The Law Of Cassidy
Welcome to The Law of Cassidy — where nothing is off limits.Hosted by Cassidy Bybee — entrepreneur, educator, wife, mom, and the unapologetic voice behind a multimillion-dollar business built around intimacy, confidence, and connection — this podcast is about saying the things most people are too afraid to say out loud.Born and raised in conservative Utah, Cassidy built a thriving community by starting conversations no one else would. Now, she’s bringing those unfiltered truths to the mic.Each week, she dives into real conversations about business, marriage, motherhood, friendship, identity, betrayal, healing, and what it really takes to rebuild your life whe...
How to Build Sexual Tension With Your Partner ALL DAY
“Scheduled sex sounds terrible.”
I hear this ALL the time.
It sounds clinical. It sounds forced. It sounds like you're putting sex on the calendar between a dentist appointment and a Zoom meeting.
But here's the problem:
You're scheduling it wrong.
Because scheduled intimacy isn't supposed to mean putting “SEX — 9:00 PM” on the calendar and then awkwardly meeting each other in the bedroom like you both showed up for an appointment.
The schedule is just the destination.
The anticipation starts HOURS earlier.
I...
The First-Time Sex Guide Nobody Gave You
You were taught to wait.
Don't have sex. Don't touch yourself. Guard your body. Protect your purity. Save it for marriage.
And then you get married and suddenly…
Okay! Go have an amazing sex life!
But HOW?!
This episode is for anyone who grew up in purity culture, waited or is waiting for marriage, and realized that nobody actually taught them what happens when sex finally becomes “allowed.”
We're talking about the first time — the REAL version.
Not the movie version. Not the perfectl...
We’ve Been Married 12 Years… Here’s What Still Drives Us Crazy
My favorite substitute teacher is back.
My husband Josh is joining me for round three, and this episode starts with us roasting each other over all the ridiculous little things that happen after almost 12 years of marriage… and somehow turns into one of our more honest conversations about marriage, business, failure, success, and getting through hard seasons together.
Because apparently nothing says healthy marriage like arguing over which pot you're supposed to use for Top Ramen.
💋 Why Josh spends approximately 14 years in the bathroom
💋 His completely reasonable obsession with hats
💋 The...
Why Brands Keep Overlooking the Creators Who Actually Convert
In this episode of The Law of Cassidy, I’m switching things up.
We’re not talking about sex, G-spots, butt stuff, or relationships today.
We’re talking business — and I have a bone to pick with brands.
After nearly 20 years in my industry, building a community across 11 social accounts and reaching millions of followers, I still get overlooked for brand partnerships because the content I create is considered too uncomfortable, too honest, or too “risky.”
And I know I’m not the only one.
Creators talki...
How to Actually Please a Woman: The Oral Guide Men Need
Let’s talk about something way too many couples are doing wrong: oral intimacy.
The orgasm gap is real, and in this episode, I’m breaking down one of the biggest reasons women struggle to finish during partnered sex — we’re rushing, skipping the warm-up, ignoring anatomy, and treating female pleasure like an appetizer instead of the main course.
This is the oral intimacy guide I wish everyone got before they started having sex.
And yes, men, I need you to take notes.
💋 Female anatomy 101 — including where the clitoris...
Everything You Need to Know About Butt Stuff | ft. Dr. Evan Goldstein
We’re talking butt stuff — and yes, we’re answering the questions you’ve probably been way too afraid to ask out loud.
In this episode of The Law of Cassidy, I sit down with Dr. Evan Goldstein, founder of Bespoke Surgical and Future Method and author of Butt Seriously, to break down the anatomy, health, preparation, pleasure, and misconceptions surrounding anal play.
We’re getting into everything from hemorrhoids and pelvic floor muscles to preparation, lubrication, dilators, prostate stimulation, STI testing, and even Botox… yes, Botox for your butt is apparently...
You’re Not Going Crazy… It Might Be Perimenopause
If you’re over 35 and suddenly wondering, “What the hell is happening to me?” — this episode is for you.
My best friend Haileigh Mason is back, and we’re diving headfirst into what we lovingly call “cougar puberty” — aka perimenopause.
We’re talking about the symptoms women experience every single day but are too often told are simply part of “getting older.” The anxiety. The brain fog. The body changes. Waking up in the middle of the night. Feeling exhausted. Losing your sex drive. Vaginal dryness. Feeling irritated by literally EVERYTHING your husband does. And maybe the ha...
Healthy Habits, Great Sex & Better Relationships | ft. Tatum Zoe
Can a long-distance relationship actually work?
In this episode of The Law of Cassidy, I'm joined by creator, podcaster, fitness coach, and all-around powerhouse Tatum Zoe for an honest conversation about dating, healthy relationships, fitness, confidence, social media, and building a life that actually feels good.
We dive into what it's really like maintaining a long-distance relationship, why self-respect is the biggest green flag, how fitness transformed her confidence, and why showing up authentically online matters more than ever.
If you've ever questioned whether distance, timing, or personal growth...
You're Not Falling Apart... You're Becoming Someone New
Healing isn't pretty.
It doesn't happen overnight.
It isn't linear.
And it definitely isn't made up of inspirational quotes alone.
In this deeply personal solo episode of The Law of Cassidy, I'm opening up about one of the hardest seasons of my life—friendship breakups, betrayal, grief, and the healing process that completely changed my perspective.
I share the lessons I've learned in therapy, the powerful realization that came from an Oracle session, and why I now believe some of the most painful endings are actually divine redirections.
...
How to Squirt: The Science, The Myths & What Actually Works
After nearly 20 years in the intimacy and wellness space, I've been asked this question more times than I can count...
Can every woman squirt?
In this episode, I'm breaking down the science, the myths, and the practical techniques behind squirting—without shame, unrealistic expectations, or misinformation. Whether you're simply curious, trying to understand your own body, or looking to improve intimacy with your partner, this episode is for you.
We cover what squirting actually is, why it happens, why it doesn't happen for everyone, and how to create the right environment wi...
10 Trends I Refuse to Fall For in 2026
Opps...I mean 8...
Some trends deserve the hype.
Others deserve to disappear forever.
In this quick solo episode of The Law of Cassidy, I'm sharing my completely unfiltered opinions on the biggest trends taking over 2026—from business scams and parenting culture to relationships, social media, coaching, and everything in between.
You probably won't agree with all of them... and that's okay.
💋 Why selling courses about selling courses feels like a scam
💋 My thoughts on using kids for content
💋 Why I think Snapchat should've stayed in 2...
People Don't Hate You... They Hate That You're Being Yourself
Everyone tells you to "be yourself."
Nobody tells you how.
In this solo episode of The Law of Cassidy, I'm sharing the mindset shifts that completely changed my life and helped me stop living for other people's approval.
This isn't about becoming louder.
It's about becoming freer.
I talk about why authenticity costs you relationships, why so many people stay trapped in performance mode, and the exact steps I've taken to become the same person on camera, online, and in real life.
If you've ever felt like...
The Biggest Botox Mistakes Women Make
Thinking about Botox or filler but don't know where to start?
In this episode of The Law of Cassidy, I'm joined by master injector Sarah Olsen from Mason Aesthetics & Wellness to answer every question you've ever had about injectables, aging, skin health, and how to enhance your natural beauty without looking overdone.
We break down the biggest myths about Botox and filler, why so many people end up with unnatural results, and what a great injector actually looks for before recommending treatment.
💋 Botox vs. filler—what's the difference?
💋 What Sculptra is and why ever...
How to Actually Turn Your Woman On (Most Men Get This Wrong)
Today I'm giving you the real guide to female desire.
Not the pickup artist version.
Not the internet bro version.
The real version.
After nearly 20 years in the intimacy and wellness space, I've learned that most relationship struggles around sex aren't actually about sex at all.
They're about stress.
Mental load.
Feeling unseen.
Feeling undesired.
And misunderstanding how female desire actually works.
In this episode, I break down:
💋 The science behind female arousal
💋 Why women experience desire differently than men
💋 Th...
From Mormon Mom to OnlyFans Creator | My Unfiltered Story
In this episode of The Law of Cassidy, Bethany shares her incredible journey from growing up in the Mormon faith to building an unconventional life on her own terms.
We talk about leaving Utah, questioning long-held beliefs, marriage, motherhood, starting an OnlyFans business, dealing with judgment from others, and what it really takes to create a life that feels authentic.
This conversation is raw, honest, and completely unfiltered.
💋 Growing up Mormon
💋 Leaving the church
💋 Marriage and family challenges
💋 Starting an OnlyFans business
💋 Selling everything and leaving Utah
💋 Traveling the world
💋 Dealin...
The ADHD Entrepreneur: Hyperfocus, the Crash, and How I Cope
I have 17 tabs open right now — not on my computer, in my brain. I started three tasks this morning and finished zero. This is a normal Tuesday for me.
In this episode of The Law of Cassidy, I'm getting real about what it actually looks like to build and run multiple businesses with ADHD — not the inspirational "ADHD is a superpower" version, but the real one with the chaos, the shame, the hyperfocus crashes, and the tools that genuinely help.
I talk about getting diagnosed my first year of college, why ADHD looks different in wome...
18 Controversial Intimacy Takes — Agree, Disagree, or Hard Disagree
I found a list of 18 of the most controversial sex and intimacy opinions on the internet… and I have FEELINGS about every single one. In this solo quickie, I'm going through all 18 — agree, disagree, hard disagree — and giving you the raw, real conversation behind each take. Some I defend completely. Some I'll fight you on. And at least one is going to make you spiral (looking at you, "doggy style is the worst").
We talk about:
👄 Kissing during sex — connection or distraction?
👄 The truth about size vs. technique
👄 Why 75% of women can't orgasm from penetration alone...
What I Learned Asking My Husband Anything For An Hour
Y'all asked, and he's back. My husband Josh joins me for the rawest, most unfiltered conversation we've had on the pod yet. We get into the questions women are too scared to ask their men, what mental health actually looks like in a marriage, the truth about running a business while raising a family, and the Mormon shame we're still untangling around sex and intimacy.
This one is part rapid-fire, part real talk, part marriage therapy session you didn't pay for. If you're partnered, single, healing, or just curious — there's something in this episode for you.
How I Stopped Becoming Roommates with My Husband
If you've turned into roommates passing in the night since the kids came, this one's for you.
Real question — when was the last time we had sex that didn't involve a child knocking on the door, a whisper, a monitor on the nightstand, or ending early because we heard a sound? If you paused on that, you're in the right place.
In this quickie episode, I'm giving you 5 tangible tips for actually being intimate with your partner while raising small humans. We're talking King Night / Queen Night (the system that takes the mental load out of...
I Lost 12 Friends This Year — Here's What I Learned
This one is my real, raw therapy session. I'm not on the other side of this — I'm in the middle of it. So if you've ever said no and spent three days wondering if you offended someone, immediately checked the comments after doing something brave, or felt the sting of someone whispering about you behind your back — this episode is for you.
I'm getting into all of it: the people I've lost in my growth, the Utah-influencer-bubble that won't include me, the cheap chatter that almost made me question my entire podcast, and the tric...
Why Masturbation Is Actually GOOD For You
It’s officially Masturbation May… and yes, we’re talking about it.
In this solo quickie episode of The Law of Cassidy, I’m breaking down the science, shame, benefits, and reality of masturbation — for BOTH women and men.
Because solo pleasure isn’t dirty.
It isn’t shameful.
And it definitely isn’t something we should still be whispering about in 2026.
💋 Why masturbation lowers stress and anxiety
💋 The real science behind orgasms and dopamine
💋 Why so many women feel shame around pleasure
💋 The Utah / purity culture conversation nobody...
I'm Telling You Everything: My Unfiltered AMA
You asked. I answered. No filter, no script, no off-topic limits.
This week's quickie is an AMA where I'm sitting down solo and going through every question you sent me — the juicy ones, the deep ones, and the unhinged DMs. We're getting into intimacy, marriage, motherhood, business, and the conversations most people are too uncomfortable to have.
Some of what I cover:
💋 The one thing most women don't know about their own bodies
💋 Have I ever faked an orgasm (and the truth about my marriage)
💋 My honest take on sex toys in a relations...
Why Most Marriages Don’t Survive This
What happens to your marriage when your family is falling apart?
In this episode of The Law of Cassidy, I sit down with Heather to talk about something most couples go through — but almost no one talks about openly.
From mental health crises… to survival mode… to nearly losing their connection — this is a raw, honest look at what happens behind the scenes of marriage during the hardest seasons of life.
💋 Why putting your kids before your partner can backfire
💋 How “survival mode” quietly destroys intimacy
💋 The biggest mistake couples make during c...
Anal Sex 101: 10 Tips No One Ever Told You
This is your no-shame, no-BS guide to anal sex.
In this quick solo episode of The Law of Cassidy, we’re breaking down one of the most Googled — and least properly talked about — topics in intimacy.
No awkwardness. No misinformation. Just real, practical advice.
💋 Why communication BEFORE matters more than anything
💋 The #1 mistake people make (and why it ruins everything)
💋 How to actually make it comfortable (and enjoyable)
💋 Lube, warmup, and why rushing = disaster
💋 What “going slow” really means
💋 How to avoid pain (and when to stop immediately)
She Lost Her Ex-Husband to Suicide... This Changed Everything
Mental health shouldn’t be taboo — but in places like Utah, it still is.
In this episode of The Law of Cassidy, I sit down with Jessi Campbell — mom, speaker, fitness coach, and founder of the Momentum Project — to talk about the real, unfiltered side of motherhood, mental health, faith, and rebuilding your life after everything falls apart.
After losing her ex-husband to suicide, Jessi was forced to confront her own struggles, her identity, and what it truly means to keep going for her kids.
In this Episode we get into:
💋 The reality...
Bondage 101
Most people are focused on how often they’re having sex…
but almost no one is talking about how good it actually is.
In this episode of The Law Of Cassidy, I break down the real truth about intimacy, connection, and why so many couples feel disconnected — even when they’re “doing it.”
From oral sex to communication, initiation, and even beginner bondage… this is the conversation people are too uncomfortable to have (but need to hear).
What we get into:
💋 Why frequency doesn’t equal a healthy sex life
💋 Why silence during sex...
From Rock Bottom to Running Recovery
In this episode of The Law of Cassidy, I sit down with Brooke Shaw and Olivia Jorgensen — two recovered addicts, co-hosts of You’re Not Drunk Friend, and co-founders of Ignite Recovery.
What makes this conversation so powerful is that the center they now run came from the same recovery world that helped change their lives.
We talk about:
💋what addiction actually looked like behind the scenes
💋growing up in Utah and the stigma around drinking and recovery
💋trauma, shame, motherhood, marriage, and coping
💋what sober sex is really like
💋the difference betw...
He Finishes Too Fast… Let’s Talk About It!
This episode is a no-filter, say-it-out-loud conversation.
We’re talking about something that affects way more people than anyone admits — but nobody wants to say out loud:
premature ejaculation.
If you’ve ever felt embarrassed, frustrated, or like you’re the only one dealing with this… you’re not.
In this episode of The Law of Cassidy, we break down:
💋 Why premature ejaculation happens (it’s not what you think)
💋 The connection between anxiety, hormones, and performance
💋 How purity culture and early habits actually s...
You’re Not Lazy, Depressed, or Broken — It Might Be Testosterone
If you’ve lost your libido, your motivation, your mental clarity, your drive, your energy — and everyone keeps telling you it’s just stress, depression, aging, or “normal” — this episode is for you.
Today on The Law of Cassidy, Haileigh is back and we’re diving into the hormone almost nobody is paying attention to correctly: testosterone.
And yes — women need it too.
We talk about:
What testosterone actually does in women and menWhy low testosterone can look like anxiety, depression, brain fog, low libido, burnout...Women - YOU'RE NOT BROKEN
If you leak when you laugh… if intimacy feels different after babies… if you’ve ever wondered “is this just my new normal?” — this episode is for you.
Today on The Law of Cassidy, I’m sitting down with Danielle (LadyBusinessRN) at Mason Aesthetic & Wellness to talk about the conversation women never get to have out loud: pelvic floor health, hormones, libido, dryness, sensation, and why “normal labs” don’t always mean you feel normal.
We break down what’s actually happening in your body (and why so many women are embarrassed to even bring it up), plus we get in...
Born Without Legs — Here’s What Nobody Talks About
Welcome back to The Law of Cassidy — and this episode is powerful.
Brooke was born without legs. She’s a wife. A mom of three. A hunter. A business owner. And one of the most confident women I know.
In this conversation, we talk about:
💋 Growing up without legs
💋 The assumptions people make about disability
💋 Dating, marriage, intimacy, and confidence
💋 Motherhood and pregnancy without legs
💋 Public staring (and why she waves back)
💋 The strength it takes to live unapologetically
And then we dive...
The Popsicle Theory Explained… and Why It Broke Everything
Before we jump back in, I have to share something that happened at the Hunt Expo in Salt Lake City…
a woman walked up to me (completely out of my usual world) and said something that made me cry right at the booth. It reminded me why I keep showing up — even when the internet is loud.
In this episode, we get into the REAL behind-the-scenes of what happened:
💋 The brutal inventory situation that tanked my income
💋 Why I wasn’t allowed to run pre-orders (even when reels went viral)
💋 The “Popsicle Theory” and what i...
A Message That Made Me Cry — And Why I’m Speaking Up
Welcome back to The Law of Cassidy — and this episode is different.
What started as a normal solo episode turned into something much deeper after I received a message that completely stopped me in my tracks. It made me cry. And it reminded me why staying quiet isn’t always the high road.
In this episode, I talk openly about:
💋 Why the people who talk the loudest often did you wrong
💋 What loyalty actually costs — and who pays it
💋 Sex, foreplay, pleasure, and why entitlement kills intimacy
💋 Shame, repression, and sexuality (esp...
Why Some Men Feel Threatened by Women Getting Plastic Surgery
In this solo Quickie episode of The Law of Cassidy, Cassidy gets real about ICKS — the unspoken behaviors that trigger instant disgust, judgment, or emotional exhaustion in modern dating, motherhood, relationships, and social media culture.
This episode covers:
💋 Real sex icks (and why “porn pace” is not real-life technique)
💋 Listener DMs about orgasms, pleasure, and confidence
💋 Navigating motherhood judgment in Utah
💋 Being questioned for having one child
💋 Formula vs breastfeeding pressure and mom-shaming culture
💋 Postpartum anxiety and the parts of motherhood nobody prepares you for
💋 The truth about tipping culture and respect...
My Icks Are LOUD Today (Sorry Not Sorry)
Welcome back to The Law of Cassidy — today’s episode is a Quickie, which means you only get me… lucky you 😈
We’re talking about ICKS — the kind that make your skin crawl, your eyes roll, and your soul scream internally.
This episode is unfiltered, honest, and real as hell. We’re diving into:
💋 Sex icks (yes… the porn pound is on the list)
💋 Motherhood icks (formula vs. breastfeeding judgment is OUT of control)
💋 Being judged for having ONE child
💋 Postpartum anxiety that hit me out of nowhere
💋 DM advice: orgasms, pleasure, confidence, a...
Makeup Artist EXPOSES the Worst Bride Client Ever!
In today’s episode of The Law of Cassidy, I sits down with Andy Tru — luxury makeup artist, founder of A Tru Collection, and one of the most real (and hilarious) voices in the Utah beauty scene.
This episode is packed with honesty, humor, and HARD truths about what it really takes to build a business in the glam industry — especially in a world where people constantly expect services “in exchange for a post.”
Andy shares:
• His journey from YouTube tutorials to working with high-profile clients
• What it’s like navigating identity + creative expression in Ut...
The Hard Truth About Friends, Boundaries, and Leveling Up
In this solo Quickie episode, I’m getting real about boundaries, friendships, business, and what happens when you start leveling up.
This past year was the hardest year of my life. I lost relationships I thought would last forever. I set boundaries that made people uncomfortable. I stopped over-giving. And for the first time, I truly stopped caring what people think.
If you’ve ever felt like:
☑️ You’re outgrowing people
☑️ You’re being labeled a “mean girl” for having standards
☑️ You give more than you get
☑️ People switch up when you succeed
☑️ You’re wa...
How Stress, Loss, and Hormones Collide in Women’s Health
In this powerful episode, Cassidy sits down with Haileigh Mason, Nurse Practitioner and founder of Mason Wellness, to talk about the conversations most doctors aren’t having — especially with women.
From anxiety, depression, and weight gain to libido loss, hormone imbalance, and trauma, this episode dives deep into how stress, grief, and modern life impact the female body — and why so many women are misdiagnosed instead of properly treated.
Haileigh also shares her deeply personal story of losing her husband just days after giving birth, how grief shaped her approach to medicine, and why she left t...
Meet Josh — Husband to a Sexfluencer, The Hardest Year of Our Marriage, and the Part No One Talks About
My husband Josh joins me for the most vulnerable conversation we’ve ever had publicly.
We’re talking about the year that almost broke us — the therapy sessions, the financial dynamics that challenged his ego, the pressure of building his own brand, and what it really takes to keep choosing each other when things get hard.
From being married to a sexfluencer to navigating a non-traditional financial dynamic, this episode goes deep into the part of marriage no one talks about.
We cover:
💋 What it’s like being married to someone who talks openly...
I Wasn't Invited , So I Built The Table- After Million Dollar Burnout
In this first episode of The Law of Cassidy, I share the unfiltered story of how I built a multimillion-dollar business talking about sex — and everything that came with it.
From selling sex toys in Utah living rooms to going viral online, navigating MLMs, losing money, burning out, and ultimately deciding to build something that was finally mine!, This episode is raw, honest, and deeply personal.
This isn’t just a story about sex. It’s about risk, ownership, motherhood, marriage, faith, therapy, and what happens when you realize you’ve poured everything into something you don’t ac...
