Still Not Straight

Hey Ragers! We can’t believe it’s the Season 2 Finale - and honestly, we saved the funniest episode for last. 😂💘

We started this season with a breakup… and we’re ending it with a bang (not like that… or maybe?).

In this episode, we open up the phone lines and let YOU pitch yourselves to us. That’s right—why should we date you? What do you bring to the table? 👀🥂

From spicy voice notes to the most chaotic flirting ever recorded, this was not our idea - but it quickly became one of our faves. Whether...

Hey Ragers! Buckle up because this episode is chaotic, a little scary, and full of way-too-honest revelations.

We’re kicking things off with a terrifying travel story from our time in Italy—yes, we were followed in Puglia, and no, it wasn’t cute. 😳🚨


Then we dive straight into our all-time fave game: Never Have I Ever… but this round hits different now that we’re single. 😬💔

So... who’s been catfished? Who’s getting gayer by the minute? And who spilled something they definitely shouldn’t have on camera?

It’s unfiltered and unpredictable...

Hey Ragers! This one’s personal and a little spicy. 👀

In today’s episode of Can’t Think Straight, Phoebe Chakar and Tessa Bona are joined by none other than Bella, Phoebe’s best friend... and the first girl she ever dabbled with (yep, if you know, you know 😏).

The girls get real about Phoebe’s coming out journey—how she told Bella, what she wishes she’d done differently, and how it shaped their friendship. Plus, Bella spills the tea on what it was really like being on Big Brother, the drama behind the scenes, and what lif...

Hey Ragers! You asked, we answered — and, wow, did your DMs deliver! 💬 In this episode of Can’t Think Straight, we are diving into your juiciest questions and dilemmas.

From being in love with your best friend (yes, it’s happened to us too 👀) to navigating tricky situationships, heartbreak, and all the messy stuff in between, we’re giving our realest advice and sharing some personal stories along the way. Whether you're stuck in a love triangle, ghosted by a crush, or just need a little wisdom, this episode is for you.

Hit play, subscribe, and don’t forg...

Can’t Think Straight: Love, Age Gaps & Coming Out Later in Life – A Must-Watch Story

Hey Ragers! This episode is one for the books—we’re sitting down with an incredible couple we met at the night market, and let’s just say… their love story is not what you’d expect. 💫💖

With an astronomical age gap, their relationship challenges every stereotype. We dive deep into what it’s like coming out later in life, navigating family and religion, and the realities of introducing a new partner to your kids. The conversation is raw, inspiring, and full of moments th...

Can’t Think Straight: Talking Sex with a Therapist – And Yes, We Got Flustered

Hey Ragers! Buckle up because this episode is awkward, hilarious, and maybe a little too real. 😳🔥

We sat down with a sex therapist to talk all things sex—from communication in the bedroom to common misconceptions about queer intimacy. And let’s just say… we definitely got flustered. 🫠 You’ll probably catch us blushing, stammering, and nervously giggling our way through some very personal questions.

But here’s the thing- these conversations mat...

Hey Ragers! We knew you’d have questions… and in this episode, we’re answering them. 💬💔

Since announcing our breakup, you’ve all been so kind and supportive—but let’s be real, the #1 thing everyone wants to know is: Are we still hooking up? We’re keeping it 100% honest as we open up about where we stand now, how we’re navigating this breakup, and why we’re actually trying to do this the mature way.

No drama, no clickbait—just raw, real talk about love, heartbreak, and what comes next for us. Th...

Hey Ragers, this is not the episode we ever thought we’d have to make… but here we are. 💔

In this raw and emotional sit-down, we’re opening up about our breakup—why it happened, how we’re navigating it, and what this means for Can’t Think Straight. We’ve always been real with you, and today is no different. No drama, no shade—just two people who love and respect each other trying to handle this with honesty and maturity.

Breaking up is never easy, especially in the public eye, but we owe it to you—our amazi...

Hey Ragers! Love is in the air, and we’ve got the ultimate Valentine’s Day special for you! 💘 Your favourite femme duo are spilling all the tea on first dates, relationship milestones, and the heartwarming (and slightly delayed) way Tessa asked Phoebe to be her girlfriend.

We’re sharing the best (and worst) of our first date story—from the awkward to the unforgettable. Then, we’re playing a juicy hypothetical game. But the moment you don’t want to miss? Phoebe’s emotional poem for Tessa after a fight.

Expect laughter and real, and ridiculous mo...

Get ready for a spiritual journey like no other on this week’s episode of Can’t Think Straight! Your favorite lesbian duo, Phoebe Chakar and Tessa Bona, are back with another wildly entertaining chat—this time with a medium twist!In this episode, we’re joined by our favorite David the Medium, a gay psychic medium who’s here to connect us with the other side (and maybe spill some tea along the way)! David shares his fascinating journey as a psychic medium, the challenges of navigating life in both the spiritual and queer communities, and how he channels m...

Get ready for another hilarious and candid episode of Can't Think Straight, hosted by your favorite lesbian duo, Phoebe Chakar and Tessa Bona! In today’s episode, we're diving into the wild world of dating horror stories sent in by The Ragers—you, our amazing community!

We’ll be hearing all about some of the craziest, most cringeworthy, and downright shocking dating experiences that will have you laughing (and maybe cringing) along with us. From bad dates to bizarre encounters, we're covering it all and sharing our own personal dating disasters too.

As always, expect a mix...

Welcome back to another episode of Can't Think Straight! It’s your fave lesbian duo, Phoebe Chakar and Tessa Bona, here to spice up your day with some real talk. This week, we’re spilling the tea on life lately — from Benson Boone to beach house family vibes, and of course, more clues that Phoebe was always meant to be a lesbian. Oh, and did we mention the car crash? (Don't worry, we're all good.) Plus, we’re diving into Tessa’s OCD and the new alarm that’s shaking up our routine, and of course, answering the big question: do...

Welcome back to another exciting episode of Can't Think Straight, hosted by your favorite lesbian duo, Phoebe Chakar and Tessa Bona! In today’s episode, we’re tackling some of the most pressing questions from The Ragers—your incredible community.
We’re diving deep into the world of femmes dating femmes, discussing the unique challenges and experiences of finding and connecting with other femmes in the queer dating scene. Then, we’re talking about the tricky topic of misaligned sexual drives and how to navigate those conversations with your partner. And lastly, we’ll be tackling the all-too-familiar issue of spo...

Welcome back to another exciting episode of Can’t Think Straight, the vodcast hosted by your favorite lesbian duo, Phoebe Chakar and Tessa Bona! In this episode, we’re back with more Questions from the Ragers where we dive deep into more of the juicy, real-life questions from our incredible community (yes, that’s YOU, our amazing ragers)!

We’re unpacking everything—from the highs and lows of queer relationships to addressing the bizarre myths and assumptions people have about us. As a femme lesbian couple, we’re also tackling the weird, wild questions we get, especially from men (cr...

Get To Know Us Delve Deep

This week, we dive into the hilariously awkward, insightful, and downright spicy world of Delve Deep, the get-to-know-you game that’s shaking up game nights across Australia. It was featured in our Christmas Special, and you guys loved it. This expansion pack for Let's Get Deep combines hilarious icebreakers, thought-provoking questions, and risqué revelations to explore all levels of intimacy—Ice Breaker, Deep, and Deeper.

Get to know us when we take the game for a spin, sharing our own unfiltered answers to the juiciest prompts while dishing out hilar...

🎄 Christmas Special: Gifts for the Gays 🎁

We’re back with a festive bang in more ways than one. In this hilarious and unfiltered Christmas special, we dive into the ultimate guide to buying the perfect gifts for your friends and family, from games to gadgets every gay (and hetero) will adore.

And because it wouldn’t be a special without some outrageous stories, we also spill the tea on the wildest place we’ve ever done it.

Expect raging stories, plenty of laughs, and moments that’ll leave you saying, “They didn’t?! Oh, they did.”Whet...

Welcome back to another episode of Can't Think Straight, the vodcast hosted by your fave lesbian duo, Phoebe Chakar and Tessa Bona! This week, we’re diving into the juicy questions from our amazing ragers (that’s YOU, our community)! We're answering all things lesbian life, from navigating relationships to breaking down the myths and assumptions people make about us.

We're also unpacking some wild questions and comments we get as a femme lesbian couple, especially from men (yikes). It's time to challenge those stereotypes and show people what it really means to be queer and proud.

This week on Can't Think Straight, hosts Tessa Bona and Phoebe Chakar are joined by TikTok’s favorite lesbian couple, Taz and Alessia! Recently crowned TikTok Live Creator of the Year, Taz and Alessia have captured hearts across the platform with their authentic and empowering content. In this episode, they share their personal coming-out stories, how they navigate the spotlight, and the challenges they face while producing content where their relationship isn't the sole focus. Tune in for an inspiring conversation about love, identity, and balancing fame with staying true to yourself. Don't forget to subscribe and hit the no...

Coming Out Diaries: Four Backgrounds, Four Stories. 

Welcome back to Can’t Think Straight! In this episode, we sit down with our besties Christina and Leish, and dive into the personal stories of our four very different cultural backgrounds, how we came out to our parents, and their reactions. Even though we’re besties with these girls, we’ve only ever had surface-level chats about this until now. 

Navigating cultural expectations and facing fears head-on can be scary for some. We hope that by sharing our four very different stories...

Welcome to Can’t Think Straight

The vodcast where love gets a little gayer, messier, and way more fun!

Hosted by your fav femme x femme couple Tessa Bona and Phoebe Chakar, we’re here to spill the tea on navigating lesbian relationships and breaking down all those tired stereotypes. Whether you’re in a relationship, questioning, or just snooping for a laugh, this is your new favorite hangout to unpack the wild, hilarious, and heartfelt chaos of gay love.

So grab a drink, get co...