The Bestie Space
A soft place to land and a strong place to rise... Where women come to feel seen, supported and reminded they are not broken, they're breaking through! If you're burned out, grieving, rebuilding after heartbreak or just tired of holding it all together, you're in the right place. Here, we don't do toxic positivity; we do honesty, healing and bestie energy.
The Strong Woman Trap
“You’re so strong.”
It sounds like a compliment…
but what if it’s also the reason you feel like you have to hold everything together?
In this episode of The Bestie Space, Nicole dives into what it really means to be “the strong one”—and the hidden pressure, exhaustion, and identity that can come with it.
Because somewhere along the way, strength can stop feeling empowering…
and start feeling like something you can’t put down.
In this episode, we explore:
How being “the strong one” can quietly become your iden...How do you start becoming the real you?
Last episode, we asked the question: Who are you… really?
But what happens after that moment—
when you realize you’ve been living in roles… and you’re not quite sure who you are without them?
In this episode of The Bestie Space, Nicole walks you through what it actually looks like to begin becoming the version of yourself you’ve been craving—the one who feels more peaceful, confident, and fully aligned.
This is the in-between season.
And you’re not alone in it.
Inside this episode, you’ll learn how to:<...
The question you need to ask yourself... Who are you?
Who are you… really?
Not the strong one.
Not the dependable one.
Not the version of you that learned how to hold everything together.
In this episode of The Bestie Space, we’re going deeper than surface-level identity and asking the question so many of us avoid—especially after life changes like divorce, motherhood, or career shifts:
Who am I when I’m not just surviving?
Nicole walks you through a powerful, reflective exercise to help you:
Identify the roles you’ve carried (and why you stepped in...Allowing Good Things to Happen To You
When you’ve lived in survival mode for a long time, “good” can feel unfamiliar… even unsafe.
In this episode of The Bestie Space, we’re talking about why allowing good things to happen to you can feel harder than enduring hard things. We explore the identity shift from being “just a mom” or the strong one… to becoming a whole woman who is allowed to receive, rest, grow, and thrive.
If you’ve ever downplayed your joy, sabotaged something healthy, or struggled to believe you deserve peace — this conversation is for you.
Healing isn’t just a...
New Year: Resets not Resolutions
In this Season 2 opener of The Bestie Space, Nicole reflects on slowing down over the holidays, choosing presence with her kids and friends, and starting the year without resolutions.
Instead, she shares why this season is about a reset — focusing on more joy, more peace, personal strength, and improved health. If you’re craving a softer, more intentional way to begin the year, this episode is for you.
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10 Ways out of Survival Mode
In this episode of The Bestie Space, Nicole breaks down the subtle signs of survival mode and shares 10 simple, doable shifts that can help you finally breathe again. If you’ve been stuck in overwhelm, running on autopilot, or feeling disconnected from yourself, this episode will give you practical tools — and the emotional permission — to step back into a life that feels calmer, softer, and more yours.
Hit play and discover the small changes that can lead to big healing.
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Flipping the Script on Burnout
This episode explores what burnout really feels like, the subtle signs we ignore, and the powerful mindset shift that helped Nicole reclaim her energy, her identity, and her peace. If you’ve been running on empty, feeling disconnected from yourself, or wondering if life is supposed to feel different — this conversation will speak straight to your soul.
Tune in to learn how to flip the narrative in your own life and start living for your experiences, not for your exhaustion.
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Thankful & Grateful
In this soul-soothing episode of The Bestie Space, Nicole invites you into a deep, honest conversation about gratitude — the kind that grows from slowing down, healing, and rediscovering yourself. She shares the surprising places gratitude has shown up in her life lately, and how noticing the small, meaningful moments can shift everything from your joy to your sense of peace.
If you’re craving a softer pace, longing for more connection, or needing a reminder that your life already holds so much goodness, this episode will feel like a warm hug for your heart. Tune in and let...
Why you need Affirmations in your life
Affirmations aren’t just feel-good quotes — they’re the quiet rewiring of the stories we tell ourselves. In this episode, I break down what affirmations really are, why they matter, and how one simple phrase completely shifted the way I see my life, healing, and timing.
We’ll talk about how to use affirmations to calm anxiety, replace self-doubt with self-trust, and reconnect with your purpose right where you are.
✨ If you’ve been questioning your path or rushing your growth, this episode is your gentle reminder to pause — and know that you’re already enough, right now...
The Loneliness After Leaving: What No One Tells You About Healing
You finally left the chaos — but now the quiet feels unbearable. In this episode, I open up about the loneliness that follows leaving a toxic or narcissistic relationship, why peace can feel painful at first, and how to turn that emptiness into empowerment. We’ll talk about what healing really looks like, how being alone is better than being lonely with the wrong person, and gentle ways to rebuild your sense of self one day at a time.
✨ If you’re sitting in the silence wondering what comes next, this one’s for you, Bestie.
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Breaking the Silence: What Domestic Violence really looks like
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month — and this episode is a reminder that abuse isn’t always physical. It can show up as control, manipulation, isolation, financial restriction, or emotional exhaustion.
In this raw and compassionate conversation, I’m breaking down the different forms of domestic violence, what the cycle of abuse really feels like, and how to recognize when you or someone you love is in danger. You’ll also hear practical, safe steps for getting help — and gentle encouragement for those rebuilding their lives after leaving.
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Surviving a High Conflict Ex
Dealing with a high-conflict ex is exhausting—it’s never-ending games of emotional sabotage, financial warfare, and manipulation that leave you drained. And when the court system fails to protect mothers, the fight feels even heavier. In this episode, I get real about how it feels to live in the chaos of a narcissistic ex, why it takes such a toll on your mental health, and the survival strategies that can help you hold onto your peace and protect your kids.
✨ If you’re tired of the battles but still determined to rise, this episode is for you, Bes...
Repotting Your Roots: Mental Health Awareness & Finding Space to Heal
When my peace lily, Polly, started to droop, I realized her roots were drowning—and so was I. In this episode, I open up about my own struggles with anxiety, how it left me feeling tangled and restless, and the simple shifts that helped me breathe again. From breathwork and boundaries to repotting our emotions with fresh soil, this is a reminder that you’re not broken—you just need space to heal.
✨ If your roots feel crowded, press play and let’s grow together, Bestie.
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From Restless Nights to Real Rest - A Sleep Breakthrough
For over three years, I survived on just 4–5 restless hours of sleep a night—telling myself exhaustion was strength. Spoiler: it wasn’t. In this episode, I open up about my battle with sleeplessness, why running on empty is no badge of honor, and how healing practices (including ashwagandha!) finally brought me back to deeper, restorative rest.
✨ If you’ve been burning the candle at both ends, this one’s for you. Press play—you deserve real rest too.
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Single Mom Life: The Real, the Hard, and the Beautiful
Being a single mom comes with the expected challenges—exhaustion, decision fatigue, and carrying it all alone—but it also brings surprising gifts: resilience, deeper bonds with your kids, and discovering strength you never knew you had. In this episode, Nicole shares the honest highs and lows of single mom life and offers practical tools to help you protect your peace, create joyful traditions, and celebrate the beauty in the messy middle.
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Emotional Mastery & Recovery – Putting Your Heart Back Together
Healing isn’t linear—it’s messy, beautiful, and full of small victories that prove you’re stronger than you think. In this episode, Nicole unpacks what emotional mastery really means, why recovery matters, and the practical steps you can take right now to begin putting your heart back together. From naming your feelings to creating micro-moments of safety and joy, this conversation is a guide to rebuilding yourself with compassion and courage.
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Co-Parenting Is Not for the Faint-Hearted
Co-parenting can feel like walking a tightrope—balancing your kids’ needs, your own peace, and the challenges of navigating life with an ex. In this episode, Nicole shares real-life struggles and practical tools for staying grounded: from using calm boundary phrases like “That’s not true” to shifting your focus toward what you can control in your own home.
If you’ve ever felt drained, triggered, or unsure how to handle the daily realities of co-parenting, this conversation will give you both hope and strategies to protect your peace while creating consistency and safety for your kids.
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Choosing Divorce and Protecting My Peace
What happens when the pain of staying finally outweighs the fear of leaving? In this raw episode, Nicole shares the breaking point that led her to choose divorce—and how her father’s passing revealed a hidden strength that gave her the courage to protect her peace and create a new life.
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Narcissism - Naming the Invisible Wound
In this episode of Bestie Space, Nicole sheds light on the often unseen wounds caused by narcissism. From gaslighting and constant criticism to walking on eggshells and questioning your own reality, she unpacks the subtle signs that you may be caught in a cycle of manipulation.
Nicole also shares one of her favorite tools for reclaiming power: when you’re accused of something you know isn’t true, you don’t have to over-explain—you can simply respond with, “That’s not true.” Along with this practical boundary, she offers steps to protect your reality, set limits, and begin the...
Advice I'd give to myself 5 years ago
Nicole kicks off Bestie Space by sharing her own story of turning heartbreak into healing and pain into purpose. This is the raw, honest reminder that you’re not alone—and that your best breakthroughs often begin in the messiest seasons.
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✨ Let’s stay connected, Bestie!
➡️ Explore more breakthroughs, guides, and resources at https://stan.store/NicoleLBestie
➡️ Come hang out with me on Instagram for daily Coffee & Gratitude moments @coffee_n_gratitude
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You're not broken, you're breaking through
Nicole reminds you that the seasons where you feel the most “broken” are often the moments just before your biggest breakthroughs.
This episode will shift how you see struggle, offering fresh perspective, hope, and simple tools to help you rise stronger.
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✨ Let’s stay connected, Bestie!
➡️ Explore more breakthroughs, guides, and resources at https://stan.store/NicoleLBestie
➡️ Come hang out with me on Instagram for daily Coffee & Gratitude moments @coffee_n_gratitude
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The burnout you didn't see coming
Nicole dives into the hidden side of burnout—the kind that leaves you looking strong on the outside but feeling empty on the inside. This episode is a heartfelt reminder that rest is not weakness, and it’s packed with simple tools to help you recognize the signs and begin to restore yourself with compassion.
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✨ Let’s stay connected, Bestie!
➡️ Explore more breakthroughs, guides, and resources at https://stan.store/NicoleLBestie
➡️ Come hang out with me on Instagram for daily Coffee & Gratitude moments @coffee_n_gratitude
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