Butch Queen After Dark

This week on Butch Queen After Dark, David Brandyn sits down with content creator, commentator, and internet personality Justin James, aka The King of Reads, for an unfiltered conversation about sex, scandal, dating, and life in the public eye.Justin opens up about his sexual awakenings, his love of intimacy, and why kissing might be the most underrated part of sex. We get into the world of sides, the pressure to perform sexually, and why some gay men feel obligated to top or bottom even when they don't enjoy it.But things get even juicier when Justin addresses the...

Queen Kendall pulls up to Butch Queen After Dark for a conversation about sex, confidence, porn, transition, dating, and why she’ll take a Butch Queen over trade any day.

She opens up about her first major sexual awakening, group sex, being a self-described side off camera, and why her personal sex life is all about being taken care of after spending so much time performing for other people. 

We also get into what attracts her to Butch Queens, her definition of trade, hygiene, dating as a trans woman, and the very specific question she use...

It’s Locktober on Butch Queen After Dark, and this week we’re talking chastity, cages, domination, discipline, rubber, fitness, and what happens when you take your penis out of the equation. 

David sits down with Sir Jasper to talk about his journey from identifying as submissive to becoming a Dom—and how putting on a chastity cage unexpectedly helped him get there.

Jasper also opens up about being a Black gay man navigating expectations around masculinity, penis size, topping, and the “BBC” stereotype, and how chastity helped him realize that his dominance didn’t have to come...

On this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, Gabriel joins David for an inightful conversation about sexual freedom, spirituality, nudism, kink, and living without shame. Gabriel explains how nudism became a form of sensual and artistic self-expression, how shamanism and left-hand path philosophy shape his life, and how tantric practices can create deeper sexual connections.The conversation also gets into spit play, role-playing, dominance and submission, being a switch, navigating an open marriage, and supporting a partner whose interests differ from your own. Have a topic you want discussed or someone you want to see interviewed? Email butchqueenpodcast@gmail...

Happy Bisexual Awareness Week! In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Damn Daddy Onyx for an open, funny, and unapologetically freaky conversation about bisexuality, dominance, leather culture, marriage, and sexual freedom after 40.Damn Daddy shares how exploring his attraction to men became a sexual awakening, why he identifies as a top who enjoys dominating other tops, and how one night at a Black ONYX event changed his understanding of leather culture. He also opens up about navigating kink while married to someone outside the leather community, establishing hard limits, practicing consent, and embracing body...

Actor, comedian, writer, and UCB Artistic Director Chris Renfro joins David Brandyn for a funny, candid conversation about what happens when your relationship with sex completely changes.Chris opens up about going from a self-described capital-S “Slut” in their twenties to nearly two years of celibacy, and how stepping away from sex gave them space to rethink what they actually wanted from hookups, intimacy, gender, and relationships. The conversation also gets into Chris’s evolving relationship with gender fluidity and they/them pronouns, experimenting with different identities during the pandemic, navigating gender expression as a working actor, and the import...

This week on Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with ballroom and pageant legend Queen Stasha Sanchez Garcon for a conversation about sex, dating, power, beauty, and what it means to truly know who you are.Stasha gets candid about her love for butch queens, how she wants men to approach her, and the difference between attraction and fetishization. She opens up about navigating relationships as a woman who commands attention everywhere she goes — and why she no longer wants to build a man’s confidence for him. As Stasha puts it, she wants you to come already buil...

On this week of Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Mr. Dominus for a conversation about leather, BDSM, daddy dynamics, submission, and what healthy power exchange can actually look like.

They get into his sexual awakening, his attraction to authority and masculinity, his journey into Black leather culture, and the difference between simply finding someone sexy and trusting someone enough to give them real power.

They also talk about Mr. Dominus’ current dynamic with Daddy Zeus, including protocols, obedience, polyamory, emotional intimacy, and why their relationship was intentionally built without rushing into sex.

This week, David sits down with his number one inspiration, comedian, writer, podcaster, and internet icon Kid Fury! They chat about sex, liberation, growing up Black and gay, bottoming, bathhouses, porn, kink, dating, and why having a public career shouldn’t mean giving up your sexuality.Kid Fury takes us back to one of his earliest sexual awakenings, explains how he eventually realized the world was right about his ass, and talks about learning to embrace his sexuality while building a career in entertainment.This episode is sponsored by my friends over at Frolic Beach Club, taking over Fort La...

On this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, Jeremy Scott talks fashion, confidence and clapbacks — and somehow we ended up in church basements, physics study sessions, DL hookups, dick prints and the art of being properly dominated.

It’s funny, filthy, unexpectedly vulnerable and a conversation about what happens when you stop trying to squeeze sexuality, gender expression and pleasure into neat little boxes.

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In this episode of BQAD, Zaya joins David for a sexy, spiritual and unexpectedly hilarious conversation about becoming a New York City go-go dancer, exploring ballroom and possibly entering his Butch Queen Sex Siren era.

Zaya opens up about identifying as sexually fluid, balancing masculine and feminine energy, and what makes him want to dominate—or surrender to—another man. He shares his experiences with public sex, piss play, foot worship, flipping and exploring pleasure beyond the usual body parts.

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On this episode of BQAD, BJ and LeBron from the Messy Thoughts podcast join David for a hilarious, honest and very freaky conversation about bathhouses, cruising, sexual fantasies, communication and consent.

We talk about how their friendship and podcast began, their most memorable sexual adventures and what first-timers should know before stepping inside a gay bathhouse.

From getting a room and bringing shower shoes to handling rejection and not spending the entire night waiting for “Prince Charming,” we share the lessons we have learned from navigating these spaces.

We also discuss the complicated boun...

On this episode, one of our most requested guests, Gemini, joins David for an intimate conversation about sexuality, submission, confidence, group sex, body image, porn representation, and living without asking anyone’s permission.

Known online for his incredible physique—and especially his butt—Gemini opens up about the personality, experiences, and perspective people rarely get to see on social media.

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This week, David sits down with journalist, author, and host Jarrett Hill for a funny and unexpectedly intimate conversation about religion, sexuality, pleasure, and the freedom of refusing to fit inside other people’s boxes.Jarrett discusses how studying religion helped him realize that he no longer needed Christianity to maintain a relationship with God.

He opens up about dismantling purity culture, developing a new sexual ethic rooted in consent and mutual pleasure, and learning to live without separating his professional identity from his sexual self.

The conversation also ex...

What happens when you finally feel safe enough to drop the mask—even in the bedroom?

In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David Brandyn sits down with late-diagnosed autistic creator and neurodiversity advocate Savant the Prodigy for an open, funny, sexy, and deeply vulnerable conversation about autism, intimacy, sensory needs, consent, relationships, and learning how to experience pleasure fully unmasked.

Savant shares how his autism diagnosis transformed his understanding of sex, communication, rejection sensitivity, jealousy, spontaneous intimacy, and the accommodations that help him feel comfortable and connected. We also get into bathhouse adventures, pr...

Drag Race legend, Miss Gay America 2010 and certified lip sync assassin Coco Montrese joins David Brandyn for one of the wildest and most honest conversations yet on Butch Queen After Dark.

Coco opens up about the person behind the makeup, including the difference between Coco and Martin, navigating masculinity outside of drag and refusing to let audiences limit her to a single character.

Fresh from São Paulo Pride and DragCon Brazil, Coco takes us inside a massive all-night sex party filled with thousands of men, swings and endless possibilities. She also reveals her love o...

In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Mxter Xero for a conversation about kink, pleasure, power, and what it means to play with intention.

Mxter Xero opens up about their sexual awakening during the pandemic, exploring toys, body capacity, and becoming what they call “the Divine Baddie.”

Together, they get into puppy play, handlers, free use, exhibitionism, worship, hypnosis, and the difference between simply being dominant and being someone’s Dominant.

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In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David is joined by three personal trainers — Alex, Darrien, and Q — for a hilarious, honest, and very unfiltered conversation about fitness, sex, body confidence, and what really happens when gym culture meets queer hookup culture.

The group gets into gym sex, client boundaries, bottom nutrition, fiber, bulking while bottoming, pre-workout before sex, and what tops should eat if they need endurance.

It’s sex education, fitness advice, and Black queer comedy all in one sweaty conversation.

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This week on Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Sir Chris and Boy Vixxen to talk about leather, power exchange, sir/boy dynamics, and Black queer kink.They get into the difference between a relationship and a dynamic, what it means to negotiate power, how trust is built in kink, and why Black men deserve to see themselves in leather spaces. The conversation also explores ballroom culture, impact play, bondage, sensory deprivation, orgasm control, shame, confidence, and asking for what you want.It’s funny, freaky, educational, and affirming — because kink belongs to us too.Follow David Bran...

In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with New York City–based adult entertainer Boe Jack Ryan about his journey to becoming vers, kink, porn, body confidence, and the politics of being a Black gay adult creator.

Boe Jack shares the story of his first double penetration scene, what it taught him about pleasure and pressure, and why knowing your body — and your dick’s strengths — matters.

From content trips and collab strategy to avoiding the “hangry bottom,” this episode is equal parts freaky, funny, and insightful.

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In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Milan Garçon: femme queen, host, storyteller, performer, and certified scene-stealer. Milan brings beauty, humor, honesty, and a whole lot of sexual freedom to a conversation about pleasure, ballroom, butch queens, kink, confidence, and the power of living without shame.

David and Milan also get into the complicated, exciting, and sometimes confusing attraction between femme queens and butch queens, how sexuality keeps expanding even when we think we have ourselves figured out, and why queer people do not have to chase heteronormative dreams of family, l...

In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Caleb Channing: bodybuilder, crochet artist, and the man behind the viral dancing video that had the internet in a chokehold.

What started as a 10-second clip of Caleb dancing, twerking, and enjoying himself at Pride quickly turned into think pieces, body critiques, race debates, desirability politics, and people projecting their own insecurities onto one man simply having fun.

David and Caleb unpack the viral moment, the difference between jealousy and envy, why people struggle to witness joy they don’t feel entitled to, an...

In this episode, David sits down with Muscle Ram to talk about gaining, go-go dancing, fat body politics, inflation, and finding confidence in a body that doesn’t always fit the “expected” fantasy.The conversation becomes a reminder that at some point, you have to decide your body is yours, it is enough, and it deserves to be celebrated exactly where it is. Ram also opens up about realizing he was demisexual after reconnecting sexually with an ex and noticing that without love or emotional connection, his body didn’t respond the same way. Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbra...

In this episode, David sits down with Sir Malice Christian, a Marine Corps veteran turned BDSM Leather Dom, to unpack the world of domination, discipline, kink, objectification, bondage, and sexual exploration. Malice shares how his military background shaped his approach to discipline, why “Sir” felt like the right title, and how kink can be both erotic and deeply spiritual.

The conversation gets into water sports, fisting, impact play, flogging, consent, safe words, consensual non-consent, aftercare, and how objectification works when it is consensual, intentional, and rooted in fantasy. They also talk about Black men exploring kink beyond sham...

Galen opens up about his journey through ballroom walking Body and Sex Siren, why he's still exploring his relationship with being vers, and how generational ideas about masculinity may shape the way many Black queer men experience sex.

The conversation also dives into his buzzing acting career, sexual liberation, kink curiosity, and why being your full authentic self is worth more than fitting into Hollywood's expectations.

And of course, the episode ends with a chaotic game where Galen translates filthy hookup phrases into elegant Shakespearean English!

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This week on Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with adult content creator, actor, model, husband, and co-host of The Culture Club Podcast, Daddi Decent!Daddi opens up about being introverted in public but freaky in private, what sex feels like after marriage, why sexual position does not define your relationship role, and how queer couples don’t have to follow heteronormative rules.They get into fisting, rough play, bondage, water sports, flogging, consent, trust, boundaries, sex work burnout, and why some things are better kept for your personal life instead of the camera.

In this episode, Reign—sex siren, former Navy veteran, and porn star—opens up about his journey from military life to the adult entertainment industry. He shares how the ballroom scene shaped his confidence, how he explored his sexuality and kinks over time, and what it really looks like to navigate sex work, identity, and desire as a butch queen.

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In this episode, Nico Aesthetics pulls back the curtain on life as a content creator navigating sex, relationships, and the internet. From sexual awakenings to navigating rejection, from BDSM exploration to ethical non-monogamy, and retiring from corn, this episode gets into the real.

We talk about what it actually means to build a career in digital sex work, how friendships and “work husbands” operate in the industry, and why having a voice on social issues matters just as much as the content itself.

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On this episode, Asaad Gulati pulls back the curtain on what it really means to build a career in gay adult content while navigating identity, culture, and visibility. We dive into the lack—and slow rise—of brown representation in gay porn, and how he’s intentionally carving out space where it didn’t exist before.

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This week, David brings on Dyl - Instagram's newest Himbo with a twist. What starts as a classic “fine man from Instagram” interview quickly turns into a deep conversation about confidence, submission, intimacy, and breaking assumptions.

Dyl may look like a walking fantasy, but looks can be deceiving.... We explore how he’s intentional, connection-driven, and just beginning to explore his kinkier side.

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Siren Santiago shares his journey from a conservative upbringing in Puerto Rico to becoming a prominent figure in the adult film industry.

He discusses his early sexual awakenings, experiences in the military, and the transition to adult content creation during the pandemic.

Siren opens up about his kinks, fantasies, and the importance of connection in sexual experiences, emphasizing that sex should be about intimacy rather than just the end goal of orgasm.

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In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David interviews his friend, DJ Kidd as he shares his journey into the underground party scene, his approach to creating inclusive spaces, and his insights on sexuality, anonymity, and community building within LGBTQ+ communities of color.

Discover the stories behind his events, his thoughts on sex positivity, and his personal experiences with fetishes and connection.

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In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, Trap Cinderella shares her journey as a rising influencer and femme queen, discussing her sexual awakening, the impact of ballroom culture, and the importance of self-respect in relationships. She emphasizes the fluidity of sexuality, the challenges faced by trans women, and her passion for music and creative expression.

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Today on Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Jai the Gentleman for a wildly honest, deeply reflective, and unapologetically freaky conversation about sex, kink, and liberation.

From risky car hookups to full-blown dancefloor sex, Jai opens up about his evolving sexual journey—and how pleasure goes far beyond just climax.

Together, they unpack what it really means to explore your desires, challenge sexual norms, and embrace vulnerability in and out of the bedroom.

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In this episode, host David Brandyn welcomes guests Shadow and Prince FlackOo, a dynamic couple known for their adventurous and fluid approach to sexuality.

The conversation flows from light-hearted introductions to deeper discussions about their experiences, including a life-saving moment involving Keita, their freaky adventures in nature, and their evolving sexual identities.

They share stories of their first meeting on Grindr, their fantasies, and their recent experiences with threesomes, all while emphasizing the importance of love and exploration in their relationship. In this engaging conversation, the hosts explore various themes surrounding sexuality, fantasies, and the...

This week on Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with viral sensation and Bad Boys star Relly B for a wild, hilarious, and surprisingly deep conversation about sex, power, and navigating fame. From sexual awakenings to cruising adventures, from topping vs. bottoming to verbal kinks and “good boy” energy — Relly B keeps it real, raw, and unfiltered.

They also get into how fame has impacted dating, why having a 9–5 still matters, and what it actually means to have control—in and out of the bedroom.

Oh… and yes, we talk about fucking fans too. 😌

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In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, host David Brandon welcomes Calypso Jete, the winner of Legendary Season 1 and a prominent figure in the ballroom and fetish communities. They discuss the essence of fem queens and butch queens, the complexities of sex and emotions, and the importance of consent and communication in BDSM.

Calypso shares her journey through the world of kink, her experiences in the ballroom scene, and offers advice to listeners navigating their own relationships and kinks. The conversation emphasizes the need for compassion, understanding, and authenticity in both personal and community interactions.

In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David Brandyn sits down with the unforgettable Jesus Really — go-go dancer, adult performer, and sex-positive content creator known for his infectious energy, confidence, and unapologetic self-expression.

Jesus opens up about growing up Puerto Rican in Philadelphia, discovering his sexuality, navigating social media censorship as a sex worker, and the mindset that allows him to live freely in a world that often tries to shame queer sexuality.

This episode also dives into bottoming myths, kink discovery, the “second hole” conversation, sex positivity, and why embracing yourself can inspire others...

In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, Adrian Hart shares his journey from a small town in Georgia to becoming a prominent figure in the adult film industry. He discusses his sexual awakening, experiences with identity, and the challenges he faced as an openly gay man.

Adrian reflects on the realities of working in adult film, including the impact of platforms like OnlyFans, the importance of communication in sexual encounters, and the racial dynamics that influence perceptions of his work. He also addresses the pay disparities in the industry and emphasizes the need for performers to...

Happy Women's History Month!

In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David Brandyn and Zorine explore the rich history and cultural significance of Hoochie culture, tracing its roots back to the blues era of the 1930s. They discuss the characteristics that define a Hoochie, the impact of cancel culture on Hoochie history, and the evolution of Hoochie Daddies. Zorine shares insights about the Hoochie Khan festival, which celebrates this vibrant culture, and they conclude with a discussion on the Mount Rushmore of Hoochies, highlighting influential figures across decades.

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