Boner and Mirror Tarot

Would you marry someone who'll leave the castle with you... or someone who might completely transform your relationship with the truth?

This week I'm joined by Debz, aka Babe with the Power, as we pull three cards and play one very important game:

❤️ Fuck
💍 Marry
🪨 Push Off a Cliff

This week's cards:

🪙 Four of Pentacles
🔥 Four of Wands
⚔️ Seven of Swords

And somehow, the traditionally deceptive Seven of Swords becomes the card we're taking to bed.

What begins as a ridiculous game quickly becomes...

She's back! For the very first Boner & Mirror Tarot: Second Date, I'm joined once again by one of my OG guests, Orlaith of Stella Esoterica.

Last time, Orlaith had to Fuck, Marry and Push Off a Cliff the Ace of Swords, Six of Cups and Six of Swords. This time? We're fucking. We're fighting. And we're becoming.

Welcome to Fuck, Fight, Become; one of the brand-new games from Tarot After Dark: Second Date.

Our cards:

⚔️ Queen of Swords

🐎 Knight of Pentacles

🗡️ Ace of Swords

And what begins...

Would you marry emotional maturity... or someone who actually has time for you?

This week I’m joined by Irene Lo, creator of Soft Femme Tarot, and for the first time on Boner & Mirror Tarot, my guest brings her own deck to decide our fate.

❤️ Fuck
💍 Marry
🪨 Push Off a Cliff

This week’s cards:

🔥 Ten of Wands
⚔️ Eight of Swords
🌊 Queen of Cups

And somehow... we end up fucking the Eight of Swords.

What begins with Irene noticing the ropes and blindfold becomes a much deeper co...

What happens when being right is more important than being connected?

This week on Boner & Mirror Tarot, I'm joined by professional tarot teacher, writer and theatre artist Cassandra Snow to play Snog, Marry, Push Off a Cliff with:

⚔️ Five of Swords
🔥 Knight of Wands
🍷 Nine of Cups

At first, the decision seems suspiciously easy. But, as always, deciding which tarot archetype we'd like to snog, marry or violently remove from a fictional cliff turns out to tell us rather more than we bargained for.

What happens when your heart says yes, but your body might be saying something else?

This week I’m joined by Jenna Dayle, intuitive tarot reader and teacher, relational mentor and soon-to-be podcast host, for an episode that starts with two Aces and a Magician and somehow ends up exploring chemistry, safety, self-erasure, desire and what it actually means to choose ourselves within relationship.

Jenna is faced with:

💧 Ace of Cups
🪙 Ace of Pentacles
🪄 The Magician

And must decide who she’d <...

Would you fuck the Six of Pentacles? Because according to us, “it’s giving sub and dom.”

This week I’m joined by my wonderful friend Hannah for an episode that takes us from positive psychology to power dynamics, independence to fantasy, and eventually to what can only be described as the Fruity Bush card.

Hannah is faced with:

🪙 Six of Pentacles
🌈 Seven of Cups
🌿 Nine of Pentacles

And must decide who she’d Fuck, Marry, or Push Off a Cliff.

Is the Emperor marriage material... or just a really hot red flag?

This week I'm joined by my wonderful friend Emma from Fiadhaich Yoga as we pull three cards and play one very important game:

❤️ Fuck
💍 Marry
🪨 Push Off a Cliff

This week's cards:

⚔️ Two of Swords
🎉 Four of Wands
👑 The Emperor

Together we wrestle with structure versus freedom, the tension between control and safety, and why the Emperor might secretly be the perfect long-term partner... if you ca...

Would you rather marry solitude... heartbreak... or conflict?

This week I'm joined by Victoria from Tarot & Transformation as we pull three cards and play one very important game:

❤️ Fuck
💍 Marry
🪨 Push Off a Cliff

This week's cards:

🧙 The Hermit
💔 Three of Swords
⚔️ Five of Swords

What starts as one of the least romantic line-ups in the tarot quickly becomes a conversation about independence, emotional maturity, the stories our minds create, and what actually makes a relationship sustainable.

We explore the...

Heartbreak or poverty? Those were genuinely our choices.

This week I'm joined by Lucy from The Tarot Cake as we pull three cards and play one very important game:

❤️ Fuck
💍 Marry
🪨 Push Off a Cliff

This week's cards:

🔥 Three of Wands
🥀 Five of Cups
🪙 Five of Pentacles

What begins as one of the bleakest card combinations we've seen quickly becomes a conversation about grief, lack, adventure, politics, symbolism, literature, and why the Three of Wands might actually make the perfect partner.

Before you listen...

Would you marry authenticity... or the Empress?

This week I’m joined by Lane Smith, author of 78 Acts of Liberation: Tarot to Transform Our World, as we pull three cards and play one very important game:

❤️ Fuck

💍 Marry

🪨 Push Off a Cliff

This week’s cards:

🥾 Eight of Cups

🌿 The Empress

🙃 The Hanged Man

What begins as a ridiculous game quickly becomes a conversation about authenticity, embodiment, desire, projection, relationships, kink, astrology, boundaries...

Would you marry the Queen of Swords... or the Nine of Pentacles?

This week I'm joined by Bre Lee from The Story Tarot as we pull three cards and play one very important game:

❤️ Fuck
💍 Marry
🪨 Push Off a Cliff

This week's cards:

🍇 Nine of Pentacles
⚔️ Queen of Swords
🔥 King of Wands

What begins as a playful game quickly becomes a conversation about people-pleasing, boundaries, receiving, desire, storytelling, and why some archetypes feel less like symbols an...

Would you marry community... or a once-in-a-lifetime love affair?

This week I’m joined by Rosie from Wild Oracle as we pull three cards and play one very important game:

❤️ Fuck
💍 Marry
🪨 Push Off a Cliff

This week’s cards:

🥂 Three of Cups
❤️ The Lovers
🏆 Nine of Cups

What begins as one of the most joyful line-ups we’ve seen quickly becomes a conversation about friendship, belonging, passion, identity and the importance of maintaining a sense of sel...

The Star was an easy “marry”... but choosing between two Wands? That’s where things got interesting.

This week I’m joined by Jessica as we pull three cards and play one very important game:

❤️ Fuck
💍 Marry
🪨 Push Off a Cliff

This week’s cards:

⭐ The Star
🔥 Page of Wands
🔥 Nine of Wands

Together we explore hope after hardship, what makes someone feel like home, why the Page of Wands has unmistakable golden retriever energy, and whethe...

Would you marry clarity, nostalgia... or moving on?

This week I'm joined by Orlaith from Stella Esoterica as we pull three cards and play one very important game:

❤️ Fuck
💍 Marry
🪨 Push Off a Cliff

This week's cards:

🗡️ Ace of Swords
🌸 Six of Cups
⛵ Six of Swords

What begins as a simple game quickly becomes a conversation about inner child work, mythology, Jungian psychology, astrology, tantra, Joseph Campbell, and what it really means to move forward without...

The Ten of Wands barely stood a chance.

This week I'm joined by the wonderful Chelsey Pippin-Mizzi as we pull three cards and play one very important game:

❤️ Fuck
💍 Marry
🪨 Push Off a Cliff

This week's cards:

💧 King of Cups
🪙 Eight of Pentacles
🔥 Ten of Wands

What starts as an easy decision quickly becomes a conversation about burnout, creativity, emotional availability, anxious attachment, and why the Eight of Pentacles might just be the ultimate long-term...

What if the Hermit isn't hiding from the world, but keeping a light burning for everyone still climbing behind them?

This week on Boner & Mirror Tarot, I'm joined by Hannah Joy Graves, the force behind Cult Mother, to play Snog, Marry, Push Off a Cliff with:

🗡️ Page of Swords

💧 Queen of Cups

🏮 The Hermit

And what begins with Hannah immediately wanting to launch the Page of Swords from a great height becomes a conversation about resilience, grief, patriarchy, softness, intuition, resistance and what it means to...

Can a tarot card teach you patience... and still get pushed off a cliff?

This week I'm joined by one of my closest friends, Meghan Field, as we pull three cards and play one very important game:

❤️ F*ck

💍 Marry

🪨 Push Off a Cliff

This week's cards:

⭐ The Star

💙 King of Cups

🌱 Seven of Pentacles

If you're new to tarot, this is a wonderful place to...

Would you marry the Eight of Swords... or push it off a cliff?

This week I'm joined by Danielle from Arcana for Good as we pull three cards and play one very important game:

❤️ F*ck

💍 Marry

🪨 Push Off a Cliff

This week's cards:

🗡️ Eight of Swords

🔥 King of Wands

⛪ The Hierophant

What starts as a simple game quickly turns into a debate about tradition, perfectionism, freedom, self-limiting beliefs, and why the King of Wands mi...

Would you push the Three of Pentacles off a cliff? We did.

Welcome to the very first episode of Boner and Mirror Tarot!

Joining me for this inaugural episode is the wonderful Maggie Glennon, as we pull three tarot cards and ask one very important question: Who are you f*cking, who are you marrying, and who are you pushing off a cliff?

This week, the cards have us debating collaboration, independence, conscious uncoupling... and why the Three of...