Oxendine Law Podcast
Welcome to The Oxendine Law Podcast, where expert divorce attorneys Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer guide you through the complexities of family law and domestic litigation. Specializing exclusively in family law, our podcast offers deep dives into crucial topics like divorce, child custody, alimony, high asset divorce, and post-judgment modifications. Each episode provides insights into the rapidly changing laws and advanced methods we use to advocate for our clients in metro Atlanta and beyond.With over fifty years of combined experience, Jarrod and Christine bring invaluable advice and expert navigation through Georgia's judicial system to the table. Whether you're facing...
Blindsided by Divorce: What If Your Spouse Was Already Planning?
What happens when you discover your spouse has been preparing for divorce long before you knew your marriage was ending?
In this episode of the Oxendine Law Podcast, Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer discuss what it means to be blindsided by divorce and why one spouse's preparation doesn't automatically put the other at a disadvantage.
They explore the difference between responsible divorce planning and potentially harmful tactics, including hiding assets, accumulating debt, and manipulating income. They also discuss financial warning signs, the importance of understanding your legal options, and why you shouldn't feel pressured to sign an agreement before seeking independent legal advice.
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When Family and Friends Interfere With Your Divorce
Can the people closest to you actually make your divorce more complicated?
In this episode of the Oxendine Law Podcast, Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer discuss how third-party involvement can affect both a marriage and the divorce process. From overbearing in-laws and adult children to well-meaning friends and new romantic partners, outside influences can create unnecessary conflict and complicate important decisions.
They explore the importance of setting boundaries, why comparing your divorce to someone else's can lead to unrealistic expectations, and how to distinguish helpful emotional support from advice that may negatively affect your case.<...
What If Your Spouse Refuses to Cooperate With Divorce?
What happens when you want a divorce, but your spouse refuses to sign, respond, or participate in the process? Can they actually stop the divorce from happening?
In this episode of the Oxendine Law Podcast, Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer explain why a spouse's refusal to cooperate does not necessarily prevent a divorce from moving forward in Georgia.
They discuss the importance of filing for divorce, serving your spouse, and understanding the deadlines that follow. They also explore what can happen when someone ignores court documents, refuses to provide financial information, or avoids settlement negotiations.
Whether you're dealing with an uncooperative spouse or have been served with divorce p...
Marital vs. Separate Property: Why Title Matters in Divorce
If you inherit money or property while you’re married, is it automatically yours in a divorce? What about assets you owned before the marriage?
Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer break down the difference between marital and separate property and explain how separate assets can become more complicated when they are mixed with marital property. They discuss inheritances, joint bank accounts, retirement accounts, real estate, and what can happen when separate funds are commingled or property is retitled during the marriage.
They also explain why documentation matters, especially when trying to establish what you owned be...
Dating During Divorce: Can You vs. Should You?
Can you date while your divorce is pending? Maybe. But the more important question may be whether you should.
Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer discuss how dating during divorce can complicate an already emotional process. From increasing tension with your spouse and making negotiations more difficult to creating questions about finances, parenting time, and judgment, a new relationship can have consequences that extend beyond your personal life.
They also cover some of the biggest mistakes to avoid if you do decide to date, including flaunting a new relationship, spending marital funds on a new partner, a...
Parenting Plans That Work for Real Life
A parenting plan may look good on paper, but will it still work years from now?
Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer discuss some of the most common mistakes parents make when creating parenting plans, especially when it comes to holidays, birthdays, school breaks, summer vacations, and extracurricular activities. They explain why trying to divide every special day may sound fair in the moment but can create unnecessary exchanges, limit travel, and make celebrations more stressful for children.
The conversation also explores why parents should think beyond their current circumstances when planning for summer and school b...
Child Support Is a Court Order: What Both Parents Need to Know
Child support doesn't always end when circumstances change, and an informal agreement between parents doesn't necessarily change what the court order requires.
Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer discuss what both the person paying and the person receiving child support need to understand once an order is in place. They explain why child support cannot simply be reduced when a child graduates, why voluntarily paying extra generally doesn't create a credit toward future obligations, and why changes need to be addressed through the proper modification process.
They cover common mistakes that can create problems later, including a...
When Your Ex Ignores the Court Order: Understanding Contempt
Your divorce may be final, but that doesn't always mean the legal issues are over. What happens when your former spouse refuses to follow the court order?
Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer break down contempt of court and enforcement after divorce, including what actually qualifies as contempt and why intent matters. They cover common issues involving parenting time, child support, alimony, retirement accounts, and other court-ordered obligations, while explaining when a violation may warrant legal action and when it may not.
The conversation explores what to do when violations become a pattern, why retaliating by...
The Long Game: Life After the Divorce Is Final
Finalizing your divorce isn't the end of the journey. For many families, it's the beginning of a new chapter that requires communication, structure, and ongoing cooperation.
In part 6 of Happily Ever After Divorce, Georgia family law attorney Jarrod Oxendine explains what happens after the divorce decree is signed and why successful co-parenting requires a mindset shift. From parenting plans and custody exchanges to modifications and enforcement, Jarrod discusses the legal tools available when circumstances change or court orders aren't being followed.
He also explores the emotional challenges that often arise after divorce, including lingering resentment...
The First 30 Days After Filing for Divorce: What to Expect
The first month after filing for divorce can feel overwhelming. Emotions are high, routines are changing, and many people aren't sure what comes next.
In this episode, Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer explain what to expect during the first 30 to 60 days of the divorce process. They discuss why it's important to avoid making emotional decisions, how to build the right support team, what your attorney is doing behind the scenes, and why patience is often one of the most valuable tools during this stage of a case.
They also cover practical steps for protecting your...
How Divorce Affects Children at Every Age
One of the biggest concerns parents have during a divorce is how it will affect their children. The reality is that every child experiences divorce differently depending on their age, stage of development, and the way their parents handle the process.
In this episode, Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer discuss how toddlers, school-age children, teenagers, and even college-aged children may respond to divorce. They explain why maintaining routines, protecting children from parental conflict, encouraging healthy relationships with both parents, and communicating in age-appropriate ways can make a significant difference during the transition.
The conversation also...
Am I Going to Lose Everything? Your Top Divorce Questions Answered
Divorce can feel overwhelming, especially when you're trying to separate facts from fears.
From concerns about the house and retirement accounts to questions about alimony, custody, attorney fees, and moving out, most people walk into their first consultation with the same worries.
Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer break down the most common questions they hear from clients who are considering divorce. They explain what factors impact the cost and length of a case, when hiring an attorney matters most, how courts typically handle property division, and what parents should know before making decisions that could...
The Hidden Warning Signs Your Marriage May Be Headed Toward Divorce
Most marriages don't end because of a single fight, an affair, or one major event. More often, they begin to unravel through small changes that happen over time.
Communication becomes less meaningful. Emotional connection starts to fade. Partners begin living parallel lives instead of building a life together. Eventually, resentment can replace appreciation, and unresolved issues become permanent sources of conflict.
Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer discuss the subtle warning signs they frequently see in struggling marriages, including communication breakdowns, emotional disconnection, keeping score, and the feeling of becoming roommates instead of partners. They also...
When Is It Really Time to File for Divorce?
How do you know when it's time to file for divorce? It's one of the most common and most personal questions family law attorneys hear.
In this episode of the Oxendine Law Podcast, Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer discuss the difficult process of deciding whether to stay in a marriage or move forward with divorce. They explore the questions people should be asking themselves, including whether they are staying out of love, hope, fear, comfort, or simply because change feels overwhelming.
The conversation covers common reasons people stay in unhappy marriages, such as concerns about...
How to Survive a High Conflict Divorce Without Losing Yourself
High conflict divorces can be emotionally exhausting, financially draining, and incredibly difficult to navigate without the right mindset and support system.
In this episode of the Oxendine Law Podcast, Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer discuss what it really means to go through a high conflict divorce and why it’s important not to become a high conflict client in the process. They break down how contested custody battles, disagreements over finances and assets, and emotionally charged communication can impact a case and what you can do to protect yourself mentally and emotionally throughout the process.
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Divorce & Financial Freedom: Your New Reality Explained
Divorce is often seen as a setback, but in reality, it can be the beginning of a completely new financial chapter. In this episode of the Oxendine Law Podcast, Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer explore what life really looks like financially after a divorce, and why it can be far more empowering than most people expect.
They discuss the experience of individuals who had little to no access to finances during their marriage and suddenly find themselves in full control of their share of assets. While that shift can feel overwhelming at first, it often becomes one...
Divorce Isn’t the End: What You Still Need to Fix After It’s Final
Finalizing your divorce doesn’t mean everything is automatically updated, and missing this step can create serious problems down the line.
In this episode of the Oxendine Law Podcast, Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer break down how divorce impacts your estate planning documents and why updating them is critical once your case is finalized.
From life insurance policies and financial account beneficiaries to wills, powers of attorney, and healthcare directives, they explain what you can’t change during a divorce and what you absolutely must change after. They also highlight real risks, like an ex-spouse stil...
Who Pays for College After Divorce? Understanding College-Related Expenses
College costs after a divorce are one of the most confusing and misunderstood areas of family law. Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer break down what parents need to know about who is responsible for tuition, room and board, books, and other college-related expenses.
Many people assume the court can require the other parent to pay, but in Georgia, once a child turns 18, the court generally has no authority to mandate these costs—unless both parties agree. Jarrod and Christine explain when it might make sense to share expenses voluntarily, how to protect yourself, and why oversight of co...
Divorce in the Digital Age: What Your Texts Can Cost You
In this episode of the Oxendine Law Podcast, Jared Oxendine and Christine Palmer break down how your digital footprint can make or break your divorce case.
From text messages and emails to social media posts and even deleted content, today’s legal landscape is filled with digital evidence that can be used in court. What may feel like a quick reaction or harmless post can quickly turn into damaging evidence that impacts custody, credibility, and the overall outcome of your case.
Jared and Christine share real-world examples of how people unintentionally hurt their cases through em...
Finding Your Power in Divorce: Boundaries, Confidence, and Taking Back Your Life
Divorce isn’t just about legal filings and court dates. It’s also about rediscovering your voice.
In this episode, the conversation focuses on something that doesn’t get talked about enough during divorce: power, confidence, and self-worth. If you’ve spent years feeling controlled, walking on eggshells, or losing sight of who you are, the divorce process can be the moment you begin taking that power back.
The way you carry yourself at the start of your divorce can set the tone for everything that follows. Standing up for yourself, setting boundaries, and refusing to be pu...
Blended Families, Custody & Common Pitfalls
Blended families are more common than ever—but when divorce, remarriage, step-siblings, and new partners enter the picture, custody and parenting time can quickly become complicated.
In this episode of the Oxendine Law Podcast, the team breaks down what courts in Georgia consider when it comes to blended families. From aligning parenting schedules and holiday time to understanding how half-siblings are viewed in the courtroom, they explain what parents need to know to avoid unnecessary conflict.
The discussion also covers important risks to watch for when introducing a new partner, how step-parents are treated legally, an...
Temporary Orders: What They Are and When You Need Them
Temporary orders can bring structure and protection during the most uncertain stage of a divorce or custody case. In this episode of the Oxendine Law Podcast, we explain what temporary orders are, when they apply, and how courts use them to address critical issues like parenting time, access to money, support, and use of the marital home while a case is pending.
We also discuss why temporary hearings are not automatic, what judges look for when making these early decisions, and why the outcome of a temporary order often sets the tone for the rest of your...
Divorce & Addiction: How Courts Protect Children and Your Case
Alcohol and drug addiction often become major issues in divorce cases, especially when children are involved. In this episode, we break down how courts evaluate addiction claims, why proof and long-term patterns of behavior matter, and the real risks of making accusations without evidence.
We discuss alcohol versus drug use, PEth testing, supervised and phased-in parenting time, and the safeguards courts use to protect children while still giving parents the opportunity to recover. You’ll also learn how emotional, high-conflict situations can change alcohol use patterns and how judges distinguish between true addiction and situational behavior.
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Divorce & Men: Confidence, Custody, and Moving Forward
Divorce can impact men in ways that often go unspoken.
In this episode of the Oxendine Law Podcast, Jarrod and Christine focus on the male side of divorce, addressing emotional suppression, financial stress, and common misconceptions around custody and parenting time. They discuss why men need to advocate for themselves, how modern custody laws actually work, and how fathers can prioritize quality time with their children while rebuilding confidence and stability after divorce.
This candid, experience-driven conversation is designed to help men understand their rights, regain perspective, and move forward with purpose.
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Think Before You Post: How Social Media Can Impact Your Divorce & Custody Case
What you post online during a divorce can have real consequences in family court. In this episode of the Oxendine Law Podcast, attorneys Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer break down how social media posts, texts, screenshots, and digital footprints are commonly used as evidence in divorce, custody, and parenting time cases.
From venting online and disparaging the other parent to posting new relationships or oversharing personal struggles, they explain the mistakes judges see most—and why they matter. You’ll also learn how social media can sometimes work in your favor when used carefully and appropriately.
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Dividing the Family Business: What Happens in a Divorce?
In this episode, the Oxendine Law team breaks down one of the most complicated issues in a divorce: what happens to a family business. When couples jointly own a company, the emotional and financial stakes rise, especially when deciding whether to keep the business, sell it, or negotiate a buyout.
The hosts explore the real-world challenges spouses face when a business is on the table, why accurate valuation is critical, and how proper buyout agreements can safeguard long-term financial interests. They also highlight the risks of attempting to continue co-ownership after a divorce and what every divorcing...
The Legal Landscape of Marriage
In this episode of the Oxendine Law Podcast, our hosts discuss the complex topic of marriage in the eyes of the law.
Their conversation delves into the legal implications of marriage, focusing on the establishment of rights and entitlements that come into play once a couple is legally married.
They highlight the contrast between pre-marriage and post-marriage rights, including alimony and equitable division of assets.
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Navigating Divorce: Protecting Your Mental Health
In this episode of the Oxendine Law Podcast, Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer discuss the emotional challenges of divorce and the importance of mental health.
They explore how to recognize emotional stress, the benefits of therapy, and the positive opportunities that can arise from a fresh start.
Whether you're initiating a divorce or it's been thrust upon you, this episode offers valuable insights into maintaining your mental well-being during this challenging time.
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Unveiling Hidden Assets in Divorce
In this episode of the Oxendine podcast, the hosts discuss the complexities of hidden assets in divorce proceedings.
They explore common misconceptions about hidden assets, methods for discovering them, the consequences of hiding assets, and the importance of transparency with legal counsel.
The conversation emphasizes that while some individuals may suspect their spouses of hiding assets, often, there is no substantial evidence to support these claims.
However, if assets are indeed concealed, there are legal avenues to uncover them, and the repercussions for hiding assets can be severe.
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Understanding Military Divorce: Key Considerations
This episode of the Oxendine Law Podcast discusses the unique challenges faced by military families during divorce, including where to file, division of military pensions, custody arrangements during deployment, and financial support obligations.
The hosts provide insights into legal considerations and options available to military families navigating the divorce process.
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Grandparents, Custody, and the Courts: Understanding Your Rights
This podcast episode discusses the evolving legal landscape surrounding grandparent visitation and custody rights in Georgia.
The hosts explore the historical context of these rights, the significant changes in the law since 2018, and the implications for grandparents seeking to maintain relationships with their grandchildren.
They emphasize the importance of understanding the legal standards and navigating family dynamics to ensure the well-being of children.
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Dividing Assets: The Family Home in Divorce
In this episode of the Ox and Dine Law podcast, our hosts discuss the complexities of dividing the family home during a divorce.
They outline the options available for asset division, including buyouts and selling the home, while emphasizing the importance of considering financial implications and child custody arrangements. They provide valuable insights into navigating these challenging decisions, ensuring listeners understand their rights and options in the divorce process.
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The Benefits of a Collaborative Divorce
In this episode of Oxendine Law, our hosts discuss the collaborative divorce process, emphasizing its peaceful and cooperative nature. They explain how collaborative divorce allows both parties to work together with their attorneys to reach an amicable resolution without the need for contentious litigation.
The conversation covers the importance of communication, the role of mediation, and the necessity of having individual legal representation even in a collaborative setting.
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The Emotional Terrain of Pet Custody
This episode of the Ox and Dine Law podcast delves into the emotionally charged issue of pet custody during divorce proceedings. The hosts discuss how pets are treated as property under Georgia law, the factors courts consider in determining pet ownership, and the emotional complexities involved in these cases. They also highlight recent legal changes that allow pets to be included in protective orders for victims of domestic violence, emphasizing the bond between pets and their owners. Learn more about our practice: https://bit.ly/3ZMBWGa Ready to talk to an attorney about your unique situation? We’re here to...
The Importance of Parenting Time in Custody Arrangements
In this episode of the Oxendine Law podcast, the hosts break down the complexities of legal custody and parenting time.
They explain the differences between joint and sole custody, the decision-making authority involved in legal custody, and how parenting time is structured.
The conversation emphasizes the importance of mutual decision-making for the child's best interests and explores various parenting schedules, highlighting the significance of quality time over quantity. The episode concludes with a reminder that custody arrangements can be modified based on changing circumstances.
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Protecting Your Credit Score During Divorce
In this episode of the Oxendine Law Podcast, hosts Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer discuss the often-overlooked topic of credit scores during and after divorce. They emphasize the importance of understanding one's financial obligations, identifying debts, and protecting credit scores post-divorce.
The conversation covers practical steps for managing joint debts, ensuring proper documentation in settlement agreements, and addressing potential tax liabilities that may arise from jointly filed tax returns. The hosts offer valuable insights and tips for individuals navigating the financial complexities of divorce, emphasizing the importance of protecting one's financial identity.
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Should You Move Out During Divorce?
In this episode of the Oxendine Law Podcast, our hosts discuss the critical decision of whether to move out during a divorce. They explore the legal and emotional implications of leaving the marital home, especially concerning custody and financial stability.
The conversation emphasizes the importance of planning, documenting assets, and obtaining temporary court orders to protect one's rights and interests during the divorce process.
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Calm in the Chaos: Divorcing a Narcissist Without Losing Yourself
In this episode, the speakers discuss the challenges of divorcing a narcissist, provide insights into their manipulative behaviors, and offer strategies for navigating the legal and emotional landscape of such a divorce.
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The Golden Secret To Happy Later Years
In this episode of the Oxendine Law Podcast, Jarrod Oxendine and Christine Palmer discuss the rising trend of 'gray divorce'—divorce after the age of 50.
Explore the reasons behind this phenomenon, including changing social norms and the desire for personal happiness in later life.
The conversation also addresses concerns about family dynamics, retirement, and social security implications for those considering divorce later in life. The hosts encourage listeners to view this stage as an opportunity for a fresh start and to embrace their golden years with positivity.
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Reclaiming Your Identity After Divorce
In this episode of the Oxendine Law Podcast, Jarrod and Christine discuss reclaiming one's identity after divorce. They emphasize the significance of name changes, rediscovering independence, and owning one's story. The conversation provides practical advice for navigating life post-divorce, encouraging listeners to embrace their new identity and pursue personal growth.
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