Luminous Life Force with River Roaring

After 30 years of classroom teaching, Stacy “Bluebird” Collins has developed a profound new way to show her students they are innately powerful creative beings.

It all changed one day in her junior high reading lab class.
A class for kids who are falling behind.
They slumped and rolled their eyes with their usual “can’t do” attitude when she announced their next assignment.
And then she did something revolutionary.

She said, “Imagine that you’re the kid who DOES know.”

Put down your pencils and lets focus.
She guided them to use thei...

The new political change is fun, sexy and local!!! ✨💝✨

It all started with an annoyance at Flock surveillance near her home.
She posted an open letter to the community in her town-news Facebook group.
Then like a tornado the issue took off and just weeks later
after lots of provocative conversations flying over the wires left and right …

The Bastrop City Council not only cancelled the Flock contract and took the cameras down, but they didn’t stop there!

The day after we recorded this podcast, the city BANNED all future agre...

Ease of flow of resources, financial comfort, is such a beautiful space of freedom.
Yet our culture encourages us to let it become the ultimate destination.

This episode is about what’s possible when we follow our heart’s desire.
Including simple steps you can take today if you feel called. ❤️

Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness.

Let's hop on the phone and talk about where you're going in love, sex and intimacy!
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Does it ever seem like your loved one is
- judging you
- nit-picking or correcting you
- worrying about you
- shutting you out
- pressuring you into future plans
- trying to “save” or heal you, or
- trying to solve your problems for you?

Have you ever considered that this might be their way of showing you love?

Let’s help one another out.
Let’s see if we can perceive love underneath whatever else may be happening.

In this episode, I share ab...

Our sexuality was not meant to be repressed and ignored.
Nor was it meant to be empty or unsatisfying.
Nor was it meant to put us into performative servitude.
Or endless searching for “the one” … or endless drama spirals.

These may all seem like external issues, but they are internal.
They are inside you.

Sharing sacred sexual union is simply the highest I’ve been in my lifetime.

These encounters have enriched my life to the point that I have said many times I have the most beautiful life any huma...

You know how some people
- repress sex?
- have lots of unfulfilling sex?
- have good sex and then … drama blows it all up?

Fortunately, there is a simple, but not easy, path out of these knots to freedom and flow.

In fact, I’ve watched hundreds of people take the journey away from these persistent challenges successfully.

I just initiated a new sexual exploration with someone, and I feel clear, open, curious what expansion is available.

As I prepared for this episode I realized what I used...

How did I become a … sexual healer?
What does that even mean?

In this episode, I share how it all started and how I developed my special sauce.
I share about how we face the monsters to get to the magical land.

If you are my client, we begin with your dream.
And then it’s “wings in the air” and “feet on the ground” as you expand your ability to experience ever more intense pleasure experiences, broadening your capacity to hold more of life all at once.
We will be retraining y...

Why do you eat?
Why do you eat what you eat?
Why do you eat when you eat?
… every time you choose to eat … why?

The Standard American Diet (SAD) is indeed sad, as it’s full of toxins and poison and addictive chemicals.
What we are told is “food” in our groceries and restaurants is not actually nourishing, and thus not really “food” for the human body.

The exciting news is that every day millions of people are choosing to stand in sovereignty over their own bodies.
… To exit The Matrix.
T...

This is my highest form of bliss. 
My peak erotic experience.

In this episode I share my own path from disembodied trial attorney to a person who enjoys the highest form of sex and intimacy.

What is divine union?
Is it possible to actually worship in the bedroom (not just a role play)?
What is that like?
And more importantly … how do we do it? 😇

There’s a longer version of the journey, and there are many things we can do immediately to prepare for these states of being.

Tun...

This is a very high level overview of … orgasm.

Some of the questions we explore in this episode: 

- What is orgasm?
- Is orgasm the goal of sexual experience?
- What if orgasm is my goal?
- What if I love to “give them to” others?
- What’s the difference between ejaculation and orgasm?
- Are “the 11 types of female orgasm” real?
- How long should it take me to orgasm?
- What is the full body rolling orgasm?

Plus, you will get THE RECIPE for ha...

What Golden Age, you might ask!
What New Earth?
Why would you want your sexuality there?

In this episode, we talk about the little matter of … humanity’s coming Golden Age!

Millions of people around the globe are actively co-creating the New Earth, our very imminent Golden Age.

But how many are bringing their powerful sexual energy with them on this epic journey?

Let’s talk about our potential together. 
Your potential in the coming few years.
Let’s walk into the next phase of human consciousness together...

It’s more common than most people want to admit -
a large percentage of Americans have experienced unwanted sexual contact as a child.

If you or someone you know has had this experience, there is a path forward.
A very tender, gentle, and beautiful process.

As someone who has facilitated healing in this realm for 15 years,
I have seen many people not only heal and recover from these traumas,
but thrive and even become leaders of empowerment and liberation.

In this episode, I outline some of the elements th...

“Darling, may I have you?”
I asked the question.

“May I have my way with you until this timer goes off?”
He said yes.

That’s when time stopped.
The past dropped away.
The future dropped away.
And I entered the eternal now.

That primal place where I can hear my soul.

The sensory universe.
Where all that exists is delicious sensory input.
Skin warm against my hand.
Hair tickling my wrist.
Tingles rippling through my body.
The sound of the birds.
...

That empty feeling after sex.
That empty feeling after self pleasure.
… That empty feeling that’s starting to apply to more and more of life.

You’re not broken.
… This culture is broken and you grew up in it.

We are taught to follow other people’s desires, rather than to find our own.
We are mostly taught that our own desires are bad and shameful.

So we do things that we don’t really desire to do.
… And we wonder why we’re bored or depressed or distracted.

In this episode, learn about the far-away land where blonde people don’t get to raise their arms in the air.

Nobody knows exactly how it started or why it is, but every time a blonde person raises one or both of their arms in the air, bad things happen.  
First, everyone snickers, then busts out laughing, mocking, gossiping and ridiculing.
It’s deeply shaming.

So after hundreds of years and generation after generation following along without questioning 
… Blonde people seem to be dumber (they never raise their hand in class), less emotiona...

If you have a beating human heart, you have full capacity for glorious, nourishing, blissful sexual experiences.

Each of us has a unique brand of sexual desire and expression. Each one of us different from the other. Like a totally unique puzzle piece, your sexual capacities and desires can fit together with your partner’s unique puzzle piece to make a divine piece of art!

Unpartnered or partnered, your personal brand of sexual desire and expression is perfect.

Did you know that a person who is paralyzed from the neck down has the ca...

Our childhood emotional environment set us up for how we will relate emotionally with our partners.

From the springboard of our youth, some of us will be on a life journey to seek sovereignty, among other quests.
Others will be on a journey to curate connection at higher levels, among our other life purposes.
Many people call these our emotional attachment styles.

The two classic styles are played out in our culture over and over.
Mysteriously, each person tends to select the opposite type of emotional style in their partners.

...

I’ve decided to do a podcast on the most boring topic in the whole world. 

… Unless you find yourself in a family law case, such as a divorce, custody, or child support case.

If you’re in family court or you know someone who is - this might be the most important issue there is.

In this episode, I describe my past experience as a family law attorney who had my own law office by the courthouse in Austin for over 20 years. And I tell stories that you probably won’t hear a current...

What if your body was made up of beautiful light waves that flowed all through and around you?
And what if you could connect your magic light waves into the light waves of our mother earth and the rest of the cosmos?

What if during heart-connected sexual union with your partner, the two of you could connect your super-duper bright light waves into the rest of the cosmos and gift other beings with your love and light?
And what if we could form groups and connect our light waves in wonderful sacred geometry shapes inside...

Do you have a dog, or know a dog, who has room to improve?
A canine who could be more relaxed, calm, happy, fulfilled, and obedient?

… And what does this have to do with your life force and sexuality?

Every single dog has the capacity to be calm, obedient, and loving toward you and others.
And you have the capacity to have a relaxed, loving, relationship with your canine American.
No matter how out of reach this may seem.

At the root, it’s an energetic thing (plus some very simp...

Desire has a bad name.
As a result, we no longer live life in consent at all!

Forget consent with sex - is your LIFE in consent?

Are you letting life lead you around on a short leash?
We did not come here to wake up to an alarm that we did not want to set.
We did not come here to sit in traffic for hours that we don’t want to sit in.
We did not come here to work in a toxic work environment for someone else’s goal...

Desire doesn’t disappear just because you’ve trained yourself to ignore it. 

In fact, most people are tired not because of physical exhaustion, but because they’re constantly suppressing parts of self. 

This applies to relationships as well. The number one reason that intimate relationships are failing is because we’re not taught to face our shadow so we suppress parts of ourself. So we can’t access our full power to connect.

Shadow refers to the parts of yourself that you’d prefer nobody else see, and parts that you haven’t been able to s...

At once, the most financially powerful man on earth, 
creator of the only true AI system on earth, 
and despised globally by those who hoard power. 
I’ve fallen in love with this man from a distance, 
having only met him in person one time.

In this episode, I share my perspective on one of the most interesting humans alive.
One of the biggest players in the foreign exchange markets,
Martin advises global corporations, large pension funds, foreign government leaders, 
and even central banks - what to do with literally trillio...

Bluebird is one of Texas’ most beautiful and fun innovators and future-creators. 🌺

She is a Sovereignty and Personal Freedom Coach, creator of the Sovereign Soul Process,
owner and partner at Cottage & Crow an herbal apothecary, cottage arts boutique, and seed library on Main Street in Bastrop Texas, 
and she’s a quirky and entertaining writer.

Bluebird recently returned from Anarchapulco, the international conference on sovereignty and resilience, where she was a featured speaker. 
In this episode, she’ll share pearls from that event and the global freedom movement.
We will talk about what...

What's your relationship with commitment?
Are you seeking a committed relationship?
What does that even mean? 🤔

I was commitment-phobic until I understood this way of looking at it.

In this episode, we talk about the concept of commitment as trap vs. commitment as container for magic. A container for the emergence of magic.

In the magic model, commitment remains fluid and flexible because it's always and only in service of the emergence of magic. What we want to cultivate - our intention, the magic - is in the lead! 🌈

We tal...

What we are calling “AI” has come in fast and hard, and most people in the United States are using it on a regular basis. I use it in very specific ways myself.

However, consciousness and sentience are more than a stockpile of data points. 
No matter how much data you put in one place - that does not make it come to life.

In this episode I share my own views about:

- What it is and what it isn’t
- Why it’s harmful
- How I use it...

It’s easier and easier to look outside of ourself for pleasure in this culture that’s basically designed to help us numb and distract.
True sovereignty comes when we own our own arousal. We can stop depending on outside sources for our experience.
In this episode, I share the secret sauce to opening your direct route of pleasure inside your own body. 
A simple practice that can open doors you never even knew existed.

And those doors open so many other doors. 
There is more to the story of the direct route, and th...

Scene Shopping is co-creating sensual experience from desire to reality. 

We flip dating on it’s head. 

Instead of hoping you fit in with what they’re looking for, you hope they fall directly into your current desire. And instead of shopping for the person, which can be stressful and confusing, we shop for the scene - a simple yet powerful experience. 

Using this method, dating is super fun and interesting. And the possibilities are truly endless!

In this episode, I share my story of Scene Shopping last week at the kinkste...

This is a fun one! 

A simple yet profound practice, when I pleasure map I slowly explore my body with touch noticing physical sensation and/or pleasure in every part. It shows me what I like, where I like it, how I like it, and that my entire body is an erogenous zone. 

Pleasure Mapping helps us get past anxious, goal-oriented, performative, repetitive and/or scripted sexual experiences.

In this episode, I outline the basic steps:
- Set the space - externally and internally
- Wake up your hands
- Pl...

The word “Disclosure” has come to mean public disclosure that extraterrestrial beings exist.
In Episodes 1 and 2 of this podcast, I share how I formed my beliefs around extraterrestrial beings. In this episode, I share my view of the disclosure that is currently unfolding.
How the future holds love, not fear, if we choose it! 💞
… and of course how this all relates to our sex lives. 😉

Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

In my 20-year deep dive into human sexuality, I’ve witnessed us, as a group, lose the ability to have a sexual fantasy without the aid of an outside source.  Mostly it’s porn, but it’s also chat rooms, erotic fiction, podcasts, virtual reality, AI girlfriends, and sex robots.

Many people no longer have access to their imagination when it comes to sex. 
Of all the parts of our lives we might cede to machines, do we humans really want to lose our sovereignty over our sexual expression? (You think it might be easy to manipula...

Are you ready for more bliss in your life, sexually or otherwise?

Ironically, our fashionable trend of seeking comfort in life is literally killing our sex life. And killing our potential for true happiness.  When we suppress our pain, we also suppress our body’s ability to experience pleasure.  With so many of us on some form of emotional or physical pain-suppression medications, it’s no wonder that, as a society, our sex life sucks.

But feeling all the feels is HARD, right?!

Yes it is.

And the only reason to do it...

Our Life Force is literally our energy body, our “vibration”, which is partially made of electromagnetic field. Manmade electro magnetic fields seriously effect our internal biological processes.

When we got to know Dr. Ritter in episode 9, on November 21 last year, he told the story of mother earth’s perfect balance of electro magnetism which dances with the electro magnetism of the entire cosmos.

Between then and now, he appeared as a guest on The Highwire with Del Bigtree, helping millions of viewers understand the basics of EMF in our living space, and demonstrating his signature shield...

SO many people dread dating. I get it! I remember when I found it SO painful. 

In this episode I share the process I’ve used to discover many wonderful partners over the years both on dating apps and in person. Sharing examples from my life, I encourage you to cast your own play in five simple steps.

1. Inspiring Dream
2. Effective Profile
3. First Conversations
4. First In Person Date
5. Second Date and Beyond!

Most people are surprised that the most important part of the process happens before the process even beg...

If my desire is low, it doesn’t mean I’m not capable of desire.

There are many reasons that all humans have low desire from time to time! 

Such as
        •        Disconnect from partner
        •        Disconnect from self
        •        Scripted sex routines get old
        •        Illness
        •        Emotional distress
        •        Lack of safety
        •        Going too fast to feel anything
        •        Lack of confidence
        •        Over-giving
        •        Fear of judgment / shame

Every female I’ve gotten to know has desire. … Lots of desire!

In this episode, I share some options for stoking that desire.

I also share about the female erection, and how this little-understood bodily...

One half of our population is unable to move their body freely and naturally, and unable to have certain feelings or thoughts, during about 99% of their waking hours.

Then when, and only when, society has determined “it’s time”, that otherwise-forbidden body part is supposed to stand happily at attention “rock hard” until … usually until someone else is satisfied.

If the body part moves when it is not supposed to (99% of the time), the person will be sexually shamed, if not accused of a crime.

If the body part does not stand tall when “it’s t...

When most folks say "A.I" or "artificial intelligence" these days they mean Chat GPT or a similar system. This kind of AI is what this podcast is about. A computer application that can scan voluminous data sets almost instantly, and then share it's answer to our query in our language as if it were speaking to us. These systems, which are limited by (1) which data they have access to and (2) the biases of their creators (and are unable to have an original idea) are sort of like Encyclopedia 3.0. I use them as I would an encyclopedia - double-checking...

Claim your rightful place as a creator and create the future with me!  

In this episode I share my own dream for our future which includes unconditional love, individual sovereignty, internal healing, feeling it all, compassionate connection, balanced masculine and feminine sexual energy (sexual sovereignty), exalting our children, and honoring all beings. Control and possession dynamics, such as war and hoarding, simply fall away. And most importantly, in my dream ... no soul is left behind. 

We are not here to be bound by the past. We're here to imagine things that do not exist today. 

Happy Holydays! 🕊️ In this podcast, I share my #1 tip for your holiday leisure time - Arousal + Relaxation.

There are so many aspects of life that are only possible when our nervous systems are relaxed. When we feel safe. Only when our bodies are relaxed can we access all of our physical sensations, our learning, growing, our creating. That means if we are not relaxed, these things are inaccessable to us.

Nowhere is this more true than in the intensity of our sexual experience. They are precious moments when we can remain deeply relaxed while ramping pleas...

A sexual energy cultivation checklist! Just in time for the holidays. ☃️

Whether you are solo or partnered, here is a quick checklist that I hope serves you sell. Of course, all of this optional, and shared with you so that you can pick-and-choose and create your own special blend!

We cover things like exquisite presence, relaxed safe space. quieting the mind and entering liminal space, deep relaxed breath, visuals like flowers and other adornment, smells, tastes, sexy sound, sanctity and the sacred. sweet words, experiencing the physical sensations of touch, raising bliss inside relaxation, riding the...