THE CHAIR

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By: JerDrema (Dreme) V. Flynt, M.Ed, MBA

I built an AWARD WINNING Podcast called THE CHAIR to highlight hair journeys. I’m a Black woman, an educator and newly minted tech entrepreneur. As people sit in THE CHAIR, you will be immersed into stories surrounding education, entrepreneurship, identity, and magic. I have built THE CHAIR platform dedicated to supporting Black and Brown people on their hair journey. Enjoy as you listen to the voices in THE CHAIR. Learn More About THE CHAIR:Join THE CHAIR Community for FREE:https://growinghands.wpengine.com/Join THE CHAIR Newsletter for FREE:https://growinghands.wpengine.com/newsletter/

The Unfortunate Privilege
#44
Last Sunday at 9:00 PM

On this episode, it is a live recording of my Black Educators Roundtable where I had the opportunity to bring together educators from various touch points of our systems. We have views from social worker lens, consultants, poets, former administrators, nonprofit EDs and Founders to talk about the holes and opportunities within and around education. Enjoy Part 1 of this 2 Part conversation!

Their Bios:  

Cyndi Weekes Bradley has over 20 years of data-driven experience in equity including racial equity and co-creating spaces for educators that matter most to them. She has served in many education roles from t...


Black Expectations
#45
Last Sunday at 9:00 PM

On this episode, it is a live recording of my Black Educators Roundtable where I had the opportunity to bring together educators from various touch points of our systems. We have views from social worker lens, consultants, poets, former administrators, nonprofit EDs and Founders to talk about the holes and opportunities within and around education. Enjoy Part 2 of this 2 Part conversation!

Their Bios:  

Cyndi Weekes Bradley has over 20 years of data-driven experience in equity including racial equity and co-creating spaces for educators that matter most to them. She has served in many education roles from t...


Her Digital Blueprint
#42
04/19/2026

On this episode, Jayde takes us on a journey of how she became a digital strategist. We learn what her formative years in college truly looked like and how all the twists and turns set her up to express herself creatively to support businesses now on social media. Enjoy!

Her Bio: 

Jayde Umemba is a digital strategist, community organizer, and all-around creative connector. By day, she leads digital content strategy, helping brands grow and engage their audiences through content development and smart strategy on social media—helping clients turn insights into action—and likes into loyal...


It Is Time, On Repeat
#43
04/19/2026

On this episode, Jayde takes us on a scenic ride of what it looks like on her hair journey where every change is significant from ending the relationship with the creamy crack, doing Dominican blowouts, getting braids, and then eventually chopping it all off. She lets us in on how social media played a role in going natural and what her advice would be to Black girls everywhere. Enjoy!

Her Bio: 

Jayde Umemba is a digital strategist, community organizer, and all-around creative connector. By day, she leads digital content strategy, helping brands grow and engage t...


Narcotic Lego Pieces
#40
04/12/2026

On this episode, Bernie a film and television producer born and raised as a Mexican American in East LA shares how he entered into the world of film by way of finance and extra work, how identity helps him choose and shape his projects, and what collaboration looks like in the film industry. Enjoy! 

His Bio: 

Bernardo Duran Jr. is a film and television producer and writer from East Los Angeles with over 15 years of experience. He served as Co-Producer of Transformers: Rise of the Beasts and Associate Producer of Creed II, and  consultant on the...


Go Take A Lap
#41
04/12/2026

On this episode, Bernie, a film and television Mexican American producer from East LA shared the importance of his views on the power of storytelling and why we need more representative stories. He also explains what it’s like to meet his heroes that he manifested in working with before entering film school and how a fresh cut and a line up changed his confidence. 

 His Bio: 

Bernardo Duran Jr. is a film and television producer and writer from East Los Angeles with over 15 years of experience. He served as Co-Producer of Transformers: Rise of the B...


Hand Drawn Sold Sign
#38
04/05/2026

On this episode, Brittany McCray shares her story how she entered into the field of real estate, what she loves about it and what keeps her there, and advice to sustain yourself for a long healthy career. Enjoy!

Her Bio: 

Brittany McCray is a powerhouse in Chicago real estate, blending bold ambition with deep authenticity. As a licensed realtor and the founder of BRITTANY REALTY LLC, Brittany helps buyers, sellers, and investors navigate the market with confidence and clarity. Her passion lies in making real estate feel accessible—especially for first-time homebuyers—and she brings a sig...


Your Hair is Worthy
#39
04/05/2026

On this episode, Brittany McCray brings us along on her hair journey. She gives us a peek into her world of wig creation, caring about her natural hair while doing the bare minimum, and falling in love with herself through her hair. Enjoy!

Her Bio: 

Brittany McCray is a powerhouse in Chicago real estate, blending bold ambition with deep authenticity. As a licensed realtor and the founder of BRITTANY REALTY LLC, Brittany helps buyers, sellers, and investors navigate the market with confidence and clarity. Her passion lies in making real estate feel accessible—especially for fir...


Continue to Ask Questions
#37
03/29/2026

In this solo episode Dreme discusses what doubt look like at the beginning of starting THE CHAIR Platform and how she worked her way through doubt by asking questions and questions being asked of her. Enjoy!

THE CHAIR (S2/Ep37) — Continue to Ask Questions

I’m Your AWARD WINNING Host Dreme. 

I’m a Black woman, an educator turned tech entrepreneur but still an educator. Building a platform called THE CHAIR is a Black and Brown centered tech platform dedicated to supporting people on their hair journey. You can design hairboards, connect...


I Went Back to Work
#36
02/28/2026

On this episode, I had the honor of speaking with seven Black women who have spent decades in the Navy. They allow me into their world to begin to understand what a hair journey looked like in the Navy for them. We get the opportunity to hear stories about their time in bootcamp, on the ship, and shore duty. Additionally, we learn how these women advocated for the change of hair regulations for the betterment of the Navy. Enjoy!

Their Bios (The ones provided and shorten for word count purposes):

Michele (she/her) - Michele...


We are NOT Islands
#35
02/28/2026

On this episode, I had the honor of speaking with seven Black women who have spent decades in the Navy. They allow me into their world to begin to understand what sisterhood and mentorship looked liked to them in the Navy. Enjoy!

Their Bios (The ones provided and shorten for word count purposes):

Michele (she/her) - Michele Robinson Ewing is a retired naval officer with 27 years of distinguished service, who now channels her extensive experience in leadership, people development, and strategic planning into her work as a Holistic Health and Wealth Coach. She specializes...


I Love to Sparkle
#34
02/27/2026

On this episode, Shai paints the picture of her hair journey and how it has intersected with her identity of growing up as a biracial (Black and white) person, what hair has to do with confidence and self love, and falling in love with the process of getting to know yourself. Enjoy!

Her Bio:

Shai is a 31-year-old flight attendant with a globe-trotting spirit and a deep love for travel, sports, and the outdoors. I bring a unique perspective on adventure,  and living life on the move.

THE CHAIR (S2/Ep34) — I Lov...


Your Safety Over a Coke
#33
02/26/2026

On this episode, Shai gives the ins and out of what it means to be a flight attendant. She highlights the the oddities that flight attendants do on layovers, how compassion and empathy are necessary traits in customer service, and reminding all that are interested in this profession to understand that you are alone a significant amount of time. Enjoy!

Her Bio:

Shai is a 31-year-old flight attendant with a globe-trotting spirit and a deep love for travel, sports, and the outdoors. I bring a unique perspective on adventure,  and living life on the move.


My Antennas
#32
02/25/2026

On this episode, Aaleyah takes us on a hair journey. She shares stories from the perm to the big chop, to falling in love with her curls, leading to a disaster at the salon, which led to her finding her way to having a beautiful head full of locs. Enjoy!

Her Bio:

Aaleyah is a dynamic therapist, creative, and healer specializing in Dance/Movement Therapy. With a strong academic and clinical foundation, she brings a culturally responsive, trauma-informed lens to her work with children, adolescents, and families. Her approach integrates movement, expressive arts, and somatic...


Credentials in My Spirit
#31
02/24/2026

On this episode, Aaleyah allows us openly on her journey of becoming a dynamic therapist specializing in dance and movement therapy. She takes us on a rollercoaster of emotions though career changes, illnesses, and accidents. It is an absolute honor to be able to hold space of stories of this magnitude. Enjoy!

Her Bio:

Aaleyah is a dynamic therapist, creative, and healer specializing in Dance/Movement Therapy. With a strong academic and clinical foundation, she brings a culturally responsive, trauma-informed lens to her work with children, adolescents, and families. Her approach integrates movement, expressive arts...


The Mirrors & The Stereo
#30
02/23/2026

On this episode, Aaleyah allows us openly on her journey of becoming a dynamic therapist specializing in dance and movement therapy. She takes us on a rollercoaster of emotions though career changes, illnesses, and accidents. It is an absolute honor to be able to hold space of stories of this magnitude. Enjoy!

Her Bio:

Aaleyah is a dynamic therapist, creative, and healer specializing in Dance/Movement Therapy. With a strong academic and clinical foundation, she brings a culturally responsive, trauma-informed lens to her work with children, adolescents, and families. Her approach integrates movement, expressive arts...


Give Yourself Wings
#29
02/22/2026

On this episode, Devenia, Periana and I talk what it means to navigate PWI (predominantly white spaces) as Black people, advice given about our hair as young girls into our adolescence and how it evolved, and what is one of our favorite things about being Black. Enjoy!

Their Bios:

Devenia Cordette (she/her) is an ever-proud black womyn from the south side of Chicago. She is deeply passionate about the black experience of where they’ve been, as a collective, and where they will go. Since she was younger, she’s been an avid writer, read...


A Bowl of Gumbo
#28
02/21/2026

On this episode, Devenia, Periana and I talk mentorship. We dig into a conversation unpacking what mentorship looks like, redefining it, and how Professor Dr. Dozier poured into us as students and shaped us for the better helping us define what mentorship should look like. Enjoy!

Their Bios:

Devenia Cordette (she/her) is an ever-proud black womyn from the south side of Chicago. She is deeply passionate about the black experience of where they’ve been, as a collective, and where they will go. Since she was younger, she’s been an avid writer, reader, musi...


Bigger Fish to Fry
#27
02/20/2026

On this episode, Devin Tyler a friend from college gives us a glimpse through stories into the world of entrepreneurship as the founder and CEO of Tenacity which connects college students to paid project-based work at startups. We also get the chance to hear about his hair journey. Come along and learn about the recent story of falling in love with his bald head and full beard. Enjoy!

His Bio:

Devin Tyler is the founder and CEO if Tenacity, a marketplace that connects college students to project-based work at startups. Born and raised in Chicago...


Thinking in Spreadsheets
#26
02/19/2026

On this episode, Devin Tyler a friend from college gives us a glimpse through stories into the world of entrepreneurship as the founder and CEO of Tenacity which connects college students to paid project-based work at startups. We learn how he thinks about creativity and what that has to do with the number of pivots he's taken. Enjoy!

His Bio:

Devin Tyler is the founder and CEO if Tenacity, a marketplace that connects college students to project-based work at startups. Born and raised in Chicago, Devin spent several years in mangement consulting before earning his...


Now, I'm Mr. Clean
#25
02/18/2026

On this episode, AL is the co-founder and director of Mike & Al's Basketball League. AL has known me since I was a teenager and he has been running the league since then. AL tells the connection between Bone Thugs -N-Harmony and his hair journey. He shares what it felt like to go bald so early and what its like parenting and helping his children along their hair journeys. Enjoy!

His Bio:

Aljemall Peeples serves as the co-founder and director of Mike & Al's Basketball League and successfully continues the legacy established 25 years ago. Their organization transcends...


Not Always About the Court
#24
02/17/2026

On this episode, AL is the co-founder and director of Mike & Al's Basketball League. AL has known me since I was a teenager and he has been running the league since then. He deep dives into how he picked up the mantel, what it means to care for community, and to do it ALL on limited resources with doubters looming overhead. Enjoy!

His Bio:

Aljemall Peeples serves as the co-founder and director of Mike & Al's Basketball League and successfully continues the legacy established 25 years ago. Their organization transcends the typical scope of a basketball program...


Trappings of Masculinity
#23
02/16/2026

One this episode, Mitch dives into what he believes are the trappings of masculinity and ways to consider expanding our view points when looks at youth, especially boys. He shares stories about his male friend group breaking apart with his bachelor party being the central example unraveling masculinity into tangible ways of looking at manhood and opening up conversation surrounding youth development. Enjoy!

His Bio:

Mitch Gayns is a 35 year old content creating contrarian from just north of Boston. Often described as "the guy you'd least want to argue with" he's doing his best these...


A Version of You for Every Moment
#22
02/15/2026

On this episode, Mitch lays out his identity map and holds the hands of the audience along the journey of explaining how he has thought deeply about various elements of his identity and how they have shaped him. Hair being a significant part of his journey. Enjoy!

His Bio:

Mitch Gayns is a 35 year old content creating contrarian from just north of Boston. Often described as "the guy you'd least want to argue with" he's doing his best these days to put his powers of persuasion (and occasional annoyance) to good use as a psuedo-parent...


Articulate That
#21
02/14/2026

On this episode, Mitch dives into his explanation of the word articulation and its importance to him and his belief system. Articulation is the foundation of Mitch's way of making sense of the world and the people in it. Come listen as Mitch helps the audience understand how articulation is central to all his interactions and how that moves into the conversation of identity. Enjoy!

His Bio:

Mitch Gayns is a 35 year old content creating contrarian from just north of Boston. Often described as "the guy you'd least want to argue with" he's doing his...


Can't Hold Me Back
#20
02/13/2026

BeYouT (pronounced Beauty) takes us on her hair journey. This multilayered journey encompasses all facets of hair, an evolution with her relationship with water, and what a hair journey looks like after going through chemotherapy, beating cancer, and thriving on the otherside as a survivor. 

Her Bio: 

BeYouT (pronounced Beauty) is a poet who was born and raised in the suburbs of Boston. She had been writing since she was given her first journal at the age of 9 years old. In 2012 she was introduced to spoken word and has been writing and performing off and on...


I Put Me First
#19
02/12/2026

BeYouT (pronounced Beauty) opens up her heart and shares how anxiety is a compass to be aware of something greater that is to come. Along her many customer service facing jobs BeYouT has developed a spiritual menu and shares stories of her medium practices and how her grandfather is the "doorman" between her and the spirit world. Come listen and learn as I have this episode. Enjoy!

Her Bio: 

BeYouT (pronounced Beauty) is a poet who was born and raised in the suburbs of Boston. She had been writing since she was given her first j...


Personal Protection
#18
02/11/2026

On this episode, I had the honor of interviewing 3 Black women who are in the field of healthcare, specifically nursing. They allow me into their world and share stories of what a hair journey looks like in nursing for a Black nurse, personal examples of microagressions and bias, thoughts on representation and diversity initiatives, and the reasons they stay in nursing through all the madness. 

Their Bios: 

Na'Blahge (she/her)

At 28 years old, Na'Blahge is dedicated Licensed Practical Nurse with four years of frontline healthcare experience, including Long Term Care and Skilled Rehabilitation fa...


This is Real Life
#17
02/10/2026

On this episode, I had the honor of interviewing 3 Black women who are in the field of healthcare, specifically nursing. They allow me into their world and share stories of what it is really like being a Black nurse, what sisterhood looks like in nursing, and areas of change that need to happen for the betterment of the profession. 

Their Bios: 

Na'Blahge (she/her)

At 28 years old, Na'Blahge is dedicated Licensed Practical Nurse with four years of frontline healthcare experience, including Long Term Care and Skilled Rehabilitation facilities in the north shore or Ma...


Pick a Square
#16
02/09/2026

On this episode, Dr. Tee, a data scientist allows us into her world of data science.  Dr. Tee and I became friends in college. Dr. Tee highlights the importance of letting people explore to find their passions, especially when they do not fit traditional pathways, how storytelling is what drew her into data science, and  a hair journey that keeps evolving. Enjoy!

THE CHAIR (S2/Ep16) — Pick a Square

I’m Your AWARD WINNING Host Dreme. 

I’m a Black woman, an educator turned tech entrepreneur but still an educator. Building a platfor...


An Electric Moment
#15
02/08/2026

On this episode, Dr. Tee, a data scientist allows us into her world of data science.  Dr. Tee and I became friends in college. She shares the road of how she got into data science with a background in neuroscience and biology and shares stories educating us on what BIG Data looks like today. Enjoy!

THE CHAIR (S2/Ep15) — An Electric Moment

I’m Your AWARD WINNING Host Dreme. 

I’m a Black woman, an educator turned tech entrepreneur but still an educator. Building a platform called THE CHAIR is a Black an...


Tastes like Sunshine
#14
02/07/2026

On this episode, Vic, a multi - hyphenate creative and has also been trained in birthwork. I had the opportunity to get to know in college shares stories working as a Black nonbinary person supporting safe birthing practices in Chicago and brings us into their hair journey from the big chop to the excitement and feel of beard and belly hair. Enjoy! 

Their Bio:

Vic (they/them) is a Chicago-based nonbinary producer of intentional experiences. With a passion for bringing people together, Vic believes every person’s presence in a space is integral to the vib...


Choose to Do Something Different
#13
02/06/2026

On this episode, Vic, a multi - hyphenate creative and who has been trained in birthwork. I had the opportunity to get to know in college shares stories surrounding their current passion projects critiquing corporate America and choosing to do something different in a world hugging and holding on to capitalism. Enjoy! 

Their Bio:

Vic (they/them) is a Chicago-based nonbinary producer of intentional experiences. With a passion for bringing people together, Vic believes every person’s presence in a space is integral to the vibrancy of the experience itself. Vic weaves their experiences into ins...


Hair Creates Community
#12
02/05/2026

On this episode, this was my first ever Live Roundtable in June 2025 hosted at Just Bookish Bookstore with the lovely guests from the House of Calypso. The House of Calypso includes the mother, Neon Calypso and children Killah Croc, Lavender, Izzy Ready, and Hazel Afrodite. Boston based drag artists of color creating and perform in various arts medium who took the time to sit down with me in THE CHAIR to talk about their experiences in drag, discussing how their identities appear, their views on freedom in art, representation in educational spaces, and their hair journeys. Enjoy!

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Drag is Freedom
#11
02/04/2026

On this episode, this was my first ever Live Roundtable in June 2025 hosted at Just Bookish Bookstore with the lovely guests from the House of Calypso. The House of Calypso includes the mother, Neon Calypso and children Killah Croc, Lavender, Izzy Ready, and Hazel Afrodite. Boston based drag artists of color creating and perform in various arts medium who took the time to sit down with me in THE CHAIR to talk about their experiences in drag, discussing how their identities appear, their views on freedom in art, representation in educational spaces, and their hair journeys. Enjoy!

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Writing in Conversation
#10
02/03/2026

On this episode, I had the absolute pleasure of interviewing Porsha O. the author, poet, and co-founder of Just Bookish Bookstore where I hold my Live Roundtables. She takes us on an explorative hair journey discussing  her current loc journey, navigating barbershops, poetry in conversation with identity, and activism in the creations of the "third space." Enjoy!

i shimmer sometimes, too: 

https://www.porshaolayiwola.com/book-1 

Tangled (Spoken Word Poem): 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bXrMEHYpm0U 

Her Bio: 

Porsha Olayiwola is a native of Chicago who wr...


Here I Am
#9
02/02/2026

On this episode, my mother, Nicole Flynt is back to kick off the 2nd Annual Living Black History Series where I release an episode every day of the month of February to highlights various living Black voices showing  that we are making history and continue to be part of history one moment at a time. My mother talks about how practicing yoga saved her life, raising Black girls on their hair journey, and advice she gives to other Black mothers on hair journeys with their child and/or children. Enjoy! 

Her Bio:

I have worked in...


Door Open
#8
02/01/2026

On this episode, my mother, Nicole Flynt is back to kick off the 2nd Annual Living Black History Series where I release an episode every day of the month of February to highlights various living Black voices showing  that we are making history and continue to be part of history one moment at a time. My mother talks about her hair journey walking us through her childhood being plagued by eczema, evolving through the jheri curls, the creamy crack, and her weaves and wigs era. We end with my mom explaining how her hair journey intersects with her yoga j...


My Hot Comb Vignette
#7
01/25/2026

On this episode, I read a hair vignette that I wrote inspired by a student’s brainstorming session I worked with at the current nonprofit I work at focused on empowering students’ voice through literacy. Enjoy!

THE CHAIR (S2/Ep7) — My Hot Comb Vignette

I’m Your AWARD WINNING Host Dreme. 

I’m a Black woman, an educator turned tech entrepreneur but still an educator. Building a platform called THE CHAIR is a Black and Brown centered tech platform dedicated to supporting people on their hair journey. You can design hairboards, connect to...


Redhead
#6
01/18/2026

On this episode, I share the story of the first time I dyed my hair. Red was the color but it turned out not the red I imagined. 18 year old Dreme had some feelings about that and also learned some lessons. Enjoy! 

THE CHAIR (S2/Ep6) — Redhead

I’m Your AWARD WINNING Host Dreme. 

I’m a Black woman, an educator turned tech entrepreneur but still an educator. Building a platform called THE CHAIR is a Black and Brown centered tech platform dedicated to supporting people on their hair journey. You can desi...