The lonely queers
"The Lonely Queers" podcast by ASH serves as a gentle but powerful reminder of our inherent power and unlimited potential.In a world full of noise and disconnection, join ASH – a Danish spiritual medium, mother, queer, sex therapist and a woman – on an extraordinary journey of self-discovery. From skeptic to spiritual guide, ASH shares raw experiences of loss, supernatural encounters, and profound transformation. Explore the true meaning of loneliness, break free from limiting beliefs, and discover what lies beyond our everyday reality.Through sharing her life experiences ASH is here to empower you to embrace your true potentials, your sensuality and yo...
#9 'Multi orgasms and our true power'
#9 'MULTI ORGASMS AND OUR TRUE POWER'
We are frequency.
Every cell, every breath, every pulse of energy moving through you - it is all vibration. And in this episode, we go deeper into that truth.
We return to the world of multi orgasms, but this time, we take it further. Into the frequencies that make up who you are. Your soul essence, manifested into the physical. Into the beautiful, breathing, feeling human being you are right now.
But here is the question worth sitting with: how do you monitor that frequency within...
#8 'Live and speak your truth'
#8 LIVE AND SPEAK YOUR TRUTH
What if the most spiritual thing you could do right now is to be honest with yourself? To pause. To feel. To ask the simplest, most powerful question there is - what is right for me? Not what is expected. Not what is safe and perhaps not my truth. But what actually makes me happy.
This timeline we are living in is not an accident. It is an invitation as you already are living the meaning of your life. This timeline is an invitation to remember your truth, and...
#7 'A new sexual timeline'
#7 A NEW SEXUAL TIMELINE
For centuries, a woman's sexuality has been quieted, tamed, toned down, suppressed and it has been the 'normal' for many women.
We were told to close the door on our own pleasure, lust and multi orgasms, and most of us did, without even realizing it.
But something is shifting. We are standing on a new timeline now. A timeline where women are remembering. Remembering the power that lives in the body. The wisdom that lives in the breath. The magic that lives in pleasure itself and is a part o...
#6 ´Your knowing - your intuition'
#6 YOUR KNOWING - YOUR INTUITION
Intuition is your birthright.
It is not a gift reserved for the few. It lives in every single one of us. But here is the truth most people won't tell you - it takes a choice to use it. A conscious decision to tune in, to trust what you feel, and to integrate that inner knowing into your everyday life.
As women, we are born with this power.
But somewhere along the way, many of us stopped listening. We handed our trust over to logic, to doubt...
#5 'Opening up your sexuality'
#5 OPENING UP OUR SEXUALITY
When did you stop giving yourself permission? Permission to feel. Permission to enjoy. Permission to be fully, unapologetically alive in your body.
In this episode, we go deep into the root chakra - the lover chakra. The place in the body where our life force, our creative power, and our sexuality live. And we look at something few of us talk about openly: that many of us as women - unconsciously - punish ourselves.
We punish ourselves by shutting down. By keeping pleasure at a distance. By turning o...
#4 'Bella - you never left'
#4 BELLA - YOU NEVER LEFT
The other day, I held my beautiful white dog Bella in my arms as she took her last breath.
And in that moment, as her little body went still, I felt something that might surprise you:
Not goodbye. But hello.
This episode isn't about grief, though my heart is tender and my eyes are swollen.This is about what I know to be true - what I've always known as a medium, but now understand in a way that splits my heart wide open: She didn't leave...
#3 'Creating our own timelines'
#3 - season 2. CREATING OUR OWN TIMELINES
We are all a part of different constructions and put into systems in this lifetime - but we have to take ownership of our own choice to be here. That is why it is so important that we realise and know that we are the creators of our own timelines and life.
Remember - we are spiritual beings living a human existence.
We have the power to create, and it is time to start taking action and create the best potentials of our lives - so we...
#2 'Pleasure & fear'
#2 - season 2. PLEASURE & FEAR
This episode is an inspiration to think about your pleasure. And your fears.
A stunning sunset paints the sky in impossible colors. Your breath catches. Something in your chest opens and you feel... alive. Connected. Full. But how long do you let yourself stay in that feeling?
Maybe seconds before the thoughts rush in: I should take a photo. I need to post this. What am I making for dinner? Did I respond to that email? I'm wasting time just standing here. You pull yourself out...
#1 'Happy new year'
#1 - season 2. HAPPY NEW YEAR
Thanks for listening
// ASH
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#47 'Self-worth - the foundation of everything'
#47 SELF-WORTH - THE FOUNDATION OF EVERYTHING
The Final Episode of 2025.
Happy New Year. This is it - the last episode of 2025. And what a year it's been. I hope this year brought you closer to who you truly are. Even if just a little. Even if just in moments. Because that's the real work, isn't it? Not becoming someone new, but remembering who you've always been beneath all the layers of conditioning and expectation.
Today, I want to talk about something fundamental. Something we often confuse but desperately need to understand...
#46 'Awareness, self-esteem & breaking the projection cycle'
#46 AWARENESS, SELF-ESTEEM AND BREAKING THE PROJECTION CYCLE
Have you ever been in the middle of a fight with your partner and suddenly realized - this isn't really about them? That feeling when you're upset about something they said or did, but the intensity of your reaction feels... bigger than the situation deserves? When you hear yourself saying things or feeling things that seem to come from somewhere ancient and wounded inside you?
That's your inner child projecting. And here's what most of us don't realize: We're doing this constantly...
#45 'Is it really true?'
#45 IS IT REALLY TRUE?
What is Christmas to you?
No, really - pause for a moment. Take a breath. What does this season actually mean to you?
Maybe it's the warmth of twinkling lights cutting through winter darkness. Maybe it's the bittersweet ache of nostalgia - memories of Christmases past, people no longer at the table, versions of yourself you've outgrown.
Do you recognize that particular cocktail of emotions this time of year brings? That strange mixture of melancholy and happiness, hope and heaviness? The joy of connection tangled up with...
#44 'The Great Distraction: Forgetting you're a Powerful Being'
#44 'THE GREAT DISTRACTION: FORGETTING YOU'RE A POWERFUL BEING'
Do you also feel disconected sometimes? From yourself, from others, from your intuition, from your power. Not really knowing what the meaning of life is?
This episode is about the distraction that keeps us dis-connected in life and somehow it has become our truth. But is it really a truth we shall live? Being distracted to be dis-connected?
For many it is a truth... if not all of us.
Here's another truth: We are inherently connected. At the soul level, we were never se...
#43 'Do you dare to expose yourself?'
#43 DO YOU DARE TO EXPOSE YOUR SELF?
This episode is an inspiration for you too sense. To let go of the emotions of the past and the control of your life for a moment and sense into your natual powers.
There is a truth that many of us don't want to admit: We have a shadow side that's obsessed with control. And as women, we've often been conditioned to become masters of it - managing everyone's emotions and the future, orchestrating every detail, ensuring nothing falls apart on our watch and we are not...
#42 'Shadow sides and false projections'
#42 SHADOW SIDES AND FALSE PROJECTIONS
It's time for us to gently turn toward those hidden parts of ourselves with curiosity and love—not judgment. This episode is about our shadow sides. About our inner child (again).
When we lovingly acknowledge our shadow sides, something beautiful happens: we naturally begin creating a more authentic life, responding to situations with greater emotional maturity, and opening ourselves to more joy, abundance, and positive energy.
It's like finally letting sunlight into rooms of your heart that have been dark for too long.
#41 'Perception and soul pain projection'
#41 PERCEPTION AND SOUL PAIN PROJECTION
Dear listener, what if everything you see "out there" is actually a sacred mirror reflecting what lives within you?
This episode invites you into one of the most profound spiritual truths I've discovered on my journey (and a hard one sometimes): our perception shapes our reality in ways we rarely recognize. The world we experience isn't an objective truth—it's a unique reflection filtered through our beliefs, wounds, fears, and dreams.
We are each other's mirrors, walking through life showing one another what we most need to se...
#40 Meditation no. 6: 'Nobody and everything at the same time'
#40 MEDITATION NO. 6: NOBODY AND EVERYTHING AT THE SAME TIME
This episode #40 holds special magic, and I need to share why. It's been exactly 9 months - exatly 40 weeks today - since I felt that first spark of inspiration in late December 2024—like a sacred pregnancy of the soul, birthing this podcast into existence.
Exatly 40 weeks ago I published my first episode (December 30th 2024). This is my episode no. 40 in 40 weeks. I am quite proud.
And here we are, 40 episodes later, in late September, having poured thousands of words into the collective consciousness, each one...
#39 'Claiming your life force with your breath'
39 CLAIMING YOUR LIFE FORCE WITH YOUR BREATH
Have you ever wondered if the universe communicate to us through the unexplainable?
I've been sitting with this question that keeps visiting me in quiet moments: Do poltergeist phenomena show up precisely when our souls are ready for a profound shift? When we're standing at the threshold of transformation, does the veil between worlds grow thinner to help us remember who we truly are? Are we a part of that communication too?
There's something deeply sacred about these mysterious encounters in my life that...
#38 'Poltergeist phenomena, or what do you think?'
#38 POLTERGEIST PHENOMENA, OR WHAT DO YOU THINK?'
The deeper I dive into the sacred mystery of who I truly am, the more I realize how beautifully vast and unknowable this journey really is.
You know that feeling when you think you're starting to understand something profound about yourself or the universe, and then suddenly you discover there are infinite layers beneath what you thought you knew?
That's where I find myself these days—standing at the edge of wonder, feeling both humbled and exhilarated by how much there is to discover about ou...
#37 'Forget and forgive'
#37 FORGET AND FORGIVE
Sweet woman, can I ask you something from my heart to yours?
Do you ever feel like your past has its hands wrapped around your throat, whispering lies about who you are? Do those old wounds still ache in quiet moments, making you believe that what happened to you is who you are?
I want to wrap you in the biggest, warmest hug right now and tell you something I wish someone had told me years ago: You are not your past. You are not what happened to you. Yo...
#36 'Sensual sexuality'
#36 SENSUAL SEXUALITY
Were you ever taught a version of sensuality in connection to sexuality - and how you can enhance and prolong your orgasms and pleasure? Multi orgasm?
What if everything you learned about sexuality was just the beginning? What if there's a whole landscape of pleasure and connection waiting beyond what you've been taught? A landscape where sensuality goes hand in hand with sexuality.
Through my own journey of sexual awakening and countless hours of deep exploration, I've discovered something profound: our bodies are designed for so much more than we've...
#35 meditation no. 5 'Sexual energy'
#35 Meditation no. 5: SEXUAL ENERGY
This can be your moment to find your way into a deeper side of your sexuality. This meditation is different but has a dept that can activate your contact to your higher self via the sexual, natural aspect of you as a sensual woman and as a spiritual being.
Relax and lay down. Make this meditation your moment. You deserve it and it’s time to go a step further on the way to insight, meaning and a sexual activation on a higher level.
Good luck.
Thanks for li...
#34 'Wake up that sexual energy'
#34 WAKE UP THAT SEXUAL ENERGY
This episode is a shout out and a chance to find an inner truth. Who are we truly as women? As sexual beings and spiritual beings having a human experience?
Why don't we know what is behind our truth about our sexual connection to the higher self? We were never taught and during our lifetime we have forgotten?
But it is never to late.
We are here to live life and this episode is made to inspire you to sense for yourself - to wake up to t...
#33 'Protect your life energy'
#33 PROTECT YOUR LIFE ENERGY
Vampire energy suckers… what is that? Who are they?
This episode is about how to protect yourself from being tapped of precious life energy. Your energy. We have all met this person, who – with her/ his negativity, passive aggressivity or anger – has changed your mood or tapped your life force energy, so you felt drained.
How do we protect ourselves from these vampire energy suckers? How do we obtain ourselves with total energy and not let that happen?
Working with spirituality, energy and self-empowerment through the intuitio...
#32 Meditation no. 4. 'Balance yourself'
#32 Meditation no. 4.: BALANCE YOURSELF
Sit back or lay down. Relax and make this your moment. You deserve it. This meditation is a help to balance yourself so you can – without blockages – attract like minded energy and be able to manifest, what you are longing for
Enjoy!
//ASH
NOTE: If you want to listen to the podcast episode connected and in sync. with this meditation, then listen to episode #31 'Adventures & giving up our power'.
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#31 'Adventures & giving up our power'
#31 ADVENTURES & GIVING UP OUR POWER
This episode is about living the adventure instead of dreaming about it or wanting to live It.
To create adventures in our lives, we have to recognize that we spend a lot of time in front the screen to be entertained instead of creating the adventure ourselves away from the screen with ourselves as the lead character in our own play…
We can alter our reality. We can change it.
This episode is pure inspiration and I hope it resonates a little with you.
Thanks for list...
#30 'A reminder of mind control'
#30 A REMINDER OF MIND CONTROL
Do you think about and understand that being happy is about mind control? Not just living in a healthy environment and taking the right choices that make one feel good – it is an ongoing process to be staying in that ‘happy mode’ and remember that it is a choice.
Self awareness is the first step into the path of self discovery and recognition of self. It can be an adventure. It can be a journey of choice and happiness should be a part of the foundation to living the better life. N...
#29 'Happiness as a choice'
#29 HAPPINESS AS A CHOICE
This episode is pure inspiration and it’s coming from the place in me, where I can share the message that we all deserve happiness. The episode is about happiness. And as a choice.
We all have the ability to connect to our higher self. Connect to the universe and to connect to other realms – but in order to manifest the best version of a timeline – we have to let the light through and literally choose light over negativity, darkness and being victimized.
We are powerful beings. We are t...
#28 Meditation no. 3 'Meet your deceased loved ones'
#28 Meditation no. 3 MEET YOUR DECEASED LOVED ONES
Sit back or lay down. Relax and make this your moment. You deserve it and this is an opportunity to connect to your self and sense that your loved ones - who walked the earth before you - can connect to you.
This meditation gives you inspiration to find your way home and balance your self and KNOW that you are not alone.
Enjoy!
//ASH
NOTE: If you want to listen to the podcast episode connected and in sync. with this medi...
#27 'You'll never walk alone'
#27 YOU NEVER WALK ALONE
We suffer when we lose someone, and they die. But are they really gone for good? A lot of people believe that there IS more to life than the eye can see. We don’t – as the divine energy beings we are – disappear. We are still connected, and the deceased people give this message: we are only a thought away…
My story in this episode proves that it really is so. Only a thought away in this beautiful love connection and bond that can never be broken.
This episode is about tru...
#26 'Our inner power'
#26 OUR INNER POWER
This episode is made on May 12th, 2025, as it is the Scorpio full moon - where long standing unresolved issues will be triggered. The energy in this podcast is different than the other episodes in 'The lonely queers' podcast due to the connection to athe energy from the Scorpio full moon. The topic 'our inner power' is connected to words of inspiration and the possibility to reflect and detox.
The energy from the Scorpio full moon is our opportunity to melt down for a minute or two as we grow bigger...
#25 Meditation no. 2 'Sense your divinity'
#24 Meditation no. 2 SENSE YOUR DIVINITY
Sit back or lay down. Relax and make this your moment. You deserve it and this is an opportunity to feel your divinity and a sensation that you a unique spiritual human being.
This meditation gives you inspiration to find your way home and balance your self.
Enjoy!
//ASH
NOTE: If you want to listen to the podcast episode connected and in sync. with this meditation, then listen to episode #24. The medietation no. 2 is also in the end of that episode.
#24 'We are divine beings, yes?'
#24 WE ARE DIVINE BEINGS, YES?
What is divinity to you?
When we are connected to something more to life than what are living and/ or what the eye can see, we have a chance to sense that we are divine beings living a human life. That we are uniique and that we are actually connected to something bigger. Something divine and it's a flowing energi and lifeforce in our bodies.
What does it mean to you that YOU are divine?
This episode is an inspiration to a possible opening to sense into...
#23 Meditation no. 1 'Open up your mind'
#23 Meditation no. 1 OPEN UP YOUR MIND
Sit back or lay down. Relax and make this your moment. You deserve it.
This meditation gives you inspiration to balance and find your inner peace as you have the opportunity to merge with your higher self. Your teacher of life.
Enjoy!
//ASH
NOTE: If you want to listen to the podcast episode connected and in sync. with this meditation, then listen to episode #22. The medietation no. 1 is in the end of that episode.
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#22 'Mixed messages and an open mind'
#22 ‘MIXED MESSAGES AND AN OPEN MIND'.
This episode is combined with a meditation. A meditation is created from my higher self to you in the end of this episode, to inspire you to sense and emerge with your higher self. Nothing less.
The topic in this episode is about realizing that we all – regardless being spiritual or not, OR being aware in the field self-development and self-awareness or not – create our reality. We create realities that often don’t comply with everybody else and their understanding of reality from their perspective.
But THAT is a...
#21 'Get it going girl'
#21 GET IT GOING GIRL
What do you need? Do you know it?
Because we ARE the creator of our lives, we must reflect and balance us self – everyday. In a world that’s spin very fast and can be very dark, we are being thrown off balance again and again. But nothing is stagnated so you do have the power to change it and be in balance and sync.
Don’t you need more pleasure? Sexual pleasure? Pleasure is the missing link in many lives. As women. Sexual pleasure and holding on that that th...
#20 'Mind control and the creation of your own life'
#20 MIND CONTROL AND THE CREATION OF YOUR OWN LIFE
To point fingers and make projections against other people is not the way to create peace and harmony. When we give the other people the blame for our emotions and hurt, we let our inner child rule the relationship… in a devastating direction and away from love. We stay victims and we truely forget who we really are.
We are all connected and we are the creators of our own lives and how we react and which waves to surf – regardless.
We cannot blame...
#19 'He played SMOKE ON THE WATER from the afterlife'
#19 HE PLAYED SMOKE ON THE WATER FROM THE AFTERLIFE
This episode is made with gratitude. I am so full of gratitude, and I am so proud!
My dance school has 100 years birthday, and we celebrate it today at our end of season ball… but also, I needed – just before leaving for this event and hurrying to get ready – to do an episode for inspiration. A wake-up call.
How was that possible I thought as I went to the closet to do my podcast – where did this inspiration come from?
It was possible and this...
#18 'Fear is a foe friend remember?'
#18 FEAR IS A FOE FRIEND REMEMBER?
We cannot be creative and have abundance of energy and light when we are fearful.
Creativity and passion are shutting down - and is that what we are longing for? Is that what we need and thrives from?
My son from the afterlife came back and opened my mind, my spirituality, changing my understanding of reality and how the world is put together…
I am just here to inspire and to wake you up to a better reality so YOU can thrive and grow. Letting the fear as...
#17 'How does fear not have to dominate our lives?'
#17 HOW DOES FEAR NOT HAVE TO DOMINATE OUR LIVES?
I use my paranormal experiences in combination with the subject of the episode,- to inspire you to sense and hear that there is much more to life than the eye can see…
The subject of this episode is ‘FEAR’.
Who wants to be in a constant state of stress? Walk with fear every day? Being a victim of life?
As I am channeling to an audience – being a physic medium – I become this strong man who dies from his wife and son, who is...
