Healing Her Story with Riva Jean-Paul

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By: Riva Jean-Paul

Are you feeling overwhelmed, disconnected from your body, or stuck in cycles of stress and trauma? Healing Her Story is here to guide you from feeling lost, isolated, and exhausted to feeling empowered, grounded, and deeply connected to yourself.This transformative podcast dives into trauma recovery, somatic healing, creativity, and the profound wisdom of trauma-informed menstrual cycle awareness. Each episode offers practical tools, inspiring stories of resilience, and insightful conversations to help you reconnect with your body, break free from societal expectations, and align with your natural rhythms.If you're ready to shift from surviving to thriving, join us as...

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Moon Phases & Feminine Power: Your Weekly Cycle Sync | How to Create Balance During the Waning Moon & Premenstrual Phase This Autumn
Yesterday at 11:00 PM

The waning moon is here, and so is autumn, here in the Northern Hemisphere. And if you've been feeling the pull to slow down, let go, and move a little differently than you have been, your body and the season are telling you something worth listening to. In this episode, Riva shares three honest, grounded invitations for creating more balance during the waning moon and premenstrual phase, woven together with some real and personal updates about what letting go is looking like in her own life right now.

In this episode, you'll explore:

πŸ‚ Why...


Safety Is the Special Sauce of Healing: EFT & Self-Love with Veronica Kelly
Last Friday at 12:00 PM

This week's Healing Her Story episode welcomes a guest whose work sits right at the intersection of nervous system science, energy medicine, and radical self-love.

Veronica Kelly is a liberation strategist and EFT practitioner based in Austin, helping people move through fear and anxiety by creating safety in the body and the nervous system. Her own path β€” shaped by early abandonment, years of repeating the same patterns in relationships and money, and a pivotal moment watching a comedy show about her own dating life β€” is what led her here.

In this episode Riva and Veronica expl...


Moon Phases & Feminine Power: Your Weekly Cycle Sync | Four Ways to Find Balance After the Full Moon (Including One You Probably Haven't Tried)
09/28/2026

We are just on the tail end of the full moon, and with Libra season officially here and fall arriving at the same time, there is a lot of shifting happening all at once. This week's Cycle Sync episode is an invitation to pause, feel into where you actually are, and use this post-peak energy intentionally. Riva shares four ways to create more balance and harmony after the full moon, including one rooted in ancient elemental wisdom that just might be the most effective thing you try this week.

In this episode, you'll explore:

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Why Do I Fight With My Partner Before My Period? The Hormone Shift Behind It
09/25/2026

This week's Healing Her Story episode answers one of the most searched questions about relationships and the menstrual cycle.

Why do I always fight with my partner right before my period?

In this solo episode Riva walks through all four phases of the menstrual cycle through the lens of relationships β€” sharing her own patterns, the research behind them, and why understanding these rhythms changes everything about how we show up with the people we love.

She covers:

The bleeding time β€” why this is a relationship with yourself first, and what...


(BONUS EPISODE) Autumn Equinox Attunement: A Somatic Practice for Balance and Center
09/22/2026

This one is different.

Less information, less teaching, more feeling.

This bonus episode is an experiential somatic attunement practice for the Autumn Equinox, that perfect point of balance between light and dark, expansion and contraction, summer and the slowdown ahead.

It is designed to be practiced along with, not just listened to. Find a comfortable place, close your eyes if that feels right, and let yourself drop in.

Through breath, bilateral stimulation, and centering, this practice gently attunes you to autumn's slower pace, not by...


Moon Phases & Feminine Power: Your Weekly Cycle Sync | Pre-Ovulation & the Waxing Gibbous Moon: Three Ways to Create Balance Before the Full Moon
09/21/2026

This week's Healing Her Story episode explores a phase that doesn't often get its own episode.

The waxing gibbous moon.

That last stretch between the first quarter moon and the full moon. The anticipatory energy right before the peak. And as we move through Libra season, this phase carries a really specific invitation, to create more balance and harmony before the bloom.

In this episode Riva shares three ways to work with this energy, drawing from her own very real and personal experience navigating hormonal symptoms, GI issues, headaches...


Feng Shui, Grief & Sacred Containers: How Your Home Holds Your Healing with Paula Agudelo
09/18/2026

This week's Healing Her Story episode arrives at a perfect bridge moment, between Virgo season's energy of clearing and Libra season's invitation into beauty and balance.

And today's guest has spent her life living at that exact intersection.

Paula Agudelo is an interior designer behind Sacred Interiors, helping women transform their homes into sanctuaries through intentional design and ritual. With 14 years in luxury interiors and two decades of metaphysical, psychological, and spiritual study, her work blends Feng Shui, the Bagua, ritual, and somatic awareness to help women create homes that mirror...


Moon Phases & Feminine Power: Your Weekly Cycle Sync | Libra Season & the Waxing Moon: What Balance Actually Means & How to Bring More Harmony Into Your Life
09/14/2026

Libra season is here, and with it comes one of the most meaningful invitations of the year. As we step into the waxing moon and welcome the energy of Libra, this week's Cycle Sync episode explores what balance actually means, not as a fixed point we're meant to hold perfectly, but as a constant, gentle recalibration as we move through our lives. If this year has felt intense, fast-moving, or just a little too much, this episode is for you.

In this episode, you'll explore:

βš–οΈ Why balance is not a fixed point and the...


Why the Helper Never Gets Held: Healing Hyper-Independence
09/11/2026

This week's Healing Her Story episode touches on something that doesn't get talked about enough on the healing journey.

How much are you allowing yourself to be supported?

As Riva continues through Virgo season, the season of the helper, this solo episode explores what happens when service to others becomes a way of avoiding our own needs. And why so many women, especially those in caregiving roles, have never learned how to truly receive.

In this episode Riva explores hyper-independence not as a personality trait but as a ...


Moon Phases & Feminine Power: Your Weekly Cycle Sync | Three New Moon & Bleeding Rituals to Close Out Your Cycle (Including One Nobody Talks About)
09/07/2026

This week's Healing Her Story episode arrives at a potent moment.

Eclipse season is ending. A new cycle is beginning. And whatever the past several weeks stirred up in you is now ready to be honored and released.

As Riva closes out Virgo season's ritual series, this episode offers three new moon practices to help you reset, restore, and prepare for the cycle ahead.

Setting intentions β€” not just from the mind, but from the body and the heart. Riva shares the research on the default mode network and why th...


Inner Systems, Outer Ripples: Listening to Your System to Create Systemic Change with Ana Uribe
09/04/2026

This week's Healing Her Story episode welcomes a guest whose work carries a quality Riva noticed the moment she found her online.

Spaciousness. Gentleness. Softness.

Ana Uribe is a trauma therapist, compassionate inquiry practitioner, trauma-informed embodiment facilitator, and passionate advocate for plant medicine integration. Her work centers on helping people find inner safety in their bodies and nervous systems so they can heal and live with more connection, joy, and freedom.

As Riva moves through Virgo season, the season of systems, this conversation arrives at exactly the right time.

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Moon Phases & Feminine Power: Your Weekly Cycle Sync | Why the Waning Moon Is Your Most Underrated Phase: Three Rituals to Honor the Slow Down
08/31/2026

This week's Healing Her Story episode attunes to one of Riva's favorite phases of the entire cycle.

The waning moon.

And one of the biggest missed opportunities we have as women.

We live in a culture that rewards producing, pushing, and performing. But the female body was never designed to operate that way all the time. During the premenstrual and waning moon phase, progesterone and estrogen decline, serotonin shifts, and the nervous system's capacity for stress significantly decreases.

That is not a flaw. That is female physiology.<...


Your Body Isn't A Problem to Be Optimized
08/28/2026

This week's Healing Her Story episode arrives with a phrase worth sitting with.

Your body isn't a problem to optimize.

Notice where that lands. Notice if something softens.

As Riva moves through Virgo season she is exploring its shadow side, and one of the deepest shadow expressions of Virgo is perfectionism.Β 

The constant fixing.Β 

The constant managing.Β 

The constant reaching toward some idea of optimal that keeps moving further away.

In this solo episode Riva explores what becomes possible whe...


Moon Phases & Feminine Power: Your Weekly Cycle Sync | Full Moon & Ovulation Rituals: Four Ways to Work With Peak Cycle Energy
08/24/2026

This is not just any full moon. As a full moon partial eclipse, this week carries an amplified quality of culmination, illumination, and completion.Β  And whatever story is beginning to unfold for you through this eclipse season may not yet be fully clear. With time, it will be. In the meantime, Riva shares four of her most meaningful full moon and ovulation rituals, grounded in menstrual cycle awareness, Traditional Chinese Medicine, manifestation practice, and the ancient art of feng shui, to help you work with this peak energy in a way that is simple, intentional, and deeply supportive.


Indigenous Wisdom & Doula Care for Feminine Leadership with Madison Murphy Barney, Author of Our Ancestors Want Us to Be Mushrooms
08/21/2026

In this episode, Riva sits down with Madison Murphy Barney, an Indigenous woman, sister, author, doula, and story-driven strategist, for a conversation that moves between public health systems, feminine leadership, doula care, and the wisdom mycelium has to offer us about staying in right relationship with ourselves, each other, and the earth. Madison shares a little bit about her new book, Our Ancestors Want Us to Be Mushrooms, and what it means to lead and to heal from a place rooted in ancestral and Indigenous knowledge.

In This Episode:

🌹 Madison's personal story and healing journey

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Moon Phases & Feminine Power: Your Weekly Cycle Sync | How to Embody Your Cycle Through Ritual: A Virgo Season Guide
08/17/2026

Virgo season is almost here and with it comes one of the most grounding and practical invitations of the entire year. In this episode, Riva introduces the theme for our new Virgo season mini-series: rituals and embodiment. As we move through eclipse season and step into the waxing moon, this is a moment to ask a deeper question, not just what you know about your cycle, but how you are actually living it.

In this episode, you'll explore:

🌿 Why ritual is one of the most powerful tools for embodying your menstrual cycle β€” and why w...


Moon Phases & Feminine Power: Your Weekly Cycle Sync | The Dark Moon vs the New Moon: What No One Talks About & Why It Matters
08/10/2026

Most people have heard of the new moon, but the dark moon? That's a different invitation entirely. In this episode, Riva draws an important distinction between these two often-confused phases and makes a case for why the dark moon deserves its own honoring. As we move through eclipse season in Leo, this quiet, liminal space between cycles is asking something simple of us, and something most of us rarely give ourselves permission to do - just be.

In this episode, you'll explore:

πŸŒ‘ The difference between the dark moon and the new moon β€” and why t...


Moon Phases & Feminine Power: Your Weekly Cycle Sync | Premenstrual Phase & the Waning Moon: The Science of Refinement & Creative Completion
08/03/2026

The waning moon is here, and with it comes one of the most underrated invitations of the entire cycle. As we come off the Aquarius full moon and close out our mini-series on creativity and the cycles, this week Riva explores what it actually means to refine, complete, and consciously let go, and why this phase of the lunar and menstrual cycle is biologically designed for exactly that.

Through the metaphor of metal refinement, the science of the premenstrual brain, and her own real-time experience finishing a painting that had been sitting in the corner of her...


(REPLAY) Creativity as Medicine: What Happens When We Finally Share Our Truth with Leah Morris
07/31/2026

This week's Healing Her Story episode is a replay, and it is arriving at exactly the right time.

As Riva has been moving through Leo season exploring themes of courage, creativity, and being seen, this conversation with her dear friend and transformational coach Leah Morris felt like it was made for this moment.

Leah kept her self-portrait paintings in a closet for nearly twenty years.

Not because they were not beautiful. But because she believed she was too much. That her emotional expression was a burden. That her art was too...


Moon Phases & Feminine Power: Your Weekly Cycle Sync | Full Moon in Leo: Your Creative & Menstrual Cycle Peak β€” Here's How to Work With It
07/27/2026

This week's Healing Her Story episode tunes into the energy of the full moon in Leo -- and the timing could not be more perfect.

The sun just entered Leo. The full moon is at its peak. And as we have been exploring this cycle, this is exactly the moment where everything shifts from intention into expression.

But this carries profound wisdom about what the full moon is actually asking of you creatively.

If you have been following along since the new moon, you planted a seed. You chose a project...


The Fear of Being Seen: Why Your Nervous System Was Wired to Hide
07/24/2026

This week's Healing Her Story episode steps into one of the most charged threads of Leo season.

Being seen.

Not just on a stage or in a spotlight. But in the everyday moments where we hold back our opinions, our photos, our ideas, our truest selves.

But this carries profound wisdom about why so many women find it so hard to show up and what the research actually says about it.

In this solo episode, Riva opens with data that stops you in your tracks. Forty four percent of...


Moon Phases & Feminine Power: Your Weekly Cycle Sync | How to Work With Waxing Moon Energy for Your Creative Practice & Menstrual Cycle
07/20/2026

This week's Healing Her Story episode continues the Leo season mini series on creativityΒ -- exploring how the lunar and menstrual cycle can inform the way we create, what we focus on, and the energy we bring to it.

This phase is associated with the season of spring. Rebirth. Fresh starts. New beginnings. And there is so much creative potential available right now.

But this carries profound wisdom about what this tender, emerging energy actually needs from us.

In this episode Riva introduces the three P's for your creative practice


Somatic Healing & Conscious Breathing: How Breathwork Rewires Trauma with Dr. Colleen Quinn, Author of Essence Merging
07/17/2026

This week's Healing Her Story episode welcomes a guest whose healing journey took her from traditional psychology into the depths of breathwork, somatic healing, and spiritual transformation.

Dr. Colleen Quinn is a transpersonal psychologist, breathwork practitioner, and author of Essence Merging -- a book that traces her path from health crisis to profound awakening and the discovery that love is the primary healer.

But this carries profound wisdom about what becomes possible when we stop trying to think our way through trauma and start breathing our way through it.

Riva opens...


Moon Phases & Feminine Power: Your Weekly Cycle Sync | Leo Season & the New Moon: Aligning Creativity With Your Menstrual Cycle
07/13/2026

The new moon is here, and so is a new focus. As we slowly close out Cancer season and welcome the energy of Leo next week, this week's Cycle Sync episode marks the beginning of a brand-new creative arc. Over the coming weeks, we'll be exploring how to work with each phase of the lunar and menstrual cycle to support and deepen your creative practice.

In this episode, Riva shares real-time reflections from her own bleeding time, including a spontaneous visit to a contemporary art museum, what she discovered reading Her Blood Is Gold, and how indigenous...


Why We're Starving for Community and Why the Village We're Missing Is the Cure with Laura Ambrosio, founder of Aspen & Elder
07/10/2026

In this episode, Riva sits down with Laura Ambrosio, founder of Aspen & Elder, to talk about what it really takes to build community in a culture that often rewards isolation. Laura shares the personal story behind her work, including her own childhood experience of navigating shame and confusion after abuse, and how that search for safety and belonging eventually led her to years of travel and self-discovery. She opens up about the contrast between individualistic Western culture and the collective, reciprocal community she experienced abroad, and how that shaped her vision for Aspen & Elder.

The conversation moves...


Moon Phases & Feminine Power: Your Weekly Cycle Sync | Premenstrual Self-Care: How to Work With the Waning Moon & Your Nervous System
07/06/2026

The waning moon is here, and your body already knows it. In this final episode of our Cancer season self-care mini series, Riva explores the premenstrual phase through the lens of nervous system science, cyclical wisdom, and honest, practical self-care. If you've ever felt irritable, overstimulated, or just done during this time of the month, this episode will give you the language and the permission to understand why.

In this episode, you'll explore:

Why the female nervous system has less capacity for stress and stimulation during the premenstrual and waning moon phaseWhat the window...


Breaking Family Cycles: How Childhood Shapes Our Adult Relationships with Amanda Hill, LMHC
07/03/2026

This week's Healing Her Story episode welcomes a guest whose work lives at the intersection of attachment, parenting, and generational healing.

Amanda Hill is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and founder of Connections of Hope. With nearly twenty years of experience as a psychotherapist, she has spent her career helping individuals and families create meaningful, lasting change.

But this carries profound wisdom about where so many of our adult relationship patterns actually begin.

Amanda opens up about her own experience growing up the fifth of six children in a loving but...


Moon Phases & Feminine Power: Your Weekly Cycle Sync | Full Moon & Ovulation: How to Care for Yourself at Peak Energy
06/29/2026

This week's Healing Her Story episode tunes into the energy of the full moon, landing on the rare day when the episode airs right alongside the actual peak.

As Cancer season continues, the focus for these Monday episodes remains on care. And today's invitations apply just as much to this full moon as they do to your inner summer, your ovulation time.

But this carries profound wisdom about how to work with peak energy rather than against it.

The full moon is a time of fullness. The light is...


Why Women Are Exhausted: The Price of Carrying Care in a World That Doesn't Value It
06/26/2026

This week's Healing Her Story episode opens a new cycle with a focus on care. What it costs. Who provides it. And why so many women are running on empty.

Riva revisits a conversation she started on the show last year, this time with a deeper understanding, not just intellectually, but in her own body and nervous system.

But this carries profound wisdom about what happens when an entire society fails to value the work that holds it together.

In this episode, Riva breaks down the staggering economic reality of unpaid...


Moon Phases & Feminine Power: Your Weekly Cycle Sync | Stop Pushing Too Hard Too Fast: Waxing Moon Self-Care for a Sustainable Cycle
06/22/2026

This week's Healing Her Story episode tunes into the energy of the waxing moon and the follicular phase, one of the most tender and misunderstood windows of the cycle.

This is a transitional energy. Estrogen is rising. The light is returning. And so often, this is exactly where women push too hard too fast, burning out before they even reach ovulation.

But this carries profound wisdom about how to move through this phase with care instead of force.

In this episode, Riva explores what the waxing moon is actually for. Not...


Living Beyond the Box: Creativity, Multiplicity & Self-Expression with Dr. Tavina Lynn
06/19/2026

This week's Healing Her Story episode welcomes a guest whose life refuses to fit inside a single box.

Dr. Tavina Lynn holds a PhD in Chemistry and teaches at Sacramento City College. She is also a writer, a dancer, a creative visionary. And for years, she believed she had to choose between these parts of herself.

But this carries profound wisdom about what becomes possible when we stop choosing.

Riva and Tavina met at a mural project, and the instant connection that followed set the stage for this conversation. In honor...


Moon Phases & Feminine Power: Your Weekly Cycle Sync | How to Actually Care for Yourself at the New Moon
06/15/2026

The new moon is here β€” and so is a new focus for our Cycle Sync episodes. This week, Riva introduces the themes of Cancer season as a guiding lens for the cycles ahead, with one central question at the heart of it all: how do we actually care for ourselves?

This episode is an invitation to move away from rigid, one-size-fits-all self-care and toward something more fluid, personal, and cyclically aware. Riva shares how the new moon and menstruating phase call us toward lower energy, inward focus, and genuine rest β€” and what it practically looks like to crea...


Between Worlds: Biracial Identity, Immigrant Guilt, and Self-Worth with Serena Arora, Author of UNBOUND
06/12/2026

What happens when you spend your life navigating between worlds?

In this Gemini season conversation, I sit down with bestselling author, yoga therapist, and Ayurvedic practitioner Serena Arora to explore the complexities of identity, belonging, family legacy, and self-worth.

Drawing from her memoir, UNBOUND: An Immigrant Daughter's Journey of Reckoning, Unraveling Shame, and Reclaiming Her Worth, Serena shares her experience growing up as a biracial, first-generation immigrant in Canada and the unique challenges of living between cultures, expectations, and identities.

Together, we explore the concept of immigrant guilt, the often unspoken pressure many...


Moon Phases & Feminine Power: Your Weekly Cycle Sync | The Duality of the Waning Moon: Rest, Momentum, and Healing
06/08/2026

This week's Healing Her Story episode attunes to the energy of the waning moon --- one of the most misunderstood transitions in the lunar cycle.

Because this phase is not just about slowing down.

But this carries profound wisdom about what the waning moon is actually asking for -- and why it looks different for every woman.

In this episode, Riva explores the duality of the waning moon and luteal phase through the lens of Gemini season. This is a bridge phase. Not fully yang. Not fully yin. And...


Why Your Nervous System Responds Better to Curiosity Than Criticism
06/05/2026

This week's Healing Her Story episode explores something that doesn't get talked about enough in healing spaces.

Curiosity.

Not as a personality trait. As a biological necessity.

In this solo episode, Riva shares one of the most fundamental shifts she made in her own healing journey -- from relentless self-judgment to genuine curiosity. And why that shift changed everything. Not just emotionally. Biologically.

She opens up about the years she spent trying to force change. Meditating more, scrolling less, thinking more positively, losing weight -- all at...


Moon Phases & Feminine Power: Your Weekly Cycle Sync | The Duality of the Full Moon: Celebration, Intensity, and Healing
06/01/2026

This week's Healing Her Story episode explores one of the most complex and beautiful phases of the lunar cycle: the Full Moon.

And the conversation today is not just about releasing what no longer serves you.

It is about holding both.

But this carries profound wisdom about what the full moon is actually illuminating -- and why we move past the sweetest part too quickly.

In this episode, Riva explores the duality of the full moon through the lens of Gemini season. The fullness of this phase...


Rewire Your Brain: Neuroplasticity, Breathwork & the Power of New Pathways
05/29/2026

This week's Healing Her Story episode dives deep into one of the most empowering truths in healing:

Your brain can change.

If you have ever felt stuck in the same thought patterns, the same ways of being, the same old stories -- this episode is for you.

In this solo episode, Riva explores how all or nothing thinking creates friction in our lives and bodies, and why the female experience is far too nuanced to fit into a neat little box. She introduces the science of neuroplasticity β€” th...


Moon Phases & Feminine Power: Your Weekly Cycle Sync | Push & Pause: Finding Balance in The Waxing Moon & Your Inner Spring
05/25/2026

This week's Healing Her Story episode explores one of the most misunderstood phases of the lunar and menstrual cycle: the waxing moon and inner spring.

Online, this phase gets painted as go-go-go. Maximum productivity. Intense workouts. Non-stop socializing.

But every time Riva pushed hard through her inner spring, she burned out before ovulation.

In this episode, she shares what a year of tracking and living in her own body taught her about what this phase is actually asking for. Yes there is action. Yes there is growth. And there is also...


**BONUS EPISODE** Low-Tox Living, Fertility, and the Hidden Impact of Plastics with Alisha Lee, Co-Founder of Nudge Eco Store
05/22/2026

What if the products we use every single day are quietly impacting our hormones, fertility, nervous systems, and the health of our planet?

In this grounded and eye-opening conversation, Riva sits down with Alisha, founder of Sacramento-based Nudge Eco Store, to explore the hidden impact of plastics, the realities of low-tox living, and why sustainable living doesn’t have to mean perfection.

Alisha shares the deeply personal story that led her to create Nudge after experiencing pregnancy losses and beginning to question the environmental toxins surrounding everyday life. Together, we explore the connection between plastics an...


Moon Phases & Feminine Power: Your Weekly Cycle Sync | The Both/And of the New Moon: Where Endings Meet Beginnings
05/18/2026

In this week's Cycle Sync, Riva guides you into the tender, layered energy of the new moon in Taurus as we close the chapter of Taurus season and cross the threshold into Gemini season. Drawing on cyclical wisdom, menstrual cycle awareness, and the both/and philosophy at the heart of Gemini's dual nature, this episode invites you to honor what's beginning and what's ending β€” at the same time.

You'll explore why the new moon isn't only a beginning but also a sacred ending, how to work with the dance between resting and nesting, and practical rituals for cl...