Vanessa Van Edwards
I will teach you how to communicate with confidence. I share science-backed, practical strategies to help you thrive in business, life, and love. Even if you're an introvert!I'm Vanessa Van Edwards, bestselling author of Captivate and Cues. My brand-new book, Conversation, comes out October 6th 📗 I also teach a course at Harvard University and have taught millions of students how to be more memorable and get the recognition they deserve in my online courses. My goal is to help you level up your people skills.Want advanced communication tips? Join ambitious professionals in People School, our advanced online communication cou...
How to Avoid Embarrassing Yourself in Awkward Social Situations
Do you know how to avoid embarrassing yourself in social situations? Are you socially awkward? It seems I am a magnet for any and all kinds of awkward social situations. In this video, I will show you how to be less socially awkward and stop being embarrassed. Overcoming awkwardness requires a lot of mental effort. So much so that I decided to create a post on all of the social traps and how you can avoid them.
Want more on details on how to not be awkward in social situations?
https://www.scienceofpeople.com/socially-awkward/
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Sound as smart as you are! Conversation Mastery (Free Preview)
I want you to sound as smart as you are! Whether you’re looking to improve your public speaking skills, make a great impression on a first date, or simply want to feel more confident when talking to others, this course is for you!
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Hi, I’m Vanessa!
You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards, and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m al...
How to Know if Someone is Attracted to You
Increase your attentiveness and know if someone is attracted to you!
In this video, I talk all about the body language and nonverbal cues the people typically send out when they are attracted to someone. I talk some science, and how to read the body language and know for sure if someone is attracted to you without having to ask!
Want more details on the signs of attraction?
👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/body-language-attraction/
In this video:
00:00 Non-verbal communication and attraction
00:57 Head Tilt
01:42 Subrasternal Notch
02:14 Chin down, look up, bat e...
I Asked AI to Style Me…The Results Were Shocking.
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The Likability Formula
Use this likability formula using 3 science-backed strategies to get people to like you today.
In this video, I am going to teach you how you can authentically get someone to like you. To be instantly likable, capitalizing on mutual likes and similarities is key!
In this video:
0:00 Intro
0:26 Storytime
1:29 The similarity attraction effect
2:48 Step #1: Search for similarities
3:09 Step #2: Capitalize on similarities
3:54 Step #3: Extend similarities
4:49 Final thoughts
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How to speak more slowly using these 5 simple tricks
Do you struggle with speaking too quickly? Do you find yourself stumbling over your words or struggling to articulate your thoughts clearly? If so, you're not alone! In this video, we'll teach you five simple tricks to help you slow down your speech and communicate more effectively. From taking deep breaths to using pauses for emphasis, these tips are easy to implement and can make a big difference in how you come across to others. So whether you're giving a presentation at work, having a conversation with a friend, or just want to improve your communication skills, this video...
The 6 Most Common Mispronounced words: Sound Smart by fixing these
We've all been there, mispronouncing words without even realizing it, but don't worry, I'm here to help you sound more confident and knowledgeable.
Whether you're a native English speaker or learning English as a second language, this video will help you improve your pronunciation. So, be sure to watch until the end and let us know in the comments if there are any other commonly mispronounced words that you'd like to add to the list! Don't forget to like and subscribe for more language tips and tricks.
Read more about commonly mispronounced words here! https...
How to Answer Fun Facts About Me in a Clever Way
We all know how nerve-wracking it can be when someone asks us to share something interesting or unique about ourselves, especially when put on the spot. But fear not! With these tips, you'll be able to impress your friends, family, and even potential employers with your witty and charming responses.
So, whether you're prepping for a job interview, getting to know new friends, or just want to be ready for those unexpected icebreaker questions, this video is for you. With our help, you'll never be caught off guard again when asked to share a fun fact about...
How to Start an Awesome Club
You know awesome people want to do awesome things, so it's time for you to create your own awesome Club. In this video, I want to talk to you about leveraging the power of teams. I was told over and over again, network all the time and meet as many people as you possibly can. Learn how to start your very own Awesome Club!
Have you ever wanted to start a mastermind group?
https://www.scienceofpeople.com/mastermind/
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Hi, I’m Vanessa!
You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you wa...
Summit of Greatness
I love writing books, but being on stage is one of the best ways to teach people. It was such an incredible honor to speak at the Summit Of Greatness with @lewishowes. What a whirlwind! Thank you for being so kind, so supportive and so wonderful. #ILikeYou ❤️
I would love to come speak at your event or organization. Check our speaking page! https://www.scienceofpeople.com/speaking/
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How to Be Successful in Life with these 6 Steps
Learn the 6 secrets to success to change your life and become the best, most successful, version of yourself.
In this video, I will teach you 6 science-backed tips that will help you become successful, by changing your mindset and using your body language.
Want more details on being successful?
👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/10-ways-to-hack-success/
In this video:
0:00 Intro
0:22 Do I need to have a high IQ to be successful?
1:10 What is the 10,000-hour mark?
2:00 PQ & EQ - Reading people
3:13 Succeed at failure
4:10 Mentorship
4:57 The power of bod...
Deep Conversational Ice breakers
Let’s dive deeper than the usual small talk! 🗣️ Discover meaningful connections and ignite engaging conversations with our favorite deep conversational icebreakers.
Want even more?
Check out this article: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/deep-questions/
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Hi, I’m Vanessa!
You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards, and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/), Cues: Master the Secret La...
How to Find your Calling
Do you know your calling? Have you ever been asked what's your passion and just felt totally lost on how to even begin to answer it? If you are at a total loss, you are not alone. I want to help you find your calling, your purpose, what you were born to do. Everybody grab a pen and paper as we play "What's Your Calling."
We also created some extra steps and challenges to get you started on the right path:
https://www.scienceofpeople.com/how-to-find-your-calling/
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Best Dating Icebreakers to Spark Instant Chemistry
Breaking the ice has never been easier with these dating icebreakers! 💕❄️ Check out my favorite ones in this video and start making meaningful connections today! #datingtips #icebreakers
Read more here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/icebreakers-for-dating/
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Hi, I’m Vanessa!
You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards, and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/), Cues: Master the Secret La...
Awkward Person + Mom of 2 - My REAL Get Ready Routine and Social Pep Talk
Want to know how I pep myself up before socializing? This is my real...very real get ready routine. Whether you’re getting ready for work, school, or just a day out, it’s important to feel confident and positive in your own skin. I am excited to share my routine and show you some of my favorite techniques for getting ready. But more importantly, I’ll be sharing the mindset tricks I use to help me feel focused, calm, and ready to take on the day ahead. #grwm #momlife #momoftwo
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5 Questions Every Couple Should Ask
In any relationship, we fall into the same discussions over and over again like what are we having for dinner and what's the weekend plan and so on. I want to talk about how do you leave that sort of questions you talk about all the time and get to deeper levels of intimacy. Dig deeper into your relationship and you will find some deep questions to ask a girl or your boyfriend. Watch the video and learn the five questions every couple should ask.
Want more details on the 36 questions to ask to know your partner...
How to Answer Questions You Hate Getting and Be More Charismatic
Have you ever found yourself struggling to answer a question that you didn't want to? Maybe it was in a job interview, at a party, or just in a casual conversation. We've all been there.
That's why we want to share some helpful tips on how to handle these tricky questions with more confidence and charisma. I want to share the tools you need to tackle those uncomfortable questions with ease.
Read more here! https://www.scienceofpeople.com/how-to-answer-questions-you-hate/
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Hi, I’m Vanessa!
You deserve more. More influence, more income, mo...
Communicating Across Generations
Each generation communicates a little bit differently. There is no one perfect way to communicate across generations. What separates generation Z, millennials, generation X and boomers a thing? In this video, you will learn helpful ways to communicate better with others from different generations.
Want more details on how to communicate with anyone?
https://www.scienceofpeople.com/communication-generations/
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People School is a 12 step video based training program designed to in...
What's your greatest weakness? How to EXPERTLY Answer this Question
In job interviews, the question "What's your greatest weakness?" can be a tricky one to answer. It's a common question that employers use to evaluate a candidate's self-awareness, honesty, and ability to learn and improve.
But don't worry, with the right preparation and approach, you can expertly answer this question and impress your interviewer. In this video, we'll walk you through step-by-step on how to identify your weaknesses, frame them in a positive light, and show how you're working to overcome them.
We'll cover common mistakes to avoid, including using cliché answers like "I'm a p...
How to Talk to Anyone with Ease and Confidence
You can make dazzling conversation with anyone, and I am going to tell you how! Using a few conversation tricks and nonverbal tips, you'll be able to add to your communication repertoire and have wonderful conversations as well as memorable first impressions.
There's a science behind having a good conversation and these are great first steps to amazing conversation, but if you need help with conversation starter topics visit: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/conversation-starters-topics/
Those are sure to spark interesting, deep, and unforgettable conversation with anyone you interact with! 😊
In this video:
00:00 Intro to...
Conversation Starters for Managers to Bond and Use in One on One Meetings
As a manager, one-on-one meetings with your team members are an essential part of building strong relationships and fostering a positive work culture. However, it's not always easy to come up with conversation topics that are both productive and engaging. That's why we've put together a list of conversation starters for managers to bond and use in one-on-one meetings.
In this video, we'll cover a variety of topics that can help you connect with your team members on a personal level, including their hobbies and interests, career goals, and feedback on their current role. We'll also provide...
How to Be Happier
Learn how to be happy in life and how to find happiness within yourself. Stop waiting for happiness and wake up excited with these easy-to-implement happiness steps. The power of happiness comes from yourself.
In this video, you will find some tips on how to be happier and I am going to teach you how you can control and influence your happiness with your behavior, mindset, and day-to-day activities.
Want more details on the science of happiness and our power of happiness course?
👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/courses/happiness/
In this video:
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Step Out of Your Comfort Zone with these Unique Ideas
Ready to break free from your comfort zone? Here are 50 unique ideas to explore, from easy to challenging! Stepping out of your comfort zone is the key to growth and fresh opportunities. I challenge you to take on at LEAST three of these suggestions and spill the beans in the comments! 💪😊 #comfortzonechallenge
Read more about breaking out of your comfort zone here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/comfort-zone/
In this video:
0:13 - Leaving the Comfort Zone
0:19 - The Fear Zone
0:35 - The Learning Zone
1:04 - Ideas to Step Out of Your Comfort Zone
The Look of Power: An Excerpt from Cues Analyzing Nixon vs. Kennedy
I got permission to share one of my favorite excerpts from my Cues Audiobook. Learn how simple nonverbal cues changed the course of history and can help you look more powerful.
Listen to how Richard Nixon's 1960 presidential debate nonverbal cues rewrote political fate! 🎙️ Explore the captivating tale of Nixon's fateful gestures, from posture to expressions, that reshaped an election. Discover how Kennedy's composed cues spoke volumes of confidence. 🤝
Join us as we unravel the untold impact of nonverbal cues on power and perception. 🕵️♂️🔍 #CuesBook #Audiogram
This is from our latest bestselling book: Cues Master the Secret Lang...
The Science of Soulmates
How many Americans do you think believe in the concept of soulmates? Which part of the percentage do you stand in?
In this video, I talk about the science of soulmates and the difference between destiny believers vs. growth believers in romantic relationships. Whether you believe in the idea of soulmates or not, the concept can really affect your mindset when searching for a partner, what the longevity of a relationship looks like for you, and success rate.
Want more details on the science of soulmates?
👉https://www.scienceofpeople.com/soulmate/
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What Type of Laugh Do You Have?
You'll have to tell me what type of laugh you have from these 12. If i'm laughing really hard, I have the chortle 😂 are there more types of laughs? I hope that you laugh just from watching this video!
In this video:
0:00 - Intro
0:55 - Laugh #1
1:06 - Laugh #2
1:15 - Laugh #3
1:27 - Laugh #4
1:42 - Laugh #5
1:59 - Laugh #6
2:11 - Laugh #7
2:30 - Laugh #8
2:53 - Laugh #8
3:00 - Laugh #10
3:20 - Laugh #11
3:38 - Laugh #12
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A Formula for Introducing Yourself Perfectly Every Time
Do you know how to introduce yourself so people want to get to know you? Learn the essential formula for introducing yourself with confidence and charisma. Perfect for beginners and pros alike, we've got some awesome tips to help you make those introductions unforgettable.
Read more about how to introduce yourself: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/introduce-yourself/
Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
0:20 - Nonverbal Introductions
1:01 - Handshakes and Greetings
1:33 - Visible Hand for Greeting
1:50 - Angling Towards the Person
2:27 - Avoid Rushing Through Your Name
3:18 - Using Positive Words
3:51...
How to Be Instantly Irresistible
Did you know that making a good impression happens in just 7 seconds? How can we make those first 7 seconds count?
We studied and coded hundreds of hours of Ted Talks based on charisma, credibility, and intelligence and we found a few different patterns that I want to share. And guess what? Most of these aren't even verbal! We found that nonverbal cues matter a lot more than verbal cues.
I want to give you the body language hacks that we've studied to be successful so that you can use them to be unforgettable, likable, and...
Discover Your Core Values
Get ready to dive into the world of core values! We're talking about those fundamental beliefs that make you who you are and drive your daily choices.
I'll present you with a list of the top 50 core values, and together, we'll whittle it down to your top five. Buckle up because knowing your core values isn't just fun, it's a game-changer. It'll help you make better decisions and give you a sneak peek into what makes the people in your life tick. Let's get started! 🚀
Read more here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/core-values/
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7 Powerful Hand Gestures You Should Be Using
Research has shown that hand gestures make anyone more trustworthy, likable and charismatic.
In this video, I'm going to teach you what hand gestures you should be using on a daily basis. Hand gestures support memorability, trustworthiness, and clarity. These powerful hand gestures can be used in normal social interactions, networking events, or presentations and can leave a great lasting impression!
For some people, hand gestures come naturally, but others must practice. For example, in this video I mention how politicians have to learn how to point in a non-aggressive way. Practice with a friend...
How to Eliminate Toxic People and Build Your Inner Circle
🎥 Join me as I reveal the biggest mistake we make when setting goals. Learn how to eliminate toxic people and strategically build your inner circle. 🔄 Ready to take control of your goals? Watch now and join my free goal-setting class on 12/29 for extra guidance and support! 🚀✨
Register here! www.scienceofpeople.com/2024goals
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Hi, I’m Vanessa!
You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards, and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling autho...
The SECRET to getting along with EVERYONE
Are you a good people person? Do you always know what to say and who to say it to? People skills did not come naturally. Can you learn how to be charismatic? Learning how to develop charismatic personality will help you to influence people around you. In this video, I’ll tell you a story about what I’ve learned about being charismatic.
Want more details on charisma?
👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/charisma/
In this video:
0:00 Intro
0:35 The secret to getting along with anyone
1:35 No one is boring
1:59 Final thoughts
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The 7 Types of Toxic People
Do you feel drained from a person in your life? A parent, a friend, a significant other? In this video, I talk about the traits of 7 types of toxic people, how to spot them, and how to deal.
We all deserve to have supportive people in our lives that we enjoying seeing and LOVE to hang out with, so my hope is that from this video you can spot the toxicity from a mile away and stop it dead in its tracks.
Want more details on toxic people and how to avoid them?
 👉 https://www.s...
How to stop your nervous laughs
Nervous laughter can come during the worst time and can create a VERY awkward moment... As a recovering nervous laugher, I am sharing my tips on how to prevent these awkward moments!
Learn more about nervous laughter with our Science of People guide: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/nervous-laughter/
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In this video:
0:10 What is nervous laughter?
0:33 The 3 causes of nervous laughter
1:00 The problem with nervous laughing
1:10 The 3 tactics you can use to stop...
Post Traumatic Growth
Have you or a loved one been through a difficult experience? Sometimes things happen in life that we just can't control. Sometimes they are good things, but sometimes they are bad things. Failures, challenges, and mistakes happen to the best of us today. I want to introduce you to a completely new way of thinking about the bad things that happen to us, specifically this is a concept called post-traumatic growth.
Want more details on how to get post-traumatic growth?
https://www.scienceofpeople.com/post-traumatic-growth/
00:00 intro
01:03 Post-Traumatic Growth
01:53 Growth Areas
02:50 How...
Tips for Being Charismatic on Video
If you've recently been searching for a new job, you've probably noticed that video interviews are getting more and more popular. Have a Skype interview coming up? Do you want to know how to prepare for a video interview and how to build a quick connection when you're communicating through a screen? Here are the 5 steps to an awesome video chat.
Find out more at http://ScienceofPeople.com
In this video:
00:00 Intro
00:41 Prep Your Set
01:49 Dress to Impress
02:34 Digital First Impression
02:50 Virtual Body Language
03:43 End on a High<...
My Favorite Text Conversation Starters
Whether you're chatting with your best friend, crush, group chat, or family, these conversation starters will spark engaging discussions. From opinion-based questions and gossip teasers to deep and thought-provoking queries, there's something for everyone.
Read more: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/text-conversation-starters/
Learn more about conversation mastery: scienceofpeople.com/cm
In this video:
0:45 - Opinion-based questions
1:00 - Plans for the weekend
1:13 - Random check-in
1:26 - Teasing with drama
1:44 - Choosing a meal
2:01 - Food preferences
2:15 - Deeper questions
3:22 - Professional check-in
4:07 - Checking in on...
The Science of the Perfect Handshake
Did you know that a poor handshake can kill your first impression?
It is so important when we're making that first impression because a lot of how we judge someone's personality is based on their handshake.
Knowing how to shake hands with someone is very important in the professional and personal world. Watch this video to know how to give a perfect handshake.
Want more on how to give a great handshake?
https://www.scienceofpeople.com/handshake/
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Box Breathing: How to Calm Your Nerves
Unlock the secret weapon of Navy Seals - Box Breathing! Learn the simple yet powerful 4-step process of inhaling, holding, exhaling, and holding again, each for four seconds. This technique is scientifically proven to be one of the quickest ways to bring tranquility to your mind and body.
Read more here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/box-breathing/
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In this video:
0:13 - Box Breathing Te...
How to Snap Out of a Funk
Stop feeling depressed with these helpful, mood-lifting, and engaging tips! There are a lot of ways to stop being depressed or even prevent depression from happening. In this video, I am going to teach you about the hormones that make us feel moody and off-center and how to control them in order to snap out of your funk.
Want more on the power of emotion and body language?
👉https://www.scienceofpeople.com/get-out-funk-depressed/
Are you depressed and need help?
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00:00 Intro
00:43 More Seratonin
01:42 Dopamine
02...