Curiouser + Curiouser Daily Podcast
Welcome to Curiouser + Curiouser, the daily podcast where love, sex, romance, and kink get real.I’m Heather aka Nookie—author, educator, relationship coach, and professional truth-teller. Every day, I send a message to my community: part story, part confession, part “holy hell, that’s exactly what I needed to hear today.” Now, I’m bringing those daily messages to your ears.Each episode is 3–10 minutes long—short enough for your morning coffee, deep enough to shift how you think about connection. I talk about the conversations I’ve had, the questions people ask, the mistakes we all make, and the delicious, mes...
June 19: Walk with me. (Also, there's coaching involved.)
$40. 40 minutes. Some kids get a bed tonight.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/061926-walk
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June 16: This is actually good news. (I promise.)
This is actually good news. (I promise.) What he called "terrible communication," I call free data.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/061626-effort
June 15: "Here's my number" (no one asked)
Pushing your number on someone is not the flex you think it is.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/061526-number
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This episode contains AI voices. Here is my statement on how I use AI in my business: https://my.curiouser.life/post/041526-ai
June 12: The dating villain you invented might just be a regular human.
Not every inconsistent person is a mastermind.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/061226-breadcrumbing
June 11: About that "hypocrisy" she thinks she spotted…
Yes, I used to reply to everything. No, I'm not going to apologize for stopping.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/061126-ghosting2
Jun 10: Modern dating didn't invent ghosting.
It just got dramatic about it. Spoiler: No reply IS a reply.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/061026-ghosting
June 9: Sir. SIR. This is a Wendy's.
Taking apart a viral rant, one bad premise at a time.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/060926-dating
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This episode contains AI voices. Here is my statement on how I use AI in my business: https://my.curiouser.life/post/041526-ai
June 3: A man on social media explained orgasms to women.
And he was wrong. Here’s what you can learn from this.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/060326-unique
June 2: I begged for sex. (Yes, really.)
I've been there. And I want to tell you what I learned.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/060226-begging
June 1: This is what love looks like (all of it).
I spent my weekend surrounded by love in every form. Let me tell you about it.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/060126-pride
May 29: One simple sentence. One major shift.
This is why I do what I do.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/052926-problem
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This episode contains AI voices. Here is my statement on how I use AI in my business: https://my.curiouser.life/post/041526-ai
May 28: You don't need the right vocabulary to deserve help.
Being technically correct and being helpful are not the same thing.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/052826-pedantry
May 27: I got the ick — and then I got proof.
Before my brain had a reason, my body had the answer.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/052726-ick
May 26: "I'll burp it, but that's it."
"But I am worked up." Yikes. Let's talk about that.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/052626-burp
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This episode contains AI voices. Here is my statement on how I use AI in my business: https://my.curiouser.life/post/041526-ai
May 20: A comedian just said what I've been telling you for years.
This clip hit me right in the philosophy.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/052026-fit
May 19: He became a creep right in front of my eyes.
Oh, they understand. They just don’t care, until…
https://my.curiouser.life/post/051926-mean
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This episode contains AI voices. Here is my statement on how I use AI in my business: https://my.curiouser.life/post/041526-ai
May 18: Is there a CyrAIno in your relationship?
Someone's getting help writing those sweet nothings.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/051826-cyrAIno
May 13: Why aren't you doing the things you say you want?
What your questions about dating actually reveal about your life.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/051326-choices
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This episode contains AI voices. Here is my statement on how I use AI in my business: https://my.curiouser.life/post/041526-ai
May 12: You've heard of demisexual. But have you heard of this?
There's a whole type of person the sex-positive world still gets wrong.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/051226-megasexual
May 11; "Women want experience." Sure, babe. Sure.
Two men proved my point better than I ever could.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/051126-experience
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This episode contains AI voices. Here is my statement on how I use AI in my business: https://my.curiouser.life/post/041526-ai
May 8: The “clean slate” fantasy…
Picasso painted over his canvases. So did Rembrandt. Turns out, that's where the masterpieces came from.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/050826-canvas
May 7: Does setting boundaries help men or help relationships?
The honest answer? Both. And also: it depends.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/050726-boundaries
May 6: Feminism, SELF-ish love, and the one question that actually matters in dating
It's not about their list. It's about yours.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/050626-selfish
May 5th: Fantasy vs. The Real Thing
It’s grounded in inspiration, not intimidation.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/050526-inspiration
May 1: The holiday you didn't know you needed.
May is for self-love. The literal kind.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/050126-may
April 30: Let’s play! Truth or Trauma
Same feeling, different person? That's not a coincidence.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/043026-game
April 29: The question nobody's asking about cheating.
There are two kinds of monogamy. Most people are only one of them.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/042926-nomono
April 27: I followed my joy. It led me here.
How a play party reminded me about what that really matters.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/042726-wild-things
April 24: It's not your fault. (And I'll die on this hill.)
CW: Abuse
Blame the victim? I have thoughts.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/042426-herd
April 23: The buffet is YOU (and some people don't deserve a plate).
Yes, you attract the wrong sort. No, it's not your fault. Both things are true.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/042326-eat-you
April 22: You are what you eat (intellectually, emotionally).
Your brain is running other people's software without your permission.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/042226-eat
April 15: My AI confession (it's less dramatic than it sounds)…
I blocked him. Here's why—and here's what I actually use.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/041526-ai
April 14: The difference between a boundary, a rule, and an ultimatum
(Hint: one of them is about you. The other two... aren't.)
https://my.curiouser.life/post/041426-rules
April 13: Is it a boundary... or an ultimatum? Here's how to tell.
You control two of the three. The third one? Good luck.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/041326-ultimatum
April 10: “Real love” isn't the point. This is.
CW: Abuse
I've been called cynical for this. Hear me out.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/041026-real-love-2
April 9: 20 people. 27 definitions. One big problem.
(And you thought you were speaking the same language.)
https://my.curiouser.life/post/040926-real-love
April 8: Someone called me a grifter yesterday…
He's been reading my emails for a year. Still single. Still not talking to me.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/040826-grift
April 7: I followed someone else’s rules. Here's what happened.
Turns out, someone else's blueprint doesn't fit everyone (DUH).
https://my.curiouser.life/post/040726-ch-ch-ch-changes
April 6: They feel everything. You think everything. Now what?
A real question from a real person—and my very personal answer.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/040626-depth
April 3: He called me "actually coherent." 🤣🤣🤣
Spoiler: it revealed more about him than he intended.
https://my.curiouser.life/post/040326-simps
