Chasing Masculinity

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke sits down with Joseph Coco, author of The Tradesman, to explore the dignity of skilled labor, the connection between faith and work, and what Jesus’ humanity teaches us about living as Christian men. They discuss why the trades deserve greater respect, how craftsmanship can reflect service to God and others, and what young men can learn from pursuing competence and responsibility.

Tune in for a conversation about faith, vocation, spiritual transformation, and the responsibility men have to stand firm in a broken world.

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In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke sits down with Brett McCracken to discuss his new book, The Wisdom of Sleep. Together, they explore what sleep reveals about our limitations, God’s design, and the gospel, as well as why rest has become so difficult to value in a culture obsessed with productivity and optimization.

Tune in for a thoughtful conversation on sleep, Sabbath, grace, and developing a healthier relationship with rest without turning it into another performance metric.

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In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke sits down with Stephen McAlpine to discuss the ideas behind his book Futureproof and what it means for Christians to live faithfully in an increasingly post-Christian culture. Together, they explore the cultural shifts taking place in the West, how believers can remain grounded in biblical conviction without retreating from society, and why the church must prepare for a future that looks very different from the past.

Tune in for a thoughtful conversation on building resilient faith, raising the next generation with confidence, cultivating courage over comfort, and developing...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke sits down with Shawn Whitson, founder and CEO of ActsSocial, to discuss the growing influence of social media on our relationships, families, and communities. Together, they explore the problems created by today's digital platforms, why meaningful connection has become increasingly difficult, and how technology can be designed to encourage healthier habits rather than endless distraction and division.

Tune in for a practical conversation on building authentic community in the digital age, developing healthier technology habits, protecting families from toxic online culture, and using digital tools in ways that...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke sits down with pastor and author Sean DeMars to discuss his recent Gospel Coalition article, Should Struggling Christians Abstain from Communion? Together, they explore one of the most misunderstood and emotionally weighty questions in the Christian life: should believers who are battling sin, guilt, or spiritual weakness stay away from the Lord’s Table?

Tune in for a thoughtful and pastoral conversation on communion, repentance, guilt, and how churches can better present the Lord’s Table as a place of grace, truth, and unity for struggling Christians.

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In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke sits down with Walt Taylor to discuss his book, Forging a Legacy: A Christian Man's Guide to Faith, Fitness, and Brotherhood. Together, they explore what it truly means to leave a lasting legacy, why faith serves as the foundation for biblical manhood, and how physical discipline and authentic brotherhood help shape men of character, purpose, and conviction.

Tune in for a practical conversation on building a life that matters, cultivating consistent spiritual and physical disciplines, leading your family well, developing meaningful friendships with other men, and making daily...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke sits down with Dr. Michael Gurian to discuss the ideas behind Boys, A Rescue Plan and the challenges facing boys and young men in today’s culture. The conversation explores the current state of boys, the unique developmental needs of boys, and why understanding those differences is essential for parents, educators, and communities seeking to raise healthy, responsible men.

Tune in to hear a practical discussion on education and the importance of developmental gender differences that help boys grow into confident, grounded men.

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In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke sits down with author and biblical counselor Dr. Edward Welch to discuss his book, The Humility Project for Men: The Way to Strength, Honor, and Contentment. Together, they explore why humility is one of the most misunderstood virtues in modern culture, how pride quietly shapes our thinking and relationships, and why true humility is not weakness but a pathway to strength, freedom, and lasting contentment.

Tune in for a thoughtful conversation on biblical masculinity, the hidden influence of pride, cultivating humility before God and others, and practical habits...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke sits down with Jonathan Dodson to explore what gospel-centered discipleship truly means and why it is often misunderstood in modern Christianity. The conversation breaks down how discipleship has become shallow or overly programmatic, and why placing the gospel at the center changes how growth, discipline, and daily life are approached.

Tune in to hear a practical discussion on what it takes to build meaningful work from the ground up, the lessons learned from founding Gospel-Centered Discipleship.

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In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke sits down with Traver Boehm to explore the philosophy behind Man Uncivilized and what it means for men to reclaim ownership in a world built around comfort and distraction. The conversation dives into Traver’s personal transformation, the defining moment that led him to rebuild his life, and how that journey shaped his mission to challenge modern men to live with greater intention, discipline, and responsibility.

Tune in to hear a practical discussion on brotherhood, the role of challenge and physical experience in shaping men, and how to mo...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke sits down with Scott Sauls to explore what it means to become a doer in a world filled with overthinking, hesitation, and endless consumption. The conversation breaks down the gap between ideas and execution, why so many capable people stay stuck, and how clarity is often found through action rather than waiting for the perfect plan.

Tune in to hear a practical discussion on building momentum, overcoming resistance, and developing the habits and mindset required to consistently take action, along with insights into Scott’s work. 

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In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores the rise of home gyms and whether they are becoming the new standard for serious lifters. The episode breaks down the growing problems with modern commercial gyms, including overcrowding, rising costs, changing gym culture, time inefficiency, and the decline of smaller private training facilities, while examining why more people are choosing to build training spaces at home.

Tune in to hear a practical discussion on the advantages and downsides of home gyms, how to realistically start building one, what equipment actually matters, and how Colton’s current ho...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke sits down with Drew Dyck to discuss the ideas behind his book Just Show Up, exploring why meaningful friendship and consistent presence have become increasingly rare in modern life. The conversation examines the value of showing up for others, why men often struggle to build deep relationships, and how intentional community shapes both personal growth and spiritual maturity.

Tune in to hear a broader discussion on Drew’s journey into Christian writing, what it was like growing up in the church, and his perspective on common questions Christians wr...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke sits down with Dr. Anthony Bradley to explore the ideas behind his book Heroic Fraternities and the deeper issues surrounding how young men are formed today. The conversation breaks down the decline of institutions, the absence of strong brotherhood, and the critical role that mentorship and structure play in shaping disciplined, responsible men.

Tune in to hear a grounded and practical discussion on what it takes to build strong men in a culture that often fails to form them, and how intentional brotherhood, accountability, and structure can help...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke sits down with Dr. James Hall to explore the core ideas behind his new book Grown Boys: 7 Baby Steps to Manhood for a Fatherless Generation, breaking down the difference between males who grow older and men who truly mature. The conversation dives into the impact of fatherlessness, the cultural confusion around masculinity, and why responsibility is essential to becoming a man.

Tune in to hear a practical and direct discussion on what it actually takes to grow into manhood, including the foundational steps Dr. Hall outlines in his...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores why so many men experience gym burnout and how to build a sustainable approach to fitness that lasts for the long term. He breaks down the two most common forms of burnout, those who lose motivation early in their fitness journey and those who have trained for years but begin to feel defeated by plateaus, time commitments, or stalled progress.

Tune in to learn the real causes of gym burnout, how unrealistic expectations and overtraining derail progress, and how adopting a long-term mindset and sustainable training structure...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke sits down with author Brett McCracken to discuss how modern culture pulls people toward constant novelty, distraction, and shallow thinking. Drawing from ideas in his book The Wisdom Pyramid, Brett explains how the flood of information in the digital age can distort priorities and why pursuing deeper sources of wisdom is essential for living with clarity and purpose.

The conversation explores Brett’s personal journey as a writer, the challenges modern church goers face in navigating culture, and the habits that help cultivate discernment and maturity. Listeners will wa...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke examines the quiet assumption many professing Christians live by: since I believe in God, church is optional. Walking through key passages like Hebrews 10, Acts 2, and 1 Corinthians 12, the episode unpacks the biblical pattern of gathered worship and explains why Christianity was never designed to be private, isolated, or purely individual.

This episode challenges the lazy Christian to reconsider the idea that personal Bible reading replaces church. It offers a clear call to alignment, urging believers to see church not as a weekly add-on, but as an essential part of...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores how artificial intelligence can be used to support, not replace, masculine responsibility, focus, and clarity. Rather than framing AI as a miracle or a threat, the episode positions it as a tool that amplifies the character of the man using it, revealing discipline or exposing weakness depending on how it is applied.

The episode breaks down practical ways men can use AI for learning, planning, journaling, physical training, and work without surrendering judgment or responsibility. It also lays out clear boundaries and non-negotiable rules to avoid dependency...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores the fundamentals of how to properly taste whiskey, breaking down what whiskey is, the major types, and why so many men grow to appreciate it as they age. The episode walks through the role of aging, grain, and craftsmanship, while explaining how different styles like bourbon, rye, Scotch, Irish, and Japanese whiskey develop distinct characteristics without ranking one as superior to another.

Tune in to walk through the practical process of tasting whiskey with intention, including proper glassware, how to nose and sip, and how to describe...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores the idea behind “Make America Christian Again” and what it actually means to wear your faith on your chest. Rather than arguing for political power or forced belief, the episode examines how Judeo-Christian principles shaped Western civilization, from human dignity and objective truth to law, charity, and moral restraint, and why removing Christianity from culture does not create neutrality but leaves a dangerous vacuum.

The episode challenges lukewarm and passive faith, especially among men, and calls out the cost of silence in a culture that increasingly treats Chri...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores the question many engaged men wrestle with today: Should you pursue a traditional wedding or choose to elope? By first defining what marriage is biblically and covenantally, the episode separates the meaning of marriage from the modern wedding industry, exposing how cultural pressure, performance, and cost have distorted priorities around getting married.

The episode walks through what weddings have become, the financial and spiritual risks of starting a marriage in debt, and how elopement can re-center the covenant back where it belongs. It offers practical guidance for...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke reflects on his biggest personal takeaway from 2025: the discipline and clarity that came from implementing a weekly review. Rather than offering a broad year-end recap, this episode focuses on how a simple, consistent practice evolved from a basic to-do list into a powerful tool for self-evaluation, alignment, and intentional living. He shares how regular reflection reduced chaos, prevented drift, and helped ensure his daily actions stayed aligned with his faith, values, and long-term vision.

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In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores why so many men remain stuck in surface-level relationships and how these early patterns shape the tone of every connection that follows. He examines the Christian call to depth, the danger of staying shallow, and the ways small talk can quietly limit growth, witness, and masculine presence. 

This episode challenges men to consider how they are showing up in their relationships and what it means to reflect Christ through sincere, intentional engagement. Tune in to learn to lead relationally by creating spaces where authenticity, tr...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores why the health of a household so often follows the discipline of its man. He explains how fitness culture doesn’t start with group decisions but with the standard a man sets through his actions, his routine, and the environment he builds at home.

This episode breaks down how men can lead the fitness charge without pressure or nagging, simply by living the lifestyle first. Tune in to learn how physical stewardship begins with the head of the household, and how a man’s example naturally sets the...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke breaks down one of the most common and overlooked habits men struggle with: chewing their nails. 

Listeners will walk away with a simple, step-by-step plan to break the habit for good. This episode offers a realistic, actionable path for anyone ready to regain control of their attention and appearance in one of the smallest but most impactful ways.

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In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke breaks down one of the most overlooked fundamentals of masculine respect: voice and presence. Men often believe respect comes from achievement or status, but in reality, other men judge each other first by tone, posture, and composure. This episode explains why controlled presence matters and how tone and posture communicate strength long before words do.

Listeners will learn the practical essentials of carrying themselves with intention, speaking with a grounded tone, holding steady posture, and projecting calm authority. If respect is earned through presence, this episode shows exactly...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, Colton Wutzke explores digital discipline, not as a tech problem, but as an issue of attention and presence. Many men today are disconnected in their own homes, reaching for their phones the moment boredom hits. The result is fractured attention, weakened presence, and distance in relationships, especially with the people who matter most.

This episode lays out a clear and practical weekly structure to rebuild digital discipline, protect presence, and regain authority over your attention. Because discipline begins not in the big moments, but in the small seconds where your hand...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke confronts one of the most defining issues shaping young men today: fatherlessness. Not just the emotionally distant or passive father, but the literal absence of men in the home, leading to the collapse of stable families, commitment, and masculine leadership. 

This leads to a cultural vacuum that has led to the rise of digital father figures, the influencers and personalities who now shape male identity through algorithms rather than relationships. Tune in to learn how digital models can offer ideas, but they cannot correct character, build discipline, or t...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores why certain jobs are perceived as more masculine than others. Not to tell men which careers to pursue, but to examine the underlying traits that cause society to associate masculinity with particular forms of work. Some roles demand physical strength, some require courage and risk, others carry the heavy burden of provision or leadership. The job itself isn’t what makes a man masculine, it’s the responsibility and character required to perform it.

This episode breaks down how work reflects identity, how challenge shapes a man, and...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores why so many young men today are struggling, not only economically, but spiritually. From declining workforce participation and stagnant wages to a growing loss of purpose and faith, modern men are facing a quiet collapse that runs deeper than statistics.

Financial instability and spiritual drift feed each other, leaving men directionless, isolated, and unsure of their identity. Tune in to learn to rebuild both foundations through discipline, community, faith, and practical skill. 

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In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores one of the hardest disciplines a man can master, the art of saying no. In a world that glorifies busyness and constant availability, men have lost the ability to protect their time, energy, and purpose. This episode reframes boundaries as acts of leadership and stewardship, not selfishness.

Tune in to learn how to identify what truly matters, set clear non-negotiables, and say no with conviction. 

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In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores the lost art of dressing like a man and what it means to present yourself with intention instead of apathy. This isn’t about fashion trends or vanity, it’s about discipline, self-respect, and the standard a man sets for himself every time he walks out the door.

Tune in to learn how intentional dress reflects internal order and strength, why modern culture has blurred masculine presentation, and how to rebuild a wardrobe that aligns with confidence and conviction. The message is simple: dressing like a man isn’...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores the question: is owning a firearm a mark of masculinity, or is it simply a tool of responsibility? Drawing from history, culture, and Scripture, the conversation examines the role of protection in manhood, the practical case for gun ownership, and how firearms fit into the broader duty of stewardship and defense.

The episode challenges men to consider whether they view firearms as a shortcut to masculinity or as a serious responsibility, and how true strength is found not in the gun, but in the character of the...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores why progressive masculinity often collapses into performance without substance. He unpacks how virtue signaling, trend chasing, and hollow approval-seeking have replaced conviction and responsibility in modern men.

This conversation contrasts performative masculinity with true biblical manhood - one rooted in discipline, humility, and conviction. Listeners will be challenged to examine their own lives, identify areas of performance, and replace them with actions of real substance.

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In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores what Scripture says about the foundation of biblical manhood. This conversation unpacks how strength, courage, discipline, and love are not cultural constructs but commands from God.

The episode highlights how true masculinity is rooted in the Spirit, sharpened by brotherhood, and sustained by faith. Listeners are challenged to anchor their lives in Scripture, embrace responsibility with courage, and lead with strength covered in love.

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In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores the tension behind a pressing question: Does the moderate still exist, or has modern culture forced every man toward radicalization? From the collapse of nuanced conversation into “us vs. them” buckets to the way social media rewards outrage, Colton reflects on his own struggle to hold convictions without being swept into extremes. Through personal experience and scriptural reflection, he frames the question not as a call to choose a side, but as a challenge to wrestle honestly with what it means to lead as a Christian man in a pola...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores whether raising children on a single income is truly possible in today’s financial climate. He unpacks the realities of income, housing costs, and childcare, while examining cultural trends of delaying children and the regret many couples feel from waiting too long.

The conversation shifts from statistics to encouragement, showing that with sacrifice, intentional budgeting, and faith, single-income families can thrive. Listeners will learn how to reframe wealth, prioritize legacy over luxury, and take practical steps toward building a household grounded in provision, contentment, and long-term vision.

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores why confidence isn’t something men should chase, but something they must build. Culture tells men to wait until they “feel” confident or to project an image of strength, but real confidence is forged through consistent discipline, action, and faith.

Listeners will learn why chasing validation leads to fragility, how to build true confidence through small wins and daily discipline, and how Scripture and philosophy call men to strength rooted in preparation and trust in God. The challenge is simple: stop waiting to feel confident, start building it thr...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores why every man needs a “hard thing” - a demanding pursuit that stretches him mentally, physically, and spiritually. Modern life is built for comfort, but true growth only comes through resistance. Learn how challenge forges character, why avoiding discomfort leads to stagnation, and how taking on difficult work produces earned confidence and resilience.

This episode calls men to reject ease, embrace friction, and commit to at least one difficult pursuit - not just for themselves, but for those they lead and love.

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