Wit & Wisdom with Tom Greene

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By: Tom Greene

Insightful and open-minded pieces conversations that help you see the world with greater clarity. The bi-weekly roadmap to a more intentional and fulfilling life.

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Heroes, Villans, Saints and Sinners
Yesterday at 8:54 PM

I've got good news for you. It's almost over. The incessant ads, the relentless text messaging and the non-stop news coverage of every candidate's latest move.  It's exhausting. So listen in and hear how we got to a point where we think half the country is evil for voting for the other team. And, how to move forward after it's all over. 


Guess Who's (Not) Coming to Dinner?
10/26/2026

According to a recent survey, we've abandoned one of the great American pastimes: entertaining. Up until 1975, 42% of Americans entertained in their home at least once a month. Today it's just 12%. What happened?  Listen to find out. 


Justice is not a Spectator Sport
10/18/2026

The last public execution in the US happened over 90 years ago. Recently The Pentagon announced the live-streaming of the firing squad execution of Nadal Hassan. Later The White House stepped in and stopped the livestream. Now the country is bitterly divided between those who want to watch and those who think watching is barbaric. Listen to find out why good people generations ago decided against inviting the public to watch executions of the condemned, regardless of the severity of the crime. 


Where Was the One Good Man?
10/11/2026

A young woman at Cornell University alleges that she was sexually assaulted by seven young men. There is plenty of booze involved and even some prescription Ketamine. A lot of bad decisions were made that night. I'm not interested in adjudicating the case. I'm interested in one thing: where was the one good man?


The Frictionless Life
10/04/2026


The Quiet Way of Wisdom
09/27/2026

With constant ringing, pinging and noise in our daily lives we often forget that the greatest opportunity to impart wisdom is to stop talking and start listening. The wisest souls that ever lived knew this but we've often confused wisdom with words. Perhaps we got it backwards. 


The Cost of Convenience
09/27/2026


Trusting as Little As Possible in the Future
09/19/2026

The famous quote "Carpe diem" we all translate to seize the day. But the more important part of that passage is "Carpe diem. Trusting as little as possible in tomorrow". See, back when people only lived about as long as a Labrador Retriever, it was important to seize the day. But, today, we seem to have lost sight that tomorrow is far more important than today.  Listen to find out why. 


The Inflation of Expectations
09/13/2026

Have you ever noticed that you never judge what you have against what you used to have?  You always judge what you have verses what everyone else seems to have. It's called the inflation of expectations. That is, our expectations seem to rise in direct correlation to how well everyone else is doing. And, suddenly, our picture perfect life doesn't seem so perfect anymore. 


Why So Many Older Men are Giving Up
09/06/2026

Men aged 75 and over have the highest suicide rate in the US.  It's not just retirement. It's a loss of identity and purpose. But, you can help. Learn the warning signs and phrases and how you can help. Might just save a life. 


The "Silver" Split
08/30/2026


Meaning, Structure and Belonging
08/24/2026

What if I had a secret formula that almost guaranteed that your children and grandchildren would get better grades, avoid drugs and pre-marital sex and prevent anxiety and depression. Wouldn't you want to know about it?  Listen to find out. 


The Quiet Disappearance of Conversation
08/16/2026

We are all communicating more. A lot more. But all this communication and technology is killing something off. We are speaking fewer words per day than ever. In fact, between 2005 and 2019 we lost 3,000 words....every day. And, it's only getting worse. Convenience has a habit of quietly replacing things we never intended to lose.  


What Do You Want to Want?
08/09/2026

We all know what we want: more money, better sex and six pack abs. But, it's much more instructive to understand "what you want to want". Because sometimes we simultaneously desire and reject the exact same thing.


The Paradox of Progress
08/02/2026

Would you believe me if I told you that the happiest young adults were in places like Tanzania, Nigeria and other remote parts of Africa?  It's true. And the rest of the kids on earth are struggling in clinically significant ways. You'll have to listen to find out why those kids in Africa have it all figured out. 


The Road Not Taken
07/26/2026

Most regret doesn’t come from making the wrong decision. It comes from simply making a decision.


Everything I Ever Needed to Know I Learned in Kindergarten
07/19/2026

From chocolate milk and classroom memories to the simple lessons of kindness, wonder, and slowing down, this heartfelt reflection explores why the values we learned as children may be the ones we need most today.


The Quiet Surrender
07/12/2026

Our birth rates are crashing all across the planet. And, at the same time, several companies are mass producing robots. So, how do these two things collide?  Listen to find out. 


What if the American Revolution Never Happened?
07/05/2026

As we celebrate our 250th anniversary as a country it's a good time to question what our lives would be like in the US if the revolution had never happened.


We Suffer More in Imagination Than in Reality
06/29/2026

Most of the things we worry about never come to pass. Or if they do, they're never as bad as we think. 


The Anatomy of Slow Moving Disasters
06/21/2026

I'm not gonna lie, there are enough things going on right now in the world to make me question if I was born in the final chapter of the human race.  But, then I'm reminded of Adam's Law of Slow Moving Disasters. It's saved us from certain demise hundreds of times. Tune if to find out why you worry too much....and I do too. 


Familiarity Breeds Indifference
06/15/2026

For a brief moment in the summer of 2026 we have a brief moment to see America clearly. The scale, ambition, the abundance, the contradictions and the optimism as viewed through the eyes of a foreigner. Let's hope we may never be the same. 


Some Things We Have to Learn the Hard Way
06/08/2026

There are certain lessons that no matter how many times you are told....you simply have to learn them the hard way. It's a part of growing up...and maybe growing old. Eventually you get punched in the throat by life and everything suddenly becomes clear.


The Fingerprint of Grief
05/31/2026

Grief is almost uniquely human. Few animals grief like we do. No other emotion brings out the best and the worst in people. But grief leaves a fingerprint. An identity long after the person we love is gone. And the only way to move forward is to remind yourself that grief is living proof that we've loved and lost. It's a gift unlike any other and one we do not deserve. 


Never Give Up; Never, Ever Give Up
05/18/2026

Sometimes the worst moment of your life is the turning point of your life. Because, let's face it, you are not the best judge of what your life will become. 


The Great Sexual Divide
05/11/2026

Something odd is happening. A divergence between the sexes. It's happening around the world. Men and women are growing further and further apart from one another. And, it's impacting dating, sex, marriage and the number of children being born. So when did this happen and, more importantly, why?  You'll have to listen to find out. 


The World's Most Interesting Man
05/01/2026

We all wonder how our days will come to an end. What will we be on our minds as the days grow very short. Ben Sasse knows.  He's dying of pancreatic cancer and is already living on borrowed time. But in his last days on earth he's taking the time to teach us how to live and die with dignity and grace. 


Nobody Cares
04/25/2026

We all live like we are being watched. Like there's some kind of great digital scoreboard in the sky watching our every move. But, as we age hopefully we realize that nobody is paying any attention to us because they are too busy paying attention to themselves. 


Five Timeless Pieces of Advice from 300 BC
04/20/2026

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Stoicism is having a moment. Again. Like a philosophical cockroach, it refuses to die—probably because it’s built for resilience.

Stoicism is a philosophy that...


What a Remarkable Time To Be Alive
04/13/2026

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Despite all the noise and bad news, this is an insane and remarkable time to be alive.

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What an Insane and Remarkable Time to Be Alive
04/12/2026

If you listen to enough of the talking heads on television, you might convince yourself that the world is going to hell in a hand basket. Well, let me be the first to throw cold water on that. Because right now just might be the most remarkable time to be alive. But, it's also the most insane. 


Why Your Dog Might Be Smarter Than You
04/06/2026

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There are two kinds of people in this world: people who love dogs and people I don’t understand. See, dogs are truly one of...


Why Your Dog Might Be Smarter Than You
04/06/2026

We spend most of our lives feeling guilty about enjoying life. We try not to enjoy anything too much: food, sun, sex, etc.?  Maybe the best example of how to enjoy life comes from our dogs?  What if we all sought to live, love, eat and forgive like a dog. The world would be a much better place, right? 


The Quiet Crisis Facing Young Men Today
03/30/2026

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We pushed this generation hard. Relentlessly hard. The script was clear: work hard, get good grades, stay out of trouble, go to a good college, and “all your wildest dreams will co...


The Quiet Crisis Facing Young Men
03/30/2026

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We pushed this generation hard. Relentlessly hard. The script was clear: work hard, get good grades, stay out of trouble, go to a good college, and “all your wildest dreams will co...


The Quiet Crisis Facing Young Men
03/29/2026

Young men are seemingly failing to launch. Spending time gambling on line, watching porn and failing to get out from underneath their parent's protection. Is this a lack of motivation?  Is it a laziness?  I don't think so. I think it's something totally different but you'll have to listen to find out. 


Six Shocking Secrets of Success
03/23/2026

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Anxiety in America is at an all-time high right now. It’s the time of year that US high school seniors are learning where they will (or...


Six Surprising Secrets of Success
03/23/2026

All across the US, anxious high school students are watching their emails and busily refreshing their browsers waiting to hear about college acceptances.  It's that time in life where seemingly everything is dependent on a few strangers making a decision in your favor. But what if all of that angst is overblown? What if getting into the right school and getting great grades really isn't the key to success?  Could all this angst be a waste of time? Listen to find out. 


[Email] A Journey of Survival and Resilience
03/16/2026

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In 1982, Harvard biologist E.O. Wilson famously said, “We are drowning in information, while starving for wisdom”.

If Wilson was alive today he would laugh at h...


The Age of Impatience
03/16/2026

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Wisdom used to be something we expected to grow into, something that was earned through years of trial and error—years of co...