We Met At Acme
We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.
The Relationship Recession ft. Amy Chan
Relationship expert, founder of The Breakup Bootcamp, and author Amy Chan is back on the podcast for the third time! We discuss why a majority of relationships fail at the 18 month mark, the biggest first date mistake, the #1 trait that predicts relationship success, the best age to meet someone, and more!
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Steven is BACK!
My husband Steven is on the pod today for the second ever time, but the first ever time on video! We discuss first impressions, his favorite part of fatherhood, how our relationship has changed since having kids, how to know if a man is ready for marriage, and more!
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We’re Raising The Bar ft. Morgan Stewart
Morgan Stewart is on the pod! A true dream guest of mine. Morgan and I discuss her dynamic with her husband Jordan, what we need to be wearing on first dates, her postpartum experience, staying in shape, marriage advice, and so much more.
Check out Morgan’s new podcast The Morgan Stewart Show out now!
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It’s Not You, It’s Your Hormones ft. Rachel Blank
Rachel Blank from Allara Health joins us for a bonus episode. Allara Health is redefining women’s healthcare by delivering integrated, insurance-covered care for hormonal and metabolic health – all within a coordinated, virtual model. Rachel and I discuss breaking off an engagement, throwing out her checklist to meet her husband, living with PCOS, and how doctors need to stop ignoring women’s hormones.
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The Best Relationships Come To Those Who Wait Part 5
Your favorite series is back with stories from amazing couples who found love “later” on. Hope you enjoy!
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He Should Be Nervous Around You ft. Dara Levitan
Dara Levitan is on the pod today. Dara is a brand new cast member of Summer House and the host of her own podcast called 5 More Minutes. We discuss relationships of our past, the behind the scenes of Summer House, being single in the city, how she got on the show, prompts on her dating app profile, being friends with exes, and more.
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Will He Show Up For You At 3AM? ft. Caitlin Wilder
Caitlin Wilder is a doula, podcast host, and mom of soon to be 3! Caitlin is on Instagram at @wilderbeginnings where she talks about the realness of motherhood. In this episode, we get into what it’s like to be a mom today, dating advice we’d give our daughters, how to know if your partner will be a good parent, things we said we’d never do as parents, sleep training, and so much more.
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The Second Chapter Is Always The Best Chapter ft. Chriselle Lim
Chriselle Lim is on the pod today. Chriselle is a fashion stylist, influencer, and entrepreneur. She founded Phlur, and is one of the OG fashion bloggers on Instagram. Chriselle and I talk about her divorce, finding love again, building a brand, what she chooses to share online, and so much more.
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How To Stop Comparing Timelines In Your Early 30s
On today’s solo episode, I discuss keeping the spark and continuing to date your husband, questions to know if you’re ready to move in together, tips for long distance relationships, pre-engagement conversations, wedding planning in your late 30s, and playing it cool when you want to marry someone.
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Is My Dating Program Too Strict? ft. Shaun Galanos
Shaun Galanos aka The Love Drive is back on the pod and we are fighting! Well, not really but we discuss my strict dating program and what he agrees or disagrees with. It’s a fun one!
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The Conversations Couples NEED To Have About Money
On today’s bonus solo episode, I talk about merging finances, wedding spending, prenups, when to have these money conversations with a partner, how to get free perks towards your honeymoon, who should be paying for what, and so much more.
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Why We Love The Wrong People ft. Carola Lovering
Today we are telling lies with Carola Lovering, the author of Tell Me Lies which is now a MAJOR television show. We discuss the inspiration behind the book, if intense chemistry is a warning sign, why it’s easier to treat ourselves badly in college, how we’re feeling about this season so far, being new moms, and so much more.
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Your Prayers Won’t Get You Married ft. Alison Wellington
Alison Wellington is a certified dating coach who has come to put us in our place. We discuss her own love journey and how she became a coach, harmful dating advice, red (and green) flags people ignore, when to discuss sexual needs, bringing up “next steps,” how you can put in the work to get results in dating, where to meet men in person, and so much more.
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It’s Not About The Lamb Chops ft. My Friend Liz
My high school bestie Liz is on the podcast today! We discuss everything from what we were like in high school, to her husband being her first ever boyfriend, becoming a mom, what rules she broke, how we’ve maintained our friendship throughout the years, and so much more.
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Chapters
00:49 High School Memories and Friendship
13:16 Meeting John and Love Stories
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Postpartum Diaries ft. My Sister Allie
My sister Allie joins me virtually to talk about everything and nothing at the same time. We get into procedures we will do as we age, what we were like in high school, postpartum feels, shopping addictions, screen time, the difference between 1 and 2 kids, and so much more.
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Birth Story + 3-3-3 Rule!
Baby Daisy is here! I am talking all about the beginning of Daisy’s life and our NICU experience. Then, we get into the 3-3-3 rule of 3 weeks, 3 months, and 3 years.
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00:28 Life Update: Becoming a Mom of Two
01:41 Unexpected Delivery: Daisy's Birth Story
08:30 NICU Experience: Challenges and Emotions
12:19 Reflections on Motherhood and NICU
19:07 Daisy Comes Home: J...
What No One Tells You About Your Fertility ft. Samantha Diamond
Samantha Diamond is the co-founder and CEO of Bird&Be, the modern fertility brand transforming how people approach reproductive health. We discuss her PCOS diagnosis, what people need to change about their lifestyle when trying to conceive, biggest fertility misconceptions, how she found out about her miscarriage, and so much more.
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Why You’re Not Having Good Sex ft. Caitlin V
Caitlin V is a sex and relationship coach. In this episode, we dig into what’s really going on with sex these days. We talk about how to bring up fantasies without making it weird, what to do when libidos don’t match, how shame blocks intimacy, and why mindset matters as much as technique. We also answer tons of real listener questions: orgasms (and lack of them), ED, mismatched desire, sexual compatibility, painful sex, trying new positions, porn in relationships, confidence in bed, and how to keep things exciting even when routines settle in. If you’ve ever wonder...
How We Should Handle Modern Dating ft. Mel Robbins
MEL ROBBINS HAS ENTERED THE BUILDING! I had an out of body experience interviewing Mel. She is everything I wanted her to be and more. Mel and I discuss her own relationship - how it started and how she makes it work, how to apply Let Them and the 5 second rule to modern dating, relationship lessons she’s learned the hard way, her favorite age of her kids, why she hates dating rules, and so much more.
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Love Is Better In Your 30s ft. Lindsi Lane
Lindsi Lane is on the podcast today! Lindsi is a fashion, motherhood, and beauty influencer. We discuss finding a partner in your 30s, weeding out the bad ones when dating, second child infertility, the “perfect time” to be a mom, and so much more.
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06:49 Family Planning and Pregnancy Challenges
23:33 The Struggles of Sharing Personal Journeys on Social Media
25:08 Ba...
I Found The Best Dating Advice On TikTok So You Don’t Have To Part 2
For part 2 of this series, I scoured TikTok for more dating advice. We discuss what makes the happiest relationships, why you should choose a partner like you choose a puppy, if they are avoidant or just not into you, why you have to want to be friends with your partner, and so much more.
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05:55 Binge-Watching and Show Recommendations
15:47 TikTok Dati...
It All Comes Down to Communication ft. Tay Lautner
Taylor Dome Lautner is a registered nurse, mental health advocate, and digital content creator. She hosts The Squeeze podcast with her husband Taylor Lautner. We discuss how to have better communication in your relationship, meeting her husband at a game night, therapy and the ways it’s healed Tay and also her communication, love languages, and so much more!
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Your Sleep Habits Are Hurting Your Love Life ft. Andy and Katie Mant
I sit down with Andy and Katie Mant from Bon Charge and we discuss all things sleep and relationships. How important your sleep compatibility is, how couples can improve their bedroom energy, and what it’s like running a business with your significant other. They also share the sneaky changes we can make to change our sleep habits for the better. Better sleep, better relationships!
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Manifesting A Partner Into Your Space ft. Nate Berkus
Nate Berkus joins us to talk about the beautiful intersection between love, design, and the spaces we call home. He shares the story of how he met his husband Jeremia, and opens up about what it really takes to maintain a healthy relationship. We dive into how someone’s personal taste can shape attraction, what your home might reveal about your dating style, and the subtle green and red flags you can spot just by stepping into someone’s apartment. Nate also offers his take on manifesting love through your space, how to intentionally “design” a relationship that lasts, and even...
The Loneliness Between Life Stages
Today’s solo is about the loneliness we feel throughout different stages of our lives. I talk about the post-college void, the mid 20s relationship and splinter era, and the post-baby or settled down loneliness. I also discuss rules for dating around the holidays, texting habits in the talking stage, and so much more!
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The Work That Makes Love Work ft. Mosheh Oinounou and Alex Sall
Married couple Mosheh Oinounou and Alex Sall join Lindsey on the podcast today to discuss breaking generational molds, conscious parenting, starting a relationship when you come from different fighting styles, how to be patient with a new partner, not “bringing the news home,” and so much more. Mosheh is the creator and founder of the Mo News network, https://www.mo.news/, which you should absolutely check out if you haven’t already!
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What Everyone Hates About Dating Right Now ft. Davide De Pierro
I sit down with the internet’s favorite guy in his car, Davide De Pierro. We discuss what is wrong with the current state of dating right now, why more religious couples stay together, how honest we should be during the dating process, why he’s not on the apps, what he wishes he knew in his 20s, what he is looking for when dating now, and so much more.
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The Difference Between A Boyfriend And A Husband
In today’s solo episode, I’m talking all about the difference between a boyfriend and a husband. I also discuss if we are all having enough sex.
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We Need To Talk About Sex ft. Jamie Norwood
Winx co-founder Jamie Norwood is on the podcast and we are discussing all things sex-ed, UTIs, when to discuss sex with the next generation, what a man’s role in sex should look like, and so much more.
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The Motherhood Journey No One Talks About ft. Savannah Simon
Savannah Simon is an incredible friend, new mom, and fitness trainer at PUSH, a pre and postnatal fitness and functional training studio. Sav and I discuss everything from meeting her husband, to experiencing loss, postpartum, supporting our friends, the “bounce back,” and so much more.
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35 Things I've Learned In 35 Years
Happy 35th birthday to me!!! I had so much fun making this list and recording this solo episode on all the important lessons on dating, life, friendship, family, and more. I hope you enjoy it!
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The Taxi Cab Theory For Men: Real or BS? ft. Harry Jowsey
Harry Jowsey is on the pod today! Harry is the host of Boyfriend Material and you’ve definitely seen him in a few of your favorite reality tv shows. His upcoming show “Let’s Marry Harry” is going to be so much fun. We discuss the taxi cab theory, when to trauma dump, celebs he’s DMed with, dating with grief, what he’s worked on in therapy, and so much more!
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Dating is a Marathon, Not a Sprint ft. Brett Chody
Brett Chody is on the pod today! Brett is a creator, runner, Swiftie, and popcorn expert. Her account is @brettsbites on Instagram and she has grown an amazing and loyal following over the years. Brett and I talk about how she got into running, meeting her boyfriend on a dating app, rules she’s broken, friendship changing in your 20s, wedding guest etiquette, and so much more.
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Life After Living Together ft. Joey Graziadei & Kelsey Anderson
I sat down with Joey Graziadei and Kelsey Anderson, the most adorable bachelor couple to ever exist. We discuss their normal day-to-day life, how they handle disagreements, what they’ve learned from couples therapy, how they balance each other out in their dynamic, and so much more!
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Bonded Through The Trenches Of Motherhood ft. Dale and Annabel
Dale and Annabel are the creators of We Are More Than Moms, a mom community, a brand, and a podcast. We discuss everything from their origin story, to meeting their husbands, raising kids in NYC vs. LA, how babies change friendship, the hardest stages of motherhood, and so much more.
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Qualities You Need For A Great Friendship ft. My Best Friend Fallon
My friend Fallon Lieberman is on the podcast today! We talk about how we became friends, how we’ve managed (or struggled) with maintaining that friendship throughout the years, keeping things interesting with her partner of 20(!!!) years, and so much more.
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Are You Trusting Your Gut Or Self Sabotaging?
Today’s solo episode is all about the difference between your gut and intuition telling you something vs. your anxiety and fears trying to self sabotage. I also answer your listener submitted questions!
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01:09 Trusting Your Gut vs. Self-Sabotage in Dating
09:30 Red Flags and Practical Dating Advice
24:46 Navigating Relationship Beginnings
27:08 Setting Boundaries and Red Flags
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New York Isn’t What It Used To Be ft. Carole Radziwill
Carole Radziwill is American journalist, best selling author, and former castmate of RHONY. We discuss how NYC has changed, her current dating life, how she met her late husband Anthony, her friendship with JFK Jr. and Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy, and what she thinks made their relationship so special.
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Why He Isn’t Saying I Love You ft. Niko Emanuilidis
Niko Emanuilidis aka The Daddy Academy is on the podcast today! Niko and I discuss toxic masculinity, red flags people ignore, what it means to be “maternal,” dating books he recommends, his taxi cab theory thoughts, why guys take a long time to say I love you, and so much more!
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How To Balance Families And Deal With In-Laws
On today’s solo episode, we’re talking all about how to blend families and deal with in-laws. I discuss first meeting the parents, when you’re engaged and planning a weddin g, and navigating the family postpartum. AND SO MUCH MORE!
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