Healing Connection
This is a weekly talk on different topics that deal with Veterans, First Responders, Caregivers, and Spouses. I try and cover a wide range of topics that we deal with on a daily basis. I also love feedback from listeners and hear what they have to say. Just by emailing me at [email protected]. I will answer their questions the best that I can and if I am able will share their wins then I will. This is a place where you can feel safe and maybe learn something new tools that you can use within your life. This...
Episode 70 Oops, I'm Human
Have you ever waved at somebody who was actually waving at the person behind you?
Have you ever told the person delivering your food, âYou too,â after they said, âEnjoy your mealâ?
Have you ever pushed a door clearly marked âPull,â then looked at it like it was the problem?
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/track/5bpekO3r3G9NeRXDoPMD4O?si=076cd60342624383
Episode 69 When Life gets Weird
Have you ever started the day with a perfectly reasonable plan, only to discover that the day had already made other arrangements?
Artist Is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/track/5bpekO3r3G9NeRXDoPMD4O?si=443ec71a0e2b43d2
Episode 68 The Bad Day Survival Kit
We have talked about some heavy things on this show, and those conversations matter. But today, we are making room for something else that belongs in our lives: a little laughter, a little breathing room, and some practical help for those days when absolutely nothing seems interested in cooperating.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/track/1wjRhBVnWjaExAm4p4hei5?si=5021f6d2ff56448b
Episode 67 When Did We stop Playing?
There was a time when most of us could entertain ourselves with almost nothing.
Give a kid a cardboard box, and somehow, it becomes a fort, a spaceship, a race car, a house, a tank, or something that requires several pillows and absolutely no adult supervision.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/track/5bpekO3r3G9NeRXDoPMD4O?si=7feb5d0ef3d04fc2
Episode 66 Pets: The Unlicensed Therapists
But I am saying a lot of us have had animals walk into a room, look at us for three seconds, and somehow know we are having a bad day before the humans in the house have figured it out.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/track/5bpekO3r3G9NeRXDoPMD4O?si=bc75350241194039
Episode 65 Laughing Through the Mess
This podcast is for veterans, first responders, caregivers, spouses, children, families, and anyone trying to heal while still dealing with the strange, unpredictable, and sometimes ridiculous experience we call life.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/track/5bpekO3r3G9NeRXDoPMD4O?si=b357412263c8461c
Episode 64 The House Feels what You Don't Say
Todayâs episode is called The House Feels What You Donât Say.
And this one is honest.
Because a lot of people think that if they do not talk about it, then it is not affecting anybody else.
Artist Samuel Woods
https://open.spotify.com/track/01cVOwJ8LejG7SDFZeeNzK?si=bf2e71b5a7564bd3
Episode 63When the House gets Quite
When the House Gets Quiet: Handling Back-to-School Changes, Empty Rooms, and Children Leaving for College.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/track/5bpekO3r3G9NeRXDoPMD4O?si=c4ad81d179914cf6
Episode 62 Part 2 The Day that Changed Us
After September 11, Muslim Americans, Sikh Americans, Arab Americans, South Asian Americans, immigrants, and people perceived to belong to those communities faced harassment, discrimination, suspicion, threats, and violence.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/track/1wjRhBVnWjaExAm4p4hei5?si=a38c8e5d1a184236
Episode 61 The Day that Changed Us
Todayâs episode is going to be a little different.
It is an episode of remembrance.
An episode of gratitude.
An episode about courage, sacrifice, grief, service, and the way one terrible morning changed millions of individual lives.
Artist is Samuel Woods
https://open.spotify.com/track/2qz4dDeQvlAvdWyZ9aeZTy?si=98d3adc17e9f4068
Episode 60 What's in Your Rucksack
But a lot of the heaviest things people carry are invisible. Guilt. Grief. Anger. Shame. Fear. Disappointment. Silence. Old memories. Regret. Pressure. The feeling that everybody needs something from you. The feeling that there is never space for you to breathe.
That is the rucksack I want to talk about today.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/track/5bpekO3r3G9NeRXDoPMD4O?si=f0e7a8be67394d49
Episode 59 You Can't Heal what You Keep
Many people are not truly okay.
They have simply learned to act like they are.
They know how to smile.
They know how to stay useful.
They know how to get the job done.
They know how to say, âIâm good.â
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/track/01cVOwJ8LejG7SDFZeeNzK?si=92e1b2004b874b86
Episode 58 Hold the Line
And this one is for the people who are tired. For the people who are overwhelmed. For the people who feel like theyâve been carrying too much for too long. For the people who feel like life has been hitting from every direction, but they still get up, still show up, still put one foot in front of the other.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/track/1wjRhBVnWjaExAm4p4hei5?si=04163165c2574012
Episode 57 When "Why" Has No Easy Answer
Before we begin, I want to let you know that todayâs episode discusses suicide, grief, traumatic loss, and the difficult emotions people may experience afterward.
Please take care of yourself while listening.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/track/2qz4dDeQvlAvdWyZ9aeZTy?si=a29b77f1ebc04507
Episode 55 Come Home to Yourself
Todayâs episode is called Come Home to Yourself.
And this one is for the people who are physically present, but emotionally far away.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/track/2qz4dDeQvlAvdWyZ9aeZTy?si=ccac8cf8a87e45c6
Episode 54 No Shame in Starting Over
This one is for the people who feel like they are messed up. The people who had a bad day, a bad week, a setback, a relapse, a blow-up, a shutdown, or a moment they are not proud of.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/track/01cVOwJ8LejG7SDFZeeNzK?si=30b0d9aa87ea489f
Episode 53 After the Fireworks
Today I want to talk about something that a lot of people donât always think about: how to recover after the 4th of July.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/track/1wjRhBVnWjaExAm4p4hei5?si=956b287b30eb41a1
Episode 52 Tools for Panic and Overloads
Todayâs episode is for anyone who knows what it feels like when your body hits that moment of panic or overloadâwhen your heart is racing, your thoughts are loud, and everything inside you is saying, âI need out.â
Artis is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/track/0xX5HgkUmFUTh0gCQKex2E?si=e6952bd30cca4663
Episode 50 The Reset Button
Today weâre talking about âThe Reset Button: What to Do When Life Goes Sideways.â
Artist singing is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/track/0xX5HgkUmFUTh0gCQKex2E?si=9a49f7c96b414611
Episode 48 Triggers Doesn't Mean Weak: Help Prepare, Recover and Reduce Shame
Today weâre talking about triggersâthose moments when something small on the outside hits something big on the inside. A sound, a smell, a tone of voice, a crowd, a certain time of year⌠and suddenly your body reacts like youâre back in it.
Artist for the song is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/track/0xX5HgkUmFUTh0gCQKex2E?si=df8cb70277c74dc9
Episode 47 Strong doesn't mean Silent
I want to get straight to the point. A whole lot of strong people are suffering in silence.
They are dependable. They show up. They handle things. They carry people. They lead. They work. They protect. They provide. They keep the wheels turning.
And because they are so used to being the strong one, people assume they are okay. Sometimes they assume that too.
The artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/track/0xX5HgkUmFUTh0gCQKex2E?si=40091654e7f842b3
Episode 46 The Power of Animal Compassion
Today's episode is dedicated to exploring the incredible healing power animals can bring into our lives.
The artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3wtFVaGIHGGNoo1kvlEP59?si=p8rjlsTiQgKgosPXtJtaKg
Episode 45 What Your Kids need to Know
Because a lot of adults are doing everything they can to protect, provide, and hold life together for their children. But many still carry the question:
Am I really giving my kids what they need most?
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3wtFVaGIHGGNoo1kvlEP59?si=1UoeFTHhQgSpR_WZrnFHEg
Episode 44 Amplify Your Resilience: Finding Your North Star
Some of you have served by holding a family together while someone you love was trying to hold themselves together.
And some of you have served quietly, faithfully, without applause, without recognition, and without a break.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3wtFVaGIHGGNoo1kvlEP59?si=AER-hUnZSQmNnMYnURGwKA
Episode 43 Staying Steady when Life keeps Moving
How many of you have ever been asked, âSo⌠where are you from?â and your honest answer felt more complicated than people expected?
Artist is Samuel Woods
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3wtFVaGIHGGNoo1kvlEP59?si=gMogkYTmR6WrOUzPI7dzug
Episode 42 Part 2, Breaking Free, Tools and Strategies to Reconnect
Today, weâll explore practical tools and strategies to reconnect, rebuild support networks, and answer the question: Is isolation permanent?
Artist of the song is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3wtFVaGIHGGNoo1kvlEP59?si=Zh6ju9MCQPmbFg3mmNRxcQ
Episode 42 Breaking Down the Walls of Isolation
Today we begin âBreaking the Walls of Isolation.â Over the next short time, weâll explore what isolation looks and feels like, why it happens, and how to recognize the warning signs in ourselves and those we care about.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/track/0xX5HgkUmFUTh0gCQKex2E?si=dccefa65f88f4638
Episode 41 When the Badge comes Off: Leaving the uniform Behind
Whether retirement was your choice, or an injury forced you out of the force, stepping away from that identity can be disorienting.
Arist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/album/5j4s1qvRN4gWTeGUqLcVvt?si=sVZ90vn7SXKa0CAhvtY0wA
Episode 40 Love Under Fire: Relationships in Crisis
âLove Under Fire: Relationships in Crisis.â Whether youâre a veteran, first responder, caregiver, or spouse, the intense demands of our roles can strain even the strongest bonds.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/album/5j4s1qvRN4gWTeGUqLcVvt?si=xCR-kuKHTmuV3zJB3ixoxw
Episode 39 Seen and Steady
Caregivers and spouses do not get enough credit, and I want to impower them as well. They have worked for it and still work at it today.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/album/5j4s1qvRN4gWTeGUqLcVvt?si=p4Kp4W8uRfSaXLxw_8sEfg
Episode 37 Feeling Broken is Part of the Fight
If youâre listening today and youâre running on fumes⌠if you feel like something inside you is cracked, worn down, or straight-up brokenâthis episode is for you.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/album/5j4s1qvRN4gWTeGUqLcVvt?si=lHUUtM23TtSjfxv9ztWXFQ
Episode 36 Start and End your day with Purpose
Today weâre going to explore how you can transform both ends of your day into some powerful anchors for growth.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/album/5j4s1qvRN4gWTeGUqLcVvt?si=oSPIC3vcQ2WNBW7pe5Pkxg
Episode 35 Gratitude, When Life hits You Hard
If you came in here carrying something heavyâ
if youâre running on fumesâ
if youâve been smiling for everybody else while your insides are a messâ
youâre in the right room.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/album/5j4s1qvRN4gWTeGUqLcVvt?si=UpqOnFK6QdGV1Syl91LYeg
Episode 34 It's Ok to be Yourself
But today? Weâre going to change that. Today, weâre going to practice being proudânot arrogant, not showyâjust proud.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/album/5j4s1qvRN4gWTeGUqLcVvt?si=A38aGx7YQtyo-p3CSmG59A
Episode 33 Resilient Growth
This are straight shooting, honest and upfront. I do not try and hide things from you. I give it to you straight. Not toxic positivityâearned optimism with practical steps.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/album/5j4s1qvRN4gWTeGUqLcVvt?si=9jbd0SrvSieFIQcbalF6Qw
Episode 32 Part 2 Resilient Healing
Resilient Healingâevidence-based tools, community supports, and faith friendly practices to help the body and mind repair.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/album/5j4s1qvRN4gWTeGUqLcVvt?si=9BsZqoDsQbqz_kYGDVnD1g
Episode 31 Resilient Heart
Today we begin our three-part Resilient Series starting with Resilient Heartâhow to steady emotions, honor loss, and keep love alive without burning out.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/album/5j4s1qvRN4gWTeGUqLcVvt?si=Iv7njCxATB6EhsfNk8AZ1w
Episode 30 Youâve Survived 100% of Your Hardest Days
So todayâs episode is episode is titled: âYouâve Survived 100% of Your Hardest Days.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/album/5j4s1qvRN4gWTeGUqLcVvt?si=JBTvtHTtQLKeA35_DFMJmQ
Episode 29 After the Lights go Down
Itâs bright lights and darker feelings.
Itâs family, food, memories, and pressure.
Itâs joyâŚand the strange emotional hangover afterward.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
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Episode 28 The Christmas Call, Showing up with Love
So, if you walked in feeling joyful, awesome.
If you walked in feeling numb, thatâs real too.
If you walked in feeling âIâm okay⌠Iâm just one weird comment away from losing it,â welcome to the clubâgrab a chair.
Artist is Samuel Woods.
https://open.spotify.com/album/5j4s1qvRN4gWTeGUqLcVvt?si=eH6nOLZSRl-q7UPkgjy41Q