We Were Fighting Before This

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By: Disguised Toast & Yvonnie & Studio71

Welcome to We Were Fighting Before This: a podcast hosted by Disguised Toast and Yvonnie where these two best friends bicker, banter, and battle it out over both everything and nothing. It’s unfiltered, unhinged, and unexpectedly wholesome. For advertising opportunities please email  [email protected]    We want to make the podcast even better, help us learn how we can: https://bit.ly/2EcYbu4   Privacy Policy: https://www.studio71.com/terms-and-conditions-use/#Privacy%20Policy

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Is it ok to ask your friends for money? | EP 68 | We Were Fighting Before This
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Pickleball recap, dealing with haters, and should you let friends borrow money? 


Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro 

00:30 Pickleball video thoughts 

15:35 Dealing w/ online stalkers 

20:21 Being hyper aware as a woman 

22:24 Getting pepper sprayed

24:30 Riding in Ubers by yourself 

26:11 Yvonne’s Ultrasound appointment 

29:25 Seeing yourself in the mirror 

31:16 Asking a friend for money 

32:10 Toast lending a friend money 

36:54 Why Toast pays in group settings

39:11 Why Toast is pissed at his friends

41:20 The Vegas dinner...


We're setting Yvonne up on a blind date | EP 67 | We Were Fighting Before This
#67
10/15/2026

The big 6 7 episode is here... 


Timestamps: 

00:00 EPISODE 6 7 

1:01 Yvonne’s bday! 

3:50 Happier in your 30’s or 20’s? 

4:55 Yvonne’s bday present prank 

8:10 Scarra’s bday present for Yvonne 

10:05 Congrats to DSG! 

11:44 Getting affected by comments 

13:15 Life of esports player 

16:45 Yvonne’s NFL trip 

19:40 Reflecting on the bro podcast

21:27 Thoughts on Nate

22:50 Chelsea calls out Nate 

24:03 Dissecting Chelsea 

28:55 Who’s the biggest ragebaiter in OTV 

30:20 How Yvonne feels deals with Toas...


THE BRO EPISODE ft.Toast, Scarra & Nate | EP 66 | We Were Fighting Before This
#66
10/08/2026

The boys take over! A full episode of Toast and Scarra and Nate chatting about life and it's changes and challenges. 


Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro 

1:35 Male friendships 

6:01 Men and sports 

8:28 DSG wins in Riftbound! 

12:01 Toast and Scarra’s thoughts about events

15:12 Scarra’s favorite thing about Chelsea

16:40 Toast “celebrates” Chelsea 

21:03 The boys thoughts on Yvonne…. 

21:22 Why is Chelsea stressed 

23:43 Reading mean comments 

24:45 Toast’s thoughts on being alone 

25:55 Growing up as a man 

27:30 Living...


Hookup mistakes you should never make | EP 65 | We Were Fighting Before This
#65
10/01/2026

 Toast is back in town and we have a lot to catch up on... 


Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro 

1:01 Toast is back in town 

4:36 Is life different without Toast? 

9:15 Yvonne’s apartment is cozy 

10:10 Is Yvonne family? 

11:47 Yvonne questions Toast… 

13:03 Toast doesn’t want Chelsea to help him 

15:05 Chelsea’s HOT questions for Toast 

17:36 Is Yvonne an ally to men?

22:02 How many times have we hooked up 

24:44 Yvonne lists five men she respects 

25:30 Has Yvonne ever helpe...


How Yvonne went on an accidental date | EP 64 | We Were Fighting Before This
#64
09/24/2026

Yvonne's accidental date might have been a blessing in disguise... This week, Toast forces the pod to play pickleball, stay tuned...


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Timestamps: 

00:00 intro 

1:13 The podcast lives on 

3:01 Toast thinks Yvonne is going through it

4:28 Does Toast have friends for Yvonne? 

5:50 Guys going for the same girl…

8:03 Yvonne and Leslie hypotheticals 

11:00 Can a woman or man be bumped up to a 10

12:01 Rewa...


Toast is being squished into a little ball again | EP 63 | We Were Fighting Before This
#63
09/17/2026

The trio is back together and Toast and Yvonne need to address the past couple of episodes...


Timestamps: 00:17 Intro 
1:04 Singapore trip + tournament drama
7:06 Is AI more accepted in Asia?
8:32 Toast’s mom watches the podcast
9:24 Is Toast being “squished into a ball”?
10:38 Does Toast need more backup?
12:56 Toast admits to rage baiting
15:04 How Toast & Yvonne handle tension
18:23 Chelsea is scared of the YouTube comments
20:05 Nate is secretly rage baiting??
21:11 Content creators vs pro gamers
24:22 Toast's Collab with Yunjin
28:50 OTV x SB19 Fear Pong
...


Chelsea’s master plan for Scarra’s dating life | EP 62 | We Were Fighting Before This
#62
09/10/2026

 Scarra and Chelsea are back together for round 2! This time Chelsea needs answers. 


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Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro 

00:45 Scarra’s here!! Again…

2:18 Are Chelsea and Scarra friends now?

3:10 Getting Scarra to play tennis 

5:32 Chelsea on the courts… 

7:30 How Scarra REALLY felt playing tennis again

16:04 Being a tennis influencer…

18:17 Updates on Scarra’s dating life 

20:12 When did Scarra know he was straight

21:45 Femal...


How Leslie and Nate reconnected after 30 years | EP 61 | We Were Fighting Before This
#61
09/03/2026

The Fu siblings are here! Leslie and Nate share how they reunited as siblings and past memories they had apart from each other. 

Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro 

1:20 the Fu Siblings! 

1:55 Who is Nate Fu

4:54 Toast is being squished…

8:10  Does Toast needs backup? 

10:10 The reality of Yvonne and Toast 

11:22 Leslie’s OG streaming days 

14:35 Nate’s streaming POV 

16:25 Being a female streamer 

20:40 OTV parties 

24:34  Leslie on Ryan Higa’s Influence 

26:15 Nate Films with Ryan Higa in Hawaii 

29:54 Th...


OTV's most expensive purchase ever 💸 | EP 60 | We Were Fighting Before This
#60
08/27/2026

Streamers are low maintenance, and we're here to prove it to you.

Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro 

1:20 Big 60th episode

2:42 Toast doesn’t want to be on a team with Yvonne 

8:01 Toast is a yapper 

10:43 Chelsea ranked in Brawl Stars 

12:27 Faker of Brawl Stars 

12:48 Craziest purchases by streamers 

17:03 Streamers are low maintenance 

20:08 Toast loves to sleep on the floor 

23:40 Yvonne is in with the kids 

24:58 Toast has a gripe with OTV 

26:03 Scarra like it COLD 

30:10 OTV ma...


This OTV video wasn't supposed to come out | EP 59 | We Were Fighting Before This
#59
08/20/2026

Yvonne runs into a dilemma in the early dating stage and Chelsea makes an apology..

Timestamps:

00:00:00 Intro

00:00:26 Chelsea's Brawl Stars Update

00:01:27 Gaming and ranked anxiety

00:03:51 Drake vs 20

00:05:30 Scrapped Yvonne vs 10 video

00:12:04 Love is Blind: Yvonne edition

00:13:55 Age appropriate..

00:15:33 Chelsea is setting up the dating game

00:16:53 Dating exclusivity

00:17:15 When to disclose you're seeing other people

00:24:17 You should tell em

00:34:30 Best places to cry

00:35:43 Dont be afraid to hurt their feelings

<...


Is this cheating or just being too nice? | EP 58 | We Were Fighting Before This
#58
08/13/2026

Give a man a break sometimes or maybe not... 👀 

Timestamps: 

00:00 - Intro
01:00 - The competitive card game grind
02:51 - Yvonne's sushi date
10:04 - Dating seriously for marriage
12:42 - Trying to set up Yvonne
13:45 - Stop trying to train your boyfriend
14:46 - The perilla leaf debate
19:52 - Giving your company prize to another girl
25:33 - Would you take a free trip to Hawaii?
26:18 - Driving your coworker home
29:20 - Building furniture for a random girl
35:29 - Buying personalized souvenirs for coworkers
40:38 - What would your d...


Testing our dating standards | EP 57 | We Were Fighting Before This
#57
08/06/2026

Yvonne and Toast are back and this week they're finding out how high and low some of their dating standards are 👀

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Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro
00:23 Recap of previous episode (Scarra & Chelsea)
03:23 Yvonne's Collective Con experience
07:37 Scarra’s raffle and booth
10:28 Selling cards and cash management
12:13 Fan interactions and giving back
14:41 Yvonne's dating update
16:32 "He's a 10 But..."
40:48 Getting scammed on MapleStory and Neopets
42:28 The tea s...


Chelsea helps find Scarra love | EP 56 | We Were Fighting Before This
#56
07/30/2026

Yvonne and Toast are away this week but Chelsea continues to fight to find Scarra love! 

00:00 Intro 

1:28 Are Scarra and Chelsea friends? 

2:30 Scarra’s podcast 

4:30 Did Chelsea sabotage Scarra? 

6:31 Scarra’s belief and plan for dating

10:48 Chelsea wants to set Scarra up 

14:45 Hypothetical first date 

20:35 The “perfect” date 

23:17 Dating a fan? 

26:51 Deal breakers for Scarra

28:15 She’s a 10 BUT….

45:14 Is living in LA actually worth it? 

46:20 Introvert vs extrovert 

50:42 Life is short 

52:50 Sca...


Would we survive Streamer University? | EP 55 | We Were Fighting Before This
#55
07/23/2026

Should we join Stream U next year? 👀

Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro 

00:45 Toast plays pickleball 

7:20 Yvonne’s Pokémon passion 

10:05 Toast is triggered by someone… 

11:20 Womens intuition 

12:55 Toast didn’t want to be on the same team as this person

14:45 Valorant tournament thoughts  

19:10 Yvonne is killing at Valorant 

20:38 Yvonne kills s0m

23:31 Toast isn’t doing as hot 

25:30 Streamer university thoughts 

33:04 Toast become a professor at Streamer U

35:01 Would we apply to Streamer U

41:03 Is Toast cho...


Our friends were betting we'd date... | EP 54 | We Were Fighting Before This
#54
07/16/2026

We've heard crazy rumors and even crazier ones from our own friends...

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Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro 

00:23 Yvonne rates her own trip

2:45 Thoughts on the Calgary trip

3:03 Yvonne forced Toast to go raving

6:28 Toast takes over Yvonne’s hometown

8:44 Meeting Yvonne’s mom

9:53 Yvonne’s friends defend her from Toast

12:40 The craziest things they saw in Calgary

15:17 Who has more pull?

18:36 Toast gets iced for the first time

20:58...


Do women ACTUALLY understand men? | EP 53 | We Were Fighting Before This
#50
07/09/2026

This week we're asking if men actually know what women want? Do women know what women want? 

Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro 

00:40 Toast is into Love Island 

3:25 Testing men 

5:18 Big SO fight 

7:30 Complimenting another’s partner

12:24 Badminton Open 

14:15 Yvonne has PULL

19:12 LIVE PODCAST SHOW! 

21:32 Toast is Ryan Higa...

22:54 Toast doesn’t want Yvonne on his team

26:38 PRO VS JOE 

31:20 Toast breaks it down for Chelsea

34:25 Marvel Rivals drama 

36:00 Tournament dynamics

39:18 Recovering from...


Yvonne's dad reaches out | EP 52 | We Were Fighting Before This
#52
07/02/2026

Yvonne finds messages from her dad 🥺

Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro 

00:30 Pickleball movie…

3:10 Yvonne Dad reaches out

9:02 Yvonne’s thoughts on her dad :( 

17:50 Reconnecting and getting clarity 

26:11 Abg and abb event 

30:34 Toast’s is insecure about his hair

33:55 Yvonne’s hairdresser 

36:30 Meccha Chameleon

40:31 Toast doesn’t want to give up

45:00 How long Mecca Chameleon will last 

47:23 Taking bets 

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The time OTV and 100 Thieves wanted the same creator | EP 51 | We Were Fighting Before This
#51
06/25/2026

TGC Cafes, Disney Adults, and finding Scarra true love? 

Timestamps: 00:00 Fighting Before This.... 
2:15 Toast vs Yvonne's 50/50 Debate
5:18 Chelsea Gets Dragged Into It
8:12 Who Actually Owns the Podcast?
11:50 Brodin Interrupts Another Argument
12:42 The Creator OTV Couldn't Get
16:25 OTV vs 100 Thieves
19:08 The Robert Downey Jr. Incident
21:35 Being Known as "OTV" Instead of Yourself
24:55 Yvonne's Imposter Syndrome
28:45 Yvonne Finds Her Footing
31:30 The New OTV Camping Video
34:20 Toast's Worst Camping Experience
36:55 Doomscrolling Has Gone Too Far
39:30 Toast's ChatGPT Sessions
42:10 Yvonne's Dream TCG Cafe
45:25 Adult Hobbies Aft...


The worst brand we’ve ever worked with | EP 50 | We Were Fighting Before This
#50
06/18/2026

To celebrate 50 episodes of WWFBT, we're eating the spiciest chip in the world while answering the spicy questionable questions

Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro 

00:22 Yvonne’s million dollar idea

2:21 is “nerd” derogatory? 

4:18 Chelsea plays League… 

5:37 Present for Toast! 

7:16 Knicks in 5!

12:43 Spending for sports teams 

14:30 Sports betting and morals… 

16:22 Toast at the Richmond night market 

18:56 Toast really wants to be mayor 

23:10 Online vs Offline filming 

29:05 SPICY CHIP CHALLENGE QUESTION GAME 

51:31 the FAKER QUESTION… 

54:55 Chelsea crashes out agai...


Responding to our haters... | EP 49 | We Were Fighting Before This
#49
06/11/2026

We're mad and we all have something to say! 

Timestamps:00:00:00 Intro
00:00:30 The Pickleball Problem
00:04:15 Why Pickleball Took Over
00:05:18 Is Pickleball Actually Hard?
00:06:43 When the New Thing Replaces the Old Thing
00:09:30 Chelsea Tries Pickleball
00:12:04 Men vs. Women: Who Has It Worse?
00:13:00 Is It Easier to Be a Woman Content Creator?
00:14:40 The DEI Conversation
00:16:15 The Reality of Being a Woman
00:17:35 How Do You Support Your Partner on Their Period?
00:19:15 Why Couples Rage Bait Each Other
00:21:30 Do Women Start Arguments on Purpose?
00:24:13 How Much Fighting Is Normal?


we made our producer CRASH OUT 👀 | EP 48 | We Were Fighting Before This
#48
06/04/2026

Toast gets 2v1'd again? Chelsea's back and she breaks down. 

timestamps: 

00:00 Chelsea's Return & The "2v1" Dynamic

03:05 Reflecting on the past episodes 

04:28 Chelsea breaks down 

11:43 Asian Canadian Identity

12:55 Thoughts on FOB’s 

16:40 Toast and Yvonne road trip 

22:06 Empathy & Podcast Dynamics

34:08 The Reality TV "Male vs. Female Gaze"

38:16 The "Club Comment" Incident

40:48 Flight Reimbursement

45:21 Road trip to vancouver

46:27 Vegas trip

51:23 OTV "PR Training" Tier List

54:49 Gambling Sponsorship Ethics

1:05:00 Online T...


Being annoying is an art, and we've mastered it | EP 47 | We Were Fighting Before This
#47
05/28/2026

Are war movies sexy? And how did Toast trick Yvonne to be her sidekick...? 

Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro 

00:51 Nate’s last thoughts on Yvonne 

3:03 Toast questions Yvonne 

4:41 Yvonne’s behavior gets her into trouble 

7:02 Bid for attention? 

9:05 War movies 

12:50 Doing it during war movies… 

13:35 Toast blames Yvonne on deflecting 

17:38 “I’m Ugly” 

22:24 Yvonne believed she was ugly 

28:01 Toast’s POV on being unattractive 

29:55 When Toast locks in 

36:02 Dream physique 

38:38 Pivoting lifestyles 

42:44 Is Yvonne a suppor...


The Perfect Relationship Doesn't Exist | EP 46 | We Were Fighting Before This
#46
05/21/2026

Dating is HARD. It's even harder when you're oldge

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Timestamps:

00:00:00 Intro

00:00:34 Toast is late..?

00:02:03 Coconut

00:02:27 We read the incel comments

00:05:14 Reading comments as a streamer

00:08:39 Toast looked for these comments

00:09:59 Unbiased Nate pt 2

00:10:48 Clocking each other’s tea

00:12:26 Nate does the intro jingle

00:13:35 Yvonne’s dating update

00:15:29 Would...


This Podcast Broke our Friendship | EP45 | We Were Fighting Before This
#45
05/14/2026

What are actual good compliments, why you should lie to your friends, and did this podcast actually make or break Toast and Yvonne's friendship?

Timestamps:
00:00:00 We Were Really Fighting Before This
00:00:24 NATE IS HERE
00:04:05 Yvonne is a Labubu
00:06:14 Chelsea’s projecting questions
00:07:39 Receiving compliments
00:09:32 Totally unbiased moderator
00:11:23 S Tier compliments
00:15:17 Repeating Questions to a Stranger
00:16:40 Lucky Girl Syndrome
00:20:08 How Guys Become Friends
00:23:40 Describing their relationship to an outsider
00:25:26 Did the pod improve their relationship 
00:30:22 Acknowledging feelings
00:32:01 Liking other girls’ photos..
00:34:57 What even i...


Nice guys finish last, and Toast is here to prove it | EP 44 | We Were Fighting Before This
#44
05/07/2026

Toast reveals his ultimate revenge plan against his friend group while Yvonne and Chelsea are tricked into Toast's mind games.

00:00 Intro 

1:05 Tomodachi Life

2:25 Is being nice an advantage or disadvantage? 

6:50 Toast is a hater of the word NICE 

8:51 Guys don’t want to be called nice 

11:45 Would you rather be nice or funny 

13:05 Respecting mean individuals? 

15:20 Showing your mean side to your SO 

17:00 Yvonne’s patience in a relationship 

18:55 Yvonne pisses Toast off… 

21:20 Toast wants Yvonne to admit when she...


Let's talk about Sykkuno | EP 43 | We Were Fighting Before This
#43
04/30/2026

We found out the same way you did… 

Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro 

00:50 Toast wants updates on Yvonne 

1:07 Sykkuno drama 

31:52 Growing together 

38:02 Reflection 

41:17 Life / Dating / Work Advice 

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Lilypichu PROMISED Yvonne she wouldn't do this... | EP 42 | We Were Fighting Before This
#42
04/23/2026

Our girl Lilypichu is back on the pod and this time she is making Yvonne uncomfortable for an hour straight....

Timestamps: 

00:00 Lilypichu Intro 

1:01 What Lily would do for Yvonne

2:23 Self sabotage 

6:00 Love languages 

8:38 Michael Reeves learning Chinese

11:22 Learning another language 

13:20 Lily wants to IMPROV… 

19:20 Lily and Yvonne FIGHT

21:43 Lily continues to make Yvonne uncomfortable…

23:55 Lily reflects on her fight with Toast….

23:41 How Lily feels about OTV 

27:30 Lily got her drivers license 

31:54 Lily’s perspect...


We got SWATTED and it didn't end well... | EP 41 | We Were Fighting Before This
#41
04/16/2026

Today we're revealing our secret reddit accounts and sharing the times OTV got swatted... 

Timestamps: 

00:00 intro 

00:30 Chappell Roan drama… 

5:09 Production on P**N shoots 

6:44 Choosing a career of fame 

9:01 Feeling bad about fan interactions

12:21 Genz phrases 

15:50 Yvonnes stays over at Toast’s place

18:28 Do we have an ALT account 

19:51 The dark side of clip farming 

21:38 Toast and car accidents 

23:45 Yvonne’s car accident 

25:30 If you get hit by a WAYMO 

28:18 Chelsea’s car accident 

...


Why Toast Left LA | EP 40 | We Were Fighting Before This
#40
04/09/2026

Toast opens up about leaving his friendships in LA, Yvonne reconnects with an ex, and we tackle the hard question of if we could actually be sugar babies or OnlyFans creators?


Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro 

00:30 Saddest time in Yvonne’s life 

5:15 Toast breaks down 

9:18 Toast on leaving his friends 

12:06 Yvonne on reconnecting with her ex

15:05 Putting in effort in friendships 

16:20 Does Chelsea understand Toast 

17:05 Toast’s shows effort for others

21:41 Does Yvonne honored? 

23:10 People think Toast hates them  ...


Setting up Scarra with his DREAM girl | EP 39 | We Were Fighting Before This
#39
04/02/2026

The Don returns! Scarra is back on the pod and this time we're on a mission to find his DREAM girl ✨

Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro 

00:45 Scarra started this podcast

5:53 Toast doesn’t consume Asian media 

6:28 Internal racism 

7:25 Hard love on kids 

11:30 Spoiled kids 

13:45 When does Scarra want kids 

15:55 Chelsea’s friends for Scarra 

20:10 Tennis date for Scarra 

21:45 Rejection therapy 

22:23 Yvonne and Leslie’s double date 

23:18 Apps are a humiliation ritual 

24:48 Breaking norms 

27:05 Polycules / 3...


How to get cancelled PROPERLY | EP 38 | We Were Fighting Before This
#38
03/26/2026

We're back and we moved to a new studio! This week we're seeing which one of us has the potential to get cancelled and if Yvonne would box Toast for $1 Million...

Timestamps: 

00:00 Yvonne is hungover 

2:11 Do we accept lateness 

5:40 New studio ! 

7:50 The wrong Among Us plushie… 

9:50 Looks maxing 

14:25 Clavicular mindset 

16:55 How does Yvonne looks max

18:20 Yvonne’s YOUNG new date? 

23:42 Chelsea’s reads hate comments 

27:55 Double down on being cancelled 

28:35 Taylor Frankie Paul 

31:08 The internet down...


XPOT owner FIRES BACK after our $30K meal | EP 37 | We Were Fighting Before This
#37
03/12/2026

Hotpot owner claps at us and things got worse… 

Timestamps 

00:00 Intro 

1:35 Xpot owner RESPONDS 

8:30 Toast’s thoughts 

10:55 Mr.Charlies and Wayne Dang 

12:43 Over charging 

13:00 5v5? 

15:30 What would old Disguised Toast

17:04 Being recognized in public 

19:14 Yvonne’s boyfriend inquires 

21:25 Craziest celebrity DM 

24:00 Bella Poarch drama 

28:41 Toast is the Jeremy Lin of Taiwan…

31:30 Do Waisan kids have it better? 

34:35 Being compared to others 

36:40 Yvonne tries to compliment Toast 

38:55 Team Alyssa Liu...


Why Lesbians Love Toast | EP 36 | We Were Fighting Before This
#36
03/05/2026

To be loved or feared? We're ranking the funniest OTV&Friends and playing would you rather. 

Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro 

00:35 Does Toast look like a lesbian 

3:32 Toast believes he’s funny 

6:55 Reliving Toast’s best moments 

9:35 Does Toast feel bad 

10:27 Funniest member of OTV&friends 

14:20 Studying humor 

19:00 Being the butt of the joke 

20:05 Making jabs at Toast 

20:55 Favorite comedy duo 

26:30 Toast’s creative juices 

29:15 What opened the gates to humor 

32:05 Twitter era

34:10 Uncle Roger ...


The WORST place we've done it 👀| EP 35 | We Were Fighting Before This
#35
02/26/2026

Just because you can doesn't mean you should... This week we're seeing how fragile the male ego really is and dissecting asian dating cultures. 

Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro 

01:00 Worst place to do it 

2:39 Best place to do it 

5:18 Doing it on the beach / parks 

6:20 Other public areas 

7:45 What are men too defensive about 

11:05 Does size matter? 

15:35 Using Viagra 

18:20 East coast vs West Coast guys 

18:54 Fastest way to hurt a guys ego 

20:06 Singing in front of someone

24:30 Bro c...


Yvonne LOSES Toast A LOT of money | EP 34 | We Were Fighting Before This
#34
02/19/2026

Yvonne has some explaining to do this episode, while Toast explains why he paid 5 figures for the same dinner, TWICE. 

Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro 

00:30 How Yvonne lost Toast $$$ 

8:40 Toast proceeds to insult Yvonne 

11:12 Toast saves the day? 

13:20 Working on Toast’s execution 

16:00 Yvonne’s perspective of negotiating 

17:44 Raising kids with the same standards

21:03 Yvonne’s thoughts on having kids 

23:44 Toast’s thoughts on having kids 

27:00 CNY / Lunar New Year! 

30:41 Chinese zodiac signs story 

33:28 Reading our zodiac predictions<...


Toast tries to help Yvonne find a Valentine 👀💌 | EP 33 | We Were Fighting Before This
#33
02/12/2026

Love is in the air? Or so we'll find out 👀 This week we're unpacking what Toast said that made Yvonne almost CRY, and discussing what makes Valentine's day so special and how much money should we ACTUALLY spend on our dates...

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Timestamps: 

00:00 Intro 

00:30 Love is in the air?

2:30 Defensive over Valentine’s day 

3:25 Toast wants Yvonne to speak about the positives 

5:40 Welcome back Toast 

6...


Chelsea speaks her truth | EP 32 | We Were Fighting Before This
#32
02/05/2026

The long awaited Chelsea episode is finally here! She's speaking up for herself and exposing her friendship with Toast... 

00:00 Intro 

00:35 Chelsea’s background

3:25 How Chelsea met Yvonne 

5:10 Chelsea POV of meeting Yvonne 

6:30 How Chelsea came to work with Toast and Yvonne 

8:24 Chelsea’s first interaction with Toast

10:18 Chelsea’s first episode of WWFBT…

13:10 Toast’s humor and intention 

15:41 Chelsea is concerned 

16:48 What impresses Chelsea the most about Toast

18:20 Chelsea feels like the divorced kid 

21:09 Toast is like a brother <...


Talking trash behind Toast's back ft. FUSLIE | EP 31 | We Were Fighting Before This
#31
01/29/2026

We replaced Toast this week with the one and only, FUSLIE! We're having a girly pop episode this week, we're talking all things girl code, cool girls, and of course MEN. 

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00:00 Intro 

1:00 Fuslie intro! 

4:00 PMSing 

9:52 Leslie’s relationship with Toast 

14:13 Leslie’s POV of Yvonne and Toast 

16:05 Girl code 

18:42 Pick me girls 

21:55 Men will come and go 

23:12 Leslie...


Spicy questions we SHOULDN’T have asked 🥵🌶️ | EP 30 | We Were Fighting Before This
#30
01/22/2026

This week we’re turning up the heat 🥵 Asking the spicy questions, are desirable partners? Growers vs showers? And are we ok with being a sugar mama or daddy? 

00:00 Intro 

00:27 Does Yvonne know men? 

2:24 Showers vs growers… 

4:28 Men’s egos 

7:13 Girl math 

11:30 Spending money on going out 

13:22 Paying with coupons on a date 

18:15 Etiquette for a first date 

21:26 When it makes sense to split the bill 

22:25 Have we been taken advantage of financially? 

24:05 Relationship imbalance due to money

26:25 Che...


We're going to regret saying this... | EP 29 | We Were Fighting Before This
#29
01/15/2026

Have we peaked? Are we peaking? This week we're talking Streamer Awards drama, staying relevant in the creator world, and our billion dollar company ideas all in one episode. 

Thank you to this week's sponsor Factor Meals! Head to https://FactorMeals.com/fighting50off and use code fighting50off to get 50% off your first Factor box PLUS free breakfast for 1 year.


00:00 Intro 

00:38 Thoughts on Streamer awards 

7:40 Twitch Culture 

9:10 Staying relevant 

10:50 Representing your community 

11:43 Thinking highly or Ryan Higa 

14:20 Speaking to other creators 

16:50 REA...