Men Worth Dating
(Formally Women on Men Podcast) Every man says he’s a good guy. Not one of them can prove he’s done the work. You can.I’m Rafael Gomez. There are ten standards that make a man worth dating: like women as people, know yourself, decide what you want, look after yourself, have a full life, go after what you want, keep your promises, be safe to be around, be kind not nice, be good company.Not one of them is a trait you either have or you don’t. All ten are learnable, and working on any one of them...
Your Loneliness Has Nothing To Do With Women | YV Edit
YV has been reading the manosphere since before most of its audience found it. She was deep in TheRedPill subreddit fifteen years ago, before it was quarantined, and she has been tracking it ever since. She also happens to have been happily married for fifteen years, which surprises most of the men who find her.
We covered:
Why she thinks men in the comments are lonely for a connection with themselves rather than for a woman
The four questions she wants men to sit with, and why she calls it shadow work
<...Hypergamy Goes Both Ways | Therapist Jamie Lynn on the Red Pill’s Favorite Word
A licensed therapist went on a red pill podcast, didn’t like what she heard, and built the opposite. Jamie Lynn on why the techniques don’t survive contact with an actual relationship, why “keep her guessing” works the way a slot machine works, and why hypergamy only ever gets pointed one direction.
Are you worth dating? Find out on menworthdating.com
Everything The Red Pill Swears She Can't Be | Jade Greene
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Jade Greene funded a business degree with pageant winnings, worked as a financial analyst, and now writes erotica and works in the adult industry. She went on Fresh & Fit in 2025 and told Myron and Walter to their faces that what they were selling was garbage. She has been with her husband for thirteen years.
We covered:
The...
The Cambridge Debate Master Takes Apart The Red Pill | Tilly Middlehurst
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Tilly Middlehurst went viral at 19 as the Cambridge student who debated Charlie Kirk. She has coached debate at the highest level, writes on feminism and contemporary fascism, and she has thoughts on the red pill that no one else in this space is bringing.
We covered:
The vegan writing a restaurant review analogy she used to describe...
She Went On Fresh & Fit & Exposed Their Manipulation Playbook | Mac Lawson
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Mac Lawson is a stand up comedian, roast battle host, and one of the few women who has been on Fresh & Fit twice. She has stories most guests won't tell and receipts on how that show actually operates.
We covered:
Her backstory as a Christian virgin until 22 and why the church rejected her...
The Flirting Crisis Killing Men's Dating Lives | Marni Kinrys
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Marni Kinrys is the founder of the Wing Girl Method and one of the most trusted voices in this space. She was the first woman to run a business inside the original pickup artist world, she's coached millions of men over 23 years, and she has interviewed over 10,000 women on what they actually respond to.
We covered:
What...
The 4 Red Flags Women Won't Forgive (And Why Red Pill Tactics Backfire) | Amy Rushworth
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Amy Rushworth is a women's empowerment educator and creator of the Red Flag Handbook. She helps women heal attachment trauma and build secure, lasting relationships, and she had plenty to say to the men listening too.
We covered:
Her backstory growing up around abuse and how it shaped her early dating The breakup and betrayal...
She Dated a Red Pill Believer. Here's What She Observed. | Emily Elizabeth
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Emily Elizabeth is a marketing agency founder, podcast host of What Fulfills You, and someone who dated a red pill believer firsthand — and watched his worldview slowly unravel in real time.
We covered:
Why red pill men are stuck in experiences from when they were 16 or 17 — and carrying that into their late 20s The "fina...
She Worked at the Whatever Podcast. Here's What She Saw. | Felicity Hughes
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Felicity Hughes is 19, a content creator, and a former behind-the-scenes team member at the Whatever Podcast — one of the biggest names in the red pill space. She came on to talk about Gen Z dating, and she didn't hold back.
We covered:
Why men have stopped approaching — and why "false accusation" fears are mostly cope...
The Truth About the Manosphere | Kyla Turner (Not So Erudite)
Kyla Turner — known online as Not So Erudite — is a political commentator and former addiction counselor with a background in psychology and nursing. Her audience is 85% young men, and she's one of the most data-driven voices debunking manosphere ideology online today.
In this episode: why trad wife content is built to implode, what the red pill genuinely gets right and catastrophically gets wrong, why men are being abandoned by society and handed to the manosphere by default, and what it will actually take to pull them out. Raw, honest, and backed by data.
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The Sex Recession, Debunking "High Value" Men, & The Low T Myth with Dr. Danielle Kramer
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Why are 1 in 3 young men completely opting out of sex and relationships? Is there a biological crisis, or are men simply failing to adapt to modern women? In this episode, certified sex therapist and clinical sexologist Dr. Danielle Kramer joins us to decode the "sex recession" and the subconscious habits sabotaging modern dating.
We break down the myth of "declining testosterone"—explaining why men's struggles in dating are largely behavioral and cultural, not biological. We...
Subconscious Dating Habits, Shadow Work, & The "Nice Guy" Trap with Veneta Nikolova
Are you recreating your childhood trauma in your dating life? Today on Women on Men, host Rafael Gomez sits down with Veneta Nikolova, a Somatic Shadow Work Coach specializing in conscious relationships and nervous system mastery.
Together, they explore the hidden psychological drivers behind who we pick and why. Veneta explains why "secure" love often feels uncomfortable to those used to chaos, and offers a blueprint for men to step into their power without falling into toxic "Alpha" stereotypes.
Key Topics Discussed:
(00:00) Intro: From "Just Friends" to Deep Love.<...
Deprogramming the Manosphere: Male Loneliness, Neurodivergence, and the "Bad Boy" Myth
This week, Rafael is joined by Robyn Silber, a creator and author who applies her engineering background to a different kind of complex system: modern masculinity.
Robin discusses her content which focuses on the "male loneliness crisis" and offers a compassionate critique of the Red Pill movement. They discuss the data suggesting a high overlap between neurodivergence and men who fall into the "Manosphere," and why specific scripts for dating can be dangerous.
The conversation also explores the female perspective on the "Bad Boy" trope—why it happens, why it’s often a sign of inse...
Dating App Fatigue, Emotional Immaturity, and The "Male Loneliness" Myth with Hailey Ferretti
In this episode of Women on Men, Rafael sits down with skincare specialist and TikTok creator Hailey Ferretti for a candid discussion about dating app burnout and the disconnect between modern men and women.
Hailey opens up about:
• Why dating apps feel like “people shopping” and why the algorithm rarely leads to love
• The "Male Loneliness Epidemic" and why women can’t be the ones to fix it
• Why emotional immaturity is the ultimate "ick" (and why money can't hide it)
• The critical difference between "shoulder-to-shoulder" bonding vs. "face-to-face" connection
• Why the "provider" m...
The Plight of the Nice Guy: Bad Boys, Financial Stability & The "Good Man" Distinction w/ Drea Renee
Why do women say they want a nice guy but date the bad boy? In this episode, Rafael joins forces with Drea Renee, host of Hey Babe, Can We Talk?, to explore the evolution of attraction. Drea shares her personal journey from chasing "nervous system dysregulation" in her 20s to finding a "Good Man" who demands respect.
They discuss:
• Why "Nice Guys" often come across as desperate rather than kind.
• The impact of financial instability on relationship dynamics.
• How to spot the difference between a man who is a doormat and a man with bounda...
Michelle Allegra Murad on What Women Actually Find Attractive
In this episode of Women on Men, Rafael sits down with actress, writer, and producer Michelle Allegra Murad for a raw and thoughtful conversation about what women really find attractive—=, and why so many men misunderstand it.
Michelle opens up about:
• Why energy, presence, and confidence matter more than looks
• How effort and planning show emotional maturity
• Why dating apps drain connection and in-person chemistry still wins
• The difference between having money and having a plan
• What she’s learned about love, loss, and self-growth after heartbreak
From emotional openness to masculine energy...
How to Flirt Without Being Creepy: Brenna’s Guide for Men
Brenna Lynn, a speech-language pathologist and viral TikTok creator, joins the show to share her no-nonsense guide for men on dating, flirting, and building real attraction. She explains:
What men get wrong about approaching womenThe single most important thing to communicate in the first 5 secondsHow to avoid creeping women out (while still being flirty)Why women aren’t as focused on looks as men thinkThe biological and social factors shaping how women approach datingThis episode is packed with insights men can apply immediately to connect with women more confidently and respectfully.
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Holly Solem on Masculinity, Attraction, and the Myth of the Provider
Holly Solem has been featured in Vogue, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily—but her bold questions on TikTok’s “Manthropology” series are what drew us in. In this candid conversation, Holly and Rafael unpack what attraction really looks like today, from confidence vs. looks to emotional intelligence in long-term love.
Whether you’re dating, partnered, or just curious what women actually want, this episode is a must.
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Marriage, Masculinity & Emotional Intelligence | Lauren Faudree Interview
What do women actually want in a partner—and how does that change over time?
In this episode of Women on Men, Lauren Faudree, a dance teacher, mom, and wife of six years, joins us to talk about the traits that matter most in a relationship. She opens up about how her definition of masculinity has evolved, why emotional intelligence is more important than status, and how vulnerability creates real connection.
We cover:
• How attraction shifts over time
• The myth that men have to be providers or protectors
• Why weekly emotional check-ins saved her m...
Kat Clark
In this episode of Women on Men, Rafael Gomez sits down with Kat Clark — a relational and somatic coach, interior designer, and mother of four — for a powerful conversation about masculinity, authenticity, and relationships. Raised in the Mormon Church and now living a life of expanded consciousness on Kauai, Kat shares her journey of questioning tradition, redefining masculine and feminine energy, and building a 21-year marriage rooted in humor, ambition, and genuine connection.
Kat opens up about leaving rigid gender roles behind, why vulnerability is strength, and what she wishes more men understood about attraction, emotional intelligence, and...
Lucy Wilson
In this premiere episode of Women on Men, Lucy Wilson joins host Rafael Gomez to explore masculinity, emotional attraction, and the real traits that matter in relationships.
