Connected Pleasure Podcast

In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m joined by Wren Morrow, an outdoor boudoir and erotic adventure photographer based in the Pacific Northwest. Wren guides individuals and couples through deeply embodied, sensual experiences in wild places—using photography as a portal back into the body, pleasure, and belonging.

We explore how Wren’s work emerged organically through van life, nature immersion, and embodiment practices, and why outdoor boudoir is about so much more than taking photos. What’s being offered is an experience—an invitation to slow down, shed shame, and remember what it feels like...

In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m joined by Eve Hall — pelvic floor physical therapist, intimacy coach, and host of the Please Me Podcast — for a powerful conversation about sexual health, orgasm equality, and women reclaiming their pleasure.

We explore why the orgasm gap exists, how cultural conditioning and misinformation about women’s bodies impact intimacy, and why penetrative sex alone is rarely enough for most women. Eve breaks down female arousal, the importance of time, blood flow, and clitoral stimulation, and why pleasure is something that can be learned, expanded, and reclaimed.

We als...

In this episode, I begin by pausing.

Before diving into today’s conversation with my guest, I wanted to hold space for the emotional weight so many of us are carrying right now. This is the first full week of January 2026, and everywhere I turn — with my clients, in my community, and in my own body — I feel the grief, anger, fear, and exhaustion moving through the collective.

I speak honestly about what it’s been like to witness this moment as a former therapist and as someone stepping more fully onto the priestess path. I share...

In this solo episode, I explore a conversation that has been rising again and again in my work and my life: the remembering of the Sacred Feminine and the reclamation of the Divine Masculine — not as genders, but as energies that live within all of us.

I share why this feels like a pivotal moment, personally and collectively, as I deepen into my priestess path and continue weaving sexual healing, desire, and pleasure into spiritual remembrance. I talk about how patriarchy didn’t just distort the masculine — it violently erased the feminine, forcing all of us into hyper...

In this episode, I sit down with Tiffanie Miner, a shamanic healer, spinal energetics practitioner, and intuitive guide. We dive into her journey from chronic illness and trauma to discovering her gifts in energy healing, ancestral work, and shamanic medicine.

We explore spinal energetics—how releasing trapped emotions and tuning into our bodies can transform nervous system patterns, deepen intuition, and open us to guidance from our ancestors and spirit allies. Tiffany shares how group work, couples sessions, and ancestral healing ripple out to transform families and communities.

We also talk about collective shifts and in...

In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I sit down with Sharon Marie Scott, author of Forbidden Alchemy: Transmuting Taboo into Erotic Medicine, to explore the transformative power of pleasure, play, and conscious sexuality. Sharon shares her journey from trauma and shame to sovereignty, choice, and spiritual mastery through pleasure.

We dive into:

In this intimate and heartfelt episode, Kayla and her co-host sit down—one week after returning from the SHED Retreat—to reflect on what truly unfolded inside this powerful container.

After a full season exploring what it means to shed through the lens of the Year of the Snake on Shauna's podcast Life Turned On, the retreat was the culmination: 10 women, two facilitators, one island, and a weekend that cracked all expectations wide open.

Here, they share:

In this episode, I’m coming to you on the heels of the New Moon in Scorpio and fresh from the deeply transformative SHED Retreat—still riding the emotional and energetic high of what was created there. My scheduled guest didn’t make it, so Spirit made it clear that today needed to be a solo episode, and honestly… I think this conversation wanted to come through.

I start by sharing an exciting announcement: the Not Broken course is officially launching this January, 2026. This 8–9 week live experience is for women who feel disconnected from their sexual desire, struggle t...

In this episode, I’m diving deep into energy, frequency, and the collective awakening that we’re living through right now. I’ve spoken about these things before, but this time I’m weaving together the threads — my personal understanding, what the spiritual and scientific communities are seeing, and why this truly is the foundation of my mission and of the Connected Pleasure Podcast.

I start by exploring how energy creates reality — how everything, from our bodies to the stories we consume, vibrates at a frequency. When we focus on fear, shame, and despair, we reinforce those frequencies...

In this episode, under the Taurus full moon and the deep waters of Scorpio season, I explore the sacred reclamation of rest—not as a reward, but as a birthright.

I open by sharing how this particular full moon is inviting us into grounding, slowness, and embodiment. With earth and water energies swirling, our nervous systems are craving stillness. I talk about how collective conditioning—capitalism, productivity culture, and generational patterns—has taught us that rest must be earned, and how deeply our bodies are asking us to unlearn that.

I share vulnerably about my own re...

In this episode, I’m weaving together the threads of sacred embodiment, Samhain magic, and the collective awakening that’s unfolding across our world right now.

I begin by sharing about my experience inside The Living Temple—a global space of devotion, ceremony, and remembrance—and how it’s been guiding me to see the body as both a sacred vessel and a reflection of the larger collective body we all belong to. As we move through Samhain, the festival that honors the thinning of the veil between worlds, I explore what it means to tend to both our i...

In this episode, I’m joined by intimacy coach and dear friend Shauna Stewart to weave together the story, spirit, and sacred purpose behind our upcoming Shed Retreat on Vashon Island.

We explore what it means to shed as a collective act of liberation—how our personal unraveling and release becomes part of the wider transformation happening in the collective consciousness. Each woman who remembers her pleasure and her body becomes a thread in the great weaving of the new world we’re co-creating.

This conversation is about the wisdom of shedding—of dissolving what’s outdated...

In this episode, I’m reflecting on the shifts happening in our collective consciousness — the ways we are being called to wake up, remember, and reorient ourselves toward love, community, and embodied truth.

I share the threads I’ve been weaving together lately — from AI and the numbing of our senses, to the hunger for deeper connection and the re-emergence of feminine wisdom on the planet. I talk about how attention has become our most valuable currency, and what it means to reclaim that attention as sacred — to root it back into pleasure, presence, and purpose.

This epi...

In this bonus episode, I’m reflecting on the upcoming No Kings Day rallies happening across the U.S. and beyond this Saturday, October 18th, 2025. This is a powerful moment to show up for democracy — to stand for human rights, freedom, and community — and to do it with love, joy, and pleasure.

I share how I’ll be attending my local rally in Gig Harbor, WA, and how I’m weaving joy, music, and even motherhood into activism. Whether you’re marching, driving by to honk in solidarity, or creating art and song from home, you are part of this...

Welcome back, my loves, to the Connect to Pleasure podcast. In today’s conversation with Cheryl Stelte, we explore what it truly means to return to our power — not the performative kind that seeks validation or control, but the embodied power that radiates from deep within.

Cheryl shares her ACE Method for empowerment — Awareness, Choice, and Embodiment — and we dive into how these steps help us reclaim sovereignty over our bodies, our relationships, and our pleasure. We talk about the difference between masculine “doing” energy and feminine “being” energy, and how the balance of both is essential for healing and...

Welcome back, my loves, to the Connected Pleasure Podcast. I’m Kayla, your host (she/her), and this is it — the very last episode of open cart week for my 1:1 coaching container, Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life.

By the time this episode airs, there are just 12 hours left to step into this sacred work. I’m offering a final-day gift — $100 off per month for the Core Coaching package 4 month payment plan (that’s $400 total) and $200 off per month for the VIP coaching package 4 month payment plan ($800 total).

But instead of another pitch, I w...

Welcome back, my loves, to the Connected Pleasure Podcast. I’m Kayla, your host (she/her), and we’ve finally arrived — it’s the last day of open cart for my 1:1 Connected Pleasure Coaching program.

In this episode, I’m walking you through what it actually looks like to enroll and begin your journey inside my one-on-one container — from your welcome email and first intake questions, to how we move through our eight sessions together.

I break down the flow of each teaching session — from Gathering the Threads (your sexual history and story) to Guarding the Loom (boun...

Welcome back, beloveds. In this episode, I’m grounding us in why I do this work — why weaving pleasure back into the fabric of our lives is not just personal healing, but collective resistance. I share a story about the imbalance of modern work culture and how deeply it disconnects us from softness, rest, and embodiment — the very places where pleasure lives.

I explore how our society’s obsession with productivity and “proving ourselves” keeps us in constant fight-or-flight, far from the nourishment our bodies crave. And I speak to the bigger web — how personal pleasure, body reclamation, a...

In this episode, I share one of my favorite sacred feminine myths — the story of Inanna, the goddess who descended into the underworld.

As Inanna journeys downward, she is asked to remove one layer of her power at each of the seven gates — her crown, her jewelry, her robes — until she stands completely bare. It’s in that vulnerable place that she dies… and is reborn.

This story has lived in my bones for years because it mirrors the feminine path of healing and reclamation.

We, too, are asked to shed the armor that once...

Welcome back, my loves. In today’s episode, I wanted to take a pause from the logistics of open cart week to speak from the heart — about inclusivity, belonging, and the feminine.

I often get asked if I’m LGBTQIA+ friendly, and the answer is a wholehearted yes. While my 1:1 coaching container focuses on women, that includes anyone who identifies as a woman or femme. This space is open to all identities, orientations, and relationship structures — queer, polyamorous, monogamous, kinky, or anywhere in between.

My work is deeply sex-positive and grounded in consent, curiosity, and connecti...

In this episode, I’m diving into one of the most tender and transformative truths of all — that you deserve pleasure. Whether you’ve ever wondered if sex or sensuality is really “for you,” or felt that your role was to give rather than receive, this conversation is for you.

I share how deeply ingrained beliefs about women’s worth, love, and sexuality have shaped our connection to our bodies — and how we can begin to unlearn those patterns. This is about reclaiming your relationship to desire, remembering that your pleasure is sacred, and allowing yourself to receive the no...

Welcome back to the Connected Pleasure Podcast, my loves. In this episode, I’m talking about a topic I know can feel tricky—how to say yes to your own healing and pleasure work when you have a partner. I share my perspective on why investing in yourself is worth it and how to navigate those conversations with your partner if money or support feels like a potential barrier.

We also dive into the ripple effects of prioritizing yourself—how rising in your own love, safety, and pleasure actually benefits everyone around you. I reflect on the histor...

Welcome back, my loves.

In this episode, I wanted to offer you something a little different — a moment to pause, breathe, and come home to your body.

I know there’s been a lot of information shared this week as I open the doors to my 1:1 coaching container, so today I’m guiding you through a grounding practice — an invitation to feel your feet on the earth, your breath in your body, and the safety that already lives within you.

I also share more about how my work weaves together my background in sexualit...

Have you tried everything to bring back your desire — the toys, the books, the lingerie — and still feel like something’s missing?

In this episode, I talk about why quick fixes and “upping the ante” often don’t address what’s really blocking your pleasure. Together, we explore how disconnection in intimacy is often rooted in safety, shame, and old beliefs — not a lack of effort.

You’ll learn how to move beyond surface-level solutions and begin healing from the inside out, with compassion, awareness, and sacred curiosity.

✨ Explore Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back into t...

Many women have been taught to settle for “fine.”

Fine relationships. Fine sex. Fine intimacy.

But what if fine is actually a form of self-abandonment?

In today’s episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I explore one of the most common barriers to healing our relationship with sex and intimacy — the belief that pleasure isn’t important, or that life can go on just fine without it.

You’ll be invited to question what “fine” has cost you, and to imagine what might open if you gave yourself permission to want more — not more...

In this episode, I’m speaking to one of the most common hesitations I hear when women are considering deep, embodied healing work:

“I just don’t have time for this."

We live in a world that glorifies busyness — that rewards production and punishes rest. But here’s the truth: your healing requires space.

This journey isn’t about adding another thing to your overflowing to-do list. It’s about creating room to breathe, to feel, to reconnect with your body and your pleasure.

In this episode, I explore:

✨ Why slowing down...

Welcome back to the Connected Pleasure Podcast. I’m Kayla, your host (she/her/hers), and this is Day 2 of Open Cart Week — where I’m opening six spots for my 1:1 Coaching Container, available from October 6–12.

Today’s episode is about something that comes up for so many of the women I work with: the fear of being vulnerable — especially when it comes to talking about sex.

For many of us, sex was either never talked about growing up or it was actively shamed. So opening up about it — even with a compassionate, nonjudgmental professional — can feel terrify...

Welcome back to the Connected Pleasure Podcast. I’m Kayla, your host (she/her/hers), and this is the second episode of day one in our open cart week for my 1:1 Coaching Container — which officially opened today under the Full Moon in Aries (how divine is that?).

In this episode, I’m talking about one of the biggest myths I hear from women:

“I need a partner before I can do this kind of work.”

The truth is — you don’t need a partner to begin reclaiming your pleasure. This work is actually meant to begin...

The doors are officially open for Connected Pleasure Coaching, my sacred 1:1 container for women ready to reclaim their pleasure, remember their power, and come home to their bodies.

In this episode, I address one of the biggest questions that may be on your mind: the investment. I break down the cost, explain the value and transformation of this container, and share why a 1:1 coaching experience can accelerate your journey more than self-study ever could.

There are only 6 spots available, and this week is your chance to claim yours.

1:1 Coaching Container Details

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Welcome back, loves. In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain and sharing everything you need to know about my 1:1 Connected Pleasure Coaching container.

Over the last six mini-episodes, I’ve explored the “why” — why someone would enter this program, what barriers it helps dissolve, and the transformations it opens up. Today, I’m sharing the “how”: the structure, the sessions, and the deep intention woven into this container.

Here’s what you’ll hear:

🌙 My mission of weaving pleasure back into our collective and personal lives

🌙 Why this container is about more than just co...

So many women quietly carry the weight of painful sex—and with it, the fear, shame, and disconnection that pain can bring. If sex feels uncomfortable, or even unbearable, it makes sense that desire feels far away.

In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I explore how pain impacts intimacy and why it’s not your fault if you’ve struggled in this area. While pelvic floor physical therapists can support the physical side, my 1:1 coaching container creates space to gently unravel the fear, tension, and narratives that often fuel pain. Together, we work on rebuilding trust...

In this mini-episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m diving into what it means to live “from the neck up”—stuck in our heads, disconnected from our bodies, and unable to fully access pleasure.

So many of us have been conditioned to distrust our bodies, to push down emotions, and to operate only from the mind. But true pleasure, presence, and intimacy require embodiment. Together, we’ll explore:

So many women struggle with feeling disconnected from their bodies — carrying shame, anxiety, or even disgust around their appearance or pleasure. From childhood diet culture to the male gaze to trauma and dissociation, we are taught to mistrust, disconnect from, or even reject our own bodies.

In this mini episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I share why body disconnection is one of the biggest barriers to pleasure and how my 1:1 coaching container helps you gently shift into safety, worthiness, and sacred embodiment. Together, we work to release shame, reclaim your body as divine, and open space fo...

In this expansive conversation with Dr. Kristin Allott, we explore how our modern world shapes our relationship to pleasure, attention, and our bodies — and what it takes to reclaim them.

We talk about how screens hijack dopamine, why boredom is essential for creativity, and how we can shift from being consumers of life to active creators of joy and meaning. Kristin also shares her holistic approach to health and well-being, blending neuroscience, naturopathic medicine, and a deep respect for the body.

Together, we dive into:

✨ Why sex often feels like a chore for so m...

So many women come to me feeling like they are broken when it comes to desire, intimacy, or accessing pleasure. Whether it’s a sudden drop in desire, difficulty experiencing pleasure, or a lifelong disconnection from sexuality, society often reinforces the painful belief that something is “wrong” with you.

In this mini episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I share how my 1:1 coaching container creates space for women to explore these barriers with compassion, safety, and softness. Together we dismantle the belief of brokenness, uncover root causes like trauma, anxiety, or life transitions, and begin rewiring the nervou...

Is sex a chore? You’re not alone.

In this mini-episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I share one of the most common struggles women bring into my work: sex feels like another item on the to-do list. Instead of being regenerative and connective, it feels draining — another way of giving without receiving.

I open up about my own experience of this during grad school, and how stress and disconnection can make intimacy feel impossible. I also walk you through how my 1:1 coaching container helps women shift from obligation to liberation — reclaiming sex as a source...

💧 Our tears are weapons. Our pleasure is liberation.

In this special mini-series on the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m opening the doors to my 1:1 coaching container — an intimate 8-week journey designed to help you reclaim your pleasure, remember your power, and come home to your body.

Right now, the world feels heavy. Collectively, we’re grieving, awakening, and shifting into new ways of being. This is the moment to root ourselves back into pleasure — not just for our own healing, but for the ripple it creates in the collective.

In this episode, I share:

What happens when we choose to honor our bodies instead of hustle culture — and dream into futures beyond patriarchy’s limits? In this inspiring conversation, I’m joined by Camille A. Saunders, a professional witch, tarot reader, and host of the Everyday Tarot podcast. Together we explore what it means to reclaim time, land, and community as sources of pleasure, healing, and resilience.

Camille shares how she structures her schedule to honor her body’s rhythms, how and why she takes 12 weeks off a year, and how holding boundaries becomes sacred work. We discuss the collective consciousness and why...

What happens when we choose to honor our bodies instead of hustle culture — and dream into futures beyond patriarchy’s limits? In this inspiring conversation, I’m joined by Camille A. Saunders, a professional witch, tarot reader, and host of the Everyday Tarot podcast. Together we explore what it means to reclaim time, land, and community as sources of pleasure, healing, and resilience.

Camille shares how she structures her schedule to honor her body’s rhythms, how and why she takes 12 weeks off a year, and how holding boundaries becomes sacred work. We discuss the collective consciousness and why...

In this first-ever interview on the Connect to Pleasure podcast, I sit down with Dr. Angie Maxwell — pelvic floor physical therapist, founder of Madrona Physical Therapy in Tacoma, WA, and fierce advocate for women’s health.

We dive into: