Wenzes
Here, Here we talk about life transformation here ON YOUR TERMS. My name is Wenzes, I am a life coach and transformation mentor for INFJs. You can also find me on my YouTube Channel: Wenzes or on my website: www.wenzes.com
Stop Asking Why They Disrespected You - It's IRRELEVANT
The EPIC LIFE Method, launching Oct 30th: https://programs.wenzes.com/courses/epiclifemethodFree "Epic Life Formula" Posterhttps://epic-life-formula.gr-site.com/_Want to start your own business but keep getting stuck?👉 Get the Solopreneur Course: https://programs.wenzes.com/courses/epicsolopreneurWork with me 1-on-1 and change your reality:👉 https://www.wenzes.com/coaching_You might not be unhappy because the relationship is bad. You might be unhappy because you’re perceptive enough to see what it could become.And that can make reality surprisingly difficult to evaluate.When there’s chemistry, meaningful moments, and genuine connection, it’s easy to start relati...
Why Do Some People’s Lives Seem To Get Better And Better?
The EPIC LIFE Method, launching Oct 30th: https://programs.wenzes.com/courses/epiclifemethodFree "Epic Life Formula" Posterhttps://epic-life-formula.gr-site.com/_Want to start your own business but keep getting stuck?👉 Get the Solopreneur Course: https://programs.wenzes.com/courses/epicsolopreneurWork with me 1-on-1 and change your reality:👉 https://www.wenzes.com/coaching_Why does life seem to get better and better for some people?
In this episode, you'll understand how to become one of those people whose life keeps getting better.
You'll discover why two people can live almost the same life but experience it comple...
How To Level Up So Fast It Feels FORBIDDEN
The EPIC LIFE Method, launching Oct 30th: https://programs.wenzes.com/courses/epiclifemethodFree "Epic Life Formula" Posterhttps://epic-life-formula.gr-site.com/_Want to start your own business but keep getting stuck?👉 Get the Solopreneur Course: https://programs.wenzes.com/courses/epicsolopreneurWork with me 1-on-1 and change your reality:👉 https://www.wenzes.com/coaching_You can be extremely intelligent and still be completely convinced by a story your nervous system helped create.When something matters to you, your system doesn't just register what happened. It influences what you notice, what you remember, and which explanations feel plausible. Then your conscious mind can co...
How To Choose Yourself So Deeply Your Desires Start Chasing You
The EPIC LIFE Method, launching Oct 30th: https://www.wenzes.com/elm-prelaunch
Free "Epic Life Formula" Posterhttps://epic-life-formula.gr-site.com/_Want to start your own business but keep getting stuck?👉 Get the Solopreneur Course: https://programs.wenzes.com/courses/epicsolopreneurWork with me 1-on-1 and change your reality:👉 https://www.wenzes.com/coaching_Everyone tells you to choose yourself. But almost nobody explains what that actually means.
Because choosing yourself isn't simply putting yourself first, setting boundaries, or walking away from people. It's learning to stay connected to your own experience, your own truth...
How Mastering DETACHMENT Will Change Your Life
Free "Epic Life Formula" Posterhttps://epic-life-formula.gr-site.com/_Want to start your own business but keep getting stuck?👉 Get the Solopreneur Course: https://programs.wenzes.com/courses/epicsolopreneurWork with me 1-on-1 and change your reality:👉 https://www.wenzes.com/coaching_You can really want something...and still be practicing not having it.
Maybe it’s more money.
A different body.
A bigger business.
A relationship.
A different life.
You think about what you want, but underneath it is: “I’m not there yet."
And what if that is e...
You Understand People SO Well. So Why Do You Feel Disconnected?
Free "Epic Life Formula" Posterhttps://epic-life-formula.gr-site.com/_Want to start your own business but keep getting stuck?👉 Get the Solopreneur Course: https://programs.wenzes.com/courses/epicsolopreneurWork with me 1-on-1 and change your reality:👉 https://www.wenzes.com/coaching_You may be unusually good at reading people.You notice what others miss. You sense shifts before they’re spoken. You can read a room almost instantly.And yet, relationships can still feel strangely exhausting.Here’s the paradox: your ability to understand people may not be the problem. It may be what you’ve turned that ability into.Because ther...
Your Story Makes PERFECT SENSE. But Does It MATCH REALITY?
Free "Epic Life Formula" Posterhttps://epic-life-formula.gr-site.com/_Want to start your own business but keep getting stuck?👉 Get the Solopreneur Course: https://programs.wenzes.com/courses/epicsolopreneurWork with me 1-on-1 and change your reality:👉 https://www.wenzes.com/coaching_You can be incredibly perceptive and still mistake a convincing story for reality.Your mind is brilliant at connecting dots, spotting patterns, and creating explanations. That’s a strength. But it also means you can build an entire reality inside your head that feels completely true.The skill isn’t learning to distrust your mind.It’s learning to distinguish...
But Did It Get the JOB DONE?!
Free "Epic Life Formula" Posterhttps://epic-life-formula.gr-site.com/_Want to start your own business but keep getting stuck?👉 Get the Solopreneur Course: https://programs.wenzes.com/courses/epicsolopreneurWork with me 1-on-1 and change your reality:👉 https://www.wenzes.com/coaching_You may have been calling yourself “inappropriate” when you were actually just doing something other people didn’t expect.Because appropriate doesn’t automatically mean good, bad, normal, or acceptable.It means: appropriate for what?The moment you ask that question, a lot of shame starts to look very different. Some rules genuinely help you create what you want. Others simply...
Your Primal Brain Is Running The Show
Free "Epic Life Formula" Posterhttps://epic-life-formula.gr-site.com/_Want to start your own business but keep getting stuck?👉 Get the Solopreneur Course: https://programs.wenzes.com/courses/epicsolopreneurWork with me 1-on-1 and change your reality:👉 https://www.wenzes.com/coaching_You’re not just living your habits. You’re training your brain.You may have a lot going for you and still feel strangely unfulfilled, distracted, or constantly pulled toward the next hit of stimulation.Because your brain is learning something from you all day long:what is worth wanting.And once you see that, some of your habits start to l...
This Is NOT YOUR INTUITION Speaking (99% Get This Wrong)
Free "Epic Life Formula" Posterhttps://epic-life-formula.gr-site.com/_Want to start your own business but keep getting stuck?👉 Get the Solopreneur Course: https://programs.wenzes.com/courses/epicsolopreneurWork with me 1-on-1 and change your reality:👉 https://www.wenzes.com/coaching_If you’re someone who feels things deeply, you probably trust your gut.But sometimes a feeling can get so loud that you can’t tell what’s actually true anymore.You feel angry. Excited. Rejected. Scared. And suddenly you feel like you have to do something.But what if that feeling isn’t your intuition?What if it’s simply telling...
You're OUTSIDE THE NORM. Good, Now OWN IT.
Free "Epic Life Formula" Posterhttps://epic-life-formula.gr-site.com/_Want to start your own business but keep getting stuck?👉 Get the Solopreneur Course: https://programs.wenzes.com/courses/epicsolopreneurWork with me 1-on-1 and change your reality:👉 https://www.wenzes.com/coaching_You may genuinely be different from most people. And that might be one of your strengths.
So why can being different sometimes make you feel so disconnected?
Maybe the problem isn't that you're outside the norm. Maybe it's that you've started treating being outside the norm as evidence that you're separate from everyone else.
And...
Your MIND Is a High-Powered ENGINE. Why Run on Empty?
Free "Epic Life Formula" Posterhttps://epic-life-formula.gr-site.com/_Want to start your own business but keep getting stuck?👉 Get the Solopreneur Course: https://programs.wenzes.com/courses/epicsolopreneurWork with me 1-on-1 and change your reality:👉 https://www.wenzes.com/coaching_What if your exhaustion isn't just about how much you're doing… but how often you're fighting yourself?
Saying yes when you mean no. Living from “should.” Managing everyone else's feelings.
Waiting for permission to make your own choices.
All that inner friction costs energy.
In this episode, you'll discover what's really draining you...
Your ATTENTION Is Like A Ferrari, Not A Bike
Free "Epic Life Formula" Posterhttps://epic-life-formula.gr-site.com/_Want to start your own business but keep getting stuck?👉 Get the Solopreneur Course: https://programs.wenzes.com/courses/epicsolopreneurWork with me 1-on-1 and change your reality:👉 https://www.wenzes.com/coaching_Your attention is one of the most powerful things you have, and you’re spending it all day long.What you repeatedly look at doesn’t just take your time. It changes what you notice, what feels important, and what your mind starts building around.In this episode, I want to show you what happens when you stop treating your atten...
Once You Let Go like THIS, Reality SHIFTS instantly
Free "Epic Life Formula" Posterhttps://epic-life-formula.gr-site.com/_Want to start your own business but keep getting stuck?👉 Get the Solopreneur Course: https://programs.wenzes.com/courses/epicsolopreneurWork with me 1-on-1 and change your reality:👉 https://www.wenzes.com/coaching_What if letting go isn’t about giving up — but about becoming available for something you couldn’t see before?When you’re attached to a person, relationship, job, or specific outcome, you’re often focused on one question: How can I make this work?But what happens when you ask instead:“What if I didn’t have this?”That question can loos...
You’ve Overcome So Much - Now Trust You’ll Master What’s Next
Free Template Owner Identity Mindset:https://owner-identity.gr8.com/_Work with me 1-on-1 for personalized support:👉 https://www.wenzes.com/coaching_You might be measuring yourself by the wrong thing.
Just because something feels like too much for you right now doesn’t mean it’s beyond you. Your current capacity is shaped by what you’ve learned, what you’ve experienced, and what you’ve had to deal with so far.
And growing your capacity doesn’t always mean working harder or becoming more productive. Sometimes it means not getting triggered anymore.
Letting somethi...
You Already Have Huge Potential. You Don’t Need More.
Free "Creator of Your Epic Life" Template:https://owner-identity.gr8.com/_Work with me 1-on-1 for personalized support:👉 https://www.wenzes.com/coaching_You already have huge potential. But what if trying to maximize it is actually keeping you from realizing it?When you keep every option open, wait for certainty, and avoid making the “wrong” choice, it can feel like you're protecting your potential. But potential is only possibility.Your potential becomes real when you choose, create, sacrifice, and build something that didn't exist before.You don't need to become the best version of yourself in every possible directi...
You Have Amazing INTUITION. Now Go ALL IN.
Free Template Owner Identity Mindset:https://owner-identity.gr8.com/_Work with me 1-on-1 for personalized support:👉 https://www.wenzes.com/coaching_You probably already trust your intuition.
You know when something feels wrong. You know when you've outgrown something. You know when something no longer fits.
But there's a deeper level of trust: trusting that your intuition will figure out what comes next.
You don't need to see the whole path before you let go. You just need to trust the next step, and trust that you'll know what to do after that.
<...The SMARTER You Are, The HARDER This Is
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What if one of your greatest strengths isalso making your life harder?
If you’re highly intelligent, you can seepatterns, anticipate problems, and understand things deeply.
Sounds like a recipe for success, right?
Not always.
Sometimes the smarter you are, the easierit becomes to overthink, overcomplicate, and wait until you feel c...
Tired Of Living On AUTOPILOT?
Free Template Owner Identity Mindset:https://owner-identity.gr8.com/_Work with me 1-on-1 for personalized support:👉 https://1-on-1-coaching.wenzes.com/_Stop waiting for clarity to find you - learn how to create your own path and step out of the subconscious "autopilot" mode that keeps you unfulfilled.
In this episode, I’m sharing the mindset shifts and small, actionable habits you can use to start designing a life that truly reflects who you are.
Are you tired of doing what you're supposed to do, but still feeling like you're not really creating the life you w...
Feeling GUILTY About WANTING MONEY? Let Me Tell You A Secret
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Do you feel guilty for wanting to bewealthy? Let’s uncover the hidden stories keeping you from financial freedomand how to shift your mindset to see money as a neutral tool for growth.
Have you ever wanted to make moremoney... and then felt guilty for wanting it?
Maybe somewhere along the way, youstarted associating wealth with greed, selfishness, or becomin...
The Truth About MAKING IT
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Stop tying your identity to the outcome andlearn how to finally feel enough, successful, and fulfilled right now. Discoverthe psychological shift you need to move from seeking validation to living anepic life on your own terms.
What if the goal you’re chasing was neversupposed to prove that you’re enough?
It’s easy to believe that once you achievethe...
Your Nervous System Is NOT Ready for Your Next Level (YET)
Free Template Owner Identity Mindset:https://owner-identity.gr8.com/_Work with me 1-on-1 for personalized support:👉 https://1-on-1-coaching.wenzes.com/_Self-sabotage happens when success feels unsafe, but it doesn't have to stay that way.
In this episode, we’re rewiring your nervous system so you can finally step into your next level with confidence and ease.What if self-sabotage isn't a discipline problem, but a nervous system problem?When success starts to challenge the identity you're used to, growth can feel surprisingly uncomfortable. You may procrastinate, lose momentum, or unconsciously pull back right when things are worki...
You've Been SAVING Everyone. Now Level Up.
Free Template Owner Identity Mindset:https://owner-identity.gr8.com/_Work with me 1-on-1 for personalized support:👉 https://1-on-1-coaching.wenzes.com/_You've become the person everyone relies on.
The problem is that somewhere along the way, you may have started carrying things that were never yours to carry.
Other people's emotions.Other people's expectations.Other people's responsibilities.
In this episode, I explain why being "the strong one" can quietly keep you stuck—and why real strength comes from protecting your energy instead of constantly sacrificing it.
If you want to take this...
You've MASTERED Survival. Now CHANGE THE GAME.
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Ready to stop justgetting by and start truly living on your own terms? It's time to shift yourfocus from surviving the day to mastering the game of your life and business.
What if you're notstuck because you're missing something...
What if you'restuck because part of you is moving forward while another part is holding on?
So man...
We've All Been BRAINWASHED. Let's Rewrite that SCRIPT.
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Stop telling yourself you're lost; you already have the answers, you're just overriding them. In this episode, I’m sharing the 5 subconscious shifts you need to stop feeling stuck and start living your most aligned life.
Feeling lost doesn't always mean you don't know what to do.
Sometimes it means you've spent so long putting your own priorities second that you've stopped trusting yourself.
In this episode, I break down five...
If They Think You Are Too Much...BELIEVE THEM
Kickstart Enrollment: https://www.wenzes.com/kickstartEnrollment is open now (5 days only).Doors close July 31 at 11:59 PM PST (Sat Aug 1, 8:59 AM CEST)If people are telling you that you’re "too much," it’s time to stop apologizing and start seeing it as your greatest business asset. In this video, I’m sharing how to break free from the people-pleasing trap so you can show up authentically and finally build a business that actually gets noticed.Most people think the goal is to be liked.But if everyone likes you, there's a good chance you're blending into the background.Whethe...
Your Sensitivity Is Your Winning Lottery Ticket - Go Cash It In
Kickstart Waitlist: https://www.wenzes.com/kickstart Enrollment opens tomorrow (July 27) for 5 days only. Doors close July 31 at 11:59 PM PST (Sat Aug 1, 8:59 AM CEST).
Stop seeing your sensitivity as a flaw and start leveraging it as the high-resolution data that can take your business to the next level.
You've probably been told you're too sensitive.
Too emotional. Too intense. Too reactive to succeed in business.But what if your sensitivity isn't the thing holding you back?
What if it's the very advantage that allows you to see what others miss, understand...
The Cheat Code to Not Caring What People Think
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Opens July 27 for 5 days only. Closes July 31 at 11:59 PM PST. Launch bonus live call: Sat Aug 1, 6:00 PM CEST (12:00 PM ET / 9:00 AM PT).
Stop letting other people’s opinions hold you back from your Epic Life. This simple shift is the ultimate BRAIN HACK for true freedom.
How much of your life is shaped by what other people might think?
In this episode, I share why fear of judgment keeps so many people stuck, what it's really protecting you from, and how to stop organizing yo...
Destroy Your EMPLOYEE MINDSET & Watch What Happens
Kickstart Waitlist: https://www.wenzes.com/kickstartOpens July 27 for 5 days only. Doors close July 31 at 11:59 PM PST.
Moving from an employee mindset to a business owner identity is the single most important shift you can make for your freedom.
This video explores how to stop waiting for permission and start creating your own path by deconditioning from societal expectationsYou don't create an extraordinary life by waiting for permission.
You create it by becoming the person who trusts themselves enough to make decisions, take ownership, and keep moving even without guarantees.
Most...
"I Want to Be a MILLIONAIRE" - How About $5K MONTHS First?!
Kickstart Waitlist: https://www.wenzes.com/kickstartWant first access and launch reminders for Solopreneur Mindset Kickstart? Join the waitlist above.If you’re still working toward your first $5K month, the biggest obstacle might actually be a shift in your identity that hasn't happened yet. In this video, I’m sharing what it really takes to change your approach and reach that first major milestone as a solopreneur.++So many people say they want to make a million dollars.But what if that isn't the next goal?What if the next goal is your first consistent $5K month?Because that...
What If I Told You You're ALREADY WINNING? Would You Believe Me?
Kickstart Waitlist: https://www.wenzes.com/kickstartWant first access and launch reminders for Solopreneur Mindset Kickstart? Join the waitlist above.Stop looking for the "next big thing" to finally make you successful and start recognizing the success you’ve already built. In this episode, we explore how to shift your mindset from imitating others to showing up authentically so you can sustainably grow your business from where you are right nowWhat if you're already winning... but you just can't see it?Many people think they're behind because they're measuring the wrong things.In this episode, I talk about the id...
Enough SURVIVING. It's Time to THRIVE.
Kickstart Waitlist: https://www.wenzes.com/kickstartWant first access and launch reminders for Solopreneur Mindset Kickstart? Join the waitlist above.Stop building your business from a place of survival and start creating from abundance. In this episoe, I'm sharing how to regulate your nervous system to increase your capacity and build a sustainable business that actually thrives long-term.You've probably been told to work harder.Be more disciplined.Get a better strategy.But what if that's not what's holding you back?What if your nervous system is the invisible ceiling that's keeping you from the next level?In this...
If You START More Projects Than You FINISH, Watch This
Stop leaving your best ideas unfinished. Learn how to shift your identity from a "starter" to a "finisher" and finally get your projects across the finish line. Solopreneur Mindset Kickstart (opens end of July): Join the waitlist for first access and launch reminders: https://programs.wenzes.com/courses/epicsolopreneurSome ideas are meant to be explored. Others are meant to be built.If you constantly jump from one exciting project to the next, this video is for you. The problem may not be your discipline, motivation, or productivity. It may be the way your brain relates to ideas and the...
Your True Self Doesn't FIT IN, So Make It STAND OUT (EASY SHIFT)
Stop wasting energy trying to blend into a "perfect" mold that wasn't built for you.
Discover why your unique "weirdness" is actually your most powerful business advantage in an AI-driven world.
Free Template Owner Identity Mindset:https://owner-identity.gr8.com/_Work with me 1-on-1 for personalized support:👉 https://1-on-1-coaching.wenzes.com/_Most people spend years trying to hide the parts of themselves that feel weird, awkward, or "too much."
But what if those parts are actually your biggest advantage?
In this episode, I talk about why trying to fit in is...
This NERVOUS SYSTEM Hack Will Level Up Your Life (SHORTCUT)
Stop self-sabotage and take control of your life. This simple nervous system hack is the fastest way to shift from feeling stuck to finding mastery.Free Template Owner Identity Mindset:https://owner-identity.gr8.com/_Work with me 1-on-1 for personalized support:👉 https://1-on-1-coaching.wenzes.com/_High pressure does not just test your skills.It tests your nervous system.Whether you're a creative, freelancer, or entrepreneur, the ability to stay grounded under pressure may be one of the greatest advantages you can develop.When your nervous system shifts into survival mode, clear thinking becomes harder. You may overthink, freeze, peo...
Your NERVOUS SYSTEM Calls the Shots on Your Success
Success isn't just about strategy; it's about what your nervous system will actually allow you to achieve.
Discover why your body might be "protecting" you from the very growth you’re working for.
Free Template Owner Identity Mindset:https://owner-identity.gr8.com/_Work with me 1-on-1 for personalized support:👉 https://1-on-1-coaching.wenzes.com/_You can want more money, success, visibility, and freedom...and still find yourself pulling back when those things get close.
Not because you're lazy.Not because you're incapable. But because success doesn't only require strategy.
It requires the c...
The EXPERT TRAP - Why Smart People Stay Stuck in Business
Are you waiting to feel like an "expert" before you finally launch your business? In this episode, I explain why the expert trap is actually a shield for your identity and how to shift into being a "contributor" instead.Free Template Owner Identity Mindset:https://owner-identity.gr8.com/_Work with me 1-on-1 for personalized support:👉 https://1-on-1-coaching.wenzes.com/_You don't need another course.
You don't need more information.
And you probably don't need to become more of an expert before you start.
Many intelligent, capable people stay stuck for years because sta...
The Psychology Of SELF SABOTAGE In Business, Mindset & Soul
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Self-sabotage is rarely random.
Most entrepreneurs think self-sabotage means they're lazy, undisciplined, or simply not trying hard enough.
But what if self-sabotage is actually information?Patterns like procrastination, perfectionism, overgiving, undercharging, or constantly overextending yourself often reveal deeper fears, nervous system responses, and identity patterns that are running in the background.
In this video, we'll explore:
• Why self-sabotage happens
• How to recognize your personal patterns
• Why...
Why Embarrassment is Your Ultimate Business Hack
Business Owner Mindset & Soul - Free Template Owner Identity Mindset:https://owner-identity.gr8.com/_Work with me 1-on-1 for personalized support:👉 https://1-on-1-coaching.wenzes.com/_The cure for overthinking in business is not more thinking—it’s embarrassment, action, and reality.Overthinking survives because it stays private. Nobody sees it. Nobody stops you. You can endlessly think about your business without consequence. And trying to “stop thinking” usually doesn’t work.A better approach is to add reality, add visibility, add action, and add consequence. Action reorganizes the mind better than mental control ever will.In business, this shows up ever...
Don’t Build a Business That Breaks You | BUSINESS OWNER MINDSET & SOUL
Free Template Owner Identity Mindset:https://owner-identity.gr8.com/_Work with me 1-on-1 for personalized support:👉 https://1-on-1-coaching.wenzes.com/_Building a business should expand your life, not destroy it.
Many entrepreneurs believe they need more discipline, more hustle, and more pressure.
But often the real problem is that they're asking their nervous system to carry more than it can currently hold.
When that happens, self-sabotage shows up:
• procrastination
• stress eating
• endless scrolling
• inconsistency
• isolation
These aren't character fla...
