Spanko! Podcast

Coming to you from TASSP 2024, AssaultedPeanut and Nemo join us to discuss Co-Topping and Co-Bottoming in a spanking scene. Whether you have been in a Co-Topping or Co-Bottoming scene, or you hope to someday, this episode is one you won’t want to miss.

What does it mean to play with multiple Tops or multiple Bottoms in a scene? What challenges come up? What makes it so fun? Our guests, and our hosts, who have had this kind of experience share what their experiences have been like and why it’s fun to explore playing with more than...

If you’re anything like BigGirlSpanker and you enjoy the art of quality spanking implements, you may have wondered where you should store your items. 

Should I use a backpack (Eric has)?
Or a baseball bag (Eric does)?
Or a trash bag (hey, we all need to improvise at times)?
Or is there something better out there?

Wonder no more! 

Our friend, Matt and his company LuxxGear, have come to the rescue! He has invested and devoted himself to creating quality implement bags known as KinkBags. Join us for a tour...

Five years!? The Spanko! Podcast has been releasing episodes every other week for the past five years! Join us as we share memorable moments and memorable episodes. *emotional tear* Feel free to share some of yours in the comments below.

Our friends, fans, and patrons join us as we record this episode LIVE (kinda) and share some of their own experiences of joining the scene AND how our little podcast has helped them along their journeys. 

Did you ever write in the Spanko Secrets notebook??? This completely anonymous notebook has been traveling with us since 2022. J...

Have you experienced the thrill of a multi-day national… erm, international spanking party? Cause if you haven’t, TASSP is for you! 

Join our Spankoholics and our lovely TASSP Hostess, Princess Kelley May, and hear about some of our adventures at TASSP last year, and what we have to look forward to coming up June 12-15th, 2025.

Live out your school fantasy at the TASSP immersive school role play, where you’ll have to go to class and even do school work.

Perhaps you can beg your strict teacher for some stickers for being “...

So, your partner is a spanko.

We’ve talked to couples in the past who are in a relationship with a vanilla (or non-spanko) partner. Of course this can have its challenges for a spanko. But this time we hear from the non-spankos themselves! 

Join us as we get to know some of the struggles, pitfalls, and even the perks you can experience when being in a relationship with a spanko, even if you aren’t one yourself. TASSP 2024 provided an opportunity for non-spanko partners to gather together in support of one another, and they invit...

Are you ready for a week-long SPANKING Summer Camp adventure? 

In this episode we visit with Ryan from the Fox Haven Campground, an open and affirming place where all your explorations can become reality. 

Learn about CanSpanks Spanko Camp where you can have your spanking fantasies come true at a sauna, in or around the lake, in a school house, a glitter palace… basically wherever your heart desires! AND all the consensual pranks are allowed… even CONFETTI! 

This camp has vanilla activities, too, such as kayaking, swimming, and camping AND you get to enjoy n...

Ella and Listener return for Take 2 of our most listened to episode ever!  Join us as we interview them at TASSP for their take and experiences with Spanking & Crying. 

Learn about the five types of emotional crying: 

loss/separation

Grief  

Helplessness/powerlessness 

Physical pain/discomfort 

Empathetic crying 

Positive experience/moving situation 

Dacryphilia - What does it mean and are you one? 

Let’s ponder about what are your responsibilities as a spankee when getting spanked for a transgression?

Did you know Ariel Anderson is THEEE Amelia Jane Rutherford? Find out why she chose this specific last name. Oh, such a naughty reason! 

Like many of us Ariel was raised to feel ashamed, and also thought she needed to repress her spanking desires. However, she was fortunate to discover the wonderful world of bondage modeling and the adventures of spanking videos! How did she resolve this inner conflict?

She is a published author as well! But you’ll have to join us and listen to find out her book title as well as the boo...

Teachers, Principals, Fraternity & Sorority Hazing: What is it about school role plays that spankos find so fascinating? 

We sat down (some of us more comfortably than others) after doing many different school-themed role plays at GASP 2024 and talked with some of the participants (on both sides of the paddle) to find out! 

We discuss all aspects of the school events, from organization and planning, to playing the principal and the naughty sorority pledge. While, of course, we each have our own personal reasons for enjoying school-themed play, you’ll be amazed at how much we have...

Join us as we talk with JoJo Shenanigans, a brat, spanko, kink-affirming therapist, and life coach.  She describes her spanko spark, and how she came into the spanko scene to explore her interests. 

She shares tips on handling how *YOUR* story (culture, religion, upbringing) impacts your spanking interests. JoJo shares how you can navigate and understand your kink, and process  your thoughts with a therapist in order to thrive. 

She encourages us to be kind to ourselves, give ourselves space to learn and deal with topics such as shame, overcoming views from upbring and religion. Let’...

What do you need to do to take care of your butt as the spankee? Our returning “science correspondent,” Ella, tells us all about her skin care tool kit. 

Some of us thought lotion was enough. Perhaps you are one of those who thought lotion was only needed post spanking? HA! Tune in to find out if you need lotion BEFORE a spanking! 

In this episode with Ella you’ll learn about hydrating AND exfoliating acids, as well as when to use which.  

As always, this is our personal experience. When it comes to spankin...

Hi, I’m Lizzy and… am I a spankoholic? 

Eric and Lizzy  discuss labels and how they sometimes don’t fit… and that’s ok!

Lizzy shares her origin story, what it’s like being married to a vanilla, and some fun stories of her adventures in the spanko world.

Some of you have asked for each of our individual stories. Lizzy was brave enough to be the first to jump in! Perhaps we’ll continue and tell you how each of the other hosts have grown as well.

Everyone spankos differently. As...

"The Hills Are Alive
With the Sound of Spanking… "

Wait, is that how the song goes?

This holiday classic film inspired Lizzy to come up with a spanking parody from a classic scene from this film… and it’s not what you may expect!

Holiday classic? Really? What about The Sound of Music is holiday-related? Some of us feel it is, and it may surprise you as to why. 

As a holiday treat this year, we have another classic, old-fashioned radio play! So gather around by the fire, crank up...

All right, Spankos! GASP 2025 registration is here! It’s been here! So listen up to hear NotSoKnotty and Listener’s invite to join in Atlanta, GA on March 20-24th 2025. 

We’ve seen posts asking about the theme. I would say drumroll... However you’re just going to have to listen and find out. 

Are you ready to be included at GASP 2025? (Because did you know that you’re welcome, whether you’re trans, straight, and or even cisgendered? *GASP*)

They have:

blanket forts for Littles 

A principal's office for naughty stu...

Impact Play!? **Gasp!?** Some Spankos will cringe upon hearing spanking being referred to as “impact play.”

However, do you remember looking up “Spanking” in the dictionary? 

to strike especially on the buttocks with the open hand. 

We are literally having buttocks struck - causing impact - with either the hand or some sort of implement. 

“But it’s spanking! Stop ruining the sanctity of *my* fantasy.”

Join us as Mr. Ben shares with us his knowledge on what we as the Spanko- purist can learn from the BDSM community as far as communi...

Join our friend Emma Leigh as sits down with us at GASP and shares her spanking origin story:
Playing house, hiding her interest, converting vanilla partners, and ultimately her exploration in domestic discipline. Sound familiar? Don’t worry, this episode is anything but ordinary! 

Emma’s journey leads us down an adventurous rabbit hole of the early days of the internet, common pitfalls or entering the scene, some cringe moments, the importance of therapy, long-distance relationships, and many twists and advice learned along the way.

Have you ever fantasized about your perfect spanking relationship? Did i...

Miss Chris is back, and she answers some of your most burning… questions, and tells us of some of her more unique spanking styles:

Miss Chris uses her expertise to deliver some amazing and unique experiences.
She tells of some of these types of sessions (while, of course, maintaining professional boundaries) and she shares some of her own personal experiences as well.

And, as always, her unique words go beautifully with these unique experiences.  

W...

Trigger Warning: Religious upbringing, childhood spanking, non-consensual spanking 

As you see the list of Trigger Warnings we would like to provide the disclaimer that this episode does include discussions of an adult recalling their childhood spanking experience as well as their experience of being raised in a religious household which practiced child corporal punishment and a result - non-consensual spanking. These actions are not condoned by SpankoPodcast or any of its hosts.

Without further ado: 

Some of us can recall the exact moment we realized we were a spanko. Join us as...

An evening of Glitter and Glam, or an evening at a creepy carnival? Why not have both, and so much more! These are the themes for this year’s Lone Star Spanking Party

November 7-11, 2024

Join Sarah Gregory and Paul “Tubaman” Rogers as they tell us all about
everything we can expect at Lonestar 2024.
Brats, Littles, Breakfasts, Brunches, Male Events, Female Events, and so much more!

We hope to see you there!

But you’d better hurry, tickets are going fast and rooms are filling up!

CLICK HERE TO...

We had a great time at GASP 2024 and finally got to meet and interview Princess Kelley May - whom you might also know as Miss Kelley May. 

“We are all grown ass adults.” Find out how Princess Kelley May went through her spanko journey and discovered she did not need to break herself in order to keep being rescued or saved. 

Enjoy listening as this Princess shares her first spanking experience. She continues to share some of her experiences in the scene, and what led her to become a professional in the spanking world. 

Lear...

At the Lone Star Spanking party 2023 we met with Aria Lennox. She’s a performer, a model, a switch, and a wonderfully bubbly personality. She shares her experience with self-care as she returns from a spanking party hiatus. Join us as we discuss some of our favorite things about spanking parties and the importance of building spanking friendships. 

Learn about Aria’s favorite spanking scenes regardless if she is topping, bottoming, or making videos. She shares with us the power of self advocacy, staying positive, being kind, and setting boundaries to avoid negativity. 

She encourages us to...

Education is so important in Kink. Both SpankoPodcast and Princess Kelley May both feel strongly about promoting education in the spanking scene. 

Possibly the busiest woman we know, Princess Kelley May was able to sit down with us at GASP and was generous enough to share a few minutes of her time.

Join us as we discuss Spanking University, her YouTube Channel, her passion for education, and many other related topics that are important to us as spankos including: 

Consent 

Limits

Boundaries

Safewords

Self-Advocacy

...

We were lucky enough to sit down with model and professional switch Isabella Dollish at Lone Star, and wow, does she have a story to share! You won’t see some of these twists and turns coming, but Isabella shares it all with a calm demeanor and a beautiful smile!

Not only that, but her poise comes through with all of her wisdom and advice she shares while discussing some of the classes she offers, among other things she does to contribute to the community.

She has some wonderful advice about a whole host of to...

Swish… Crack… Do you love the sound of a cane? Our guest, Matilda Caesar, does. Get to know this professional spankee from London, England and some of her very favorite spanking things!

She regails us with tales of her adventures in the London spanking scene, some mansion roleplays, her origins as a professional, and how a photoshoot changed her life! 

This beautiful, life-long spanko opens up with us about some of her innermost thoughts, desires, and even some of the spanking fantasies she enjoys personally… and the importance of keeping some things just for yourself!

...

Join us on our road trip to GASP 2024! Recorded in the car on our way, we discuss everything we hope to experience at this brand new national spanking party! What are we most excited for? Is it better to go with a plan or to be spontaneous? 

Then, in the 2nd half, we’re back in the car reminiscing about our experiences on our way home. What were our favorite parts? Did our plans work out? And what are we most looking forward to happening again?

We had a blast and can’t wait for you t...

Meet Ehlane and Sir T, an adorable couple from Scandinavia. They join us to discuss their first American spanking party at Lone Star 2023. 

Listen as they recall some of their favorite activities at the party including British Discipline, the Workshops, the Female/female event, and judicial spankings. But more importantly, they recall how kind everyone was! The Lone Star Spanking Party made such an impact they will definitely be back next year! 

What is the spanking scene in Sweden like? We have some exclusive inside information to share! Just kidding, but they do tell us ab...

Just as your bottom gets worn out from a spanking, so can your implements.

We sat down with returning guest MotownCouple to discuss how we clean and care for our implements. 

Wood can expand and contract with the temperature and humidity, leather gets dried out with use. There are ways to keep your implements in good shape so they last. We discuss some basics, as well as some additional products to use to keep your implements in shape to play.

If you have additional tips, please let us know in the comments.

WOW can you believe it’s been 4 years?!?!?!?!?!?!?! Come celebrate with us!! 100 episodes and our 4-year anniversary!

Reminisce with us on some of our favorite episodes and interviews. Shout outs to some of the people who helped us on this journey. We’ve had so many adventures, and learned so much along the way! Never did we imagine we’d get to this milestone, and it’s all thanks to you! We had no idea the impact we would have on people in the community and your stories and encouragement keep us going. 

Want to know what...

“And all this science,
I don’t understand,
It’s just my job,
Five days a week…”

Rocket Man, Elton John & Bernie Taupin (1972)

What’s going on inside your head when it comes to spanking?

Like, on a scientific level.

Who would we even begin to ask about such a thing?

Well, we met someone in the community who happens to study neuroscience (among other sciences), and she was willing to let us pick her brain (pun intended) on this topic. 

You’ll...

The Texas All-State Spanking Party is Back
is in Dallas, Texas coming up on
June 6-9, 2024

Join Princess Kelley May, TASSP Host and YouTuber extraordinaire, as she tells us about everything we can expect at TASSP this year!

Brats

Littles

Multiple Male Events

GNC (gender non-conforming) and BIPOC (black, indigenous, and people of color) events

a Dark Party

an elven princess

and much, much more!

We hope to see you there!

How do you go from doing make-up, to three months later being a professional dominatrix attending a spanking party?

The thought blew our minds as well!! 

But when Miss Katherine stopped by our hotel room at Lone Star and said
“boy, do I have a story for you,” we just had to hear about it!

Join us as Miss Katherine and her protege, Miss Layla, share this fascinating journey with us!

How does Miss Layla like the BDSM community?
Is it too much for her?
What kind of activ...

While she may be firm, it’s for your own good!

Join us as we sit down with Miss Iceni, London’s Premier Disciplinarian! *gulp*
Actually, she was sweeter with us than she may be with you. But that’s the point!

Get to know a bit of Miss Iceni’s background, how she got into the spanking scene, how the COVID lockdown sparked her desire to take a new path in life, and so much more!

We’re honored to sit down for a casual conversation to share a side of her that her...

Sky and Eric were traveling home from a small house party and decided to record a discussion about the necessity of communicating while at parties. And yes, of course this all stemmed from Karina and some of her antics.

It can be difficult to ask for what you want, but it’s important to be able to use your words. And since people communicate differently at parties than they may at home, we’ll give you some personal examples as to why good communication is important.

Sky and Eric were traveling home from a small house party and decided to record a discussion about the necessity of communicating while at parties. And yes, of course this all stemmed from Karina and some of her antics.

It can be difficult to ask for what you want, but it’s important to be able to use your words. And since people communicate differently at parties than they may at home, we’ll give you some personal examples as to why good communication is important.

Warning:

This episode contains important safety information, but also references to physical assault, sexual assault, kidnapping, human trafficking, and the trafficking of children. 

If these topics are triggering for you, please join us in another episode.

A very special episode of SpankoPodcast:
How to identify Red Flags in the community and what to watch for.

This is a heavier episode of SpankoPodcast than our usual fare. As you know we put an emphasis on safety, and in discussing Red Flags and what to watch for, we couldn’t shy away fro...

Join us as we talk to the Lovely Lady Luxe: a woman of multiple outfits, and personas to match! Her personality sparkles like a diamond, and like a diamond she has many facets to explore.

She’s a Top: a gorgeous, sexy goddess who commands a space.
She’s a Bottom: a playful, bratty babygirl who enjoys a warm bottom.
She’s a sadist, a masochist, a middle, a little, a big, and a puppy-cat all in one.

Lady Luxe tells us of some of her adventures, the importance of self-advocacy, and a terrib...

Miss Shaylah, Sarah (from Canada), and Mr. Ben are back! This time we’re talk about communication: how to, when to, why to, and how to be sure you are staying within your bubble?…whatever that means. 

We dive into important topics like practicing your bratting skills, bratting within limits, knowing and enforcing your limits, the importance of knowing your Top’s limits and methods to communicate those subtly. This helps keep bratting fun for everyone, just as it should be!

Hmmmm I don’t think Mr. Ben ever dealt with that language from Sky… but there’s...

Shaylah, sorry, MISS Shaylah, is back and she brought some friends along to discuss Miss Shaylah’s Time-Out Service. 

Miss Shaylah briefly touched on offering this service on a previous episode, but we wanted to know more. Mr. Ben and Sarah (from Canada) have partaken in this special service, and they wanted to share their thoughts as well. 

Not only is this a very special and unique service offered by a wonderfully skilled member of our community, her patrons speak about the glowing results! We hear from both a Top (Mr. Ben) and a Bottom (Sara...

If you’ve never heard of Miss Bernadette, where have you been?

The world-renowned professional disciplinarian joins the Spanko! Podcast and she shares with us her spanko journey. 

Karina asks some privy questions, which Miss Bernadette gladly shares some personal answers just for you! 

Happy new year 2024! May your year be filled with as much fun as Miss Bernadette has! 

And, of course, thank you for all your support as we continue with our spanking adventures.

Imagine hanging around the botanical garden, drinking, 

and meeting not one, 

not two, 

but three Krampuses! 

Though we hear there are at least ten of them in our area!

The Spanko!Podcast women (and Eric) hung out with the vanillas and delighted in meeting Krampus at a local event.

Join us in this episode as we share our mischievous holiday adventure. 

…don’t worry, the vanillas cheer us on.