Drinks With the Dinks
Long-term love, no filters, and zero boundaries. We're a couple almost 2 decades in, serving up the realest relationship talk — the laughs, the fights, the freaky stuff, and everything in between.If you’ve ever loved hard, argued harder, or overshared after one too many — this one’s for you.🎧 New episodes every Monday. Hit follow and grab a drink — it’s about to get deep.
Double Income, Full Spotlight: Interviewing DINK: The Musical
This week, we sit down with the creative mind behind DINK: The Musical—the show that hilariously unpacks the double-income-no-kids lifestyle through song, satire, and a whole lot of truth. We dive into the inspiration behind the musical, what it says about modern relationships, and why the DINK life has become such a cultural talking point.
From balancing ambition and partnership to navigating societal expectations, this conversation hits both the funny and the real. Plus, we get some behind-the-scenes insight into the creative process, the challenges of bringing this concept to life through audio storytelling, and what au...
The Art of Communication
Communication is something we all do every day—but how often are we actually good at it? In this episode, we dive into the art of communication: what it really means to be heard, understood, and connected. From the way we argue to how we express love, we explore the subtle (and not-so-subtle) habits that can either strengthen or sabotage our relationships.
We talk about the difference between listening to respond vs. listening to understand, why tone matters more than we think, and how unspoken expectations can create unnecessary tension. This episode breaks down practical ways to co...
PDA: Cute or Cringe?
Is PDA sweet… or should some things stay private? In this episode, we go head-to-head on public displays of affection—how we acted when we were younger versus now, and whether age changes what’s acceptable. From subtle touches to full-on makeout sessions, we’re breaking down where the line is and who’s crossing it. Bonus: we call out the most awkward places to show affection (and yes, we’ve all seen that couple).
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He’ll Walk It Off, She Already Googled It
In this episode, we dive into the wildly different ways men and women approach their health. From men avoiding the doctor at all costs to women diagnosing themselves before the appointment is even booked, we unpack the habits, fears, and social norms behind it all. Is it stubbornness? Conditioning? Or just pure denial? Grab a drink and join us as we compare checkups, pain tolerance, and why “I’m fine” means very different things depending on who says it.
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Defend the Take
In our 40th episode we hit the road! Apologies in advance for the less than stellar audio, but when you're as busy as we are, sometimes you need to multitask and record while you drive to Disney.
We play a little game called defend the take where a random hot take is chosen and one of us has to defend it (even if we don't agree) while the other person tries to destroy it.
Thank you everyone that has supported us up until this point, we appreciate all of you!
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Un-Happy Birthday Ryan!
Some people count down the days to their birthday, while others would rather let it pass quietly. In this episode, we dive into why birthdays can bring out completely different feelings in people. From childhood expectations and personality differences to the pressure of getting older, we explore the psychology behind why some people love the spotlight while others would rather skip the candles altogether. We also talk about how past experiences, and personal milestones can shape the way we view our own birthday. Whether you’re the type to throw a big party or just treat it like any ot...
The Let Them Theory
In this episode, we dive into The Let Them Theory and how one simple mindset shift can completely change your relationships, stress levels, and expectations. We talk about what “let them” really means, why trying to control other people is exhausting, and how releasing that need can actually bring more peace into your marriage and everyday life.
From friendships and relationships, to random strangers being annoying in public, we break down real-life examples of when “letting them” is easier said than done — and how learning this skill can protect your energy and your relationship. Expect honest rea...
Homeownership
Homeownership sounded like a flex… until the first unexpected bill hit. In this episode, we get real about what owning a house is actually like — from the surprise costs nobody warned us about to the debate of buying new vs old (spoiler: both will try to drain your bank account). We break down the positives and negatives of being homeowners, talk about whether it’s helped or hurt our relationship, and what it feels like to start outgrowing the place you once dreamed of.
If you’re renting, buying, or already knee-deep in repairs, this one’s for you. C...
Half Way Hooligans
In this episode, we take a trip back to our hooligan era — when Friday nights meant the skating rink, questionable dance moves, and way too much PDA in public places. From awkward make-out sessions behind arcade machines to dabbling in things we definitely thought made us cool at the time, we unpack the chaos of growing up with very little shame and a lot of confidence.
We’re talking about the wild mix of innocence and poor decisions that defined our teen years: sneaking around, learning boundaries the hard way, and somehow surviving it all with our rela...
Leap of Faith
Taking a leap of faith is easy… until it involves your money, your time, and your marriage. 😅
In this episode, we talk about what it’s really like to chase new ventures—from starting a resin craft business to tossing around the idea of opening a dog bar. We dive into how to support your partner’s business dreams without losing your mind (or your savings), how to tell the difference between a passion project and a pivot, and how to lovingly say, “Hey… maybe it’s time to move on to something new.” Whether you’re launching, dreamin...
Valentine’s Day: The Lore, The Facts & Our Feelings
Valentine’s Day didn’t start with heart-shaped chocolates and awkward dinner reservations… so where did it come from? In this episode, we dive into the surprisingly weird history of Valentine’s Day, share some of the most interesting facts about how this holiday became what it is today, and give our honest opinions on how we feel about it now.
From ancient traditions to modern-day pressure to be “romantic,” we talk about what Valentine’s Day gets right, what it gets wrong, and how we personally choose to celebrate (or not). Whether you love the holiday, hate it, or ju...
"Dear 2007 Us"
In this episode, we crack open our high school memory boxes and read the actual notes we wrote to each other back in 2007 — dramatic handwriting, questionable poetry, and all. To celebrate our 19th dating anniversary, we take a trip down memory lane to revisit who we were as teenagers and how those cringey little notes turned into a real-life marriage.
We talk about young love, growing up together, and what it’s like to see your relationship through the eyes of your past selves. Expect laughs, secondhand embarrassment, and a few surprisingly sweet moments as we compare high...
Boundary Blunder!
This week we stumble our way through boundaries in a relationship. We go through the 6 types of healthy boundaries that "experts" think you should follow for a healthy relationship. If you're not intoxicated or under the influence during this episode, you might want to be.
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Married to My BFF
This week we're talking about the questions, "Is your spouse your best friend?" and "Is it important for your relationship to be best friends?". We give our take on the questions as well as discussing some responses our fans/listeners gave to us. Make sure you listen all the way to the end for an... interesting response we received.
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Let's Get Deep Pt.3
Another milestone for the DINKS, episode 30!!! As is custom, we're getting deep this week. Play along at home with your significant other and let us know how your New Year has started. We want to hear more from our listeners!
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New Year, Same Us (But Better)
Happy New Year!!! This week we're talking about our new years resolutions as a couple. What we plan on doing (or trying to do) to make us a stronger couple. Grab your champagne and let's toast to an amazing 2026 full of love and laughter!
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Holly Jolly Traditions
In this festive episode, we unwrap the magic behind Christmas traditions that bring comfort, joy, and connection during the holiday season. From decorating trees and exchanging gifts to unique family traditions. We explore how these traditions began, how they’ve evolved, and why they still matter today.
Whether your Christmas is filled with cozy family rituals or you’re still discovering new traditions, this episode is a celebration of the moments that make the season special. Grab a warm drink, get comfortable, and join us as we reflect on the traditions that turn Christmas into something truly unfor...
The Great Christmas Gift Debate
In this festive episode, we’re diving into one of the great holiday debates: Do couples make Christmas lists for each other, or should you just buy what you think your partner would love?
From partners who want detailed links and exact sizes, to spouses who insist that guessing is part of the romance, we explore how different couples navigate the season of giving.
We’ll also share listener stories, accidental fails, the psychology behind receiving the “wrong” gift, and why some people would rather skip the mystery altogether.
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The Consistency Crisis
In this week’s episode, we dive into Emma’s ongoing (and honestly, iconic at this point) struggle with consistency. From workout plans that last exactly three days, to morning routines that only happen when the moon is in the right phase, Emma shares the hilarious highs and humbling lows of trying to “show up” on the regular.
Ryan attempts to coach, cheerlead, and occasionally roast her along the way as they unpack why staying consistent feels so impossible in real life. Is it procrastination? Is it burnout? Is it simply that Emma refuses to be told what to...
Happy Thanksgiving!
We hope everyone has an amazing Thanksgiving and gets to spend time with loved ones eating delicious food.
Pull up a chair to our table as we discuss the top 10 Thanksgiving foods according to ChatGPT on this special holiday episode!
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Is There a Text Option for This or Nah?
In this episode, we dive deep into the millennial struggle of having to actually speak to another human being… on the phone. From rehearsing appointment scripts in the mirror to hanging up the second someone says “please hold,” we’re breaking down why simple daily communication tasks feel like Olympic-level events.
We’ll talk dentist calls, the panic of being asked an unexpected question, and why we will always, ALWAYS choose the “text us instead” option when available.
If you’ve ever stared at your phone for 45 minutes before pressing “call,” this episode is your safe space. Tune in...
Childfree… but Chosen: When You’re Asked to Be a Guardian
This week we're talking about the "what if" scenario of being asked to take legal guardianship of your friend or family members kid in the event they are no longer able to do so. As a child free couple, does that effect our decision?
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Fall Favorites
Grab your cider and pull up a chair. This week we're going over our top 10 Fall favorites. Let us know if you agree with our list or if there were some things that we need to add!
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Bro Code Vs Wife Code
This week, we’re diving headfirst into the unspoken (but very real) laws that govern friendships and relationships — the Bro Code and the Wife Code. From backing your buddy no matter what to keeping the peace at home, we’re breaking down where loyalty, logic, and love collide.
Is it ever okay to break the Bro Code for your partner? Does the Wife Code always trump the Bros when marriage enters the picture? We’re sharing hilarious real-life scenarios, hypothetical “who do you do first” moments, and a few confessions that might just start some debates.
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A Haunted Happy Hour
All Hallows Eve is right around the corner and we're diving headfirst into all things Halloween! From the best (and worst) candy, past costumes, and some of our favorite Halloween movies. Let's get spooky!
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Let's Get Deep Pt2
A momentous occasion, episode 20! Just like way back in episode 10, we're getting deep.
We want to send a huge thank you to everyone that's supported us so far. We can't wait for the next 20 episodes with all of you!
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'Til Debt Do Us Part
This week we’re diving into finances; for richer or poorer as they say. When is the right time to start talking about finances in a relationship, and when to have the “talk” about what’s yours is mine sweetie. We talk the pros and cons of a joint account vs having a personal “fun” account to use on whatever you want. Should everything be out there on the table, or is ok to have some financial privacy?
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Pet Peeves
In this episode, we’re spilling the tea on all those funny little pet peeves that come with being in a relationship. From backseat driving to not putting a pillowcase on your pillow, we’re sharing the quirks that make us roll our eyes—but also make us laugh. It’s all in good fun as we swap stories, poke fun at each other, and remind ourselves that love comes with a few lovable annoyances. Tune in for some playful banter and plenty of “oh my gosh, same!” moments.
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Side Hustle or Hassle
In this episode we're sipping and sharing all about our "get rich quick"' schemes. From our earliest endeavors to the project you're listening to today. Was it all worth it? Grab and drink and let's find out!
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Last Fling Before the Ring
From mild to wild to a little awkward, this week we're talking about Bachelor and Bachelorette parties. The "final enjoyment of freedom" before the "lockdown of marriage".
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Mental Health
In this episode, we open up about our personal journeys with mental health — from struggles we faced as kids in elementary school to the challenges that followed us into adulthood. We talk honestly about the ups, the downs, and the lessons we’ve learned along the way. This conversation also touches on self-harm, so please take care while listening.
If you or someone you know is struggling, you are not alone. Help is out there — we encourage you to reach out to a trusted friend, family member, or professional for support.
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Cheers to Friendship
In this episode of Drinks with the Dinks, we’re pouring one out for friendship. 🍻 We share our own story of becoming friends, the ups and downs of our friend group, and how those dynamics shift as life changes. From navigating childfree vs. parent friendships, to spotting the red flags (and celebrating the green ones) that make or break a bond, we get real about what it takes to keep connections strong over the years.
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A Swift Proposal
With the big proposal that rocked the world this week, we decided it's the perfect time to talk about engagements! We share our engagement stories, yes there was more than one, as well as some other thoughts on subject. The good proposals and ones that didn't quiet live up to expectations. Grand gestures or minimalist? Take a knee, say yes, and join us this week as we dive deep into proposals.
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Let's Talk About Ex Baby
This week we're talking about ex! Some past relationships we've had and how they've helped or hurt us in our current relationship. We talk a little about some of our friends relationships from an outsiders point of view and whether or not it's healthy to stay in contact with your ex after a breakup. Grab a drink and let's get
"Exy"...
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Neighbors
This week we sit down and talk about neighbors. From the ones we love to have, to the ones we want to get rid of.
If you have any neighbor nightmares or success stories, we want to hear about them!
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Let's Get Deep
In a momentous 10th episode, we sit down and play a little game of "Let's Get Deep" (couples edition). A card game from the creators of What Do You Meme.
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The Reality Behind Our Picture-Perfect Vacations
Ever wonder what happens when those picture-perfect vacation photos disappear from social media? The raw, unfiltered moments of couple travel are exactly what we're diving into this week. From crying behind sunglasses after an argument to the strategic coordination required when navigating new destinations together, we're pulling back the curtain on what traveling as a childless couple really looks like.
We take you through our favorite destinations, with the Pacific Northwest and particularly the San Juan Islands holding special places in our hearts. Emma shares her emotional connection to seeing wild orcas and how that experience shaped...
Dating In Today's World
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Moving In Together
This week we're talking about moving in together. Are you ready to take that next step in your relationship? What things should you and your partner talking about before taking that leap? Grab a drink with us and lets discuss!
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Choosing to be Child Free
Why are we called the DINKS?
In our realest episode yet, we’re talking about why we chose to be child-free. We both grew up thinking we’d have kids someday—but things changed, and we did a full 180. Being a parent is amazing for a lot of people, but it’s not for everyone. For us, having the freedom—financially and day-to-day—just matters more. And honestly, sometimes kids can get in the way of the life you really want.
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