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I went on The Diary of a CEO, and it didn’t go how I expected… In this video, I break down what happened and what this experience taught me about charisma, confidence, and being truly authentic.


Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
0:24 - My charisma mistakes
0:45 - How I wound up there
2:15 - The question that got me...
3:36 - Body language analysis
4:50 - The interview drops
5:54 - The phases of learning
9:21 - Wrapping up

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In today’s video you’ll learn 6 habits that will make people love being around you. With examples from a celebrity that seems almost universally loved: Ryan Gosling.


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0:00 - Intro
0:07 - #1: Have fun
0:21 - Absurd analogies
1:09 - The mind's eye method
1:37 - Deadpan humor
2:52 - The fake walkoff
3:24 - #2: Tell funny embarrassing stories
3:58 - Emphasize you're aware it w...

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If you’re an introvert, you may think that you’re destined to suffer socially. But one of today's MOST popular celebrities is a self-proclaimed introvert.

Even more amazing, Zendaya captivates people without pretending to be extroverted, which can feel exhausting and fake.

So today, you’ll learn 4 easy tricks to be charming as an introvert, without changing your personality.
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For the first time in history we have professional conversation havers - they’re called podcasters. And one of the most overlooked social skills that make them successful - is the ability to connect with anyone, even when they have nothing in common.

So in this video, I’ll show you 6 techniques - that the best conversationalists use, and that you can use today - to connect with anyone and begin a more meaningful relationship.


0:00 - Intro
0:29 - #1: Let...

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In this video, I break down the 4 stages of growth that guide all of my content going forward. Each stage needs a different approach — and knowing where you are helps you get the most out of my advice. Watch this to understand how my videos fit into your journey.


01:24 - Stage 1
02:34 - Stage 2
04:21 - Stage 3
06:58 - Stage 4
08:20 - What do you do with this?


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Why Instagram Is Ruining Your Life
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If you were an alien looking at the Instagram news feed, you would have to conclude that most humans spend their lives in leisure traveling and smiling all day long. You assume that there were far more honeymoons and fights -- far more moments of laughing so hard that you cry than an actual crying and far more successes than failures but none of that is true.

Our lives are not represented by the photos that we share...

In the previous video, I spoke about self love and it's critical importance to your well being. In this video I answer questions from YOU (in the comments!) about love, self love, and self esteem.

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Most people are stuck having the same boring conversations on repeat. They play it safe, ignore the obvious, and stay trapped in rigid social scripts that kill connection and charisma.

In this video, you’ll learn the conversation techniques Ryan Gosling uses to instantly make interactions more fun, magnetic, and memorable, so you can stop running out of things to say, connect faster, and become someone people genuinely love talking to.


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Matthew McConaughey gives off an almost effortless feeling of being cool. So today we’ll break down some of the habits that make him so charismatic and how you can incorporate them into your own life.

And it’s worth noting, while Matthew McConaughey is very handsome, his confidence and charisma can apply to you no matter what you look like.


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0...

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One of the most common questions I get from guys is: "I thought the date went great....but she didn't want a second date. Why not?" That's what this video covers: how to get a second date.

There are a million reasons why she may not want to see you again, but outside of serious compatibility issues, there are 3 main reasons it might be. Once you know what they are, you can pay attention to how you might be making these 3 mistakes and avoid them in...

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In today’s video, we’ll go over 8 conversational habits that make people love being around you.


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0:00 - Intro
0:04 - #1: The false completion technique
1:40 - #2: Accept bids for connection
2:53 - #3: Add a touch during conversational high points
3:56 - #4: Friendly teasing
5:17 - #5: Act out your characters
6:14 - #6: Pause when you hear laughter
6:42 - #7: Take a 3 second punchline pause
7:17...

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As soon as you've decided that you don't want to drink, you can probably expect a million people to start hassling you. This is the hardest part of learning how to not drink: dealing with the peer pressure. The good news is that you can use these tips to tell people you don't want to drink in a way that gets them to stop bothering you AND commands their respect.

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Conor McGregor: How To Be Confident Without Being Arrogant
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Conor McGregor is one of the most confident athletes in the world. He displayed that confidence in his flawless victory over Eddie Alvarez in UFC 205. But even though Conor McGregor's confidence is one of the best traits you can have, arrogance is one of the worst. And the line between the two can be blurry. Some people are worried that if they become confident, they’ll cross the line into arrogance...

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Breaking Bad has one of the best character transformations in TV history. We watch Walter White go from a weak-looking pushover to a powerful presence who commands respect.

While you definitely don’t want to be like Walt in every way, there are 4 habits you can learn from him to look AND feel extremely confident in any situation.

And even though Breaking Bad is a scripted TV s...

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Game of Thrones - Why Tyrion Can't Be Killed

Tyrion Lannister has a knack for staying alive. He is constantly getting into trouble and talking his way out. But Tyrion's genius is replicable if you learn how he thinks. And one of the first thing he thinks of is what other people want. That is how he manages to continue through season after season in Game of Thrones.

We cover 3 ways to figure out what people want by examining...

This is contains the most important thing I have learned in the last year. https://goo.gl/QL2tCL For some of you, I’m sure it will be the most important video I have ever done. In order to do it justice I need to tell you some personal stuff about what has been going on in my life.

It occurred as much of life biggest learnings do, when things went wrong. Specifically, I broke up with my girlfriend of a year and a half. We loved each other and still do, but we had very ve...

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When it comes to having attractive, captivating body language there’s only 4 things you need to know - and if you do them, these 4 will immediately take you into the top 1% of communicators.


0:00 - Intro
0:11 - Reveal your vitals
2:01 - Verbally own your experience
3:01 - Develop strong eye contact
4:55 - Practice charisma as an opportunity to feel good


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How To Make Someone Laugh (The Easiest Way)

This video breaks down of the easiest way how to make someone laugh. You don't have to be clever. You don't have to have good comedic timing. You don't funny or complicated jokes. In fact, it's almost so easy to do that it is frustrating. But hey, it works. Even Ellen can't contain her laughter.

So if you want to maThe nice thing is, once you've made somebody...

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Today you’re going to learn 7 easy ways to make people laugh and love being around you.


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0:00 - Intro
0:26 - #1: Say the opposite
0:51 - #2: Use looney tunes logic
1:44 - #3: Double down on your joke
2:59 - #4: Double down on someone else's joke
4:43 - #5: Use the reverse defense
5:40 - #6: Use the fake out method
6:19 - #7: Use go to jokes
7:35...

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⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

0:00 - #1: Bully banter
1:53 - #2: Mocking someone's mistakes
2:51 - #3: The negative Nancy
4:23 - #4: Disrespectful distractions
5:36 - #5: Repeatedly talking over someone
7:32 - #6: Inauthenticity


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How To DESTROY Self Doubt

Self-doubt can be crippling. And it doesn’t matter if the doubt comes from within or if other people’s negative comments begin to affect you. Sometimes you can get into a spin cycle of doubt and negativity that absolutely crushes your confidence.

What’s worse is that we “know” we shouldn't doubt ourselves. We know it’s not helping us. But that doesn't change the way it feels. The negative...

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The BIGGEST Mistake People Make In Dating

There is one thing that ruins more relationships than any others. And while the examples I give are from my own life, this is true for men and women, straight, gay, it doesn't matter.

That thing is neediness. It often looks like obsessiveness, meaning you start imagining what it would be be boyfriend and girlfriend after one encounter, discussing kid names, giving larges gifts, talking to them about your future together in early...

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The Core of Self-Confidence

Self-confidence is one of those things the we recognize when we see it. But we don't usually know how to build it.

The reason is because we often misattribute self-confidence. We feel good when people give us compliments and assume that's where self-confidence must come from. After all, if we heard those nice things all the time, how could we not be confident.

But while praise and compliments may help temporarily boost self confidence, they don't...

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Most people hold back the parts of themselves that would actually make them more charismatic. They try to act cool, hide their enthusiasm, and stay trapped in safe social scripts.

In this video, we break down what Love on the Spectrum teaches about real charisma, from saying the honest thing, to making simple jokes, to expressing appreciation without needing anything back. You’ll learn how to be more charming without acting fake, and how to bring mo...

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We’ve all had conversations that started out friendly, then suddenly turned into an argument that made us feel attacked. The other person twists your words and uses little tricks to try to make you look dumb.

So today we’re going to break down a conversation just like that between Andrew Tate and Piers Morgan, to show you how to defend yourself in any argument, even if the ot...

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Why The Starks Will Always Get Betrayed

The Stark men have a grim history of betrayal. Ned Stark by Petyr Baelish (Littlefinger). Robb Stark by Roose Bolton and Walder Frey. And Jon Snow by his Nightswatch brothers. Jon Snow got lucky with the resurrection, but his leadership abilities are still dismal.

This isn’t by accident. In fact, I blame Ned because all of the Stark men (including Jon Snow) share some of his fl...

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How To Stand Up For Yourself Without Being A Jerk, Robert Downey Junior Style

We all have had those situations in life where we KNOW someone is trying to get to us. Maybe they keep asking embarrassing questions. Maybe they put us down with backhandedly. We know they are attacking us passive aggressively, but it feels like there is nothing we can do about it. Many of us don't know how to handle this kind of conflict.<...

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After family and friends, there is nothing in my life that has had a bigger positive impact on me than books.

And today I want to the 3 most important I’ve ever read. I recommend each for different reasons, but I recommend them to anyone who wants to create an exceptional life for themselves. And rather than tell you what they’re about, I want to share what you can get out...

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Charisma is not something you’re born with. It’s a set of social skills you can train, rep by rep, until confidence, connection, and self-expression become second nature. In this video, Charlie shares the 7 principles that helped him build his charisma from the ground up, and how you can start doing the same.


0:00 - Intro
0:36 - Charisma is a muscle
2:44 - Charisma has 5 types
4:55 - Confidence is "I'll be okay"
6:05 - You are alw...

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Today you’ll learn 6 easy ways to make people laugh and love being around you.


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0:00 - #1: Play dumb
1:28 - #2: A sincerity fakeout
2:14 - #3: The 3 point list
3:07 - #4: Exaggerate so much it's impossible to take you seriously
4:26 - #5: Elevate the other person
5:39 - #6: Self deprecating humor
8:03 - Learn how to form connections with anyone

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We've all accidentally blown it in a conversation that we really wanted to go well.

But that doesn't mean there wasn't potential for a go...

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4 Activities That Will Dramatically Boost Your Charisma

I often get asked what things people can do on a day to day basis to improve their charisma. There isn't a gym or dojo that you can go to to work on your charisma and confidence. But there are ways for people to take certain types of classes that will indirectly boost their confidence and increase their charisma.

The four things that I have see had...

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This Mad Men scene is a masterclass in grounded confidence. Don Draper does not argue, defend himself, or try to convince anyone of his worth. He simply accepts the other person’s choice, states his own, and stays in control. In this video, we break down how to use that same energy in conflict, sales, leadership, dating, and any moment where you feel tempted to prove yourself.


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Debate Analysis on Trump and Hillary Third Presidential Debate
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The second and third presidential debates between Donald Trump and Hillary Clinton are in the books and everyone is talking about who won but today, we're not talking about policies or strength of argument. I want to analyze who won strictly from a charisma angle so let's get into it.

The first thing to note is that previous presidential debates, especially the primaries, were defined by zingers and there...

How To Make People Like You - Bruce Lee Charisma Breakdown
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People like people who are like them. When you enter into a state of feeling that "sameness" with someone, you've entered into rapport.

That's the short answer of how to get people to like you. In practice, there are many small things you can do to enter into rapport with someone. From smiling genuinely, to nodding while they speak, to focusing first on agreements. <...

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Malcolm Gladwell’s debate missteps offer valuable lessons in handling arguments and conflict.

This video breaks down key mistakes like passive aggression, straw-manning, and defensiveness—and shows you how to avoid them while staying calm and persuasive.

Learn how to respond when others twist your words or act rude, and recognize when you’re shutting down so you can stay in control and confident in any situation.


0:00 - Intro
0:46 - #1: Covert Sniping
2:30 - How To Reverse Rudeness
3:0...

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There is a way of gaining respect and power that is not about projecting strength, but the truth of who you ARE

So in this video we’ll be using Viserys Targaryen's dinner speech to show how you can influence effortlessly and command respect you for who you truly are.


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0:00 - Intro
0:28 - Force
1:00 - Manipulation
3:44 - True power
4:35...

I’ve been thinking a lot about the bad decisions I see people make, and even the bad decisions that I have made and I see a common pattern. First you have someone who is relatively uncertain, in a transition period of their life, and then they take the wrong advice.

In this video, I want to clarify how to spot bad advice so that you don't wind up trudging down the wrong path for months or years. Here's what I've learned

1. Only take advice from people who have the kind of life you desire...

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