Dated

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Dated, a show that investigates love. Hosted by Danny Sellers.

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GOVERNOR KEISHA
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Today at 2:00 PM

GOOD MORNING, DATED IS HERE.

Danny and Torrance talk about the mid term elections, Love Is Blind and A VERY WILD DM OF THE WEEK.

Hosted by Danny Sellers and Torrance Winder
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FIRST DATE HATE
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Last Tuesday at 8:15 AM

A DAY LATE BUT WE MADE IT TO ANOTHER WEEK OF THE BEST DATING PODCAST IN THE WORLD, TECHNICALLY.

Danny and Torrance discuss rules to introducing family to your partner. Torrance also shares a story of almost getting stood up this week. And they breakdown a funny Halloween recap.

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YOU NEED SOMEBODY
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10/26/2026

WE ARE BACK FOR ANOTHER EPISODE OF DATED!

Danny and Torrance talk about weekend plans, Nathen Fielder's new Documentary, Verzuz and the meaning of the word "Relationship".

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WE RANKED THE BEST LOVE MAKING SONGS
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10/19/2026

WELCOME BACK TO ANOTHER PERFECT EPISODE OF DATED!

Danny and Torrance come back to share their all time love making songs the "Cracked Soundtrack". And we finish the episode with an interesting listener question and Toxic take!

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HOEMECOMING KINGS
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10/12/2026

WE ARE BACK FROM THE LAND OF SWEET TEA AND FRIED CHICKEN!

Danny holds down a solo episode with a twist! Stay tuned for a snippet of Danny and Torrance's unhinged recording, live from Homecoming.

We discuss multi-decade long relationships, staying grounded and the importance of checking in on your people.

And after the homecoming we had....we definitely have a toxic take.

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BABY MOMMA FRIEND
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10/05/2026

ANOTHER TIMELY EPISODE OF DATED IS HERE!

Danny and Torrance talk about their love for A Different World from past and present. The Cornell 7 case and discuss Kendrick Sampson (Nathan from Insecure) talk about preferring to have a child with his friend vs with a lover.


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WE HAVE COMPANY W/ Courtney Haynes
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09/28/2026

WE HAVE ANOTHER WORLD RECORD EPISODE OF DATED HERE!

Today's guest is Courtney Haynes a hilarious comedian and homie. We get into break up talks, DM of the week and musty apartments.

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HE BELONGS TO THE STREETS!
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09/21/2026

WELP...WE HAVE ANOTHER EPISODE OF DATED!

Danny and Torrance get into some current events(slightly political..with Mitch McConnell and Ed Sheeran). But we get back to investigating love, and specifically touch on finding love after a tough break up.

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COME ON OVER TO MY PLACE
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09/14/2026

WELL WELL WELL....IF IT ISN'T ANOTHER EPISODE OF DATED.

Danny and Torrance recap Danny's show this weekend, Emmy's, and cookout RSVP etiquette. They also discuss a listener question about why so many people are reluctant to settle down.

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FIRST DAY FITS w/ Aaron Monte
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09/07/2026

WELCOME BACK TO ANOTHER EPISODE OF DATED!

This episode of Dated, Danny and Torrance are joined by Comedian, Aaron Monte!

We argue about the going rate of Beyonce Tickets, First Loves and answer a listener question about cheating that gets a littttle tricky.

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PRO BOWL SCAMMERS
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08/31/2026

WELCOME BACK TO ANOTHER EPISODE OF DATED.

In this episode, Danny and Torrance explore love, dating, and the nuances of courtship. They discusses the importance of mutual effort in relationships and the the three-month rule when it comes to getting rid of a roster.

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WORST DATING STORIES
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08/24/2026

WELCOME BACK TO ANOTHER EPISODE OF DATED.

Danny and Torrance get into some current events, share worse date stories and debate the best black music biopics of all time.

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Bring Draws To Dinner
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08/17/2026

Well Well Well, Another episode of Dated has arrived!

We recap Torrance's Birthday, Top Bachelor Party Cities and more.

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Too Chatty
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08/10/2026

Welcome back to a new episode of Dated!

Danny and Torrance hold it down to talk about their remaining summertime check list. Partners having friends of the opposite sex. And DMs OF THE WEEK!


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DC Cinematic Day Parties
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08/05/2026

On this episode of Dated, Danny and Torrance get into WNBA All-Star Weekend, Shooting your shot at the Bottle girls and broke things guys do on dates.

They also get into some very very interesting DMs of the WEEK!

Hosted by Danny Sellers and Torrance Winder
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DC Cinematic Day Parties
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08/03/2026

On this episode of Dated, Danny and Torrance get into WNBA All-Star Weekend, Shooting your shot at the Bottle girls and broke things guys do on dates.

They also get into some very very interesting DMs of the WEEK!

Hosted by Danny Sellers and Torrance Winder
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EX Files
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07/27/2026

On this episode of Dated, Danny and Torrance get into some current events like LeBron goin to Philly, The Odyssey and New York vs LA Summer.

They also discuss the idea that marriage is for broke people. Followed by the world famous DM of the Week and finish with answering an interesting question from our listeners.

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All My Exes Live in Texas
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07/20/2026

On this episode of Dated, Danny and Torrance explore a wide range of topics from current events like the Weho floods and summer concerts.

They also dive into how family dynamics can affect relationships young and old.

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FAMILY REUNION
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07/13/2026

On this episode of Dated, Danny and Torrance are reunited once again! They catch up on current events like FIFA, Jay-Z and more.

They also discuss what it means to be too picky on dating apps. And follow that with the DM of the week!

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Co-Host: Torrance Winder

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To Live & Die in L.A
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07/06/2026

ANOTHER SOLO EPISODE WITH DANNY!

I'VE HAD TO MOVE ACROSS THE COUNTRY IN A FEW WEEKS. SO I WANTED TO UPDATE YOU ON MY LAST DAYS IN NEW YORK, WHY I MOVED AND TIPS TO SLIDE ON YOUR CRUSH IN PERSON.

Love you,

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Pretty Wap w/ Lauren Davis
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06/29/2026

On this episode of Dated, Danny is joined by Comedian and Actress Lauren Davis! This discuss dating internationally, being a demisexual and interracial dating.

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BONUS BIRTHDAY POD
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06/25/2026

ITS MY BIRTHDAY. SO I WANTED TO RAMBLE ABOUT SOME LIFE UPDATES CAUSE THERE AREN'T ANY RULES IN PODCASTING.

LOVE YOU,

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Love A Deal w/ Leonard Smith Jr
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06/22/2026

On This episode of Dated, Danny sits down with Comedian and Actor Leonard Smith Jr! They talk about family trauma, first memories of love, love bombing and more!

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I GOT A HUNDRED HUGS AND A HUNDRED KISSES
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06/15/2026

AYE MAN! WE (ME DANNY) HAD SOME TECHNICAL DIFFICULTIES FOR THIS WEEKS RECORDING. SO IM GIVING YOU A SPECIAL (HUNGOVER) EPISODE OF DATED. ITS A QUICK 20MIN RECAPPING THE WEEKEND.

Love you,

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People Be Gay
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06/08/2026

Hosts Danny Sellers and Torrance share personal stories, insights on dating culture, and reflections on Pride Month, all delivered with humor and honesty. In this candid episode, hosts Torrance and Danny Sellers explore modern dating behaviors, including ghosting, benching, and zombieing. Ending the episode with the fan favorite, DM of the Week.

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Real Lover Girl w/ Cali From New York
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06/01/2026

On this episode of Dated, Danny is joined by Cali from New York! Cali shares her journey through love, relationships, and artistry. From growing up with two moms in Brooklyn to navigating the complexities of love, monogamy, and her music career.

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Shabang
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05/25/2026

On this episode of Dated, Danny and Torrance discuss the counterintuitive truths about communication, intimacy, and the hefty costs of dating in today’s city life — from NYC's high price tags to the emotional toll of ghosting, petty power plays, and the need for a soft place to land.

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Co-Host: Torrance Winder

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Am I The Fuck Boy? w/ Andie Popova
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05/18/2026

In this episode, Danny interviews Andie Popova, co-founder of Ask a Fuckboy, exploring the origins of the show, the meaning of 'fuck boy,' and current events in music and social media. They also discuss dating stories, the most Fuck Boy Neighborhoods in New York and other dating trends that dominate modern dating.

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Y Tu Mamá
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05/11/2026

On this episode of Date, Danny and Torrance explore the significance of titles, and the impact of AI on perceptions of reality. In this candid episode, they guys explore modern dating dynamics, including situationships, dating app quirks, and navigating relationship challenges with humor and honesty.

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Spring Time Chi w/ Julia Parzyck
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05/04/2026

On this episode of Dated, Danny is joined by Julia Parzyck (@fitfatandallthat) !

They talk about the process of grief after a long relationship, dating in Chicago, and dating as an online personality.

Julia also discusses how overcoming bullying and an eating disorder propelled her to the work she currently does around body image coaching and inclusive styling.

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Check Your DMs
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04/27/2026

On this episode of Date Danny and Torrance delving into the complexities of long-distance relationships, and accountability in the entertainment industry. They share personal insights, hilarious DMs, and candid conversations about love, morality, and navigating relationships as creatives.

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We Fixed New York Dating
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04/20/2026

On this episode of Dated, Danny is joined by friend of the pod Aaron to break down the dos and don’ts of spring and summer dating in New York. Aaron also shares his go-to neighborhoods and bars where you can ditch the apps, get off your phone, and actually meet people in real life.

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All In The Family
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04/13/2026

On this episode of Dated, Danny and Torrance have a candid conversation between friends about love, dating, life challenges, and personal growth. They explore topics like the dating scene in LA, the importance of giving family grace, and the pursuit of living like with a purpose.

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Co-Host: Torrance Winder

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On Bended Knee
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04/06/2026

On this episode of Dated, Danny and Torrance break down current events, including the ongoing tension between Geno Auriemma and Dawn Staley, and share their perspective on the recent Jaden Ivey release.

In the main segment, they dive into their rules, expectations, and opinions on getting flown out. And lastly, they get a listener question around how long is too long to be in a relationship but not married...

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B____s in Long Island W/ Laura Rankin
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03/30/2026

On this episode of Dated, Danny is joined by comedian and friend Laura Rankin! Laura shares love stories that range from Long Island to South Africa, with a couple stops in between!

They also field a listener question about why Millennial Men are so shy when approaching women...

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Low Down Dirty Shame
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03/24/2026

In this episode, hosts Danny and Torrance explore the black family dynamic in relation to queerness. They analyze the difference between embracing vs tolerating loved ones of a different sexual orientation. And they unpack how shame can play a large part in how we face these topics.

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LoveMaxxing w/ Ali Drapos
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#6
03/16/2026

On this episode of Dated, Danny is joined by comedian, actor, and friend Ali Drapos!

Ali shares her story of love—from awkward high school crushes to a long-term relationship that led to a little arrested development. She and Danny also get real about what it’s like trying to date in New York while chasing a career in comedy… and why it’s about as chaotic as it sounds.

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3 AM in Panama City Beach
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03/09/2026

Torrance and Danny peel back the layers on why commitment can feel like a mental trap and how cultural expectations fuel that fear. If you’ve ever hesitated to settle down because you’re worried about giving up control or being vulnerable.

They discuss the ingredients to a "Good Wedding". A listener also asks, would you be comfortable with your current partner staying in contact with their

ex.

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Age is a Number w/ Brandi Denise
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#4
03/02/2026

On this episode of Dated, Danny is joined by comedian, actress, writer and friend - Brandy Denise! They explore themes of love, family, education, and the journey into comedy. Brandy shares her first memory of love, reflecting on a special moment with her father. They discuss the impact of growing up in a military family, attending an HBCU, and the importance of being around a supportive community. The conversation shifts to dating experiences in college, the influence of comedy legends, and the transition from Chicago to Los Angeles, highlighting the challenges and triumphs of pursuing a career in comedy...


Cam Newton's Burner
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#3
02/23/2026

On this episode of Dated, Danny and Torrance talk about Love is Blind, the new Netflix Doc about Americas Next Top Model. They also discuss some recent themes in dating around older Black Men and their trauma.

And lastly, a listener submits a tricky question around interracial dating.

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Co-Host: Torrance Winder

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