Abrahams Wallet

Most families don’t lose the farm because of bad markets—they lose it because relationships fall apart during the transfer. But Hayden and Sheree Ballinger are building something different. On their 230-hectare dairy farm in Victoria, Australia, they’ve found a way to honor parents, preserve sibling relationships, and create a model for multi-generational living that actually brings the family closer together.

In this episode, we unpack how they structured the transfer of their family farm, why proactive stewardship matters, and what it looks like to protect both the assets and the relationships. They didn’t just inh...

Most Christians think of the church building as “the temple” or “the sanctuary”… but biblically, that’s not true. In the New Covenant, God’s presence doesn’t dwell in a building—He dwells in His people. That means you are the temple. And by extension, your household becomes the front line of worship, holiness, and spiritual leadership.

In this episode, we unpack the biblical meaning of the temple and why fathers must take seriously their role as spiritual leaders in the home. If you’ve grown tired, faced resistance, or felt like your efforts aren’t making a difference—do...

A lot of Christian dads think budgeting is only for people who are broke. But imagine standing before God—the true Owner of everything—and saying, “We made money… we just don’t really know where it went. And we don’t have a plan for what’s next.” That’s not freedom. That’s careless stewardship.

In this episode of Abraham’s Wallet, we talk about why even prosperous families must budget like serious managers of wealth, how budgeting actually protects your future, and why the habits you build now will serve your family for decades. If you’ve ever thought...

Whole life insurance is being rebranded right now as “Bank on Yourself” or “Infinite Banking”—and the pitch sounds incredibly attractive. It promises safety, guaranteed growth, and the ability to borrow from your own policy like you’re your own bank. But what most families don’t realize is that for the average Christian dad, this strategy often creates more financial drag than freedom.

In this episode, we break down the real differences between term vs whole life, why whole life gets sold so aggressively, and the few situations where it can actually be useful. But mostly, this is a warn...

The culture is aggressively sexualized right now—and if you feel overwhelmed as a dad, you’re not crazy. Media, entertainment, and even government messaging constantly push the idea that sex has no boundaries and no consequences. But the fruit of that “freedom” is everywhere: broken hearts, depression, shattered marriages, fatherless generations—and children being exposed far earlier than ever before.

In this episode, we speak directly to fathers about how to fight for your children’s sexual purity. This is a real battle, and your kids are in the crosshairs—but God designed you to be the shepherd o...

If you were at our Fall Retreat in November 2025, you know it was something special. In this episode, we’re sharing the greatest hits — the standout ideas, the most impactful moments, and the messages that set the tone for the weekend. You’ll hear highlights from the opening talk and key insights that left many men challenged, encouraged, and ready to lead their homes with greater clarity.

And this isn’t just a recap — it’s an invitation. Our next retreat is already in motion, and we want you there. If you’re a family leader committed to serving the...

Most churches love to celebrate big giving stories—but for a lot of Christian dads, that kind of generosity right now wouldn’t be godly… it would be irresponsible. If you’re drowning in debt, living paycheck to paycheck, and stressed about providing, writing a big check doesn’t fix the real problem—it just delays it.

In this episode, we rewind the conversation and break down the 4 A’s of Godly Financial Health—a simple biblical framework that helps you build margin, get disciplined, and lead your family with clarity. This is the path toward real freedom, long-te...

It feels like financial rules are changing every five minutes right now… and if you’re a dad trying to lead your family wisely, it can get confusing fast. Between new policies, Trump headlines, and talk around the “Big Beautiful Bill,” a lot of families are asking the same question: What does this actually mean for my money?

In this episode, we are answering the 4 most-asked questions. There’s a lot of bad information out there (even AI gets this stuff wrong), so we’re breaking it down in plain English to help you make smart decisions for your fam...

Most people don’t spend much time thinking about old age—at least not until it’s right in front of them. But what if the way you think about aging now shapes the kind of life you’ll actually live later? In this episode, we will address a topic that rarely gets talked about, yet deeply impacts your worldview, your leadership, and your long-term vision of the good life. 

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Most Christian men don’t realize how deeply the culture around them has shaped the way they think about money. What feels normal—how we spend, borrow, upgrade, and define success—often mirrors the world far more than it reflects the wisdom of Scripture.

In this episode, we unpack the hidden pressures behind modern money habits and explore how fathers can intentionally build a different financial culture in their homes. One that prioritizes faithfulness over appearances, wisdom over impulse, and long-term blessing over short-term comfort. If you want your family’s relationship with money to look different from the...

Did you know the Bible never talks about vacations? Our modern idea of escape and leisure isn’t really a biblical category. But that doesn’t mean travel is pointless! In fact, used well, it can become a powerful tool for fathers who want to shape the spiritual, relational, and cultural life of their family. In this episode, we talk about how dads can think differently about travel and turn trips and family adventures into opportunities to build family culture on purpose. If you're a dad who wants to lead your family intentionally, even on vacation, this episode will give...

AI isn’t coming. It’s here. And it’s already shaping your kids.

While most parents are barely aware of what tools their children are using, classrooms are changing, homework is changing, and the way young people think and create is changing. The question isn’t whether AI will be part of your family’s future — it’s whether you’ll lead your home through it intentionally or let it shape your children unchecked.

In this episode, we train fathers to think clearly about artificial intelligence: the real dangers, the subtle temptations, and the massive opportun...

In the final episode of the Abrahamic Starter Series, we step back and ask a bold question: If a man actually lived this out — what would his life look like? Not the vague, lonely retirement story our culture sells, but the good life God designed. A faithful husband. A fruitful home. Grandchildren around the table. Debt-free. Assets compounding. A legacy stretching 200 years into the future. We’ve torn down the broken pop-Christian script. We’ve reclaimed dominion, dynasty, sacrificial headship, and kingdom-minded money. Now we paint the picture of where that road leads. If you’re a dad in your 30s...

Most Christian men handle money exactly like their unbelieving neighbors. They tithe a little, save for retirement, and hope it all works out.

But what if money was never meant to fund comfort — but dominion?

In this fourth episode of the Abrahamic Starter Kit, we zoom in on the Abrahamic money mentality. This is about building wealth that serves a 200-year vision — not just coasting through a safe suburban life.

If you want practical steps to start aligning your finances with dynasty, stewardship, and long-term impact, this episode will show you where to begi...

Most Christian men aren't building their families in a way that is producing strength, legacy, or long-term faithfulness. The Bible teaches us a better way.

In the third episode of this "Abrahamic Starter Kit Series," we unveil The Abrahamic Model — a completely different operating system for marriage, child-raising, and money. In this episode, we go back to the biblical mandate and show what it looks like for a man to lead his home with sacrificial authority so that his wife thrives and his children grow up ready to carry the family torch. This isn’t about trends. It’s...

Every February, we do something that feels almost rebellious in today’s culture—we practice telling ourselves no. No extra spending. No impulse buys. No quick coffee runs or “let’s just grab takeout.” Instead, we use what’s already in the house, clean out the freezer and pantry, and slow life down just enough to notice how often spending has replaced presence.

In this episode, we talk about why this simple reset is so powerful. Saying no to consumerism builds self-control, margin, and connection. And it often leads to better conversations, more time together, and a surprising a...

This is Episode 2 of the Abrahamic Starter Kit, where we lay out what Scripture actually calls the primary mission of men: marry, multiply, and fill the earth. We return to Genesis 1 and 1 Corinthians 7 to challenge the idea that marriage and children are optional, secondary, or a distraction from “real” ministry. They aren’t. They are central to God’s design.

Whether you’re single, married, or already a dad, this episode resets the vision for family, fruitfulness, and legacy. We talk practically about how marriage must function differently when dominion—not comfort—is the goal. If you’re ready to stop...

After the sudden loss of a close friend, we felt compelled to have a conversation most fathers avoid—but shouldn’t. In this episode, we talk honestly about preparing your family for the unthinkable. Not because money can ease grief (it can’t), but because wise preparation can remove unnecessary fear, confusion, and pressure when tragedy strikes.

This isn’t about morbid planning or living in fear. It’s about faithful stewardship and providing for your family which is what every father is responsible for. Loving your family means planning for both the future you hope for and the on...

Pop Christianity has sold families a version of faith that looks good on the surface, but quietly undermines God’s design for marriage, children, and legacy.

In this episode, Steven is joined by Jeff Davenport to expose 5 big lies threatening the biblical family and to introduce The Abrahamic Starter Kit—a short, no-fluff series designed to help Christian men step off the spiritual merry-go-round and start building multi-generational faithfulness.

This conversation is especially for dads who sense there’s more to biblical leadership but haven’t had the language or framework to articulate it yet. Stick ar...

What if the “safe” job you’re clinging to is actually holding you back from the calling God wired you for?

In this episode, Steven sits down with longtime friend and father of nine, Michael Beausejour,to unpack how an ordinary corporate employee stepped out in faith, built a thriving framing business from scratch, and provided more for his family than he ever imagined.

Michael wasn’t trained in construction. He wasn’t an entrepreneur. He had a demanding day job and a growing family. But he also had a God-given itch to build, create, and multip...

“I’ve been fired from four churches in five years because weak men can’t handle my masculinity.”

Yep. That’s a real tweet - and it’s the perfect picture of what happens when men refuse to take responsibility for their own failures.

In this episode, we break down why blame-shifting is destroying the credibility of Christian men, and why building a culture of accountability is essential if you want to lead your home, church, or community with integrity.

If you want to be a man your family trusts, your church respects, and God can...

As the new year begins, this episode is a word of encouragement for Abrahamic fathers who are carrying more than most people ever see.

For the dads who shoulder responsibility quietly. For the husbands who keep showing up. For the men who serve God and their families faithfully—even when no one applauds.

It’s easy to lose sight of why we’re doing all of this.

In this special New Year’s address, Steven calls fathers back to their divine assignment: to love their wives as Christ loved the Church, to die daily fo...

In this special episode, Steven sits down with one of his very first disciples from 30 years ago, Phil Ronsley. 

Enjoy this heartfelt conversation about long-term discipleship, building deep relationships with children, forming a strong family identity, and why your local community matters now more than ever. Tune in to be encouraged and challenged by what really matters in life. About Abraham’s Wallet: Abraham’s Wallet exists to inspire and equip Biblical family leaders. Please partner with us in inspiring and equipping multi-gen families at https://abrahamswallet.com/support AW website Apple Podcasts Spotify YouTube Facebook LinkedIn Instag...

Tithing means we write a check to the church for 10% of our income, right?? Is this what the Bible actually says to is tithing is something bigger - something more intentional? 

On today’s podcast we are going to turn off the autopilot on our bank accounts and embrace the invitation to partner with God in ruling our resources.  Outpost Advisor - Schedule a call: https://www.outpostadvisors.net/schedule-a-call  About Abraham’s Wallet: Abraham’s Wallet exists to inspire and equip Biblical family leaders. Please partner with us in inspiring and equipping multi-gen families at https://abrahamswal...

Every year, families slide into the same five Christmas traps.  And every year, those traps lead to the same results: debt, stress, disappointment, and a Christmas that looks nothing like the King we’re celebrating. In this episode, we break down the five biggest traps Christian families fall into and what to do instead. You'll learn how to lead your home with clarity, set a Christ-centered tone for the season, avoid financial self-sabotage, and give in a way that actually honors Jesus.

If you're tired of chaotic, expensive, spiritually thin Christmases, this is your reset.

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Our last podcast on men’s fashion ruffled quite a few feathers. So in this episode, we’re addressing your questions — and reinforcing what we really believe. 

This isn’t about fashion for fashion’s sake. It’s about looking like the man you actually want to be — one your wife respects, your kids admire, and your community takes seriously.

Let’s ditch the graphic tees and dress like a man on mission. Links in this Episode: Original Fashion Episode Bylt.com  Amazon Socks Darn Tough Socks Amazon Undershirts Haines Undershirts...

Is Trump’s new proposed 50-year mortgage just savvy economics… or a dangerous move that will cripple American families for generations?

In this episode, Steven and Mark break down Trump’s most talked-about financial ideas — from extended mortgages to 15-year car loans — and evaluate them through a biblical lens of stewardship, debt, and generational impact.

But we don’t stop at economics.

We also examine Trump’s own words about faith, repentance, and salvation to ask an honest question: What does he actually believe about God? Not what pundits say. Not what the media spins. W...

Not sure how to lead your family spiritually this Thanksgiving?

You’re not alone.

In this episode, Steven shares his personal Thanksgiving liturgy — the Scriptures he reads, the questions he asks, and the traditions that help his family pause and thank God for His goodness this year.

If you’ve ever felt the weight of “doing something meaningful” around the Thanksgiving table but didn’t know where to begin, this episode will give you a simple, powerful framework to lead your family with purpose — and gratitude.

Let’s make this Thanksgiving more than just t...

The teen years often get a bad reputation. Our culture tells us to expect moodiness, distance, constant arguments, and irresponsible kids. 

But what if it doesn’t have to be that way? What if the teen years could actually be some of the sweetest, most rewarding times you share with your children?

In this episode, we sit down with our good friend David Elrod as he shares the intentional steps he took to make the teen years a joy, - not a battle - and how you can do the same.

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Most families just drift from one year to the next, hoping things get better financially. But kingdom-centered families don’t just drift along, hoping for the best. They make intentional data-driven decisions. 

In this episode, we walk through the annual family financial review: how to lead your home through the numbers, the goals, the giving, and the vision.

This is vital because this isn’t just about money—it’s about stewardship. Your family is a part of God’s kingdom. Lead it like one.

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What if the greatest threat to your family is been passed down through your own family line?

From fear and greed to divorce, addiction, and passivity—generational patterns don’t just disappear on their own. God has called fathers to grab the wheel of their family story, break the chains of the past, and build a godly culture that will outlast them. This is your playbook to identify what’s lurking in your family line, repent, and redirect your legacy toward the Kingdom.

The Kingdom starts at home. Will you take responsibility for your part in you...

Has the world influenced the Church so deeply that we’ve started ignoring God’s clear command to be fruitful and multiply? Have we traded biblical obedience for cultural excuses?

In today’s episode, we’re busting the myth of overpopulation, unpacking what Scripture really says about children, and dismantling the excuses that keep us from raising the next generation of disciple-makers.

It’s time to reject fear, embrace fruitfulness, and build families that shake the gates of hell.

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As Christians, we know we’re called to help the poor, but the real question is how. 

In this episode of Abraham’s Wallet, we sit down with Justin Wolfenburg to unpack what the Bible really says about charity. Who are we supposed to help? How should we help them? And how does true, biblical giving restore dignity and responsibility instead of destroying it?

Tune in for a challenging conversation that will flip your view of charity upside down and give you a clearer vision for Kingdom-centered generosity.

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Today’s men are showing up everywhere in the same t-shirts and jeans. It’s more than a fashion problem; it’s a leadership problem. When people see you walk into a room, do you command respect? 

In this episode of Abraham’s Wallet, we’re challenging guys to ditch the lazy look and start dressing like leaders. Discover why your style matters, how it affects the respect you earn, and simple ways to elevate your wardrobe without breaking the bank. Tune in and learn how to step up your look and your leadership.

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Imagine a world where your teenagers actually love reading Scripture—and then lean in to discuss it with depth and excitement. Sounds impossible? It’s not. In this episode, we introduce the idea of starting a Young Adult Midrash—a powerful, biblical way to engage your teens in reading, wrestling with, and applying God’s Word.

What is a midrash? How do you start one? And what do you really need to make it work? That’s exactly what we’re unpacking today. Tune in and discover how you can disciple the next generation in a way that’s engag...

Charlie Kirk lived boldly for Christ, using every platform he had to proclaim the Gospel. In the wake of his tragic passing, many are asking how God can use such a loss for our good and His glory. In this podcast episode, we’ll watch five powerful clips from Charlie’s life and draw out five lessons every man of God should embrace—truths about courage, conviction, and living on mission for Jesus. Links in this Episode BONUS: Political conservatism is NOT the solution to our nation’s problems. We’re in a spiritual battle that must be engaged with SPIRI...

Most churches skip right over Sukkot—but the Bible doesn’t. 

In this episode of Abraham’s Wallet, we’re unpacking why Christians today should care about the Feast of Tabernacles, what Scripture actually says about how it’s to be celebrated, and how you can practically live it out with your family.

If you’ve ever wondered whether these biblical feasts still matter—or how they connect to Jesus and your household today—this episode will give you clarity, conviction, and practical steps to start walking it out.

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