Better Than Bitter™ Divorce Podcast
Is your divorce filling you with fear? Fear of the unknown, of financial stability, of loneliness, of how this will impact your children? Divorce can feel overwhelming and isolating, leaving you stuck in resentment. But what if you could take off the fighting gloves and commit to an amicable path forward? Welcome to Better Than Bitter™, the podcast that champions amicable divorce. Hosted by Divorce Success Coach Tania Leichliter—creator of the 5 Step Gameplan Course—this podcast empowers you to embrace an "I CAN" attitude for a brighter future. Through powerful interviews with adult children of amicable divorces, bonus parents findin...
Episode 4: Season 2: "The 20 Year Marriage Contract With An Option To Renew"
What If Marriage Came Up for Renewal?
What if marriage wasn't a lifetime contract, but a 20-year contract with the option to renew? In this solo episode, Tania Leichliter challenges the one measure we use to judge every marriage — how long it lasted — and offers a different question entirely: would you choose each other again? A conversation about change, renewal, and why a marriage can end and still have been a success.
In this episode:
Why length is a poor measure of a successful marriage — 50 miserable years gets called a win, 20 good years...Episode 3: Season 2: "Am I Going to Be Okay?" with Donna Kendrick. Taking Control of Your Finances After Loss or Divorce
Guest:Donna Kendrick
Donna Jean Kendrick discovered her husband Greg had passed away suddenly in 2013 and found herself navigating widowhood with three young children. After settling into their new normal she went back to school to become a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™ practitioner and made it her mission to support families in transition. She co-hosts the Widow, Wisdom and Wealth Podcast and is the author of the Life Stages Financial Guides series. Donna, along with her blended family of six kids, raise funds for causes such as Safe Harbor, a grief counseling program for children.
Website: Do...
Season 2: Episode 2 - Can I Or Should I Date Before the Ink Is Dry?
Are you considering dating before your divorce is finalized? This episode dives into essential legal, emotional, and parenting considerations to help you navigate this tricky territory responsibly and with clarity. Key Topics:The legal ramifications of dating during divorce, including asset dissipation, alimony, and custody implicationsThe importance of understanding your personal motivations ("the raw truth of your why") for wanting to start dating earlyPractical advice on how to date discreetly, avoid legal pitfalls, and protect your children’s emotional well-beingThe significance of knowing your state laws regarding adultery and how they may impact property and supportHow to approach new relationships wi...
Season 2: Episode 1 - Learn About New Format, Live Coaching, & Our Community
Discover the exciting new features of the second season of the Better Than Bitter podcast, including live coaching sessions, an active support community, and expert guidance for those navigating divorce.
Main topics:Launch of live coaching sessions on the podcastHow listeners can apply to be coached and share their storiesCreation of the Better Than Bitter Community for ongoing supportResources, virtual events, and expert Q&A sectionsEmphasis on hope, healing, and positive forward movement after divorceIn this episode:Introduction to live coaching opportunities and how to applyOverview of the new Better Than Bitter Community and its purposeDetails...
Episode 60: You May Be Divorcing a Narcissist — Here’s How to Tell
Episode 60: You May Be Divorcing a Narcissist, Here’s How to Tell
Guest: Jeff Wright
Jeff Wright is a performance coach, speaker, and someone I’m grateful to call a friend and mentor. He runs a global insurance firm and has built tremendous success professionally — but what really defines Jeff is his commitment to helping people change their lives. He’s the ultimate change-maker, and he genuinely does this work because it matters to him. His perspective on narcissism isn’t just professional — it’s personal. Jeff grew up with a father who struggled with...
Episode 59: Child-Centered Divorce: Part 2 - Throwing Away The WHY!
Episode 59: Child-Centered Divorce: Part 2 - How To Make Your Life NOT Suck During Divorce
(Child Centered Divorce Part 2: Throwing Away the WHY!)
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Summary
In this episode, Tania Leichliter discusses how to move beyond dwelling on the past in divorce by 'throwing away the why.' She offers practical strategies to release emotional...
Episode 58: Child Centered Divorce Part 1 -Be Bigger Than Yourself
Episode 58: Child Centered Divorce-Be Bigger Than Yourself
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Summary
In this conversation, Tania Leichliter discusses the concept of a child-centered divorce, emphasizing the importance of emotional regulation and personal responsibility. She introduces the Four Rs method (retract, regroup, re-script, respond) to help individuals navigate their emotions during divorce. The conversation highlights the...
Episode 57: High-Achieving Women Who Want to Break the Cycle of Struggling In Relationships
Episode 57: High-Achieving Women Who Want to Break the Cycle of Struggling In Relationships
Guest Info:
Johana Jimenez
Johana Jimenez, LPC, is a Dallas‑based therapist who helps high‑achieving adults and couples navigate anxiety, depression, identity shifts, and relationship struggles with compassion and evidence‑informed care. Using EMDR, somatic, and Gottman‑aligned approaches, she helps clients move from survival mode into emotional safety, authentic connection, and meaningful living.
Johana's Website
Guest's Social Media Profile:
Johana's Facebook page
@thephoenixineveryhumanbeing on Instagram
Johana on YouTube
Ke...
Episode 56: Gray Divorce: Am I Losing My Mind, Body, and Sanity?
Episode 56: Gray Divorce: Am I Losing My Mind, Body, and Sanity?
Our guest for this episode:
Paula Brown, MAIOP
Founder, Konenki Menopause Solutions
Paula Brown holds a Bachelor’s in Human Resources Management and a Master’s in Industrial and Organizational Psychology, blending nonprofit and corporate expertise. A learning and development leader, she excels in designing impactful training programs and fostering inclusivity through strong communication and facilitation skills. Resilient and committed to helping others overcome challenges, Paula drives organizational growth with a focus on continuous learning.
Paula is the creat...
Episode 55: The Co-Parenting Secret: It's Not About YOU!
Episode 55: The Co-Parenting Secret. It's Not About YOU!
Our guest for this episode:
Jon Bassford, JD, MBA, CAE
About our guest:
He has written a book called "The Co-Parenting Secret: It's not about you”. Jon is actually a consultant.
Link to book on Amazon: https://a.co/d/6gR0ucX
He heads up operations for startups and nonprofits, but he has written this book based on his own personal story. His friends, his family, and people were amazed by him and his wife and how well they were...
Episode 54: Tis' The Season To Rebuild Your Life with Purpose, Passion, & Intent
Episode 54: Tis' The Season To Rebuild Your Life with Purpose, Passion, & Intent
Keywords
divorce, amicable resolution, emotional resilience, purpose, passion, intentions, holidays, self-discovery, personal growth, coaching
Summary
In this episode of the Better Than Bitter Podcast, Tania Leichliter discusses the emotional complexities of navigating divorce, especially during the holiday season. She emphasizes the importance of rebuilding one's life with purpose, passion, and intention. Tania shares personal stories and insights on finding gratitude, setting intentions for the future, and rediscovering one's identity and passions post-divorce. The...
Episode 53: Love Wars: Clash of The Parents.
Episode 53: Love Wars: Clash of The Parents
Guest for this episode: Matthew Tower
Bio:
Matthew A. Tower is an author, art director, audiobook narrator, and entrepreneur. He first saw Star Wars in theaters at age three. Love Wars: Clash of The Parents, A True Divorce Story is his debut work of literature.
Previously, he was the founder and CEO of Versus Books, and published more than 50 gaming strategy guides for hits like The Legend of Zelda, selling over 5 million copies.
Book Link:
Love Wars: Clash of The...
Episode 52: Limited Beliefs. Are you Ruminating?
Episode 52: Limited Beliefs. Are you Ruminating?
Keywords
divorce, coaching, emotional healing, resilience, personal growth, limiting beliefs, gratitude, empowerment, relationships, self-discovery
Summary
In this episode of the Better Than Bitter Divorce Podcast, host Tania Leichliter discusses the journey of navigating divorce with a focus on empowerment, emotional healing, and personal growth. She emphasizes the importance of reclaiming one's power, challenging limiting beliefs, and adopting a perspective of gratitude. Through practical exercises and insights, listeners are encouraged to shift their narratives and embrace the opportunities that come with change, ultimately leading to a...
Episode 51: Divorce and Menopause. It's A Thing!
Episode 51: Divorce and Menopause. It's A Thing!
Summary
In this episode of the Better Than Bitter podcast, Tania Leichliter discusses the intersection of menopause and divorce, exploring how the physiological and emotional changes women experience during menopause can impact their relationships. She emphasizes the importance of self-care, support, and taking ownership of one's feelings during this challenging time. Tania encourages listeners to embrace new beginnings and to seek community support as they navigate these life transitions.
Takeaways
Menopause significantly impacts relationships, especially during divorce.Emotional changes during menopause can lead to feelings...Episode 50: I am Divorcing A Narcissist- Communication Techniques To Save Your Money and Sanity
Episode 50: I am Divorcing A Narcissist- Communication Techniques To Save Your Money and Sanity
Keywords
amicable divorce, narcissism, divorce coaching, BIFF method, communication strategies, boundary setting, emotional health, co-parenting, divorce support, conflict resolution
Summary
In this episode of the Better Than Bitter podcast, Tania Leichliter discusses the complexities of navigating divorce, particularly when dealing with narcissistic behaviors. She introduces the BIFF method as a communication strategy to manage high-conflict situations effectively. The episode emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and maintaining emotional health during the divorce process, providing...
Episode 49: Dating 101 - Are You Emotionally Ready?
Episode 49: Dating 101 - Are You Emotionally Ready?
Summary
In this episode of the Better Than Bitter Divorce Podcast, host Tania Leichliter discusses the concept of emotional readiness for dating after divorce. She emphasizes that emotional readiness is not merely about feeling lonely or wanting companionship, but rather involves self-reflection, understanding one's motivations, and being grounded in one's identity. Tania outlines common traps that individuals may fall into when dating post-divorce and provides insights on how to approach dating with intention and awareness. The episode encourages listeners to focus on their emotional state and readiness rather...
Episode 48: Tania Leichliter's Untold Story Behind Better Than Bitter Helping Individuals Towards More Amicable Divorce Resolutions
Episode 48: Tania Leichliter's Untold Story Behind Better Than Bitter: Helping Individuals Towards More Amicable Divorce Resolutions
Summary
In this conversation, Tania Leichliter shares her journey from being a business owner to becoming a life coach, specifically focusing on divorce coaching. She discusses the importance of changing the narrative around divorce, emphasizing the potential for amicable resolutions and the emotional well-being of those involved. Tania introduces her initiative, Better Than Bitter, aimed at empowering individuals going through divorce and reducing the stigma associated with it. She highlights the skills and techniques that can...
Episode 47: The Other Woman
Episode 47: The Other Woman
Summary
In this episode of the Better Than Bitter podcast, host Tania Leichliter discusses the journey towards an amicable divorce, emphasizing the importance of letting go of bitterness and resentment. She shares personal stories and insights on how to embrace new relationships, create a comfortable environment for children, and maintain family connections post-divorce. Tania encourages listeners to focus on acceptance and the positive impact of fostering good relationships for the sake of their children.
Takeaways
Divorce can be navigated amicably with the right mindset.Holding...Episode 46: Living Under The Same Roof! Transition Planning
EPISODE 46: LIVING UNDER THE SAME ROOF! TRANSITION PLANNING.
Summary
This conversation delves into effective communication strategies during challenging discussions, particularly in the context of divorce and parenting transitions. It emphasizes the importance of clarity, active listening, and understanding the emotional dynamics at play. The discussion also covers practical approaches to parenting during transitions and the significance of being well-prepared for mediation sessions to ensure a productive outcome.
Takeaways
Understanding communication barriers is crucial in conflict resolution.Active listening can prevent misunderstandings and promote clarity.Transition planning is essential for effective co-parenting.Creating...Episode 45: Bring It On!
Episode 45: Bring It On!
Summary
In this episode of the Better Than Bitter podcast, Tania Leichliter shares her personal journey through divorce and life transitions, emphasizing the importance of adopting a victor mindset rather than a victim mentality. She discusses the challenges faced during her divorce, including job changes and personal growth, and encourages listeners to embrace solutions, let go of resentment, and believe in a brighter future. Tania's message is one of empowerment, resilience, and the belief that amicable resolutions are possible even in difficult circumstances.
...
Episode 44: Considering Nesting? Success Stories Revealed
Episode 44: Considering Nesting? Success Stories Revealed
Summary
In this episode of the Better Than Bitter Podcast, host Tania Leichliter discusses the concept of amicable divorce with a guest who shares her personal experience with nesting. The conversation explores the benefits of nesting for children, financial considerations, establishing boundaries, and the importance of positive co-parenting dynamics. Tania emphasizes the need for flexibility, support, and open communication between co-parents to ensure a healthy environment for their children during and after the divorce process.
Takeaways
Nesting can provide a stable environment for...Episode 44: Should I Nest?
Episode 44: Should I Nest?
Guest: Anonymous
Keywords
divorce, nesting, co-parenting, amicable separation, family dynamics, financial planning, boundaries, parenting tips, divorce coaching, support
Summary
In this episode of the Better Than Bitter Podcast, Tania Leichliter discusses the concept of nesting during divorce with her friend Meredith. They explore the benefits of nesting for children, the financial implications, the importance of establishing boundaries, and the dynamics of co-parenting. Meredith shares her personal experience of successfully navigating nesting for a year, emphasizing the need for flexibility, support, and open communication between co-parents...
Episode 43: What If Your EX Continues To Want To Change Custody Schedule?
Episode 43: What If Your EX Continues To Want To Change Custody Schedule?
Summary
This conversation focuses on navigating the complexities of divorce with compassion and effective communication. Tania Leichliter emphasizes the importance of flexibility in co-parenting and setting clear rules of engagement to foster amicable relationships between ex-spouses. The discussion provides practical strategies for managing emotional responses and ensuring that the needs of children are prioritized throughout the divorce process.
Takeaways
Divorce can be navigated without conflict.Effective communication is crucial during divorce.Flexibility is key in co-parenting arrangements.Check your emotional...Episode 42: How To Communicate To Get What You Want In Divorce
Episode 42: How To Communicate To Get What You Want In Divorce
Summary
In this episode of the Better Than Bitter Divorce Podcast, host Tania Leichliter discusses the essential communication strategies for achieving an amicable divorce. She emphasizes the importance of vulnerability, compassion, mindfulness, and assertiveness in navigating the emotional challenges of divorce and co-parenting. Tania provides practical techniques for effective negotiation and conflict resolution, encouraging listeners to focus on solutions rather than problems. The episode also includes role-playing scenarios to help listeners practice these communication skills in real-life situations.
Takeaways
You can't...Episode 41: Dating Part 3: Don't Date For the Wrong Reasons During or Post Divorce! Intentional Dating 101
Episode 41: Dating Part 3: Don't Date For the Wrong Reasons During or Post Divorce! Intentional Dating 101
Our Guest for This Episode:
Susan Trotter
Susan Trotter, Ph.D. is a Relationship Coach who is passionate about helping people to feel confident and empowered in their lives. She has expertise in dating, relationships and divorce, with a special interest in the areas of mindset and communication.
Connect with the guest:
Susan's Website
Susan's Facebook page
@susantrotterphd on Instagram
Summary
In this...
Episode 40: Dating Part 2: Are You Dating Because You're Lonely or Because You're Really Ready For Something?
Episode 40: Dating Part 2: Are You Dating Because You're Lonely or Because You're Really Ready For Something?
Summary
In this conversation, Tania Leichliter discusses the complexities of dating and relationships after divorce. She emphasizes the importance of self-love, independence, and rebuilding one's authentic self before entering new relationships. Tania also highlights the significance of having a support system and resources available for those navigating dating during or after divorce.
Takeaways
The importance of self-reliance after a marriage.Rebuilding your authentic self is crucial for future relationships.Passion for oneself is...Episode 39: Dating Part 1: Am I Ready
Episode 39: Dating Part 1 Am I Ready
Summary
In this conversation, Tania Leichliter discusses the importance of self-love and emotional readiness in the context of dating, especially after divorce. She emphasizes the need to understand one's intentions behind dating, the significance of healing from past trauma, and the role of validation in relationships. Tania also highlights the importance of authenticity in online dating and encourages self-reflection through journaling prompts. Ultimately, she advocates for finding fulfillment in various aspects of life rather than relying solely on romantic relationships.
Takeaways
Episode 38 : To Start Dating or Focus on Healing
Episode 38: To Start Dating or Focus on Healing
Our Guest for This Episode:
Robyn Vogel
Recognized as one of the top teachers of the Heart in her community, Robyn Vogel, founder of Come Back To Love® is known for providing trauma-informed, heart-centered solutions that are designed to ignite a sense of love, expand the spirit, and heal the past. In a time of fleeting social media interactions, one-hour coffee dates, and a world that looks like it’s falling apart, Robyn offers hope, genuine human connection, and inner transformation. Participants are enveloped in a w...
Episode 37: Be Solutions Oriented. Stop Ruminating Over The Problem
Episode 37: Be Solutions Oriented. Stop Ruminating Over The Problem
Summary
In this episode of the Better Than Bitter Podcast, Tania Leichliter discusses the importance of being solutions-oriented during the divorce process. She emphasizes the need to focus on solutions rather than problems, particularly when navigating physical separation, emotional challenges, and financial uncertainties. Tania shares practical strategies for creating a healthy co-parenting schedule and highlights the value of support systems and resources available for individuals going through divorce. The episode encourages listeners to take charge of their emotions and invest in their independence...
Episode 36: Should You Sell or Should You Stay? The Divorce Dilemma Around Selling of the Family Home.
Episode 36: Should You Sell or Should You Stay? The Divorce Dilemma Around Selling of the Family Home.
Our guest for this episode:
Amy Plate, a Real Estate Expert
Summary
In this episode of the Better Than Bitter podcast, host Tania Leichliter discusses the emotional and financial complexities of selling the family home during a divorce. Joined by real estate expert Amy Plante, they explore the importance of professional guidance, the emotional weight of decisions surrounding the family home, and the necessity of financial planning to ensure a secure future post-divorce. The...
Episode 35: Divorcing Dads Struggles: Fatherhood, Dating, & New Responsibilities
Episode 35: Divorcing Dads Struggles: Fatherhood, Dating, & New Responsibilities
Our Guest:
Matteo Bavaro
Matteo Bavaro is a life coach, author, and founder of Divorce Dads Help, a coaching platform dedicated to helping fathers rediscover their best selves after divorce. With nearly 30 years of experience as a private investigator and now serving as Director of Client Engagement at Schultz & Associates — a law firm focused on men’s and fathers’ rights — Matteo brings professional and personal insight into the journey of fatherhood after divorce. Having gone through two divorces himself, he now empowers men to reconnect with the...
Episode 34: Financial Healing In Divorce & Beyond - Change IS Coming
Episode 34: Financial Healing In Divorce & Beyond - Change IS Coming
Our Guest for this episode:
Tom Shepard
Tom Shepard, Author of “Money isn’t Everything – Everything is Money” and a Certified Financial Planner and Investment Advisor, has been helping people understand their relationship with money for 30 years. Using a personal assessment tool called Find Your Financial NatureTM Tom will help you discover your genetic predisposition to money! This is the language your mind and body go to when thinking about trading Time, Energy, and Money to create the Relationship with life you dream of. You...
Episode 33: Do I Stay Or Do I Go? Contemplating Divorce
Episode 33: Do I Stay Or Do I Go? Contemplating Divorce
Our Guest for this Episode:
Carrie Mead
Carrie Mead, MS, LCPC, is a licensed mental health therapist in the states of Maryland and South Carolina. Carrie has a particular interest in working with families going through the divorce process, and she recognizes that the process is long, confusing, exhausting, and overwhelming. For the past 4 years, Carrie has been running psychotherapy groups for women contemplating divorce and for women in divorce recovery. The divorce contemplation groups have allowed many women to come together to...
Episode 32: Does Money = Happiness
Episode 32: Does Money = Happiness
Our Guest For This Episode:
Tom Shepard
Tom Shepard, Author of “Money isn’t Everything – Everything is Money” and a Certified Financial Planner and Investment Advisor, has been helping people understand their relationship with money for 30 years. Using a personal assessment tool called Find Your Financial NatureTM Tom will help you discover your genetic predisposition to money! This is the language your mind and body go to when thinking about trading Time, Energy, and Money to create the Relationship with life you dream of. You can take the assessment at https...
Episode 31: What's Your Financial Identity? Finding Your Financial Self
Episode 31: What's Your Financial Identity? Finding Your Financial Self
Our Guest for this Episode:
Tom Shepard
Tom Shepard, Author of “Money isn’t Everything – Everything is Money” and a Certified Financial Planner and Investment Advisor, has been helping people understand their relationship with money for 30 years. Using a personal assessment tool called Find Your Financial NatureTM Tom will help you discover your genetic predisposition to money! This is the language your mind and body go to when thinking about trading Time, Energy, and Money to create the Relationship with life you dream of. You can...
Episode 30: Financial Fear? Get Prepped & Prepared For Your Financial Divorce
Episode 30: Financial Fear? Get Prepped & Prepared For Your Financial Divorce
Our Guest For This Episode:
Michael Conticelli
Michael Conticelli, CFS, CDFA®, is a seasoned Certified Divorce Financial Analyst with over 20 years of experience helping individuals navigate the financial complexities of divorce. With a background as a financial planner and former divorce mediator, Michael brings clarity, strategy, and compassion to his work—empowering clients to make informed decisions about their financial future. He specializes in property division, tax implications, and long-term planning, offering a collaborative, solution-focused approach for equitable outcomes.
Visit Michael Con...
Episode 29: The Apology That Never Came: Finding Closure Without It
Episode 29: The Apology That Never Came: Finding Closure Without It
Our Guest for this Episode:
Gary McClain
Dr. Gary McClain is a psychotherapist with a practice in New York City. The focus of his practice is adults in transition – romantic and family relationships, health and caregiving, work and career, and loss and grief. Effective interpersonal communication, difficult conversations, and closure are topics that he frequently explores with his clients.
Visit Dr. Gary McClain's FB Page
Gary's Facebook page
Visit Dr. Gary McClain's Website
Gary's Website
...Episode 28: Earning Capacity! I Have Been A Stay At Home Parent, How Am I Going To Support Myself?
Episode 28: Earning Capacity! I Have Been A Stay At Home Parent, How Am I Going To Support Myself?
Our Guest:
John May
John May has worked as a vocational rehabilitation counselor since 1993. He has a Master’s degree program in Rehabilitation Counseling. As a Fellow of the American Board of Vocational Experts, John May has worked as a vocational expert since 2005. He has testified as a forensic vocational expert in litigation and hearings in several states.
Visit John May's Website
John's Website
Episode 27: Help! My Co-Parent Is So Combative! I’m Desperate to Not Have A Judge Decide What We Do With Our Kids!
Episode 27: Help! My Co-Parent Is So Combative! I’m Desperate to Not Have A Judge Decide What We Do With Our Kids!
Our Guest for Today's Episode:
Michael Sallustio
Michael Sallustio is a former attorney and entrepreneur. After practicing law for five years, he pursued his passion for health and nutrition and owned and operated several related businesses. After going through his own divorce and custody battle, he was called to pursue the practice of mediation, specializing in child access cases. In addition to volunteering in the District Court ADR program, he is on...
Episode 26 : Different Types of Divorce: Choosing the Best Path for a Peaceful Resolution
Episode 26: Different Types of Divorce: Choosing the Best Path for a Peaceful Resolution
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Summary
In this episode of...
