It's All Relative

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The podcast for dance teachers and studio owners who are looking to go behind the scenes in the dance industry and discover strategy and success in everything from studio to stage 

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EP 69: The Seasonal Shakedown for Studios
#69
Today at 10:00 AM

Maximize your dance season by focusing on quality over quantity, balancing both sides of the body, and making every moment in class count.

Today, we're joined again by Kate Pagano for another insightful conversation! As dance studios enter one of the busiest times of the season, we're breaking down how to keep dancers progressing, build stronger technique, and make the most of every moment in class, even when schedules get packed with rehearsals, performances, conventions, and competitions.


Cara and Kate Talked About

Why correct form matters more than completing every repetition.How repetition...


EP 68: Dance Competitions: What Really Doesn't Matter (And What Does)
#68
Last Tuesday at 10:00 AM

Competition scores and placements don't define a dancer's potential. What truly matters is learning from feedback, executing skills with confidence, and building connections that can lead to future opportunities.

Today, we're joined by Kate Pagano! Cara and Kate discuss what really matters during dance competitions and what dancers can stop worrying about. Drawing from their experience as dance educators and adjudicators, they explain why verbal feedback is more valuable than scores, why clean execution matters more than flashy tricks, and how positive attitudes, strong work ethic, and industry connections can open doors beyond competition weekend.

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EP 67: The Teaching Tree: Leaving a Legacy
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10/20/2026

Great dance teachers do more than develop technique. They shape character, build confidence, and leave a lasting legacy that can impact generations.

In this episode of It’s All Relative, Cara introduces the concept of the Teaching Tree, exploring how dance teachers can develop both a dancer’s craft and character. She shares three essential principles, control, consistency, and commitment, that help dancers grow not only as artists and athletes but also as confident individuals who can positively impact the world.

Cara Talked About

Why dance teachers have a lasting influence on thei...


EP 66: Cold Weather Care for Dancers
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10/13/2026

Cold weather calls for extra care. From warming up properly to staying hydrated and protecting your immune system, small habits can help dancers stay healthy, energized, and ready for class throughout the colder months.

In this episode of It's All Relative, Cara shares six practical tips to help dancers care for their bodies during fall and winter. With colder temperatures, increased rehearsals, and performance season placing extra demands on dancers, Cara explains how to adjust warmups, dress in layers, stay fueled, and protect both physical health and emotional well-being.

Cara talked about:

Why cold...


EP 65: Amazing Teachers Last the Whole Season
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10/07/2026

Amazing teachers don't just take care of their dancers. They also need to protect their own bodies, energy, passion, and health so they can show up strong throughout the entire season.

In this episode of It's All Relative, Cara Dixon turns the focus toward teachers and what it takes to make it through the long, demanding stretch from fall through recital season. She shares practical ways to protect your body, manage your energy, prevent burnout, stay inspired, and continue showing up for your dancers with passion.

Cara talked about:

Why teachers need to care...


EP 64: Train Away From Injury This Season
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09/29/2026

Injury prevention starts before the injury happens. By looking at injury patterns, assessing alignment, and building strength proactively, teachers can help dancers stay healthy throughout the season.

In this episode of It's All Relative, Cara Dixon talks about shifting from a reactive approach to injuries toward proactive, injury-reductive training. She walks through the kinetic chain of the ankles, knees, hips, and lower back, sharing what teachers can look for and how they can prepare dancers before common problems become injuries.


Cara talked about:

Why studios should look at past injury patterns and prepare...


EP 63: Honoring the Differences in Dance Styles
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09/21/2026

Different dance styles and training approaches can look completely different, but there are always lessons we can learn from experiencing dance through another culture and perspective.

In this episode of It's All Relative, Cara Dixon shares reflections from her time at the Australian Dance Festival in Sydney. From observing local classes and performances to working with Australian dance teachers and dancers, Cara explores the differences in choreography, movement quality, and training while highlighting the technical foundations that connect dancers everywhere.


Cara talked about:

Her experience teaching, observing, and adjudicating at the Australian Dance...


EP 62: The In-Between Years: Keeping 10–13 Year Olds in the Room
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09/15/2026

The 10–13 age group can be an awkward transition for young dancers, but with the right support, teachers can help them rebuild confidence, adapt to their changing bodies, and stay connected to their passion for dance.

In this episode of It's All Relative, Cara dives into the often-overlooked 10–13 age group and the physical, emotional, and social changes that can affect a dancer's confidence, technique, and desire to stay in the studio. She shares practical ways teachers can adjust their cueing, build tangible self-belief, and create stronger support systems around dancers during these important in-between years.


Cara...


EP 61: Trusting The Bigger Picture
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09/08/2026

Sometimes the moments that feel like setbacks are quietly moving us toward something bigger.

In this episode of It’s All Relative, Cara

 shares a personal story about an unexpected series of events that ultimately allowed her to help a family in need. She uses the story to reflect on teaching, leadership, difficult seasons, and the importance of trusting that there may be a bigger picture at work.

For dance teachers, educators, and studio owners, Cara encourages us to stay aware, open, and willing even when life feels overwhelming or things aren't going acc...


EP 60: How To Make Online Content Work For You
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09/01/2026

In this episode of It’s All Relative, Cara breaks down how dance teachers can evaluate the endless online dance training content available on Instagram and YouTube. She explains how to determine whether an exercise is appropriate for your dancers, whether it actually leads toward the promised technique, and whether it fits into your class without sacrificing valuable training time.


Cara talked about:

Why training designed only for advanced dancers may not translate to your studentsHow complicated props and long setup times can take away from valuable class timeWhy the exercise needs to match the ac...


EP 59: The 3-Step System for Coaching Dancers Ages 7–9
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08/25/2026

In this episode of It’s All Relative, Cara Dixon challenges studios to rethink how they approach 3 to 7-year-old dance classes. These early classes require teachers who can balance fun and engagement with the fundamentals young dancers need to develop.

Cara also highlights how preschool dance classes introduce more than technique. For ages 3 to 4, teachers are also helping families understand the studio's culture, environment, and systems, making these classes an important part of long-term dance studio retention and community building.


Cara talked about:

Why 3 to 7-year-old dance classes should not be tr...


EP 58: Tiny Technicians- Teaching Our 3-7 Year Old Dancers
08/18/2026


The foundation for strong, confident dancers starts in the earliest years of training. This episode explores how intentional teaching can shape dancers from ages 3 to 7.

In this episode of It’s All Relative, Cara dives into teaching 3 to 7-year-old dancers and why these early years are so important for building proper technique, confidence, body awareness, and a strong foundation for future training.

Cara introduces the FOCUS method, which focuses on Fun, Obtainable goals, Curiosity, Understanding, and Structure to help young dancers stay engaged while developing meaningful dance fundamentals.


Cara talked about:

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EP 57: The Greatest Gift (Revisited)
08/11/2026

Some of the greatest lessons in dance don't come from the studio. They come from the people who teach us how to see challenges differently.

We're revisiting one of our favorite episodes of It's All Relative because its message is just as meaningful today as when it first aired. In "The Greatest Gift," Cara Dixon shares a personal story from her own dance training and the life-changing perspective her mom gave her after a difficult ballet class.

This episode explores the powerful partnership between dance teachers, dance parents, and young dancers, showing how belief, trust...


EP 56: Rebuilding The Room: Recruitment That Works
08/04/2026

The most important recruitment strategy isn't convincing dancers to stay. It's giving them a reason to believe they're growing.

In this episode of It's All Relative, Cara Dixon explores one of the most important times of the year for dance studio recruitment and student retention: the window between Nationals and the start of a new season. As families decide whether to return, join a competitive team, or make a change, Cara shares insights from years of working alongside studio owners, judging competitions, and training dancers across the country.

Rather than focusing on enrollment tactics, Cara...


EP 55: Making The Most Of Dance Teacher Conferences
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07/28/2026

Attending a dance teacher conference isn't about collecting more ideas. It's about solving the challenges that matter most for your studio.

In this episode of It's All Relative, Cara Dixon shares how dance teachers and studio owners can make the most of dance teacher conferences. Rather than trying to attend every session or absorb every piece of information, Cara encourages educators to approach conferences with a clear strategy, meaningful questions, and a plan for implementation.

Whether you're attending the Toronto Dance Teacher Expo, Dance Teacher Web, Dance Life Teacher Conference, or another professional development event...


EP 54: Burnout: The Competitive Teacher Reset
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07/21/2026

Burnout doesn't always look like exhaustion. Sometimes it looks like losing the passion for the work you once loved. Learn how competitive dance teachers can recognize burnout, recover with intention, and return stronger for the next season.

In Episode 54 of It's All Relative, Cara shifts the focus from dance technique to something every dance teacher, studio owner, and competitive dance coach experiences but rarely talks about: teacher burnout. Following the intensity of Nationals and the competition season, Cara explores the difference between ordinary exhaustion and true burnout, why competitive teachers are especially vulnerable, and how intentional rest...


EP 53: The Nationals Debrief
#53
07/14/2026

Nationals are over, but the real opportunity is just beginning. Learn how to turn judges' critiques into a strategy that transforms your next competition season.

In Episode 53 of It's All Relative, Cara Dixon shares why Nationals feedback may be the most valuable resource dance teachers and studio owners aren't fully using. While many studios celebrate awards and rankings before shifting into summer mode, Cara explains why competition critiques, dance adjudication feedback, and judges' comments can become the blueprint for stronger technique, better choreography, and more intentional dance training.

Rather than focusing only on scores, this...


EP 52: The Art of Showing Up
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07/07/2026

Great dance teachers don't just teach technique. They shape confidence, character, and lives. This episode explores the art of showing up and why your influence reaches far beyond the dance studio.

In Episode 52 of It's All Relative, Cara Dixon takes a break from teaching dance technique to celebrate something equally important: the art of being a great dance teacher. Through personal stories, teaching experiences, and practical classroom strategies, Cara reminds dance educators that their greatest impact often comes from the moments no one sees.

Whether you're a dance teacher, studio owner, or dance educator, this...


EP 51: The 3 Shifts That Happen Inside RM Live (That You Can't Get Online)
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06/30/2026

Why do some breakthroughs only happen in person? Discover the three transformational shifts that help dance teachers build confidence, strengthen technique, and become more impactful educators at RM Live.

In Episode 51 of It's All Relative, Cara Dixon explores why in-person dance teacher training creates breakthroughs that simply can't be replicated through online learning. While online education offers convenience and flexibility, Cara shares why RM Live provides something even more valuable: real-time coaching, hands-on learning, meaningful community, and renewed confidence as a dance educator.

Through years of teaching, certifications, and working with dance studios across the...


EP 50: Amplifying Your Impact: The Influence You Don't Realize You're Having
06/23/2026

Your dancers may forget your corrections, but they'll never forget the example you set.

In this episode, I'm diving into a powerful truth that every dance teacher, studio owner, and leader needs to hear: your greatest influence has very little to do with the combinations you teach or the corrections you give.

As teachers, we often focus on technique, training, and performance outcomes. But dancers are learning just as much, if not more, from the way we handle stress, speak about ourselves, respond to challenges, and treat the people around us.

This conversation...


EP 49: The Cost of Criticism
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06/16/2026

Could criticism be the very thing holding your dancers back? This episode explores how the way we give feedback can either build belief or create barriers to growth.

In Episode 49 of It's All Relative, Cara Dixon explores The Cost of Criticism and how the way we communicate with dancers directly impacts confidence, growth, motivation, and studio culture. From social media commentary to in-studio corrections, Cara examines how criticism in dance education can either inspire growth or create barriers that hold dancers back from reaching their full potential.

This episode is packed with insights on constructive...


EP 48: The Magic Happens When Teachers Gather Together
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06/09/2026

What if a few small shifts in your teaching could dramatically increase student growth, confidence, and engagement? This episode introduces a groundbreaking tool designed to help dance teachers teach for transformation.

In this episode of It’s All Relative, Cara welcomes back mindset coach, dance educator, author, and former professional dancer Gina Pero for an inspiring conversation about leadership, coaching, and the future of dance education. As a featured presenter at RM Live, Gina shares insights from her groundbreaking Teaching for Transformation (TFT) Assessment, a tool designed to help dance teachers identify their strengths, uncover growth opportunities, an...


EP 47: Letting Great Technique Go
06/02/2026

Are your dancers losing months of progress every summer? This episode explores how to preserve dance technique, maintain dancer growth, and start the new season stronger than ever.

In this episode of It’s All Relative, Cara tackles a challenge every dance teacher and studio owner knows well: watching dancers reach their highest level of technique at the end of the season, only to spend the first months of the next season rebuilding what was lost. Drawing a powerful comparison between traditional schooling and dance training, Cara explores why dancers often lose momentum during breaks and how st...


Ep 46: What Teachers Are Missing When They Cue Alignment
05/26/2026

Why do alignment corrections still fall flat even when dancers are trying their hardest? This episode uncovers what teachers are missing when cueing alignment in dance training.

In this episode of It’s All Relative, Cara Dixon dives deep into one of the biggest struggles in dance education and dance technique training: why dancers continue to miss alignment corrections even after hearing them repeatedly. From “engage your core” to “lift up” and “square your hips,” Cara explains why broad corrections often create frustration instead of transformation.

This episode breaks down how alignment in dance is not just a sha...


Ep 45: Why Advanced Dancers Still Struggle With Basics
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05/19/2026

Why do advanced dancers still struggle with basic corrections? This episode uncovers the hidden gaps between performance technique and true technical understanding.

In this episode of It’s All Relative, Cara dives into one of the biggest frustrations in dance training and dance education: why highly advanced dancers continue to struggle with foundational technique. From unstable pirouettes and sickled feet to collapsing turnout and lack of pelvic alignment, Cara breaks down why dancers often perform technique without fully understanding the muscular engagement, body alignment, and movement patterns behind it.

This episode explores how dance technique tr...


Ep 44: Everybody Wins...Until They Don't with Kate Pagano
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05/12/2026

Is competition dance still preparing dancers for the real world, or are constant awards creating fragile confidence instead of real growth?

In this episode of It’s All Relative, Cara Dixon sits down with Kate Pano for an honest conversation about the evolution of competition dance culture and the psychological impact of today’s scoring systems. From first-place trophies to platinum awards, adjudication trends, competitive levels, and participation-based recognition, Cara and Kate unpack what happens when “everybody wins”, and how that affects dancer mindset, resilience, motivation, and long-term success.

Together, they explore how competitive dance training...


Ep 43: What Actually Changes When A Studio Trains Differently
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05/05/2026

What actually changes when a studio shifts from busy classes to intentional dance training? This episode reveals how systems, structure, and strategy transform dancer results.

In this episode of It’s All Relative, Cara breaks down what truly happens when a studio commits to intentional dance training instead of staying stuck in busy, overwhelming class structures. Whether you’re a studio owner or a dance teacher, this episode dives into how dance training systems, technique clarity, and aligned teaching strategies can completely shift dancer progress, confidence, retention, and overall studio culture.

If you’ve ever felt l...


Ep 42: Why Your Best Dancers Are Still Plateauing
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04/28/2026

Even your strongest dancers can hit a wall. They move well, perform hard, and seem advanced on stage, yet something is keeping them from reaching the next level.

In this episode of It's All Relative, Cara breaks down why talented dancers plateau, how choreography can sometimes hide technical gaps, and what teachers can do to create real progress without extreme training methods.

This episode is especially valuable for dance teachers working with competitive dancers, teens, seniors, or any student who looks advanced but is no longer improving.


In This Episode, Cara...


Ep 41: When Over Correcting Leads To Under Training
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04/21/2026

In this episode, we unpack a surprising truth many teachers and coaches overlook: sometimes, giving more corrections actually leads to less progress.

Recorded as we prepare for an upcoming live event in Orlando, this conversation dives into why dancers can feel stuck despite constant feedback and effort. The answer is not about working harder. It is about working smarter.

If your students feel like they are trying everything but not improving at the level you expect, this episode will help you shift from overwhelming corrections to intentional, effective training that actually sticks. 



Ep 40: Relationship vs Hard Feedback
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04/14/2026

In this episode, recorded live from Australia during Dance Teacher Expo, we explore a powerful idea that every teacher, coach, and mentor needs to hear:

Hard coaching without relationship produces resentment. Relationship without hard coaching produces entitlement


This conversation dives into the delicate balance between building strong relationships with students while still holding them to a high standard. Whether you're a dance teacher, coach, or mentor, this episode challenges you to reflect on how you show up for those you lead and how that impacts their growth, mindset, and success. 


What Y...


Ep 39: The Power Behind Your Why
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04/07/2026

In this episode, I’m diving into something that every teacher needs but often overlooks, defining your why on a deeper level.

This conversation was inspired by a moment inside Total Technique Academy where teachers realized they felt stuck trying to define their why. Not because they didn’t care, but because their answers stayed at the surface.

I walk through why a shallow why like “I want my dancers to improve” isn’t enough to carry you through the hard seasons — the burnout, the pressure, the attitude, the exhaustion. And how going back to your...


Ep 38: The Fight For Fundamentals
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03/31/2026

In this episode, Cara breaks down what it really means to fight for fundamentals in today’s dance industry and why it matters now more than ever. With dancers constantly exposed to advanced tricks on social media, the pressure to move faster is real. But skipping steps comes at a cost.

Cara shares why true progress isn’t about doing more, it’s about doing the basics so well that they become second nature. From parent expectations to dancer impatience, she unpacks the real challenges teachers face and how staying committed to fundamentals protects dancers, builds confidence, and cr...


Ep 37: The Greatest Chronic Injury Lesson
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03/24/2026

In this episode, Cara dives into a major gap in dancer training that shows up in auditions, competitions, and even class settings. Dancers often wait until the last run to fully perform, but in real opportunities, that moment may never come.

This conversation unpacks how performance is not something dancers turn on at the end. It is something they build from the very first rep. Cara also explores the powerful connection between technique and artistry, and why separating the two is one of the biggest mistakes in dance training today.

From warmups to combinations, transitions...


Ep 36: The Recipe For Success with Kenny Borchard | Part 2
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03/17/2026

In this continuation of the conversation, the focus shifts from what dancers do to how they do it and why that difference is everything.

The discussion highlights a common gap in training: dancers often wait until the last run to fully perform. But in real-world settings like auditions, that “final moment” might never come. The takeaway is simple. Performance is not a switch. It is a habit.

This episode dives into the powerful idea that dancers are not half artist and half athlete, but 100% both at all times. From warmups to full...


Ep 35: The Recipe For Success with Kenny Borchard | Part 1
#35
03/10/2026

What Does It Really Take to Build a Successful Dancer?

What separates a dancer who plateaus from one who keeps growing? According to Kenny Borchard, executive director of the Joffrey Workshops and artistic director of the Joffrey Ballet School's Dallas Summer Intensive, it comes down to three ingredients. And if even one is missing, the whole recipe falls flat.

In Part 1 of this conversation, Cara sits down with Kenny to unpack what he's observed traveling to over 50 schools across the U.S., Switzerland, and Australia, and what it's taught him about the state...


Ep 34: The Injury Process
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03/03/2026

In this deeply personal episode, Cara shares the unexpected story of tearing her ACL while teaching, and the powerful lessons that unfolded in the weeks that followed.

What began as a physical injury quickly became a real-time study in mindset, belief, and leadership. From the initial diagnosis to the emotional spiral that followed the MRI results, Cara walks through how quickly the mind can either weaken or strengthen the body.

But this episode isn’t just about an ACL tear.
 It’s about what we fuel our dancers with every single day.

Becau...


Ep 33: Leading Well Through Stress
#33
02/24/2026

You can’t lead calm, confident dancers if you’re running on empty.

This episode is a real conversation for dance teachers and studio owners who are deep in the busiest stretch of the season. Competition weekends, recital preparation, teaching schedules, family life, it all stacks up quickly. Cara pulls the focus back to the one thing most educators forget during stressful seasons: taking care of themselves first.

Instead of adding another overwhelming checklist, Cara shares practical mindset shifts and habits that help teachers regulate stress, protect their energy, and model healthy leadership for...


Ep 32: Getting Dancers to Leave It All On The Floor
#32
02/17/2026

Dancers can’t leave it all on the floor if they’ve never given it in the studio first.

In this episode, Cara breaks down what it really means to ask dancers to “leave it all on the floor.” She challenges dance teachers and studio owners to rethink performance expectations, rehearsal habits, choreography choices, and technique training. If you want your competitive dancers to perform with confidence, control, and passion, this conversation is essential.


Cara Talked About:

Why dancers cannot perform beyond what they consistently execute in rehearsal The difference between hoping ad...


Ep 31: Crushing the Season as a Competition Mom with Kate Pagano
#31
02/10/2026

In this episode, Cara is joined again by physical therapy assistant Kate Pagano to unpack what true competition mom success actually looks like, and why so much competition-season stress has nothing to do with a dancer’s performance. Together, they explore the emotional patterns, boundaries, and communication habits that can unintentionally add pressure, and how parents can support their dancers in ways that build confidence, resilience, and long-term success. This conversation brings clarity for studios, educators, and families navigating high-stakes competition environments.

Cara and Kate talked about:

Why competition stress is...


Ep 30: Pinpointing Technique 'Symptoms' vs Diagnosing Injuries with kate Pagano
#30
02/03/2026

In this episode, Cara is joined again by physical therapy assistant Kate Pagano to break down a critical distinction every dance teacher needs to understand: the difference between technique symptoms, root causes, and actual injuries. Together, they unpack why repeating surface-level corrections doesn’t create change, how misreading pain can lead to injury, and where the teacher’s responsibility must end. This conversation brings clarity, boundaries, and smarter strategy to technique training, especially during competition season.


Cara talked about:

Why most common corrections (straighten your knees, stretch your feet) are symptoms, not solutions.How repeating the...