The Ordinary Way: Life and Holiness

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By: Lupe Acevedo, Ryan Hamm, and Brian Nutt

The Ordinary Way: Life and Holiness was created out of a shared pastoral calling to help people connect Scripture with the realities of everyday life. We have sat with people in moments of deep faith and deep struggle, hospital rooms, kitchen tables, sanctuaries, and quiet conversations filled with honest questions.We are shaped by the Methodist tradition, particularly its emphasis on grace, community, and holiness of heart and life. For us holiness is about becoming more fully who God created us to be, loving God, and loving neighbor in tangible, embodied ways.This podcast is not about having all the...

Faith That Never Risks Isn’t Trust
#15
Yesterday at 10:17 PM

Many of us trust God with eternity… but struggle to trust Him in everyday life.

In this episode, we continue our conversation about relational faith, surrender, and the deeper barriers that keep us from fully walking with God. We talk honestly about control, fear, self-reliance, and why trusting God often feels difficult in real time.

We explore:

Why surrender feels riskyThe fears that drive our need for controlHow shallow trust developsWhy consistency matters more than emotional spiritual momentsHow trust is actually formed through daily relationship with God

Faith that never risks an...


Unbelief in Disguise
#14
05/02/2026

Many of us trust God with eternity but we can live disconnected from Him in our everyday lives.

In this episode, we wrestle with a hard question: Is it possible to believe in heaven, but not actually want God?

We explore the difference between transactional faith and relational faith, and how easy it is to reduce Christianity to a one-time decision instead of an ongoing relationship.

We talk about:

Why we trust God for the future but struggle to trust Him todaySigns we may be disconnected from God in daily lifeThe difference...


Episode 13: Multiplication Is The Mission – Part 2
04/25/2026

Last episode, we diagnosed the problem. In this episode, we talk about the solution: multiplication.

If the goal isn’t just gathering people, but sending them, then everything has to change.

We dive into:

The shift from gathering to sendingWhy disciple-making—not programs—is the starting pointThe difference between developing leaders and just filling rolesWhat it really takes to move from addition to multiplicationThe internal resistance we all feel—control, comfort, and letting go

Because multiplication isn’t just about doing more… it’s about becoming something different.

A church that multiplies doe...


Multiplication Is The Mission: Moving Beyond the Walls
#12
04/19/2026

Jesus never called His followers to simply gather, He called them to multiply.

In this episode, we take a hard look at what it really means to move beyond the walls of the church and into a life of multiplication. Not just growing attendance, but making disciples who make disciples.

We talk through:

The difference between addition and true multiplicationWhy most churches unintentionally settle for growth that doesn’t reproduceBarriers that keep churches from reaching beyond themselvesWhy conversion growth is so rare and what that revealsThe tension between comfort and mission

We also sh...


No Hiding in the Back Row – Wesleyan Edition
#11
04/12/2026

Most churches today have small groups, but what if we’ve missed what made them powerful in the first place?

In this episode, we explore the difference between modern small groups and the historic Wesleyan class meeting model, a movement built not on information, but transformation.

At the center of it all is one simple, uncomfortable question: “How is it with your soul?”

We talk about:

Why many churches are over-informed but under-transformedThe difference between discussion and true discipleshipWhy vulnerability is essential, but often avoidedWhat made early Methodism grow so rapidlyHow we can re...


Congrats, You’re Hired (By God)
#10
03/28/2026

What if one of the biggest misunderstandings in the church today isn’t about belief, but about calling?

In this episode of The Ordinary Way: Life and Holiness, we unpack what it really means to live with a culture of calling. Not just for pastors or leaders, but for every believer.

Too often, we think calling belongs to someone else. The “more qualified,” the “more spiritual,” or the ones on stage. But Scripture tells a different story.

You are called, by God, to God, and for God.

We talk about:

What it me...


Kingdom over Castles
#9
03/21/2026

It’s easy to build a life centered around comfort, control, and personal success, our own little “castle.” But what happens when that mindset collides with the call of Jesus?

In this episode, we unpack the tension between building our own kingdom and living fully in God’s Kingdom. Jesus didn’t invite us to simply add Him into our lives, He calls us to reorder everything around Him.

We talk through:

The subtle ways we try to fit God into our plans instead of surrendering to HisThe real struggle of obedience when it’s inconvenie...


The Waiting Room
#8
03/14/2026

What does faithfulness look like when God’s people are in a season of waiting?

In this episode of The Ordinary Way: Life and Holiness, we continue our discussion on the Firebrand article “The Coming Re-Formation of the Church” and explore the posture believers should take when God seems to be preparing something new.

Scripture repeatedly shows that God forms His people in seasons of waiting. Abraham waited decades for God’s promise. Israel waited centuries for the Messiah. Even the early church waited in prayer before the Holy Spirit was poured out at Pentecost.

In...


Can You Teach an Old Dog New Tricks? - Part 2
#7
03/07/2026

In this episode of The Ordinary Way: Life and Holiness, we continue our conversation on church re-formation by exploring the difficult but necessary practice of honest self-examination.

Why is it so hard for individuals and churches to take a hard look in the mirror? What traditions or “sacred cows” keep us from asking the questions we need to ask? And what would it look like for a church to genuinely invite the Holy Spirit to examine its life and mission?

In this discussion we talk about:

• Why pride and self-protection make self-examination difficult

•...


Can You Teach an Old Dog New Tricks?
#6
02/27/2026

In this episode, we begin our discussion on “The Coming Re-Formation of the Church”.

We explore the visible symptoms of dysfunction in today’s church, declining attendance, young people leaving the faith, politicization, superficial discipleship, and moral failures in leadership. But rather than blaming culture alone, we ask a harder question:

Is the church perfectly designed to produce the results it’s currently getting?

We discuss how our systems, measurements of success, and assumptions about salvation may be forming spectators instead of disciples. If the gospel is reduced to a one-time decision about heaven...


Grace & Salvation (Part 2)
#5
02/14/2026

In Episode 5 of the Ordinary Way Podcast, we continue our discussion on Grace & Salvation with Part 2, focusing on Justifying Grace and Sanctifying Grace.

What does it mean to be declared righteous? How is that different from actually becoming righteous? If justification is a one-time event, what does sanctification look like over a lifetime?

We explore:

The difference between justification (what God does for us) and sanctification (what God does in us)Practical indicators of spiritual growthThe fruit of the Spirit as evidence of transformationWhy Christianity is about transformation, not just self-improvement

From Ezekiel’s...


Grace & Salvation Part 1
#4
02/06/2026

In this episode of the Ordinary Way Podcast, we begin a new conversation about God’s saving grace and how it works in our lives long before we realize it. Using John Wesley’s framework, we explore the three interconnected expressions of grace, Prevenient Grace, Justifying Grace, and Sanctifying Grace, and how they guide the Christian journey toward holy love.

This episode focuses on Prevenient Grace, the grace that comes before salvation. It’s the quiet, steady way God draws people toward Himself through conviction, longing, protection, and moments that seem too meaningful to be coincidence. We talk a...


It Begins with Grace Part 2
#3
02/01/2026

In It Begins with Grace: Pt. 2, the conversation moves beyond grace as forgiveness and into grace as power. Drawing from Romans 6:14, the episode emphasizes that grace doesn’t merely cover sin, it breaks sin’s control by empowering believers through the Holy Spirit.

The discussion challenges common assumptions about holiness, especially the idea that it comes from external rule-following rather than internal transformation. Jesus’ warnings in Matthew 15 and Matthew 7 highlight the danger of outward obedience disconnected from a heart that truly knows God.

Paul’s reflection in 1 Corinthians 15 reframes effort itself, not as self-driven striving, but as g...


It Begins with Grace - Part 1
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01/24/2026

In this episode of The Ordinary Way: Life and Holiness, we begin a multi-part conversation on grace and why everything truly begins there. Using a powerful sermon clip from Alistair Begg reflecting on the man on the cross, we’re reminded that grace has a human face and His name is Jesus.

We unpack what grace really means, why holiness is not something we earn through effort, and how forgiveness is a free and complete gift accomplished through Christ’s once-for-all sacrifice. We explore the inward pull of sin, our tendency toward self-reliance and striving, and how grac...


Why Life and Holiness?
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01/09/2026

Our focus is on fundamental themes appropriate to everyday life of Christians. It is an active life that responds to God's divine grace and in community with the church/other believers compelling us to devote all our efforts to the spiritual and material development of those around us.