SOMETHING SOMETHING WITH ERIC NEUMANN
SOMETHING, SOMETHING WITH ERIC NEUMANN dissects the psychology of dating from years of experience and sociological observations. Eric candidly shares his views on dating and digs deep to try to understand why men and women behave the way they do.
THE ORIGINAL RED PILL WITH DANTE NERO
Eric sits down with legendary comedian Dante Nero for a conversation about modern dating, confidence, masculinity, boundaries, and why so many people misunderstand relationships. Dante talks about the philosophy behind his “ACE” mindset: authenticity, credibility, and empathy, plus stories from the Black Phillip days with Patrice O'Neal, the origins of “red pill” culture, and the difference between real confidence and seeking validation.
THE TRUTH ABOUT DATING SUCCESSFUL WOMEN WITH KAYLA BECKER
In today’s episode, Eric sits down with sports broadcaster and former WWE personality Kayla Becker to talk about dating as a successful, independent woman, protecting your peace, and why modern relationships can feel so complicated once you’ve built a life on your own.
Kayla opens up about growing up in foster care, becoming hyper-independent, and how success, ambition, and past experiences shaped the way she approaches love and relationships today. The conversation dives into gender roles, emotional availability, and why so many people struggle to let someone truly take care of them.
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THERAPY, AUTHENTICITY AND SURVIVING MODERN DATING WITH JAKE COHEN
Jake Cohen - New York Times bestselling author, chef, and internet personality - joins Eric for a deep dive into self-improvement and modern dating.
They talk about how self-improvement is a constant journey, and why attraction alone isn’t enough for a relationship. Jake shares his perspective on dating in New York City, being authentic, and why “if they wanted to, they would” might be one of the most important truths in relationships.
The conversation also gets into rejection, trusting your nervous system, and why being your full “weird” authentic self is the only way to attract...
DO OPEN RELATIONSHIPS REALLY WORK?
In today’s episode, Eric and special guest Joe Nucci dive deep into the messy reality of modern dating and relationships, focusing on one big question: do open relationships actually work in a healthy and sustainable way?
Eric tells a real story about a couple on the verge of marriage, where the bride brings up opening the relationship - and how one conversation like that can completely change everything. Today’s discussion explores open relationships vs monogamy, jealousy in long-term relationships, and how important it is to trust your nervous system.<...
GIVING WOMEN ATTENTION
In today’s episode, Eric breaks down one of the biggest mistakes men make in dating: giving women too much attention too early. He explains why attention only has value when it’s earned, and how being predictable can quietly kill attraction.
He also talks about the difference between being intentional vs playing games, how texting habits can make or break attraction, and why men should always be creative and unpredictable in relationships.
In this episode you’ll learn:
• Why women need to want your attention
• Why giving too much a...
CHIVALRY IN MODERN DATING
In today’s episode, Eric tackles the question everyone keeps asking: is chivalry dead, or has it just been completely misunderstood? He breaks down what chivalry actually means, how it’s changed over time, and why it doesn’t really fit modern dating anymore.
He also gets into the difference between real respect and performative niceness, why so many men feel lost in today’s dating world, and how trying to be “chivalrous” can actually backfire when it’s done for the wrong reasons.
In this episode you’ll learn:
• Wh...
THE TRUTH ABOUT LOVE
In today’s episode, Eric breaks down why we need to stop romanticizing love. He explains how TV, movies, and culture create a version of love that feels real but isn’t, and how chasing that idea can leave you constantly disappointed.
From being misled to heartbreak, Eric explains why it’s often not the person, but the loss of the version of love you believed in, and how that realization changes the way you approach dating and relationships.
In this episode you’ll learn:
 • Why romanticizing love sets you up for...
SO YOU'VE SLEPT TOGETHER...NOW WHAT?
In this episode, Eric dissects the psychology of what happens after you've slept together for the first time
THE POWER OF THE GAY BEST FRIEND
In today’s episode, Eric sits down with therapist and friend Joe Nucci to unpack the dynamic between straight women and their gay best friends. The conversation expands into the gay perspective on dating, contrasting how gay and straight relationships form, evolve, and navigate desire. Eric reflects on needing approval from a girl’s gay best friend, the psychology behind wanting what you can’t have, and the tension between fantasy and reality in modern dating. Joe offers a therapist’s insight on monogamy versus non-monogamy, hookup culture, and what a true healthy relationship looks like.
ARE YOU MY THERAPIST OR FRIEND?
In today’s episode, Eric and licensed therapist Dr. Mikki Lee explore the boundaries between friendship and therapy. They dissect heartbreak's lessons, the illusion of attraction versus compatibility, and how conflict resolution reveals a relationship's true strength.
THE GREAT DEBATE 2: ALI RETURNS
In this episode, Ali Edwards returns to discuss the first time she was on the podcast, as well as the psychology behind settling down earlier vs later
WHAT ATTRACTS WOMEN?
In this episode, Eric and his therapist friend Emma Margles discuss the psychology behind what attracts women
RELATIONSHIP MISTAKES
In this episode, Eric discusses the psychology behind costly relationship mistakesÂ
WILL TRAUMA DUMPING GET YOU DUMPED?
In this episode, Eric discusses the psychology of "Trauma Dumping" and how it can impact relationships
BREAK-UPS VS FAKE-UPS (Part 2)
In part two of this episode, Eric continues to dissect the psychology behind real and "fake" breakups
BREAK-UPS VS FAKE-UPS
In this episode, Eric discusses the psychology behind real and "fake" breakups
NET WORTH VS SELF WORTH (Part 2)
In this second part of Net Worth Vs Self Worth, Eric discusses the psychology of money and its impact on relationships
NET WORTH VS SELF WORTH
In this episode, Eric discusses the psychology of money and its impact in relationshipsÂ
DATING AGE GAP
In this episode, Eric breaks down the psychology of entering into a relationship with a big age gap
MONOGAMY VS NON-MONOGAMY
In this episode, Eric brings on comedian Eagle Witt to discuss and debate the psychology of "open relationships"Â
HARD TIME GETTING HARD
In this episode, Eric discusses the psychology behind men and their relationship with ED pills
FEMALE COMPETITION
In this episode, Eric dives into the psychology behind intrasexual female competitionÂ
SUBCONSCIOUS ATTRACTION
In this episode, Eric discusses the psychology behind the subconscious vs conscious response within dating dynamicsÂ
How Soon Should You Sleep With Someone?
In this episode, Eric discusses the psychology behind the benefits to waiting to have sex with someone newÂ
Should You Stay Friends With An Ex?
In this episode, Eric discusses the psychology behind the desire to stay friends with an ex partner, and the positives and negatives of it
WHY I QUIT PORN
Eric discusses the psychology behind why he quit porn, what makes it harmful, and how it affects (straight) relationship dynamicsÂ
THE GREAT DATING DEBATE
Eric sits down with his studio producer, Ali Edwards to recap the previous 5 episodes and they playfully debate about which of Eric's points Ali found to be misogynisticÂ
Social Media Dating
Eric dissects the psychology of building romantic relationships through various social media platforms
The Texting Game
Eric discusses the psychology behind building and/or losing attraction while texting
Alpha Men Vs Beta Men
Eric dissects the psychology of Alpha vs Beta Men and how each one plays into relationship dynamics
Once A Cheater, Not Always A Cheater
Eric tackles the psychology behind cheating, and debunks the theory of "Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater"
Anti Dating Apps
Eric discusses his personal issues with dating app culture, and the psychology behind meeting people in real life instead of online
