Man Therapy

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By: Dan Johnson, Kyle Votroubek

The Man Therapy Podcast explores what it is like to be a man in today’s society and how we deal with the real-world problems we all face, as men. This laidback and humorous podcast is for fathers, husbands, brothers, and all men who may not necessarily need therapy, but are quietly struggling in one or more aspects of their life. With a little bit of laughter and input from a professional counselor, our goal is to give you insight through stories and experiences that will help you find better ways to communicate and find the best version of yourself fo...

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Back In The Day
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#44
Today at 4:47 PM

Clean comedy, childhood chaos, and a brutally honest conversation about what actually shapes us.

Dan Johnson and MCKV start with a laugh about Wayne's World, blooper reels, and the kind of humor that still works without swearing, but the episode quickly turns into something far more revealing: a raw, funny, and surprisingly thoughtful look at growing up, sibling battles, and the long shadow of childhood.

You’ll hear Dan and MCKV swap stories about:

sibling sabotage, unplugged Sega Genesis games, and the psychology of being the older or younger brother what it was like gr...


Back To School
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#43
08/24/2026

School stress, college pressure, and the weird little moments that shape who your kids become - this conversation gets real fast. Dan Johnson and Kyle unpack the back-to-school season from both sides of the parent-child divide, with an honest take on homesickness, independence, and why some kids need more support than others.

They start with a surprisingly deep detour through Karate Kid, Rocky, and House of the Dragon before landing on what really matters: how kids handle pressure, identity, and growing up. From there, Dan and MCKV get into the emotional reality of back-to-school season, including what...


Choose Contentment
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#42
08/17/2026

Most of what feels like "family chaos" is really chronic stress, comparison, and a brain trained to chase the next thing. Dan Johnson and MCKV break down why so many parents and couples stay stuck in frustration - and what it actually takes to become calmer, more grateful, and harder to push off center.

Dan opens up about a nonstop stretch of travel, parenting, wrestling tournaments, and a hospital scare that put everything back into perspective. From a rushed family trip to Branson and the pressure of always being "on" as a dad, to seeing kids in...


Finding Calm
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#41
07/21/2026

Most communities shine brightest during times of crisis—and it's the everyday acts of kindness that reveal true character. When a well goes out and water is scarce, Kyle's neighbor volunteers midnight repairs, and a shared hardship quickly turns strangers into allies. What if we saw every challenge as an opportunity to build real community rather than just complain about the flaws? That simple shift could change everything.

In this episode, you'll discover how small acts of volunteerism and neighborly care create resilient communities—proof that humanity isn't as nasty or uncaring as it sometimes appears. We brea...


The Hidden Power of Parenting Through Expectations and Encouragement
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#40
07/15/2026

Most parents wrestle with how hard to push their kids—what’s healthy, what’s too much, and when to step back. Kyle and Dan dive into authentic conversations about parenting, discipline, and cultivating resilience, revealing how even the toughest challenges can shape stronger, braver kids.Imagine guiding your child not just to win, but to develop the grit, perseverance, and mindset that truly prepares them for life’s obstacles. This episode explores the delicate art of knowing when to push and when to let go, with real-world stories about sports, confidence, and the unspoken legacy between generations.

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Walking On Eggshells
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#39
07/06/2026

Most of us instinctively walk on eggshells in certain relationships, but what if that behavior isn’t just about respect—what if it’s a sign that things are dangerously unbalanced? In this episode of the Man Therapy Podcast, Dan Johnson and Kyle dive deep into the often-overlooked dynamics of walking on eggshells — a subtle warning sign of emotional imbalance, toxicity, and even abuse. Whether it’s a volatile partner, unpredictable family member, or a stressful environment, they explore how these behaviors develop, what they reveal about underlying issues, and most importantly, how to break free from the cycle.

You’...


Shoot Your Shot
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#38
06/29/2026

Most people underestimate the power of vulnerability and authenticity — but not Kyle. On this episode of Man Therapy, Kyle, a professional counselor, reveals how embracing your true self can unlock mental resilience and genuine happiness. His relaxed, humorous style will show you why authenticity isn’t just a soft skill, but a game-changer for mental health.You’ll discover how playful, low-energy conversations—like exaggerated wrestling promos or fictional AI avatars—can be gateways to deeper self-awareness. Kyle shares hilarious stories about wrestling, childhood innocence, and the surprising ways men and women process emotions and strength. We break down the differ...


Using Humor To Laugh It Off
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#37
06/22/2026

In this episode, Dan and Kyle explore how humor can serve as both a bonding tool and a defense mechanism, the importance of self-awareness, and the value of integrity in daily interactions. They also discuss navigating social media, relationships, and challenging emotions with authenticity and kindness.

Key Topics:

The role of humor in handling life's challenges and trauma How social media often highlights highlight reels over reality The importance of self-awareness and maintaining core values Strategies for healthy communication in marriage and family Recognizing and managing emotional reactions and ruts How small acts of kindness, like...


Criticism vs. Critique
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#36
06/15/2026

Discover how simple conversations with friends can serve as powerful therapy—revealing the truth about our habits, biases, and how to choose a better life. For men craving authentic connection, this episode uncovers the quiet yet transformative power of vulnerability, gossip avoidance, and intentional attitude management.Kyle and Dan dive into the nuances of honesty, humility, and the struggles men face with emotional expression. You'll learn why many men hold back, how gossip chips away at integrity, and why stress often pushes us to act out against loved ones. They share relatable stories of personal growth, from controlling defensiveness to...


Know Your Value
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#35
06/08/2026

Have you ever felt like society’s rules are strangling your way of life, especially when it comes to your passions or lifestyle choices? You're not alone. In this candid, no-holds-barred conversation, Dan and Kyle explore the frustrations of systemic censorship, social pressures, and the challenge of staying true to yourself in a world that often seems to penalize authenticity.

Discover how the algorithms and social media platforms silently shape your identity—and why that's more than just annoying, it's transformative. Dan shares his recent battle with YouTube banning his hunting and firearms content, revealing the hidden ways...


High Pressure Life
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#34
06/01/2026

Most grown men secretly wonder: how do you handle what life throws at you without losing your mind? In this candid episode, Dan and Kyle dive deep into the raw realities of childhood trauma, bar fights, and high-pressure moments that define us. Discover how early struggles with fear, insecurity, and anger shape the men we become—and how kindness, forgiveness, and self-awareness are the real game changers.From wild college bar brawls and risky rock climbing to the toughest moments in therapy rooms, they share stories that reveal what happens when life hits hard—and how understanding those moments can...


Making Hard Decisions
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#33
05/22/2026

Most of us spend our mornings chasing that first satisfying sip of coffee—an experience that grounds us, awakens our senses, and makes us appreciate life's simple pleasures. But what if the real magic isn’t just in the coffee, but in the moments of unfiltered gratitude and connection they spark? Dive into a thought-provoking conversation where the everyday becomes extraordinary as we explore the deep links between simple rituals, decision-making, and life-purpose.In this episode, Dan and Kyle peel back the layers of routine to reveal how small daily habits—like that first cup of coffee or a campin...


Catching Up After A Break
#32
05/11/2026

Most of us would rather avoid the chaos of audits, weight struggles, and relationship pressures — but ignoring them only makes things worse. In this candid episode, Dan and Kyle peel back the curtain on real-life stressors that threaten your mental wellbeing and show you how honest conversations and small daily choices can transform chaos into clarity. Kyle opens up about the sleepless nights and anxiety that come with private practice audits, revealing a surprising mindset shift that helped him regain control. Meanwhile, Dan shares how his own sobriety journey has reshaped his relationships and daily habits, highlighting the power of...


The Unexpected Power of Distraction During Painful Life Challenges
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#31
04/17/2026

Most people don't realize how much pain and frustration are invisible struggles—until life forces you to confront them head-on. In this intense and honest episode, Dan Johnson shares his raw experience recovering from a brutal knee replacement, revealing lessons about pain, patience, and the invisible burdens carried by everyone around us.You’ll discover why understanding your own limits is crucial—not just physically but emotionally and mentally—and how managing others’ expectations can dramatically impact your wellbeing. 

Dan unpacks the importance of communication during times of suffering, the dangers of unhealthy distraction, and how practicing empathy tra...


Mental Resilience
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#30
04/10/2026

Most men overlook the profound power of controlling their emotions — until life throws a major flood at them. Kyle and Dan share raw, real stories of water damage, unexpected setbacks, and the resilience it takes to stay calm amid chaos. What if the secret to navigating life's toughest moments isn't just about fixing the problem but managing your mindset? In this episode, discover how patience and conscious control can turn overwhelming disasters into opportunities for growth. Kyle shares how he stayed cool in the face of his basement flooding twice, emphasizing that our emotional reactions often determine the quality of...


You Can't Go Back: Life Lessons
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#29
03/19/2026

Most entrepreneurs and self-employed professionals will tell you: success hinges on balancing relentless hustle with intentional self-care. But what happens when your work-life balance tips too far? Kyle and Dan peel back the curtain on the gritty realities of building a business while trying to stay healthy, connected, and mentally strong.In this episode, they dive into the true cost of working 24/7, the importance of risk-taking, and the secret to maintaining relationships amidst chaos. You'll discover: how to recognize the subtle signs your relationship is struggling before it’s too late, practical tips for staying disciplined with fitness despite a...


Is Life Hard?
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#28
03/09/2026

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Keeping Up With...
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#27
02/27/2026

In this episode of the Man Therapy Podcast, Dan and Kyle discuss the impact of weather on mental health, reflecting on how seasonal changes affect behavior and social interactions. They share their thoughts on the recent Super Bowl, touching on cultural shifts in entertainment and the challenges of family vacations in today's world. The conversation delves into the financial realities of family life, emphasizing the importance of budgeting and communication. They explore the value of experiences over material possessions and the need to balance living well with financial responsibility, all while navigating life's vulnerabilities and the preciousness of time...


Real Life Crisis
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#26
02/13/2026

In this episode of Man Therapy, Dan Johnson shares a deeply personal story about a health crisis involving his wife, Sarah, who experienced a severe asthma attack that led to her being admitted to the ICU. The conversation explores the emotional turmoil and fear that accompanied this experience, as well as the profound realizations about love, faith, and the importance of support during difficult times. Dan reflects on how this crisis shifted his perspective on life, relationships, and the trivialities that often cause stress. The discussion emphasizes the value of presence, communication, and empathy in navigating family dynamics and...


Sometimes Life Is A Pile Of Poop
#25
02/04/2026

In this episode of Man Therapy, Dan and Kyle discuss various aspects of parenting, health, and personal growth. They share humorous and embarrassing childhood stories, delve into the challenges of managing children's sports and weight, and reflect on the importance of kindness and leadership in parenting. The conversation also touches on the significance of faith and personal development as they navigate their roles as fathers and individuals. They emphasize the need for purposeful actions in parenting and the impact of their behaviors on their children.

Takeaways

Nurses are essential and often underappreciated.Owning embarrassing moments can...


What Is Weaponizing?
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#24
01/24/2026

In this episode of the Man Therapy Podcast, hosts Dan and Kyle dive into a variety of topics, starting with their excitement for sports and the Super Bowl. They then transition into a deeper discussion about the concept of weaponization in relationships, exploring how individuals may manipulate emotions and situations to gain control. The conversation shifts to love languages, emphasizing the importance of understanding emotional needs in relationships. They conclude with practical advice on navigating these dynamics and the value of counseling for personal growth and relationship health.

Takeaways

The Super Bowl brings excitement and community...


Man Therapy: B.S. Session
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#23
01/16/2026

In this episode of the Man Therapy podcast, hosts Dan Johnson and Kyle discuss their experiences and reflections as they transition into 2026. They share personal anecdotes about their holiday season, including challenges with health, family gatherings, and the pressures of parenting. The conversation shifts to the impact of social media and the pervasive negativity in society, exploring how it affects mental health and interpersonal relationships. They emphasize the importance of personal responsibility and accountability, particularly in the context of parenting and self-improvement. The episode culminates in a candid discussion about addiction, sobriety, and the ongoing journey of self-discovery and...


Taking A Break From The Serious
#22
12/19/2025

In this episode, Kyle and Dan dive into the humorous and relatable aspects of family life, sharing stories about childhood memories, parenting challenges, and the quirks of marriage. They reflect on the lessons learned from their parents, the evolution of their own parenting styles, and the importance of letting go of perfectionism. The conversation is filled with laughter as they discuss everything from sleeping arrangements at in-laws' houses to the art of loading a dishwasher efficiently. Join them for a light-hearted and insightful discussion that captures the essence of navigating family dynamics with humor and grace.


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Insight From A Marriage Councilor: Continued
#21
12/12/2025

In this episode of the Man Therapy Podcast, hosts Dan and Kyle discuss the joys of winter and nostalgic childhood memories, particularly around snow and sledding. They transition into the stress of holiday shopping and the importance of thoughtful gift-giving in relationships. The conversation shifts to insights from a marriage counselor, focusing on the dynamics of intimacy and the challenges couples face as they navigate changes in their relationship. They explore the complexities of sexual intimacy, particularly in the context of biological changes and life stressors, emphasizing the need for open communication and understanding between partners.

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Insight From A Marriage Councilor: Review
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#20
12/06/2025

In this episode of the Man Therapy podcast, Dan and Kyle discuss various themes surrounding fantasy football, holiday family dynamics, and the challenges of maintaining relationships amidst the busyness of life. They reflect on the importance of communication, personal growth, and the value of couples counseling in navigating relationship struggles. The conversation also touches on the pressures of holiday traditions and the significance of prioritizing the couple's relationship while managing parenting responsibilities.

Takeaways:

Fantasy football can be frustrating and full of unwritten rules.Family gatherings during the holidays can highlight the importance of good relationships.Christmas...


Insight From A Marriage Councilor: Leanne Peterson
#19
11/21/2025

In this engaging conversation, therapist Leanne Peterson discusses the complexities of modern relationships, focusing on the unique challenges men face in expressing their emotions and the evolving expectations of partnerships. The discussion covers the importance of communication, recognizing toxic patterns, and the need for personal growth within relationships. Leanne emphasizes the significance of shared values, particularly in parenting and financial management, and offers practical strategies for couples to strengthen their connections and navigate conflicts effectively.

Takeaways:

The quality of our relationships is key to happiness.Men often lack outlets to express their feelings, making therapy crucial...


Vices: Booze, Sugar, & Screen Time
#18
11/14/2025

The conversation explores the challenges and strategies of managing our vices, specifically booze, sugar, digital devices in family life, focusing on the benefits of a digital detox for children and the importance of parental alignment in implementing these changes.

Takeaways:

Having an internal conversation about device removal is crucial.Getting on the same page with your spouse can lead to better outcomes.Removing devices can lead to significant changes in children's behavior.Limiting device usage can improve children's well-being.Parents need to have the courage to enforce device limitations.A digital detox can foster healthier family...


Raising Resilient Kids Through Sports
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10/31/2025

In this conversation, Dan discusses the importance of commitment and resilience in youth sports, particularly wrestling. He shares a personal story about his son’s initial reluctance to participate and emphasizes the need for children to learn responsibility and the value of teamwork. Dan believes that allowing kids to quit can lead to a lifelong habit of giving up, and he stresses the significance of showing up for teammates.

Takeaways;

Teaching kids commitment is crucial for their development.Resilience is a skill that can be nurtured from a young age.The act of quitting can become a...


Sports, Aggression, & B.S.
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#16
10/10/2025

In this episode of the Man Therapy Podcast, Dan and Kyle discuss various themes surrounding sports, masculinity, conflict, and the importance of community. They share personal anecdotes about coaching youth sports, the thrill of watching games, and the nature of aggression in men. The conversation delves into the evolution of human behavior, the role of religion in mental health, and the significance of maintaining connections with others. Ultimately, they emphasize the value of kindness and the need for supportive communities in navigating life's challenges.

Takeaways

Coaching youth sports brings joy and laughter.Watching college sports is...


Taking Responsibility For Your Household
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09/26/2025

In this episode of the Man Therapy Podcast, hosts Dan and Kyle explore the intricacies of family life, work-life balance, and emotional responsibility. They share personal experiences of transitioning to self-employment to spend more time with their families, discuss strategies for managing moods, and the impact of technology on children's behavior. The conversation emphasizes the importance of humor, emotional maturity, and effective communication in parenting, while also addressing the challenges of modern family dynamics. In this conversation, Dan and Kyle explore the challenges of parenting in a digital age, discussing the impact of technology on childhood, the importance of...


How To Identify Those Who Struggle
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09/19/2025

In this episode, Dan and Kyle discuss the importance of mental health awareness, particularly focusing on suicide prevention and the unique challenges faced by men. They share personal experiences, delve into statistics surrounding suicide, and explore the signs of suicidal thoughts. The conversation emphasizes the need for connection and support, especially in the age of social media, and concludes with resources for those in distress.

Takeaways:

Mental health discussions are crucial for awareness.Suicide rates are alarmingly high, especially among men.Men often use more lethal methods for suicide than women.Feelings of failure and shame...


Redefining Masculinity in Modern Society
#13
09/05/2025

In this episode of the Man Therapy Podcast, Dan and Kyle discuss various themes surrounding masculinity, humor, and personal growth. They share personal updates about their lives, including the challenges of parenting and health issues. The conversation delves into the concept of toxic masculinity, the definition of good men in today's society, and the importance of humor in navigating life's challenges. They also touch on accountability in personal health and the significance of individuality and perspective in understanding societal norms.

Takeaways:

Humor is a powerful tool for shifting moods.Good men exist and often go unnoticed...


How To Find The Right Counselor
#12
08/29/2025

In this episode of the Man Therapy podcast, Dan and Kyle discuss the complexities of counseling, including the importance of meeting clients where they are, the challenges of finding the right counselor, and the impact of personal beliefs on the counseling process. They explore the dynamics of modern relationships, the significance of in-laws, and the role of accountability in personal growth. The conversation emphasizes the need for ethical boundaries in counseling and the value of journaling as a tool for mental clarity.

Takeaways:

Meet the client where they're at.Counseling is about helping clients grow.It's...


The Definition Of Man Has Changed
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08/22/2025

In this episode of Man Therapy, Dan and Kyle discuss their weekend experiences, touching on the challenges of summer heat and family activities. They delve into the complexities of male attraction and the societal expectations surrounding masculinity. The conversation shifts to health, diet, and the impact of aging on physical well-being. They explore the importance of accountability in lifestyle changes and reflect on the evolving definition of manhood in contemporary society. The episode concludes with a discussion on generational perspectives on fatherhood and the cultural shifts that have influenced modern masculinity.

Takeaways:

The summer heat can...


Stress Stew
#10
08/15/2025

In this episode of the Man Therapy Podcast, Dan and Kyle reflect on the challenges and joys of parenting as summer comes to an end. They discuss the dynamics of sibling relationships, the importance of quality time, and the stress that can arise in family life. The conversation delves into the complexities of communication in relationships, particularly regarding intimacy and emotional support. They emphasize the need for empathy and understanding in navigating life's challenges together, while also addressing the impact of stress on relationships. The hosts encourage open dialogue and reflection on the journey of parenthood, highlighting the importance...


You Can't "Perfect Game" Life
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#9
08/07/2025

In this episode, the hosts delve into the theme of fear, particularly as it relates to men and their experiences in personal and professional life. They discuss the pressures men face to succeed, the fear of failure, and how social media can exacerbate feelings of inadequacy. The conversation also touches on the importance of support from loved ones, the journey to self-employment, and the transformation that comes from facing fears head-on. Ultimately, the episode emphasizes the need for courage and the acceptance of discomfort in order to live a fulfilling life. In this conversation, Kyle and Dan explore the...


Working Through Conflict & Resentment
#8
07/31/2025

In this episode of the Man Therapy podcast, hosts Dan and Kyle explore various themes surrounding life experiences, personal growth, and the challenges of adulthood. They discuss the significance of nicknames, the importance of gratitude in work, and the eye-opening experiences of travel. The conversation delves into the surprises of adulthood, including the aging of parents and the complexities of marriage. They reflect on the lessons learned from their own childhoods and the importance of preparing the next generation for life's challenges. The episode concludes with thoughts on career paths and the risks associated with pursuing one's passions.

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Your Relationship With Yourself
#7
07/25/2025

In this conversation, Dan and Kyle explore the complexities of modern life, the struggles of balancing personal and professional responsibilities, and the importance of understanding one's relationship with oneself. They discuss the duality of personality, the role of the inner critic, and the dynamics of optimism and pessimism in relationships. The conversation also touches on the happiness curve, the impact of medication on mental health, and the significance of empathy in navigating life's challenges. Ultimately, they emphasize the need for balance and self-awareness in achieving personal growth and happiness.

Takeaways:

The stress of modern life can...


Fatherhood & Fitness
#6
07/21/2025

In this conversation, Dan and Kyle explore the multifaceted aspects of fatherhood, physical fitness, and mental health. They share personal anecdotes about the challenges of parenting, the importance of maintaining physical fitness, and the impact of alcohol on their lives. The discussion also delves into the significance of setting health goals, the role of routine and accountability, and the connection between sleep and overall well-being. They emphasize the need for self-improvement and the benefits of outdoor activities, ultimately encouraging listeners to prioritize their health and cherish moments with their children.takeaways

Fatherhood comes with unique challenges and joys...


The Impact of Role Models on Parenting
#5
07/10/2025

In this engaging conversation, Dan and Kyle explore the concept of role models, particularly in the context of parenting. They discuss their personal experiences with role models, the importance of self-reflection, and the impact of their actions on their children. The dialogue emphasizes the need for honesty, the challenges of high expectations, and the significance of leading by example. They also touch on the complexities of parenting styles and the necessity of instilling values in children while navigating modern societal influences.

Takeaways:

A role model is someone who is purposefully aware of their impact on others...