Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey
Helping to change the conversations we have with our loved ones about aging and life decisions. Each episode contains information to help you and your family work through the "not ready yet" conversation of aging.
Interview with Mark Chapman, When the Road to Recovery, Isn't a Road, VP of Business Development, Medway Air Ambulance
What happens when you become seriously ill or injured while you're far from home or need to get a loved one to a specialty hospital or closer to home.
Most of us don't think about medical air transport until we suddenly need it. In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper talks with Mark Chapman, Vice President of Business Development at Medway Air Ambulance, about what families should know when an unexpected or urgent medical situation requires transportation.
Mark explains how air ambulance services work, the difference between...
Interview with Michael Lewis (Part Two), CFA, MBA, author of Getting Out of Your Own Way
What happens when a family needs to make an important decision about an aging parent, but no one feels ready to have the conversation?
In this episode of Not Ready Yet, Michael Lewis, CFA, MBA, author of Getting Out of Your Own Way joins me to talk about the human side of caregiving and financial decision-making.
When emotions, stress, money, family dynamics, and an aging loved one’s wishes all collide, even simple decisions can become complicated. Michael explains why families often delay important conversations, how stress can influence the way we make decisions, and wh...
Interview with Heather Dawson of Maxsold, Licensed Auctioneer, Graduate of the ISA Core Course in Appraisal Studies
What happens to all the stuff when it’s time to downsize, move, or settle an estate?
And perhaps more importantly: How do you know what’s actually worth selling?
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper talks with Heather Dawson, a licensed auctioneer and expert in online estate sales, about a resource many families don’t know exists: online auctions.
Heather explains how online auctions can help families rehome belongings, reach a much larger pool of buyers, and sometimes uncover surpri...
Interview with Emily Gerhardstein, Co-Founder and CEO of LS Adaptive
Adaptive Clothing, Independence & Dignity: Rethinking What’s Possible with Emily GerhardsteinÂ
What happens when caregiving opens your eyes to a problem that most people never think about?
For Emily Gerhardstein, it led to a whole new approach to clothing.
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Emily shares the personal caregiving experience that inspired her to create LS Adaptive, an innovative adaptive clothing company focused on making dressing easier without sacrificing style, comfort, dignity, or independence.
We talk about why traditional ada...
Interview with Cindy Greer, Moving a Loved One Living with Dementia
Moving a Loved One with Living Dementia: Planning for a Safer, Gentler Transition
A move is never just a move, especially when dementia is part of the picture.
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper talks with Cindy Greer, a Certified Senior Move Manager® and Dementia Care expert, about what families need to know when relocating a loved one living with dementia.
Cindy shares practical guidance for navigating the emotional and logistical challenges of a dementia-related move, from knowing w...
Interview with Michael Lewis, Chief Behavioral Officer at Family Legacy Financial Solutions and author of Getting Out of Your Own Way
How Stress Sabotages Decisions | Michael Lewis on Caregiving, Family Dynamics & Planning Ahead
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper sits down with Michael Lewis, Chief Behavioral Officer at Family Legacy Financial Solutions and author of Getting Out of Your Own Way, to explore how stress and emotions can quietly derail some of the most important decisions families face.
Michael explains why waiting until a crisis makes decision-making exponentially harder and shares practical strategies to help families prepare before they find themselves overwhelmed. Together, they discuss...
Interview with Allyson Schrier, Co-Founder and President of Zinnia TV
Connecting Through Visuals: How Zinnia TV Supports Dementia Care with Allyson Schrier
What if one simple change could reduce agitation, spark meaningful conversations, and help someone living with dementia feel more connected?
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper sits down with Allyson Schrier, founder and CEO of Zinnia TV, to discuss how thoughtfully designed visual programming is transforming dementia care.
Inspired by her own experience caring for a loved one with dementia, Allyson created Zinnia...
Interview with Aaron D. Murphy, Architect/CAPS Founder of ForeverHome and Owner of ADM Architecture
Whether you're an adult child, caregiver, homeowner, or simply planning ahead, this episode offers practical guidance and a fresh perspective on creating homes that support life, not just today, but for years to come.
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper sits down with architect and Certified Aging in Place Specialist Aaron Murphy to explore how thoughtful home design can preserve independence, dignity, and peace of mind. Aaron shares the personal story that inspired his work, explains the concept of a "Forever Home," and offers practical insights...
Interview with Mark Wilson, Author of Breakthrough Alzheimer’s Care
When Mark Wilson's mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease, he didn't approach caregiving as a healthcare professional. He approached it as a leader.
Drawing on more than 22 years of executive leadership experience and the lessons learned while supporting his mother through 15 years of living with dementia, Mark developed a practical framework he calls Careleading, a leadership-based approach to caregiving that helps families move from feeling overwhelmed to feeling empowered.
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Mark shares how families can create better outcomes for their loved...
Interview with Curtis Petersen, National Sales Director at the Society of Certified Senior Advisors
In this episode, Lisa sits down with Curtis Petersen, National Sales Director for the Society of Certified Senior Advisors (CSA), to discuss how the Certified Senior Advisor credential helps professionals better serve older adults and their families.
Curtis shares the history and mission behind CSA, what it takes to earn the certification, and why ethics, continuing education, and third-party oversight are essential in the aging services industry. Together, they explore how families can identify trusted professionals, build a reliable support network, and navigate the complexities of aging with greater confidence.
Whether you're a family caregiver...
Interview with Heather Clark (Part Two) Financial Advisor and Founder of Next Step Wealth Management
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, financial expert Heather Clark shares practical insights on one of the biggest retirement impacts many people face: the timing of when to start withdrawals. With more than 20 years of experience helping individuals navigate retirement planning, Heather breaks down how Social Security timing, pensions, taxes, and longevity planning all work together to impact your financial future.
You’ll learn why Social Security should be viewed as a pension, how spouse benefits are affected by timing and work history, and why personalized retirement strategies matter more th...
Interview with Heather Clark, Financial Advisor and Founder of Next Step Wealth Management
In this episode, Heather Clark shares practical, compassionate guidance on how to navigate financial planning for aging parents, without waiting for a crisis. From starting the often-avoided money conversation to building trust across generations, Heather breaks down how families can approach finances with clarity and confidence.
We explore why early planning matters, how to address long-term care considerations, and what it takes to create a strategy that supports both aging parents and the next generation. Whether you're unsure how to begin or looking to strengthen your current plan, this conversation offers actionable insights to help you move...
Interview with Helen Burns of Naborforce
Many families assume caregiving means doing everything themselves, it doesn't. Sometimes the right support looks like a trusted neighbor showing up.
In this episode, I sit down with Helen Burns from Naborforce to explore how neighborly support helps older adults stay independent, connected, and safe at home. We discuss how community-based assistance can ease the burden on family caregivers while improving quality of life for aging loved ones.
Whether you're caring for aging parents, noticing early signs they may need extra help, or simply planning ahead, this conversation offers practical guidance and reassurance...
Interview with Carly Ebenstein, Long- Term Care Insurance Expert
In this insightful interview, Carly Ebenstein shares her expertise on long-term care insurance, clarifying common misconceptions, discussing optimal timing for purchasing coverage, and emphasizing the importance of planning ahead for aging and caregiving. This conversation provides practical advice for families to make informed decisions and start vital conversations about aging and care.
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Interview with Dr. David Ajibade, Physician, Brain Health Pioneer, Global Health Leader, Founder, Brain and Body Foundation
In this powerful and practical conversation, Dr. David Ajibade shares a hopeful, prevention-focused approach to brain health and aging. Rather than waiting for symptoms to appear, he encourages individuals and families to take early, proactive steps to support cognitive health through nutrition, lifestyle choices, and targeted medical testing.
Dr. David explains the deep connection between the brain and the rest of the body—highlighting how gut health, vitamin levels, hearing, and social engagement all play a role in maintaining cognitive function. He challenges common myths about aging and dementia, offering science-backed strategies that can help re...
Interview with Beth Bedore, Occupational Therapist, Senior Home Coach™ and REALTOR®
Beth Bedore, a Senior Home Coach™ and Occupational Therapist with nearly 30 years of experience, shares insights on how housing decisions impact health and independence as we age. The conversation covers universal design, proactive home modifications, and planning for aging in place to support safe, accessible, and beautiful homes for all ages.
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Universal Design principles for all agesImportance of proactive home modificationsHow housing impacts health and independenceBuilding and renovating for aging in placeMulti-generational living and accessibilityChapters
00:00 Introduction to Aging Conversations
01:07 Beth's Journey into Occupational Therapy
02:58 Understanding Oc...
Interview with Chris Moore, Author of Age Out Loud and Founder of Senior Remodeling Experts
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper engages in a profound conversation with Chris Moore, author of Age Out Loud and founder of Senior Remodeling Experts, about challenging the stereotypes associated with aging. Chris shares his journey from building wheelchair ramps to advocating for a new narrative around aging that emphasizes vitality, purpose, and wisdom. The discussion highlights the cultural perceptions of aging, the importance of mindset, and the dynamics of family conversations regarding aging. Chris emphasizes the need for education and open dialogue to empower individuals and families to navigate...
Interview with Nicole Ramer, Author, Certified Professional Organizer®, Certified Senior Move Manager® & Chronic Disorganization Specialist®
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper engages in a heartfelt conversation with Nicole Ramer, a Senior Home Coach™, Certified Professional Organizer®, Certified Senior Move Manager® & Chronic Disorganization Specialist®. They discuss the emotional and physical challenges of aging, clutter management, and the importance of supportive family dynamics during transitions. Nicole shares her insights on the role of a Senior Move Manager®, the significance of space planning, and the complexities of chronic disorganization and hoarding. The conversation emphasizes the need for compassion, understanding, and proactive planning in the aging journey, encouraging families to hav...
Interview with Nicole Johnson, Estate Attorney
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper engages with estate planning attorney Nicole Johnson to discuss the critical aspects of estate planning, including the importance of powers of attorney, wills, and trusts. They explore the emotional dynamics of family discussions around these topics, the implications of cognitive decline, and the necessity of having essential documents in place to ensure that individuals' wishes are honored. The conversation emphasizes the need for proactive planning and open communication within families to navigate the complexities of aging and legacy management.
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Interview with Kathy Vines, Certified Professional Organizer® and Author of Clever Girl's Guide to Living with Less
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey podcast, Lisa Harper engages in a heartfelt conversation with Kathy Vines, a Certified Professional Organizer®, the owner of Clever Girl Organizing®, and author of “Clever Girl's Guide to Living with Less: Break Free from Your Stuff, Even When Your Head and Heart Get in the Way.” They discuss the emotional complexities of letting go of belongings. They explore the psychological barriers that prevent individuals from decluttering, the significance of memorabilia, and the importance of purposeful possession. Kathy shares insights on how to navigate conversations with p...
Interview with Toni Moses, Service-Disabled Veteran and Veteran Advocate
In this episode of the Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey podcast, host Lisa Harper speaks with Veteran Advocate, Toni Moses about the complexities of navigating VA benefits for veterans and their families. Toni shares her personal journey as a Service-Disabled Veteran and emphasizes the importance of understanding available resources, including the role of Veteran Service Officers. The conversation covers essential documentation needed for claims, recent legislative changes affecting veterans, and the significance of support for caregivers. Toni provides valuable insights and case studies to illustrate the impact of advocacy on veterans' lives.
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Interview with David MacMahan Founder and President of FairSplit.com - Divide Things, Not Families®
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper speaks with David MacMahan, founder of FairSplit.com, about the emotional complexities of dividing personal belongings during estate settlements. David shares his personal experiences that led him to create FairSplit, a platform designed to help families navigate the often difficult process of estate division with transparency and fairness. The conversation covers the importance of estate planning, the emotional attachments to belongings, and how AI technology can streamline the inventory process. David explains the FairSplit system, which allows families to list items, express their preferences...
Interview with C. Vicki Gold, PT, MA, Author of Aging Safely, Wisely, and Well: A Movement and Mindset Guide for Older Adults
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper engages in a profound conversation with C. Vicki Gold, PT, MA, a semi-retired physical therapist, about the aging journey. At 81 years young, Vicki truly is a lifelong student of transformation. She has woven together science, movement, and personal growth in such a unique way. Vicki shares her insights on the importance of learning the ABCs of aging, which encompass alignment, breathing, and centering. She emphasizes the significance of self-talk, intentional living, and the role of feet in maintaining balance. Vicki also discusses her personal e...
Interview with Scott Fischer, Founder of Options for Senior Living
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey podcast, host Lisa Harper speaks with Scott Fischer, a leader in senior care, about the complexities of aging and the importance of having open conversations about senior living options. Scott shares his personal journey into the field, the nuances of placement in senior living, and the critical need for families to engage in discussions about aging before crises arise. The conversation emphasizes acceptance, preparation, and the emotional challenges families face as they navigate the aging process together.
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Scott Fischer has...Interview with Melanie Henry, Founder and CEO of the Driver Cognitive Assessment Center
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey podcast, host Lisa Harper speaks with Melanie Henry, Founder and CEO of the Driver Cognitive Assessment Center (DCAC), and co-author of two books. They discuss the critical need for compassionate and objective assessments of older drivers, especially those experiencing cognitive decline. Melanie shares her personal journey into this field, the technology used for driver assessments, and practical tips for families to navigate the sensitive conversations around driving and aging. The episode emphasizes the importance of family involvement, recognizing cognitive and physical changes, and planning for transportation...
Interview with Tara Ballman, Executive Director of National Aging in Place Council
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, host Lisa Harper speaks with Tara Ballman, Executive Director of the National Aging in Place Council. They discuss the importance of proactive planning for aging, the five pillars of aging in place, and the role of technology in supporting older adults. Tara shares her personal journey into the aging space, emphasizing the need for open conversations about aging and the resources available to families. The conversation also touches on transportation, home safety, and financial planning, providing listeners with valuable insights and practical advice for navigating the...
Interview with Annalee Kruger, Founder of Care Right Inc., Author of The Invisible Patient Book
In this episode, Lisa Harper speaks with Annalee Kruger, founder of Care Right, Inc. and the author of The Invisible Patient: The Emotional, Financial, and Physical Toll on Family Caregivers, about the challenges of aging, caregiving, and the importance of proactive planning. Annalee shares her extensive experience in senior care and emphasizes the need for families to have open conversations about aging and care options. The discussion covers essential tools for families, such as an Aging Plan, the emotional toll on caregivers, and the financial implications of inaction. Listeners are encouraged to create an aging plan to ensure their...
Interview with Christina and Dio Tadin, Co-Founders of Memcara, Innovating Memory Care Through Music and Imagery
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper sits down with Dio and Christina Tadin, creators of Memcara—a web app designed to enhance dementia care through the power of music and imagery.
They share their personal journeys into music therapy, the inspiration behind Memcara, and the importance of engaging individuals with memory loss in meaningful ways. The conversation explores the effectiveness of music therapy, the role of original music, and the exciting research collaborations that are shaping Memcara’s impact.
With partnerships ranging from Universal Music Group to o...
Interview with Bob Bacheler, Managing Director of Flying Angels and Expert in Critical Care Nursing
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey podcast, host Lisa Harper speaks with Bob Bacheler, Managing Director of Flying Angels, about the critical role of medical transport services in ensuring safe travel for patients. Bob shares insights into the differences between medical escort and emergency transport, the importance of patient safety, and the logistics involved in coordinating medical flights from "bedside to bedside". He emphasizes the need for due diligence when selecting transport services and highlights the growing demand for such services as the aging population increases.
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Interview with Marty Stevens-Heebner, Expert Senior Move Manager, Author, and Podcast Host
In this episode of the Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey podcast, host Lisa Harper speaks with Marty Stevens-Heebner, an expert in Senior Move Management. They discuss the emotional complexities of moving for older adults, the role of Senior Move Managers, and the importance of effective communication with aging parents. Marty shares insights on the CLEANSE method for downsizing, the significance of estate planning conversations, and practical tips for organizing and navigating family dynamics during moves. The conversation emphasizes the need for resources like AgeWise Alliance to support families in the aging process and highlights the...
Interview with Mark Conacher, Ending Slips in the Shower: The SENSTEC Story
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, host Lisa Harper discusses the critical issue of falls among older adults with Mark Conacher, Managing Director of SENSTEC-USA. They explore alarming statistics about falls, the innovative SENSTEC anti-slip shower tray, and the importance of bathroom safety in aging in place. Mark shares his journey from the kitchen and bath industry to advocating for safer bathroom designs, emphasizing the unique features of SENSTEC's product that enhance safety and comfort. The conversation also touches on the significance of professional installation and the broader implications of aging in...
Interview with Dr. Keith Ludwick, Senior Scams Expert - Author and Retired FBI Agent
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, host Lisa Harper speaks with Dr. Keith Ludwick, a retired FBI agent, expert on scams targeting seniors, and author of ScamSmart:Â An Expert's Guide to Spotting Scams and Living the Fraud Free Life. They discuss the alarming rise in scams, particularly affecting older adults, and the importance of education and awareness in preventing scams. Dr. Ludwick shares his personal journey into this field, the statistics surrounding scams, and practical advice for recognizing and responding to potential scams. The conversation also touches on the emotional and financial i...
Interview with Rachel Donnelly, Author of Late To Your Own Funeral and Founder/CEO of AfterLight
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper speaks with Rachel Donnelly, author of 'Late to Your Own Funeral' and founder of AfterLight. Rachel's mission is to help the living deal with dying. They discuss the importance of estate planning, the emotional and administrative burdens that come with death, and how to navigate these challenges with clarity and care. Rachel shares her personal experiences with loss and how they inspired her mission to help others prepare for the inevitable. The conversation emphasizes the need for proactive planning, open family discussions, and the...
Interview with Michael Pankow, CEO of Veterans Mortgage of America (Part Two)
In this episode of the Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey podcast, Lisa Harper engages with Michael Pankow, a seasoned mortgage executive, to explore the intricacies of reverse mortgages and their implications for seniors. The conversation delves into eligibility criteria, the benefits of reverse mortgages for downsizing, and how they can facilitate aging in place through necessary home modifications. Michael shares real-life scenarios, including communal living arrangements for seniors and the impact of divorce, in later stages of life, on home ownership, highlighting how reverse mortgages can provide financial flexibility and security. The discussion aims to...
Interview with Michael Pankow, CEO of Veterans Mortgage of America (Part One)
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper speaks with Michael Pankow, a seasoned mortgage professional, about reverse mortgages. The conversation aims to demystify reverse mortgages and encourage proactive financial planning for aging individuals and their families. They discuss the fundamentals of reverse mortgages, including eligibility, benefits, and common misconceptions. Michael emphasizes the consumer protections in place, the importance of planning ahead, and the options available for heirs.Â
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A reverse mortgage is a non-recourse loan, meaning borrowers will never owe more than the home's v...Interview with Amy Cameron O'Rourke, Author of The Fragile Years: Proven Strategies for the Care of Aging Loved Ones
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper engages with aging expert Amy Cameron O'Rourke to discuss the complexities of caring for aging loved ones. They explore the concept of the 'fragile years,' characterized by a decline in physical and cognitive abilities, and the importance of recognizing signs of this stage. The conversation emphasizes the need for open communication, understanding grief, and navigating the healthcare system effectively. Amy shares insights on assisted living, home care, and the financial considerations involved in caregiving. The episode concludes with a focus on the importance...
Interview with Janet Engel, Expert in Aging in Place and Occupational Therapy
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper speaks with Janet Engel, an expert in Aging in Place and Occupational Therapy. They discuss the importance of home safety modifications, the role of technology in enhancing independence for seniors, and practical tips for families to support their aging loved ones. Janet shares insights on fall prevention, the significance of lighting, and essential home modifications like zero-step entrances. The conversation emphasizes the need for empathy and understanding in addressing the challenges faced by older adults as they navigate aging.
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Interview with Ellen Goodwin, Co-Founder of Artifcts
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey podcast, Lisa Harper speaks with Ellen Goodwin, co-founder of Artifcts, a platform designed to help individuals and families preserve the stories and significance behind their cherished objects. They discuss the emotional weight of physical items, the importance of storytelling in memory preservation, and the challenges of decluttering and downsizing. Ellen shares the origin story of Artifcts, the process of creating artifacts, and the resources available for families navigating the complexities of managing their belongings. The conversation emphasizes the need for open communication about memories and the...
Interview with Todd Emrick, Moving Industry Insider and Expert (Part Two)
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper and Todd Emrick, Director of Business Development at Wheaton | Bekins discuss the complexities of moving for seniors, emphasizing the importance of communication, preparation, and understanding the moving process. They explore the emotional aspects of downsizing, the significance of handling sentimental items with care, and the necessity of proper insurance coverage. The conversation also highlights best practices for packing, the role of Senior Move Managers, and the importance of planning ahead to ensure a smooth transition for families.
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Interview with Todd Emrick, Moving Industry Insider and Expert (Part One)
In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey podcast, Lisa Harper speaks with Todd Emrick, Director of Business Development at Wheaton | Bekins, about the complexities of the moving industry, especially as it pertains to older adults. They discuss the importance of understanding the differences between local and interstate moves, the role of brokers, and the significance of Senior Move Management. Todd shares insights on how to navigate the moving process, including packing strategies and the value of certified Senior Move Managers. The conversation emphasizes the emotional and logistical challenges families face when relocating aging...
