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Sometimes outrage is not really about politics or beliefs, but about hidden strategies we use to compete for attraction and status. In this video, I dive into the controversy around Sydney Sweeney’s American Eagle ad with insights from psychologist and author Rob Henderson. Through the lens of evolutionary psychology, he reveals four cunning strategies driving outrage, rivalry, and reputation attacks. Bene...

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Some men seem to see what’s coming. They spot where the market will move, guess how competitors will act, and position themselves to win.

In this video, I’ll show you how to build that skill, read patterns, predict outcomes, and influence what happens next. To do so, we’re going to dive into what depth psychology calls the archetype of the Magician.


0:00 - Intro
2:02 - Unlearn what you have learned
3:29 - Enter non ordinary states of con...

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Pressure can destroy your confidence when you need it most. Your mind goes blank, you stumble over your words, and opportunities slip away.

In this video, we break down how Inde Navarrette stays charismatic in high-pressure moments, despite being naturally shy. You’ll learn how to prime yourself for confidence, mirror the energy in any room, and turn nervousness into connection.

You’ll also discover why admitting you’re nervous can make you look more conf...

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Most men think attraction works like this: become successful, get in shape, build status, then wait for women to notice. But that fantasy keeps a lot of men stuck. In this video, you’ll learn the difference between indirect attraction and direct action, using Jack Reacher and Matt Murdock as examples.

You’ll see the attraction signals most men miss, how to flirt without being awkward, and why what you want is usually on the othe...

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So I made an early resolution that I hope you'll like: more YouTube videos!!

Specifically I am going to create and release a video at least once a week. Let me know in the comments if there is something specifically you'd like me to cover.

Happy 2016 - excited to make these videos a serious priority :-)

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Why People Love Will Smith (And Not Jaden)

Will Smith is one of the most charismatic men alive. His son, Jaden, is not. In this interview with Graham Norton, we can break down exactly why. It's the difference between being an inclusive competent leader and struggling to keep up.

In this interview you'll see how the leadership dynamic plays out in a group. Will Smith very quickly winds up as the de facto leader, while...

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Steve Jobs Leadership Skills Breakdown - How To Motivate People

When Steve Jobs returned as the CEO of Apple in 1997, the company was on the verge of bankruptcy. Today, Apple is the most profitable company on the planet, thanks in huge part to Steve Jobs leadership. He was able to motivate employees, turn the company around, and preside over huge developments like the iMac, iPod, iPhone, and iPad.

But Steve Jobs is unique in that despite clearly being an effective leader, he was not...

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It’s a scary truth that the most powerful psychological tricks cult leaders use to brainwash their followers can just as effectively be used by toxic partners, manipulative friends, and predatory organizations against people like you and me.

That’s why in this video, we’re breaking down each of those tricks - so hopefully you can spot the red flags and avoid falling victim to them too.


0:00 - Intro
1:06 - They impersonate the family unit
3:02 - They...

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When it comes to having attractive, captivating body language there’s only 4 things you need to know - and if you do them, these 4 will immediately take you into the top 1% of communicators.


0:00 - Intro
0:11 - Reveal your vitals
2:01 - Verbally own your experience
3:01 - Develop strong eye contact
4:55 - Practice charisma as an opportunity to feel good


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When James Gunn lost his career overnight, he thought it was all over. But what happened next completely changed how he saw himself and the people around him. In this video, we break down his story and the simple lesson you can use to turn your worst moment into your strongest comeback.


0:00 - Intro
0:37 - James Gunn's Worst Moment
1:48 - Wait a second...
3:02 - The Buffer Against Feeling Loved
4:03 - A Practical Takeaway
5:48 - Learn To...

I get a lot of questions about the steps to take to be more charismatic. And this one always surprises people: STOP DRINKING! https://goo.gl/RyWH6V

It seems like improvement is something you do between the gym and work. But the truth is, every social interaction is a chance to learn something. Except when you're drunk, that goes out the window. Rather than dealing with social anxiety, we tend to numb it. Rather than learning how to "turn on" a raucous sense of humor, we rely on alcohol do free up spontaneity. We sacrifice self-improvement...

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Charisma is not something you’re born with. It’s a set of social skills you can train, rep by rep, until confidence, connection, and self-expression become second nature. In this video, Charlie shares the 7 principles that helped him build his charisma from the ground up, and how you can start doing the same.


0:00 - Intro
0:36 - Charisma is a muscle
2:44 - Charisma has 5 types
4:55 - Confidence is "I'll be okay"
6:05 - You are alw...

How To Be More Confident - Conor McGregor Confidence Breakdown

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Conor McGregor is one of the most confident athletes of all time. He routinely calls his shot and speaks with a conviction that victory is a total certainty. That's how he earned the nickname "Mystic Mac."

Conor McGregor's confidence has led him to one UFC belt and another on the horizon. In this video I am examine some of his thought processes that lead him to have such superhuman confidence and prove that anyone...

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Most people want to help a friend who is struggling, but they get it wrong. They give advice too fast, push too hard, or try to carry emotional burdens that are not theirs to carry, which can actually hurt the friendship.

In this video, you will learn how to support a friend in hard times, build deeper connections, and become someone people trust, using Samwise Gamgee as the example of what real friendship and...

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Most apologies, whether public or personal, feel fake because they are. This video breaks down why apologies often miss the mark, how shame gets in the way of real growth, and what it takes to make a genuine, meaningful apology.


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How To Talk To People - Bruce Lee Charisma Breakdown (Part 2)
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Learning how to talk to people is a super important skill, but one we are never taught in school. In fact, sometimes we get so wrapped up trying to make small talk that we lose the opportunity to really connect with someone. Bruce Lee doesn't make that mistake in this interview.

This video will show you how to talk to people and how to lead a...

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Vocal Tips - Neil deGrasse Tyson Charisma Breakdown:
Neil deGrasse Tyson's voice is like butter. He has the rare ability to talk about science in a way that makes people want to know more. And it's not necessarily because the subject is so interesting. After all, most of us weren't riveted in 9th grade biology.

Neil is so captivating because his voice is so damn fun to listen to. And the good news is, we can learn...

Barack Obama Charisma Breakdown - How To Influence People
https://goo.gl/SaV6sp Barack Obama's most important job is to influence people. As president, there is very little ha can do on his own. So his main job becomes to persuade people to see his views when it comes to political decisions.

In the wake of the tragedy at Umpqua Community College in Oregon, Barack Obama demonstrated a 5 step process on how to influence in those situations where you absolutely must convince people to change their behavior. Obama is a powerful, charismatic speaker and this...

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Most men are taught a very narrow version of masculinity: be tough, be dominant, never show weakness, and always stay in control. But Joe Hudson argues that a lot of those ideas are actually keeping men...

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Russell Brand flirting with women is a sight to behold....As men, we're never really taught how to flirt with women. That's a problem. Because many men get caught in the trap of "creep flirting" where they come on too strong. Other's stick to the "goofball guy" and wind up in the friend zone.

The style of interaction that Russell Brand and Craig Ferguson demonstrate in this video will actually teach you how to flirt with women. It's not the ONLY way, but it is a great...

One Simple Tip To Make People Like You - Tom Hiddleston Charisma Breakdown
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Watch Tom Hiddleston and Grae Drake banter back and forth and learn how you can boost your charisma just by shifting the way you crack jokes. It's a simple technique that you can use to make just about anyone like you, guy or girl. After all, we like people who make us feel good about ourselves, and this tip will do that for you.

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Dr K is about to win over this chaotic room in 13 minutes, going from the ignored outsider to the person everyone loves.

He does it using five techniques most people get wrong, but anyone can learn.


0:00 - Intro
1:11 - Find out what people respond to
1:58 - Join the chaos
3:37 - Make the agreement explicit
6:03 - Change HOW you talk about it
8:12 - Take them somewhere new
11:24 - The fastest way...

6 Public Speaking Tips To Hook Any Audience
Public speaking is hard. We all know it. But if you master a few basic public speaking tips and techniques, you can absolutely hook any audience. https://goo.gl/IpBEnO

In this video you'll get the public speaking training to hook an audience n 30 seconds. The public speaking skills to tell stories that have people hanging on every word. And the techniques to nail a finale that moves people to action.

Public speaking shakes a lot of people's confidence, but if you use these tips and techniques...

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If you want people to love being around you, there is almost nothing like delivering great compliments.

But most people don’t realize there are 3 levels of compliments that lead to better and better connection. They stay stuck on the first level, and too many level 1 compliments can make people feel uncomfortable.


0:00 - Intro
0:28 - Level 1: Social Flow Compliments
2:50 - Level 2: MC Compliments
4:42 - Level 3: Heartfelt Compliments
6:59 - The essential mindset
7:36 - Try th...

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Most people think confidence means looking strong, staying composed, and hiding anything that could make them seem weak. But the harder you try to control how others see you, the more fragile your confidence becomes. In this video, we break down John Cena’s five signs of secure confidence, and why they are the opposite of what most people expect.

You’ll see why genuine enthusiasm draws people in, how silliness can signal deep self-acceptance, and why...

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How To Smile Perfectly For Men

Will Smith has one of the most winning smiles on the planet. How does he do it? And can you learn how to smile better?

You can. There are 3 key tips that lead to people finding your smile more attractive and Will Smith demonstrates them all. Two of them are in your direct, immediate control. And the third comes from learning how to smile genuinely so that you activate the muscles under the eye...

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Most people are stuck having the same boring conversations on repeat. They play it safe, ignore the obvious, and stay trapped in rigid social scripts that kill connection and charisma.

In this video, you’ll learn the conversation techniques Ryan Gosling uses to instantly make interactions more fun, magnetic, and memorable, so you can stop running out of things to say, connect faster, and become someone people genuinely love talking to.


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Most people think confidence comes from fixing everything they dislike about themselves. But the more you treat yourself like a problem to solve, the easier it becomes to believe you’ll never be enough. In this video, we compare Kevin Hart and Clavicular to reveal two very different ways of responding to insecurity.

You’ll see how Kevin turned the thing he once felt ashamed of into one of his greatest sources of charisma, why appearance-based self-improvement can...

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Most people lose respect in ways they don’t even notice. They try too hard to look confident, dominate conversations, or prove their worth, but those moves usually backfire.

In this video, you’ll learn the respect killing habits that make people take you less seriously, how Tommy Shelby avoids them, and how to build real self-respect so you can stay calm under pressure, stop chasing approval, and become someone people naturally respect.


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In a recent interview, Anthony Hopkins is asked about his estranged daughter. At first, he avoids the question. Then he gives an answer that reveals far more than he likely intends.

The language he uses shuts down vulnerability and blocks connection. This video breaks down why those kinds of phrases feel protective in the moment, and why they quietly damage the relationships you care about most.


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0:32 - Shut down...

"How Do I have Fun Without Drinking?"
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It can be tough to have fun when you are learning how to not drink when everyone else is. People will peer pressure you incessantly, implying that you're no fun or a buzzkill. That's why it's good to come up with a plan for having fun despite not having anything to drink.

So if you've watched this video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTkX4wfkj1A) and decided to quit drinking, take a look at these tips for having a good time...

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For the first time in history we have professional conversation havers - they’re called podcasters. And one of the most overlooked social skills that make them successful - is the ability to connect with anyone, even when they have nothing in common.

So in this video, I’ll show you 6 techniques - that the best conversationalists use, and that you can use today - to connect with anyone and begin a more meaningful relationship.


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How To Stand Up For Yourself Without Being A Jerk, Robert Downey Junior Style

We all have had those situations in life where we KNOW someone is trying to get to us. Maybe they keep asking embarrassing questions. Maybe they put us down with backhandedly. We know they are attacking us passive aggressively, but it feels like there is nothing we can do about it. Many of us don't know how to handle this kind of conflict.<...

Candace Owens says she has recurring dreams where Charlie Kirk’s soul visits her from purgatory. In the dreams, he warns her about a betrayal and gives her a name. Candace takes the dreams literally and reaches out to the person he mentions.

In this video, I explain why this is a mistake.

You will learn how to interpret dreams properly using Carl Jung’s iceberg model. We break down what dreams are, what they are not, and how confusing symbols with reality leads to bad conclusions.


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How To Stay Motivated And Master Your Willpower
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Everyone gets excited about the idea of self-improvement. But when it comes time to actually put in the work over the long haul, things change. We find excuses. We don't follow through.

This video explores how you can stay motivated and on track long after the initial excitement of improvement has passed. It covers a few surprising ways to better manage your own willpower so that you stick to your resolutions and become the person you want to be.

When you've...

Went back to Wharton Business School to talk with some MBAs about entrepreneurship.

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How To Make Someone Laugh (The Easiest Way)

This video breaks down of the easiest way how to make someone laugh. You don't have to be clever. You don't have to have good comedic timing. You don't funny or complicated jokes. In fact, it's almost so easy to do that it is frustrating. But hey, it works. Even Ellen can't contain her laughter.

So if you want to maThe nice thing is, once you've made somebody...

How To Make People Like You - Bruce Lee Charisma Breakdown
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People like people who are like them. When you enter into a state of feeling that "sameness" with someone, you've entered into rapport.

That's the short answer of how to get people to like you. In practice, there are many small things you can do to enter into rapport with someone. From smiling genuinely, to nodding while they speak, to focusing first on agreements. <...

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There is ONE mindset that erases social fear. If you have it, you will walk through life with total confidence and comfort, like you own the world.

In today’s video, I want to break down the belief that IShowSpeed has, because with it, you will feel completely socially free.


0:00 - Intro
1:09 - The Core Mindset
1:48 - Treat people with enthusiasm
2:56 - Balance enthusiasm with playful banter
4:06 - The danger to teasing
4:55 - Reenforcing the core mindset