Daughters of the King | Christian Mom Podcast, Overwhelmed Christian mom, Christian single mom

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By: Victoria Gharis - Christian mom podcast, Faith-based habits, Christian woman faith growth coach

TOP 10 GLOBALLY RANKED PODCASTAre you a Christian mom running on empty — juggling your children, drowning in your to-do list, and secretly wondering why you can't just get it together?You love God. You want to be a present, peaceful mom. But between the mom guilt, the perfectionism, and the chaos of raising your children, you feel more overwhelmed than purposeful most days.You're in the right place.Daughters of the King is the podcast for the Christian mom who is done letting guilt and perfectionism run her home — and is ready to build faith-based habits and practical routines that actually crea...

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56. Your Life With Kids Looks Different, Face Reality and Embrace This Season
09/03/2026

You’re not “just a girl.” You’re a woman created by God with purpose, responsibility, wisdom, and influence.

In this episode of the Daughters of the King Podcast, we’re talking about what it really means to stop minimizing yourself and start taking seriously the woman God has called you to be.

Maybe you’ve caught yourself saying things like, “I’m just a girl,” “I’m not capable of that,” “I could never be that disciplined,” or “That’s just not who I am.” But what if the way you see yourself is actually holding you back from bec...


55. The Cost of Consistency: What My Journey Has Taught Me
08/25/2026

Consistency sounds simple—until you actually have to live it.

In this episode, I’m sharing my personal journey with consistency and what it has really cost me to become the woman I am today. I’m talking about the hard seasons, the setbacks, the uncomfortable choices, and the small daily decisions that nobody sees.

If you’ve ever wondered how to become more consistent, why consistency is so difficult, or what it really takes to change your life, this episode is for you.

As Christian women, consistency isn’t about having a perfect ro...


54. How to Stay Consistent With Your Habits When Life Gets Hard
08/19/2026

How do you stay consistent when life gets hard?

You know consistency is important—but what happens when your plan is too difficult to maintain? You stick with your habits for a few days, get sick, your kids get sick, life gets chaotic, and suddenly you feel like all your progress is gone.

In this episode, we’re talking about a simpler, more realistic way to build consistency—without relying on rigid routines, perfectionism, or forcing yourself to do more than your current season allows.

I’m sharing the three principles that helped one of m...


53. How to Turn Your Vision Board Into Real, Consistent Action
08/14/2026

Are you making your vision board wrong? 👀

Vision boards can be a helpful tool for Christian women—but they aren't a prayer wishlist, and they aren't supposed to be a collection of pretty pictures of the life you wish you had.

In this episode, we’re talking about how to create a vision board that actually helps you make progress toward your goals by turning your vision into practical, actionable activities.

Instead of simply putting “healthy body,” “more time with God,” or “less stress” on your vision board, what if you turned those goals into actions...


52. How to Stay Consistent as a Christian Woman: The Lies About Discipline That Keep You Stuck
08/04/2026

Do you feel like you keep starting over when it comes to discipline? Maybe you've convinced yourself that disciplined people never miss a day, always stick to the plan, and have the perfect morning routine.

But what if that's exactly what's keeping you stuck?

In this episode, we're exposing 5 common lies about discipline that many Christian women believe—and how those beliefs quietly lead to inconsistency, guilt, and perfectionism. You'll discover what biblical discipline actually looks like, why perfection isn't the goal, and how to build lasting, Christ-centered consistency one faithful step at a time.

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51. Why Tough Love Isn't Criticism (And Why Christians Get This Wrong)
07/30/2026

Have you ever been told you needed to be more disciplined or received honest feedback, only to feel criticized? You're not alone. Many Christian women struggle to tell the difference between criticism, conviction, correction, and tough love—and that confusion can keep you stuck in the same patterns for years.

In this episode, we're talking about why not every uncomfortable conversation is an attack, how the Bible teaches us to receive godly correction, and why loving accountability is one of God's greatest tools for spiritual growth. If you've ever been defensive, avoided feedback, or wondered whether someone wa...


50. Why God Feels Distant (The Truth Most Christians Need to Hear)
07/27/2026

Have you ever felt like God is distant—even though you love Him and want to grow closer to Him?

The truth is, God hasn't moved.

In this episode of the Daughters of the King Podcast, we're talking about why God can feel far away, what Scripture teaches about drawing near to Him, and the practical shifts you can make to build a consistent, Christ-centered relationship with Him—even in the middle of a busy season.

In this episode you'll learn: ✨ Why God may feel distant ✨ The mistake many Christians make when trying to "feel...


49. Why You Keep Starting Over with Your Quiet Time with God (And How to Stay Consistent)
07/21/2026

Do you keep starting over with your quiet time with God?

Maybe you've convinced yourself that you need an hour-long morning routine, the perfect Bible study setup, or a deep emotional experience for your time with God to "count." But the truth is, God isn't asking for perfection—He's inviting you into faithful consistency.

In this episode, we're talking about the real reasons Christian women struggle to stay consistent in their relationship with God and how to build a quiet time routine that lasts, even during busy seasons.

If you've been feeling spiritually st...


48. Who Is the Holy Spirit? How to Build a Personal Relationship With God's Spirit | Christian Women Podcast
07/13/2026

Have you ever wondered, Who is the Holy Spirit? How do you know if He's speaking to you? What does it actually look like to be led by the Holy Spirit in your everyday life?

In this special episode of the Daughters of the King Podcast, Victoria sits down with Minister Felicia Graves, founder of Bethesda Hope Ministries, for an in-depth biblical teaching on the Holy Spirit. Whether you're a new believer or you've walked with Christ for years, this conversation will help you better understand who the Holy Spirit is, why every Christian needs Him, and...


47. How to Be a Happy Mom (Even When Life Isn't Going the Way You Planned) | 5 Biblical Habits for Lasting Joy
07/08/2026

Many moms secretly wonder:

"Why am I not happier?"

Maybe life hasn't turned out the way you imagined. Maybe you're exhausted, overwhelmed, or constantly waiting for the next season before you allow yourself to feel joy.

The good news is that your happiness doesn't have to depend on perfect circumstances.

In today's episode, we're talking about 5 simple, biblical habits that can help you experience more joy—even when life feels messy, disappointing, or far from what you hoped for.

You'll learn how to:

Find peace by reading the bo...


46. Why Am I Still Overwhelmed Even Though I'm Doing the Work? (Bonus Episode)
07/03/2026

Feeling more chaotic, not less, even though you're finally trying to get disciplined? This bonus episode is for the Christian mom who's doing the work — the calendar, the routines, the good habits — but still feels like she's failing every time life interrupts her plan. In this episode, Victoria breaks down why willpower alone can't survive an unpredictable life, why a hard week doesn't make you a failure, and how to stop tying your identity to your productivity. If you've ever thought "I know what to do, I just can't stay consistent," this episode will meet you exactly where you are...


45. How God Provides Beyond Money: 4 Ways He Answers Your Prayers as a Christian Woman
07/01/2026

Have you ever wondered if God is providing for you, even when your prayers haven't been answered the way you expected?

As Christians, we often think of God's provision as financial blessings. But what if He's already providing through the people, wisdom, community, and opportunities He's placed in your life?

In this episode of the Daughters of the King Podcast, we're talking about four unexpected ways God has provided throughout my own journey—from healing after my past, to Christian mentorship, accountability, practical tools, and the wisdom of others. I'll also share why asking for he...


44. You Don't Need an Hour With God Every Day (The Problem With Spiritual Perfectionism)
06/24/2026

Do you feel guilty when you miss your quiet time? Have you ever told yourself, "If I could just wake up earlier, read my Bible for an hour, and follow the perfect devotional plan, I'd finally feel close to God"?

In this episode, we're talking about spiritual perfectionism—a hidden struggle that keeps many Christian women feeling stuck, discouraged, and constantly starting over in their faith.

You'll learn: ✨ What spiritual perfectionism actually is ✨ Why the Christian life is meant to be a walk, not a sprint ✨ How unrealistic expectations can hurt your relationship with God ✨ What to do...


43. How to Stop Feeling Overwhelmed Everyday
06/16/2026

Are you an overwhelmed Christian mom who feels like you're constantly rushing from one thing to the next?

In this episode of the Daughters of the King Podcast, I'm sharing the one weekly planning habit that has completely transformed how I manage my responsibilities as a wife, mom, employee, and business owner.

If you've ever wondered:

How do I stay organized as a busy mom?How can I stop feeling overwhelmed every week?What is the best planning system for Christian moms?How do I make time for myself and God without feeling guilty?<...


42. How I Built Better Habits Without More Motivation
06/12/2026

Do you struggle to stay consistent with your goals? Are you tired of starting over every Monday, feeling overwhelmed by your responsibilities, and wondering why you can't seem to follow through on the habits that matter most?

In this episode of Daughters of the King, I'm sharing the simple habit-building framework that helped me go from surviving as a busy single mom to making consistent progress in my faith, fitness, home, and business.

You'll learn the GRACE Method—a practical and grace-filled approach to building habits without relying on motivation. If you've ever asked:

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41. How to Stop Dwelling on Your Past and Embrace Your Identity in Christ
06/10/2026

Do you ever find yourself replaying old mistakes, reliving painful memories, or wondering how life would be different if you had made another choice?

Maybe you've given your life to Christ, but you still struggle with feelings of guilt, shame, regret, or unworthiness. You know God has forgiven you, but sometimes your thoughts keep pulling you back into a version of yourself that no longer exists.

In today's episode, I'm sharing my personal journey of learning how to stop living from my past and start walking in the truth of who God says I am...


40. You’re Not Lazy....You’re Overwhelmed: How to Finally Follow Through as a Mom
06/05/2026

Do you feel like you’re constantly failing because your to-do list never ends? You’re not lazy — you’re overwhelmed, and there’s a difference.

In this episode, Victoria breaks down why doing less is actually the secret to following through consistently as a mom. If you’ve been trapped in an ultra-rigid routine that leaves you no room to breathe, this episode is your permission slip to simplify.

You’ll learn:

• Why cramming everything into one day is keeping you stuck

• 5 things you’re over-stressing about that aren’t as serious as you thin...


39. How to Stop Chasing Perfection and Find Peace as a Christian Mom (3 Principles That Actually Work)
06/02/2026

Are you exhausted from trying to get everything just right — the perfect routine, the perfect morning, the perfect mom moment?

If you're a Christian mom who struggles with perfectionism, anxiety, and the pressure to have it all together, this episode is for you.

In this episode of Daughters of the King, Victoria breaks down 3 practical, faith-based principles to help you stop chasing perfection and start making real progress in your daily life — even when things are messy, chaotic, and far from Pinterest-perfect.

In this episode, you'll learn:

Why clarity about what you don...


38. Why You Keep Falling Off Your Workout Routine (And How to Stay Consistent)
05/29/2026

You know that moment when you’ve worked out for 3 days straight, you’re feeling proud of yourself… and then Day 4 comes and you tell yourself, “I’ll just do it tomorrow”?

And then tomorrow turns into next week.

In today’s episode, we’re talking about the real reason so many women struggle with consistency — and why discipline is not about being perfect.

We’re diving into:

why most workout routines failhow to build habits that actually fit YOUR lifethe mindset shift from perfection to practicalitycreating routines that feel simple instead of overwhelmingfaith...


37. New Age to Christianity Testimony + Why God May Be Calling You to Start That Business | Baylee Falk
05/22/2026

Today on Daughters of the King Podcast, I’m joined by my business coach, Baylee Falk, as she shares her powerful testimony of leaving New Age beliefs behind and finding Jesus.

Baylee opens up about her journey from the New Age movement to Christianity, how God transformed her life, and what it looks like to build a successful business while keeping Christ at the center. We also talk about faith-driven entrepreneurship, obedience, purpose, and why so many women are sitting on the business idea God already placed on their heart.

If you’ve been wondering:


36. BONUS: You Are More Capable Than You Think | Stop Doubting What God Put Inside You
05/19/2026

Have you been doubting yourself lately? Feeling unqualified, behind, stuck, or wondering if you’re really capable of doing what God placed on your heart?

In this episode, we’re talking about the truth: you are more capable than you think. So many Christian women underestimate themselves, shrink back in fear, struggle with self-doubt, and convince themselves they aren’t ready, disciplined enough, confident enough, or “the type of woman” who can actually do the thing.

But what if the problem isn’t your ability? What if it’s your belief?

We’ll dive into overco...


35. Don't Quit: 3 Steps to Building a Workout Habit That Actually Sticks
05/15/2026

Daughters of the King don't quit — but let's be honest, staying consistent with working out? That's a whole different battle.

If you've started and stopped more workout routines than you can count, this episode is for you. We're not talking about willpower or hustle culture. We're talking about building a sustainable habit that honors the body God gave you — without the guilt, the burnout, or the all-or-nothing mindset.

In this episode, you'll learn:

Make it fun — how to find movement that doesn't feel like punishmentMake it easy — removing the friction so showing up becomes second n...


34. Why I Rebranded My Podcast | Christian Identity, Purpose & Motivation for Women
05/08/2026

In today’s episode of Daughters of the King, I’m sharing the heart behind my podcast rebrand and why I felt called to create a space focused on Christian identity, biblical purpose, discipline, and faith-based motivation for women.

For a long time, so many women — especially Christian women, moms, wives, and women in a season of growth — have struggled with inconsistency, lack of confidence, comparison, burnout, and feeling disconnected from who God created them to be. This rebrand is about helping women stop living distracted and defeated and start becoming disciplined, purpose-filled daughters of the King.

If...


33. TOUGH LOVE TUESDAY: You're Not Actually Afraid of Success
05/05/2026

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If you've been writing the same goals down for years and still haven't moved — this episode is for you. On this Tough Love Tuesday, we're talking about the real reason most women stay stuck: it's not fear of success. It's fear of letting go of the distractions, habits, and thought patterns that feel comfortable but are keeping you in the same cycle.

Victoria shares how investing in a coach two years ago — even when it was scary — became the turning point that multiplied her podcast growth and her impact. Because when you stop feeding your d...


32. How Do I Give My Fear Over to God as a Single Mom? 3 Things You Can Practice Today
05/01/2026

Are you a single mom living in fear? Fear of hard conversations, fear of letting go, fear of the future — it can feel consuming. In this episode of Speak Life for Single Moms, we're talking about what the Bible says about fear and how to practically give it over to God.

You'll learn three things you can start practicing today:

How to name your fear in prayerWhy at some point you have to just do the thing (and stop pray-crastinating)How to hold onto hope even when you see zero results

Whether you're co-parenting, healing fr...


31. TOUGH LOVE TUESDAY: Why You Keep Quitting (And How to Finally Build Habits That Stick as a Single Mom)
04/28/2026

You bought the planner. You set the goals. You told yourself this time would be different. And then life happened — and you quit again.

If that cycle sounds familiar, this episode is for you.

In this episode, I'm taking you behind the scenes of my own journey — from a single mom who dreaded the bedtime routine and had no idea how she was going to figure it all out, to a woman who built a podcast and a coaching business while making progress every single day. Not perfectly. But consistently.

I'm sharing the thre...


30. You Care Too Much About What Other People Think | Christian Mom Mindset, Discipline & Growth
04/24/2026

You’re worried about what your coworkers think. Your parents. That random person online.

But here’s the truth: none of them are responsible for your life.

They don’t pay your bills. They don’t raise your kids. They don’t answer to God for your choices—you do.

So why are you letting their opinions keep you stuck?

In this episode, we’re getting honest about:

The fear of being judged for changing your habitsSaying no when everyone else is saying yesChoosing growth—even when it makes you look “different”...


29. TOUGH LOVE TUESDAY - Break Bad Habits (Binge Eating, Doom Scrolling & Overspending)
04/21/2026

If you feel stuck in cycles of binge eating, doom scrolling, impulsive spending, or just lacking self-control—this episode is your wake-up call.

In this first Tough Love Tuesday, we’re getting real about why you keep ending up in the same place… and how to finally break the patterns.

Here’s the truth: It’s not that you don’t have discipline. It’s that your “why” isn’t strong enough yet.

In this episode, I’m introducing you to a powerful mindset shift called the anti-vision—getting crystal clear on the life you don’t want so y...


28. Why You Feel Stuck Waiting on God (And the Obedience You're Avoiding)
04/17/2026

Do you ever say you’re “waiting on God”… but deep down you know you’re avoiding obedience?

In this episode, we’re getting honest about what’s really happening in those waiting seasons. If you’ve been stuck in cycles of scrolling, emotional eating, numbing out, or just trying to “get through the day” while feeling spiritually drained—this is your wake-up call.

Because here’s the truth: sometimes what feels like waiting on God is actually disobedience.

I’m sharing a personal story from my single mom season and walking you through the what, why, and...


27. The Lies You Believe About Yourself (And How Identity in Christ Sets You Free)
04/14/2026

Do you keep telling yourself… “I’m just not a disciplined person”?

Do you write out a to-do list, fall short, and then beat yourself up by the end of the day?

If you feel stuck in a cycle of inconsistency, guilt, and frustration—this episode is going to hit different.

Because the problem isn’t your discipline.

It’s the lie you’ve been believing about who you are.

In today’s episode, we’re having a real, big-sister conversation about:

The hidden lies shaping your behaviorWhy you keep struggling...


26. 3 Lies Keeping Single Moms Stuck Without a Routine (And What Actually Works)
04/10/2026

If you’ve ever thought…

“I just need to be more disciplined”

“I can’t stick to a routine”

“I don’t have time for this”

This episode is going to shift everything.

As a single mom, creating a routine can feel overwhelming, unrealistic, or honestly… impossible. But the truth is, it’s not that you’re failing—it’s that you’ve been believing the wrong things.

In today’s episode, we’re breaking down 3 major lies about routines that are keeping single moms stuck, scattered, and constantly starting over.

...


25. Feeling Stuck? This Letter to My Past Self Will Help You Finally Move Forward (Faith-Based)
04/07/2026

Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, and tired of doing life your way—only to end up in the same cycle?

In this powerful and vulnerable episode, I read a letter to my past self—the version of me who was setting goals but had no clear direction, craving change but feeling completely stuck, and ready to surrender control

and finally do things God’s way.

If you’ve ever:

Set goals but didn’t know where to startFelt scattered, inconsistent, or unmotivatedWanted real, lasting change—not just temporary motivationDesired a faith-based routine that actuall...


24. Tired of feeling scatterbrained, overwhelmed, and constantly behind as a single mom? Start here
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04/03/2026

Are you tired of feeling scatterbrained, overwhelmed, and constantly behind as a busy (and exhausted) mom?

In this episode, we’re talking about how to go from chaos to clarity with simple, practical steps that actually fit your real life. If you’ve been craving structure, peace, and a routine that works for you—not against you—this is your starting point.

You’ll learn 3 powerful shifts to help you get unstuck and take control of your time:

✨ Why the best time to start is right now (even if you don’t feel ready) ✨ How g...


23: Christian Single Mom + Dating | How to Prepare for a Godly Relationship While You Wait
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03/27/2026

Are you a single mom wondering if God has someone for you — or if you’ll be waiting forever?

In this episode of Speak Life for Single Moms, host Victoria shares the four spiritual habits that transformed her from the inside out during her six years as a single mom — and ultimately prepared her for the marriage she prayed for.

This isn’t a checklist. This is a real, vulnerable conversation about what it actually looks like to pursue God while navigating single mom dating, loneliness, and the deep desire for a godly relationship.

In thi...


22. You’re Not Overwhelmed—You’re Just Unclear | How to Beat Decision Fatigue as a Busy Mom
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03/20/2026

Do you ever feel busy all day… but still end the night feeling behind?

Like you’re constantly switching between tasks— dinner, laundry, kids, your phone— and somehow nothing actually feels finished?

You’re not alone. And more importantly… you’re not overwhelmed because you have too much to do.

You’re overwhelmed because you haven’t decided what actually matters.

In today’s episode, I’m breaking down decision fatigue—what it really is, what it looks like in your daily life, and why it’s keeping you stuck in a cycle of stress and inco...


21. Why Single Moms Struggle to Stick to Routines (Christian Time Management for Moms)
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03/13/2026

Many single moms struggle to create routines that actually stick. You start with good intentions, but life gets busy, the routine falls apart, and it can feel like you're constantly starting over.

In this episode, we talk about the real reasons routines feel so hard to maintain as a single mom. From the fear that change will take too long, to the fear of failure, to the guilt many moms feel about taking time for themselves — these struggles are incredibly common.

1:10 You might worry that it will take too long to see results.

3:46 Yo...


20. I Thought Being a Single Mom Ruined My Chances of Marriage… God Proved Me Wrong
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03/06/2026

Can being a single mom actually prepare you for a healthy, God-honoring marriage?

In this episode, I share my personal testimony of how God used my years as a single mother to shape my heart, heal past wounds, and prepare me to become a wife. If you’ve ever believed the lies that single moms are “broken,” “less valuable,” or “too much baggage,” this conversation will challenge those beliefs with biblical truth and encouragement.

The world often tells single mothers that their chances of love, marriage, and a stable future are limited. But God’s plan is bigger t...


19. The One Nighttime Habit That Fixes Chaotic Mornings for Single Moms
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03/01/2026

Are your mornings chaotic as a working single mom? Do you wake up already overwhelmed, rushing your kids out the door, snapping when you promised yourself you wouldn’t, and still ending up late to school drop-off or work?

In today’s episode, we talk about the one habit that can completely transform your mornings. It’s not a complicated 15-step morning routine. It’s your bedtime.

If you’re a Christian single mom feeling burned out, emotionally exhausted, and constantly behind, this episode will help you reset your evenings so you can wake up calm, prep...


18. God Called Me to Serve Single Moms: Faith, Unplanned Pregnancy & Choosing Life
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02/20/2026

God Called Me to Serve Single Moms: Faith, Unplanned Pregnancy & Choosing Life

In this episode, I share why God has repeatedly called me to serve Christian single moms and women facing unplanned pregnancy. Through two powerful college stories, we talk about choosing life, trusting God in hard seasons, and refusing to believe your life is over.

If you’re a Christian single mom navigating divorce, abandonment, or unexpected motherhood, this conversation is for you. I know how isolating single motherhood can feel. I know the fear that comes with an unplanned pr...


17. Christian Single Mom Burnout: Why You’re Mentally and Emotionally Exhausted
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02/17/2026

In this episode, I share my personal story of raising my daughter while finishing college and navigating healing, stress, and the overwhelming mental load that so many single moms carry. I open up about what it felt like to juggle responsibilities, faith, exhaustion, and emotional wounds—and how prayer became the one steady anchor in every chaotic season.

I break down why so many Christian single moms feel mentally and emotionally exhausted, including doing too much without clarity, overcommitting in busy seasons, and constantly consuming information through social media. I explain how comparison, screen time, and decision ov...