Happily Ever After by Martin & Debbie Raj
Our podcast centers on our journey through marriage. We aim to be raw and authentic, sharing how we navigate conflicts and strive to be a blessing to one another. "Happily Ever After" isn’t just a dream—it’s a reality that can be achieved when both partners commit to working together through the highs and lows. Join us on this journey as we inspire each other with Real love, real faith, and real growth.
Your Marriage is Like A Car! S02E081
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Unique Experiences We Had Working as a Couple on a Mission Trip (Part 2) | S02E07
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What 18+ Years of Marriage Taught Us - S02E06
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Things You Can Do For Your Spouse - S02E04
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Working Together as a Couple - S02E05
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Situationship vs Intentional Dating - S02E03
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Two Top Myths in Marriages - S02E02
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Our Honest Thoughts After 3 Years of Marriage - S02E01
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Our Interracial Marriage Meets India (Part 2) - Ep 50
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This one gets personal 👇
In this Part 2 episode, we’ll take you on a journey that we didn’t share in Part 1 or anywhere else on social media. We share the great experiences we had with family and friends — and also that one time we got tricked and ended up paying more than we should have! Debbie also shares something special from her heart about what she thought of India.
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Our Interracial Marriage Meets India (Part 1) - Ep 49
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Join us on this exciting journey as we share our first-hand experiences in India — from taking health precautions and savoring delicious foods, to reconnecting with family and friends, immersing ourselves in the culture, and attending one of the biggest weddings of our lives. This is Part 1 of our unforgettable adventure as an interracial couple experiencing India together!
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Our Interracial Marriage: The India Trip We’ve Been Waiting For - Ep 48
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In this episode, we share our excitement and anticipation for our upcoming trip to India! It’s been 11 years since Martin left India, and it’ll be the very first time for Debbie. From what we’re looking forward to, to how we’re preparing for possible health surprises and cultural adventures — join us as we talk about what this journey means for us and our interracial marriage.
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You’ll Miss These Signs if You’re Not Paying Attention - Ep 47
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It’s easy to spot red flags — but green flags? They’re the quiet signals that someone is ready for a healthy, lasting relationship. In this episode, we reveal the subtle traits that show true emotional and spiritual maturity. These are the qualities that set a person apart in a crowd and make them worth pursuing.
Philippians 1:9 NKJV And this I pray, that your love may abound still more and more in knowledge and all discernment....
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Wise Counsel Others Gave That Changed How We Date & Marry - Ep 46
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The right counsel can save you years of heartbreak. In this episode, we share the wise advice that shaped the way we view dating, marriage, and choosing a life partner. Whether you’re single, dating, or preparing for marriage, these principles will challenge how you think about love and relationships — and may change your next big decision.
Proverbs 19:20 NKJV - Listen to counsel and receive instruction, That you may be wise in your latter days.
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Dating Advice That Should Be ILLEGAL - Ep 45
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We’re sharing the worst dating advice we received as singles—and how believing it nearly hurt our future. From pressure to marry quickly to ridiculous “green card” suggestions, this episode is a raw and honest conversation to help you spot bad advice before it hurts your heart.
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Episode 44 - How We Keep Our Relationship Unbreakable
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Discover the simple but powerful habits we practice to keep our relationship strong, connected, and full of teamwork. Practical tips for couples who want lasting love and unity.
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I Grew Spiritually… But They Didn’t - Episode 43
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What happens when one person grows spiritually and the other doesn’t?
In this episode, we unpack the quiet pain of spiritual loneliness—what it feels like, why it happens, and how to navigate it with grace, wisdom, and faith. Whether you're dating, married, or in community, this conversation will challenge and encourage you.
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Hard Conversations Can Break a Relationship… or Build One - Ep 42
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Hard conversations are never easy—but they’re necessary. In this episode, we explore what speaking the truth in love actually looks like when emotions run high. Do you lean toward silence, fearing disconnection? Or do you speak too soon, causing unintentional hurt?
You’ll discover:
- Why silence can feel like an escape—but may cost intimacy
- How assumptions and unspoken fears sabotage communication
- Practical tools to handle emotional tension with grace and clarity
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Asking My Spouse These Questions on Camera… - Ep 41
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Ep 40 - How to Build Trust When It’s Broken?
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"I found a secret message... and everything changed."
In this episode, we unpack the raw, emotional journey of what happens after trust is broken in a relationship. Whether it’s betrayal, secrecy, or a moment of dishonesty — is it possible to rebuild trust once it’s been shattered?
We explore:
- How broken trust affects emotional intimacy
- The steps to rebuild trust with honesty and accountability
- What forgiveness looks like (and what it doesn’t)
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Ep 39 - Is Your Faith Just a Performance?
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Is your faith just a performance?
In this episode, we challenge the difference between comfortable Christianity and a living, active relationship with Christ. Are we going through the motions—attending church, saying the right words—but missing the transformation God really wants for us?
We talk about:
Why spiritual depth requires more than religious routinesThe dangers of performance-based faithHow to move from superficial to authenticAnd how God may be preparing you for something much greater than where you are nowThis is your call to exam...
Healing or Just Avoiding? - Ep 38
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We Asked Each Other Sensitive Questions… Here’s What Happened | Talking Point - Ep. 37
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Are you Equally Yoked? - Ep 36
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How do I avoid rushing into relationship? - Ep 35
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Healthy Love Has These 6 Signs — Do You Have Them? - Ep 34
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Ep 33 - When Wanting More Becomes a Trap
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This ONE Thing Will Change Your Relationship Forever! - Ep 32
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Are You Missing THIS in Your Relationship?
💔 Many couples—even married ones—overlook this one simple but powerful practice. When it’s missing, life starts feeling like a routine, not a relationship. When it’s present, it brings back freedom, passion, and clarity.
🎯 In this episode, we reveal the one relationship hack that can help you:
✅ Measure how deeply you love and miss your partner
✅ Evaluate the current health of your relationship
✅ Identify what’s working—and what’s not
✅ Discover practical steps to reconnect and grow stronger
Wheth...
This One Habit Can Destroy Any Relationship (Avoid It!) - Ep 31
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There are countless habits that can strengthen or damage a relationship—but there’s one subtle habit that silently destroys even the strongest connections. In this episode, we reveal the single most dangerous mindset that can sabotage communication, trust, and emotional intimacy—without you even realizing it. Whether you’re dating, engaged, or married, this is something everyone needs to hear.
We break down why this habit is so harmful, how it shows up in daily interactions, and what you can do to stop it before it causes real damage. If you’ve e...
Ep 30: Laws of Dating Pt 2 – If They Break This Law, They're Not Ready
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Let’s be real—dating can be confusing. Whether you’re single, talking to someone, or already in a relationship, it’s easy to wonder, “Am I doing this right?”
In this episode, we continue our conversation on The Laws of Dating by Mike Tucker. These 10 principles aren’t just rules—they’re relationship wisdom that can help you avoid heartbreak, recognize red flags, and grow into the kind of person someone healthy would want to be with.
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1. Why these laws matter before and during a relat...
Ep 29: Laws of Dating Pt 1 – If They Break This Law, They're Not Ready
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Let’s be real—dating can be confusing. Whether you’re single, talking to someone, or already in a relationship, it’s easy to wonder, “Am I doing this right?”
In this episode, we continue our conversation on The Laws of Dating by Mike Tucker. These 10 principles aren’t just rules—they’re relationship wisdom that can help you avoid heartbreak, recognize red flags, and grow into the kind of person someone healthy would want to be with.
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1. Why these laws matter before and during a relat...
God’s Timing Feels Slow? Here’s How to Thrive While You Wait – Ep 28
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Are you waiting on God to bring the right person into your life? 🙋♀️🙋♂️
Here’s the truth: waiting doesn't mean doing nothing! It really means to wait on God's timing — with purpose. 💥
Instead of sitting around hoping for the right person to magically appear, this is your time to GROW 🌱 — mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and even socially. Whether you're single, dating with purpose, or praying for clarity, this season is not wasted.
Let’s explore practical ways to become the person you're meant to be while trusting God to bring the right relationship at...
Ep 27 - Stop Doing This If You Want True Love
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Join this podcast to hear our honest thoughts, real-life experiences, and a few laughs along the way as we share how we see faith shaping our family and future.
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Ep 26 - Sex In Marriage
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In this candid and vulnerable episode, we open up about sex in marriage—an often avoided but essential topic. We share our honest expectations going into marriage and whether reality matched them. Not just that but we also share many other factors related with it. Whether you're single, engaged, or married, this real talk about sex, love, and vulnerability in marriage offers encouragement and practical insight.
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Ep 25 - Does Religion Matter in Love? 💍🙏
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🎙️ "Are We Equally Yoked?"
What religion do we belong to? Does religion matter when it comes to relationships and marriage? The Bible says to be equally yoked—but does that apply here too? 🤔💬
In this episode, we’re opening up about the decisions we made regarding our religious beliefs, what “equally yoked” means to us, and how we’re navigating faith in our relationship and as parents. 💑👨👩👧👦
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Ep 24 - How do I know this is the one? | Our Story & God’s Leading 💍✨
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One of the biggest questions we get is: “How do I know who the right one is?”
It’s not like the movies—no dramatic music, no magical light, and definitely no falling flowers! 😂
In this episode, we share our personal journey—how we met, how God led us, and what we’ve learned about recognizing His hand in relationships. Whether you're single, dating, or just wondering what to look for, this video will give you clarity and encouragement.
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👉 Discover patterns we've seen in how God brings peo...
Ep 23 - Intruders in Marriage
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There’s always some kind of intruder that tries to sneak into marriages—sometimes it’s people, but other times it’s subtle things we might not even notice. In this episode, we share what we've seen creep into relationships and challenge the health of a marriage. But what about you? Are there other things that have tried to sneak into your marriage? What could they be? Listen in and share your thoughts and comments—we’d love to hear from you!
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Ep 22 - Our Interracial Marriage - After Our Wedding
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Before our wedding, we had dreams, fears, and big expectations—did reality match up? In this episode, we get real about our pre-wedding thoughts, the excitement, and the worries we faced. Did marriage meet our expectations, or were we surprised? Join us as we openly share our hearts, the lessons we’ve learned, and how our relationship has grown. Watch now!
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Ep 21 - Our Interracial Marriage - Our Wedding on a Budget
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Getting married these days is one of the most significant investments in life. Some choose to invest in a fancy wedding, while others prioritize meaningful connections—or a mix of both. In this episode, we share our wedding experience, what mattered most to us, and where we chose to invest our time, energy, and budget.
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Ep 20 - Arranged vs Love Marriage Pt2 - Our Interracial Marriage
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One of the most common questions people ask is whether arranged marriage still exists in India and what I (Martin) think about it. Some have even asked if we had an arranged marriage according to Indian tradition or a love marriage according to Western tradition. In this episode, we answer all those questions and more.
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Ep 19 - Arranged vs Love Marriage - Our Interracial Marriage
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One of the most common questions people ask is whether arranged marriage still exists in India and what I (Martin) think about it. Some have even asked if we had an arranged marriage according to Indian tradition or a love marriage according to Western tradition. In this episode, we answer all those questions and more.
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