Pouring and Parenting
Two best friends, now wives and moms, grab a drink and keep it real about juggling family, careers, trends, and all the mess in between. It’s funny, honest, and full of heart — a weekly reminder that no woman is doing this alone.
49: So Sick- Sick Season Survival
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It's finally fall, which means cold and flu season is here. Sil and Inish pour their drinks (a pineapple whip and a Pinot Grigio) and get into sick-season survival for parents. They fact-check popular old wives' tales: chicken soup, "feed a cold, starve a fever," garlic and onions, going out with wet hair, and Vicks on the feet. They also share their own home remedies, talk about the "man flu" and caring for a sick husband, and cover the medicine cabinet basics. They discuss letting a fever run its course, easing the rules...
48: Monster Mash
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Hosts Sil and Inish celebrate their first Halloween special by comparing pre-kid Halloween partying with family traditions today. They trade practical takes on decorating, trick-or-treating safety, candy budgets and limits, and letting kids choose costumes, with plenty of personal stories along the way.
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47: Bloody Mary and the Horrors of Womanhood
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Women spend years bleeding, sweating, cramping, forgetting words, and somehow still keeping everyone else alive. This episode is a hilarious, brutally honest look at the full hormonal journey from teenage periods to PCOS to the chaos of perimenopause — and why none of it is even remotely fair.
Sil and Inish get real about the first time Bloody Mary arrived, the embarrassment, the panic, the pads, and the awkward lessons no one really prepares you for. Then they turn the volume up on the adult version of womanhood: irregular cycles, PMS rage, ph...
46: Me, Myself, & I: Why Moms Feel Guilty Taking Time for Themselves
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Mom guilt can make even a little time for yourself feel selfish.
In this episode of Pouring and Parenting, Sil and Inish talk about why so many mothers feel guilty pursuing hobbies or taking a break—and how social media’s “perfect parent” pressure can make it worse. Through personal stories and an honest conversation about family expectations, they explore reclaiming your identity beyond motherhood, protecting creative space, and showing your kids that parents have passions and needs of their own. They also share four practical ways to start easing the guilt: tr...
45: Responsibility: The Age-by-Age Chore Guide Every Parent Needs
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Chores are not just about a clean house - they are about raising kids who can function without you. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re helping your child by doing everything yourself, this conversation will make you rethink the whole “it’s faster if I just do it” trap.
Sil and Inish get honest about the great chore debate, from the chaos of their own childhood chores to what they’re teaching their kids now. Sil shares what it was like growing up with intense Saturday cleaning routines, why she once hat...
44: Respect- Manner, Boundaries, and Modern Parenting
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Respect is supposed to help kids move through the world—but what happens when discipline feels too strict, too soft, or just plain confusing? Sil and Inish unpack the tension behind modern parenting, from old-school “because I said so” rules to gentle parenting that may be drifting into passive parenting. Along the way, they ask a question many families face: Is respect automatically owed, or does it need to be modeled and earned? Through honest stories and relatable parenting moments, they talk about fear-based authority, clear boundaries, communication, and the everyday challenges of back t...
43: Don't Judge Me: Why Your First Judgment Is Probably Missing the Whole Story
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The advice to “stop judging” is useless if you don’t understand why we do it. This conversation gets uncomfortably real about the split-second assumptions we make about parents, spouses, strangers, and even the people sitting in church beside us—and why those judgments usually say more about our own stress than the other person’s character.
Sil and Inish kick things off with a confession that turns into a full-on exploration of evidence-based judgment, missing context, and the mental shortcuts that make us assume the worst. From a Broadway phone glare to a...
42: Elastic Heart
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Being the friend who always says yes can quietly drain your energy, your time, and your sense of self. In Elastic Heart, Inish and Sil unpack what happens when you stop orbiting around everyone else's plans, log off the social media noise, and start protecting your own peace. A study shows nearly half of friendships can be one-sided, and this episode gets honest about how that dynamic shows up in real life. From the pressure to be the default go-to friend to the emotional shift that happens when your life path starts changing...
41: Trouble
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This episode covers two highly relatable parenting mysteries: random wet spots around the house and whether the five second rule still counts once you have kids. Sil and Inish talk through toddler chaos, the shift away from beige, overly curated parenting aesthetics, and the very real gap between social media perfection and everyday family life.
It is a candid, funny conversation between two moms comparing notes on what actually happens in homes with toddlers, from mysterious puddles to car seat snacks and kids hiding things in the strangest places.<...
40: Unwritten
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In this episode of Pouring and Parenting, hosts Inish and Sil help listeners reset for the final stretch of the year without guilt or overwhelm. They focus on how to revisit goals, simplify priorities, and get ahead of the holiday season by communicating clearly with your partner.
We discuss why August feels like a second New Year for parents, how to shift from goal guilt to an edit, don’t abandon mindset, and why trying to sprint through quarter four usually creates more stress than progress.
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39: Can't Hold Them Down
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In this episode of Pouring and Parenting, Sil and Inish get real about the ways parents can unintentionally hold their kids back — from overhelping with everyday tasks to stepping in too quickly out of anxiety or convenience. The conversation explores the tension between protecting children and giving them space to grow, make mistakes, and build confidence. They also dig into a wild parenting trend: parents delaying their athletic kids by having them repeat eighth grade to gain a physical advantage. Sil and Inish unpack why that mindset can do more harm than good, es...
38: Up All Night
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Sleep Regression in Kids and Marriage: What Growth Looks Like in Both
This episode covers two kinds of regression that can make life feel chaotic: child sleep regression and marriage regression. Sil and Inish explain why both can show up during periods of growth, and why they usually signal development rather than failure.
We discuss the biggest sleep shifts from birth through age two, plus how couples can handle rough patches without jumping straight to divorce talk. Sil and Inish also weave in a...
Ep. 37 No, No, No!
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What if saying yes to everyone else is the very thing draining your body, your marriage, and your peace? Sil and Inish make the case for a better way in this honest, funny, and deeply practical conversation about the power of no. They start with the reality most people ignore: people-pleasing is not just a personality quirk, it can show up as burnout, shallow breathing, jaw tension, insomnia, anxiety, and the kind of exhaustion you cannot sleep off. From there, they break down how to spot your body’s warning signs before you hi...
Ep. 36 Starting Over Again
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Moving chaos tests your marriage—and how to come out stronger — Discover how relocating, whether across town or across states, can turn your relationship into a battlefield. But there's hope: insider tips to keep your love intact amid the chaos. When the stress of packing, unpacking, and cultural shifts hits hard, it’s easy to forget that marriage isn’t always a perfect 50-50 partnership—especially during high-stakes transitions like moving or welcoming a new baby.
In this episode, Inish and Sil delve into the emotional and logistical upheavals that come...
Ep. 35 Good Days: Why Sending Kids Back to School Isn’t Just About Supplies — It’s a Culture Shift
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Back to school isn’t just about shopping for supplies — it’s a rollercoaster of emotions for parents and kids alike. From nostalgic trips down memory lane to the chaos of outfitting your little ones, this episode dives into the real behind-the-scenes of gearing up for a new school year. Whether it's choosing the trendiest backpacks that cost more than your rent, navigating the confusing world of school uniform trends, or battling the everyday struggles of homework and hygiene, we've got you covered.
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Ep. 34 Head, Shoulders, Knees, and Toes with Dr. Tina Shermer Sellers
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Most couples drift into the roommate zone without even realizing it—and it’s often because they forget to nurture their connection amidst parenting chaos. But what if re-igniting your intimacy is simpler than you think? Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers, a powerhouse sex and family therapist, reveals practical, everyday strategies to reclaim your passion and strengthen your marriage—no matter how busy life gets. In this eye-opening episode, Dr. Tina dismantles the myth that intimacy must take hours or perfect conditions. She shares how tiny, intentional habits—like a daily three-minute hug or tiny bou...
Ep. 33 Summer Catch Up
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Most parents think “summer break” means chill and top Beach Bum vibes. But Inish reveals the truth: being a summer mom means chaos, popcorn on the floor, and a bathroom meet-cute in Spanish. If you’re drowning in popsicle wrappers, drowning in the heat, or just trying to keep your kids from turning your house into a zoo, this episode is your emergency lifeboat. Join us as we dive into the wild world of backyard battles, accidental backyard shrinkage (yes, those rubber slides actually do get smaller in the sun), and the relentless quest...
Ep. 32 Blinded by the Lights
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Most of us are living in a digital hall of mirrors — flashing screens, endless episodes, and guilty pleasures that steal hours we’ll never get back. But what if all that scrolling and binge-watching is quietly shrinking your kid’s attention span and your sanity? Spoiler: It’s happening, and the stats are shocking—seven hours of screen time daily for adults, and kids fleeing actual movies faster than you can say "pause." In this episode, Inish and Sil pull back the curtain on the chaos of modern parenting, exposing how our obsession with scree...
Ep. 31 Summertime Fun: From 4th of July BBQs to End of Summer Shenanigans
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Most parents agree: summer is a wild, wonderful rollercoaster, but it gets even better when you know the unspoken rules of party etiquette, fireworks, and family fun. Sil and Inish spill the summer tea—minus the sunscreen—on how to survive the chaos, avoid awkward invites, and keep your sanity in check during this sun-soaked season. From the best ways to celebrate America’s 250th birthday with block parties and vintage vibes, to navigating the tricky waters of fireworks rules, this episode is your ultimate summer survival guide. You'll discover: why fireworks should be kep...
Ep. 30 Help-I Need Somebody's Hacks!
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Most parents feel like they're running a circus with a thousand balls in the air. In this episode, we reveal the secret hacks that turn chaos into calm—think of them as the cheat codes for adulting. From "blame the clock" tactics with your kids to digital calendars that actually work (yes, you read that right), you'll discover how to reclaim your sanity one small shortcut at a time. We break down parenting tricks like toy rotation and busy bins that keep the kids busy while you breathe, along with marriage mojo hacks li...
Ep. 29: Father's Day Celebrations: From Gift Giving to Celebrating While Navigating Through Loss
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Most fathers just want a guilt-free day to watch sports, game, or sleep in—without the "what do I get dad?" stress. But what if this Father’s Day you totally flipped the script and gave him something he actually cares about—like peace, self-care, or even a fancy new gadget? Yep, the latest trends are all about respecting dad’s chill, embracing his hobbies, and honoring his mental well-being.In this episode, we break down how dads are asking for “do nothing” days, adventurous dad dates, and wellness surprises they actually want (think golf s...
Ep. 28 What's Going On? :When Parenting Turns Punishment: The Disturbing Trends of Embarrassing Kids on Social Media
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Most parents today are chasing that viral fame—at the expense of their kids’ dignity, safety, and even sanity. In this eye-opening episode, we dive into the shocking world of digital parent shaming, bizarre child bargaining, and embarrassing social media stunts that leave everyone asking, “Who thought this was okay?” Think public shaming of kids on TikTok is just cringe? Think again. We reveal startling stats: nearly 30% of parents post without consent, and 32% of teens are pleading with their parents to take down humiliating videos. You’ll discover how these impulsive acts can scar your...
27: Dead and Gone: From Wild Child to Self-Forgiveness: How To Stop Beating Yourself Up Over the Past
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Your past doesn’t have to be a ghost haunting your present—unlock your freedom with the 'Old Me' dropout!
If your skeletons are turning into full-blown Mariah-sized closets, this episode is your VIP pass to clean house, forgive yourself, and live lighter than ever.Ever ponder whether those teenage and twenties mistakes are secretly plotting to sabotage your happiness today? Well, buckle up, because we’re diving into the real toll of unresolved guilt, shame, and regret—yes, even the ones you’ve buried so deep you forgot they existe...
26: This is How We Do it: From Morning Routines to Packed Lunches
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Ever wonder how busy moms and dads truly survive a day?
Prepare to laugh, learn, and maybe even slightly envy as Inish and Sil pull back the curtain on their hilarious, chaotic routines. They take you through a typical day—from the wild morning scramble with leftover breakfast battles to the secret sauce behind their “pouring and parenting” lifestyle. You'll discover how trending fashion choices like witchy cottagecore and Y2K revival are practically wardrobe essentials, and why charcuterie bowls are the new lunchbox heroes of 2026. Plus, get the scoop o...
25: Welcome to the Jungle of Social Media: Navigating Relationships Behind a Screen
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Most people with crazy in-laws or relationship dilemmas turn to social media for advice. But what if that advice leads to a soap opera? Discover the hilarious (and sometimes horrifying) truths behind strangers' comments on everything from co-parenting drama to wedding day chaos.
In this episode, Sil and Inish unpack the wildest social media cries for help—from Coachella camping nightmares to trust issues sparked by late-night texts. You’ll learn: why asking strangers can be a double-edged sword, how to spot red flags in your partner’s workplace texts, and why yo...
24: Push it to the Limit: The Surprising Power of Boundaries for Couples and Parents
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In this episode, hosts Inish and Sil explore the concept of "living apart together" and its impact on modern relationships. They discuss the importance of setting boundaries, from sleep divorces to phone privacy, and how these can lead to healthier, happier lives. With humor and insight, they tackle the challenges of personal space and offer practical tips for couples and parents.
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23: Always Love My Mama: Capitalism's Favorite Holiday
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Join Sil and Inish as they explore the history, traditions, and personal stories surrounding Mother's Day. From gift ideas to celebrating multiple mothers, this episode offers heartfelt insights and practical tips for making Mother's Day special.
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22: Check Yo Self: From Overwhelmed to Empowered: The Art of Refilling Your Cup and Saying No
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Join hosts Sil Inish as they explore how to ditch the high-pressure hustle and embrace a kinder, more sustainable approach to goals. Discover the power of micro goals, intentionality, and self-care while having fun with song lyric challenges and pop culture references. Plus, get the scoop on Bridgerton season 4 finale spoilers!
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21: Broken Promises: Pregnancy, Promises, and Jealousy: What Bridgerton Taught Us About Love and Trust
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Most promises are about as reliable as a diet at a donut shop—easy to make, hard to keep. But what happens when we start questioning if anyone’s word still carries weight? If your trust in promises is crumbling faster than bread in a hot toaster, this episode is your wake-up call. We’re exposing the real deal behind the promises we make—and break—every day, from pop culture fiascos to family dramas that hit way too close to home. Dive into the most notorious promise failures: Barbie Dream Fest’s epic letdown...
20: Shut Up and Drive: How One Dad Balances Co-Parenting, Business, and Still Finds Time for Himself
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In this episode of Pouring and Parenting, hosts Inish and Sil celebrate their 20th episode milestone and welcome guest Deshawn, a single father of three. The conversation explores various parenting trends, including the 777 rule for focused connection with children and the role of AI in managing parenting tasks. Deshawn shares his experiences navigating the challenges of co-parenting and balancing the needs of his children at different life stages. The discussion emphasizes the importance of adapting parenting styles to fit each child's unique personality and needs, fostering a supportive and understanding environment. In this...
19: Keep on Breathing: : From Locking Fridges to Yelling at Kids—Parenting Extremes Exposed
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Hold onto your coffee mugs, folks! On today’s episode, Sil and Inish take you on a rollercoaster through real parenting stories, mental health struggles, and the tiniest steps to break those nasty family cycles. Spoiler alert: It’s emotional but also full of hope—and yes, some Bridgerton gossip because why not?
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18: Parents Just Don't Understand: How White Claws and Parenting Questions Turned a Podcast Into a Parenting Confession Session
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Join hosts Sil and Inish for this episode of their podcast for moms, where they tackle the "secret villain" of modern parenting: phone distraction. They dive into the serious risks of scrolling, offering practical tips to reconnect with your kids and swap the screen for the brain-boosting power of physical books.
This community for moms also explores the digital footprint we create for our children and the "beautiful chaos" of different parenting styles. It’s not all heavy, though—the episode wraps up with fun...
17: Mother Knows Best: The Secret Power of Boring Kids—Building Problem Solvers One Boredom at a Time
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Hosts Sil and Inish keep things fun and real as they explore why a little boredom might actually be the best gift you can give your kids. They challenge the pressure to constantly entertain, highlighting how unstructured play builds creativity, independence, and happier minds.
Along the way, they chat about trending topics like the rise in home births, over-the-top sports parents, and throw in some light, cheeky takes on Bridgerton and spring break survival.
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16: Family Affair: Parenting Secrets to Raise Resilient Kids
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Looking for a rollercoaster of celebrity drama, parenting wisdom, and scandalous series spoilers? Buckle up! Sil and Inish are serving up witty insights, hot takes, and plenty of laughs—while sticking to the juicy details.
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15: Love is a Battlefield: Why Sending Pictures Beats Calling During Grocery Runs — A Marriage Hack
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Join Sil and Inish as they explore the humorous and relatable aspects of relationships, fashion, and social norms. From pet peeves in marriage to fashion debates and Bridgerton spoilers, this episode offers candid insights and laughs.
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14: Bittersweet Symphony: The Parenting Symphony: Why Toddlers Play Kazoos at Full Volume (And You're the Conductor)
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In this episode of Pouring and Parenting, hosts Sil and Inish navigate the chaotic yet humorous world of parenting. They discuss various challenges, from technology's impact on children to the complexities of family dynamics, including mother-in-law drama. The conversation highlights the importance of community support, the joys and silliness of parenting, and the unique bonds formed between siblings. Through laughter and relatable stories, they emphasize the need for positivity in parenting and the shared experiences that unite families.
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<...13: To The Left: The Surprising Truth About Modern Dating From a Dad Who’s Navigating It All
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In this episode of Poring and Parenting, hosts Sil and Inish welcome their guest Joe, who shares his experiences and insights on modern dating, particularly as a single father. The conversation explores the evolution of dating from traditional methods to the rise of dating apps, the challenges faced by single parents in the dating scene, and the importance of honesty in dating profiles. Joe discusses his preferences for dating apps, the impact of children on dating life, and offers advice for women navigating the dating world. The episode concludes with reflections on the...
12: What About Your Friends: Why Your Friendships Might Vanish When You Say No (And What to Do About It)
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In this episode of Poring and Parenting, hosts Sil and Inish explore the complexities of friendships before and after motherhood. They discuss the evolution of relationships, the challenges of maintaining connections with friends who don't have children, and the dynamics of group chats. The conversation also touches on the importance of playdates, the impact of mean girl energy in adulthood, and the need for grace in navigating friendships as a parent. With humor and honesty, they share personal anecdotes and insights, making it relatable for listeners in similar situations.
11: My Funny Valentine: Why Your Comfort Zone Is Killing Your Valentine’s Day Plans — And How to Fix It
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In this episode of Pouring and Parenting, hosts Inish and Sil discuss various themes surrounding Valentine's Day, including personal traditions, gifting expectations, and the challenges of celebrating as parents. They also touch on the concept of Galentine's Day, share updates on Chrissy and Desmond's divorce, and reflect on the cultural significance of the recent Super Bowl performance by Bad Bunny. The conversation is filled with humor, relatable anecdotes, and insights into love and friendship.
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10: Let's Get it Started: Controversies from the Big Game to a Mother's Body Everybody's Got an Opinion
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In this episode, the Sil and Inish discuss the upcoming Super Bowl, touching on the teams involved and their personal connections to the event. They delve into the controversy surrounding Bad Bunny's halftime performance, exploring cultural implications and public reactions. The conversation shifts to a trending influencer's divorce, examining the dynamics of public relationships and personal struggles. The hosts then engage in a fun musical challenge before addressing the sensitive topic of breastfeeding versus formula feeding, sharing personal experiences, and advocating for individual choices in parenting. The episode concludes with reflections on the...
