Pacific Empowerment
Pacific Empowerment Podcast was founded by a Tongan woman entrepreneur, Akanesi Kaufusi, to uplift and inspire Pacific Island people to take bold action, chase their dreams, and dream as big as they dare. This podcast challenges the limitations of traditional thinking and cultural expectations that often hold our people back. It’s a space to break free from fear, take risks, and rewrite what’s possible - no matter your background or environment. Your situation doesn’t define you. Your vision does.
Episode 55 - WHEN CULTURE REPLACES CHRIST: Tabua, the Highest Treasure in Fiji.
In this episode, we examine how tabua and yaqona (kava) have become deeply honoured within Fijian culture, and whether these traditions have taken a place that belongs to Jesus Christ alone.
When cultural traditions receive the honour, reverence, and spiritual significance that belong to God, culture can become an idol.
📖 “You shall have no other gods before Me.” — Exodus 20:3
Is Fiji honouring culture above Christ? Join us as we confront the uncomfortable question of culture vs. Christ.
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EPISODE 54 - YOU CANNOT SERVE BOTH GOD AND CULTURE.
“No one who puts his hand to the plough and looks back is fit for the kingdom of God.” — Luke 9:62
What happens when we say we follow Christ, but continue looking back to the traditions, beliefs, and practices of our ancestors?
In this episode of Pacific Empowerment, Akanesi Kaufusi sits down with Merenaisi Waqavakatoga for a challenging conversation about Christ, culture, and the cost of following Jesus wholeheartedly.
You cannot move forward with Christ while constantly looking back.
👉 DON’T LOOK BACK: CHRIST OVER CULTURE.
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Episode 53 - How Can the Pacific Come Out of Culture?
In this episode, Merenaisi Waqavakatoga and I discuss the wicked and ungodly parts of our Pacific cultures and how Pacific Islanders can let go of them and follow Jesus Christ.
For many Pacific Islanders, renouncing culture is difficult because culture is deeply connected to our identity, family, and way of life. But as followers of Christ, we are called to find our true identity in Him and be willing to let go of anything that goes against the Word of God.
We also discuss the culture of the Kingdom of Heaven versus the culture of...
Episode 52 - End Times Prophecy: A Warning to the Pacific.
In this Episode, Merenaisi Waqavakatoga and I continue our discussion from the previous episode, diving deeper into end-times prophecy, Pacific culture, and the warnings given concerning the days ahead.
How should we as Pacific Islanders live and prepare for the return of Jesus Christ? What cultural practices do we need to examine in light of God’s Word?
“Therefore you also must be ready, for the Son of Man is coming at an hour you do not expect.” - Matthew 24:44
🌊 A warning to the Pacific: Jesus is coming. Are we re...
Episode 51 - Fijian Demonic Cultures: Are Fijians the Black Israelites?
In this episode, we sit down with Merenaisi Waqavakatoga to explore the spiritual side of Fijian culture and traditions, including practices believed to have pagan or demonic origins.
We also investigate the fascinating question: Are Fijians descendants of the Israelites? We discuss Fijian ancestry, the Lapita people, biblical history, and the possible connections between ancient Israel and the people of Fiji.
Join us as we uncover history, challenge cultural beliefs, and put Christ over culture.
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Episode 50 - Can You Lose Your Salvation?
What is salvation? What does it really mean to be saved? Can a born-again Christian fall back into sin? Can you lose your salvation? Is "once saved, always saved" truly biblical?
These are some of the most debated questions in Christianity today. In this episode, we dive deep into the Bible to examine what God's Word really says about salvation, repentance, perseverance, and eternal security. Together, we'll explore key passages often used on both sides of the debate, study the original Greek meanings of important words, and examine the context of each passage to better u...
Episode 49 - Spiritual Warfare: Fighting the Real Enemy.
In this episode, I discuss spiritual warfare, the recent backlash over the Samoan podcast, and how God has shown me that our true battle is not against people, but against evil. I also share my thoughts on the book I'm currently reading, A Divine Revelation of Hell, and why no worldly pleasure is worth risking eternity with Christ.
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Episode 48 - How Kava Addiction Is Destroying Marriages in Fiji.
In this powerful and eye-opening episode, Solomone Koroi shares his personal journey of being trapped in kava addiction, how it affected his marriage and family, and the devastating impact he has seen kava have on many families in Fiji.
Solomone opens up about the reality of addiction, the struggles it brought into his home, and how it almost cost him everything. Most importantly, he shares how Jesus Christ transformed his life, set him free from addiction, and restored hope, purpose, and healing.
If you or someone you know is struggling with addiction, we pray this...
Episode 47 - I Sold My Tattoo Business After Finding Jesus – Tattoos Are Demonic.
In this powerful episode, a former Samoan tattoo artist, Mua Posala, shares his journey from running a successful tattoo business to giving it all up after accepting Jesus Christ.
He talks about learning the art through family traditions in Samoa, the lifestyle that came with money and worldly success, and how his life and marriage were transformed when he found Christ. He explains why he now believes tattoos are demonic, discusses the meaning of culture, and challenges Pacific people to examine their traditions through the lens of the Gospel.
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Episode 46 - Is Tou'a Human Trafficking?
IS TOU'A HUMAN TRAFFICKING?
In this episode, we tackle one of the most difficult questions facing our communities today.
Drawing on the testimonies of former tou'a women, we explore the connections between family pressure, money, power, sexual exploitation, and the expectation that young girls serve men in faikava settings.
We discuss why human trafficking is not only about crossing borders, but also about exploitation, vulnerability, and who benefits while others carry the risks. We also examine the experiences of women who were pressured into tou'a at a young age, sent overseas...
Episode 45 - When Christians say, "It's not the church, it's the individual".
What is the church? Is it a building, a denomination, or the people of God?
In this episode, we explore what the Bible actually teaches about the church and respond to the common claim: "It's not the church, it's the individual." Through Scripture and biblical examples, we discuss accountability, leadership, repentance, and why calling for reform is not attacking the church.
We also provide an update on our proposal to ban tou'a in church faikava and discuss the responsibility of church leaders to protect the vulnerable and uphold biblical standards.
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Episode 44 - How Kava Addiction Affected My Life, Family, and Ministry.
In this episode, I sit down with Fiji Senior Methodist Minister, Reverend Wilfred Regunamada, to discuss his personal battle with kava addiction. We talk about how kava affected his life, family, and ministry, the journey that led to his recovery, and the movement he is now leading to help others struggling with kava addiction. A powerful conversation about addiction, recovery, faith, and hope in the Pacific.
You can follow Wilfred's journey on his Facebook page, Na Vei Buli Vou - The Journey.
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Episode 43 - Wives, Don’t Lose Yourself Trying to Fix a Man Who Refuses to Change.
In this episode, Akanesi Kaufusi speaks directly to the wives of faikava men and any wives struggling emotionally in their marriages.
We discuss emotional neglect, boundaries, healing, supporting husbands with unhealthy habits, and why women should never lose themselves trying to fix a man who refuses to change.
Akanesi also shares some of her own experiences and lessons from celebrating 12 years of marriage.
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Episode 42 - Why Do So Many Pacific Men Treat Their Wives Badly?
In this episode of the, we discuss the shocking rates of domestic violence and sexual abuse against women in the Pacific and ask the hard question: Why do so many Pacific men treat their wives badly?
We dive into culture, faikava, fatherhood, biblical masculinity, and what the Bible actually says about how husbands should love their wives. I also share personal lessons from my own marriage and practical solutions for families, churches, governments, fathers, and husbands to help break these generational cycles.
A wife should feel peace around her husband, not fear.
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Episode 41 - The Impact of Father Absence on Children.
In this episode of the Pacific Empowerment Podcast, I dive deep into the impact of father absence on children, especially within Pacific communities.
Drawing on international studies and real-life experiences shared by women in the community, I discuss the emotional, psychological, and social effects of absent fathers on children.
This is a much-needed conversation about why fathers matter, why children need present and loving leadership, and how the choices adults make today can shape future generations.
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Episode 40 - How Touʻa Changed From Men to Women.
In this episode, we dive deep into the history and evolution of Touʻa in Tongan faikava culture.
Was Touʻa originally a male role? How did it change over time from sacred ceremony into modern faikava settings? Drawing from academic research, oral history, and historical records, we explore the three types of faikava identified by Futa Helu and discuss how war, migration, and social change transformed the role of Touʻa in Tongan society.
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Episode 39 - Pagan Origins of Kava.
In this episode, we go deeper than culture and tradition to uncover the true origins of kava. Where did it come from? What beliefs shaped it? And why does its history matter today?
We explore ancient Tongan stories like Kavaʻonau and ʻAhoʻeitu, revealing a world rooted in pagan beliefs, sacrifice, hierarchy, and spiritual systems very different from what many people follow today. From stories involving sacrifice and cannibalism to the role of kava in royal ceremonies connected to divine ancestry, this episode challenges the idea that kava is simply harmless tradition.
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In this episode, I explore what happens when culture is placed above God, and why that becomes idolatry.
After sharing that kava is classified as a drug, someone responded, “We know it’s true… but it’s our culture.” That statement reveals a deeper issue: knowing the truth is not enough if we refuse to change.
Drawing from Scripture, I unpack how idolatry is not just about statues, but anything we prioritise, defend, or refuse to let go of, even when it goes against God.
This episode challenges us to reflect on what we are tru...
Episode 37 - Addiction Starts Early: What Kava Is Doing to Our Children.
In this episode, we unpack what addiction really is, what leads to it, and why early exposure to substances matters more than people think. From brain development to environment and culture, we break down how habits are formed and how they can shape a person’s future.
We also confront a growing issue in our communities - young children being introduced to kava. Is kava really a “better alternative” to alcohol?
This episode challenges the normalisation of substance use among youth and asks the hard questions:
What are we teaching our children? Are we protectin...Episode 36 - My Estranged Relationship with Pacific Media.
This episode is about my estranged relationship with Pacific media - featuring some interesting interactions, a few receipts, and screenshots that speak for themselves 👀
I also react to a recent faikava and tou’a video posted by ABC Pacific, breaking down what’s being highlighted…and more importantly, what’s being left out.
I share real testimonials from women who have experienced sexual assault after faikava, stories that deserve to be heard, not ignored. If we only tell the “good side,” we fail the very people who need protection the most.
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Episode 35 - How Kava Was Used for Witchcraft in the Pacific.
Kava has long been a central part of Pacific culture, but its history goes deeper than many realise. In this episode, we explore how kava was traditionally used in spiritual systems, including rituals, divination, and communication with ancestors. We also look at how missionaries viewed these practices and why they attempted to eliminate kava in some regions, with varying success across the Pacific.
Drawing on historical research and modern perspectives, this episode examines both the cultural significance and the social impact of kava today, raising important questions about its place in contemporary Pacific life and Christian practice.<...
Episode 34 - Queen Salote College at 100: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly.
As Queen Salote College celebrates its 100th anniversary this week, I take a trip down memory lane and reflect on my years at the college.
In this episode, I share the good, the bad, and the ugly of my high school years at Queen Salote College. From memorable moments and school events to addressing rumours and stories that have resurfaced, I’m giving my honest reflection on that chapter of my life.
High school experiences shape us in many ways, and this episode is my chance to tell my side of th...
Episode 33 - Patriarchy: Who Makes the Rules and Who Do They Benefit?
In this episode of the Pacific Empowerment Podcast, we explore the concept of patriarchy and ask an important question: who makes the rules, and who do those rules benefit?
Looking at history, from the women’s suffrage movement to global examples of women challenging restrictive systems, we unpack how patriarchal structures have shaped societies and influenced the roles women are expected to play. Throughout history, courageous women have questioned these systems and pushed for change, proving that progress often begins when people refuse to accept the status quo.
We then bring the conversation in...
Episode 32 - Power, Sex & Money: Confronting Abuse in Pacific Communities
In this episode, I sit down with Pastor Letitia Shelton, who grew up in Fiji and now serves across Fiji and Australia to have a bold and honest conversation about sexual abuse, exploitation, and the silence that often surrounds it in Pacific communities. We unpack the realities of power, sex, and money, and how these forces can be misused within culture, community spaces, and even church settings.
We also discuss her work addressing the harms of pornography and its impact on families, young people, and relationships, while challenging church leaders to step up and truly protect the...
Episode 31 - Tou’a: Exploited vs Willing Participation
In this episode, I take an honest look at the tou’a practice, focusing on the difficult topic many avoid, the tou’a who willingly engages in relationships with married faikava men.
I share real testimonials from wives who were cheated on, betrayed, or even abandoned when their husbands ran away with tou’as, revealing the deep emotional trauma and lasting impact on women and children left to suffer in silence.
I also address the troubling silence from some Tongan churches, questioning where the accountability and moral leadership are when families are being destroyed.
This...
Episode 30 - Epstein vs. Faikavastein: The Pattern of Predators
In this episode, I unpack the disturbing patterns behind Jeffrey Epstein’s crimes, including the children’s photos and artwork found throughout his home, and what they reveal about how predators normalize their obsession.
Then I turn the lens closer to home.
I read real testimonials from women who were sexually abused in certain faikava environments when they were young. The patterns are chillingly similar: grooming, silence, power, and protection.
This is not about attacking culture.
This is about exposing predatory behaviour and protecting our children.
Listener discretion advised.
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Episode 29 - Ban Tou‘a Campaign Is Live - Sign the Petition Now!
In this episode, Akanesi Kaufusi launches the Ban Tou‘a campaign, calling for the protection of women, children, and families in faikava spaces.She shares the challenges she has faced online, the Pacific-wide support behind the movement, survivor testimonies, and why legal reform in Tonga is urgently needed.Learn about Pasifika Empowerment’s mission and how you can help create lasting change.
Let’s get the 50,000-signature target reached soon.The quicker you sign and the more you share, the faster change happens.This is your chance to have your voice heard.
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Episode 28 - What 2025 Taught Me: Fearless, Courage & Unstoppable
This episode marks my final podcast for 2025 as I take a short break over Christmas and New Year, before returning after the holidays.
In this episode, I reflect on my journey throughout the year - the growth of the podcast, the ups and downs, and the challenging but necessary conversations around kava and tou'a issues. I share what this season has taught me about resilience, gratitude, and staying grounded in purpose.
I also share more faikava testimonies sent to me, continuing to raise awareness and encourage honest...
Episode 27 - Hepatitis B in the Pacific: Hidden Liver Damage in Our Families
⚠️ Disclaimer
This episode is for awareness and educational purposes only. It is not medical advice. Always seek guidance from a qualified doctor before testing or taking any medication.
In this week’s episode, Kori Tameifuna shares her Tongan husband’s journey with chronic Hepatitis B - a silent health issue affecting many Pacific families. We talk about how the virus is passed down, why those born in the 80s, 90s, and early 2000s should get tested, and the serious impact it has on the liver. We also discuss how kava and alcohol can worsen liver health without...
Episde 26 - Cyberbullying in the Pacific: Our Talk on 16 Days of Activism
This week, I sit down with Lizzie Wong to break down 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence and what it means for Pacific Island people. We talk through this year’s theme on ending digital violence and why online abuse is now one of the biggest threats facing Pacific women and girls.
I also share my own experience with cyberbullying, and together we unpack the different forms of online harassment that many Pacific women face today. We discuss real solutions, practical safety tips, and how our communities can create safer digital spaces for our sisters, da...
Episode 25 - Letting Go of Old Traditions: From Catholic Doctrine to Pacific Practices
In this powerful episode, Akanesi dives deep into how God has been speaking through Scripture - revealing that not all traditions passed down through generations come from Him. Using the recent Catholic shift away from the belief that Mary is “Co-Redeemer” as a starting point, she explores how even long-held religious traditions can change when they don’t align with biblical truth.
Akanesi shares a personal testimony about how God has been speaking through the exact same Scriptures again and again, revealing a powerful message for the Pacific.
This episode directly confronts harmful Pacific practices that c...
Episode 24 - Epstein, Power & the Pacific: Why No One Is Untouchable
In this powerful new episode of Pacific Empowerment, host Akanesi dives into the truth behind the release of the Epstein Files, and why this moment matters for our Pacific communities.
In this episode, we uncover who Jeffrey Epstein really was, what happened behind the luxury and influence, and the links to presidents, royalty, and elites. Most importantly, we confront the dangerous similarities in our own Pacific communities, especially in faikava spaces where some men believe culture and connection can protect abusive behaviour.
This conversation is a reminder to us all:
No title, no s...
Episode 23 - Discussing Academic Papers on the Tou‘a
In this week’s episode, I discuss academic research on the role of the tou‘a - the woman serving kava, and what these studies reveal about women’s experiences inside faikava spaces.
I focus on the work of Hilda A. Port, author of the doctoral thesis How Do Evolving Kava-Related Practices Impact the Role of Tongan Women Living in Aotearoa? Her research highlights the realities faced by tou‘a, including the cultural expectations, the vulnerability in certain kava settings, and how evolving practices have changed the way women are viewed and treated in these...
Episode 22 - When Research Misses Reality: Why Kava Studies Don’t Reflect Pacific Life
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In this episode, I analyze Dr. Apo Aporosa’s article of the University of Waikato, "De-mythologizing and Re-branding of Kava as the New ‘World Drug’ of Choice” - a paper that defends kava as safe and culturally misunderstood. But here’s the real question: Can studies done on kava tablets in laboratories truly represent the reality of Pacific Island men drinking bowl after bowl every night?
I also share real testimonies from wives in Fiji, Samoa, and Tonga, women whose husbands’ kava addiction and faikava lifestyle have led to broke...
Episode 21 - What If Faikava Men and Wives Changed Roles?
Kava addiction has become a silent epidemic in the Pacific, breaking homes, stealing time, and blinding our people to their God-given purpose.
In this episode, I read the first testimony from a Samoan wife of an addicted 'ava man.
The response to my kava videos was overwhelming, hundreds of voices from Fiji, Tonga, Samoa, PNG, and across the Pacific opened up about the pain and destruction caused by kava addiction. I share those heartfelt comments, stories of healing, and warnings from families who have lived through the consequences.
I also talk about how t...
Episode 20 - Is Kava Safer Than Alcohol and Drugs?
Many believe kava is safer than alcohol or drugs, but is it really? In this episode, we take an honest look at the hidden effects of kava, alcohol, and drugs on our Pacific communities.
We begin by comparing their impact on addiction, health, families, and spirituality - exposing what’s often disguised as “culture.”
We also receive our first testimony from a Fijian wife of a grog man (the Fijian version of a faikava man), sharing the real pain and struggles of families living with kava addiction.
Beyond awareness, this episode also explores better, smarter...
Episode 19 - Is It a Kava Problem or an Individual Problem?
In this powerful episode, I dive into two major conversations happening right now - one global, one close to home.
First, we look at the historic peace deal between Israel and Palestine that was signed this week - a moment the world has waited decades for. I break down what this agreement means, the background behind the conflict, and why this event is being called one of the most significant milestones in modern history. We’ll also explore how this peace deal connects to us here in the Pacific, our faith, and what le...
Episode 18 - First Policy on Social Kava Use & the Untold Stories of Wives of Faikava Men
In this week’s episode, I talk about the first-ever policy on social kava use introduced by Otago University - a bold and necessary step toward bringing structure, safety, and accountability to kava practices.
I also continue with Part 2 of the testimonies from wives of faikava men, sharing raw and emotional stories that reveal the damaging effects of kava abuse - on families, marriages, and the wellbeing of Pacific women.
These stories are a reminder that while kava holds deep cultural significance, its misuse has created painful realities that can no lon...
Episode 17 - The Dark Side of Faikava and Tou‘a
In this powerful and deeply moving episode, I read out the testimonies of women who have served as tou‘a in faikava circles and bravely shared their experiences of sexual abuse. These are stories that have been silenced for too long - stories of pain, exploitation, and trauma, but also of courage in speaking out.
By giving voice to these women, we confront the darker side of faikava that many in our community would rather ignore. This episode is not about shaming culture but about protecting our women, raising awareness, and demanding accountability.
It’s a ca...
Episode 16 - Well-Behaved Women Rarely Make History
In this episode, I dive into the stories of fierce women throughout history - biblical heroines like Deborah, the prophet and judge who led Israel into battle, and Queen Esther, who risked her life to save her people. I’ll also share the stories of world changers like Rosa Parks, Maya Angelou, Malala, and Oprah, along with Pacific women like Queen Salote Tupou III of Tonga, Dame Whina Cooper of Aotearoa, and Hilda Heine of the Marshall Islands, the first female head of state in Micronesia.
These ar...