Vanessa Van Edwards
I will teach you how to communicate with confidence. I share science-backed, practical strategies to help you thrive in business, life, and love. Even if you're an introvert!I'm Vanessa Van Edwards, bestselling author of Captivate and Cues. My brand-new book, Conversation, comes out October 6th 📗 I also teach a course at Harvard University and have taught millions of students how to be more memorable and get the recognition they deserve in my online courses. My goal is to help you level up your people skills.Want advanced communication tips? Join ambitious professionals in People School, our advanced online communication cou...
Cues: My Why
Cues has been 17 years in the making and I wanted to share my why story.
As a recovering awkward person myself, I made it my mission to study what makes people tick. In building my social skills, I noticed that highly charismatic people had similar social cues within their verbal, nonverbal, vocal, and imagery cues. I thought charisma was innate! But I know that charisma can be learned and I'm excited to share the science with you.
Preorder your copy of Cues today and master the secret language of charismatic communication: https://www.scienceofpeople.com...
How to Answer Questions You Hate Getting and Be More Charismatic
Have you ever found yourself struggling to answer a question that you didn't want to? Maybe it was in a job interview, at a party, or just in a casual conversation. We've all been there.
That's why we want to share some helpful tips on how to handle these tricky questions with more confidence and charisma. I want to share the tools you need to tackle those uncomfortable questions with ease.
Read more here! https://www.scienceofpeople.com/how-to-answer-questions-you-hate/
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Hi, I’m Vanessa!
You deserve more. More influence, more income, mo...
Deal with a Micromanager (and learn their secret fear)
Sick of the never-ending micromanagement at work? 🕒💼 Discover essential strategies for coping with them. Find out the reasons behind why micromanagers do what they do and how their fears shape their actions.
I want to teach you the practical ways to communicate effectively with your manager and establish a management approach that matches your work style. Building trust and sparking meaningful conversations can help you break free from the micromanagement trap. Take these steps to create a more positive work environment and nurture a productive and self-reliant mindset.
Read more here: www.scienceofpeople.com/micromanager/
How to Keep Learning New Things Every Day
How can you ensure you're always learning new things? Try making a learning bucket list. You already have a bucket list for lots of other things in your life, why not make one for new skills you'd like to learn, or new topics you don't know something about? I hear people say I'm too old to learn. You're never too old and actually learning is one of the greatest resets I think that we have that we don't use enough.
Want more details on how to make a learning bucket list?
https://www.scienceofpeople.com/make-learning-bucket-list/<...
Communicating Across Generations
Each generation communicates a little bit differently. There is no one perfect way to communicate across generations. What separates generation Z, millennials, generation X and boomers a thing? In this video, you will learn helpful ways to communicate better with others from different generations.
Want more details on how to communicate with anyone?
https://www.scienceofpeople.com/communication-generations/
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What's your greatest weakness? How to EXPERTLY Answer this Question
In job interviews, the question "What's your greatest weakness?" can be a tricky one to answer. It's a common question that employers use to evaluate a candidate's self-awareness, honesty, and ability to learn and improve.
But don't worry, with the right preparation and approach, you can expertly answer this question and impress your interviewer. In this video, we'll walk you through step-by-step on how to identify your weaknesses, frame them in a positive light, and show how you're working to overcome them.
We'll cover common mistakes to avoid, including using cliché answers like "I'm a p...
How to Talk to Anyone with Ease and Confidence
You can make dazzling conversation with anyone, and I am going to tell you how! Using a few conversation tricks and nonverbal tips, you'll be able to add to your communication repertoire and have wonderful conversations as well as memorable first impressions.
There's a science behind having a good conversation and these are great first steps to amazing conversation, but if you need help with conversation starter topics visit: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/conversation-starters-topics/
Those are sure to spark interesting, deep, and unforgettable conversation with anyone you interact with! 😊
In this video:
00:00 Intro to...
Fix Resting Bothered Face [RBF] with these simple tweaks
Stop your resting bothered face and start being more approachable and likable.
In this video, I will teach you how to combat resting bothered face, so you can appear more friendly and charming.
In this video:
0:00 Intro
0:35 The science of RBF
1:40 Why do I have a RBF?
2:48 Tips to stop your RBF
3:34 Final thoughts
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Conversation Starters for Managers to Bond and Use in One on One Meetings
As a manager, one-on-one meetings with your team members are an essential part of building strong relationships and fostering a positive work culture. However, it's not always easy to come up with conversation topics that are both productive and engaging. That's why we've put together a list of conversation starters for managers to bond and use in one-on-one meetings.
In this video, we'll cover a variety of topics that can help you connect with your team members on a personal level, including their hobbies and interests, career goals, and feedback on their current role. We'll also provide...
How to Be Happier
Learn how to be happy in life and how to find happiness within yourself. Stop waiting for happiness and wake up excited with these easy-to-implement happiness steps. The power of happiness comes from yourself.
In this video, you will find some tips on how to be happier and I am going to teach you how you can control and influence your happiness with your behavior, mindset, and day-to-day activities.
Want more details on the science of happiness and our power of happiness course?
👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/courses/happiness/
In this video:
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Step Out of Your Comfort Zone with these Unique Ideas
Ready to break free from your comfort zone? Here are 50 unique ideas to explore, from easy to challenging! Stepping out of your comfort zone is the key to growth and fresh opportunities. I challenge you to take on at LEAST three of these suggestions and spill the beans in the comments! 💪😊 #comfortzonechallenge
Read more about breaking out of your comfort zone here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/comfort-zone/
In this video:
0:13 - Leaving the Comfort Zone
0:19 - The Fear Zone
0:35 - The Learning Zone
1:04 - Ideas to Step Out of Your Comfort Zone
The Look of Power: An Excerpt from Cues Analyzing Nixon vs. Kennedy
I got permission to share one of my favorite excerpts from my Cues Audiobook. Learn how simple nonverbal cues changed the course of history and can help you look more powerful.
Listen to how Richard Nixon's 1960 presidential debate nonverbal cues rewrote political fate! 🎙️ Explore the captivating tale of Nixon's fateful gestures, from posture to expressions, that reshaped an election. Discover how Kennedy's composed cues spoke volumes of confidence. 🤝
Join us as we unravel the untold impact of nonverbal cues on power and perception. 🕵️♂️🔍 #CuesBook #Audiogram
This is from our latest bestselling book: Cues Master the Secret Lang...
The Science of Soulmates
How many Americans do you think believe in the concept of soulmates? Which part of the percentage do you stand in?
In this video, I talk about the science of soulmates and the difference between destiny believers vs. growth believers in romantic relationships. Whether you believe in the idea of soulmates or not, the concept can really affect your mindset when searching for a partner, what the longevity of a relationship looks like for you, and success rate.
Want more details on the science of soulmates?
👉https://www.scienceofpeople.com/soulmate/
Succeed with...
The Ultimate Guide to Creating Your Bucket List
Do you have a bucket list? This is a list of wishes and desires you want to accomplish in your life. They can range from small like learning how to sew to huge like visiting every country in the world. Are you living the life you want to live? Do you have things on your bucket list that you want to accomplish before a certain milestone?
Having a bucket list will help you stay on track with your personal goals.
I think everyone should have a Bucket List or a “To Experience” list. Here’s why:
What Type of Laugh Do You Have?
You'll have to tell me what type of laugh you have from these 12. If i'm laughing really hard, I have the chortle 😂 are there more types of laughs? I hope that you laugh just from watching this video!
In this video:
0:00 - Intro
0:55 - Laugh #1
1:06 - Laugh #2
1:15 - Laugh #3
1:27 - Laugh #4
1:42 - Laugh #5
1:59 - Laugh #6
2:11 - Laugh #7
2:30 - Laugh #8
2:53 - Laugh #8
3:00 - Laugh #10
3:20 - Laugh #11
3:38 - Laugh #12
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7 Cues to Instantly Be More Likable: Morgan Freeman
Morgan Freeman is extremely likable, do you know why? He's charming, he's charismatic, he's funny, and most of all his voice is impeccable.
I've studied Morgan Freeman and a ton of media to decode his verbal and nonverbal cues and in this video, I break them down and teach you how you can be as likable as Morgan Freeman.
In this video:
0:00 Intro
0:46 Cue #1
3:49 Cue #2
9:03 Cue #3
11:11 Cue #4
13:09 Cue #5
16:16 Cue #6
18:07 Cue #7
21:36 You are likable
Captivate a room and succeed with people with my book Captivate...
A Formula for Introducing Yourself Perfectly Every Time
Do you know how to introduce yourself so people want to get to know you? Learn the essential formula for introducing yourself with confidence and charisma. Perfect for beginners and pros alike, we've got some awesome tips to help you make those introductions unforgettable.
Read more about how to introduce yourself: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/introduce-yourself/
Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
0:20 - Nonverbal Introductions
1:01 - Handshakes and Greetings
1:33 - Visible Hand for Greeting
1:50 - Angling Towards the Person
2:27 - Avoid Rushing Through Your Name
3:18 - Using Positive Words
3:51...
Science-Based Party Tips and Tricks
Learn how to have an awesome party using our simple party tips. When it comes to going to parties and meeting new people, sometimes it’s the little things that can be the most awkward and nerve-wracking. I met with Tra’Renee Chambers to talk about two simple greetings that often cause people to fumble. If you want to start your interactions off on a positive note, watch this video.
Want more details on how to throw an awesome party?
https://www.scienceofpeople.com/throw-a-party/
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How to Be Instantly Irresistible
Did you know that making a good impression happens in just 7 seconds? How can we make those first 7 seconds count?
We studied and coded hundreds of hours of Ted Talks based on charisma, credibility, and intelligence and we found a few different patterns that I want to share. And guess what? Most of these aren't even verbal! We found that nonverbal cues matter a lot more than verbal cues.
I want to give you the body language hacks that we've studied to be successful so that you can use them to be unforgettable, likable, and...
Discover Your Core Values
Get ready to dive into the world of core values! We're talking about those fundamental beliefs that make you who you are and drive your daily choices.
I'll present you with a list of the top 50 core values, and together, we'll whittle it down to your top five. Buckle up because knowing your core values isn't just fun, it's a game-changer. It'll help you make better decisions and give you a sneak peek into what makes the people in your life tick. Let's get started! 🚀
Read more here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/core-values/
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7 Powerful Hand Gestures You Should Be Using
Research has shown that hand gestures make anyone more trustworthy, likable and charismatic.
In this video, I'm going to teach you what hand gestures you should be using on a daily basis. Hand gestures support memorability, trustworthiness, and clarity. These powerful hand gestures can be used in normal social interactions, networking events, or presentations and can leave a great lasting impression!
For some people, hand gestures come naturally, but others must practice. For example, in this video I mention how politicians have to learn how to point in a non-aggressive way. Practice with a friend...
What to Say When Someone Compliments You ... and keep it non-awkward
Getting compliments isn't always as pleasant as it might seem. When someone gives me a compliment, I kind of cringe and hope the awkward moment is over, but I've found some cool and different ways to respond to compliments, even if you hate being complimented!
Learn more about responding to compliments in the full article:
👉🏻👉🏻👉🏻 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/funny-responses/
In this video:
0:00 Intro
0:49 Respond to compliments by being grateful
1:07 Respond to compliments by being cheeky
2:23 Respond to compliments by asking for more
3:37: Give a compliment!
4:07 Here's my compliment
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How to Eliminate Toxic People and Build Your Inner Circle
🎥 Join me as I reveal the biggest mistake we make when setting goals. Learn how to eliminate toxic people and strategically build your inner circle. 🔄 Ready to take control of your goals? Watch now and join my free goal-setting class on 12/29 for extra guidance and support! 🚀✨
Register here! www.scienceofpeople.com/2024goals
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Hi, I’m Vanessa!
You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards, and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling autho...
The SECRET to getting along with EVERYONE
Are you a good people person? Do you always know what to say and who to say it to? People skills did not come naturally. Can you learn how to be charismatic? Learning how to develop charismatic personality will help you to influence people around you. In this video, I’ll tell you a story about what I’ve learned about being charismatic.
Want more details on charisma?
👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/charisma/
In this video:
0:00 Intro
0:35 The secret to getting along with anyone
1:35 No one is boring
1:59 Final thoughts
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How to Become a Master Networker
If you have struggled with effective networking in the past, you definitely need to watch this video to know how to improve your own networking habits. We all have a desire to connect and help others grow, and networking is the key to success. I have 5 tips that will help you become a master networker with all your friends and colleagues.
You can find more networking tips here:
https://www.scienceofpeople.com/networking/
00:00 Intro
01:28 Develop an Action Plan
02:54 Goal-Oriented Questions
03:48 Offer Help
05:25 Follow Up
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The Science of Black Friday Shopping
Today is Black Friday, one of America's favorite shopping day.... Over one hundred million people will get up super early and grab the best deals from local or eCommerce stores. Competition is a key element of the psychology behind Black Friday shopping as shoppers challenge each other, buy goods at bargain price, and leave others without the chance to make the same purchase.
Giving how popular today is, it is inevitable that unnecessary purchases are made and this got me thinking about the driving forces behind people’s shopping behaviors. As I began my research, I found 6 em...
Do You Ever Run Out of Things to Say?
Do you ever run out of interesting things to say? In our weekly Twitter poll, we asked people whether this statement was true or false for them: “When in a group of people I have trouble thinking of the right things to talk about.” If you feel like you run out of things to say, I have some tips that will help you.
What interesting books are you reading? Let me know in the comments below.
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This is just the start! If you want to learn some interesting ways to generate conversations, check out my b...
The 7 Types of Toxic People
Do you feel drained from a person in your life? A parent, a friend, a significant other? In this video, I talk about the traits of 7 types of toxic people, how to spot them, and how to deal.
We all deserve to have supportive people in our lives that we enjoying seeing and LOVE to hang out with, so my hope is that from this video you can spot the toxicity from a mile away and stop it dead in its tracks.
Want more details on toxic people and how to avoid them?
 👉 https://www.s...
Stop Toxic Coworkers and How to Deal with Difficult Personalities at Work
Have you ever dealt with a difficult coworker? Are you currently having to put up with one? They might be a jerk at work.
I sat down with Tessa West and talked about her book "Jerks at Work". We talked about types of toxic coworkers, signs of a toxic coworker, and how to set up boundaries.
Nothing is worse than a toxic coworker making your work even more difficult. Sometimes all you worry about is them and not your deadlines. In this video, we will teach you how to set up boundaries and make sure...
Captivate Table of Contents and Summary
In this very special video, I am going to reveal what is in my latest book, Captivate.
If you want more tips on how to navigate awkward social situations and make a great impression, check out my book Captivate:
https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/
I even read my own audiobook!
00:00 Intro
00:51 Chapter 1- Control
01:14 Chapter 2- Capture
01:32 Chapter 3- Spark
01:55 Chapter 4- Highlight
02:08 Chapter 5- Intrigue
02:40 Chapter 6- Decode
02:50 Chapter 7- Solve
03:07 Chapter 8- Appreciate
03:25 Chapter 9- Value
04:04 Chapter 10- Connect
04:15...
How to stop your nervous laughs
Nervous laughter can come during the worst time and can create a VERY awkward moment... As a recovering nervous laugher, I am sharing my tips on how to prevent these awkward moments!
Learn more about nervous laughter with our Science of People guide: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/nervous-laughter/
FREE Training: How to Deal With Difficult People at Work
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In this video:
0:10 What is nervous laughter?
0:33 The 3 causes of nervous laughter
1:00 The problem with nervous laughing
1:10 The 3 tactics you can use to stop...
How to Talk About Yourself Without Bragging
Picture this: you're at a job interview and you have to sell yourself to this hiring manager. You HAVE to tell them what you're good at and your accomplishments...otherwise, they won't know and you might not stand out among the other candidates.
Talking about yourself without bragging is definitely an art, and I was able to gather some tips for your next opportunity to toot your horn in a creative way.
In this video:
0:00 Intro
0:18 Traits you are most proud of
0:48 Share a story about your best traits
1:39 Practice your...
Enhance Your Communication Skills with AI
Exciting news! 🌟 We have been wracking our brains for how AI could help YOU. And we have come up with something amazing. Our new AI tools analyze and enhance your writing instantly—transform speeches, emails, and texts into charismatic masterpieces! 🎤 Exclusively available for People School students now, and coming soon for everyone! Elevate your communication game with cutting-edge tech! 🌐🔥 Learn more about People School here: www.scienceofpeople.com/pschool
In this video:
0:00 - Introduction
0:09 - Problem Identification
0:16 - Introducing Charisma Coach
0:50 - Functionality of Charisma Coach
1:12 - Speech Demonstration
1:26 - Feedback on Sp...
Post Traumatic Growth
Have you or a loved one been through a difficult experience? Sometimes things happen in life that we just can't control. Sometimes they are good things, but sometimes they are bad things. Failures, challenges, and mistakes happen to the best of us today. I want to introduce you to a completely new way of thinking about the bad things that happen to us, specifically this is a concept called post-traumatic growth.
Want more details on how to get post-traumatic growth?
https://www.scienceofpeople.com/post-traumatic-growth/
00:00 intro
01:03 Post-Traumatic Growth
01:53 Growth Areas
02:50 How...
Pitch Deck Tips: A secret look inside...
I'm always asked how to pitch ideas, businesses, and people better, and one common thing that often gets neglected is the pitch deck. The pitch deck can make or break a pitch even if what you're saying is great!
In this video, I review top companies like AirBnb, YouTube, and Spotify to point out the do's and don'ts of pitch decks. By the end of this video, you'll learn how to confidently pitch your idea, business, or yourself to just about anyone!
Links!:
AirBnb's Pitch deck: https://www.slideshare.net/ryangum/airbnb-pitch-deck-from-2008
Buffer...
The Science of Productivity and How To Be Productive
Do you struggle with being productive and don't know how to be productive? Being productive can be made into a habit. Productive people are mindful of what they are doing, and how they are doing it. We discovered a survey conducted by Microsoft and found out that most people are unproductive at work-- a whopping 17 hours per week out of an average 45-hour work week.
In our research lab, we wanted to know how people like you and I could reach extraordinary levels of productivity, and we found some great tips backed by science. Here are some...
Tips for Being Charismatic on Video
If you've recently been searching for a new job, you've probably noticed that video interviews are getting more and more popular. Have a Skype interview coming up? Do you want to know how to prepare for a video interview and how to build a quick connection when you're communicating through a screen? Here are the 5 steps to an awesome video chat.
Find out more at http://ScienceofPeople.com
In this video:
00:00 Intro
00:41 Prep Your Set
01:49 Dress to Impress
02:34 Digital First Impression
02:50 Virtual Body Language
03:43 End on a High<...
My Favorite Text Conversation Starters
Whether you're chatting with your best friend, crush, group chat, or family, these conversation starters will spark engaging discussions. From opinion-based questions and gossip teasers to deep and thought-provoking queries, there's something for everyone.
Read more: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/text-conversation-starters/
Learn more about conversation mastery: scienceofpeople.com/cm
In this video:
0:45 - Opinion-based questions
1:00 - Plans for the weekend
1:13 - Random check-in
1:26 - Teasing with drama
1:44 - Choosing a meal
2:01 - Food preferences
2:15 - Deeper questions
3:22 - Professional check-in
4:07 - Checking in on...
How to Pick the Perfect Book Cover
The cover of a book is considered the strongest marketing tool of an author. Your book cover is an incredibly important part of the book’s success. Writing a book is fun, but hard work. There are so many factors that are involved. In this video I am going to let you in on how the process works for many books, and how we came up with the final cover.
I hope the cover Captivates you enough to check it out. Here is more info about the book:
https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/
Can yo...
The Science of the Perfect Handshake
Did you know that a poor handshake can kill your first impression?
It is so important when we're making that first impression because a lot of how we judge someone's personality is based on their handshake.
Knowing how to shake hands with someone is very important in the professional and personal world. Watch this video to know how to give a perfect handshake.
Want more on how to give a great handshake?
https://www.scienceofpeople.com/handshake/
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