Taboo Talk Not Safe For Brunch
Welcome to Taboo Talk Not Safe for Brunch! In this podcast, we’re here to bring sex, insight, and real-world education to the table—unapologetically. Think of it as having those important, unfiltered brunch conversations with your closest friends, about sex, relationships, and everything in between.With over 55 years experience combined in the intimacy industry helping individuals and couples focusing on breaking down barriers, reducing shame, and empowering people to embrace their desires and relationships with confidence.
Why Sex Isn’t Just “Male or Female”
We’re tackling a topic that gets people heated online—but we’re leaving the comment section energy out of it.
In this episode, we break down what intersex actually means, why sex isn’t as simple as “male or female,” and how biology is way more complex than what most of us were taught growing up.
We’re keeping it real, science-based, and easy to understand—because this conversation doesn’t need more confusion… it needs clarity.
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Episode: 71 - Are Blue Balls Real? Sex Myths We Need to Unlearn
What if most of what you learned about sex growing up was wrong?
In this episode of Taboo Talks: Not Safe For Brunch, Amber, Coralie, and Vicki unpack the biggest sex myths many of us were taught through school, movies, magazines, religion, locker room talk, and pure misinformation.
From the truth about “blue balls” to why painful sex is not something you should just accept, we’re breaking down outdated beliefs and replacing them with honest, empowering conversation.
We also talk about poor sex education, pleasure gaps, men’s libido m...
Episode: 70 - Can You Recycle Sex Toys? The Frustrating Truth
What happens when your vibrator dies? Toss it in the garbage? Hide it in a drawer forever? Try to recycle it and hope nobody makes eye contact?
For this Earth Day episode, we tackle a surprisingly frustrating question: how do you responsibly recycle sex toys? We dug into lithium batteries, e-waste programs, provincial differences across Canada, stigma, safety concerns, and why consumers are being asked to solve a problem manufacturers and systems haven’t caught up with yet.
This episode is funny, honest, and way more important than it sounds.
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Episode: 69 - Does the Green Stuff Help Sex… or Hurt It?
Can a little relaxation help your love life… or ruin the mood completely?
In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we’re diving into the plant everyone whispers about and asking the real questions. Can it help arousal, lower stress, improve connection, and make intimacy better? Or can it leave you distracted, dry, anxious, or asleep before anything starts?
We’re talking dosage, strains, midlife libido, perimenopause, communication, and why no product or substance can fix relationship problems.
If you’ve ever been curious, cautious, or wondering why so many...
Episode: 68 - Moving In Without an Agreement? Big Mistake
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In this episode, we’re breaking down prenups and cohabitation agreements without the drama. Because let’s be real—love is great, but clarity is better.
We’re talking about:
What prenups and cohab agreements actually are Why they’re not a “breakup plan” The biggest myths that keep people avoiding them Real-life situations where NOT having one goes sideways And how to have the conversation without ruining your relation...Episode: 67 - The Pressure to Perform is Killing Your Sex Life
Have you ever been in the middle of sex and suddenly started overthinking everything?
Am I taking too long?
Do I look okay?
Am I doing this right?
Just like that… you’re out of the moment and stuck in your head.
In this episode of Not Safe for Brunch, we’re talking about the pressure to perform in the bedroom, where it comes from, how it affects your body, and how to actually enjoy intimacy again.
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Episode: 66 - Why 69 Sounds Sexy… But Rarely Delivers
Let’s talk about 69… and why it might not be all it’s hyped up to be.
It’s one of the most talked about positions out there, but when you actually break it down, the reality doesn’t always match the fantasy.
In this episode, we’re getting real about why 69 looks great in theory but can fall apart in practice, from awkward angles to multitasking struggles and everything in between.
If you’ve ever tried it and thought “what is happening right now”… this episode is for you.
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Episode: 65 - Spring Mating Season… But Humans Are Opting Out
Spring is known as mating season in the animal world… but humans seem to be doing the opposite.
In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we zoom out and talk about the big picture of sex, relationships, and reproduction. For most of human history, sex wasn’t optional. It was survival.
Now? Birth control, financial independence, and social change have rewritten the rules.
So why are birth rates dropping? Why are more people opting out of relationships or kids? And why does that make some parts of society pani...
Episode: 64 - From Petting Parties to Netflix and Chill: How Sex Slang Changed Through the Decades
Sex hasn’t changed much over the decades… but the words we use to talk about it definitely have.
In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we take a hilarious and honest look at the evolving language of intimacy. From old school phrases like “making whoopee” and “going steady” to modern terms like “Netflix and Chill,” “situationship,” and “sneaky link,” every generation seems to invent new slang to say the same thing.
Why do we keep changing the language?
Is it about privacy, culture, o...
Episode: 63 - Pleasure Should Be Chosen, Not Expected
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There are a lot of unofficial holidays out there. Some are harmless. Some are funny. And then there’s Steak and BJ Day.
Is it playful? Is it sexist? Is it just a joke? Or does it quietly reinforce one-sided expectations about sex and pleasure?
In this episode, we unpack where this “holiday” came from, why it makes some people uncomfortable, and what it reveals about communication, consent, fantasy vs reality, and performative intimacy.
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Episode: 62 - From Head to Butt to Bed: Sexual Hygiene 101
Sex is supposed to be fun, not stressful, awkward, or uncomfortable because no one taught you the basics.
In this episode of Not Safe For Brunch, we’re breaking down sexual hygiene from head to butt to bed. No shame. No fear-mongering. Just real, practical conversations about cleanliness, comfort, confidence, toys, lube, oral, anal, kink, and everything in between.
Whether you’re new to sex, deep into midlife changes, exploring new play, or just want better sex with fewer infections, this episode is for you.
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Episode: 61 - Best Sex Positions for Real Bodies (no icepacks required)
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If sex feels uncomfortable, overly complicated, or more like a workout than pleasure… it might be the position.
In this episode, we break down supportive, realistic sex positions designed for real bodies. No acrobatics. No performance pressure. Just angles, stability, connection, and actual pleasure.
We cover comfort-based positions, angle-focused positions, and intimacy-centered positions that make orgasms easier and strain less likely.
Because stable beats flashy. Every time.
Episode: 60 - Valentine’s Day Is Just Marketing (And We’re Over It)
Valentine’s Day is sold as the ultimate test of love, but let’s be honest, it’s mostly a marketing calendar wrapped in roses and guilt.
In this episode, we break down where Valentine’s Day actually came from, how it became a billion-dollar industry, and why so many people feel pressured, disappointed, or straight-up uncomfortable when February 14th rolls around.
We talk performative romance, overpriced expectations, social media pressure, and why consistent love beats one grand gesture every time. Whether you’re partnered, single, or happily ignoring the whole thing, this one’s for you.
...Episode: 59 - Being Seen Is Foreplay: Rethinking Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day isn’t the problem, the pressure is.
In this episode, we break down why Valentine’s Day feels so loaded, what people actually want from it (hint: it’s not expensive gifts), and how small gestures create real connection in long-term relationships.
We talk about acknowledgment, emotional intimacy, micro-gestures, expectations, and why being seen might be the most underrated form of foreplay. Whether you’re partnered, single, or somewhere in between, this is a no-pressure, no-performance take on making Valentine’s Day actually feel good.
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Episode: 58 - What Heated Rivalry Gets Right About Gay Men in Professional Sports
What happens when honesty becomes a career risk?
This conversation dives into why so many gay men in professional sports remain closeted—and why the issue has nothing to do with masculinity, toughness, or talent. Using the cultural impact of Heated Rivalry as a lens, we unpack visibility, power, locker-room culture, emotional safety, and what actually happens when athletes come out while still playing.
From real statistics to real-world examples, this episode explores why being “the first” still carries so much weight—and why stories like this matter far beyond fiction.
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...Episode: 57 - Double Standards in the Bedroom: Who Made These Rules, Anyway?
Ever been told you’re asking for too much in the bedroom?
This episode was sparked entirely by listener comments, and wow, did they expose some deep-rooted double standards around sex, pleasure, emotional labor, and communication.
We’re breaking down:
• Why having standards isn’t entitlement
• The emotional labor women carry into the bedroom
• Why “just communicate” isn’t that simple
• The truth about sex toys, shame, and masculinity
• How performance pressure hurts everyone
If you’ve ever felt judged for how you show up sexually, this episode is for you.
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Episode: 56 - Stop Treating Anal Like a Stunt and Start Treating It Like a Skill
Most people treat anal like a bucket-list stunt.
Try it once, decide forever, never revisit it.
That’s the problem.
In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we break down why anal play isn’t about bravery or pressure, it’s about skill, anatomy, communication, and going slow enough for your body to actually enjoy it.
We cover:
• Why your first attempt doesn’t mean anything
• How different bodies experience anal stimulation
• What actually makes it pleasurable (and what makes it painful)
• Beginner t...
Episode: 56 - 200 Orgasms a Year: Turning Pleasure Into a Legit Wellness Practice
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What if orgasms were one of the most powerful wellness tools you’re not using enough?
In this episode of Taboo Talk Not Safe for Brunch, we break down the science behind orgasms, stress relief, nervous system regulation, and why pleasure is not extra, it’s essential.
We’re talking hormone cocktails, pelvic floor health, immune support, myth-busting, and introducing our boldest idea y...
Episode: 54 - Hallmark Lies and Five-Minute Orgasms
The holidays are loud, exhausting, and wildly unsexy… or are they? In this episode of Not Safe for Brunch, we dive into real listener questions about holiday quickies, exhaustion, zero privacy, and why social media makes everyone feel broken. Spoiler: you’re not broken. You’re just tired.
We talk delegation, scheduling sex, five-minute escapes, realistic expectations, and how connection doesn’t disappear just because the house is full. If you’re surviving December and wondering where intimacy went, this episode is for you.
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Episode: 53 - If Your Sex Life Had a Performance Review, Would It Pass?
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Forget vision boards. In this episode of Not Safe for Brunch, we’re doing a year-end sex audit. What turned us on, what shut things down, what surprised us, and what we are absolutely leaving behind.
We talk about saying no without guilt, libido changes, obligation sex, menopause realities, unexpected turn-ons, and why communication matters more than frequency. Whether you’re partnered or single, this is a real-talk reset for your intimacy heading into the new year.
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Episode: 52 - The Holidays Are Killing Your Sex Life
In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we’re talking holiday stress, family dynamics, money tension, mental load, and how all of it impacts intimacy. From hosting and traveling to childhood bedrooms to mismatched libidos and unrealistic expectations, we’re keeping it honest, funny, and very real.
If you’re hiding from your family in the bathroom right now, we see you.
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Episode: 51 - How Dominance & Submission Build Deeper Intimacy (And Hotter Sex)
Today we’re diving into the psychology of dominance and submission — why people crave giving up control, taking control, or switching between the two. We’re breaking down the science, the fantasies, the communication, and how to explore power play safely and confidently. If you’ve ever wondered why anticipation hits so hard, why confident dominance is an art, or why so many people fantasize about surrender, this one’s for you.
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Episode: 50 - Dating Apps Exposed: What People Are Really Experiencing in 2025
From generational differences to queer vs straight dating culture to why men and women are having wildly different experiences, we break down what’s actually happening behind the swipe, and what the numbers say about who’s really finding connection.
If you’ve ever deleted a dating app only to re-download it two weeks later… this episode was made for you.
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Episode: 49 - 10 Naughty-but-Nice Gifts for a Way Hotter Holiday
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Get ready for our steamy holiday gift guide packed with the best couples toys, solo treats, massage must-haves, and sensual stocking stuffers. We’re breaking down how to gift intimacy without the awkwardness, plus our top picks to heat up your holidays. Think travel-friendly wands, prostate toys, clitoral suction, massage candles, and pleasure serums that make the season… merry.
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Episode: 48 - Is Growing a Mustache Cheaper Than Therapy?
It’s that time of year, Movember is back, and it’s not just about growing facial hair. In this Tabbo Talk Not Safe for Brunch episode, we’re diving into the real conversations that matter: men’s mental health, physical wellness, and the power of speaking openly.
We’re sharing stories, laughs, and a few mustache jokes while highlighting the impact of Project 11, a Canadian initiative helping young people learn how to talk about mental health early.
Because it’s not about toughing it out, it’s about checking in, showing up, and starting the conversati...
Episode: 47 - Natural Libido Boosters: Snake Oil or Science?
Are “natural libido boosters” the real deal, or just another marketing scam?
In this episode of Taboo Talk Not Safe for Brunch, we dig into the truth behind all those so-called desire enhancers: green tea, ginseng, maca root, chili peppers, yoga, sleep, and more.
We talk placebo effects, body confidence, and how connection (and laughter) might be your best turn-on yet.
💋 No filters. No shame. Just the real talk on what fuels desire and what’s total BS.
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Episode: 46 - Bedroom Blunders: The Dangers of Rough Sex
In this episode of Taboo Talks, Not Safe for Brunch, Coralie, Amber, and Vicki dive into a listener's nightmare scenario: accidentally injuring a partner's penis during sex. They break down why such injuries happen, how porn sets unrealistic expectations, and which positions are riskiest. The hosts offer practical strategies for maintaining fun, creative, and safe sex lives, emphasizing the importance of communication and proper use of lube. They also address listener questions about condoms and risky sexual moves, making it clear that pleasure should never come at the cost of safety.
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Episode: 45 - Friends with Benefits Isn’t Just for the Young
It’s not just a twenty-something thing anymore. In this NSFB episode, we break down how friends with benefits evolves through your 20s, 30s, 40s, and 50s — from messy feelings to fierce independence.
☕ Let’s talk blurred lines, clear boundaries, rediscovering pleasure, and why women over 50 are rewriting the rulebook.
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Episode: 44 - Passive Aggressive Relationshiping: Why the Silent Treatment Isn’t Sexy
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Welcome to another episode of Taboo Talks Not Safe for Brunch! Today, Coralie, Amber, and Vicki delve into the ins and outs of passive-aggressive behaviors in relationships and their impact on intimacy and connection. From giving the silent treatment to using sarcasm, the hosts share personal anecdotes and data-backed insights to highlight the importance of direct communication in fostering healthier relationships. Tune in for an unapologetically honest conversation about the complexities of intimacy, relationship dynamics, and self-discovery.
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Episode: 43 - Real Talk on Breast Cancer: Sex, Scars & Self-Love After Treatment
October means Breast Cancer Awareness Month, but we’re not here for fluffy slogans and pink ribbons only. In this episode, we’re checking our boobs (literally), busting myths, and having the real, raw, and intimate conversations that often get left out. From mental health to body changes, pleasure, and communication — we’re diving deep into what survivorship actually looks like.
If you’re a survivor, supporting someone, or just here to learn, this is a conversation worth pulling up a chair for.
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Episode: 42 - Managing ADHD's Impact on Sex: Real Conversations and Solutions
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In this episode of Taboo Talks, Not Safe for Brunch, hosts Coralie, Amber, and Vicki dive into the challenges of maintaining intimacy when you have ADHD. As part of ADHD Awareness Month, they discuss how executive dysfunction, mental load, and neurodivergence impact romantic relationships. Whether you're navigating a new diagnosis or looking to understand your loved one better, tune in for unfiltered, real-world insights that break taboos and bust myths around ADHD and sex.
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Episode: 41 - Shower Sex: Steamy Fantasy vs Slippery Reality
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Movies make shower sex look like the ultimate steamy hookup, but is it really that sexy, or just slippery and dangerous? In this episode of Not Safe for Brunch, Amber, Vicki, and Coralie break down the fantasy vs. reality of shower sex, how to avoid common fails (and ER trips), and ways to actually make it work (including solo play, waterproof toys, and silicone lube).
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Episode: 40 - From Rage to Radiance: How Your Cycle Shapes Desire, Energy & Connection
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Ever feel like your sex drive, mood, and energy are on a rollercoaster? Spoiler: it’s not random, it’s your cycle. In this episode of Taboo Talks: Not Safe for Brunch, Amber, Coralie, and Vicki unpack how each phase of your cycle impacts intimacy, connection, and confidence. From cramps and cravings to ovulation glow and PMS snark, nothing’s off the table.
Whether you’re menstruating, in perimenopause, or post-menopausal, this convo will help you see your body (and your partner’s reactions) in a whole...
Episode: 39 - Prostate Play Unplugged: More Than Just the Male G-Spot
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In this episode of Taboo Talks, Not Safe for Brunch, hosts Coralie, Amber, and Vicki dive into the mysteries of the prostate, often referred to as the male G-spot. They discuss its location, function, and role in both health and pleasure. The conversation tackles the stigma surrounding prostate play, especially in cis male communities, emphasizing its benefits for sexual health, erectile dysfunction, and overall well-being. The hosts also explore various tools and techniques for prostate stimulation, from beginner-friendly massagers to more advanced options. They highlight the...
Episode: 38 - Responsive Desire: The Hidden Truth About Women's Libido
Spontaneous desire might get all the attention, but responsive desire—where arousal occurs after stimulation or connection—is much more common, especially among women. Join hosts Coralie, Amber, and Vicki on Taboo Talks Not Safe For Brunch as they dive deep into responsive desire, debunk myths, and offer real-world advice on how understanding this type of desire can improve your sex life and relationships. Learn about the importance of communication, creating connection, and balancing different desire styles without frustration or shame. Tune in for candid conversations, research insights, and practical tips for a more fulfilling intimate life.
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Episode: 37 - Libido in Menopause: Is It Even Possible?
In this episode of Taboo Talks, Not Safe for Brunch, hosts Coralie, Amber, and Vicki dive into the complexities of perimenopause and menopause, discussing its impact on hormones, mindset, and sex drive. They break down common misconceptions, provide practical tips on managing symptoms like vaginal dryness, and emphasize the importance of communication and intimacy in relationships during this transition. Whether sharing personal anecdotes or citing expert advice, the discussion aims to empower women to reclaim their pleasure and navigate this life phase with confidence. Tune in for a refreshingly candid conversation on breaking taboos and celebrating midlife sexuality.
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In this episode, we delve into the complexities of breakups, challenging the notion that someone always has to be the villain. We explore the various types of breakups—loud, quiet, overdue, and unexpected—and discuss the crucial role boundaries play in the post-breakup period. Amber, Coralie, and Vicki share their personal experiences and insights, emphasizing the importance of self-discovery, emotional growth, and setting clear boundaries to facilitate healing. Join us for a candid conversation about love, relationships, and why moving on doesn't always mean failure.
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Episode: 35 - Breaking the Silence: The Gaps and Needs in Sex Education
In this eye-opening episode of Taboo Talks, Coralie, Amber, and Vicki dive deep into the shortcomings of traditional sex education. They share personal experiences and discuss the lack of comprehensive sex education that left many confused, shamed, and unprepared for real-world sexual experiences. Topics include the widespread focus on fear over pleasure, the exclusion of LGBTQ+ relationships, the critical need for conversations on consent, and the making of well-informed sexual decisions. The trio also advocates for proper sex ed training for educators and the importance of eliminating shame from discussions about sex, pleasure, and relationships. Grab your drink of...
Episode: 34 - Beyond the G-Spot: Five Hot Zones Worth Exploring
Join Coralie, Amber, and Vicki as they demystify the often overlooked pleasure spots: the G spot, C spot, P spot, A spot, and U spot. In this episode of Taboo Talk Not Safe for Brunch, the hosts delve into the anatomy of these hidden gems, reveal what people commonly get wrong about them, and discuss why they can significantly enhance sexual experiences. With insights rooted in real-world experience and a touch of sass, this conversation aims to break down taboos and provide unapologetic education on sexual pleasure. From the misconceptions about the clitoral network to the potential of prostate...
Episode: 33 - Sensory – Beyond the Fuzzy Handcuffs
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If you think sensory play stops at fuzzy handcuffs, buckle up. This episode is a deep dive (with a side of giggles) into the underrated power of touch, taste, sound, scent, and sight—plus all the naughty and nurturing ways to use them.
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