paddle without holes?

From Newton's apple, to Einstein's theories, to the earth falling upwards, "Professor" Doyle blows...

The Executive Committee from Burning River SSC, our local spanking group, is back! This time we're talking about what goes into building a successful spanking community.

Having been around for multiple years, Burning River has some good tips on starting from the ground up. We talk about munches, gathering your community, building rapport and education, planning simple house parties, and even renting spaces for a larger regional party. We also discuss the importance of vetting at parties, education about spanking, inclusivity, and much more. 

You may feel you have nothing in your local area, but b...

Frenzy: a state or period of uncontrolled excitement or wild behavior.

Some of us have had an insatiable need to be spanked or spank all the spankees we meet. It can feel like a lot of fun! All that new energy and excitement, wanting to try all the things! It's fairly common when things are new: new experiences, new parties, new partners, etc. 

And we're not just talking about discipline spankings here, even though in our experience, that's the kind of spankings some of us fantasize the most about. We are talking about al...

At long last, get to know Burning River SSC, our local spanking group! We've been talking about them for years, and we finally got to sit down with them and our microphones and chat.

Join us as we talk with our friends from the board of Burning River SSC (including our very own Karina Isabel).  We talk about the importance of vetting at parties, education about spanking, inclusivity, munches, and much more. 

If you are near the Cleveland, Ohio area and want to check out a smaller party and dip your toes into the spanking sc...

What is vetting?

If you've been to a spanking party before, you've probably heard this term, and have probably even been vetted: it's the background check done to keep everyone at the party as safe as possible.

But it's not just for parties, this is good for one-on-one play as well. 

How is vetting done? What should you expect? Well, there's many ways to vet someone. But we discuss a few tips that we've used, have seen used, and have been involved with in the past, for both Tops and Bottoms alike.

At a private school, contraband is discovered. The usual suspects are gathered and interrogated. Will they confess? Will they throw each other under the bus? And what consequences will they face?

Join us for another radio play, adapted by Lizzy, based on The Mysteries of Verbena House, a Victorian spanking novel in two parts by Etonensis. This book has some interesting history itself, including a connection to another famous holiday season author. 

If you enjoy this type of programming, let us know, and perhaps we can include more in the future.

Happy Holidays!!

Trigger Warnings: Trauma, War, PTSD, Childhood Abuse. 

PTSD - Post Traumatic Stress Disorder - a condition brought about by trauma and diagnosed by a professional. Please reach out to a professional to be treated and diagnosed. 

We have the brave Mark, the Very Bad Boy, and a military veteran, joining us to share his experiences as a spanking male bottom with PTSD. Mark shares how he worked with professionals to be diagnosed and begin his well-being process. 

Triggered by loud noises, Mark still enjoys his spanking, but it has been a challenge to wor...

How do you get to experience Consensual Non-Consent?
After years of communication

The GASP team has opened Pandora's box of spanking! 

Join us to hear about the Herculean task the GASP team and volunteers are pulling off this time. All your favorites are back, plus some new and exciting additions you'll hear about here first!

Are you ready for: merriment, games, a dionysian feast, activities, classes, Littles tents, vending, a summer camp experience, and lots more??

There's even room for the Tops to join in the activities this year!
Do you have the Midas touch? Even if you don't, the spanking Bottoms sure hope y...

What's scary on Halloween? Scarier than ghosts or monsters, even? It's the fear of missing out!! 

We've all experienced it. Sometimes just in our spanking lives, sometimes in our vanilla lives, but the fear of missing out is real. No one likes to feel excluded. We are social creatures, after all. Though there are some of us who also thrive on the joy of missing out. 

Join us as returning guest, JoJo Shenanigans, our kink-affirming therapist, gives some pointers on managing the horrors that come from missing out, managing your feelings, navigating jealousy, and finding wa...

Travel down the yellow brick road to Texas where you can experience All Things Wicked and Magical this year at The Lone Star Spanking Party happening November 6-10, 2025.

As you move on down, move on down the road, you'll also find a dark and mysterious trail leading to a Gothic Masquerade… as well as experiencing all the spanking your bottom (or hand) could desire! (As if that was possible.) 

Get whisked away on an imaginative journey as your fabulous hostess, Sarah Gregory, tells us about all of the magical excitement in store at Lone Star 2025. Fro...

How big is your blanket and how many people have access to that blanket? Do you share different blankets with different types of people? join us on this episode and find out what we mean by blanket consent. 

generally people don't automatically obtain blanket consent, please be responsible when you play with others; practice self advocacy and learn to establish your boundaries, though this episode is not about that. We just want to remind you that it is your body and it is your choice. 

There are fantasies and then there's reality. Sometimes it takes a...

Miss Chris is back to explain how she helps bring your spanking fantasies to life. But what if your fantasy involves more than one spanker?

You're in luck! Miss Chris is not alone! 

Miss Chris & Uncle Eric are traveling around the country making your co-topping fantasies into reality. We were lucky enough to catch up with them in the DC area for an evening on their journey.

We get to know a bit about Uncle Eric, life-long spanko, BDSM practitioner, and video star. We learn about his connection with Miss Chris, some of t...

She dreamed about spanking parties all her life, but it wasn't until a chance encounter with a certain podcast (who, us?)  that veteran and award-winning little (oops, spoilers!), Hilly, realized her dream could come true!

Now this veteran of the leather community, pack member, and littles educator joins us to discuss the littles scene, how welcoming spankos are to littles, and even how to know if you may be a little yourself. 

Wait, Leather AND Littles? Yes, it can be a thing. And Hilly exemplifies the combination and explains how it can work. And for th...

You may have heard Switches make the best Tops. So join us as Ella and NightOwll share their journey on why they chose to start Topping. Have you, as a Top, done your homework? Because these two new Tops know exactly what they want when they are on the receiving end, and therefore did their research to become the very best Top they could ever be. 

Whether they were born to Top or whether they grew into their roles, matters little, because what really matters is the amazing Tops they are becoming. 

Anything a guy do...

Do you have a favorite kinky song? We have so many, this is our 2nd episode featuring them!

Take a listen to some more of our favorite kink-adjacent tunes, and some recommended by you, our listeners, and we'll share our thoughts of how they tie in to this special interest of ours. Some of them are super obvious, and some are classics you may not have considered. And some of them inspired some new items on Sky's spanking bucket list!

Are there songs we haven't covered? Let us know. Maybe we'll check them out in...

Have you ever wanted to do a school role play?
Or have you done a school role play and loved it?  

Join us as we talk with Miss Marissa, Jason, and Nicole as we discuss a detention role play at Lonestar. 

What makes a school role play headspacey? Lines? Tone? Scolding? Do you prefer a serious role play or a more playful role play? 

We discuss all of the things related to what we love about role play. What are some of the things you worry about or think about ahead of a ne...

At GASP 2025 this year, we were given the opportunity to host, and record, a Tops Roundtable. Featuring our own BigGirlSpanker, returning Guest Mr. Ben, returning guest Miss Bernadette, and newcomer to the podcast but veteran to the community, CallMeMissMeg.

We had some initial questions and allowed questions from the audience and the Tops to respond spontaneously. We had a great discussion on all things related to Topping, discussion on setting scenes, communication in scenes, handling disappointment, learning and expanding skills, and more. What you will hear has been minimally edited, to bring you as close as possible...

Join us for a very special episode of Spanko! Podcast:

For pride month this year, we wanted to gather with some friends and have a very important discussion about what it's like to be Trans in the Spanking Community. 

Returning guest, Avery, hosts this episode, as we gather at GASP this year with a group of extraordinary and wonderful spankos to discuss their journeys of self-discovery, acceptance, and how their individual eggs cracked (the evolution of the self-exploration journey and rebirth as your true self). 

We cover a wide range of topics such as...

Coming to you from TASSP 2024, AssaultedPeanut and Nemo join us to discuss Co-Topping and Co-Bottoming in a spanking scene. Whether you have been in a Co-Topping or Co-Bottoming scene, or you hope to someday, this episode is one you won't want to miss.

What does it mean to play with multiple Tops or multiple Bottoms in a scene? What challenges come up? What makes it so fun? Our guests, and our hosts, who have had this kind of experience share what their experiences have been like and why it's fun to explore playing with more than one...

If you're anything like BigGirlSpanker and you enjoy the art of quality spanking implements, you may have wondered where you should store your items. 

Should I use a backpack (Eric has)?
Or a baseball bag (Eric does)?
Or a trash bag (hey, we all need to improvise at times)?
Or is there something better out there?

Wonder no more! 

Our friend, Matt and his company LuxxGear, have come to the rescue! He has invested and devoted himself to creating quality implement bags known as KinkBags. Join us for a tour of...

Five years!? The Spanko! Podcast has been releasing episodes every other week for the past five years! Join us as we share memorable moments and memorable episodes. *emotional tear* Feel free to share some of yours in the comments below.

Our friends, fans, and patrons join us as we record this episode LIVE (kinda) and share some of their own experiences of joining the scene AND how our little podcast has helped them along their journeys. 

Did you ever write in the Spanko Secrets notebook??? This completely anonymous notebook has been traveling with us since 2022. J...

Have you experienced the thrill of a multi-day national… erm, international spanking party? Cause if you haven't, TASSP is for you! 

Join our Spankoholics and our lovely TASSP Hostess, Princess Kelley May, and hear about some of our adventures at TASSP last year, and what we have to look forward to coming up June 12-15th, 2025.

Live out your school fantasy at the TASSP immersive school role play, where you'll have to go to class and even do school work.

Perhaps you can beg your strict teacher for some stickers for being "good."

So, your partner is a spanko.

We've talked to couples in the past who are in a relationship with a vanilla (or non-spanko) partner. Of course this can have its challenges for a spanko. But this time we hear from the non-spankos themselves! 

Join us as we get to know some of the struggles, pitfalls, and even the perks you can experience when being in a relationship with a spanko, even if you aren't one yourself. TASSP 2024 provided an opportunity for non-spanko partners to gather together in support of one another, and they invited us t...

Are you ready for a week-long SPANKING Summer Camp adventure? 

In this episode we visit with Ryan from the Fox Haven Campground, an open and affirming place where all your explorations can become reality. 

Learn about CanSpanks Spanko Camp where you can have your spanking fantasies come true at a sauna, in or around the lake, in a school house, a glitter palace… basically wherever your heart desires! AND all the consensual pranks are allowed… even CONFETTI! 

This camp has vanilla activities, too, such as kayaking, swimming, and camping AND you get to enjoy n...

Ella and Listener return for Take 2 of our most listened to episode ever!  Join us as we interview them at TASSP for their take and experiences with Spanking & Crying. 

Learn about the five types of emotional crying: 

loss/separation

Grief  

Helplessness/powerlessness 

Physical pain/discomfort 

Empathetic crying 

Positive experience/moving situation 

Dacryphilia - What does it mean and are you one? 

Let's ponder about what are your responsibilities as a spankee when getting spanked for a transgression?

Did you know Ariel Anderson is THEEE Amelia Jane Rutherford? Find out why she chose this specific last name. Oh, such a naughty reason! 

Like many of us Ariel was raised to feel ashamed, and also thought she needed to repress her spanking desires. However, she was fortunate to discover the wonderful world of bondage modeling and the adventures of spanking videos! How did she resolve this inner conflict?

She is a published author as well! But you'll have to join us and listen to find out her book title as well as the book's u...

Teachers, Principals, Fraternity & Sorority Hazing: What is it about school role plays that spankos find so fascinating? 

We sat down (some of us more comfortably than others) after doing many different school-themed role plays at GASP 2024 and talked with some of the participants (on both sides of the paddle) to find out! 

We discuss all aspects of the school events, from organization and planning, to playing the principal and the naughty sorority pledge. While, of course, we each have our own personal reasons for enjoying school-themed play, you'll be amazed at how much we have in...

Join us as we talk with JoJo Shenanigans, a brat, spanko, kink-affirming therapist, and life coach.  She describes her spanko spark, and how she came into the spanko scene to explore her interests. 

She shares tips on handling how *YOUR* story (culture, religion, upbringing) impacts your spanking interests. JoJo shares how you can navigate and understand your kink, and process  your thoughts with a therapist in order to thrive. 

She encourages us to be kind to ourselves, give ourselves space to learn and deal with topics such as shame, overcoming views from upbring and religion. Let...

What do you need to do to take care of your butt as the spankee? Our returning "science correspondent," Ella, tells us all about her skin care tool kit. 

Some of us thought lotion was enough. Perhaps you are one of those who thought lotion was only needed post spanking? HA! Tune in to find out if you need lotion BEFORE a spanking! 

In this episode with Ella you'll learn about hydrating AND exfoliating acids, as well as when to use which.  

As always, this is our personal experience. When it comes to span...

Hi, I'm Lizzy and… am I a spankoholic? 

Eric and Lizzy  discuss labels and how they sometimes don't fit… and that's ok!

Lizzy shares her origin story, what it's like being married to a vanilla, and some fun stories of her adventures in the spanko world.

Some of you have asked for each of our individual stories. Lizzy was brave enough to be the first to jump in! Perhaps we'll continue and tell you how each of the other hosts have grown as well.

Everyone spankos differently. As Eric always quotes, "what's...

"The Hills Are Alive
With the Sound of Spanking… "

Wait, is that how the song goes?

This holiday classic film inspired Lizzy to come up with a spanking parody from a classic scene from this film… and it's not what you may expect!

Holiday classic? Really? What about The Sound of Music is holiday-related? Some of us feel it is, and it may surprise you as to why. 

As a holiday treat this year, we have another classic, old-fashioned radio play! So gather around by the fire, crank up you...