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Why do we put off things we genuinely want to do?

Dana K. White, author of the New York Times bestseller Procrastinators Get Stuff Done:

joins Dr. Melanie Wilson on the Homeschool Sanity Show to explain.

Her answer isn’t “hustle harder.”

If you’re a busy homeschool mom who already feels stretched thin, this episode is for you.

Dana says the opposite of procrastination isn’t productivity. It’s progress. She also shares a simple way to get moving when you feel stuck.

Feeling overwhelmed by your to-do list? Melanie shares a practical, faith-centered way to make your list more manageable and focus on what matters most—without trying to do it all.Learn how to keep daily tasks realistic, make space for the unexpected, and approach homeschooling with more peace and less pressure.

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Melanie came to this network from a blogging conference. Felice met her, heard what she was doing, and invited her on — and the Homeschool Sanity Show has been steadying homeschool moms ever since.

For the thirteenth birthday, every host on the network takes one question. Just one. Here is hers.

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