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Fireworks, sport and a bit of producer frustration… it’s all going on this week!

Bri admits she’s not quite sold on all the standing around that comes with Bonfire Night, but luckily Charlie steps in and kindly offers to take her daughter, Nora, this year. Then it’s time for Let’s Settle This, as the girls attempt to agree on what actually counts as a sport before tackling the big question: should every child have to do one? It’s not quite the debate our producer had in mind, but we get there in the end...

What's that coming over the hill.....why, it's us!

Join us, creatures of the night, on this minisode of a Halloween half-term.

We discuss practical advice and Halloween Tricks & Treats to make sure your kids are happy and engaged this Spooky Season. We'll see you on the other side, back for our usual service next week!

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We’re BACK in real life again and there’s plenty to catch up on!

Bri’s celebrating her birthday very soon, half term is looming, and one mum has reached the end of her cooking for the family tether.

In Let’s Settle This, we’re debating whether kids should have to finish everything on their plate, while Overheard in the Playground gets us talking about contraband at school. Charlie’s also fallen hard for the Skylight Calendar and we hear from a mum who’s somehow become the unofficial childcare provider for her neighb...

This week, TV Presenter, Relationship Expert and all-round lovely person, Anna Williamson (of LuAnna Podcast fame) joins us for a good old natter about family life, parenting and all the dramas that come with it.

We get stuck into a chat about an angry mum voice note in Overheard in the Playground, debate whether kids should have to say hello and goodbye to everyone in Let’s Settle This, and put Anna to the test with some tricky parenting scenarios in What Would Anna Do?

She also helps us tackle a listener dilemma ab...

For the first time EVER, the girls are recording IRL (in real life) at Briony's House, where they're very excited that they can touch each other.

But nothing else has changed as Briony, Charlie and Vix still get into deep discussions about the chaos of modern parenting. They kick off with an interesting debate about whether your child is an ‘in the box’ or ‘out the box’ kid, inspired by Gwyneth Paltrow’s dad’s very specific scale of naughtiness. Then, it’s time for Let’s Settle This: should parents really be friends with their children’s teach...

We’re BACK! And after our extended summer break, the girls have plenty to catch up on. Briony, Charlie and Vix are back sharing the things that have made them laugh, lose their minds and question everything since we last spoke.

Charlie reveals how spider season has officially encroached on her workspace, while Briony introduces a brand-new item to the pod, Let’s Settle This, where the girls have to pick a side on some of parenting’s biggest debates. And this week, they’re tackling the age-old question: is it OK to let your child win at a...

Hi, Not Judgers. Great news, I’m Not Judging, But… is back for Series 4! Same girls. Same podcast. But even more parenting chaos.

We'll be bringing you more outrageous confessions, unqualified advice, parenting debates and expressing the thoughts we’re all too scared to say out loud.

Tune in from 1st October 2026 to enjoy all the chaos that the new school year brings.

Briony May Williams, Charlie Fuge and Vix Willshire take a precious moment to pause and share the unsung moments, shared struggles and joy of raising tweens and teens. It's y...

Here's a little bonus episode of our favourite feature, Between You & Me.

This episode, we tackle three listener questions and offer our completely unqualified (but very helpful) advice, including trying to help one mum work out how on earth she’s supposed to sort out all the teeth gifted to the Tooth Fairy.

Tune in on 1st October for our new series where we share more parenting dilemmas that leave us all wondering, “Am I doing this right?”

We’re sharing our thoughts, our experiences and probably a few questionable solutions along th...

The summer holidays are officially over and we are slowly returning to a routine. But the stress of getting to that point has been a ride. So, have the wheels fallen off for anyone yet?!

In this special back-to-school episode, the girls tackle the highs, lows and chaos of getting everyone back to normality, plus they answer some brilliant listener dilemmas in our favourite unqualified advice section, Between You and Me.

This is a little recap from the archives to get you back in the INJB mood, because on 1st October we’re bac...

This week on I'm Not Judging, But... the girls are back with one of their funniest debates yet, after Briony witnesses a full-blown parenting dilemma at 30,000 feet. Were the kids running wild on the plane... or was the grumpy passenger out of line?

Then it's time for a brand new game as the girls put their memories to the test with some of the most iconic one-liners from the podcast, before Dr Punam Krishan joins them to share why parents need to stop chasing the "perfect" summer. Her refreshing empty diary approach might just be the...

On this week's episode of I'm Not Judging, But... Charlie is serving up some hard truths...and not everyone's going to like them.

The girls also ask the question that plagues every holidaymaker - when did reserving a sun-bed with a towel become acceptable?!

Plus, we're joined by autism consultant, Lisa Galley @school_run_mum_autism, who explains why more children than ever are being diagnosed as neurodivergent and she shares the powerful message that every parent needs to hear: it's okay to parent differently. 💜

Briony May Williams, Charlie Fuge and Vix Wil...

On this week's episode of British Podcast Awards nominated, I'm Not Judging, But... Chef and TV favourite, Matt Tebbutt, swaps the kitchen for our Circle of Trust. He had a frank and brilliantly funny chat about surviving life with older kids. 

Matt shares hilarious stories - from discovering that giving your children too many choices is a rookie error, why he actually left his own family WhatsApp group, and some honest reflections on the strange "grey area" of parenting, as your kids become adults. Honest, cheeky, and packed with laughs, just like Matt himself.  

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On this week’s episode, we’re joined by the incredible Blind Content Creator, Claire Sisk. She shared her story of losing her sight as an adult after two strokes – and how hard this made parenting as a single mum. Claire joined our Circle of Trust, sharing the amazing relationship she has with her daughter and how it broke her when she left for uni. She also gave us her forthright opinion on our usual Overheard in the Playground gossip – a heatwave and kids off school, come on now! Plus, her fabulous unqualified advice on how 80s parents dealt with disap...

This week on the pod, we're joined by @MayorHelenGodwin @WestofEnglandCombinedAuthority and honestly, she understood the assignment. 👏 

We got the inside scoop on what being Mayor actually looks like day-to-day, plus her ultimate I'm Not Judging, But...pet peeve. All that plus, Charlie drops a parenting take about teaching kids' resilience that leaves the girls completely shaken. 😳The question is... is she right? 🎙️👀

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On this week's pod we’re all over the shop – from literal overheard gossip in a Charity shop to getting a little hot under the collar when we dive into the TV show EVERY millennial mum is watching. Can anyone stop googling Garrett Graham? We don’t blame you.  

All that plus, poor Charlie is hit by two conundrums - realising her husband has wangled a whole day of golf because he’s doing it for 'charity'...hmm. And wondering why she has kept all her kids baby teeth (after the tooth fairy returned them ;0) )  

Briony M...

This week the wonderful @hilarywhitehall joined us for a fab chat about being a mum and the joys that come with becoming a Grandmother. Hilary joined our ‘Bristol massive’ (as she named us) and helped answer all the wonderful voice notes we received from Grandparents. What a joy she was to have on. Check it out!

You can find us on Instagram @imnotjudgingbutpod or YouTube www.youtube.com/@Imnotjudgingbut

And you can find Hilary online @hilarywhitehall and her podcast with husband Michael @thewitteringwhitehalls

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We’re back after half term with a bang. The girls relive their youth this week in the exciting build up to Boyzone’s farewell shows, which Briony will report back on next week. They discuss whether men's brains really do change when they have kids and an awkward ear wigging session leaves Briony feeling quite uncomfortable. 

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On this week’s episode of I’m Not Judging, But… it’s an emotional rollercoaster. The girls kick things off with the big news about Strictly’s brand‑new hosts before diving into a heartfelt chat about navigating ADHD with their own kids — tissues at the ready. In Overheard in the Playground, Vix delivers some top‑tier gossip involving a parent who’s found a… let’s say creative way to score free childcare. And it’s finally Charlotte’s turn to crack open the legendary big purple box, which somehow spirals into a wonderfully chaotic round of Who’s in the Bag. It’s war...

On this week's episode of I'm Not Judging, But... we're joined by the wonderful, Sara Davies MBE — she's an entrepreneur, investor, and beloved Dragons’ Den investor. From founding Crafter’s Companion at just 21 to becoming one of the UK’s most recognisable business voices, Sara brings her trademark energy, honesty, and no‑nonsense wisdom to our conversation. She offers up practical parenting advice that we’ll be taking away, spilled the tea on escaping the school what’s app groups and was as shocked as us with our Overheard In The Playground gossip this week. Grab a cuppa and enjoy.

This week on I'm Not Judging, But.. Our lovely Briony has lost her voice so we're airing some exclusive

unqualified advice for you as a little bonus content. Enjoy!

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Our usual podcast will return next week.

Briony May Williams, Charlie Fuge and Vix Willshire take a precious moment to pause and share the unsung moments, shared struggles...

On this week’s episode, Briony, Charlie and Vix catch up on their weeks - and Briony finally gets something off her chest after seeing someone online call only-children “spoilt brats,” a claim she passionately shuts down. Then it’s on to another brilliantly cringe “overheard”: the tale of a child who mistook a condom for a water balloon…and let’s just say it spiralled fast. In the news, the trio unpack the wholesome parenting idea 7‑7‑7, not to be confused with the viral 6–7 trend, as a simple way to connect more with your kids. It’s also Briony’s turn to answer questions...

We're back!!!

Season 3 kicks off with a bang as the girls reunite after a three‑week Easter break and immediately dive into the chaos we’ve missed — including our most shocking Overheard In The Playground EVER...Taxidermy kits for 6 year olds anyone? WTF? Plus we discuss the latest I’m A Celeb drama. We all want to take home an Adam. 

Briony, Charlie and Vix unpack the story of a pub banning both kids and dogs (bold move), we put Vix in the hot seat for our new segment Ask Me Anything, and the girls...

On our final episode of the season, before we take a break for the Easter school holidays, the girls dive into the messy reality of modern parenting. From shocking sideline sports rage at a kids’ football match to the surprising statistic that a quarter of children aren’t school-ready at age five, we unpack the pressure parents are under and how it can spill out in unexpected ways.

We explore the rise of “yes days” and ask how much control you would give up to let your kids make their own decisions, even if only for a day. A...

On I'm Not Judging, But... the girls are back together again, virtually at least and on this week's show we tackle what would you do if your kid tried to exit the vehicle during a heated row? The discussion over a social media ban for U16s continues, plus the girls give their teenage selves some wise advice. Tune in every Thursday.

Briony May Williams, Charlie Fuge and Vix Willshire take a precious moment to pause and share the unsung moments, shared struggles and joy of raising tweens and teens. It's your front-row seat to the chaos, la...

This week on I’m Not Judging But… it's a very special unseen bits compilation.

The girls dive into the parenting headlines that are getting everyone talking - from would you give your child a duvet day off school for their mental health, or does that send the wrong message? The debate around makeup in schools is heating up too. Is it harmless self-expression or unnecessary pressure at a young age?

We also unpack some worrying new statistics about parents not reading with their children, and ask the fascinating question: why do so many kids watc...

On this week's I'm Not Judging, But...Spring has sprung and so have Briony, Charlie and Vix, shaking off winter and diving headfirst into the chaos of parenting. This week they unpack Gen Alpha’s latest baffling slang now that “6–7” has officially been retired by meddling parents. In Overheard In The Playground they discuss a bold parent who took their child to the cinema with chickenpox.

Plus, in - In The News they dig into two headline-grabbing parenting stories: a mum launching a government petition for paid parental leave when kids are off sick, and Comedian...

Half term has been and gone, and Briony, Charlie and Vix are back with their stories.

Overheard in the playground gets an adult upgrade as Briony shares something she overheard in the hot tub at the gym. FYI bubbles aren’t soundproof.

A supermarket car park decision sparks more debate. Peppa Pig is finally in our good books and with whispers of big changes to the school calendar, the girls wonder what that would really mean for family life – and if maybe Mr Ofsted should think about some other more important things that...

On this week’s Valentines special of I’m Not Judging, But.. the girls kick things off with giggles, mild chaos and a passionate discussion about roller skating… including whether matching bum pads are a sensible investment or a lifestyle choice. Valentine’s Day is on the horizon, so they’re sharing everything from inconsistent romance and novelty T-shirts to heart-shaped toast for the kids and a truly savage primary school heartbreak story from Briony. They discuss an awkward playground dilemma about kids sending valentines day cards to each other, a news story about whether texting your partner during the day ac...

On I’m Not Judging, But… this week, Briony, Charlie and Vix chat about the little lies kids tell their friends and ask when those tiny fibs start turning into bigger lessons. Things take a deeper turn as reality star, Louise Thompson’s campaign for a maternity commissioner sparks some very honest and emotional conversations about birth stories, all of which the girls have experienced themselves. They also dive into your brilliant listener emails and voice notes about accidentally passing on our fears, along with those surprisingly deep chats that our kids seem to want to have when you least...

On this week's very special episode of I'm Not Judging, But... the girls are joined by Girls Aloud's Kimberley Walsh, and they couldn't be more excited to meet her. Briony and Kimberley work together on BBC's Morning Live, so their existing friendship, plus the fact that Kimberley's husband is a Bristolian, meant she slotted right into our girl gang from the outset.

This episode shows the real Kimberley. She's open, honest, and reflective about her parenting, sharing how hard she finds it to split herself equally between her three boys all of the time. From gossip about...

In this week’s episode of I’m Not Judging, But…, Briony, Charlie and Vix dive into the biggest celebrity story to hit the headlines this year. The kind that breaks the internet and sparks a very modern parenting dilemma: what would you do if your child decided to disown you?

Briony also shares a genuinely terrifying encounter with road rage, while Vix recounts her own surprisingly intense showdown involving a supermarket trolley and some ham.

The girls also tackle tricky issues in the only way they know how – with humour and kindness. From kid...

On this week’s episode, Briony, Charlie and Vix talk about saying yes more, a decision that’s landed them all in roller skating lessons. It’s Vix’s birthday, and they’re embracing the idea of being a “queenager”, a woman of a certain age who’s firmly come into her own. Alongside the laughs, they dig into parenting pressures, school attendance policies, homeschooling, and the realities of the education system. Plus, there’s plenty of unqualified but heartfelt advice on listener dilemmas, from swearing kids and chaotic imaginary friends to older children refusing to sleep alone.

Briony May Willi...

We’re back for Season 2!

On this week’s I’m Not Judging, But…, Briony, Charlie and Vix are excited to be back together recording a brand new series, even if they did see each other over the holidays. They catch up on Charlie’s New Year’s Eve birthday, Briony’s 90s rave NYE party complete with family members in retro shell suits and crimped hair, and Vix’s Mexican inspired celebrations.

In Overheard In The Playground, Vix shares a story that has sent her friend into a rage. The girls debate whether New Year...

On this special bonus episode, Briony, Charlie and Vix sit down with menopause expert and Weight Watchers coach Lorraine Small for a frank, funny and fabulously useful chat about one of their favourite topics. Menopause… or more accurately, peri-menopause. Lorraine shares her own experiences and the work she does every day supporting women through this major hormonal shift, from building a solid support network to practical tools that actually help. From what to eat to how to move your body, Lorraine serves up her top tips for anyone just trying to get through it with a bit more energy, co...

It’s our final episode before Christmas and Briony, Charlie and Vix are leaning fully into the festive chaos. From who’s hosting who this year and whether they are all up for some Boxing Day karaoke, to your last-minute Christmas dilemmas and the age-old question of teacher gifts… they have opinions. We’re also unpacking whether they're a Type A or Type B mum at Christmas, and squeezing in a little sparkle after being FROW at Strictly last week. Festive plans, strong opinions and plenty of laughs. Consider this your unofficial warm-up to Christmas week.

Plus, if...

On this week’s episode of I’m Not Judging, But… Briony, Charlie and Vix are joined by Bake Off fan favourite Nelly Ghaffar. Originally from Slovakia, Nelly talks about the challenges of living in a country she wasn’t born in, raising boys and using cooking as a form of therapy with her two sons. For them, it’s a welcome distraction that helps open up conversations about their lives and what’s happening at school. She also shares her lovely Christmas traditions and offers advice to a listener who’s already regretting getting involved in Elf on the shelf.

This week on I’m Not Judging But, the girls sit down with Australian comedian and actress Felicity Ward.

She's the star of The Office (Australia), a Dancing with the Stars (Australia) finalist and all-round powerhouse performer.

Felicity brings her razor-sharp humour and total honesty as she dives into the messy, heart-melting highs and lows of parenting her six-year-old son, which she shares with her ex-husband.

She’s vulnerable, hilarious, and completely unfiltered. This episode is an absolute must.

If you want to see hilarious outtakes and more clips from the p...

This week the girls are back together and in full chaotic joy. Charlie relives the night of her life after seeing the band Five, Vix proudly announces she’s nearly conquered her Christmas shopping, and Briony drops a big surprise of her own. In Overheard In The Playground they dive into how to keep the Christmas magic alive. In the news is a story that hits close to home as they talk about how many parents struggle to find the time—and the patience—to cook with their kids. And finally, the listeners’ problems roll in, leading to heartfelt moments...

On this week's episode of I'm Not Judging, But... CBeebies' longest standing presenter, the legend that is Andy Day joins Briony, Charlie and Vix. In this brilliantly honest and heart-warming chat Andy went deep. He opened up about giving a kidney to his brother, the way his wife has taught him to be patient - and how he still finds leaving the house with children one of the most stressful things to do in life. He also told us about his brand-new Christmas picture book for kids, which sounds every bit as joyful as you’d expect. We got in...

Comedian Jess Fostekew joins Briony, Charlie and Vix to discuss the beautiful chaos of parenting, including the joy of finding mysterious sticky things in her handbag, being blamed for 'teaching' her son all the bad words and debating whether we should be allowed to take our kids out of school in term time - just for a week. I'm Not Juding, But...this episode is peak millennial parenting—messy, hilarious, and absolutely relatable.

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