Nothing Un-Touched

We bring on Augi and Ant from No Filter and compare their long-term marriage perspective to the chaos we face in modern dating. We get brutally honest about deep diving, Facebook warning groups, ghosting, and the red flags that can save you months of stress. 
• how No Filter with Augi and Ant gets started and how they record 
• what marriage looks like after 19 to 21 years and how date nights stay spontaneous 
• Kayla’s take on keeping intimacy strong through emotional connection 
• why deep diving a person before dating matters for online dating safety 
• what we learn from “Ar...

We go from book club chaos and a first NASCAR race to the kind of dream talk that makes your skin prickle and your throat tighten. We share our recurring dreams, sex dreams, spiritual family stories, and the parent grief that shows up when you finally start dreaming about someone you lost. 
• building adult friendships by starting a public book club and asking real questions 
• learning who you vibe with and why awkwardness is a dealbreaker 
• NASCAR as a full sensory experience with peak people watching 
• recurring nightmares and what “being instructed” can symbolize 
• “witchy” family dynami...

We go from chaotic dating updates into a real talk on why making new friends in your 40s feels harder than finding a date. We unpack effort, trust, judgment, and the boundaries we need to keep both our friendships and our sanity intact. 

• Scarlett branching out on a date and realizing chemistry cannot be forced 
• First-date money rules, going Dutch, and why drink dates give you an exit 
• Hookups, “reruns”, and being honest about what you need 
• Building adult friendships when most people are partnered or busy 
• Reciprocity and effort, how many chances we give before we s...

We sit down with psychologist and true crime host Lindsay Wisner for an unfiltered talk about why our dating “type” can be a childhood echo and how to stop repeating the same painful loops. Along the way, we get real about online dating in your 40s, parenting teens, libido shifts, and what honesty actually requires in modern relationships. 

• Lindsay’s background in psychology and psychoanalytic training 
• how “your type” can be a Freudian pattern tied to attention and people pleasing 
• Ivy’s story and the idea of reparenting through partners without chasing perfection 
• single parenting realities with...

We catch up on the chaos behind recording a big guest, then swap real-life stories that swing from airport anxiety to a tram moment so funny it turns a whole crowd into an audience. After that, we read our most unhinged dating app messages and break down the red flags, boundaries, and texting behavior that instantly kills attraction. 

• Shouting out Daphne Meeks and the technical issues that nearly derailed the recording 
• Ivy’s short Colorado trip as a reset and a reminder to take the trip anyway 
• The Denver airport tram story and the accidental “muscles save...

A haunted swingers house. A survivor story that turns your stomach. And dating advice that actually lands because it’s paid for in real life. We’re joined by Daphne Minks, a creator behind Vortex 29, who shows up with humor, patience, and the kind of honesty that makes you laugh one minute and sit in silence the next.

We talk about her past in the public eye, what it means to carry a controversial name, and how stalking and fear can reshape every choice you make. Daphne breaks down heavy metal poisoning in plain language, including mercury expo...

We trade two wildly different dating updates: Scarlett’s tall, funny Snapchat guy with a missing-tooth twist and Ivy’s chaotic weekend that somehow includes a yacht, a pool party, and hotel hookups. Mary Jane joins us to react, hype us up, and get real about red flags, green flags, and why dating today can feel like a survival sport. 
• Mary Jane’s first guest spot and why she’s an OG 
• Scarlett’s Tinder to Snapchat match and the “nice beard” pull 
• The missing tooth confession and what it signals about priorities 
• Free housing under a dorm and the quest...

We’re back from a long break and catch you up on six chaotic weeks that include a breakup, dating app nonsense, and multiple nights out that go off the rails. We talk through what emotional maturity looks like, where our boundaries should have been stronger, and why our friendship keeps everything fun even when life is messy. 
• the breakup story and how lack of communication changes everything 
• choosing grace while still calling out emotional immaturity 
• the reality of being newly single and what we want next 
• awkward nights out, unwanted attention, and the pressure to “be nice” <...

We close out season one by getting honest about how far we’ve come, what we’ve learned behind the mic, and why this podcast has become real therapy for us. We share life updates, hard truths about work stress and relationships, and the season two cliffhangers we can’t wait to tell you. 
• season finale recap and what changes from episode one to now 
• gratitude for listeners plus feedback on sound and growth 
• six-week break plans and why we still stay active on socials 
• career pressure, burnout, and the difference between failing and drowning 
• adopting Ashe...

A relationship can feel amazing in private, then suddenly you have to answer the scary questions out loud: When do my friends meet them? When does my family meet them? When do my kids meet them? We talk through that exact pressure, including why first impressions can be hard to recover from and how to pace introductions when you actually see potential.

We also get real about the messy context that surrounds dating in your 30s and 40s: supporting a partner through grief when you are still learning each other, coping with interview anxiety and confidence dips...

You ever have a date feel totally normal… until it suddenly turns into a crime scene with one missing person? Scarlett finally meets a guy she’s been texting, sits through dinner, and steps away to use the bathroom. When she comes back, he’s gone, the calls don’t go through, and the spiral starts: What did I say, what did I do, what did he see that made him bail? We talk about ghosting, rejection, and why a lack of closure can torch your confidence even when you know the other person is the problem.

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He texts back in minutes all day, then goes silent every single night and somehow expects you to be cool about it. We’ve both been there, and we’re not pretending it doesn’t mess with your head. We kick things off with real-life updates, then dive straight into the dating behaviors that trigger our biggest toxic traits: overthinking, reading into patterns, and wondering if you’re being treated like a last resort.

From “acting unbothered” while mentally building a full case file to shutting down the moment conflict gets loud, we break down what those reactions ac...

You ever catch yourself saying “I hate toxic behavior” while secretly loving the exact same thing when it’s wrapped in good chemistry? We’re Ivy Noor and Scarlett May, and we’re turning our unfiltered bestie energy on a topic that hits way too close: toxic traits we secretly love, secretly hate, and sometimes can’t even name until we’re already in it.

We start with real life updates and the behind the scenes of friendship: how we get mean when we’re stressed, how we finally say the hard thing, and why honest feedback can be the diffe...

We trade the worst breakup stories we’ve lived through and the wild reasons people use to end relationships when they don’t want to be honest. Along the way, we unpack ghosting, breakup texts, emotional cheating, and what we owe each other when we’re done. 
• Scarlett’s post-drought hookup recap and what it unlocks emotionally 
• April Fools alibi prank and who really has your back 
• Birthday prep stress and the burnt cake meltdown 
• Worst ways to get dumped and the pettiest excuses 
• Getting dumped for “not being supportive” after an almost deer accident 
• The “It’s n...

We catch up on the mess of modern dating, from love bombing and missing social media clues to the moment you realize someone’s “schedule” might not be normal. Then we get real about clean versus dirty turn-ons, how fantasies work, and why the best sex happens when it feels safe and unforced. 
• hitting 100 downloads and celebrating with wine 
• Scarlett’s week update and the A plus man letdown 
• love bombing on dating apps and sudden ghosting 
• spotting prison texting style red flags and blocking fast 
• reopening the X Files by texting exes for a confidence boost 

The girls love their wine even if it’s being served out of a large dick and balls decanter! These girls will stop at nothing for their booze.

 Scarlet’s celebrating an A like the academic weapon she is… while Ivy is running on zero sleep which her gyno will for sure be asking questions!

We’re talking:

Not every friendship is built to last—som...

This week, Ivy and Scarlett are unpacking best dates, worst dates, and decisions that absolutely should NOT count as extra credit. From “this could be the one” to “I need to leave immediately,” no date is safe.

Oh—and it gets worse.

We’re talking a full-blown cockroach situation that will have you rethinking every hookup, plus a completely unhinged debate: how many times can a golden retriever lick you before it’s too much? (Yes, this is a real conversation.)

Add in bad choices, zero regrets, and Ivy trying to keep Scarle...

This episode is pure chaos—in the best way. Scarlett and Ivy are spilling everything from pH reality checks to ultrasound mishaps that turned into stories they’ll never forget. They get into the dealbreakers people swear they don’t have, the float trip that took a turn nobody saw coming, and those moments where the only advice is: you just gotta get out of there.

The mics are on, the filter is off, and nothing is off-limits.

Quick correction in this episode Besties: We are not #9 in relationship pods on all of Apple pods just i...

Scarlett thought she found a cute kitten… but instead found herself caught in a scam. 🐱 Meanwhile Ivy is still out here thriving in the dating scene. From getting catfished and “dick-scammed” to figuring out who’s actually worth meeting up with, the girls break down the wild side of online dating. They’re also sharing the must-know safety tips for meeting someone new—because a good date is great, but staying safe is even better

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We get deeper into learning about us and you get to learn who we are because we tell in-depth stories and we’re  ashamed of them because we’re nothing untouched!

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 This is our very first episode and we are excited!! We tell our besties who we are and what we’re about and how we got started and it’s exciting for us. We hope you listen in.

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We went to 2 separate exotic dancer shows and we love to talk about it all!! We don’t hold back!

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In this episode, you’re gonna hear a lot of red flags and a little bit of green flags but this episode is really raw. It’s about our experiences and I think you besties are gonna like it. Best part is you will hear the rest in the next episode

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