No More BullShift

We stay stuck doing the same things because being a beginner is uncomfortable. But here's what nobody tells you — that discomfort is where the alive feeling lives.

In this episode, Marci and I talk about why we avoid trying new things, how learning a new skill actually rewires your brain, and why it doesn't have to be perfect or productive or profitable. It can just be yours.

Try one new thing this week. That's the challenge. Tell us what it is in the comments.

📓 JOURNAL PROMPTS FROM THIS EPISODE:

What's one thing...

What if the thoughts running your life aren't even yours? In this episode, Marci and I get vulnerable about the core beliefs we've carried for decades — beliefs that got imprinted so early they feel like facts. From a second grade art teacher who told me "mess up, fix up" to my 85-year-old mother who's been on a diet every single day of her life, we dig into the operating systems running in the background of our choices and ask: is it time for an upgrade?

We talk about procrastination as avoidance, superpowers that become weaknesses when overused, th...

Meet Sherry — a marketing teacher of 32 years, DECA advisor, yoga-certified wellness advocate, mom of two adult daughters, and the woman behind an upcoming brand called House of Honeydale. She's retiring in August, starting a business with her sister, caring for aging parents, and trying to figure out who she is underneath all the roles she's been playing for everyone else.

In this episode, Peggy reads Sherry's birth chart and uncovers why she's wired to nurture everyone at her own expense — and why right now, the universe is telling her it's finally her turn. Then Marci steps in with...

Everyone calls it a midlife crisis. But what if the real issue is quieter — and harder to name?

Peggy and Marci dig into the identity shifts women go through in midlife — the small ones you barely notice and the big ones that knock you sideways. Peggy gets personal about her own experience, and Marci brings a practical coaching tool you can start using today.

If you've ever asked yourself "who am I now?" — press play.

Your homework: 10 minutes a day. No phone. Just sit with yourself and see what comes.

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What if the life you once prayed for is the one you're living right now — and you've just been too busy to notice?

Peggy and Marci kick off this episode with a simple question inspired by watching pro basketball: do those players wake up every day amazed they get to do what they do? And if some of them don't — what are WE taking for granted?

From careers we built to towns we dreamed of living in to kids we wished for, this episode is a challenge to stop going through the motions and start reco...

Let's talk about it. The spark. The confidence. The intimacy. The stuff nobody wants to say out loud.

In this episode Peggy and Marci go there — what "sexy" actually means (spoiler: it's a state of mind), why confidence is the most attractive thing you can wear, what to do when the spark has faded in your marriage, and the real reason your partner isn't getting lucky tonight (hint: put the dishes away first).

We talk about the shame around sexless marriages, why comparison is killing your relationship, how masculine and feminine energy plays into connection, an...

Why do you keep eating the cookies when you know you don't want them? Why do you keep dating the same guy in a different body? Why do you set a goal and blow it up right when you're about to succeed?

It's called an extinction burst — and it's your nervous system throwing a tantrum because you're changing. In this episode, Peggy and Marci break down self-sabotage, limiting beliefs, and why your brain literally fights your progress. Plus — why knowing your personality type might be the thing that finally helps you stop working against yourself.

Your...

Are you spinning in your own head, stuck in a loop you can't get out of? What if the fastest way out wasn't another self-help book — but showing up for someone else?

In this episode, Peggy and Marci sit down with Jessica, Vice President of the Victory Project Girls Campus — a nonprofit in Dayton, Ohio that is changing the trajectory of young people's lives one attitude shift at a time.

What these kids are overcoming will put your own stuck-ness in perspective. And what they're being taught about attitude, effort, and cons...

Be honest — how many times today have you already "should-ed" on yourself? I should be further along. I should have more patience. I should be doing better than this.

We see you. And we're calling it out.

In this mini episode we're dropping five things you need to quietly eliminate from your life — starting today. Not next Monday. Not after you "get it together." Today.

Here's what we know: these five things are stealing your joy right now and there's a good chance you don't even realize it's happening. We're not asking you to o...

Confidence and Authenticity: The Buzzwords That Actually Means Something

Peggy and Marci are calling out the most overused word in the self-help space — authenticity — and actually telling you what it means.

Spoiler: it doesn't mean filtering nothing and calling yourself brave. It means showing up as your truest self, even when it's uncomfortable, even when nobody claps, even when the room isn't ready. And yes, sometimes that's hard.

In this episode, they tackle the chicken-or-the-egg question nobody talks about: does confidence come before authenticity, or the other way around? (The answer: neither. Courage come...

You set the goal. You started manifesting. And then somewhere along the way you thought — wait. Is this actually what I want?

Good. That means you're paying attention.

In this episode Peggy and Marci dive into the art of the pivot — and why changing direction isn't giving up, it's course correcting. Because the journey of manifesting isn't just about the destination. It's about who you become on the way there. And sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is take the off-ramp. This one is your permission slip to pivot — wisely. 💛

Journal Prompts t...

Manifestation isn't magic. It's a science. And once you understand the three laws behind it — attraction, assumption and vibration — you stop wishing and start creating.

In this finale of their March manifestation series, Peggy and Marci break down the laws that actually supercharge your practice. Not the fluffy stuff. The real mechanics of why some people seem to effortlessly attract what they want while others keep hitting the same walls.

Here's the truth: you are always manifesting. The question is whether you're doing it consciously or by default. And if you're still replaying your "Pam mome...

You don't need a fancy notebook. You don't need perfect handwriting. You don't need an hour of uninterrupted silence. You need five minutes and a willingness to get honest with yourself.

In this episode Peggy and Marci make the case for journaling — not the Instagram-worthy kind with color coded tabs and washi tape — but the real, raw, stream of consciousness kind that actually moves the needle on your life.

They break down why writing things down hits differently than just thinking them. There's actual science behind it! Plus they share some of t...

You've set the intention. You believe it's possible. You've taken the inspired action. So why isn't it here yet?

Welcome to the fourth pillar of manifestation — and honestly the trickiest one. Receiving.

Because here's what nobody tells you: most people are better at wanting things than they are at actually letting them in. And the gap between those two things? That's where limiting beliefs, negative self-talk and low frequency emotions are quietly running the show.

In this final episode of their four-part manifestation series, Peggy and Marci get into the real work of be...

What if the thing you're calling a failure is actually the universe's way of redirecting you to something better?

That's the question Peggy and Marci are sitting with in this mini shift — and the answer might just change how you look at every setback you've ever had.

Because here's the truth: the moments that feel like the end of the world rarely are. More often they're a detour. A plot twist. A happy accident that you won't fully understand until you're on the other side of it looking back. They dig into why reframing failure is...

⚠️ Note: Suicidal ideation is briefly and sensitively mentioned in this episode. If you or someone you know is struggling please reach out to the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988.

What if the reason your manifestation isn't working isn't because you're not trying hard enough — but because you're holding on too tight? That's the heart of this episode. And it's a harder concept than it sounds.

In the third pillar of their manifestation series, Peggy and Marci get into the art of detachment — which is not the same as not caring...

Here's your challenge. Just one day. Starting right now.

For 24 hours — whatever happens, good, bad, frustrating, embarrassing, inconvenient — your only job is to believe it's working in your favor. Even if you can't see how. Even if it makes zero sense. Even if you're sitting in traffic, low on gas, late for a date with ketchup on your shirt.Yes. All of it.

We walk you through a full day in the life of Olivia — a woman who took the challenge. And then there's Pam. Pam had the exact same day as Olivia. You'll want to be...

The second installment of the March Manifestation Series dives into the transformative power of aligned and inspired action in the realm of manifestation. Peggy and Marci, the dynamic duo of the No More BullShift podcast, engage in a heartwarming and insightful conversation that explores the nuances of taking action while manifesting desires. They reflect on their personal experiences with manifestation, noting how, despite their drive and hustle, they sometimes struggle with the idea of simply sitting back and waiting for things to materialize. Instead, they advocate for a balanced approach where action is both intentional and aligned with one's...

Are you blocking clarity by being too busy? We often override our hearts with our 'shoulds'. This week, we’re shifting from the hustle to the pause. Because the universe doesn't punish you for resting, it rewards you for being in alignment.

Clarity is key when it comes to manifestation, and in today’s mini episode, Peggy and Marci dive right into the nitty-gritty of figuring out what they want to manifest by the year 2026. They share their personal journeys, revealing their ambitious goals—like Peggy’s dream of hitting 100,000 followers on her YouTube channel and Marci's desire t...

Stop praying for a destination while your car is still in park.

Manifestation isn't just praying and hoping while your car is in park. It’s about taking something that is hidden in your heart and moving it into reality. Today, we’re cutting through the 'wishing' BullShift to help you get honestly clear on what you actually want.

Embarking on the first of four episodes dedicated to the principles of manifestation, Peggy and Marci set the stage for an enlightening month focused on luck and creating the life we dream of. The episode opens with...

Peggy and Marci dive right into a thought-provoking discussion on the notion that personal growth can coexist with happiness, challenging the popular belief that suffering is a prerequisite for transformation. Throughout the episode, they tackle uncomfortable truths about emotional struggles, including the dangers of toxic positivity and the ego's tendency to compare pain levels. With a sprinkle of humor and relatable anecdotes, they highlight the importance of choosing joy despite life’s challenges, encouraging everyone to embrace their power and create their own happiness. Join them as they unravel the complexities of personal development while maintaining a lighthearted vibe, pr...

We almost didn't do this.

Two women. A combined century of life experience. More than a few hard lessons between us. And one question we couldn't stop asking: why isn't anyone talking about THIS stuff the way we talk about it with each other? So we built it ourselves.

This is our story — who we are, where we've been, and why we started No More BullShift.

Fair warning: we're not for everyone. We're too real, too honest and maybe a little too comfortable saying the things out loud that most people only think.

How is YOUR Flirting Game?

We brought in a special guest this week — Marci's husband Cam — and things got real very quickly.

How did they meet? What actually works when it comes to attraction? And why are so many people making modern dating so much harder than it needs to be?

Cam gives us the male perspective we didn't know we needed — honest, funny and surprisingly refreshing.

Plus Marci shares the story of how she almost didn't show up the night they met. Thank...

When did you last do something just for you — and not feel guilty about it? We're going there.

Because self love isn't a bubble bath and a face mask. It's the way you talk to yourself at 2am. It's the boundary you keep making excuses not to set. It's the version of you that future you is either thanking — or apologizing to.

In this episode we break it all down into three things we actually work on ourselves: How we take care of our bodies — and why Peggy is up at 4am doing it 😄The inner nar...

Life's unexpected twists can throw anyone for a loop, but Peggy and Marci are here to remind listeners that these challenges are not just hurdles; they're opportunities for growth. In this mini-episode of "No More Bull Shift," they dive into the art of navigating life changes with grace and humor. They emphasize the importance of processing emotions rather than bottling them up, advocating for a balance between feeling and healing. With a sprinkle of personal anecdotes, including a travel mishap that turned into a lesson in resilience, they illustrate how gratitude can pivot one’s perspective. So whether it’s a...

Peggy and Marci dive into motivational setbacks as we pursue our goals. Throughout their lively banter, they share tips on maintaining motivation, tackling long-term aspirations, and the importance of self-discipline and consistency. The duo also highlights the necessity of surrounding oneself with positive influences while clearing out any “energy leaks” that might drag you down. By the end, they end with a powerful reminder: it’s all about the small wins leading to big changes, and every step forward counts!

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Peggy and Marci dive into the transformative journey of shifting from a victim mindset to one of empowerment, emphasizing that life's challenges are not just hurdles but opportunities for growth. They kick things off by discussing the importance of not just setting tangible goals but also addressing the emotional patterns that can either support or sabotage those goals. Through personal anecdotes and insightful dialogue, they explore mental shifts—like the realization that "maybe it won't be that bad"—that can help lighten the load of our self-imposed pressures. The duo underscores the significance of self-compassion and the power of posi...

Be honest. Have you ever secretly enjoyed someone asking "how do you DO it all?" 😬

We're going there. Because victim mentality doesn't always look like falling apart — sometimes it looks like being the one who holds everything together while quietly resenting everyone around you.

We're calling out the sneaky ways we all play the victim without even realizing it. And yes — even women living the so-called "charmed life" are not immune.

This one might make you uncomfortable. Good. That means it's working. 💛

Journal Prompts to Go Deeper:

📝 The Resentment Check Where i...

Peggy and Marci dive into the heart of empowerment in this engaging episode of "No More BullShift," where they emphasize that life’s challenges aren’t just random trials; they’re opportunities for growth. The duo advocates for starting small when it comes to making lasting changes, suggesting that tackling manageable goals can pave the way for sustainable success.

Through witty banter, they share practical steps—like cutting down on dessert or streamlining routines—that make achieving ambitions feel less daunting and more attainable. As they wrap up, Peggy and Marci remind everyone to celebrate their small wins, rein...

Peggy and Marci dive into the transformative power of literature in this episode, focusing on how books can shift perspectives from victimhood to empowerment. They kick things off with a discussion on impactful reads that inspire motivation and personal growth, highlighting the importance of understanding different personality types for self-motivation. As they chat about titles like "The Four Tendencies" by Gretchen Rubin and "Let Them" by Mel Robbins, they emphasize that finding one's motivation can be as unique as a fingerprint. Their lighthearted banter showcases not just their insights but also the relatable journey of navigating life's challenges and...

Honest question — how are those New Year's resolutions going?

Yeah. We thought so. 😄

Here's what nobody tells you: January might actually be the worst time to demand massive change from yourself. And the fact that yours aren't sticking? That's not a willpower problem. That's a timing problem.

In this episode we're throwing out the resolution rulebook and replacing it with something that actually works. We get into why most resolutions crash by mid-January, what ancient wisdom says about WHEN to actually make big changes, and why spring energy — not winter pressure — is where real tran...

Every January the same thing happens. You make the list. Lose weight. Save money. Exercise more. Be better. And by February — or let's be honest, January 15th — the list is in the trash and the guilt has moved in. There's a reason for that. And it's not because you're lazy or undisciplined. It's because the way most people set goals is fundamentally broken.

In this episode Peggy and Marci cut through the noise on goal setting — and give you a completely different way to think about what you actually want and why. They also make the case for us...