The Gentleman's Forum and Gentleman of Faith Podcasts
The Society of Ordinary Gentlemenis a modern brotherhood built on timeless standards of character, conduct, and personal responsibility. It is a place for like-minded individuals, regardless of sex, who believe that how one lives, speaks, and carries oneself still matters.Through shared values, mutual accountability, and a commitment to continual self-improvement, the Society fosters camaraderie, integrity, and a higher standard of everyday life, proving that refinement is not about status but about discipline, intention, and respect. The Gentleman's Forum is a weekly Podcast forum designed to cultivate modern gentlemen by teaching the skills, habits, and mindsets that elevate personal style...
the Society Of Ordinary Geentlemen Recruitment Day!
If you’re a man who cares about style, fragrance, watches, rings, and carrying yourself like a gentleman, this episode gives you a clear next step. If are looking to put into practice and grow in the things that you have or are learning as a gentleman or wanting to connect with other gentlemen. This is the time to take all that you know, learned, and received in communities like these into practice. November 7, 2026, at 7:00PM The Society of Ordinary Gentlemen is hosting Recruitment Day 2026! Anthony Buntyn makes the case for joining the Society of Ordinary Gentlemen—a comm...
How The SocietyOrdinary Gentlemen Is Creating a New Standard for Men
If you’re a man who cares about style, fragrance, watches, rings, and carrying yourself like a gentleman, this episode gives you a clear next step. Anthony Buntyn makes the case for joining the Society of Ordinary Gentlemen—a community built around character, civility, and growth. He explains what the society stands for and invites men to connect with like-minded peers, grow in their personal style and conduct, and become part of something bigger than themselves. In this episode, you’ll hear:
What the Society of Ordinary Gentlemen is aboutHow to learn about its mission, constitution, and valuesDetails about...Managing Anxiety and Overthinking
How Overthinking Turns Into Anxiety - and How Men Can Break It
Overthinking can disrupt your sleep, focus, and confidence. In this episode, Anthony Buntyn shares practical ways to interrupt the cycle of anxiety and worst-case thinking. Drawing on his own experience, Anthony explores how perfectionism and keeping stress bottled up can fuel anxiety. He discusses strategies like setting a worry window, challenging anxious thoughts, taking deep breaths, journaling, and using a day planner to reduce mental clutter. He also talks about limiting digital distractions, staying active, building meaningful connections, and seeking professional support when anxiety affects...
How To Resolve Conflicts Calmly
The fastest way to lose respect in a conflict is to react instead of respond. Anthony Buntyn breaks down the gentleman's playbook for handling disagreement without turning a misunderstanding into a blowup, a threat, or worse. If you've ever said too much in the heat of the moment, held a grudge, or watched a small issue spiral because nobody slowed down long enough to listen, this episode hits home. Anthony draws from his own mistakes to show why calm, respect, and control always beat ego.
You'll discover:
Why pausing before you...Leveling Up Your Gentleman Aesthetics on a Budget
Anthony Buntyn shares a practical guide to dressing and carrying yourself like a gentleman without spending a fortune. This episode focuses on small, affordable upgrades that can change how you present yourself, from trouser fit and suspenders to watches, cufflinks, and everyday carry items. It is especially useful for men who want to rebrand themselves, improve first impressions, and build a more polished presence.
The fastest way to look more like a gentleman isn’t necessarily buying expensive clothes—it’s knowing the small details that can elevate what you already wear. Anthony Buntyn shares...
Why Joining a Gentlemen's Society Can Change Your Life
What if joining the right men’s society could sharpen your style, expand your network, and raise your standards at the same time? Anthony Buntyn makes the case for why a gentleman’s society is more than a social group - it can become a real third place for growth, accountability, and belonging. Drawing from his own journey, he explains how the Society of Ordinary Gentlemen helped him level up in everything from clothing and fragrance to etiquette, confidence, and purpose. You’ll discover:
Why scattered “interest groups” for watches, suits, and cologne never gave him the fu...Why De-Digitizing Your Life May Be the Smartest Move You Make
Your phone may be making you less productive, less present, and less like yourself. Anthony Buntyn shares how a year of deliberately “de-digitizing” his life helped him regain focus, improve his memory, and create more meaningful routines, relationships, and habits. From limiting notifications and checking email only twice a day to swapping endless scrolling for handwritten notes, a daily planner, books, vinyl records, and even a safety razor, Anthony breaks down the real-world changes that made the biggest difference. He explains why slowing down can actually make you sharper, calmer, and more intentional in work, family life, and...
The Hidden Cost of Loneliness Nobody Warns Men About
Loneliness is hitting men harder than most will admit, and the damage goes far beyond feeling isolated. Anthony Buntyn confronts the numbers, shares his own battle with a speech impediment and social fear, and breaks down how something as simple as posture, clothing, eye contact, and a firm handshake can radically change the way people respond to you. He also reveals the exact turning point that helped him move from avoiding people to confidently walking into rooms, starting conversations, and building real connections. Along the way, he explains why chronic loneliness is tied to serious health risks, why...
Why Every Gentleman Should Learn How to Fight
The fastest way to become calmer, tougher, and more confident in real life might be learning how to fight - not to start trouble, but to handle pressure, fear, and conflict without falling apart. Anthony Buntyn makes the case that every gentleman should train in some form of combat discipline, and he connects that mindset to everything from business negotiations to relationships, stress, and self-control. Anthony gets personal about his own journey through karate, military life, Taekwondo, and regular sparring, showing how being choked, knocked down, and forced to keep going changes the way you think long after...
Why Good Things Happen to Bad People - The Grace Answer
Why do bad things happen to good people? Anthony Buntyn says that question is backwards - and the answer changes everything. If you have ever wrestled with grief, anger, or the feeling that God has forgotten you, this episode offers a blunt, faith-filled reframing of suffering, grace, and what it really means to endure loss. Anthony opens up about losing his mother, sister, and niece within 18 months, and how that season of devastation forced him to confront the hardest questions believers ask in private. From there, he walks through a radical shift in perspective: Scripture does not point...
Respects Starts At Home
Parents are losing the house, the authority, and the relationship with their kids - and Anthony Buntyn and Angela Fossey say the fix starts at home. This conversation cuts straight into the modern parenting crisis, exposing why discipline, reverence, and real involvement matter more than ever.
Anthony opens up about the strict-but-loving foundation that shaped their family, and Angela brings the perspective of a mother, grandmother, former daycare worker, and author who has written about parenting and grandparent rights. Together, they contrast the way they were raised with what they see happening now - children treated like...
1. Choose Respect Over Fear
Fear is not making you stronger - it is making you smaller. Anthony Buntyn breaks down why the image of the "tough guy" can sabotage your life, your relationships, and your future, and why respect is the real foundation of leadership, faith, and influence. Anthony shares the personal journey that shaped this message, from growing up with a speech impediment and insecurity to realizing that intimidation may get attention, but it never builds trust. He draws a sharp line between being feared and being respected, showing how fear creates distance, silence, and hidden opposition, while respect creates support...
Why Men Must Take Care of Themselves, Even After Marriage
Looking sharp is not superficial. For men, it can change how people treat you, how your kids see you, and how confidently you move through the world. Anthony Buntyn sits down with Chad Smith, newly appointed Director of International Affairs with the Society of Ordinary Gentlemen, for a conversation about style, fatherhood, military discipline, and what it really means to lead a family well. Anthony and Chad break down why presentation still matters, even when you are married, busy, and juggling work, kids, and responsibilities. Chad shares how he balances civilian contract work after 26 years in the Australian...
How One Man Built Eight Outfits From Two Suits and a Sports Coat
The smartest wardrobe move is not buying more clothes - it's building a style that changes how you carry yourself. William Wehrs returns
to share how he went from wearing all black in college to becoming the kind of man who can travel for weeks with just two suits, a sports coat, and eight different outfits. What starts as a conversation about menswear quickly becomes a deeper look at confidence, discipline, and identity. William breaks down how shows like Mad Men and The Night Manager, affordable finds like a $90 suit, and style education from...
How Genuine Gentlemen Build Authentic Connections in a Fragmented Society
In a time when instant communication often breeds misunderstanding, true gentlemen stand out—by mastering civility, active listening, and authentic connection. Anthony Buntyn, host of The Gentleman's Forum, unpacks why endless rudeness and self-entitlement are eroding society, and how embracing genuine respect can be a gamechanger.
You’ll discover:
The Lost Art of Civility: Why Genuine Respect Sets You Apart as a Gentleman
In a world overwhelmed by fleeting digital interactions, true civility and genuine connection stand out like a breath of fresh air. Anthony Buntyn, host of the Gentleman of Faith Podcast, reveals how embracing timeless manners and authentic respect can transform your relationships—both personal and professional. Discover the secrets to communicating with warmth, integrity, and strength, and learn why civility isn’t just etiquette, but a powerful act of honor that elevates your character. You’ll learn:
How simple gestures—like respectful listening, withholding sarcasm, and embracing silence—create lasting impressions.The importance of non-ver...The Critical Role Men of Faith Play in Protecting Our Children Today
Most men overlook a quiet crisis that's ruining our youth from the inside out. What if the key to protecting our children lies in what we, as fathers, are doing right now?
In this eye-opening episode of the Gentleman of Faith, host Anthony Buntyn explores the critical role men have in shaping the lives of their kids—before tragedy strikes. With real stories and tough truths, he reveals how modern parents often miss the signs, leaving kids vulnerable to dangerous influences, predators, and destructive decisions.
You’ll discover:
The Shocking Truth About Parenting That Could Save Your Child's Life
Most men underestimate the crucial role they play in their children's lives — and the chilling headlines about missing and harmed kids are proof. But what if the real solution is simpler than you think? This episode unveils why knowing your kids isn’t just about their grades or hobbies but understanding who they really are — and how that knowledge can save lives. Anthony Buntyn dives deep into the importance of active parenting rooted in discipline, involvement, and responsibility. Drawing from personal stories of his military background and childhood, he illustrates how strict, engaged fathers shape resilient and safe young men. D...
Why Using Elevated Language and Tone Can Elevate Your Respect and Influence
Unlock the secret to speaking with presence, respect, and clarity—traits that set true gentlemen apart in any conversation. If you’ve ever felt your words falling flat or noticed how slang and repetitive phrases weaken your influence, this episode is your essential guide to mastering the art of communication like a true gentleman. Anthony Buntyn, a seasoned expert in elevating communication, dives deep into the pitfalls of slang-filled speech and how it subtly destroys credibility. From the exaggerated phrases of the '80s valley talk to the ubiquitous “on God” among youth today, he exposes how these habits shift pe...
Speak Like a Gentleman: Lead with Presence
Unlock the secret to commanding respect and exuding confidence through the art of speaking like a true gentleman. In this episode, Anthony Buntyn delves into the overlooked nuances that can elevate your communication skills—from mastering your tone and volume to avoiding common pitfalls like slang, slang, and mindless repetition. Discover how the words you choose—and how you deliver them—can influence perceptions, build trust, and set you apart in any conversation. Anthony shares practical insights on cultivating a presence that reflects respect and clarity, emphasizing the importance of active listening, confident tone, and appropriate vocabulary. Learn how to nav...
The Surprising Connection Between Faith and the Lost Art of Being a Gentleman
In an era where disrespect, entitlement, and neglect of core morals dominate society, the ancient virtues of chivalry, integrity, and self-respect are fading fast. But what if there's still hope? Anthony Buntyn, Managing Director of the Society of Ordinary Gentlemen, reveals a powerful blueprint to restore the lost art of being a true gentleman—one who leads with dignity, lives with purpose, and influences positively in a broken world. Join us as Anthony shares his inspiring journey from a young man distracted by the world to a passionate advocate for moral reformation among men. He dives into the alarming re...
The Urgent Call to Gentlemen
Most men today are unknowingly speeding toward cultural extinction — losing the core qualities that make a true gentleman. Anthony Buntyn exposes how society's negligence and self-centered attitudes are eroding the essential virtues of morals, respect, and discipline. If you're concerned about the decline of genuine leadership and integrity in our communities, this episode reveals a powerful blueprint for reclaiming those lost traits.
In this compelling discussion, Anthony dives deep into the slow fade of traditional gentlemanly conduct, comparing it to the boiling frog analogy — where gradual changes make men forget their foundational principles. You'll discover how the Soci...
Lead By Example Interview With William Wehrs
Unlock the transformative power of intentional style and purpose-driven living with William Weirs, a dedicated educator and modern gentleman whose daily wardrobe choice — a suit — becomes a symbol of care, respect, and influence. Discover how dressing with intention can shape mindset, foster respect, and inspire the next generation to embrace empathy and integrity in a society craving genuine connection. William Wehrs, a passionate teacher from Auburn, Alabama, shares his journey from Hollywood-inspired upbringing to becoming a model of professionalism and purpose. He reveals how his commitment to wearing a suit every day—and encouraging others to do the same—serves a...
The Hidden Power of Dressing Well: How Style Builds Respect and Confidence with Richard Pollock
Most men think masculinity is about working hard or toughing it out — but true strength comes from confidence, integrity, and respect. Richard Pollock’s journey from rugged outdoorsman to polished professional exemplifies that transformation, proving that being a gentleman isn’t about age or attire but about mindset and character. In this candid conversation, Richard shares how he shifted his outlook over three years, going from wearing outdated jeans and boots to dressing sharp and carrying himself with purpose. He discusses the importance of self-discipline, building confidence, and leading by example in his career and family. Whether he's talkin...
The Secret to Living as a Christian Gentleman: Embodying Royalty in Your Daily Life
Most Christians struggle with handling disagreements in a way that honors their faith—and often, we get it wrong, escalating conflicts instead of fostering peace. Discover why fighting to defend God's word isn't necessary, and how humility, listening, and forgiveness can transform every confrontation into an opportunity to reflect Christ’s love. In this powerful episode, Anthony Buntyn reveals the biblical principles that every Christian gentleman should embrace when facing conflict. You’ll learn why seeking peace, approaching others with humility, and truly listening before speaking are game changers in maintaining harmony. Explore practical tactics like speaking the truth in lov...
The Simple Shift That Turns Arguments into Respectful Conversations
Most conflicts—whether at work, home, or in relationships—explode over words, but handling disagreements with the finesse of a true gentleman can save your reputation, relationships, and even your freedom. In this episode of The Gentleman's Forum, Anthony Buntyn reveals the timeless art of managing arguments with respect, calmness, and strategic communication—gifts that any modern man can master. Discover the core principles that turn heated exchanges into productive dialogues. Anthony breaks down why choosing the right setting for confrontation is crucial—avoiding public showdowns that escalate tensions—and shares the surprising danger of hiding behind texts and emails, wh...
The Gentleman's Art of Speach Part 1
Most men overlook the true art of communication—yet mastering it can transform your personal and professional life. In this episode, Anthony Buntyn uncovers the subtle yet powerful principles that make a gentleman an impactful speaker and listener, revealing how your words, tone, and manners shape your influence. Drawing from his journey overcoming a childhood speech impediment to leading military training and preaching to large audiences, Anthony shares deep insights on the core elements of effective communication. He emphasizes that beyond eloquence, it’s about respect, clarity, presence, and the intentionality behind your words. Discover how superficial conversations waste your...
The Gentleman's Art of Speech
Most men overlook the power of effective communication—until their words cause conflict, missed opportunities, or damaged relationships. Anthony Buntyn uncovers the art of speech every gentleman must master to command respect, avoid misunderstandings, and elevate their influence. In this episode, Anthony shares personal stories of overcoming a stutter and navigating the complexities of language—highlighting why how we say things often matters more than what we say. You'll discover how slang, fillers, and tone can sabotage your message, especially in critical moments like job interviews, court reports, or intimate conversations. He reveals that 80 to 90 percent of incarceration case...
Gentleman of Faith Podcase
Most men feel spiritually disconnected, overwhelmed, and struggling to live with purpose—yet few know where to start. What if the key to becoming the man God calls you to be isn’t just in effort, but in understanding your divine identity and biblical masculinity? Anthony Buntyn reveals a transformative—yet practical—approach to restoring strength, faith, and integrity in today’s world. In this compelling episode of the Gentleman's Faith Podcast, Anthony shares his personal journey from a life of complacency to embracing true biblical masculinity. Discover how dressing with purpose and walking in confidence can echo your walk with...
Gentlemen of Faith
Most men feel overwhelmed by the noise and chaos of modern life—divided between cultural pressures and personal struggles. But what if there’s a timeless blueprint for walking with purpose, strength, and integrity in today’s world? The new Gentlemen of Faith podcast reveals how biblical principles can shape the man you’re becoming, no matter where you are on your spiritual journey.
In this episode, Anthony Buntyn, managing director of the Society of Ordinary Gentlemen, introduces the core mission: to help men live with honor, humility, and courage amid daily chaos. He shares why true strength isn’t ju...
From Military to Modern Gentleman
Anthony Sits Down and Talks with Chad Smith a Member of The Society of Ordinary Gentlemen to Discuss the Hidden Secrets That Elevate Men from Average to Respectable—According to Military and Business Leaders.
Interview with Randall Mastin
Join Anthony Buntyn and Randall Mastin as they explore the true essence of being a gentleman, emphasizing self-respect, civility, confidence, and the importance of personal growth. This conversation offers timeless insights into about modern men. Tune in for this dynamic and informative podcast. The Gentleman's Forum is a weekly Podcast of the Society of Ordinary Gentlemen that is also available on Apple Podcast, Spotify, and soon on YouTube, you can also view them here in the society.
The Gentleman's Forum "Change " Interview with Tod Jager
In this episode of The Gentleman's Forum, Anthony Buntyn sits down and talk with Tod Jager from The Society of Ordinary Gentlemen to discuss how being a gentle and change can affect a person, and how you can use this change to improve yourself as a gentleman.
The Gentleman's Forum with Floyd Bailey
Gentleman Forum interview with Mr. Foloyd Bailey Director of Programs for The Society of Ordinary Gentlemen.
How To Find Respect in Society
Finding Respect in today's society if you have a questionable work history or background. This is not the end of the world, you can recover and regain respect.
Interview with Nickolas Logan
The conversation explores the concept of modern-day gentlemen, biblical masculinity, personal growth, dressing as a gentleman, work environment impact, influential people, role models, legacy, emotional management, work-life balance, and small habits with a big impact. It also delves into the importance of communication and public speaking skills. The conversation covers the importance of communication skills, the impact of technology on communication, redefining success and values, and the purpose of the Society of Ordinary Gentlemen. It emphasizes the need to overcome communication struggles, limit phone usage, and promote chivalry and etiquette in modern society.
Takeaways
...