Liberation Wisdom Podcast

As a mom facing kindergarten choices, Kayla critiques the industrial-age education system designed to create compliant workers — not creative, sovereign beings. Teachers are burnt out. Standardized testing has replaced mastery-based learning. And children are being punished for not fitting into a broken system.

But here's the truth: Children are not the problem.

Younger generations are arriving with higher consciousness and a deep knowing that they're sovereign. They're pushing back because they refuse to be indoctrinated. They need a different system — one that allows them to think critically, trust their inner power, create meaningfully, and contribute to h...

What is power? And how has patriarchy corrupted our understanding of what true power actually means?

In this episode, Kayla shares a profound redefinition of power from the Lady of Communion archetype in her priestess training: Power = Energy + Choice.

Not power-over. Not control. Not climbing ladders or crushing competition. Real power is the feminine creative energy (life force, eros, potential) combined with the masculine discernment and integrity (choice, how we use that energy). It's sovereignty. It's sitting on your throne and knowing you are divine, connected to Source, connected to Earth, connected to all living...

What does it actually mean to weave the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine back into harmony? And how do we do this sacred union work within ourselves?

In this deeply personal episode, Kayla shares her journey working with the Lady of Communion archetype during her priestess training — and the profound blueprint she created for healing the wounded masculine and feminine energies within all of us.

This isn't theoretical. This is the inner work that creates outer change. Because as within, so without.

Kayla breaks down the core wounds of both energies: the wounded ma...

What does success actually mean? And what if everything we've been taught about productivity, hustle, and "staying busy" is the opposite of what we're here to create?

In this episode, Kayla reimagines what success looks like in the new Earth we're building together. Spoiler: it's not about productivity, money, or grinding 24/7. It's about community, love, pleasure, rest, and living in harmony with the Earth's cycles.

Recorded on the Full Moon in Scorpio during Beltane (the peak of spring bloom), this episode explores the duality of light and dark — how both are necessary, holy, and part of...

What if everything you've been trying to fix, heal, or perfect about yourself is actually keeping you stuck?

In this episode, Kayla shares the six things she's DONE with — the patterns, beliefs, and patriarchal conditioning she's ready to burn away after weeks of intense Aries fire energy. From the pressure to be "fully healed" before you're worthy, to believing you have to solve the world's problems on your own, to worshiping idols instead of remembering your own divinity.

This isn't about bypassing or giving up. It's about releasing what's keeping you small and stepping into so...

What does it really mean when someone says they want a "God-fearing" partner? And what harm does that language do to how we show up in relationships?

In this episode, Kayla unpacks the phrase "God-fearing" — where it comes from, what it reveals about patriarchal religion, and why conflating fear with love creates unhealthy relationship dynamics. She explores how externalizing our connection to the divine through gatekeepers (priests, pastors, religious leaders) disconnects us from our own divinity and reinforces hierarchy and control.

Kayla shares the difference between Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine energies (fire and container, no...

The patriarchy isn't just about men versus women — it's a system that's harming everyone. And it's crumbling.

In this episode, Kayla breaks down what the patriarchy actually is, where it came from, and why fighting it with love (not more violence) is the only way forward.

She explores the difference between patriarchy (hierarchy, domination, extraction) and matriarchy (community, circle, care for women and children at the center). She traces how we got here — from the Roman Empire to the Industrial Revolution to right now, this moment where the wheels are coming off and the system is i...

What if taking your power back isn't selfish — it's sacred?

In this episode, Kayla explores a core wound many women carry: the belief that we must put others — especially men — before ourselves. This conditioning shows up everywhere: carrying the mental load, prioritizing partners' rest over our own, believing pleasure is only for them.

Kayla shares her own journey of unlearning generational programming that taught her to coddle men and treat them as incapable. She explores how this pattern shows up in motherhood, relationships, and especially sexual healing — where clients have been taught their bodies should follow a...

What if the shift you've been waiting for is already happening — and it starts with choosing love over productivity?

Welcome to Liberation Wisdom, a new iteration of this podcast where Kayla steps fully into her path as a Sacred Feminine priestess. This isn't about bypassing the darkness or pretending everything is fine — it's about walking as love in the face of chaos, and bridging galactic wisdom with the very real, tangible shifts happening in our collective consciousness right now.

In this first episode, Kayla introduces what it means to be a priestess (spoiler: it's walking as u...

What if the key to reclaiming pleasure starts with reclaiming your body?

In this episode, Kayla explores how patriarchal systems have weaponized body shame to keep women distracted, disconnected, and disempowered. She traces the cultural programming many of us absorbed growing up — the mall brands, the impossible beauty standards, the male gaze we internalized — back to predatory systems designed to make us feel unsafe in our own skin.

Kayla shares her own moment of reckoning while dancing alone in her kitchen, realizing she was still judging herself through someone else's eyes. She invites listeners to shif...

What if the key to more intimacy isn't asking for more — but showing up differently?

In this candid episode, Kayla speaks directly to men (and the partners who want to share this with them). If you're a loving partner who's trying hard but still hearing "I need more from you" — especially around sex and desire — this episode offers a compassionate roadmap for understanding what's really being asked of you.

Kayla explores why so many heterosexual relationships have a desire discrepancy, how patriarchy has disconnected men from their emotions and the feminine within them, and why women...

What if the key to reclaiming pleasure isn't trying harder — but offering yourself radical compassion?

In this solo episode, Kayla explores the Goddess of Compassion and how compassion — love in action — is essential to healing our relationship with pleasure. For many women struggling with low desire or sexual dissatisfaction, shame and self-blame run deep. Kayla invites listeners to bring compassion to where they are now, trust divine timing, and remember that pleasure isn't about perfection or chasing orgasm — it's about meeting yourself where you are and letting go of judgment.

In this episode, we explore:

In this powerful conversation, Jaclyn Orent—a cultural catalyst and frequency architect—shares how consciousness-level transformation creates lasting systemic change in business and beyond. Discover why pleasure and intrinsic motivation are essential for exponential growth, how peer communities fuel sustainable change, and what it really means to be a "cultural catalyst" in today's world.

This episode is for founders, visionaries, and change-makers ready to build something more alive, resonant, and revolutionary.

In this episode, we explore:

In this solo episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, Kayla explores what it truly means to receive in a culture that conditions women to over give and stay in control. Drawing from priestess wisdom, nervous system healing, and the Great Mother archetype, she shares how safety — not effort — is the foundation of pleasure and intimacy. Anchored in the liminal energy of Imbolc, this episode is an invitation to soften, release control, and remember the body’s innate capacity to be held. A grounding listen for anyone longing to reconnect with pleasure, presence, and embodied trust.

If you’re feeli...

What if pleasure isn’t just personal — but political, ethical, and communal?

In this expansive and soul-stirring conversation, Kayla is joined by Andrew Phipps for a wide-ranging dialogue that bridges pleasure, ethics, community, nervous system safety, power, and what it means to live a truly fulfilling life in a rapidly changing world.

Together, they explore how modern systems — from capitalism and politics to productivity culture and individualism — have shaped how disconnected we feel from our bodies, from one another, and from pleasure itself. This episode invites listeners to zoom out and ask bigger questions:

What a...

In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m joined by Dr. Jordin Wiggins —naturopathic doctor, author, coercive control clinician, and dominatrix-trained pleasure strategist—for a powerful, nuanced conversation about desire, power, and why so many successful women feel disconnected in their intimate lives.

Jordin works with women who have done “everything right” on paper—careers, families, achievements—yet feel numb, exhausted, and unseen in their relationships. Together, we explore the concept of “super traits”: extreme empathy, loyalty, forgiveness, and over-functioning, traits that often lead women into relational dynamics where desire disappears and intimacy becomes extractive rather than nouris...

In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m joined by Wren Morrow, an outdoor boudoir and erotic adventure photographer based in the Pacific Northwest. Wren guides individuals and couples through deeply embodied, sensual experiences in wild places—using photography as a portal back into the body, pleasure, and belonging.

We explore how Wren’s work emerged organically through van life, nature immersion, and embodiment practices, and why outdoor boudoir is about so much more than taking photos. What’s being offered is an experience—an invitation to slow down, shed shame, and remember what it feels like...

In this episode, I begin by pausing.

Before diving into today’s conversation with my guest, I wanted to hold space for the emotional weight so many of us are carrying right now. This is the first full week of January 2026, and everywhere I turn — with my clients, in my community, and in my own body — I feel the grief, anger, fear, and exhaustion moving through the collective.

I speak honestly about what it’s been like to witness this moment as a former therapist and as someone stepping more fully onto the priestess path. I share...

In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m joined by Eve Hall — pelvic floor physical therapist, intimacy coach, and host of the Please Me Podcast — for a powerful conversation about sexual health, orgasm equality, and women reclaiming their pleasure.

We explore why the orgasm gap exists, how cultural conditioning and misinformation about women’s bodies impact intimacy, and why penetrative sex alone is rarely enough for most women. Eve breaks down female arousal, the importance of time, blood flow, and clitoral stimulation, and why pleasure is something that can be learned, expanded, and reclaimed.

We als...

In this solo episode, I explore a conversation that has been rising again and again in my work and my life: the remembering of the Sacred Feminine and the reclamation of the Divine Masculine — not as genders, but as energies that live within all of us.

I share why this feels like a pivotal moment, personally and collectively, as I deepen into my priestess path and continue weaving sexual healing, desire, and pleasure into spiritual remembrance. I talk about how patriarchy didn’t just distort the masculine — it violently erased the feminine, forcing all of us into hyper...

In this episode, I sit down with Tiffanie Miner, a shamanic healer, spinal energetics practitioner, and intuitive guide. We dive into her journey from chronic illness and trauma to discovering her gifts in energy healing, ancestral work, and shamanic medicine.

We explore spinal energetics—how releasing trapped emotions and tuning into our bodies can transform nervous system patterns, deepen intuition, and open us to guidance from our ancestors and spirit allies. Tiffany shares how group work, couples sessions, and ancestral healing ripple out to transform families and communities.

We also talk about collective shifts and in...

In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I sit down with Sharon Marie Scott, author of Forbidden Alchemy: Transmuting Taboo into Erotic Medicine, to explore the transformative power of pleasure, play, and conscious sexuality. Sharon shares her journey from trauma and shame to sovereignty, choice, and spiritual mastery through pleasure.

We dive into:

In this intimate and heartfelt episode, Kayla and her co-host sit down—one week after returning from the SHED Retreat—to reflect on what truly unfolded inside this powerful container.

After a full season exploring what it means to shed through the lens of the Year of the Snake on Shauna's podcast Life Turned On, the retreat was the culmination: 10 women, two facilitators, one island, and a weekend that cracked all expectations wide open.

Here, they share:

In this episode, I’m coming to you on the heels of the New Moon in Scorpio and fresh from the deeply transformative SHED Retreat—still riding the emotional and energetic high of what was created there. My scheduled guest didn’t make it, so Spirit made it clear that today needed to be a solo episode, and honestly… I think this conversation wanted to come through.

I start by sharing an exciting announcement: the Not Broken course is officially launching this January, 2026. This 8–9 week live experience is for women who feel disconnected from their sexual desire, struggle t...

In this episode, I’m diving deep into energy, frequency, and the collective awakening that we’re living through right now. I’ve spoken about these things before, but this time I’m weaving together the threads — my personal understanding, what the spiritual and scientific communities are seeing, and why this truly is the foundation of my mission and of the Connected Pleasure Podcast.

I start by exploring how energy creates reality — how everything, from our bodies to the stories we consume, vibrates at a frequency. When we focus on fear, shame, and despair, we reinforce those frequencies...

In this episode, under the Taurus full moon and the deep waters of Scorpio season, I explore the sacred reclamation of rest—not as a reward, but as a birthright.

I open by sharing how this particular full moon is inviting us into grounding, slowness, and embodiment. With earth and water energies swirling, our nervous systems are craving stillness. I talk about how collective conditioning—capitalism, productivity culture, and generational patterns—has taught us that rest must be earned, and how deeply our bodies are asking us to unlearn that.

I share vulnerably about my own re...

In this episode, I’m weaving together the threads of sacred embodiment, Samhain magic, and the collective awakening that’s unfolding across our world right now.

I begin by sharing about my experience inside The Living Temple—a global space of devotion, ceremony, and remembrance—and how it’s been guiding me to see the body as both a sacred vessel and a reflection of the larger collective body we all belong to. As we move through Samhain, the festival that honors the thinning of the veil between worlds, I explore what it means to tend to both our i...

In this episode, I’m joined by intimacy coach and dear friend Shauna Stewart to weave together the story, spirit, and sacred purpose behind our upcoming Shed Retreat on Vashon Island.

We explore what it means to shed as a collective act of liberation—how our personal unraveling and release becomes part of the wider transformation happening in the collective consciousness. Each woman who remembers her pleasure and her body becomes a thread in the great weaving of the new world we’re co-creating.

This conversation is about the wisdom of shedding—of dissolving what’s outdated...

In this episode, I’m reflecting on the shifts happening in our collective consciousness — the ways we are being called to wake up, remember, and reorient ourselves toward love, community, and embodied truth.

I share the threads I’ve been weaving together lately — from AI and the numbing of our senses, to the hunger for deeper connection and the re-emergence of feminine wisdom on the planet. I talk about how attention has become our most valuable currency, and what it means to reclaim that attention as sacred — to root it back into pleasure, presence, and purpose.

This epi...

In this bonus episode, I’m reflecting on the upcoming No Kings Day rallies happening across the U.S. and beyond this Saturday, October 18th, 2025. This is a powerful moment to show up for democracy — to stand for human rights, freedom, and community — and to do it with love, joy, and pleasure.

I share how I’ll be attending my local rally in Gig Harbor, WA, and how I’m weaving joy, music, and even motherhood into activism. Whether you’re marching, driving by to honk in solidarity, or creating art and song from home, you are part of this...

Welcome back, my loves, to the Connect to Pleasure podcast. In today’s conversation with Cheryl Stelte, we explore what it truly means to return to our power — not the performative kind that seeks validation or control, but the embodied power that radiates from deep within.

Cheryl shares her ACE Method for empowerment — Awareness, Choice, and Embodiment — and we dive into how these steps help us reclaim sovereignty over our bodies, our relationships, and our pleasure. We talk about the difference between masculine “doing” energy and feminine “being” energy, and how the balance of both is essential for healing and...

Welcome back, my loves, to the Connected Pleasure Podcast. I’m Kayla, your host (she/her), and this is it — the very last episode of open cart week for my 1:1 coaching container, Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life.

By the time this episode airs, there are just 12 hours left to step into this sacred work. I’m offering a final-day gift — $100 off per month for the Core Coaching package 4 month payment plan (that’s $400 total) and $200 off per month for the VIP coaching package 4 month payment plan ($800 total).

But instead of another pitch, I w...

Welcome back, my loves, to the Connected Pleasure Podcast. I’m Kayla, your host (she/her), and we’ve finally arrived — it’s the last day of open cart for my 1:1 Connected Pleasure Coaching program.

In this episode, I’m walking you through what it actually looks like to enroll and begin your journey inside my one-on-one container — from your welcome email and first intake questions, to how we move through our eight sessions together.

I break down the flow of each teaching session — from Gathering the Threads (your sexual history and story) to Guarding the Loom (boun...

Welcome back, beloveds. In this episode, I’m grounding us in why I do this work — why weaving pleasure back into the fabric of our lives is not just personal healing, but collective resistance. I share a story about the imbalance of modern work culture and how deeply it disconnects us from softness, rest, and embodiment — the very places where pleasure lives.

I explore how our society’s obsession with productivity and “proving ourselves” keeps us in constant fight-or-flight, far from the nourishment our bodies crave. And I speak to the bigger web — how personal pleasure, body reclamation, a...

In this episode, I share one of my favorite sacred feminine myths — the story of Inanna, the goddess who descended into the underworld.

As Inanna journeys downward, she is asked to remove one layer of her power at each of the seven gates — her crown, her jewelry, her robes — until she stands completely bare. It’s in that vulnerable place that she dies… and is reborn.

This story has lived in my bones for years because it mirrors the feminine path of healing and reclamation.

We, too, are asked to shed the armor that once...

Welcome back, my loves. In today’s episode, I wanted to take a pause from the logistics of open cart week to speak from the heart — about inclusivity, belonging, and the feminine.

I often get asked if I’m LGBTQIA+ friendly, and the answer is a wholehearted yes. While my 1:1 coaching container focuses on women, that includes anyone who identifies as a woman or femme. This space is open to all identities, orientations, and relationship structures — queer, polyamorous, monogamous, kinky, or anywhere in between.

My work is deeply sex-positive and grounded in consent, curiosity, and connecti...

In this episode, I’m diving into one of the most tender and transformative truths of all — that you deserve pleasure. Whether you’ve ever wondered if sex or sensuality is really “for you,” or felt that your role was to give rather than receive, this conversation is for you.

I share how deeply ingrained beliefs about women’s worth, love, and sexuality have shaped our connection to our bodies — and how we can begin to unlearn those patterns. This is about reclaiming your relationship to desire, remembering that your pleasure is sacred, and allowing yourself to receive the no...

Welcome back to the Connected Pleasure Podcast, my loves. In this episode, I’m talking about a topic I know can feel tricky—how to say yes to your own healing and pleasure work when you have a partner. I share my perspective on why investing in yourself is worth it and how to navigate those conversations with your partner if money or support feels like a potential barrier.

We also dive into the ripple effects of prioritizing yourself—how rising in your own love, safety, and pleasure actually benefits everyone around you. I reflect on the histor...

Welcome back, my loves.

In this episode, I wanted to offer you something a little different — a moment to pause, breathe, and come home to your body.

I know there’s been a lot of information shared this week as I open the doors to my 1:1 coaching container, so today I’m guiding you through a grounding practice — an invitation to feel your feet on the earth, your breath in your body, and the safety that already lives within you.

I also share more about how my work weaves together my background in sexualit...

Have you tried everything to bring back your desire — the toys, the books, the lingerie — and still feel like something’s missing?

In this episode, I talk about why quick fixes and “upping the ante” often don’t address what’s really blocking your pleasure. Together, we explore how disconnection in intimacy is often rooted in safety, shame, and old beliefs — not a lack of effort.

You’ll learn how to move beyond surface-level solutions and begin healing from the inside out, with compassion, awareness, and sacred curiosity.

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