Hold on Tight Podcast

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By: Marc LaFleur

🎙️Hold On Tight is the unapologetically real podcast about resilience, wellness, relationships, love and rebuilding life. New episodes every Friday👇

Ep.35 In The Blood
#35
04/03/2026

In this episode, Marc LaFleur explores how inherited emotional patterns influence our relationships, reactions, and identity. He challenges the idea that certain traits are unchangeable, emphasizing the power of awareness, choice, and intentional growth to break generational cycles.

Main Topics:

How inherited programming from childhood impacts adult behaviors and reactionsThe science behind attachment patterns and familiar emotional responses in relationshipsStrategies for breaking destructive cycles and rewriting family legacyRecognizing and differentiating between familiarity and true compatibilityThe role of awareness and intentional action in personal and generational healing




Ep.34: 8 Things I Stopped Caring About and So Should You
#34
03/27/2026

Marc LaFleur shares the top eight things he's stopped caring about and how letting go has transformed his life. This episode explores personal growth, authenticity, patience, and the power of release.

Key Topics

Letting go of control and the need for immediate resultsAuthenticity and standing firm in core valuesThe importance of patience and long-term growth


Ep.33 Forgiveness
#33
03/20/2026

In this episode, Marc explores the timeless truth about forgiveness and how it frees us from emotional and physical pain. Whether you're struggling with resentment or seeking peace, learn practical steps to move from hurt to healing and reclaim your energy.Key topics:

The universal teachings on forgiveness across religions and philosophiesHow holding onto anger impacts your body and mindThe four-stage framework of genuine forgiveness: Hate, Hurt, Healing, ReleaseWhy closure often comes from within, not from othersThe importance of boundaries and forgiving yourselfPractical tips for forgiving family, friends, colleagues, and even yourselfHow forgiveness leads to emotional liberation and...


Ep.32: Love Again with Jalissa Deveraux
#32
03/13/2026

Summary

In this episode, Jalissa Deveraux shares her journey of rebuilding life after divorce, navigating single motherhood, and maintaining faith in love. The conversation explores resilience, vulnerability, masculine and feminine energy, and honest communication in relationships.

Key Topics

Rebuilding identity after divorceThe role of vulnerability and honesty in relationshipsUnderstanding masculine and feminine energy dynamicsThe importance of self-discovery and self-loveEffective communication and setting boundaries in dating


Ep.31: Emotional Surgery with Blake Goldsmith
#31
03/06/2026

Summary

In this episode, Blake Goldsmith shares insights on attachment wounds, somatic healing, and emotional surgery, emphasizing the importance of embodied work over just intellectual understanding. Discover how to recognize and heal deep-seated wounds to foster secure relationships and personal growth.

Key Topics

Attachment wounds reveal, don't create, relationship triggersSomatic healing as a path to embodied changeThe mirror effect in relationships and healingDistinguishing between protection and avoidanceThe roots of anxious and avoidant attachment stylesThe importance of emotional regulation and responseHealing childhood wounds through inner child workThe impact of...


Ep.30: Love The Journey
#30
02/27/2026

Summary

In this episode of Hold On Tight, Marc LaFleur reflects on the journey of resilience, self-discovery, and the importance of community. He shares personal experiences that highlight how adversity shapes our true selves and reveals hidden strengths. The conversation emphasizes the significance of being present in the moment and embracing the process of growth, rather than focusing solely on outcomes. Marc encourages listeners to hold on tight through life's challenges and to appreciate the lessons learned along the way.

Takeaways

Resilience is about consistency, not toughness.Perseverance...


Ep.29: You’re Not Broken with Pegah Kadkhodaian
#29
02/20/2026

Summary

In this episode, we explore the nuanced differences between resilience and perseverance, and delve into practical strategies for regulating the nervous system, managing emotions, and cultivating true inner strength. Whether you're recovering from a major life shift or striving to improve your daily mental well-being, this conversation offers grounded insights to help you rebuild and thrive.

Key Topics

The distinction between resilience and perseverance—why both matterHow childhood experiences influence resilience developmentThe importance of nervous system regulation in stress responsesThe role of labeling emotions and understanding sensations versus identitiesBuilding an...


Ep.28: Success on the Outside, Disconnected on the Inside with Lauren Dry
#28
02/13/2026

Summary

In this episode, Marc LaFleur and Lauren Dry discuss the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on high performers who often carry the weight of the world on their shoulders. They explore how resentment builds in relationships, the importance of self-trust, and the impact of childhood experiences on adult behavior. Lauren shares insights on how to break the cycle of shame and inauthenticity, emphasizing the need for self-compassion and the journey towards authenticity. The conversation highlights the significance of deep, authentic relationships in contributing to overall happiness and well-being.

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Ep.27: The Top 10 People Worth Dating
#27
02/06/2026

Summary

In this episode, Marc LaFleur discusses the qualities that make someone worth dating, shifting the focus from red flags to positive attributes. He outlines ten essential traits, including self-awareness, emotional availability, accountability, and independence, emphasizing that lasting relationships are built on capacity, growth, and mutual support. The conversation highlights the importance of discernment in choosing partners who can navigate life's challenges together, ultimately fostering a deeper, more meaningful connection.

Takeaways

Dating should focus on who is worth dating, not just who to avoid.Self-awareness is crucial for resolving conflicts...


Ep.26: Healing before Hinge with Chelsea Ferguson
#26
01/30/2026

Summary

In this episode, Marc LaFleur and Chelsea Ferguson discuss the complexities of navigating life after divorce, emphasizing the importance of emotional readiness, self-reflection, and the difference between performative healing and true reinvention. They explore the challenges of dating apps, the significance of building confidence, and the necessity of authenticity in relationships. The conversation is filled with personal anecdotes, practical advice, and humor, making it relatable for anyone re-entering the dating scene post-divorce.

Takeaways

The emotional work after divorce is just beginning.Jumping into new relationships without healing can be...


Ep. 25 The Silent Divorce with Lisa Miller
#25
01/23/2026

Summary
In this episode of Hold On Tight, Marc LaFleur and Lisa Miller delve into the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on the pivotal question of whether to stay or leave a marriage. They explore the emotional nuances behind this decision, emphasizing the importance of self-care, communication, and understanding one's own needs. Lisa shares insights on the silent divorce phenomenon, where couples coexist without emotional connection, and offers practical advice for couples seeking to rekindle intimacy. The conversation highlights the significance of self-forgiveness and personal growth in navigating relationship challenges, ultimately encouraging listeners to engage in...


Ep.24: You Were Saying? The Science of Self-Talk
#24
01/16/2026

Summary

In this episode, Marc LaFleur explores the concept of self-talk, emphasizing its significance in emotional regulation and personal development. He discusses the different types of self-talk, the impact of emotional dysregulation, and how intentional self-talk can lead to better decision-making and discipline. LaFleur provides practical tips for harnessing the power of self-talk to improve mental clarity and emotional resilience, ultimately encouraging listeners to be more aware of their inner dialogue and use it as a tool for growth.

Takeaways

Self-talk is a constant internal dialogue...


Ep.23: Okay. I Understand. Love in 2026
#23
01/09/2026

Summary

In this episode, Marc LaFleur explores the complexities of love, emphasizing its enduring nature despite modern challenges. He discusses the importance of trust, healing, and self-discovery in relationships, and outlines the three phases of love: fireworks, candle, and mirror. LaFleur encourages listeners to confront their emotional barriers and choose love intentionally, highlighting that true love requires vulnerability and growth.

Takeaways

Love has been a fundamental force for over 200,000 years.True love is built on choice, not convenience.Modern dating often leads to loneliness despite increased options.Love demands patience...


Ep.22: Bonded Brotherhood with Jeff Low
#22
01/02/2026

Summary

In this episode of Hold On Tight, Marc LaFleur speaks with Jeff Low, founder of Bonded Brotherhood, about the importance of community and vulnerability for men. They discuss the challenges men face in expressing emotions, the myths surrounding masculinity, and the critical need for connection and support. Jeff shares insights from his own journey and the transformative impact of the Ascent program, emphasizing that men are not alone in their struggles and that building authentic relationships is essential for personal growth and mental health.

Takeaways

None of us get...


Ep.21 The Truth with Devin The One
#21
12/26/2025

Summary

In this engaging conversation, Marc LaFleur and Devin Linder delve into the themes of truth, accountability, and personal growth. They discuss the importance of recognizing one's current situation, the necessity of making micro changes, and the significance of self-care in a chaotic life. The dialogue also explores the victim mentality and the power of ownership, emphasizing the need to reframe one's identity and take responsibility for personal growth. Devin shares practical advice on building habits and the importance of honest self-check-ins, culminating in an exclusive 60-second bomb of wisdom.

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Ep.20: Who Are You Now? Rebuilding Identity, and Self After Divorce with Rudy A
#20
12/19/2025

Summary

In this episode, Marc LaFleur and breakup coach Rudy A discuss the challenges men face after divorce, including identity loss, accountability, and the importance of community. They explore how to rebuild oneself, navigate new relationships, and reconnect with sexuality while emphasizing the need for emotional support and healing. Rudy shares personal experiences and practical advice for men to take charge of their healing journey and foster healthier relationships moving forward.

Takeaways

Rediscovering identity after divorce is crucial.Accountability is key to personal growth.Healing takes time and should not...


Ep.19: Diagnoses, Feelings & Raising Humans with Gayle Alexander
#19
12/12/2025

Summary

In this conversation, Marc LaFleur and Gayle Alexander explore the complexities of mental health, emotional regulation, and parenting. They discuss the implications of diagnoses, the importance of resilience in children, and how emotions, both positive and negative, play a crucial role in personal growth. The conversation emphasizes the need for parents to manage their own emotions to better support their children, the value of community and group therapy, and the ongoing stigma surrounding therapy. Gayle shares practical advice for parents on navigating after-school emotions and fostering resilience in their children.

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Ep.18: Masculine, Feminine, and All the Chaos in Between with Stephanie Lindeman
#18
12/05/2025

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In this episode, Marc LaFleur interviews Stephanie Lindeman, an attachment therapist and life coach, discussing the complexities of attachment styles, the dynamics of masculine and feminine energy, and the importance of emotional connection in relationships. They explore the anxious-avoidant dynamic, cultural shifts in dating, and the impact of shame-driven masculinity. Stephanie emphasizes the need for vulnerability and effective communication to bridge gaps in relationships and highlights the significance of understanding one's attachment style for healthier connections.

Takeaways

Masculine energy provides structure while feminine energy brings emotionality...


Ep.17: 7 Minutes of Real Thanks-Giving 🦃
#17
11/27/2025

Summary

In this conversation, Marc LaFleur discusses the transformative power of heartbreak and personal growth. He emphasizes the importance of perspective in navigating life's challenges, encouraging listeners to embrace change and trust the journey. By reframing difficult moments as opportunities for learning, individuals can cultivate resilience and a more positive outlook on life.

Takeaways

You stop taking heartbreak personally.You stop questioning your worth.You stop waiting for closure.You start trusting redirections.You start seeing hard moments as data, not disasters.Life stops feeling like something you're trying to...


Ep.16: Top 10 Things I Would've Done Differently as a Dad
#16
11/21/2025

Summary

In this episode, Marc LaFleur reflects on his journey as a father, sharing the top ten things he wishes he had done differently. He emphasizes the importance of embracing the messiness of parenting, separating roles, avoiding comparisons, trusting instincts, redefining success, prioritizing self-care, and being kind to oneself. Through personal anecdotes and insights, he encourages parents to focus on love, presence, and growth rather than perfection.

Takeaways

I wouldn't have worried so much about the messes.I'd separate my role as a husband from my role as a dad...


Ep.15: Surviving with Grief - Sgt. Alfred Brenner IV
#15
11/14/2025

Summary

In this conversation, Sgt. Alfred Brenner IV,  shares his profound journey of recovery and self-discovery after a traumatic experience. He reflects on the struggle to find purpose in his suffering and emphasizes the importance of faith in overcoming anxiety and embracing life's challenges. Brenner's insights reveal a transformative perspective on resilience and the belief that every experience has a reason behind it.

Takeaways

I was blown up for a reason.Every day I struggled with, if there was such a purpose, what is it?You h...


Ep:14: Exploring Narcissism with Nawal Houghton
#14
11/07/2025

Summary

This conversation explores narcissism and high-conflict dynamics in general.  The goal is education, not diagnosis.

In this conversation, Nawal Houghton discusses the concept of narcissism, explaining that it exists on a spectrum. She emphasizes that while everyone has some narcissistic traits, these can be healthy when they involve self-care. However, problems arise when these traits begin to negatively impact others, leading to a darker side of narcissism.

Takeaways

Narcissism exists on a spectrum.Everyone has some level of narcissism.Healthy narcissism involves self-care practices.Taking c...


Ep.13: Modern Fatherhood with Pat Barber from The Father's Guild
#13
10/31/2025

Summary

In this episode, Marc LaFleur and Pat Barber discuss the challenges of modern fatherhood, the importance of self-honesty, and the necessity of self-care for men. They explore how men can define their identities amidst societal pressures, the role of partners in supporting mental health, and the power of language in shaping self-perception. The conversation emphasizes the significance of journaling and self-talk as tools for personal growth and reflection, while also addressing the foundational role of fitness in overall well-being. Ultimately, the episode encourages men to take small, consistent steps towards becoming the best versions...


Ep.12: Fear Forward with Sabrina Shafer
#12
10/24/2025

Summary

In this engaging conversation, Marc LaFleur and Sabrina Shafer explore the concept of 'Fear Forward,' a mindset that encourages individuals to embrace fear as a catalyst for growth and resilience. Sabrina shares her personal experiences and insights on how to practice fear forward, build confidence, and lead authentically in both personal and professional settings. They discuss the importance of accountability, the role of adversity in developing resilience, and the value of vulnerability in leadership. The episode concludes with light-hearted H.O.T. Mess moments, emphasizing the beauty of imperfection and the learning journey.<...


Ep.11: Top 10 Things Men Aren't Telling Women
#11
10/17/2025

Summary

In this episode, Marc LaFleur discusses the often unspoken struggles men face, particularly around mental health, emotional connection, and the need for validation. He emphasizes the importance of communication, the impact of loneliness, and the desire for deeper connections in relationships. Through ten key insights, he encourages men to open up about their feelings and for partners to understand and support them better, fostering a healthier emotional environment.

Takeaways

Men often feel isolated and struggle to rebuild connections after their twenties.Compliments are crucial for men's self-esteem and emotional...


Ep.10: Navigating the Modern Man's Journey with Addison Shock
#10
10/10/2025

Summary

In this episode of Hold On Tight, host Marc LaFleur engages in a deep conversation with men's life and relationship coach Addison Shock. They explore the evolving role of men in society, the importance of emotional vulnerability, and the barriers men face in seeking mental health support. Addison shares insights on self-reflection, the power of curiosity, and the balance between strength and vulnerability in relationships. The discussion also touches on effective communication and personal stories that highlight the challenges men encounter in their emotional journeys.

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Ep.9: with Rebuilding After Divorce with Kristin Batykefer
#9
10/03/2025

Summary

In this episode of Hold On Tight, Marc LaFleur engages in a heartfelt conversation with Kristin Batykefer about the complexities of rebuilding life after divorce. They explore the challenges of co-parenting, the importance of forgiveness, and the significance of understanding attachment styles in relationships. Kristin shares her insights on balancing feminine energy and masculinity, emphasizing the need for men to embrace their emotional side. The discussion also highlights the value of curiosity in relationships and the importance of asking the right questions. Ultimately, the episode serves as a reminder that...


Ep. 8: 11 Hard Truths I Couldn’t Ignore
#8
09/26/2025

In this episode, Marc LaFleur shares 11 hard truths he has learned about life, love, work, and personal growth, emphasizing the need for balance, authenticity, and the power of love and forgiveness. The conversation transitions into a lighter segment where he shares his humorous opinions on food, showcasing his personality and relatability.

Takeaways

A simple conversation can save a life.Not everything in life is going to come up perfect at one time.Work should fuel your life, not consume it.Be your own role model; nobody's coming to save you.You're going...


Ep.7: Fitness is the Foundation with Jesse Tejero
#7
09/19/2025

In this episode of Hold On Tight, host Marc discusses the importance of fitness as a foundation for overall well-being with Jesse Tejero, a performance coach. They explore the statistics surrounding adult fitness levels, the significance of discipline over motivation, and how physical fitness impacts mental and emotional health. Jesse shares insights on finding inspiration, setting goals, overcoming setbacks, and the vital role of coaches in fitness journeys. They also touch on nutrition, emphasizing the importance of protein in a balanced diet. The conversation concludes with personal reflections on life's challenges and the importance of resilience in fitness and...


Ep.6: The P.R.E.S.E.N.T.
#6
09/12/2025

Summary

In this episode, Marc LaFleur emphasizes the importance of living in the present moment and offers practical tools to help listeners cultivate mindfulness. He discusses the significance of honoring the past, reducing distractions, practicing gratitude, establishing daily anchors, and trusting the moment. Through personal anecdotes and actionable advice, Marc encourages listeners to embrace the present as the only place where life truly happens.

Takeaways

September is suicide prevention month; check in on each other.The past shapes who we are but should not define us.Forgiveness is essential for...


Ep.5: Relationship Attachment Styles with Sydni LaFleur
#5
09/05/2025

Summary

In this conversation, Marc LaFleur and attachment style life coach Sydni LaFleur delve into the intricacies of attachment theory, exploring how it affects relationships and emotional intimacy. They discuss the different attachment styles—secure, anxious, and avoidant—and how understanding these can lead to healthier connections. Sydni emphasizes the importance of self-care, emotional regulation, and the need for open communication in relationships. The discussion also touches on the significance of reparenting oneself and the challenges of navigating relationships with different attachment styles. The episode concludes with a personal anecdote from Sydni, highlighting the...


Ep.4: Behind the Sign: A Real Estate Life with Natalie Marsh
#4
08/29/2025

Summary
In this episode of Hold on Tight, Marc discusses the emotional complexities of selling a home, especially during a divorce, with real estate expert Natalie Marsh. They explore the current market conditions, the challenges faced by divorcing couples, and strategies to minimize emotional stress during the selling process. Natalie emphasizes the importance of communication, understanding market dynamics, and the need for compassion in real estate transactions. The conversation also touches on the balance between professional responsibilities and personal life, highlighting the significance of support networks and self-care.

Takeaways

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Ep.3: Calm Parenting with Kirk Martin from Calm Parenting Podcast
#3
08/22/2025

Summary

In this conversation, Kirk Martin, founder of Celebrate Calm, shares practical strategies for parents dealing with anxiety in children, co-parenting challenges, and managing their own emotional responses. He emphasizes the importance of self-control, creating routines, and recognizing the strengths in strong-willed children. The discussion also touches on the significance of maintaining a calm demeanor as a parent and the need for self-improvement in parenting practices.

Takeaways

Anxiety in children can stem from feeling out of control.Normalizing anxiety helps children understand their feelings.Providing children...


Ep. 2: Breaking the Cycle of Emotional Suppression with Tanji Wendorff
#2
08/15/2025

In Episode 2, Marc LaFleur and Tanji Wendorff explore the complexities of emotional suppression, particularly among men, and the importance of mental health advocacy. They discuss the impact of trauma on emotional health, the connection between physical pain and emotional distress, and the significance of community and vulnerability in healing. Tanji emphasizes the need for men to reconnect with their emotions in healthy ways and the role of women in supporting this journey. The discussion also touches on redefining masculinity and the societal pressures that contribute to toxic behaviors. Ultimately, the conversation encourages listeners to embrace vulnerability and...


Ep.1: The Comeback Starts Here
#1
08/08/2025

Welcome to Hold On Tight—a podcast for men navigating divorce, heartbreak, fatherhood, and finding their footing again.

In this debut episode, Marc LaFleur lays it all out. From personal wreckage to generational trauma, from gym therapy to emotional resilience—this is not a self-help lecture. It’s a raw, real, no-bullshit call to arms for men who are done pretending they’re fine.

You’ll hear:

Why “you don’t need fixing—you need a reset”How emotional suppression turns into shrapnelWhat fitness and gratitude have to do with survivalWhy showing up for yourself isn’t wea...