The Pickup Line

Summer is here and it's time to finally stop putting yourself last!

This week Mauri and Dina are getting into rooftops in Atlanta, girls trips,  spontaneous plans, and all the things we keep putting off because life got in the way.

They get into the empty nesting experience, what it actually feels like when your college kid comes home and suddenly you are roommates, how to plan a girls trip with friends who actually have their act together, why the best memories are never the ones you over-planned, and why getting out of mom mode i...

Why do you keep ending up in situationships? Why does it feel like you are running out of time? 

This week Mauri goes solo to answer the questions about dating, standards, knowing yourself, money and power in relationships, and why being in your 30s without a ring or a baby does not mean you are behind. 

🎙️ Real Talk. Real Life. Real Moms.Welcome to The Pick Up Line Podcast — the unfiltered, unapologetic podcast where single moms Dina and Mauri keep it real about motherhood, personal growth, healing, and second chances. Whether you're in the carpool lane or s...

#singlemotherhood #podcast #coparenting 

When your children are moving between two homes, your job as a parent does not pause at the door. The security, consistency, and standards have to travel with them.

We are talking about what it means to make sure your children feel genuinely welcomed and safe whether they are with mom or with dad, the shared responsibilities that both parents have to honor, and some of the questions people argue about in private but never address directly.

This episode is for every co-parent who wants to do this the right w...

#singlemom  #childsupport  #financialreality #singleparenting #momlife  #coparenting 

Child support is not a salary. It was never meant to be. And for most single mothers, it barely scratches the surface of what it actually costs to raise a child alone.

This week we are having the financial conversation that single parents need to hear. What it really means to be the primary provider emotionally, practically, and financially when the other parent's contribution is the legal minimum and the rest falls entirely on you. 

This is not a pity conversation but one for the woman who are t...

#motherhood #coparenting #datingafterdivorce  #singlemoms #divorcerecovery

Divorce is one thing. Figuring out who you are on the other side of it is a whole different journey.

This week our host Mauri sits down with guest Jamilla for a conversation that is honest, layered, and long overdue. They are talking about what it really takes to raise children after a marriage ends, how to build a co-parenting relationship that actually works for the kids, and what it means to find yourself again after years of pouring everything into a marriage and a family.

If you a...

#podcast #domesticviolenceawareness #datingadvice 
⚠️ Content warning: This episode contains discussion of domestic violence, murder-suicide, and violence against women. Please listen with care.

This week we are sitting down for one of the most important conversations we have had on this show. Because what is happening to women and specifically to Black women right now cannot be ignored, minimized, or talked around anymore.

We are not here to judge. We are here to talk about it honestly the red flags, the different faces of abuse, why abusers do not change and what it means to protect yours...

#nbalifestyle  #dating #datingadviceforwomen #singlemoms #startingover   #coparenting 

The glam. The courtside seats. The lifestyle you see on television. That is not the whole story.

This week we have our very own Mauri Goans sitting down to share and inform ladies on the lifestyle of a WAG and the difference you see living it versus what you see on television! 

⏱ TIMESTAMPS
00:00:17 Let the man chase you don't chase him!
00:00:10 You don't want someone who is for everybody
00:01:03 Once a man reaches a certain level of money and status they all become the same

#mompodcast  #collegelife  #blackparenting  #hbcu  #momlife #mother  #blackpodcast 

You did everything right. You raised them, guided them, prayed over them. And now it's time to drop them off at college and drive away. So why does it feel like the hardest thing you've ever done?

This week we're sitting down and getting honest about what sending your child to college really looks like the pride, the fear, the boundaries, and the moments nobody prepares you for. We're talking HBCUs versus PWIs, whether you should even give your child the choice, what college looked like for us versus...

#interracialdating #raceinamerica #dating  #datingadvice  #realtalk  #mompodcast 

Race. Identity. Love. And all the stuff people are scared to say out loud. 🤎

This week we're going there and we are NOT holding back. We're talking about what it really means to grow up biracial, whether dating outside your race makes you a sellout, why white families cut their own kids off for marrying a Black man, and why racism will never fully make sense to them because they didn't grow up with it.

If you've ever been in an interracial relationship, raised biracial kids, or just sa...

Motherhood is beautiful. And it is A LOT. Two things can be true at once. 

In this episode, we're getting into ALL of it. From epidurals and long labors to postpartum depression, robot babysitters, and navigating your ex's new family... we said what we said.

Whether you're expecting, newly postpartum, raising kids solo, or co-parenting in complicated situations this one is for YOU.

Pull up, grab something to drink, and let's talk about it.

TIMESTAMPS
00:01:03 How having babies has changed over the years
00:02:55 Would you get an epidural for b...

What happened to Jada West really puts things into perspective, and it led us into a real conversation about kids, bullying, and how things escalate. We talk about responsibility, how kids are reacting to situations now, and what we’re actually teaching them when it comes to handling conflict.

We are actively praying for all parties effected by this tragedy. 

🎙️ Real Talk. Real Life. Real Moms.Welcome to The Pick Up Line Podcast — the unfiltered, unapologetic podcast where single moms Dina and Mauri keep it real about motherhood, personal growth, healing, and second chances. Whether you're in...

Are you opposed to dating men who don’t show up for their children? Share your thoughts on prenups, child support, and what actually matters once kids are involved. It turns into a bigger conversation about accountability, motherhood, and why so many women feel like they’re doing it all.

It’s a little uncomfortable, and probably a conversation more people need to have so lets have it! 

🎙️ Real Talk. Real Life. Real Moms.Welcome to The Pick Up Line Podcast — the unfiltered, unapologetic podcast where single moms Dina and Mauri keep it real about motherhood, pe...

Are you opposed to dating men who don’t show up for their children? Share your thoughts on prenups, child support, and what actually matters once kids are involved. It turns into a bigger conversation about accountability, motherhood, and why so many women feel like they’re doing it all.

It’s a little uncomfortable, and probably a conversation more people need to have so lets have it! 

🎙️ Real Talk. Real Life. Real Moms.Welcome to The Pick Up Line Podcast — the unfiltered, unapologetic podcast where single moms Dina and Mauri keep it real about motherhood, pe...

Are you opposed to dating men who don’t show up for their children? Share your thoughts on prenups, child support, and what actually matters once kids are involved. It turns into a bigger conversation about accountability, motherhood, and why so many women feel like they’re doing it all.

It’s a little uncomfortable, and probably a conversation more people need to have so lets have it! 

🎙️ Real Talk. Real Life. Real Moms.Welcome to The Pick Up Line Podcast — the unfiltered, unapologetic podcast where single moms Dina and Mauri keep it real about motherhood, pe...

Co-parenting isn’t about control it’s about your responsibility.

In this episode, we talk about high effort parenting, letting go of resentment after a breakup, and why you can’t force someone to show up as a parent. From therapy and self-sufficiency to boundaries with exes and new partners, this is a real conversation about protecting kids not egos.

0:00 – Don’t Force Someone to Be a Parent
1:10 – Loving the Child Regardless of the Relationship
4:30 – High Effort vs Low Effort Parenting
6:55 – Best Co-Parenting Decisions for the Kids
9:35 – Helping Kids Find Their Interests
11:3...

Men, parenting, accountability, dating, and protecting kids is all connected.

In this episode, we talk about raising boys, self-control, mental health, single motherhood, and why we keep avoiding hard conversations about responsibility. From supporting women to holding predators accountable, this one doesn’t tiptoe around anything.

0:00 – Men & Self-Control Around Women and Kids
3:10 – Are You Desperate for a Man?
7:25 – Explaining the State of the World to Our Kids
14:30 – Accountability for Sexual Crimes
17:50 – Mental Health & Trauma at Home
20:20 – Parents Make Mistakes Too
23:05 – Overcompensating as a Single Mom
25:05 – Women Supporting Women
25:33 – Boys...

Teen dating isn’t what it used to be and social media is changing everything.

In this episode, we talk about parenting in the digital age, when kids should start dating, the impact of social media on teen depression, and why many teens are learning about love online instead of at home.

1:45 – Different Parenting Styles & Dating Rules
2:30 – What Age Should Kids Start Dating?
3:40 – Not Making Dating a Priority
4:10 – Why Teens Should Stay Off Dating Apps
6:15 – Teaching Kids How They Deserve to Be Loved
9:00 – Parents Setting the Standard at Home
11:50 – Creating a Safe...

Parenting is shifting and not everyone agrees with where it’s headed.

Are we preparing kids for life or for a system that’s changing?
Let’s talk about it.

0:00 – Parenting in 2026: Why Everything Feels Different
1:10 – Being Open to Your Kids’ Music & Self-Expression
3:40 – Healthy Co-Parenting & Kids Spending Time With Both Parents
6:20 – Choosing Motherhood Over Career: The Modern Mom Debate
9:15 – Teacher Pay, Burnout & The Education System
12:45 – Kids, Screen Time & Why We Aren’t Meant to Sit Inside All Day
15:30 – Trade School vs College: Is a Degree Still Worth It?
18:50 – Montessori E...

Do celebrity relationships influence how we see love and family?

We watch celebrity relationships play out in public, but they often reflect what’s happening in real life.

In this episode, we talk about what relationships like the Beckhams, Shannon Sharpe’s, and The Game & Shaniece reveal about parenting, emotional accountability, power, and why “hurt people hurt people” keeps showing up. This isn’t gossip it’s about patterns, responsibility, and what we can learn from watching closely.

00:47 – Todays Political Climate
09:43 – Why values matter more than political parties
15:37 – Shannon Sharpe & transitional parent-child relat...

Motherhood reshapes identity in ways no one prepares you for.

In this episode, we explore what happens to marriages and partnerships when women carry the majority of caregiving from a young age with little rest, recognition, or support. From the early years of motherhood to long term burnout, we examine how imbalance, unmet expectations, and chronic fatigue impact intimacy, connection, and fidelity.

00:14 — Parenting Since the Age of 22
03:44 — Faith, Responsibility, and Staying Power
06:11 — Working Mothers and Chronic Exhaustion
06:24 — Traditional Roles and Unequal Labor
07:31 — Two-Parent Homes and Missed Expectations
09:06 — Why Mothers Rarely Get True Tim...

In this episode, moms react to WILD reddit stories that touch on controlling parents, being kicked out by your mother, postpartum depression, resentment toward partners, parenting regret, and whether childhood trauma should influence adult relationship choices.

This is a judgment-free conversation centered on wisdom, accountability, and compassion especially for mothers navigating guilt, fear, and generational cycles.

00:40 Story 1: She’s 18 Why Are Her Parents Still Controlling Her?
5:05- Story 2: Her Mother Kicked Her Out… Where Is She Supposed to Go?
10:11 Story 3: I Love My Child But I Regret Some of My Parenting Choices
14:06 Stor...

In this episode, we have a necessary conversation about parents abandoning their children, adult children going no-contact, and why so many kids grow up feeling emotionally unseen. We unpack how social media contributes to kids self-diagnosing mental health issues, the long-term effects of inconsistent parenting, and why accountability from parents matters more than apologies.

00:03 – How Social Media Is Causing Kids to Self-Diagnose Mental Health
00:21 – Forgiving Your Parent While Acknowledging the Harm
02:24 – Creating a Safe Emotional Space for Your Children
03:03 – How Talk Shows Shaped How We View Family Trauma (Oprah, Dr. Phil, Iyanla)
03:59 – Why Churches A...

As the new year begins, many people set intentions, resolutions, and goals — but just as quickly, abandon them. In this episode, we have an honest conversation about why New Year’s resolutions often fail, how habits really change, and what accountability looks like in real life, especially as parents.

We discuss topics like Dry January, gym goals, parenting habits that impact children, and how to approach the new year with realistic expectations. We also address the public conversation surrounding Pastor Jamal Bryant and the scrutiny around standards, leadership, and accountability, tying it back to how intention without awar...

Some lessons only come with time.

In this episode, we reflect on what we’ve learned throughout the decades the mistakes, the growth, and the clarity that only experience can bring. This conversation is about how aging refines you, not diminishes you.

We talk about the lessons that shaped us in our 20s, the perspective that grounded us in our 30s, and the wisdom we’re still carrying forward. This episode is for anyone who’s ever looked back and realized: I couldn’t have known this then but I know it now.

If you’r...

Friendships don’t end the same way when you’re grown — they shift.

In this episode, we talk about how friendships change as you age, especially after becoming a mother. From diversifying your friendships, understanding the difference between acquaintances and real friends, navigating forgiveness, and why mixing business and friendship often doesn’t work this is an honest conversation about adult relationships.

How have your friendships changed as you’ve gotten older?

00:00 – Intro: Why friendships change
03:46 – How friendships evolve as we age
04:33 – Diversifying your friendships
04:46 – What a SAHM really does to keep the househ...

Which story would’ve sent you over the edge?

Moms react to the most chaotic Christmas stories Reddit had to offer 🎄😭 From awkward family moments to holiday drama no one saw coming… this one got REAL.

🎙️ Real Talk. Real Life. Real Moms.Welcome to The Pick Up Line Podcast — the unfiltered, unapologetic podcast where single moms Dina and Mauri keep it real about motherhood, personal growth, healing, and second chances. Whether you're in the carpool lane or sipping coffee *or wine* after bedtime, you're not alone — we've got your back.

💬 What to Expect:
Every week, we tal...

In this episode, we’re unpacking the question: Are you a good mother? Inspired by the conversations raised in the recent Diddy documentary, we take a deeper look at how childhood experiences, parenting styles, and generational patterns shape the way we show up for our kids today.

00:05 – Are You a Good Mother? Honest Parenting Conversation
01:43 – How Selfishness Shows Up in Motherhood
01:52 – Reaction to the Diddy Documentary
06:28 – Why Children Need Therapy at the First Sign of Emotional Struggle
08:16 – What Truly Makes a Good Mother? 
09:56 – How Your Life Changes After Having Children
12:14 – Sta...

There’s a lot of conversation about the “soft life,” but not enough talk about the reality behind relying on a partner financially. In this episode, we walk through the benefits, risks, and long-term implications of letting a man fully support you.

Whether you’re navigating this lifestyle or simply exploring the idea, this is a grounded and mature look at what it actually requires.

00:53 – Women and financial roles in modern relationships
02:39 – Why women need education and career options for long-term security
06:33 – What I learned after being financially cut off: independence and recovery
09:35 – Ho...

Thanksgiving brings out the best… and sometimes the absolute worst in families. In this video, we’re reacting to some of Reddit’s wildest Thanksgiving AITA stories — from refusing to host, to messy family drama, to unbelievably chaotic holiday moments.

If you love AITA reactions, Reddit story times, or moms giving real talk on messy family situations, this video is for you. Grab a snack and let’s get into these Thanksgiving horror stories.

3:00 – AITA for Refusing to Host Thanksgiving This Year?
13:42 – She Got Pregnant in My Bathroom on Thanksgiving?!
16:20 – AITA for Telling My Sister Her Fo...

Thanksgiving often brings meaningful moments—and moments that test your patience. This video covers how to handle difficult family conversations, set healthy boundaries, and stay thankful without losing your peace.

0:48 – Why Some People Skip Thanksgiving (Holiday Avoidance Explained)
1:45 – What’s Missing From the Holidays? (Feeling Disconnected or Overwhelmed)
2:20 – The Real Meaning of Thanksgiving & Gratitude
3:13 – How to Stay Grateful During the Holidays
3:45 – Small, Inexpensive Ways to Show Gratitude
9:00 – Giving Without Expecting Anything in Return
10:45 – Trusting God Through Hard Holiday Seasons
13:33 – Our Favorite Thanksgiving Dishes
15:55 – If You’re Alone During the Holidays (How to Cope...

Thinking about divorce? Your kids can sense more than you realize. In this episode, we break down how to prepare for that conversation with honesty and care—so your children feel safe, seen, and supported through the changes ahead.

0:40 – How to Communicate with Your Kids About Divorce (Communication 101)
1:26 – Why Divorce Is Never Easy for Parents or Kids
2:01 – Are Kids Really Naïve About Divorce? What They Actually Notice
2:39 – What Age Should You Talk to Your Kids About Divorce?
2:55 – Understanding That Divorce Doesn’t Happen Overnight
4:45 – Managing a Single-Parent Household After Divorce
6:28 – How Divorce Can Fee...

The holidays can bring up a lot—especially when you’re co-parenting. In this episode, we’re talking about managing emotions, expectations, and finding peace (and joy) through the chaos.

🎙️ Real Talk. Real Life. Real Moms.Welcome to The Pick Up Line Podcast — the unfiltered, unapologetic podcast where single moms Dina and Mauri keep it real about motherhood, personal growth, healing, and second chances. Whether you're in the carpool lane or sipping coffee *or wine* after bedtime, you're not alone — we've got your back.

💬 What to Expect:
Every week, we talk about the real stuff — parenting...

Parenting may have changed, but some lessons never expire. In this episode, our Gen X moms share the old school parenting tips and timeless life lessons that still work for raising confident, respectful, and grounded Gen Z kids.

We’re talking discipline, communication, boundaries, and what it really means to “train up a child” in today’s world. Whether you’re a new mom, Gen Z parent, or just curious how the old ways still shape the next generation — this one’s for you.

🎙️ Real Talk. Real Life. Real Moms.Welcome to The Pick Up Line Podcast — the...

In this episode, we’re breaking down the red and green flags to look out for when dating. From communication habits to consistency, we’re sharing what’s worth your time and what’s not.

🎙️ Real Talk. Real Life. Real Moms.Welcome to The Pick Up Line Podcast — the unfiltered, unapologetic podcast where single moms Dina and Mauri keep it real about motherhood, personal growth, healing, and second chances. Whether you're in the carpool lane or sipping coffee *or wine* after bedtime, you're not alone — we've got your back.

💬 What to Expect:
Every week, we talk about the re...

Dating a single mom is different but it's not hard it just takes the right mindset. In this video, we share 5 real tips to help you build a genuine connection, show up with respect, and understand what truly matters. If you’re serious about dating a single mom, this is where you start.
#singlemoms #datingadvice 

🎙️ Real Talk. Real Life. Real Moms.Welcome to The Pick Up Line Podcast — the unfiltered, unapologetic podcast where single moms Dina and Mauri keep it real about motherhood, personal growth, healing, and second chances. Whether you're in the carpool lane or sipping...

Dating in 2025 as a single mom isn’t what it used to be. In this episode, we’re talking about boundaries, red flags, and dating standards all while balancing motherhood. #singlemom #dating 
🎙️ Real Talk. Real Life. Real Moms.Welcome to The Pick Up Line Podcast — the unfiltered, unapologetic podcast where single moms Dina and Mauri keep it real about motherhood, personal growth, healing, and second chances. Whether you're in the carpool lane or sipping coffee *or wine* after bedtime, you're not alone — we've got your back.

💬 What to Expect:
Every week, we talk about the real stuff — pare...

🎙️ Real Talk. Real Life. Real Moms.Welcome to The Pick Up Line Podcast — the unfiltered, unapologetic podcast where single moms Dina and Mauri keep it real about motherhood, personal growth, healing, and second chances. Whether you're in the carpool lane or sipping coffee *or wine* after bedtime, you're not alone — we've got your back.

💬 What to Expect:
Every week, we talk about the real stuff — parenting struggles, mom guilt, dating again, mental health, faith, fitness, and learning to show up for yourself even on the hard days. If you're a single mom, a strong woman, or just someone w...

Real Talk. Real Life. Real Moms.
Join Dina and Mauri, two powerhouse single moms with big hearts and bold stories! They dive into the chaos, balancing motherhood, self-growth, and second chances. From family and faith to fitness and healing, this weekly podcast is your dose of honest convo, practical parenting tips, and soulful inspiration for living with purpose and parenting the best you can!

Real Talk. Real Life. Real Moms.
Join Dina and Mauri, two powerhouse single moms with big hearts and bold stories! They dive into the chaos, balancing motherhood, self-growth, and second chances. From family and faith to fitness and healing, this weekly podcast is your dose of honest convo, practical parenting tips, and soulful inspiration for living with purpose and parenting the best you can!

Real Talk. Real Life. Real Moms.
Join Dina and Mauri, two powerhouse single moms with big hearts and bold stories! They dive into the chaos, balancing motherhood, self-growth, and second chances. From family and faith to fitness and healing, this weekly podcast is your dose of honest convo, practical parenting tips, and soulful inspiration for living with purpose and parenting the best you can!