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How to Make Your Home Your Favorite Place to Be

What makes a house feel like home? It's not the decorations, the size of your house, or how perfectly everything is put together. It's the atmosphere you create and the way your family feels when they're there.

In this episode of Home and Marriage, Lennon and Christal share four practical ways to make your home a place your family loves to be: create an atmosphere you enjoy, prioritize joy and laughter, establish routines that bring order to everyday life, and pursue peace while...

Pornography can quietly damage a marriage, erode trust, and create deep emotional wounds. But even when pornography has hurt your relationship, there is hope for healing and restoration.

In this episode of Home and Marriage with Lennon and Christal, we discuss how pornography affects Christian marriages and why it is important to address both the behavior and the heart behind it. We share practical steps toward recovery, including accountability, setting healthy boundaries, rebuilding trust, and strengthening your relationship with God.

If pornography has affected your marriage, you are not alone, and your relationship does not...

Family can be beautiful, messy, complicated, and sometimes downright hard. In this episode, we talk honestly about what it takes to build a healthy family in the middle of real-life challenges.

Lennon and Christal share five practical, biblical principles for navigating family relationships: why every family faces spiritual opposition, why we need to let go of the pressure to have a perfect family, why parents have influence but not control, how your marriage sets the tone for your home, and why forgiveness and reconciliation are essential for families that go the distance.

Whether you're raising...

20 Things We’ve Learned in 20 Years of Marriage

Twenty years of marriage has taught us a lot—and some of those lessons we definitely didn’t see coming!

In this special anniversary episode, we’re celebrating 20 years of marriage by sharing 20 things we’ve learned along the way. Some are funny (like why we’re perfectly happy with our own sides of the bed!), while others are lessons we’ve learned through hard seasons, parenting, ministry, conflict, change, and simply growing older together.

We talk about why arguments aren’t the end of the...

Is Your Phone Hurting Your Marriage?

Your phone is always within reach—but is it coming between you and your spouse?

In this episode of the Home and Marriage podcast, we’re talking about a modern marriage problem that almost all of us have experienced: phubbing—when your phone gets more of your attention than the person sitting right in front of you.

We’ll talk honestly about how scrolling, texting, social media, work, and simply using our phones to “check out” can slowly replace meaningful conversations and connection with our spo...

Marriage is worth fighting for—but there’s a difference between fighting with your spouse and fighting for your marriage.

In this episode of Home and Marriage, Lennon and Christal explore what it means to pursue the marriage God designed, even when life gets difficult, disagreements pile up, and the love you once felt seems harder to find. A strong marriage doesn’t happen by accident. It requires faithfulness, intentionality, and a willingness to choose each other again and again.

Drawing from Scripture and real-life marriage experiences, this episode explores three essential things every couple needs...

Are you tired of being tired? In a culture that often treats busyness like a badge of honor, rest can feel unproductive, selfish, or even impossible. But what if rest isn't a reward you earn after getting everything done—it’s a rhythm God designed us to live by?

In this episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, we talk honestly about why so many of us struggle to rest and how constant busyness, being endlessly available, and even our phones can keep us from truly being refreshed. We’ll share three signs that you may be...

Husband vs. Wife: 10 Questions Every Couple Should Ask

How well do you really know your spouse? In this fun and surprisingly vulnerable episode, Christal and Lennon put their 20-year marriage to the test with 10 Husband vs. Wife questions—without letting each other see their answers first!

From the little things that drive each other crazy to what makes them feel most loved, they discover where they see things the same way… and where they definitely don’t! They talk about stress, conflict, date nights, personal growth, traveling together, giving each other space...

What does it really mean that “two are better than one”?

In this episode, we dive into Ecclesiastes 4:9–12 and explore the incredible gift of having a spouse beside you through the hard seasons of life. Marriage doesn't mean we will never struggle—it means we don't have to struggle alone.

We talk about how couples can work together, lift one another up when one of them falls, and find strength simply through the steady presence of their spouse. Sometimes loving your spouse well means offering encouragement and perspective. Other times, it simply means sitting...

What do you do when life gets hard—and the very thing you need most is your spouse, but the pressure starts pulling you apart?

In this episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, we answer our very first fan-mail question about mental health, medication side effects, low libido, and how couples can stay connected sexually when one spouse has little or no desire. We talk honestly about pursuing each other with patience, removing pressure, finding ways to reconnect, and remembering that intimacy is about more than just sex.

Then we zoom out and talk ab...

As adults, friendship can easily get pushed to the bottom of the priority list. Work, marriage, parenting, church, and all the demands of everyday life can leave little time or energy for the people who encourage us, challenge us, and walk through life alongside us.

But God designed us for friendship—and the right friendships can make the hard things in life feel a little more manageable.

In this episode, we talk about why friendship matters, what the Bible teaches us about being a good friend, and why even a strong marriage isn't meant to me...

As families prepare for a new school year, the transition can bring a mix of excitement, stress, anticipation, and even a little anxiety. Whether you’re sending a child to kindergarten, navigating middle school, homeschooling, or dropping a student off at college, every new season comes with unique challenges and opportunities.

In this episode, we share practical tips for simplifying your family’s routines during those busy first weeks of school, helping kids adjust to new schedules, and managing the emotions that often come with fresh beginnings. We also discuss the importance of praying for your children, buil...

Marriage and intimacy are rarely as effortless as they seemed in the beginning, but that doesn’t mean the connection has to fade. 

In this encouraging episode, Lennon and Christal share how couples can stay close, nurture romance, and build a thriving intimate relationship through every season of marriage. With practical wisdom, honest conversation, and faith-filled encouragement, they remind listeners that a strong marriage is built through intentional connection, open communication, mutual care, and a commitment to choosing each other again and again. 

No matter what challenges arise, intimacy can grow deeper when couples invest in t...

Relationships are one of the most important areas of our lives.

They come with great joy and sometimes great pain.

Join us today as we hear from Lennon about what the book of Proverbs says about the relationships in our lives. What does God say about the relationships in our lives. We hope this episode encourages you to value and keep working on the relationships God has given you!

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As kids grow into teenagers, many parents experience a surprising shift: the child who once shared every detail of their day suddenly becomes quieter, more independent, and harder to read. So how do you keep the connection strong when conversations don't come as easily?

In this episode, we share practical and encouraging ways to keep your teens talking while building a relationship that lasts into adulthood. Drawing from our own parenting journey and wisdom from experts like Dr. Ken Wilgus, we discuss how to create meaningful conversations without forcing them.

You'll learn why encouragement matters...

You're Not A Bad Parent if...

In this episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, we discuss various parenting pressures and share the reassuring message that 'you're not a bad parent if...We explore the anxiety around not buying kids the latest gadgets, not involving them in every activity, and how making the honor roll does not define their children's future. 

Additionally, we delve into the complexities of dealing with children's sins and suffering, emphasizing the importance of grace, forgiveness, and God’s direction. We highlight the pitfalls of comparing one’s family life to In...

You are in for a treat with a message that Lennon preached at Hill City in Cedar Hill, TX about Marriage and conflict. We hope you will be ministered to and your marriage will be blessed. 

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Every couple has them—the arguments that seem to show up again and again. Whether it's money, parenting, intimacy, in-laws, or feeling overlooked, recurring conflicts can leave you wondering if you'll ever get past them.

In this episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, Lennon and Christal discuss why couples often find themselves having the same fights throughout marriage and why that's more normal than you might think. Drawing from marriage research and nearly two decades of marriage experience, they explore some of the most common sources of recurring conflict and offer practical questions that can help co...

In this special Father's Day episode, Lennon shares honest reflections on the joys, surprises, and lessons of fatherhood. From funny parenting memories and favorite Father's Day gifts to deeper conversations about faith, marriage, and raising children with intention, this episode is packed with encouragement for dads in every season.

We discuss why conversations matter, how children are always learning from what they see at home, and the powerful role a father's words play in shaping a child's future. Lennon also shares how becoming a father changed his priorities, strengthened his faith, and taught him the importance of...

When you first get married, it's easy to focus on the challenges ahead. You know there will be disagreements, hard seasons, and unexpected struggles. But what if some of the very best parts of marriage are still waiting for you years down the road?

In this encouraging episode, we share five areas of marriage that we've personally seen grow stronger after more than 20 years together. From a deeper friendship and richer romance to greater intimacy, better communication, and a growing appreciation for one another, we're talking about the beautiful ways marriage can mature over time.

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In this episode of the Home and Marriage podcast, Lennon and Christal Noland share their experiences and lessons learned from a recent garage sale and highlight the importance of having fun with your spouse. They discuss creative date ideas, the significance of laughter and play in a relationship, and how to keep the spark alive through various stages of marriage. The Nolands also provide practical suggestions for date activities that don't require a big budget, and conclude with reflections on how their relationship has evolved over the years. They emphasize the need for couples to prioritize each other and...

In this episode, we’re talking all about family vacations—the expectations, the reality, and the memories that last long after the trip is over. From camping fights and broken air mattresses to favorite family traditions and meaningful moments with the kids, we share honest stories from our own vacations over the years.

We talk about how vacations don’t have to be perfect or expensive to matter, why realistic expectations are important for couples and families, and how some of the best memories come from the simplest moments together. Whether you’re planning a big trip, a budget...

Have you ever looked at your marriage and realized… “We’re not as close as we used to be”?

In this episode, we’re talking about the silent drift that can happen in marriage — the slow disconnection that often happens long before couples realize how far apart they’ve become. We discuss the warning signs of drifting, why even good marriages go through seasons like this, and the everyday habits that can slowly pull couples apart.

We also share personal moments from our own marriage, practical ways to reconnect emotionally and physically, and simple intentional habits that ca...

In this deeply personal episode, we share the story of how adoption unexpectedly became part of our family’s journey. What started with a book, a phone call, and a lot of prayer quickly turned into one of the most life-changing and beautiful decisions we’ve ever made.

We talk about bringing our youngest daughter home through adoption, navigating the fears and unknowns that came with the process, and learning what it truly means to trust God in parenting. We also open up about the emotional realities of adoption — the grief, the healing, the questions adopted children carry...

In this special Mother’s Day episode, we take an honest and encouraging look at the real journey of motherhood—the beautiful, the chaotic, and everything in between. From funny family memories (including a not-so-memorable Mother’s Day meal) to heartfelt reflections on raising kids through every stage, this conversation is full of relatable moments every mom will understand.

We talk about the pressures moms face today, the myth of “doing it all,” and the freedom that comes from letting go of unrealistic expectations. You’ll also hear wisdom on balancing marriage and motherhood, supporting each other as parents...

What is love—really?

In a culture where love is often defined by feelings, what happens when those feelings fade? In this episode, we take a deeper look at what love actually is and how it’s meant to function in real relationships.

Using the timeless definition found in 1 Corinthians 13, we unpack how love is less about emotion and more about action—choosing patience, kindness, forgiveness, and selflessness even on the hard days.

Through honest conversation and real-life stories from our own marriage, we talk about:

What if the family you’ve always longed for could start with you?

In this episode, we talk about how God can redeem your past and help you build a healthy, Christ-centered home—even if you didn’t grow up with one. Whether your background was full of faith or filled with dysfunction, you are not stuck repeating the same patterns.

We share personal stories, practical wisdom, and biblical encouragement on how one life surrendered to Jesus can change the trajectory of a marriage, a family, and even future generations.

If you’ve ever won...

What do you do when your spouse is the one struggling—and you have to be the strong one?

In this episode, we talk honestly about a season in our marriage where anxiety, burnout, and emotional exhaustion changed everything. What started as an exciting new chapter—moving across the country, starting a ministry, and raising young kids—quickly turned into a heavy and overwhelming season that neither of us expected.

One of us found ourselves in a deep place of discouragement and burnout… while the other had to carry more tha...

Ever wonder who’s more likely to do what in a marriage?

Today on the show we  “shake it up” by playing a “Who is more likely to” game with unseen questions across personality, parenting, work/life, and faith, noting differences between the way they think and parent. We discuss apologizing, needing reassurance, carrying others’ emotional weight, trusting God, and spiritual encouragement, and conclude that humor, romance, and date nights lighten marriage, seasons pass, and differences are strengths that help couples become one.

00:00 Welcome to the Podcast
00:24 Springtime and Chickens
01:17 Bloom Retreat Recap
03:36 Gam...

Have you ever felt like you and your spouse are living as two individuals instead of one team? 

In this Home and Marriage Podcast episode, we talk through how getting sick on a birthday getaway reminded us that marriage requires caring for each other and working together. We share why teamwork starts with a shared vision for marriage, parenting, and the atmosphere of your home, including seeking first God’s kingdom and “reverse engineering” what you want to be true at the end of your life together. We also explain how appreciating differences, asking for help, and staying...

Helping Your Kids Grow Up: Faith, Character, Responsibility, and Autonomy

On the Home and Marriage Podcast, Lennon and Christal Noland discuss helping kids grow up and how parents can unintentionally hold children back by constantly entertaining them, intervening in every conflict, and rescuing them from responsibility and consequences. They encourage parents to let kids experience boredom and practice conversation, coach them through normal peer conflicts without overstepping, and teach real-life responsibility with clear consequences. They outline four growth areas to cultivate: faith (church involvement, prayer, and parental example), character (praising who they’re becoming), responsibility (chores and fo...

Do we really still need a date night when we are married?

Yes we do! And in this episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, we talk about why date night is a vital commitment that keeps romance alive so marriage doesn’t drift into feeling like roommates. We share how our own experiences with date nights and we explain that the effort matters more than a perfect plan. 

 Couples who still date are more likely to report very happy marriages, lower perceived divorce risk, and higher sexual satisfaction. We encourage putting date night on the...

The Power of Family Meals: Building Connection Around the Table

In this episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, we talk about why eating together as a family matters and how it strengthens connection at home. We share a bittersweet parenting season—our oldest is preparing for college visits and our son’s basketball season is nearing the state playoffs—which reminds us how valuable regular family rhythms like shared meals can be. We describe family dinner as a cornerstone habit that impacts many other areas of life, and we reflect on our different upbringings with mealtimes.

It's the little things that make a BIG difference in marriage.

In this Valentine’s-season episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, we talk about how we’re celebrating Valentine’s Day late and how, almost 20 years into marriage, we’ve learned to value simple choices that keep us connected.

From a viral reel by Arthur C. Brooks, we share four small practices that can help even a hurting marriage and we add our own practical little habits that have made a huge difference for our marriage and how we feel connected. 

 We hope by...

Why is it important to give our spouse a break?

In this episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, we discuss the importance of giving each other space in a marriage and a couple of great ways to do this is through pursuing personal interests (or hobbies) and friendships. We share personal stories, like Lennon's recent bonding time with our son during his basketball season and Christal's goal to double the number of books she reads this year. We emphasize how hobbies and friendships can boost individual well-being and strengthen our relationship. We also talk about the...

Do your kids or teens as you hard questions about God or may have doubts about Him?

In this episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, we discuss how parents can handle their children's questions and doubts about God and faith. We share personal stories about our own moments of BIG questions. We emphasize the importance of patience, prayer, and creating an open dialogue about faith in the home. We also highlight that faith struggles are natural and can occur even in the most devout families. Additionally, we offer practical advice for encouraging a thinking and...

We all handle stress differently, and marriage brings those differences face to face!

In this episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, we discuss the challenges and strategies for managing stress within a marriage. Emphasizing the importance of being supportive  as scripture shows us, we highlight various stress responses such as anger, withdrawal, and unleashing emotions. 

We share personal anecdotes about dealing with stressful situations, encourage offering grace and patience, and suggest practical steps like praying, taking breaks, and maintaining self-care to better handle stress. Join us as we explore how stress doesn't have to di...

Every home has a tone, and your words are one of the greatest tools God has given you to shape it.

Hey we've all been there and said the wrong things while parenting! But there's hope as always so in this episode we want to encourage you that your words and the tone matters. 

We share personal stories of how words from our parents shaped us and how we hope to make our words count with our children.

We break down four essential types of communication every parent needs: words of affection and e...

New Year, New Home?

In this episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, Lennon and Christal discuss the importance of decluttering not just your home but also your mind and heart. They begin by identifying signs of mental clutter and emphasize the impact of that. They share their experience of cleaning up clutter and reflect on the benefits of a fresh start in the New Year.

They also explore mental decluttering and highlight the significance of organizing and prioritizing tasks, as well as seeking spiritual renewal. Lastly, they address the importance of decluttering the heart...

New Year Marriage Reset: Reflect, Improve, and Connect

In this episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, we discuss the importance of growth in marriage and introduce a 'New Year Marriage Reset.' We talk about reflecting on what worked well in the past year, identifying areas for improvement, and setting actionable steps to achieve these improvements. We emphasize the importance of effective communication, scheduling quality time together, and leaning on spiritual practices like prayer. This episode also features insights into managing change and maintaining a healthy relationship dynamic. 

00:00 Introduction and New Year Greetings
00:40 R...