The Alchemy of Sex and Spirit

In this opening episode of a new series, I draw upon more than 30 years’ experience to explore the history, philosophy and professional structure of Sexual Surrogate Partner Therapy.

Discover why authentic practice depends upon the therapeutic triad —the client, surrogate partner, and supervising therapist— and why sensitivity, psychological understanding, clear boundaries, and emotional maturity matter far more than simply being comfortable with sexuality.

This episode begins a journey into one of the rarest, most effective —and most misunderstood— approaches to overcoming sexual anxiety, shame and fear of intimacy.

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Join me on a journey to rediscover the Self you lost:

Not the personality you learned to perform.Not the mask you developed to survive.Not the roles, anxieties, reactions, memories, wounds, fantasies, or fears you have come to mistake for yourself... But something deeper.

In this episode, I invite you onto a symbolic train journey towards the mystery of "I Am" —passing through the stations of the Body, Personality, Essence, Waking, Dream, Sleep, and Shadow.

Along the way, we begin to see how easily we identify with the outer layers of ourselves, an...

What if you were not born broken, lacking, or unattractive… but born magnetic?

In this episode of The Alchemy of Sex and Spirit, I explore how our natural magnetism is present from birth, and how it becomes hidden beneath personality, conditioning, anxiety, and self-image. Drawing on esoteric psychology, essence, planetary influences, and the question “Who am I?”, this episode offers a powerful invitation to rediscover the magnetic self beneath the mask.

Includes a closing Magical Practice and an introduction to David’s free e-book, Attract Love: The Power of Personal Magnetism. See the link to download...

In this episode of The Alchemy of Sex and Spirit, we begin exploring the science of attraction—not through effort, technique, or performance, but through the deeper principle of personal magnetism.

Discover why true attraction arises from being at ease with yourself, rather than trying to impress. This episode introduces the first stage of a powerful four-part journey: recognising the false personality and reconnecting with your authentic, magnetic self.

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In this opening episode for season 3: Sexual Magnetism, I explore why some people naturally attract love, connection, and opportunity, while others struggle, despite their sincerity.

Moving beyond surface explanations, I introduce the deeper laws of polarity, energy, and magnetism that shape human attraction.

Discover how your unseen energetic field influences relationships, and why true sexual magnetism isn’t something you do… but something you embody

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Exploding the popular misconceptions surrounding sex and exploring the mystery and esoteric nature of sexuality, this episode explains the power of sexual healing through Surrogate Partner Therapy.

But what is a Surrogate Partner? What are the popular misconceptions? What attributes or gifts do they possess? Why are there so few of them? Why are so little known about them? How does somebody become a Surrogate Partner?

Surrogate Partner Therapy helps individuals to unlearn sexual illusion in order to re-learn sexual reality, and in the process, become a whole and integrated human being. In this episode...

Sexual Surrogate Partner Therapy has been misunderstood by many... Would you like to know what it really is? What it means? Who is this for?... In this episode I will explain its origins, how it works, and why I came into this work.

When practised ethically, Sexual Surrogate Partner Therapy is a structured, psychologically informed, three-way therapeutic model involving the client, the surrogate partner, and the supervising therapist. It is designed to help individuals overcome psychogenic sexual dysfunction, performance anxiety, intimacy fear and deep-rooted sexual shame.

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In this episode of The Alchemy of Sex and Spirit, I explore sex magic not as fantasy or taboo, but as a disciplined, conscious relationship with one of the most creative forces available to human beings: sexual energy itself.

Sex magic is not about adding something exotic to sex. It is about recognising that sexual energy already shapes consciousness, relationships, and even the direction of our lives. The real question is not whether sex is magical, but whether we engage with it consciously or unconsciously.

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In this episode I explore the origins of Karezza, its rediscovery through conscious sexuality, and its relevance for modern couples seeking deeper bonding, trust, and lasting attraction.

You’ll discover how slowing down, containing sexual energy, and prioritising tenderness can transform sex from a moment of release into a source of healing, vitality, and spiritual connection.

Long before modern sex therapy, the Taoists understood sex as healthcare. Sexual energy was not something to be spent or depleted, but life-energy itself, capable of nourishing the body, calming the nervous system, deepening intimacy, and sustaining long-term vitality.

In this episode, I explore Taoist sexual principles including Yin–Yang dynamics in intimacy, why women’s pleasure was considered central to health and longevity, the idea of abundant arousal with intentional ejaculation, the Sets of Nine rhythm, and the circulation of sexual energy through the Microcosmic Orbit.

If sex has ever felt unsatisfying, draining, or disc...

A mysterious guide leads me to a hidden cave high in the mountains and into a meeting with Vatsyayana, author of the Kama Sutra.

In this episode, we uncover the true purpose of the world’s most misunderstood text: a spiritual and psychological guide to sexual intimacy, pleasure, and self-discovery. We explore the ancient science of arousal, the art of mindful touch, female orgasm, sacred sexuality, sensual confidence, and how desire reflects the same creative force that shapes the universe.

This is not about erotic techniques alone; it’s about healing shame, deepening connection, and awak...

What if Adam and Eve was never a story about sex, sin and shame at all… but about awakening?

This episode goes beyond the familiar interpretation. Here, Adam and Eve are revealed as living energies within the body — consciousness and life-force uniting in the heart to awaken the “Sacred Marriage”.

Adam and Eve are symbols of our deepest spiritual potential.

In this episode, David reveals the esoteric dimension of the Biblical story — where Adam is the descending current of consciousness and Eve is the rising current of life-force. Their meeting isn’t a fall… it’s a union.

Drawing on the esoteric version of Sleeping Beauty, David explores the erotic...

In the late 1960s, a powerful awakening moved through the West; not just social change, but the stirring of Kundalini: the Serpent Power. 

When Eastern meditation entered Western culture, something deep in the collective psyche began to rise: creativity, desire, rebellion, and a hunger for consciousness. 

This episode explores how that current ignited, why it shook a generation, and how the Serpent Power continues to shape intimacy, spirituality, and personal transformation today.

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What is Quantum Sex? It’s not a technique, it’s the synthesis of all Eastern and Western mystical sexual paths, schools, tantras and yogas. A way of understanding sexual energy as a creative, spiritual force at the core of all existence.

What is Quantum Sex? It’s the meeting point of every major esoteric sexual tradition woven into a single path of consciousness, creativity, and inner transformation.

In this episode, you’ll discover why Quantum Sex isn’t a technique or ideology, but a way of seeing sex: as consciousness in motion, as the marriage of...

Welcome to The Alchemy of Sex and Spirit — where sex, psychology, and spirit meet.

In this opening episode of Season Two, David Brown begins an extraordinary new journey into the mysteries of Quantum Sex —the meeting point of consciousness, energy, and desire. 

Tracing his lifelong search for “The Source of All,” David shares profound personal encounters with the Presence he calls his Holy Guardian Angel; moments of luminous revelation that transformed the course of his life and work.

From a post-war childhood in London to years spent in spiritual community, and eventually to the found...

Sex is far more than pleasure, performance or romance. It is the Universal Creative Force that shapes every aspect of human life. In this episode, I reveal the first layers of the Sex Mysteries: the hidden purpose of sexual energy, the role it plays in health, creativity and consciousness, and why most people never move beyond the first two limited types of sex. If you sense there is more to sex than the physical act, you are right. Stay until this week’s Magical Practice to begin awakening the energy at the core of your existence.

Most people believe their physical body is who they are; but that’s the greatest mistake of all.

In this episode, we’ll explore the mystery of the subtle body: the unseen field of living energy that surrounds, sustains and connects us with the cosmos. Discover how this life force governs health, emotion and sexuality —and how awakening to it can transform your energy, creativity and relationships.

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Where do your thoughts come from: Are the brain and the mind the same thing? Whenever the mind is mentioned, most people automatically think of the brain, but... there's far more to the mind than simply the physical organ in our head.

In this episode of The Alchemy of Sex and Spirit, we explore the mystery of the mind beyond the physical organ of the brain.

I explain the true nature of the ego, how “little selves” shape our destiny, and how meditation can free us from the tyranny of negative thoughts.

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In this episode of The Alchemy of Sex and Spirit, we explore the mysterious world of feelings—from sensation and emotion to soul, psychic, and ecstatic feeling. Discover how learning the language of feelings transforms intimacy and love into a spiritual experience. Stay until the end for a powerful Magical Practice to awaken your heart and connect with the Divine through feeling itself. It could change everything.

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Welcome to The Alchemy of Sex and Spirit: Where Sex, Psychology, and Spirit Meet.

In this episode, we’re diving into a powerful idea: your intimate relationship isn’t just love and companionship —it’s a Magical Path. The way you and your partner connect can unlock extraordinary creative energy and help you bring your deepest desires into reality. I’ll explain why opposites attract, why they later clash, and how to transform that tension into growth and possibility.

Stay with me until the end for today’s Magical Practice; a simple but eye-opening exercise that could comp...

If your relationship feels stuck — or if love has let you down before — this episode will help you see intimacy in a whole new way. I share the Master Keys: universal principles that make relationships resilient and deeply fulfilling. You’ll discover how masculine and feminine energies create true connection, why love itself is indestructible, and what mental shifts protect your bond from breakdown. With the “Magical Practice” at the end of this episode, you’ll start defining what you truly want and learn how to build a relationship that’s alive, purposeful and lasting.

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Sex is one of the greatest mysteries of human life. It can bring joy, love, and connection, or confusion, anxiety, and heartbreak. For some, it feels sacred; for others, it feels messy or even dangerous. In this episode, we explore sex as both a force for pleasure and creativity and a source of struggle and pain. At the centre of this mystery, are the Seven Stages of Sexual Development, which begin from the moment we’re born and continue shaping our relationships throughout life. These stages influence how we love, how we connect, and even the qualities of the ch...

Lovemaking is more than just pleasure; it's a powerful energy source that can heal trauma, restore connection, and awaken the soul.

This episode of The Alchemy of Sex and Spirit explores the deeper mystery behind why we are drawn so irresistibly to love and sex. Far beyond technique or physical gratification, lovemaking has the potential to reconnect us to the divine source of life and love itself. When consciously chosen, it can dissolve conflict, heal trauma, and even transform anger into reconciliation.

Real intimacy can by-pass emotional blockages, alleviate depression, and restore our sense of w...

Explore The Seven Stages of Love, and discover how love can heal, awaken, and transform your life.

What is love—really? And how does it evolve as we grow through life?

This deep and soulful episode of The Alchemy of Sex and Spirit, maps out The Seven Stages of Love, offering a powerful framework for understanding love as a living, transformative force. From the foundational bonds of family and friendship to the ecstatic highs —and hidden dangers— of romantic love, this episode explores how our relationship with love must evolve if we are to find true hea...

Could love and sex provide the keys to physical and mental healing, and an end to wars?

Love itself can never hurt; it can only heal! Is the lack of love that causes pain and suffering. In fact, throughout history and throughout the world, all suffering is simply the effect of missed opportunities to love.

Love isn’t simply an emotion, and sex isn’t just a physical act. They are keys to mental and physical health, to improved relationships, and to peace in the world.

In a culture obsessed with searching for energy...

The Alchemy of Sex and Spirit: Where sex, psychology and spirit meet.